OMG ur totally right. There is this girl that i really liked but she played hard to get on the phone. I texted her and she never replied me. The only reply i got was one time "dont ever text me again u creep", iknew it right there she is try hard to get with me. She played hard to get when i saw her, like she would totally ignore me i knew right there and was excited. Even after 10 years i think she is playing hard to get with that husband of her's and their 3 children. I really like the chase.
I hate playing mind games becuase I am natural and confident woman but then when I noticed he was playing mind games to me I will outomatically mirror him......
I get something very similar to sign 4. She was snapping me a bit yesterday cute selfies with a guy friend in most of them, and then today, I got nothing.
I never ask a guy to hang out even after some time, in general, yes I do all those things all the time, i have to admit. The reason is that I just want to see that he really wants me and not just any woman.
This was a very clear and great video from this guy! Their was a slightly older lady than me who was gorgeous on the subway who has checked me out on several occasions by looking at me, smiling, and even waited for me to get off the subway. Problem was that stupid me is shy & this lady took my breath away & couldn’t gather courage to say anything. She threw several opportunities at me to approach her and now I haven’t seen her in a month. Trust me I’ve been glancing around but not to obvious. Any tips on this?
William blake says it best. Never seek to tell thy love, Love that never told can be; For the gentle wind doth move Silently, invisibly. I told my love, I told my love, I told her all my heart, Trembling, cold, in ghastly fears. Ah! she did depart! Soon after she was gone from me, A traveller came by, Silently, invisibly: He took her with a sigh. -William Blake
Hey there, That might be a challenge to understand the actions of your ex. But if we are in your shoes, I will just take things in a grain of salt instead of overanalyzing her actions. At the end of the day, it's only hers who holds the truth why she didn't looked at you after a week. All the best.
Start Game Don’t listen to Clay Andrews. He’s a muppet 😝 The reason why her mood changed, is because you didn’t make a move while she felt attracted to you. And so she assumed you weren’t interested, and she felt disappointed. You can bounce back anytime you like, just approach her, interact in a confident way, pass her initial confidence tests and move things forward with the woman. In the meanwhile, I wouldn’t watch anymore Clay Andrews videos, they’re not correct at all
The only games I like are the ones where the rules are clearly defined, like monopoly, or halo. Playing games might work for a little while, but after a bit, she's just going to come off as irresponsible, unreliable, and dishonest. The fragile trust that should be there will be worn away. Ladies cut the shit and say "no". A simple no will tell you everything you need to know about a guy. They'll either be adult about it, or a child about it.
i only play hard when i really like the guy. if that is just a random guy, i wont put any effort to play this mind game and in the end, the guy will normally feel too good about himself and believe that im so into him... omg...
I have this woman in mind that really likes me a lot from the crushing signs 1 I told shes beautful and her eyes dilated and she leaned over counter at job to me and the she couldnt talk with out sounding messed up then I try to ask her out she says I cant I have a 7 yr relationship 2nd time I tell shes gourgus then she blushes face red another time we talk as shes doing garbage at her job then I tell she has really beautful eyes then she was talking like snow white with a higher pitched voice and couldnt look at me and she walked away with a very cute laugh now she sees with a big and pink in her face and she loves when I call her princess and she let me hug her she has smiled with a jaw drop and red face from blushing after I call her beautful or gourgus she loves when I talk to her the get to know and looks very happy when I'm around she does admit a connection between me and her
This is what I am noticing about a woman playing hard to get, correct me if I'm wrong but first sign for me is the texting, when I text her, she'll probably take a while to respond but she responds, if I don't text her she won't text me is that correct?
Been talking to this girl pretty much since the first week she got hired at my job place a few months ago. We kicked it off nearly immediately after we met, being the nice and friendly person she is. But after talking to her more and more I've realized that she's not the easy type that most would think she is based on her warm personality. I've tried giving off signs that I'm interested but it's like she's not rejecting me but she's not exactly inviting either. We flirt quite often and joke around nearly every time we see each other at work and after watching this video, I'm convinced that she's definitely playing hard-to-get with me. All the signs you listed I've seen from her except the 2nd one since she can't exactly "look her best" at work. Anyways, I'm pretty sure *she knows* I like her at this point. My problem is that I don't know how to get closer to her and do things with her out of work because of this confusing game that she likes to play. I want her because she seems like she'll be really loyal and a keeper, but I just don't know how to get her.
Hello again Clay, I liked this video because I have a feeling that this girl I told you about on another video doesn't want to talk to me, sometimes when I say "good morning" to her she gives that "get lost" look, it might just me but that's what I think, does she really hates me that much or is she just playing that famous Mastermind board game with me? Have a great day.
Hey kazuyamishima1990 . Maybe you can send us an email at hello@modernlove,life . In that way our team will be able to guide you on your questions. :-)
Ive had sex more then 15 times with a married female colleague. We had a fking good click. she gorgeous too. My contract expired, we had contact pretty often trough phone. SHe asked me to go to a hotel for sex. But during corona i didnt want to have that, she said her familiy had corona and it was the beginning of corona soo... (I think she saw that as a rejection and was mad about it secretly) 6 MOnths now, im back again. But she acts like hot n cold, get flirty, staring at me oftenly, touch me sometimes.We last kissed again after a year, felt good but she withold sex. I think she tessting my value. Ive askes her like three times to drink something outside but she rejected cold, thats a lot of pain feeling. SHe gives other collegue more attention then me. Its frustrating and NO FUN!!' Not sure if she is playing hard to get or strining me along. But I will try to act cool and play her game when im at work. She texts me pretty often, then using open sentences and at the beginning she acted colder then now and giving short responses.
So after a really awesome first date, I sent her a text next day afternoon saying it was nice and we should do it again whenever we both are free. She hasn't replied and it's been four days. Not interested or playing hard to get?
I would never play hard-to-get intentionally, but just the way I am as a shy, socially-impaired person, a guy may easily think I was. :'D Which is not good for me, as the guy I like right now is really into honesty and straightforwardness. I am too, but I'm often too shy to say anything and I really don't want him to get the wrong idea... or the opposite one as it may be, that I DON'T want to be around him. When really I want to be around him as much as I can. Being majorly shy and a terrible socializer are things that definitely are not working in my favor.
she shows every sign you just told us about .. she provoked me by telling me that her parents have chosen a guy for her. i begged for a chance.. *she blocked me again* P.S - she reached out after 15 days of active no contact i got into
HI Jeremias, I think that type of approach is coming from a place of psychological manipulation. Why put the persons interest to a test instead of focusing on building a better and positive connection?
spot on this girl i like played 2 hard to get signs you mentioned today.. 1 was im going out of sheffield for uni placement for 1 week all on my own . and to she said im going out to my mates house to chill and i can do what i like now im 18 lol.. what do u guys reckin does she like me and trying to get me jealous honest comments would be appreciated
Hi S, It could be a challenge to decipher what your girl has in mind. Remember that we can only control our own emotions and your girl holds the truth on his own words and actions. it's hard to tell if she likes you or not as that will come from a place of assumption and not the truth on what she really feels. Sometimes it is best to know what she really feels if you both show positive vulnerabilities about what you feel. Cheers. :-)
Hung out about 10 times the last couple of months. Great connection, had sex on multiple occasions. Barely responds and I cant tell how she feels about me whats so ever.... Hard to get or not interested?
We have to show them empathy and understanding. People are putting their guard up for some reason. It's a matter of uncovering those through proper communication. :-)
@@ClayAndrews NOT EX someone I like what should I do as she only shows my signs when I am with her but blunt on text and never texts me. I dont know if she's playing hard to get or not?
I think more direct Women Are attractive . confidence is sexy , not Games lol
dave lightSaber exactly. Playing games kinda shows arrogance
dave lightSaber exactly especially when they ask you out, to me shows a lot of character
OMG ur totally right. There is this girl that i really liked but she played hard to get on the phone. I texted her and she never replied me. The only reply i got was one time "dont ever text me again u creep", iknew it right there she is try hard to get with me. She played hard to get when i saw her, like she would totally ignore me i knew right there and was excited.
Even after 10 years i think she is playing hard to get with that husband of her's and their 3 children. I really like the chase.
Bro hahaha you have chased too long 😂
plum 💀💀💀
Move on
hahahahahahahahah nice.
LOLLL
What the crazy thing is, is that the girl I'm talking to even admits that she plays hard to get
I hate playing mind games becuase I am natural and confident woman but then when I noticed he was playing mind games to me I will outomatically mirror him......
Ima let’s her play hard to get with her damn self, u ain finna waste my time
I get something very similar to sign 4. She was snapping me a bit yesterday cute selfies with a guy friend in most of them, and then today, I got nothing.
I never ask a guy to hang out even after some time, in general, yes I do all those things all the time, i have to admit. The reason is that I just want to see that he really wants me and not just any woman.
@Madi J, that's totally fine. It's great to hear that you are standing up on your personal values. :-)
Frick you
This was a very clear and great video from this guy!
Their was a slightly older lady than me who was gorgeous on the subway who has checked me out on several occasions by looking at me, smiling, and even waited for me to get off the subway. Problem was that stupid me is shy & this lady took my breath away & couldn’t gather courage to say anything. She threw several opportunities at me to approach her and now I haven’t seen her in a month. Trust me I’ve been glancing around but not to obvious. Any tips on this?
William blake says it best.
Never seek to tell thy love,
Love that never told can be;
For the gentle wind doth move
Silently, invisibly.
I told my love, I told my love,
I told her all my heart,
Trembling, cold, in ghastly fears.
Ah! she did depart!
Soon after she was gone from me,
A traveller came by,
Silently, invisibly:
He took her with a sigh.
-William Blake
This video is a real fishermen's advice
She looks at me and smile in 1 week the other week she dont even look at me at all wth is happening
Hey there, That might be a challenge to understand the actions of your ex. But if we are in your shoes, I will just take things in a grain of salt instead of overanalyzing her actions. At the end of the day, it's only hers who holds the truth why she didn't looked at you after a week. All the best.
Start Game Don’t listen to Clay Andrews. He’s a muppet 😝
The reason why her mood changed, is because you didn’t make a move while she felt attracted to you. And so she assumed you weren’t interested, and she felt disappointed.
You can bounce back anytime you like, just approach her, interact in a confident way, pass her initial confidence tests and move things forward with the woman.
In the meanwhile, I wouldn’t watch anymore Clay Andrews videos, they’re not correct at all
'Playing', the operative word. Mindgames. Leave that narcissist to her cat collection.
The only games I like are the ones where the rules are clearly defined, like monopoly, or halo. Playing games might work for a little while, but after a bit, she's just going to come off as irresponsible, unreliable, and dishonest. The fragile trust that should be there will be worn away. Ladies cut the shit and say "no". A simple no will tell you everything you need to know about a guy. They'll either be adult about it, or a child about it.
so you never really knows if she is playing hard to get or just put you in friend zone.
Its all about how you respond to these things. Best response is no response in most cases...by that ,i mean not to get upset and react
how long might a girl be in that "cold" stage when she goes from hot to cold?
She has hai BPD problem
Who am i kidding... She's also changing school! Just so i know that i'm gonna miss her so much :(
I wouldn’t call it “hard to get” I see it as “being strung along” don’t be fooled lads
We have to be aware if the person is trying to be "hard to get" or just trying to "string us along". Awareness is the key.
Clay Andrews both the same thing in my personal opinion
i only play hard when i really like the guy. if that is just a random guy, i wont put any effort to play this mind game and in the end, the guy will normally feel too good about himself and believe that im so into him... omg...
Siyuan Hu your evil but I like that 😈
You’re a fucking narcissistic bitch do you know that?!
Naomi Castillo lol u ugly I’ll listen to someone pretty
I have this woman in mind that really likes me a lot from the crushing signs 1 I told shes beautful and her eyes dilated and she leaned over counter at job to me and the she couldnt talk with out sounding messed up then I try to ask her out she says I cant I have a 7 yr relationship 2nd time I tell shes gourgus then she blushes face red another time we talk as shes doing garbage at her job then I tell she has really beautful eyes then she was talking like snow white with a higher pitched voice and couldnt look at me and she walked away with a very cute laugh now she sees with a big and pink in her face and she loves when I call her princess and she let me hug her she has smiled with a jaw drop and red face from blushing after I call her beautful or gourgus she loves when I talk to her the get to know and looks very happy when I'm around she does admit a connection between me and her
This is what I am noticing about a woman playing hard to get, correct me if I'm wrong but first sign for me is the texting, when I text her, she'll probably take a while to respond but she responds, if I don't text her she won't text me is that correct?
No bri
Why do women play hard to get? I HATE THIS
Been talking to this girl pretty much since the first week she got hired at my job place a few months ago. We kicked it off nearly immediately after we met, being the nice and friendly person she is. But after talking to her more and more I've realized that she's not the easy type that most would think she is based on her warm personality. I've tried giving off signs that I'm interested but it's like she's not rejecting me but she's not exactly inviting either. We flirt quite often and joke around nearly every time we see each other at work and after watching this video, I'm convinced that she's definitely playing hard-to-get with me. All the signs you listed I've seen from her except the 2nd one since she can't exactly "look her best" at work. Anyways, I'm pretty sure *she knows* I like her at this point. My problem is that I don't know how to get closer to her and do things with her out of work because of this confusing game that she likes to play. I want her because she seems like she'll be really loyal and a keeper, but I just don't know how to get her.
Hello again Clay, I liked this video because I have a feeling that this girl I told you about on another video doesn't want to talk to me, sometimes when I say "good morning" to her she gives that "get lost" look, it might just me but that's what I think, does she really hates me that much or is she just playing that famous Mastermind board game with me? Have a great day.
Hey kazuyamishima1990 . Maybe you can send us an email at hello@modernlove,life . In that way our team will be able to guide you on your questions. :-)
Thank you Clay, I will do that, have a great day.
In my case, she has no right to play this game. She is married! 🤨
Ive had sex more then 15 times with a married female colleague. We had a fking good click. she gorgeous too.
My contract expired, we had contact pretty often trough phone. SHe asked me to go to a hotel for sex. But during corona
i didnt want to have that, she said her familiy had corona and it was the beginning of corona soo... (I think she saw that as a rejection and was mad about it secretly)
6 MOnths now, im back again. But she acts like hot n cold, get flirty, staring at me oftenly, touch me sometimes.We last kissed again after a year, felt good but she withold sex. I think she tessting my value. Ive askes her like three times to drink something outside but she rejected cold, thats a lot of pain feeling. SHe gives other collegue more attention then me. Its frustrating and NO FUN!!'
Not sure if she is playing hard to get or strining me along. But I will try to act cool and play her game when im at work. She texts me pretty often, then using open sentences and at the beginning she acted colder then now and giving short responses.
just found the cheat codes to "Playing hard to get" just like i assumed from a girl i just met
So after a really awesome first date, I sent her a text next day afternoon saying it was nice and we should do it again whenever we both are free. She hasn't replied and it's been four days. Not interested or playing hard to get?
Muneeb Mashadi sorry to tell you she is not intrested... Don't text her again
Should have waited 5-7 days before texting again. You killed challenge
Muneeb Mashadi
You showed signs of thirstyness and possibly appeared weak in her eyes. MOVE ON.
Should of waited 3-5 business days
Muneeb Mashadi definitely not interested
1: she grabs a gun when you lunge at her with the knife...
I would never play hard-to-get intentionally, but just the way I am as a shy, socially-impaired person, a guy may easily think I was. :'D Which is not good for me, as the guy I like right now is really into honesty and straightforwardness. I am too, but I'm often too shy to say anything and I really don't want him to get the wrong idea... or the opposite one as it may be, that I DON'T want to be around him. When really I want to be around him as much as I can. Being majorly shy and a terrible socializer are things that definitely are not working in my favor.
Its ok as the way you convey yourself as a amazing person. You should text more to people instead :P
I'm planning on texting him at some point. The timing never seems to be right though...
Dont over think it lol. Just send a text here and there. No worries. No stress.
she shows every sign you just told us about .. she provoked me by telling me that her parents have chosen a guy for her. i begged for a chance..
*she blocked me again*
P.S - she reached out after 15 days of active no contact i got into
Never beg, be a man
People often Tell me that I should put her interest for me to the test by not texting her for a day or two to see if she texts me back?????
HI Jeremias, I think that type of approach is coming from a place of psychological manipulation. Why put the persons interest to a test instead of focusing on building a better and positive connection?
Great video.
Thank you. Ur advice is perfectly correct
Y can't this be a video on she's not stringing you along?
this is helping me cope
Glad to hear that our video had helped you cope during your tough times.
i think a few times she has been (correct me if i'm wrong) do some woman use their "ex husband" or ex boyfriend 4 hard to get?
she has shown she likes me and she has been biting her lip when talking2 me
3 & 4 i blev true 5 she ask me to help her at home then change mind
spot on this girl i like played 2 hard to get signs you mentioned today.. 1 was im going out of sheffield for uni placement for 1 week all on my own . and to she said im going out to my mates house to chill and i can do what i like now im 18 lol.. what do u guys reckin does she like me and trying to get me jealous honest comments would be appreciated
Hi S, It could be a challenge to decipher what your girl has in mind. Remember that we can only control our own emotions and your girl holds the truth on his own words and actions. it's hard to tell if she likes you or not as that will come from a place of assumption and not the truth on what she really feels. Sometimes it is best to know what she really feels if you both show positive vulnerabilities about what you feel. Cheers. :-)
Hung out about 10 times the last couple of months. Great connection, had sex on multiple occasions.
Barely responds and I cant tell how she feels about me whats so ever....
Hard to get or not interested?
Im afraid shes done with u
So how do we counter a hard to get woman?
We have to show them empathy and understanding. People are putting their guard up for some reason. It's a matter of uncovering those through proper communication. :-)
Clay Andrews wtf kinda beta male bs is this?🥴
What about she dnt want to have a drink with me she said she ofraid thing going down after
Hi pluggods zoe, Maybe there's a reason for that fear why she doesn't want to have a drink. Try a different approach that doesn't include alcohol.
@@ClayAndrews she offer first that time i had a girlfriend she was all in but now im single she playing game with me
Or she is just not that into you. Take a hint
Is it good if she is hot and cold clay?
It may have its pros and cons. But we have to understand that your ex might be emotionally confused as well.
@@ClayAndrews NOT EX someone I like what should I do as she only shows my signs when I am with her but blunt on text and never texts me. I dont know if she's playing hard to get or not?
It’s really not attractive behaviour. Manipulative, disingenuous and childish.
number 1
Games are fun but those Games are just childich i want a woman, not a kid
Conservative woman maybe..n leberated no way..
I feel sorry for u men this is ALL WRONG lol
*sigh* AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH this is happening to me