As an ENTP, pursuing an INFJ has been the most perplexing (yet intoxicating) time of my life. I'm like that golden retriever doing chemistry meme... I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I'M DOING.
As an infj, I'm kinda unsure if I would get along with another infj. Just the fact that another person weirdly gets me would make me unsettled, and a relationship between two such people is bound to have much reading in-between the lines and little action when there is an issue... So it really depends, really.
I feel like it would be a never-ending like therapy lesson almost because neither of them want to show their emotions. They really don’t talk about it, but both of them want to figure out them for the other person.
@@Itsokayifyouarenotokay This could go so well or so bad, right? Both dislike vulnerability, and both understand how much is expected of them in a relationship and would generally do most of it automatically (cuz of Fe). Given time, both would like to share more and interact more sincerely, that would definitely get them out of their shells, into a bigger one, anyways. Or you have the other scenario, where both do not wish to open up, that would be most akin to two deaf and blind people trying to act as if they are interactive, only seeing their perception of reality and acting upon only that.
@@lunarspine 100% Many things go into account especially like something relationship wise. Also, it’s not like being an INFJ means you’re going to always resonate with the same MBTI type, some people might have different views on things and still be a INFJ. Especially because of how diverse INFJs tend to be.
@@Itsokayifyouarenotokay True. I've recently met a person who says they're an INFJ, which I can't confirm nor deny due to lack of information, but their sense of humor was rather startling to me. It felt like they didn't have that sense of appropriateness and that certain grace that is so integral to my very person. Now I can't say they don't have it at all, maybe it manifested differently, but I was taken off guard nevertheless.
alright then [grabs snake bite kit, professional psychic, harvard scientists brainstormers, open journal of informative secrets, lucky dice, disneyworld tickets, spare batteries, emotional intelligence guidebook, books of varying genres including the harry potter series, security blanket, building layouts with highlighted escape routes, and a butterfly net] let's go infj hunting!
Man... I wish I could say I'll try to lower my standards, but I physically can't 😭 searching for someone who's non argumentative, honest and interested in my interests is gonna be very hard for adult me, but I can't accept anything less. 😅
As an INFJ, I agree to every point! At the age of 34 and lots of failed relationships, I ended up falling deeply in love with an INTP 🥰 They can be all that- healthy INTPs in touch with their emotions though.
In many ways, I agree with you. As an INFJ, I'm very reserved and try to avoid drama as much as possible, especially when it’s close to me. However, I’d say that in the past, I did try to really step out of my comfort zone. Unfortunately, it didn’t go as well after a certain point because I think I overwhelmed a lot of people. Now, I’ve reached a point where I’m holding back more again and only opening up to certain people. That’s why I believe that dating an INFJ requires patience, empathy, and understanding to give them enough space to open up. Additionally, I think INFJs deeply appreciate a partner who helps them break free from overthinking and serves as a good balance. I also value occasional spontaneous activities.
That happened for me too. When I finally decided to "live" a little and open up normally like others do, well, there was just so much inside that people usually don't get things easily, causing misunderstandings and overwhelming others, which made me resolve to going back to my shell and dealing my emotions myself. So just being there when we need it is something we will never write off or forget for you, no matter who you are.
@@lunarspine But maybe its the way it should be. Because often only we understand ourself, maybe we should learn to find ways how to deal with it and get mental strength. Though this does not mean that we dont need close friends around us we can talk to ;)
@@thephantomengine8179 Precisely. We need someone to open up to every once in a while so that our emotions wouldn't get too bottled up, yet at the same time we can't expect many people to be able to understand or know how to truly listen. A pretty good MBTI content creator once said that it's one of INFJs' strong suits that not many can understand them, it gives me the initiative to display themselves as they wish to be seen in most given situations, so keeping our two-way relationships limited could be used to our advantage depending on how we utilize it.
yeah these days im trying to get out of my shell and trying to avoid people who gives me stress but its actually hard... i try to not to feel the stress they gave me and trying to be cool like someone who doesnt care and could stand conflicts. or i try to be an extroverted, i talk to the people whos new in my class and i tried to avoid the person prob doesnt like me and make fun of me whos in cram school... i try to act nonchalant but conflicts really gives me nightmares... but at least for a year till i get in a university i need to be that person to protect myself from anything that gives me stress. but like im not good at it i even did a small talk today with the new boy in class BUT IM TRYING. JUST ONE YEAR TO BE MYSELF AGAIN.
@@lunarspine yeah thats why i rarely share my opininons its whether me that cant explain or them that dont get it at all. i sometimes feel like its just a body standing with my friends. and my organs my brain etc. is not there. like they are talking to a puppet who got controlled not even by me sometimes. they dont know whos the puppeter
infj man here. I do love spontaneous people but if that's too much that scares me a little. My gf is enfp so she can be really too much for me sometimes but we kind of laugh about it like: "ok I need to rest my mind know, go please talk about politics or whatever with trees" and she understands when I need to recharge or what makes me scared to take action. She knows I can't take surprises good so she tries to not go for something big. She always remembers me to go out and interact with people especially when I'm in a bad mood for days. If you don't want to see the logical side of infj, be selfaware of your emotions; if you have strong emotions and you're not able to manage them, you are going to see a pertty logical (even distant) infj. Cause we really are empaths, so feeling the weight of your inner world can be suffocating sometimes (but we are always gonna be there even if we act pissed or logical, we are just tired but still want to be there for you).
this is essentially a how to seduce frank james video since thats the only infj i know about besides the other commenters joking aside if this video gets frank james approved ill be happy
I believe I did a MBTI compatibility quiz (for dating) and I got INFJ. If I’ll even find someone, I’d have to f-ing try to mind read them? And being autistic means I’m never able to mind read anyone ever. I can be spontaneous in some way, as an INFP, but direct, external spontaneity is really jarring and unpleasant most of the time. I also like to have things planned (even if I rarely stick to the damn plans). I guess I have that in common with INFJs. I believe I actually tested INFJ after my first 16personalities test. But I read the first paragraph and it didn’t sound like me, sooo… INFP it is. I am pretty smart… And I delve deep into special interests and know a lot about them, so I guess I have that in common with INFJs too. And we both have an almost nonexistent social battery (most of the time). And we’re all empathetic here :) I don’t approach people… like basically ever. Meeting *any* new person is draining and unnatural. I know that that test is just a test though. And anyone can be a great person (but some/most would make terrible partners for me, probably, lol).
I believe what he meant by reading INFJ's mind isn't to be taken literally. Just like in any relationship, you would need a basic level of mutual understanding and empathy. The thing about INFJs is that they guard their minds and emotions, so truly getting closer to them is rather challenging, but, as INFJ myself, if I saw promise in a relationship and the other person is actually willing to listen to me and not demean me for feeling, then I would be more than happy to share things that I probably carried with me for years.
A lot of people I've met in the typology community say they hate small talk, but they're also not open to jumping right into conversations about politics, paranormal experiences, etc, so where is the line? Also, do you know which types would like small talk?
@@Shale240 as an ENTP all that stuff you mentioned is great topics to discuss with me if you’re okay with me arguing the other side. ESFJ and ISFJ like small talk
@@goldengirl8355 I'm perfectly fine with you arguing for the other side, I'm pretty solid in my stances on things, but not so much that new information doesn't change my perspective sometimes, I also believe that politics are mainly a matter of opinion which are subjective, everyone has different outlooks and experiences that led them to those beliefs, so it's stupid to expect everyone to have the same opinion. The thing though, is if people are saying things that aren't factually correct, or they might have some truth to it, but it won't actually work for a long term society, then I'll disagree about that, but most things I don't have personal feelings about, either something is or isn't, either it'll work or it won't. Thanks for saying the types who like small talk, the rarest types in the typology community lol. It makes sense.
@@Shale240 true! I think those probably are pretty rare in the community. My husband is an ISFJ and he has no patience for me talking about MBTI stuff haha. I like arguing the other side not to change anyone’s opinion, but for selfish reasons. It helps me understand people’s opinions more when they buckle down on their beliefs, otherwise they just give you surface reasons for what they believe. The most annoying thing is when people change their opinions super fast because it prevents me from understanding fully what they meant. I don’t feel like I’m making sense. Oy typical ENTP here lol
@@goldengirl8355 Lmao, honestly though, I seem to attract ExTPs to the point where they act like they'll die without me, and they do all this nice stuff for me that I don't deserve because I'm not even nice to them to begin with, I'm not mean to them either, but I'm opinionated, I lack tact, I consider people's feelings their own problem, not mine, and if someone expects me to dry their tears, they're better off sucking a lemon. I'm good to have in a group project, but it would be a pain in the ass to date me, not only because I'm gay but because of what I just said before, however ExTPs always seem to fall hard for me, and it doesn't make sense. As an ENTP, do you have any insight as to why this might be happening?
@@Shale240 yup absolutely. You’re straight to the point and don’t pussy foot around. Not sure about the can’t live without you (that sounds a little like those people are just a bit cookoo and that’s not an MBTI thing), but to repel an ExTP type be fake nice, simpering, and don’t say what you think and don’t mean what you say. Be really shallow. Flip flop lots on your opinions and act desperate to be liked. They’ll run so fast you won’t believe it!
@@Shale240 they are not ENTPs for sure. First, there are not so many of us in the first place and we are not that desperate and fast to fall in love. There are tons of ENFPs cosplaying us around though (sometimes ISFPs, INFPs too), mb that's the case. And some stereotypes let people confuse us with ESTPs even when we are clearly different. So mb look how to shoo away those types. We are chilling with our nerdy friends on the Internet being at home probably, far away from you and disinterested, I promise.
I don't care about seducing anyone, I currently have someone who likes me, idk how I feel about him, but these videos are fun to watch, so here I am, learning how to seduce my least favorite type. - No. That's my biggest issue with communication, people expect me to read their mind, and most of the time, they're not even thinking about anything relevant to what's going on right now. Like sorry, but if I was a psychic I'd monetize my talent not waste time dating an INFJ. They can try reading my mind, they won't be seeing much lol. - I prefer plans too, so I once again would not be the best at seducing an INFJ. - No, that's too much work. - This is actually something I can do, and have before. If someone I like is interested in something, I like learning about it too so we can have something to talk about. - I can do this too. I'm already my INFP brother's escape plan, he'll get invited to his friend's house, and ask me to come along, because he's too unconfrontational to tell him when he wants to leave, whereas I'm not shy about saying when I want to leave, and I can't drive, so it works out for both of us. - This is a huge struggle of mine, and it seems the more people keep pressuring me to have empathy, the more I feel bitter about them, and want to have less empathy. Before I didn't notice that I was upsetting people, now I know, and I'm annoyed they're getting upset over stuff that wasn't intended to be personal, like pointing out when they're doing something wrong, or they forgot about something, and if someone is being stupid and annoying, why would I not call it out? If I'm rude to someone, then they're old enough and in the right mental capacity to be able to understand that sometimes people like ham sandwiches and sometimes people like peanut butter sandwiches, and you shouldn't force people who like ham sandwiches to eat peanut butter sandwiches, meaning, if I don't want to be nice and laugh at someone's stupid joke I heard 80 times, I'm not going to. I don't think empathy is for the weak, I think it's extremely important to have, I just think it needs to be reeled in a bit, and all sides of the situation needs to be analyzed before someone is demonized for not having more empathy.
@@RayPeng-07 ENTP is not the best type for them. I think INFJs just really like them but not when the ENTP likes them back 😂 I too am curious about the answer to your question. Opposites seem to be a good match so I’m gonna guess ESTP for them.
@@goldengirl8355 ESTPs are attractive for INFJs but I've heard more than once, that in case of commitment and deeper feelings they suck a lot. I never experienced it with an ESTP{ (as a male) But who knows? All my favorite video game characters are ESTP XD
im an INFJ, so, the part in the beginning where we're super difficult to get along with and never let our guard down is a bit incorrect, at least for me...
People seem to say that ENTPs and INFJs and INTJs, get along great, ENTJs and INFPs great, ESTPs and ISFjs great, and several others. So from my understanding, one personality type with the only shared thing with the other one their perceiving letter (Sensing or Intuitive N\S.) Gets along great. What do you think about this?
That seems like a great parallel to draw, and I personally think it's rather reasonable, but I still think that any type could meet any other type middle way if both truly desire.
it's about the cognitive functions. ENTPs and INFJs have Ti and Fe in common, but in a different order. ENTJs and INFPs have Fi and Te in common, but again different order. ENTPs and INTJs have nothing in common but they're each other's shadow type. INJFs and INTJs only got Ni and Se in common at the same rank. ESTPs and ISFJs also got Ti and Fe in the middle, just switched around like for ENTPs and INFJs. however, it is true that intuitive types get along better with fellow intuitives rather than sensors, and vice versa. letters won't tell you as much, since everyone got feeling, thinking, sensing and intuition in their stack. for example : INFJ Ni Fe Ti Se / ENTP Ne Ti Fe Si / ENTJ Te Ni Se Fi / INFP Fi Ne Si Te.
holy sh... I didn't understand anything about this video, this is sooo confusing... sorry INFJ... But I mean, I wasn't planning to seduce anyone anyway
Do You Think You Have A Chance With An INFJ?
@TrebleKnight do you care to make a video ranking the types from least to most chaotic?
Nope because I am an INFJ and had one INFJ years ago and we were too much for each other ^^;
Ain't no way. Life is too boring if faces don't get punched on occasion. I'll stick with INTJ on that one.
(ISTP) Was married to one for 13 years😬
Me watching this as an INFJ to avoid being seduced
😂
This seems to be a popular use for this video :P
I can argue that you won't be able to resist the rizz
-Me, an ENTP taking notes ✍🏼
Lmao
Thanks for making a list of possible loopholes. I'll close them off
glad to see my video is being put to good use!
It's not that hard
Enfp's paying close attention and taking notes
-enfp
so that's true! infj and enfp always end up together lol
As an ENTP, pursuing an INFJ has been the most perplexing (yet intoxicating) time of my life. I'm like that golden retriever doing chemistry meme... I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I'M DOING.
lol sounds very ENTPish
How many have you found?
@@violet18 I'm chasing a unicorn, a one in a milion.
@BradGroux How long have you known about your type?
@@violet18 All new to me, I have no idea what I am doing.
I'm an INFJ and I think you nailed it. Also think your videos are really funny and awesome!
Thanks so much!
So basically be another infj?
As an infj, I'm kinda unsure if I would get along with another infj. Just the fact that another person weirdly gets me would make me unsettled, and a relationship between two such people is bound to have much reading in-between the lines and little action when there is an issue... So it really depends, really.
I feel like it would be a never-ending like therapy lesson almost because neither of them want to show their emotions. They really don’t talk about it, but both of them want to figure out them for the other person.
@@Itsokayifyouarenotokay This could go so well or so bad, right?
Both dislike vulnerability, and both understand how much is expected of them in a relationship and would generally do most of it automatically (cuz of Fe). Given time, both would like to share more and interact more sincerely, that would definitely get them out of their shells, into a bigger one, anyways.
Or you have the other scenario, where both do not wish to open up, that would be most akin to two deaf and blind people trying to act as if they are interactive, only seeing their perception of reality and acting upon only that.
@@lunarspine 100%
Many things go into account especially like something relationship wise. Also, it’s not like being an INFJ means you’re going to always resonate with the same MBTI type, some people might have different views on things and still be a INFJ. Especially because of how diverse INFJs tend to be.
@@Itsokayifyouarenotokay True.
I've recently met a person who says they're an INFJ, which I can't confirm nor deny due to lack of information, but their sense of humor was rather startling to me. It felt like they didn't have that sense of appropriateness and that certain grace that is so integral to my very person. Now I can't say they don't have it at all, maybe it manifested differently, but I was taken off guard nevertheless.
Hmm I'll definitely keep this in mind.... If I ever even see a real infj
As an INFJ, your attempts will fail. 💀
alright then [grabs snake bite kit, professional psychic, harvard scientists brainstormers, open journal of informative secrets, lucky dice, disneyworld tickets, spare batteries, emotional intelligence guidebook, books of varying genres including the harry potter series, security blanket, building layouts with highlighted escape routes, and a butterfly net] let's go infj hunting!
Good luck!
You won't find a wild INFJ in the wilds though.
@moonspine6236 sigh, i guess I'll have to settle for a tamed one or go into the city
Man... I wish I could say I'll try to lower my standards, but I physically can't 😭
searching for someone who's non argumentative, honest and interested in my interests is gonna be very hard for adult me, but I can't accept anything less. 😅
me an INFJ and currently watching this: 👁👄👁
Just be pretty, obedient, and yourself. That's a good way to bag an INFJ guy or any man for that matter.
As an INFJ, I agree to every point!
At the age of 34 and lots of failed relationships, I ended up falling deeply in love with an INTP 🥰 They can be all that- healthy INTPs in touch with their emotions though.
That's Great! I'm so happy for you!
So as an INTP I think I can do this
Yess 😂 I’m an INFJ deeply in love with and engaged to an INTP.
good luck!
In many ways, I agree with you. As an INFJ, I'm very reserved and try to avoid drama as much as possible, especially when it’s close to me. However, I’d say that in the past, I did try to really step out of my comfort zone. Unfortunately, it didn’t go as well after a certain point because I think I overwhelmed a lot of people. Now, I’ve reached a point where I’m holding back more again and only opening up to certain people. That’s why I believe that dating an INFJ requires patience, empathy, and understanding to give them enough space to open up. Additionally, I think INFJs deeply appreciate a partner who helps them break free from overthinking and serves as a good balance. I also value occasional spontaneous activities.
That happened for me too.
When I finally decided to "live" a little and open up normally like others do, well, there was just so much inside that people usually don't get things easily, causing misunderstandings and overwhelming others, which made me resolve to going back to my shell and dealing my emotions myself.
So just being there when we need it is something we will never write off or forget for you, no matter who you are.
@@lunarspine But maybe its the way it should be. Because often only we understand ourself, maybe we should learn to find ways how to deal with it and get mental strength. Though this does not mean that we dont need close friends around us we can talk to ;)
@@thephantomengine8179 Precisely.
We need someone to open up to every once in a while so that our emotions wouldn't get too bottled up, yet at the same time we can't expect many people to be able to understand or know how to truly listen.
A pretty good MBTI content creator once said that it's one of INFJs' strong suits that not many can understand them, it gives me the initiative to display themselves as they wish to be seen in most given situations, so keeping our two-way relationships limited could be used to our advantage depending on how we utilize it.
yeah these days im trying to get out of my shell and trying to avoid people who gives me stress but its actually hard... i try to not to feel the stress they gave me and trying to be cool like someone who doesnt care and could stand conflicts. or i try to be an extroverted, i talk to the people whos new in my class and i tried to avoid the person prob doesnt like me and make fun of me whos in cram school... i try to act nonchalant but conflicts really gives me nightmares... but at least for a year till i get in a university i need to be that person to protect myself from anything that gives me stress. but like im not good at it i even did a small talk today with the new boy in class BUT IM TRYING. JUST ONE YEAR TO BE MYSELF AGAIN.
@@lunarspine yeah thats why i rarely share my opininons its whether me that cant explain or them that dont get it at all. i sometimes feel like its just a body standing with my friends. and my organs my brain etc. is not there. like they are talking to a puppet who got controlled not even by me sometimes. they dont know whos the puppeter
I think INFJ X INTJ makes the best fit for INFJ, what do you think?
6 Ways To Seduce An INFJ Man (singular) Or Women (plural)
Harems of women are more common than harems of men lol.
While true, no chance INFJs would have a groupie mentality like that
infj man here. I do love spontaneous people but if that's too much that scares me a little.
My gf is enfp so she can be really too much for me sometimes but we kind of laugh about it like: "ok I need to rest my mind know, go please talk about politics or whatever with trees" and she understands when I need to recharge or what makes me scared to take action. She knows I can't take surprises good so she tries to not go for something big.
She always remembers me to go out and interact with people especially when I'm in a bad mood for days.
If you don't want to see the logical side of infj, be selfaware of your emotions; if you have strong emotions and you're not able to manage them, you are going to see a pertty logical (even distant) infj. Cause we really are empaths, so feeling the weight of your inner world can be suffocating sometimes (but we are always gonna be there even if we act pissed or logical, we are just tired but still want to be there for you).
Me as an infj, watching this , taking notes, coz I also want to know
As an INFJ, this is so hilarious I can't breathe 😂😂😂
lol glad you liked it
this is essentially a how to seduce frank james video since thats the only infj i know about besides the other commenters
joking aside if this video gets frank james approved ill be happy
I believe I did a MBTI compatibility quiz (for dating) and I got INFJ. If I’ll even find someone, I’d have to f-ing try to mind read them? And being autistic means I’m never able to mind read anyone ever. I can be spontaneous in some way, as an INFP, but direct, external spontaneity is really jarring and unpleasant most of the time. I also like to have things planned (even if I rarely stick to the damn plans). I guess I have that in common with INFJs. I believe I actually tested INFJ after my first 16personalities test. But I read the first paragraph and it didn’t sound like me, sooo… INFP it is.
I am pretty smart… And I delve deep into special interests and know a lot about them, so I guess I have that in common with INFJs too. And we both have an almost nonexistent social battery (most of the time). And we’re all empathetic here :)
I don’t approach people… like basically ever. Meeting *any* new person is draining and unnatural.
I know that that test is just a test though. And anyone can be a great person (but some/most would make terrible partners for me, probably, lol).
I believe what he meant by reading INFJ's mind isn't to be taken literally. Just like in any relationship, you would need a basic level of mutual understanding and empathy. The thing about INFJs is that they guard their minds and emotions, so truly getting closer to them is rather challenging, but, as INFJ myself, if I saw promise in a relationship and the other person is actually willing to listen to me and not demean me for feeling, then I would be more than happy to share things that I probably carried with me for years.
Ask them for help with something. Ask to meet them in a garden with coffee. Skip the small talk and get into a deep conversation with them.
I'm already liking those ideas, but now I'm planning scenarios...
-INFJ
A lot of people I've met in the typology community say they hate small talk, but they're also not open to jumping right into conversations about politics, paranormal experiences, etc, so where is the line?
Also, do you know which types would like small talk?
@@Shale240 as an ENTP all that stuff you mentioned is great topics to discuss with me if you’re okay with me arguing the other side.
ESFJ and ISFJ like small talk
@@goldengirl8355 I'm perfectly fine with you arguing for the other side, I'm pretty solid in my stances on things, but not so much that new information doesn't change my perspective sometimes, I also believe that politics are mainly a matter of opinion which are subjective, everyone has different outlooks and experiences that led them to those beliefs, so it's stupid to expect everyone to have the same opinion.
The thing though, is if people are saying things that aren't factually correct, or they might have some truth to it, but it won't actually work for a long term society, then I'll disagree about that, but most things I don't have personal feelings about, either something is or isn't, either it'll work or it won't.
Thanks for saying the types who like small talk, the rarest types in the typology community lol.
It makes sense.
@@Shale240 true! I think those probably are pretty rare in the community. My husband is an ISFJ and he has no patience for me talking about MBTI stuff haha.
I like arguing the other side not to change anyone’s opinion, but for selfish reasons. It helps me understand people’s opinions more when they buckle down on their beliefs, otherwise they just give you surface reasons for what they believe. The most annoying thing is when people change their opinions super fast because it prevents me from understanding fully what they meant. I don’t feel like I’m making sense. Oy typical ENTP here lol
Pfft be an ENTP. Done. 😉
How about entp next 😩🥺😼
I need to advice on how to repel them lol.
@@Shale240 😆
@@goldengirl8355 Lmao, honestly though, I seem to attract ExTPs to the point where they act like they'll die without me, and they do all this nice stuff for me that I don't deserve because I'm not even nice to them to begin with, I'm not mean to them either, but I'm opinionated, I lack tact, I consider people's feelings their own problem, not mine, and if someone expects me to dry their tears, they're better off sucking a lemon.
I'm good to have in a group project, but it would be a pain in the ass to date me, not only because I'm gay but because of what I just said before, however ExTPs always seem to fall hard for me, and it doesn't make sense.
As an ENTP, do you have any insight as to why this might be happening?
@@Shale240 yup absolutely. You’re straight to the point and don’t pussy foot around. Not sure about the can’t live without you (that sounds a little like those people are just a bit cookoo and that’s not an MBTI thing), but to repel an ExTP type be fake nice, simpering, and don’t say what you think and don’t mean what you say. Be really shallow. Flip flop lots on your opinions and act desperate to be liked. They’ll run so fast you won’t believe it!
@@Shale240 they are not ENTPs for sure. First, there are not so many of us in the first place and we are not that desperate and fast to fall in love. There are tons of ENFPs cosplaying us around though (sometimes ISFPs, INFPs too), mb that's the case. And some stereotypes let people confuse us with ESTPs even when we are clearly different. So mb look how to shoo away those types. We are chilling with our nerdy friends on the Internet being at home probably, far away from you and disinterested, I promise.
I don't care about seducing anyone, I currently have someone who likes me, idk how I feel about him, but these videos are fun to watch, so here I am, learning how to seduce my least favorite type.
- No. That's my biggest issue with communication, people expect me to read their mind, and most of the time, they're not even thinking about anything relevant to what's going on right now. Like sorry, but if I was a psychic I'd monetize my talent not waste time dating an INFJ.
They can try reading my mind, they won't be seeing much lol.
- I prefer plans too, so I once again would not be the best at seducing an INFJ.
- No, that's too much work.
- This is actually something I can do, and have before. If someone I like is interested in something, I like learning about it too so we can have something to talk about.
- I can do this too. I'm already my INFP brother's escape plan, he'll get invited to his friend's house, and ask me to come along, because he's too unconfrontational to tell him when he wants to leave, whereas I'm not shy about saying when I want to leave, and I can't drive, so it works out for both of us.
- This is a huge struggle of mine, and it seems the more people keep pressuring me to have empathy, the more I feel bitter about them, and want to have less empathy.
Before I didn't notice that I was upsetting people, now I know, and I'm annoyed they're getting upset over stuff that wasn't intended to be personal, like pointing out when they're doing something wrong, or they forgot about something, and if someone is being stupid and annoying, why would I not call it out? If I'm rude to someone, then they're old enough and in the right mental capacity to be able to understand that sometimes people like ham sandwiches and sometimes people like peanut butter sandwiches, and you shouldn't force people who like ham sandwiches to eat peanut butter sandwiches, meaning, if I don't want to be nice and laugh at someone's stupid joke I heard 80 times, I'm not going to.
I don't think empathy is for the weak, I think it's extremely important to have, I just think it needs to be reeled in a bit, and all sides of the situation needs to be analyzed before someone is demonized for not having more empathy.
The only thing I did to attract my INFJ ex was apparently just being myself xD Mb it's true that they are attracted to ENTPs after all.
Would like to know who would be the best partner for an INFJ according to you :) Everyone say that ENTP but I am not sure about it :3
@@RayPeng-07 ENTP is not the best type for them. I think INFJs just really like them but not when the ENTP likes them back 😂
I too am curious about the answer to your question. Opposites seem to be a good match so I’m gonna guess ESTP for them.
@@goldengirl8355 ESTPs are attractive for INFJs but I've heard more than once, that in case of commitment and deeper feelings they suck a lot. I never experienced it with an ESTP{ (as a male) But who knows? All my favorite video game characters are ESTP XD
Find yourself an INTP 🙊
@@rayanbahsoun Could be. I always saw Kowalski from the penguins attractive xD
im an INFJ, so, the part in the beginning where we're super difficult to get along with and never let our guard down is a bit incorrect, at least for me...
People seem to say that ENTPs and INFJs and INTJs, get along great, ENTJs and INFPs great, ESTPs and ISFjs great, and several others. So from my understanding, one personality type with the only shared thing with the other one their perceiving letter (Sensing or Intuitive N\S.) Gets along great. What do you think about this?
That seems like a great parallel to draw, and I personally think it's rather reasonable, but I still think that any type could meet any other type middle way if both truly desire.
it's about the cognitive functions. ENTPs and INFJs have Ti and Fe in common, but in a different order. ENTJs and INFPs have Fi and Te in common, but again different order. ENTPs and INTJs have nothing in common but they're each other's shadow type. INJFs and INTJs only got Ni and Se in common at the same rank. ESTPs and ISFJs also got Ti and Fe in the middle, just switched around like for ENTPs and INFJs.
however, it is true that intuitive types get along better with fellow intuitives rather than sensors, and vice versa.
letters won't tell you as much, since everyone got feeling, thinking, sensing and intuition in their stack. for example : INFJ Ni Fe Ti Se / ENTP Ne Ti Fe Si / ENTJ Te Ni Se Fi / INFP Fi Ne Si Te.
@@FruitsChinpoSamuraiG I agree. Thanks for the reply!! It must have taken a fairly long time to write.
@@FlamingFiringPlayz1 no worries, i have mbti brainrot so i knew those by heart sadly. skull emoji
@@FruitsChinpoSamuraiG I also do. I have studied the mbti and cognitive functions and enegram system so I know all of it inside out as well!
And yea LOLNo matter if we are a male or a female, we hate fake macho guyz so bad that is so true buddy xD
entp next plsssss
lol Just uploaded that video to patron and Kofi. It'll come to RUclips in two weeks.
hahaha yeah
entp
holy sh... I didn't understand anything about this video, this is sooo confusing...
sorry INFJ... But I mean, I wasn't planning to seduce anyone anyway
the only thing I can offer as an INTP is being genuine and intelligent and giving new information 😎
you don't seem like an Ne user, but idk
@@timmwahl7097 Me? because I'm Ti dom, if it doesn't make sense to me, I can't understand... Also my Ne and Si mix up
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Wtf is this shi