How to Overcome Unforgiveness | Jimmy Evans
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- Опубликовано: 3 май 2018
- Forgiving someone who has hurt you can be very difficult. The reality is unforgiveness affects every relationship in your life. Jimmy Evans shares the steps to forgiving others and why it's so important.
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I prayed for my devastators for the first time today. Thank you!
What glasses me most about you Jimmy is that you were honest enough to confess that you hated somebody, I love that you tell the truth, and then you showed us how to overcome our weaknesses and our hateful attitude towards those who injure us so deeply. One of the reasons I have been blessed with this message is because I've been there and lately the Lord's been showing me God bless them in prayer just like you said, boy did I need that message. Because it was showing me what I was already doing and would continue to do. May you be blessed and may all our enemies and all our Herter's be blessed in Jesus name amen.
I needed to hear this today. Thank you. God bless. You're right. I have to forgive my devistator and not have anger ,bitterness, depression, and fear towards him and instead forgive and pray for him. It is quiet the challenge though.
Just what i need! Amen. Thank you for sharing this Godly wisdom. I needed it so much.!
God doesn't want us hate our enemies because he doesn't hate them 🙏
I have been searching for honestly IDK even how long.. for a solution to this Exact Q you answer. Everything I've gotten so far has either been too simple to cover the Depth of my pain (Which you address the multiple types) or so "holy" that they don't account for the reality of not just the world we live in but of basic nature & common sense. This is the First & Only video that not only made sense, but didn't discredit or belittle me & my experiences, all while connecting with me on a deeper level. Thank you!!!
So thankful for this message🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you sir, for this insight !
Amen!
Amen Jimmy Evans!!!!
Just speaking about this minutes ago!!!!
Thanks again jawahna
Faith JAI totally me too!! 7 months later haha. My friend Treasure just made me realize that I wasn’t really forgiving my parents 💯 percent of the time. It all makes sense. Duh? And I thought I was the queen of forgiveness. Nope.
Jimmy is RIGHT about physical pain such as arthritis or fibromyalgia like nerve pain ...it’s caused from unforgiving, emotional baggage, Pride, anger, unrepeatable sins, bitterness, fear, doubt, etc.
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The frustrator,The Difficult people, the painful people, the hurtful, the devastating people.
The doors of Heaven demand that we adhere to God's words!. So many left behind.
God help us
So good
Please pray for me and my family. My wife has recently divorce me and we have 6 kids.....
Praying brother. Are you standing for your marriage?
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The marriage ended with the divorce. There's nothing to stand here for.
The only thing you can try in this situation is make the relationship with the family as smooth as possible...
@@Mario-xr3jo,that wasn’t very Christ like of you to say.
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Oh, wasn't it? Why?
super good!
Good stuff!
Very good.
Awesome sermon
I would tell you that forgiveness is necessary, and i personally know this. I have been rejected more then anyone could ever know. But when i look at my own short comeings and how much Jesus has forgiven me. Who am i not to forgive. Jesus gave his life for me. I need forgiveness dayley. Jesus is saveing my life dayley. I say to myself who am i not to forgive. So parying for everyone that hurts you. Can bring about healing. Hurting people hurt others. We serve a big God and he knows what is best. He knows everyones Hart
Unforgiveness is only destructive if we resent someone 24/7 for a long time.
It is not some everlasting feeling that we hold inside all the time.
As we all have many things to do everyday, with time its power diminishes.
Time is a good healer. And if that doesn't help, you can always try psychotherapy.
After all, psychotherapists were sent by God as well, weren't they?
Forgive the first time It's easy..the more dificult is to continue to forgive when the person continue to hurt you.
It takes thc to not be bitter. Im trying really hard not to hate her. I never felt hate for someone who isnt white until she left me hanging and did what she did.. but i overcome it. most of all im bitter that her and him didnt do what was right because it was right but because they were forced. And chose power and lust over patriotism love and righteousness
Here are 2 truths ..1.Hate and unforgiveness rots the hater ...not the hated.. from the inside..daily...and 2. Only our LORD JESUS... tbrough the precious HOLY SPIRIT can stop you from hating and allow you to forgive fully. ❤❤❤❤🙏
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I'd love to have bible study and coffee with the beautiful brunette in the middle of the video. If she's a single lady. If she's married, I sincerely apologize to her and her husband. God bless you all.🙏💜☺👍
I have forgiven god and all people ho hurt me but still empty and vengeful
Don't forget to forgive yourself, pray believing. And praying one time doesn't make it so.i prayed for years for the ones who hurt me. Pray without ceasing 🙏
I get his point. But I disagree. I didn't put Him on the cross. I never had an intention of putting Him there. Jesus Himself says in thr scripture, "No one takes My life. I lay it down freely." The Pharisees intentionally tried to kill Him. But they couldn't. He laid it down for them, for me and everyone else.
Everytime sin is present in our lives, we place Jesus on the cross.
But when I have released the debt and left the judgement to God, how do I protect myself from futher abuse? How do I release the debt but not just go back into the same dynamic and get devastated over and over again?
Is there a way you can leave your situation? If you've forgiven, that's great. But there's nothing wrong with protecting yourself, and demanding that person build up trust before you let them back in. I hope you can escape from your situation.
@@goontermg Thank you for your reply. I have almost no contact. But the problem is that it is a sibling and a parent. I dont believe the behaviour will change. But I am also in doubt whether it it Biblical to have very little contact with close family.
@@KristineKSand it sucks, I understand. I too have had situations similar to this in my life. There is no shame or sin when a person removes themselves to protect themselves from an abusive situation. I would highly encourage the party on your situation to leave, and then just pray for the abuser, God is almighty, he can turn lives and hearts around. Just focus on him. He'll guide you in his truth.
@@goontermg Thank you. Yes I pray for all of them. But I still have doubts whether I go against Gods will by removing myself. Honour your parents and love your brother and so on. Yes it is a feeling of shame. Also because I feel Im hurting them by leaving. But yes, God will lead me.
@@KristineKSand Romans 8:1. The devil may try to be lying to you to stay in the abusive nature because he doesn't want you to know freedom. Dont worry, you are valuable, you are loved, you have great purpose, you have been designed by hands of love. I'll pray for you, but there is nothing wrong with getting out of an abusive situation even if it is family members who are doing it. People reading this will hopefully feel compelled to pray for you as well. You'll be ok!
Michelle chan is her name. Shes hard to forgive.
So if parents are not able to forgive the pedophile who raped and killed their little girl....or boy...GOD won't forgive them and they go to hell??
Can someone give me an answer! ??
This isn't so much an issue of heaven or hell but of life on earth. If those parents don't forgive they may struggle in life, not necessarily in the life after. Not saying that I could do that though.
If they can't forgive they will go to hell.
And the rapist will go to heaven for not being forgiven by the parents.
@@Mario-xr3jo no if the rapist repents and is forgiven , not automatically . or he will be in hell too
This whole forgiveness thing is confusing. The bible also says in
Luke 17:3-4 KJV
3 Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and IF HE REPENT, forgive him.
4 And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I REPENT; thou shalt forgive him.
Some people don't care to REPENT or acknowledge that they did anything wrong. God grants forgiveness only to those that humble themselves and acknowledge their sin, confess it and REPENT from it and put their faith and trust in Jesus. He withholds forgiveness from those that keep rejecting Jesus and continuely live in sin without remorse.
If we are to follow Jesus example, I believe we need to withhold forgiveness as well to those people that don't care to REPENT. But, we must forgive our brothers and sisters in Christ that do acknowledge their sin, confess it and REPENT from it and apologize from a sincere heart. Who also make an effort to correct their behavior and earn your trust back.
REPENTANCE IS NECESSARY FOR THE GIFT OF FORGIVENESS!!!
It's a gift and it shouldn't be given to anyone that just tramples it underfoot. You also don't need to forgive the unrepentant sinner for yourself either in order to heal. The bible is clear not to repay evil for evil and to leave vengeance to Him. He will see to it that they get their punishment. In order to heal from the trauma and pain that they inflicted on us, we have to give it to God to take care of. It takes time to reach that point. It's different for everyone, but eventually we will begin to see that ruminating on the trauma and pain only steals away our joy and purpose in life and then it becomes easier to let it go and give it to God to take care of. Time is everything, but we must also reach a point where we allow ourselves to fall on Jesus and to surrender it all to Him. He will take care of it and He will take care of you. He can and will heal you if you let Him. You must put your wholehearted faith and trust in Him though, and then be still and watch him work in your life. ❤🙏
God bless you!