A narc preying on a single parent juggling basic needs of kids and housing uses their control over those impoverished people.. . Sad, sick, evil but true.
True , Be very careful people ( Women) don't realize How dangerous these folks can. Be , just watched one who start dating a woman with 6 kids and He drug the woman out of her home in her Bra with her six kids still in the home and deleted her , and went back to her home and start living there with her 6 kids and the kids were asking were is there Mom cause they seen him drag her out the house , instead of Him just leaving Her & them kids Alone they way that He found them , Lady was very loving to Him but He was behind the scenes being the usual only nice in the beginning of the Relationship and the Rest of the relationship they Mean Spirited , Abusive & Nasty
I found out from my sisters friend that he had a tinder profile. I was blindsided by this. Waited a few days then went to his place with a HUGE suitcase and took all my belongings and took my power back. When he opened the door it looked like he saw a ghost, his eyes were black !!! (His real eye colour is blue) he told me right away that he wasn’t with anyone and I replied I didn’t ask. I told him to give me the keys he had to my home. I was calm, didn’t yell, showed him the screenshots I got from my sister’s friend’s profile pictures on tinder. He actually wanted to start an argument and I didn’t fall for it and it’s not in my nature to yell. He tried to hug me many times and I backed away. Unfortunately he is my brother in law’s best friend and nephew’s godfather so he is in my orbit. My sister tells me he says to her how happy he is but she sees right through it, he is very inauthentic. She told me she is a total downgrade and not his type, chubby, wears tons of makeup and dresses like a granny. She cooks and cleans for him, I guess he wants a mom to take care of him and his son is very disrespectful towards her. It’s been over 2 years and it still bothers me because he is in my orbit and I avoid seeing him. He disgusts me.
Your perspective, your work your efforts save lives. You literally save lives. You express to all our confused hearts an understanding into a mindset that we literally cannot comprehend. I’m grateful that you followed this calling. When I have weak moments, your videos provide the periodic reinforcement that I absolutely require. Enduring this specific kind of abuse leads to the deterioration of a person in every aspect of their lives. Thank you for being so brave, transparent and bold. You are a blessing.
Thank you for that, Theresa. I really appreciate your words here. I could not have done this without my ex-girlfriend. She deserves all of the credit, with God too. I appreciate you.
This is BS; they do not cheat with the lesser, contrary to popular belief. Whoever they cheat with is a vibrational match, and sometimes you will find that they may actually be at a lower vibration than the person that they're cheating with. The undisputed truth is that narcissists are not anything they appear to be. They are the great pretenders and if you end up in a relationship with a narc, you're actually dealing with someone who's not on your level. I don't care how successful they are , or how attractive they appear to be ; considering all of the psychological and spiritual issues that they have inherited over their lifetime.
better looks and better body is so superficial regardless of how the person looks if they are willingly helping the narc cheat they are a downgrade period. no honor among thieves theyll do it to each other as well
This makes so much sense. I was engaged and he was hanging out with a young woman that lived in a shelter for women and she had 3 kids at the time. He hung out with her at work and after work, she even drove around in our truck. I broke off the engagement of course. But,WOW, this is so true. Thank you Leon.
My son seen my husband with his new supply walking down the street arguing. She don’t even have a car. A straight downgrade as you said. He was so jealous he throw grease on my Benz. I I was so happy that it didn’t phase me like it would’ve in the past when my son told me he seen her but you speaking some truth about that behavior and I just wanted to say thank you
He went back to the female he was with briefly before meeting me when we split the first time. And, he's been juggling us both on and off for over 4 years. He refuses to end his relationship with her even when we were together. She lives on government assistance due to substance abuse, mental and emotional health issues. She's lost her teeth from meth and looks 20 years older than her actual age. He's a big drinker and she used to be a bartender at her family owned bar. She accepts him exactly as he is warts and all. She's developed an emotional attachment to him once they began sleeping together. I was both heartbroken and disgusted with his choice. I took it very personal initially. He talked down about her initially. Said she was crazy and reminded him of his grandmother. It didn't stop him from sleeping with her. I'm better put together and have healed past most of my childhood traumas with counseling. I wanted to grow and build a future together. He was too weak for change and went to and stayed with what was familiar and comfortable. I learned a lot from that situationship.
A narc preying on a single parent juggling basic needs of kids and housing uses their control over those impoverished people.. . Sad, sick, evil but true.
True , Be very careful people ( Women) don't realize How dangerous these folks can. Be , just watched one who start dating a woman with 6 kids and He drug the woman out of her home in her Bra with her six kids still in the home and deleted her , and went back to her home and start living there with her 6 kids and the kids were asking were is there Mom cause they seen him drag her out the house , instead of Him just leaving Her & them kids Alone they way that He found them , Lady was very loving to Him but He was behind the scenes being the usual only nice in the beginning of the Relationship and the Rest of the relationship they Mean Spirited , Abusive & Nasty
My narc ex sure dated a lot of single mothers that he kept contact with and kept seeing during our relationship
I found out from my sisters friend that he had a tinder profile. I was blindsided by this. Waited a few days then went to his place with a HUGE suitcase and took all my belongings and took my power back. When he opened the door it looked like he saw a ghost, his eyes were black !!! (His real eye colour is blue) he told me right away that he wasn’t with anyone and I replied I didn’t ask. I told him to give me the keys he had to my home. I was calm, didn’t yell, showed him the screenshots I got from my sister’s friend’s profile pictures on tinder. He actually wanted to start an argument and I didn’t fall for it and it’s not in my nature to yell. He tried to hug me many times and I backed away. Unfortunately he is my brother in law’s best friend and nephew’s godfather so he is in my orbit. My sister tells me he says to her how happy he is but she sees right through it, he is very inauthentic. She told me she is a total downgrade and not his type, chubby, wears tons of makeup and dresses like a granny. She cooks and cleans for him, I guess he wants a mom to take care of him and his son is very disrespectful towards her. It’s been over 2 years and it still bothers me because he is in my orbit and I avoid seeing him. He disgusts me.
Your perspective, your work your efforts save lives. You literally save lives. You express to all our confused hearts an understanding into a mindset that we literally cannot comprehend. I’m grateful that you followed this calling. When I have weak moments, your videos provide the periodic reinforcement that I absolutely require. Enduring this specific kind of abuse leads to the deterioration of a person in every aspect of their lives. Thank you for being so brave, transparent and bold. You are a blessing.
Thank you for that, Theresa. I really appreciate your words here. I could not have done this without my ex-girlfriend. She deserves all of the credit, with God too. I appreciate you.
One angel gave another his wings! ❤️
This is BS; they do not cheat with the lesser, contrary to popular belief. Whoever they cheat with is a vibrational match, and sometimes you will find that they may actually be at a lower vibration than the person that they're cheating with. The undisputed truth is that narcissists are not anything they appear to be. They are the great pretenders and if you end up in a relationship with a narc, you're actually dealing with someone who's not on your level. I don't care how successful they are , or how attractive they appear to be ; considering all of the psychological and spiritual issues that they have inherited over their lifetime.
He's speaking truth. Bottom line is both are trash like he & ur sayn
better looks and better body is so superficial regardless of how the person looks if they are willingly helping the narc cheat they are a downgrade period. no honor among thieves theyll do it to each other as well
I would choose a smoker over a narcissist any day. Narcissist shouldn’t be looking down on anybody.
I fully agree!!
They also marry women lesser than you. I was the first wife of three narcs. They married down afterwards.
LEON I'VE DEALT WITH NARCISSISTIC ABUSE
I LOVE YOUR HONESTY
Thank you Leon. I needed to hear this. It came at a perfect time with me feeling lonely.
Wow! That explains a lot. Thank you!
This makes so much sense. I was engaged and he was hanging out with a young woman that lived in a shelter for women and she had 3 kids at the time. He hung out with her at work and after work, she even drove around in our truck.
I broke off the engagement of course. But,WOW, this is so true. Thank you Leon.
Wow. Most impactful explanation I ever heard. Eye opener!
Facts
I said the same thing
Thank You So Much Mr. Leon for this important information.
Yes, it is ! This explains a hellava lot ! Honest and straight to the damn point . He's spot on . Thank you, Leon .
My son seen my husband with his new supply walking down the street arguing. She don’t even have a car. A straight downgrade as you said. He was so jealous he throw grease on my Benz. I I was so happy that it didn’t phase me like it would’ve in the past when my son told me he seen her but you speaking some truth about that behavior and I just wanted to say thank you
His emotional affair cheating pargner is just as much a creep as him.
I love your honesty 😅
You are SPOT-ON and I am so glad you cleared this up for me personally. It makes alot of sense indeed. 🎉
That's Sad
It is
💥💥Daaaaamn Leon! Ouch! Facts though! Much respect!! Thank you!!✌️💙
Look up and inward. Not outside for support and validation. Do your best to stand on own two feet,make wise decisions. They seek to devour. ✝️💜🙏
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😲🤯…Wow!!! …thank you Leon!! Thank you!!❤❤
I just said the same thing WOWWW Oh how I wish I knew this about 20 years ago 😢
Thank you for your contribution, I think many people could hear this message. As a self-aware, diagnosed narcissist, I’ll vouch for this.
Wow this is Good News. Amen
Thank you Leon this explains everything. It's mind-blowing.
Makes sense.
Thank you Leon! 🙏🏾
God Bless You
FAVOR AIN'T FAIR 🫂🫂🫂🫂
Wow thank you❤
You’re welcome
@ how does a narc respond to someone who has high standards?
He went back to the female he was with briefly before meeting me when we split the first time. And, he's been juggling us both on and off for over 4 years. He refuses to end his relationship with her even when we were together. She lives on government assistance due to substance abuse, mental and emotional health issues. She's lost her teeth from meth and looks 20 years older than her actual age. He's a big drinker and she used to be a bartender at her family owned bar. She accepts him exactly as he is warts and all. She's developed an emotional attachment to him once they began sleeping together. I was both heartbroken and disgusted with his choice. I took it very personal initially. He talked down about her initially. Said she was crazy and reminded him of his grandmother. It didn't stop him from sleeping with her. I'm better put together and have healed past most of my childhood traumas with counseling. I wanted to grow and build a future together. He was too weak for change and went to and stayed with what was familiar and comfortable. I learned a lot from that situationship.
This is gooooooood...❤
Thank you
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Your girl is lovely Hubble
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