Honestly, some connections need to be walked away from. Our wants matter. But the need is about literally preserving what’s left of your life. Please Taurus’ I know it’s hard to let go. But consider what you could be walking towards. More than what you’re walking away from.
Had to walk away myself . Had friends tell me I most likely dodged a bullet. It sucked , but I know deep down , long term, it's for the best. Some ppl just aren't where ur at and that's ok. But to sacrifice self, get nothing in return, and deal with such an emotional deficit isn't healthy .
100% accurate for me. Masks, carrying everything, words no action...hard lessons learned after 15 years together and a child, but I'm building myself into a version that never really existed before, and my energy goes towards me and my daughter now.
Excellent reading....what you have detailed is exactly what I have experienced in this relationship... the empathy and the over- giving and the lack of reciprocity.
You described my situation perfectly, and it makes me sad because I wish my Gemini ♊️ friend would have the courage to let her guard down and allow me to show her that she IS safe with me, that she IS safe to be vulnerable with me, and that not all men are out to get her, use her, abandon her, etc. I know deep down she is not a bad person, and that she is basically in “survival mode” because of all her past traumas and the way she may have been raised by her parents or been treated by past men in her life. I know that it is NOT my job or my responsibility to heal her or rescue her. I know that. I know that she has to, at some point, be willing to find the courage to get into therapy, or see an EFT practitioner, or EMDR practitioner, or someone who is trauma informed, and work on healing her past traumas and wounds. I think it’s what you said, she is not self-aware or isn’t as self-aware as she needs to be. Without any healing she will continue to perpetuate the cycle of keeping people from getting close to her or getting to know her or understand her, and she’ll continue to attract unsavory individuals who are not healthy and WILL use, abuse and hurt her.
Amazingly this was precisely how my last marriage was. He left me in my darkest place and we are now divorced. He is in “regret”. He is engaged to another woman and telling me he still loves me and I’m the one who makes him happy.
I needed to hear this. Thank you. 💛 It’s my ex husband who I just saw again because he did surgery on my eyes. Painful to go back and feel his boundaries and inability to open up.
Honestly, some connections need to be walked away from. Our wants matter. But the need is about literally preserving what’s left of your life. Please Taurus’ I know it’s hard to let go. But consider what you could be walking towards. More than what you’re walking away from.
I couldn't agree more :)
Thank you. I needed to read that. I have chosen to walk away with my 1 year old twins in order for them to have a happy life. ❤️
Had to walk away myself . Had friends tell me I most likely dodged a bullet. It sucked , but I know deep down , long term, it's for the best. Some ppl just aren't where ur at and that's ok. But to sacrifice self, get nothing in return, and deal with such an emotional deficit isn't healthy .
Thankyou Gabriel, I needed to hear this.Very accurate reading ❤
It's insane how accurate this is 😮 Thank you, I feel like this was a personal reading, and you've seen me. ❤
100% accurate for me. Masks, carrying everything, words no action...hard lessons learned after 15 years together and a child, but I'm building myself into a version that never really existed before, and my energy goes towards me and my daughter now.
Spot on for me and this Virgo man good lord! There is some good bones, and support from him, but the emotional walls and hot n cold is hard!
The truth hurts sometimes. Thank you for the messages. Resonates 110%. Love and Light to you❤️🙏
Excellent reading....what you have detailed is exactly what I have experienced in this relationship... the empathy and the over- giving and the lack of reciprocity.
Thank you for your insight ❤
Thank you 💜 🙏
You described my situation perfectly, and it makes me sad because I wish my Gemini ♊️ friend would have the courage to let her guard down and allow me to show her that she IS safe with me, that she IS safe to be vulnerable with me, and that not all men are out to get her, use her, abandon her, etc.
I know deep down she is not a bad person, and that she is basically in “survival mode” because of all her past traumas and the way she may have been raised by her parents or been treated by past men in her life.
I know that it is NOT my job or my responsibility to heal her or rescue her. I know that.
I know that she has to, at some point, be willing to find the courage to get into therapy, or see an EFT practitioner, or EMDR practitioner, or someone who is trauma informed, and work on healing her past traumas and wounds. I think it’s what you said, she is not self-aware or isn’t as self-aware as she needs to be.
Without any healing she will continue to perpetuate the cycle of keeping people from getting close to her or getting to know her or understand her, and she’ll continue to attract unsavory individuals who are not healthy and WILL use, abuse and hurt her.
Thanks Gabrielle for the reading.
Cheers
So true for me in this reading. The few relationships Ive had, theyve all been takers.
Amazingly this was precisely how my last marriage was. He left me in my darkest place and we are now divorced. He is in “regret”. He is engaged to another woman and telling me he still loves me and I’m the one who makes him happy.
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I needed to hear this. Thank you. 💛 It’s my ex husband who I just saw again because he did surgery on my eyes. Painful to go back and feel his boundaries and inability to open up.
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