One hint: Most people who are bad at talking "to people" are also bad at talking to themselves. Try to do more focused self-talk. In your head or even loud. Listen to yourself. Listen to what you wanna say to yourself. Notice how probably your thoughts are confusing each other and how hard it may be to say some things anyway - especially when you just feel or "see" them. The best way to talk to people is by learning "think by talking". If you have a very visualized and/or abstract working brain you are used to think in visuals or even abstract concepts. You can learn to think more often in talked talnguage. I have a very audio focused brain. 99% of my thoughts are like audio sound as talked voice already in my brain. So when I think I already talk and therefor its easy for me to talk to myself... and after I learned to focus on a topic it was really easy for me to talk to other people. Btw... I work at a customer support at the phone and talk to people all the time. Even if you are very visual focused you can learn a bit more using the voice already in your head. Maybe you try it. Anyway - wish you all the the best.
That painting is beautiful. Don’t be too hard on yourself bro.
Dude this is the coolest video I've seen this year
Cool t shirt and painting. Please make more vids CJ
One hint: Most people who are bad at talking "to people" are also bad at talking to themselves. Try to do more focused self-talk. In your head or even loud. Listen to yourself. Listen to what you wanna say to yourself. Notice how probably your thoughts are confusing each other and how hard it may be to say some things anyway - especially when you just feel or "see" them.
The best way to talk to people is by learning "think by talking".
If you have a very visualized and/or abstract working brain you are used to think in visuals or even abstract concepts. You can learn to think more often in talked talnguage.
I have a very audio focused brain. 99% of my thoughts are like audio sound as talked voice already in my brain. So when I think I already talk and therefor its easy for me to talk to myself... and after I learned to focus on a topic it was really easy for me to talk to other people. Btw... I work at a customer support at the phone and talk to people all the time.
Even if you are very visual focused you can learn a bit more using the voice already in your head.
Maybe you try it.
Anyway - wish you all the the best.
nice video man
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