Helping Me Cope [M4F][Boyfriend][Reverse Comfort][Sad][Crying][Roleplay][ASMR]

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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2024

Комментарии • 95

  • @sylassova3467
    @sylassova3467 4 года назад +83

    don’t cry don’t cry don’t cry don’t cry don’t cry don’t cry don’t cry don’t cry........ **i cried**

  • @cystslayer587
    @cystslayer587 4 года назад +210

    It hits right in the feels! My grandmother had dementia, and so I can relate to this. It hits deeply, and the raw emotion is just perfect

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +53

      I'm sorry to hear you had to go through this too.

    • @TempyBeanie
      @TempyBeanie 3 года назад +9

      @@fictionalfriend1844 WAIT YOU ACTUALLY WENT THROUGH THIS?! omg I'm so sorry 😞

    • @Lena-tp5jk
      @Lena-tp5jk 3 года назад +4

      My grandfather too he lives with us currently and at times I can’t believe that it’s true, his other children don’t believe it and had accused him of faking it must be so hard for him to lose a piece of himself every passing hour 💔

    • @natureschild8550
      @natureschild8550 3 года назад +4

      Same thing

  • @itsjustme6917
    @itsjustme6917 4 года назад +217

    This made me cry, my papa had dementia and he didn't remember anyone or anything, he went mute, he passed away on 29.1.2020. 💔

    • @MaddieBullock
      @MaddieBullock 4 года назад +11

      I’m so sorry for your loss 😭

    • @itsjustme6917
      @itsjustme6917 4 года назад +8

      @@MaddieBullock It's okay, he is in a better place now.

    • @simply_roe
      @simply_roe 4 года назад +12

      He died on my brother's birthday. I felt something that day anyway. I cried because someone had died. J never knew. I'm sorry for your loss i wish you all the best in life.

    • @itsjustme6917
      @itsjustme6917 4 года назад +5

      @@simply_roe He is in a better place now. 💕

    • @xxpandawolfxxm1945
      @xxpandawolfxxm1945 4 года назад +4

      Omg I’m so sorry to hear that

  • @meggyboo98
    @meggyboo98 4 года назад +61

    I lost my grandmother, my Nanna, to Alzheimer's a year ago. We were so close. She was a second parent to me when my Dad died. We had to watch her waste away for 5 long years before she finally passed. It's something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. It's a level of pain I never knew existed. They just fall apart from the inside out and they don't even know it's happening. She was gripping my hand so tightly when she died. I think maybe she knew then.

  • @Sara-ym3pd
    @Sara-ym3pd 4 года назад +14

    Omg the way he cried broke my heart 😞 I felt very bad for him I wanted to hug him

  • @KZebrastripes
    @KZebrastripes 4 года назад +3

    as a caregiver for alzheimer’s and dementia residents it is one of the hardest things to watch, them getting worse, and more confused, we try our hardest to help them maintain things that made them who they were, it takes a village. even i have had to go have alot of cries in a break room. *hugs*

  • @Mary-vt7px
    @Mary-vt7px 4 года назад +6

    I can understand the pain.
    Finding out a loved one is sick is the worst. It hurts when you know there is nothing you can do and you want to help sooo badly. That helplessness eats away at you.
    Sending hugs, sounds like this one really took it out of you. You put your heart and soul in your work and it shows. ❤❤

  • @isabellapearson2071
    @isabellapearson2071 4 года назад +20

    So my grandmother has Dementia as well, and this literally made me cry a bit... Usually I don't like to go see my grandmother anymore bc I know that she doesn't know who I am anymore. She used to have a garden full of Veggies and Fruits and I was always allowed to have some of it. I loved my grandmother and I still do! Sorry for rambling, this was just a stab in the heart (not badly meant) it just hit hard.. have a great day or night! ❤️ (Sorry for rambling)

  • @sherrymerrill6317
    @sherrymerrill6317 4 года назад +24

    I went through this. 🤗 hugs

  • @arigato7566
    @arigato7566 4 года назад +83

    bro whAT??? YOU ONLY HAVE 90+ SUBSCRIBERS???? BRO
    i love your voice!!! you deserve so much more recognition!!!

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +31

      Thank you! I'm glad you're listening. TBH the numbers don't really matter that much to me but comments like these totally do!

    • @billiesueham3772
      @billiesueham3772 4 года назад +2

      Aww this is so sad, my grandmother had dementia

  • @devonheart1029
    @devonheart1029 4 года назад +39

    If you know the feeling of never growing up or Autism meltdown/breakdown/anxiety/stress, could you please do a comfort ASMR roleplay? Be sure to put in long hugs. My birthday is next week Tuesday, I'd also like a shout out?

  • @Sofia-zq4cy
    @Sofia-zq4cy 4 года назад +25

    You’re so underrated 🥺💕

  • @cherrybubbles3430
    @cherrybubbles3430 4 года назад +12

    I started crying as soon as you mentioned dementia, my greatgrandad had lost his life to dementia a few years ago but I still really miss him. I send all the love, cuddles and warm hugs I can give

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +5

      I will always accept your love, cuddles and hugs. I do insist on sending you some of mine back though ♥️

    • @cherrybubbles3430
      @cherrybubbles3430 4 года назад +3

      @Fictional Friend I’m not worthy of such things ❤️

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +4

      @@cherrybubbles3430 I promise I'm just some guy that makes recordings lol. Everyone deserves hugs though.

    • @mamma_mia_nerd1804
      @mamma_mia_nerd1804 4 года назад +2

      @@cherrybubbles3430 First off, I love your profile picture. Second, I shall give you hugs anyways.

    • @cherrybubbles3430
      @cherrybubbles3430 4 года назад +1

      @Emilee Hadley 🥺 thank you 💗✨

  • @_Catamari_
    @_Catamari_ 4 года назад +9

    I started crying, I just wanted too give you a big ol hug. It must be hard.

  • @Justmydailyproblems
    @Justmydailyproblems 4 года назад +25

    Wow I'm speechless! You have did an amazing job and if you are going trough this I wish you and your grandma all the best!!! Have a nice day :)

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +12

      Thank you! I just tried to keep it together while recording this knowing about how well that was going to go...

  • @annamariakuti8103
    @annamariakuti8103 4 года назад +45

    I'm actually crying right now, because my grandma had something like this, not dementia, but it was very close to it. It's hard to say something after this. Um, I... I don't know what to say, this hit different than any other audio I heard. Um, I... It was very emotional and um, yeah. You deserve much more subscribers! (I'm happy that I found your channel). ❤️

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +9

      I'm sorry to hear you've had to go through something like this. It's definitely not easy. Thank you for listening and letting me know how my audio made you feel.

    • @annamariakuti8103
      @annamariakuti8103 4 года назад +3

      @@fictionalfriend1844 Well, thank you, that you're doing this and I hope that everything is alright with you! If you have a hard time than please remember that we, who follows your work, we are love you and support you!

  • @sydneywadsworth9149
    @sydneywadsworth9149 4 года назад +38

    This hit so hard I had a grandma that it started the same way u described it then we put he in a home were they took great care of her and she always confused me for my mom and it was hard I'm sorry if your actually going through this and I know it gets better but I'm not going to lie it's hard but I hope u make it through this and I wish u my best

  • @immkenisha
    @immkenisha 4 года назад +5

    my great grandmother has dementia and it was honestly hard to see. i haven’t seen her in like a year maybe two but it hurt a lot. she use to take care of me sometimes and i would go over her house on the weekends. when she didn’t recognize me or my niece it hurt my whole heart and i wanted to cry. at first we didn’t understand bc she would ALWAYS take care of us🥺. i miss her a lot.

  • @leena5262
    @leena5262 4 года назад +6

    This is so heartbreaking! I’ve never wanted to be there for someone this bad! You deserve WAY MORE views. I love you! 🥺❤️

  • @foehnalv3043
    @foehnalv3043 4 года назад +8

    I really like your voice! It's rare to find this quality of reverse comfort videos, this one feels so real and you did an amazing job with your voice acting 💕 Keep it up, you absolutely earned a new subscriber :)

  • @mamma_mia_nerd1804
    @mamma_mia_nerd1804 4 года назад +13

    That moment when my allergies are so bad, my sniffs sound like Fictional's. I found your channel just this morning and I already love it. Keep up the good work!

  • @carlywatkins9389
    @carlywatkins9389 4 года назад +14

    I’m new to your channel! Aww this was heartbreaking felt so real, you did an amazing job with it! If your going through this I’m really sorry hope you’re ok and will accept a hug

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +9

      Hugs are always appreciated. Yea this is pretty much the real life situation, I am ok though. Thank you for listening ❤️

    • @carlywatkins9389
      @carlywatkins9389 4 года назад +5

      Aww bless you! I’m glad you’re doing ok! Of course! They r lovely to listen too and thank you for replying 🙂

  • @jas-sq8yz
    @jas-sq8yz 4 года назад +24

    my grandma had dementia and when she passed i was so hurt

  • @Thecatcottegewitch
    @Thecatcottegewitch 3 года назад +1

    This came out on the day my grandma passed away from dementia. I haven't been able to listen until now. This was incredibly well done. Thank you so much for making this. You are incredibly talented and this video is so touching in so many ways. Thank you

  • @mommyaj53
    @mommyaj53 4 года назад +5

    I literally cried during this video I just wanna hug you dude 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜💜❤️❤️💜💜❤️

  • @emmaparkinson3503
    @emmaparkinson3503 4 года назад +5

    Dementia runs in my family, both my grandmas had it, my grandpas have it and my dad has it, I think my mom has it but we don’t know for sure she’s always been forgetful so I understand this way to well

  • @iris_1.029
    @iris_1.029 3 года назад +2

    Men should be able to cry and express other emotions other than happiness and anger. I’m happy a few asmr creators are brave enough to make content like this.
    To anyone who has lost a loved one due to the virus or a disease... your friends, family, and **some** teachers are willing to help you through it. And so am I 💖💖💖

  • @MaddieBullock
    @MaddieBullock 4 года назад +4

    My d-daddy has dementia and this was posted the day after my birthday. You were right on when you mentioned the selfishness and guilt, God help me, but I pray it doesn’t happen to me. He started showing signs when I was around 12 and now I’m 23, he also had 9 concussions while playing college football and I’m not saying this to take away from anyone else’s journey with this, but because of the brain damage it’s really hard for him to follow simple commands ... He can be so sweet and goofy some days and others he’s just crabby and it really takes on my Nana who isn’t going to get any kind of help with him any time soon. I can’t imagine what it’s like for her. Please pray for us 😭

  • @wc350
    @wc350 4 года назад +5

    This hits hard...

  • @JournalGingerbreadcookies
    @JournalGingerbreadcookies 3 года назад +2

    Hugs and back rubs
    Guys have feelings too people forget

  • @pastandpresent3182
    @pastandpresent3182 4 года назад +13

    Felt very natural. And hoping to see more valuable content and longer and episodic ones. Loads of love

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +7

      Ohh, I hadn't even thought about doing a series type thing for some reason. I'm interested in doing longer ones, but I also hugely value suggestions, so don't be afraid to speak up if you want something specific.

  • @paigee5078
    @paigee5078 3 года назад

    My grandma is slowly developing dementia and it's really hard seeing her get so depressed and mad at herself for forgetting. It's such a hard thing to go through, love to anyone out there with someone suffering from anything like this

  • @georgiea4056
    @georgiea4056 3 года назад +2

    All boys/boyfriends think they need to be strong in-front of their friends/girlfriend/partner well let me tell all u guys something.....
    If your girlfriend/partner, loves/likes you they want you to open up to them. Never keep it in NEVER 👎🏻 it’s not good for you never keep something from your friends or anyone close to you. Do be ashamed We WILL love ❤️ you for you no matter what. I went though this once and nearly well it went horribly wrong and then I talk to my BFF 👯‍♂️ and she helped me so so much so always talk to someone.

  • @ciscoatthedisco5095
    @ciscoatthedisco5095 4 года назад +3

    Sending so much love. My grandma has dementia also. 💜

  • @evie1406
    @evie1406 3 года назад +2

    anyone who is crying or upset and came to the comments for comfort
    have a teddy bear and a juice box🧃🧸 you're doing great i love you and I'm so proud of you have a good day:)

  • @shaym4306
    @shaym4306 4 года назад

    This was really sad but really beautiful too :(

  • @sthefanys2739
    @sthefanys2739 4 года назад +4

    First video I see of your channel and now I have to subscribe. Gosh that make me cry, awesome video, please do more reverse comfort your amazing at it!!

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +4

      I'm definitely going to! I'm sure this one will stay special though, it had a lot of emotions attached.

    • @sthefanys2739
      @sthefanys2739 4 года назад +2

      @@fictionalfriend1844 You were definitely able to make us feel that, amazing work! Hope everything is okay sweet heart 💜

  • @alexthewild_flower
    @alexthewild_flower 4 года назад +2

    This year back in March I lost my grandmother. I hadn't seen her for a long time before she passed. So, I know it's hard.

  • @prarthanadev3034
    @prarthanadev3034 4 года назад +2

    This was sooo good!
    I need more like this 💕💕💕

  • @Akirenka1982
    @Akirenka1982 6 месяцев назад

    Its so sad, Im so sorry dear.

  • @demienbious
    @demienbious Год назад

    C'mon OT, it's always fun having having Jamie and Click

  • @thegirlygamer0624
    @thegirlygamer0624 3 года назад

    I cried with you... My grandma died two years ago because if dementia. This hit me so hard and I felt the pain. It's such a hard thing to deal with...

  • @idkwndyy
    @idkwndyy 2 года назад

    Hey, are you aright? This audio sounds extremely realistic, I hope your doing amazing, and remember to drink water and get in at least 2 meals and a snack a day! Thank you for posting :)

  • @peanutbutter9549
    @peanutbutter9549 4 года назад +6

    the bio 😞

  • @jessek1629
    @jessek1629 3 года назад

    I work at a home so seeing some of my residents going thru dementia breaks my heart especially when they get to the point that they don’t recognize their families

  • @bowen7179
    @bowen7179 4 года назад +2

    HOLY FUCKING SHIT.
    *i am SORRY for the curse words, but my grandma, who has already died, has dementia, it was pretty bad, I never really got to meet her before it, but now my aunt has dementia, it’s also getting bad, and we don’t know what to do, so it just kinda..popped out at me when he was talking about that subject..*

  • @JournalGingerbreadcookies
    @JournalGingerbreadcookies 2 года назад +1

    Guys who show emotional side are stronger

  • @negarella_
    @negarella_ 4 года назад +2

    I loved it... ♥

  • @Abs0408
    @Abs0408 3 года назад +2

    I lost both of my grandparents to blood related incidents. I am anemic like my grandmother was and that’s why she died. I’ve always known that but-
    This shit hit different.

  • @soobert
    @soobert 4 года назад +6

    it was so hard to watch this-

  • @user-jj4hb7be5g
    @user-jj4hb7be5g 4 года назад +2

    You are just like me...

  • @mobileGstar178
    @mobileGstar178 4 года назад +4

    Ok we need you mint maplewood and defrosted to doba collaboration it would be so great

  • @evie1406
    @evie1406 3 года назад

    you're super underrated and super talented keep doing what you're doing cause it's amazing:)

  • @shawnamccall6973
    @shawnamccall6973 3 года назад

    This may sound heartless but my grandma dead so I understand why people would be sad about anyone in their family dealing with stuff like dementia or any type of sickness🥺 I hope she gets better ❤️

  • @EclecticallyEccentric
    @EclecticallyEccentric Год назад

    I hope you're doing okay, sweetheart.

  • @gannaamgad6336
    @gannaamgad6336 4 года назад +3

    oh its sad alright

  • @TempyBeanie
    @TempyBeanie 3 года назад

    I'm so sorry 🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @diligentsmile1213
    @diligentsmile1213 4 года назад +3

    Would you ever do m4m tho

    • @fictionalfriend1844
      @fictionalfriend1844  4 года назад +7

      I'm not opposed to the idea. It might be more challenging and I'd probably need to find a good script rather than write one, but if it's what you all want to hear I'm open to it :)

  • @saraalmutairi1513
    @saraalmutairi1513 3 года назад +1

    Can I hug you?

  • @Reebs6.6.6
    @Reebs6.6.6 4 года назад +3

    🥰💔😭👌👍👍👍👍👍🤘🤘

  • @TempyBeanie
    @TempyBeanie 3 года назад

    🥺💔