Pamela Anderson Exposes Hollywood and Men: How She Survived
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The 90's "IT" girl, Pamela Anderson has recently released her memoir "Love, Pamela" where she details her traumatic childhood, upbringing, and history with men. Dubbed "Hollywood's Blonde Bombshell", Pamela Anderson has had her fair share of toxic relationships. In this video we will take a deep look into Pamela's life and her long road to self-love.
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Everyone thinks beauty makes for an easy life but in reality it attracts predators.
I was thinking that... being very attractive doesn't say What is attracted.
Soooo true
At least you'll want for nothing 😉
Umm… you think only beautiful people are abused? No, predators don’t care about beauty. It’s power. They just show off the beautiful victims.
Anything can attract predators.
So sad that she thinks she had “loving parents”. A father who drowns your pets in front of you is NOT a loving parent. He is a pos.
WTF?!?!?!!?? He is a MONSTER!
It makes me sad that she says that but still considers him a loving father. People change but it seems he’s more emotionally abusive now instead of being physically abusive like he used to be.
It's difficult for many wounded people to completely close the door on abusive parents. No wonder Pam works with animal rescue.
Pamela deserves what she gives...which is a whole lotta authentic love, loyalty, faithfulness, joy, affection, honesty..
Narcissists know what their doing, they know they want to control every aspect of your emotions and self, to make you self doubt your own self worth, intelligence and awareness, also to become weak and make them look stronger and better than they know themselves to be.
For an emotionally intelligent person as Pamela, ..lies, dishonesty and betrayal can and will only build a weakened strong person to become a stronger brighter aura/energy, thru sensibilities and awareness!! KIA KAHA!!! ..smiles
@@evalilith6703 that doesn't cancel out what her dad did , hes still a pos for doing that especially to a 6 year old and all cause he couldn't control his anger. Not doing that to those kittens doesn't make someone perfect , it just makes them a decent human being which he clearly is not.
The guy who said stuff about her period was disgusting. Thank you for your hard work.
You’re welcome! Thank you so much for watching ❤️
Howard Stern.
@@user-bh2fz5sf5e he's awful. Thank you for the name.
@*(h3/$3@* He needs to be held to task for his disgusting behavior back then too.
Howard Stern is a disgusting human being
I have no idea how Howard Stern hasn't been cancelled. You could compile thousands of clips of him harrassing women, making disgusting comments. The stuff he said about her periods, is straight P3do talk. vile.
His comment about losing virginity before she got her period…he’s absolutely vile. Total pedo.
I agree. Absolutely unacceptable and disgusting!
The way he went on and on, like he was actually getting aroused while talking about that........
Soooool f**kin disgusting!
Literally turned my stomach! 😟🤢🤮
Howard has apologized for he's past boorish behavior.
@@terrytari1891 don't care.
He's not the least bit sorry or remorseful
Howard stern is so gross. He was such a creep to her during those interviews. I feel so bad for her.
those comments were fucking disgusting
He is a creep to tons of people. Why people like him is beyond me
She knew what Stern was then/now about and still goes on his show even now.
@Spanish Eyes true. I don't feel sorry for people who knowingly do that. They just help promote him.
He's so disgusting!!
Her father drowned the kittens? That just pissed me off. That’s evil.
Yeah that's evil
I skipped that part, I didn't want to hear it. Very vile and disgusting act.
That’s how people would deal with it back then you didn’t got to vet and get them fixed you would just drown the kittens sad but true
@@lorimiller4301 me too. I love animals. Especially cats and kittens. What a monster her dad was
@@jenwo8952 Yeah, unfortunately people of older generations didn't seem to care that much about animals, my grandma would talk about how they got rid of unwanted kittens on their farm as if it's nothing, I found that very disturbing.
It’s so depressing to hear a young Pamela talk about how she was a “button pusher” and kind of internalize her abuse as something she deserved. Nothing she could’ve done would warrant beatings from the men who were supposed to love & protect her.
Ugh, I know 😩
Bull135 all the time or 4bu53r5 all the time try to make the v1ct1m to take responsibility for their actions. I know because of my own experience.
When I was younger and entered the workforce I was very bull13d by co workers or bosses. I never heard that this can happen I feelt very alone and had a strong need to speak about it, maybe that someone would tell me if this is common or what is happening?
Well it only got worse when I opened my mouth about the 4bu53, people could tell me it has to be something wrong with me! This lead to years of 5uff3r1ng for me analysing if I really did something to deserve this. Did I really do something that triggered this response to me. I remeber I did not know how to get answers to my questions because I can't read minds of people, why they did this to me?
After long process ot thinking about this and reading a self help book that supported my thoughts. I'm only responsible for my actions, not others. I can only control myself not others. I have to admit I'm scared of people and working.. I had many jobs most of them have been b4d. So I was going to enter a program for rehabillitating work, well it's work but less hours and you don't get really paid, unemployment benefits and a little sum every day.
The man who were supposed to help me get this type of job in my city was also a v1ct1mbl4m3r. It was like a trial entering h15 office. Tried to bl4m35h1ft all the time, trying to make me take responsibility. Going through this before I stood my ground however I did not enter the program because I refused to see h1m again. 4bu53rs want you take responsibility so they can 35c4l4t3 the situation and also because if you believe their nonsense you will kind of h4rm yourself with your thoughts. I hope it makes sense. Never accept responsibility for what others choose to do!!!
amen
Wow, this is somewhat sadly reliable. Growing in the late 90s to early 2000s I remember fantasizing about Pamela Anderson. Only after that I just entirely forgot about Pamela Anderson with other distraction from the Hollywood media.
This goes deep when we as consumers buy a subjective story and never think beyond the surface because we would automatically think that most celebrates live "happily ever after"
Part of childhood abuse is it feels like home. It can be really difficult to not go for those who will mirror and recreate those similar dynamics, to be objective in love when you want what isn't good for you.
The more I learn about Pamela, the more I admire, pity, and respect her. What a complex, wounded, strong, vulnerable, beautiful, flawed, inspiring person she is! I simultaneously want to be her best friend and her mother, if that makes sense. I hope she has or does find peace in herself. She deserves it.
You'd be very surprised about Heather. Ask Denise Richardson. She's not the nice guy she plays on television.
@Lori Miller exactly. Tommy was engaged to Bobbie Brown, until Pam stepped in.
@@roxannemoser was looking for this. Cause Pam and Bobbi were friends. She introduced them. Bobbi was engaged to Tommy
I agree
@@newjackcity7862 oh grow up. What are we 5? Tommy is married, Heather is married. Grow up. Move on lady.
Man the interviews Pamela had to deal with throughout her career are just so cringey with how horribly misogonystic and sexualized the questions were. She really honestly did her best to survive and make the best with how the world treated her, but ugh... she didn't deserve be forced to.
Her recent documentary still broke my heart even though she seems in a lot better place. I'm just glad her sons are so supportive and can be the good men in her life she always wanted
Youre genuinely just reading my mind with the people and topics you cover! Love how respectful you are with these.
That's Howard Stern he's a horrible person.
Best documentarian on RUclips. Phenomenal journalist. It’s crazy how the messages and themes she focus on are messages and topics i need to understand in my own life sooooo often.
Aww thank you so much!! That is fantastic and I’m so glad I’ve been to cover topics/public figures that you enjoy and find interesting! It is very encouraging ❤️❤️💕💕 thank you
Ahhh that is sweet! I’m so glad covering these stories resonate and help you in whatever way that is! 💕💕
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I feel like Pam was the Marilyn Monroe of her times that actually survived Men's bullshit. She's a strong beautiful intelligent abused traumitized young woman now older, and I respect her so much for her stance on Julian Assange and her relentless support of animals 🌹🌹❤❤ And surviving what would have destroyed many in her situation
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MEN´s BULLSHIT....., and WOMEN´s, too.
As we can see, the care taker SHE HAD WAS A WOMAN, ¿was she not?
MM had her eyes on the prize as she went for famous politicians and rich men in the entertainment industry. She also married two famous guys who were on the opposite spectrum , like Di Maggio and the playwright Arthur Miller. What extremes !!!!!! Her biggest mistake was telling everyone, she was going to expose what she knew ( pillow talk ) or honey trap. She was rejected and a woman scorned. She should have kept her mouth shut !!!!!! At the end, her rejection finished her off. She had no one to blame, but herself.
Pity her… 🙄 Pamela you are almost 60 years old, Do you really want to look pathetic and thirsty like Madonna in her old age? Leave that industry alone and thank your lucky stars they don’t want you anymore! I’m so serious, if you ever had a friend they would tell you the real raw truth! I’m telling you as that friend that you obviously do not have. If you did then you would not have went this far, you would stop acting thirsty for attention from that industry. You should be GROSSED out especially KNOWING what “they” truly are and you KNOW exactly what I am saying. 👿
You wrote your book, you made these videos. Enough is Enough already. Move on with your life Pam. Enjoy your kids, grandkids, you are a grandma be proud of that! If you miss doing things publicly, may I suggest the BEST thing that you could ever do? Seek The Lord Jesus Christ while HE can still be found. Time is short, I do not know where your faith is but I can assure you that you do not want left behind. If you want anyone to fill that hole in your heart, to fill that void in your life, it can only be ONE and His name is above ALL names Jesus Christ. I am telling you this as HIS beloved daughter. I am not perfect no one is but I serve a perfect GOD. You will feel a love like no other when you seek The Lord. I pray you do and that your life is changed, the old is gone let the new arrive in Jesus Christ Holy Powerful Name Amen and Amen. Something for you to soulfully search. Besides, the world does not care about you. They truly do not. Hollyweird makes you think that the world cares we do not care about them nor anyone in that evil demonic industry. Be happy that you are far away from them. I pray for you to have a relationship with Christ. Amen
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@@linanicolia1363 Look deeper before you judge someone with such a complicated life experience.
Her ability to remain optimistic despite all of the tragedies she has endured is very inspiring. She’s not oblivious to the negativity’s of life but she still chooses to romanticize the beauty we have here. I relate to her a lot in that sense.
I've had so much respect and love for her Pam after watching her documentary. Honestly, I used to brush her off and didn't care much for her mostly because of how she was portrayed in the media. How her sex tape was stolen and leaked was an absolute mightmare and didn't deserve it yet she's lumped up with people like Kim Kardashian when it comes to the whole sex tape thing which is unfair because unlike her Kim leaked her own sextape with the help.of her own mom 😨😨 . I wish Pam all the happiness and peace.
Thats not beauty , its ALL PLASTIC!!
@@crivket1233did you even read the comment?😂
@@crivket1233🤡
One strong lady who could smile through all the abuse and hardships.
One thing that stands out through this whole video, is how everyone cuts her off and doesn’t let her speak.
Yes I noticed that too, it made me wonder if that is why she talks so fast, out of fear of being cut off she tries to hurry up and finish her thoughts/sentence before they cut her off again? Good observation you made
It was so annoying because I wanted to hear the rest of what she had to say.
I didn't even notice that. Thank you for pointing it out.
@@betheecommentator That's been my exact experience as a girl in an abusive, Christian family. It's still hard as an adult to finish my thoughts out loud.
@@acegikm oh I’m so sorry to hear that! I hope you are doing well, wishing you all the best 💗💗
My father went to highschool with Pamela, he said that she was an extremely quiet polite girl and he was so surprized when she became a sex symbol. I hope she's so happy
I hate how she blamed herself for her abuse basically 😢
Basically the child , young that she was, was taken advantage of. Called powerlessness. People with abuse the motive, because cunning and corrupted.
Back then people didn’t talk about stuff like that. We didn’t have the internet and access to look up if what’s happening is normal or not. When I was SA’d as a child in the 80’s my mom actually told me to not tell anyone. Then when it happened again (3 more times) I told no one because I thought that’s how you deal with it. I thought I must have instigated it somehow. It wasn’t until the late 90’s and I was in my 20’s that I realized how f’d up it was. It’s not easy undoing years of damage.
Thank you for saying that, I feel the same and find it so sad. 😢It ain't right!
What makes Pamela's story exceptionally sad is the number of women who can relate to her life, whether through their own experience or having close friends or family that have gone through the same thing. So many children get broken down by abuse and struggle as adults to get healthy. I'm glad she's seeking healing and found purpose in charitable causes.
You are right she's such a remarkable woman
You’re exactly right!! I relate to her and have my own history!! And there’s a battle with yourself for years as a result!! And then you heal!
She absolutely made the right choice in leaving Tommy. I have so much respect for her. She did the best thing for her children and she is very courageous
I agree after watching her documentary and really seeing/learning what had happened…
I wonder how she ultimately got away from him.
I gained so much respect for her seeing how she saw the darkness coming (when he attacked) and bowed out, even though she loved him.
youth is for learning. Fame is not what it promises.
She never should have married him. She stayed with him too long. It's great her sons are good to her. That is very important and maybe the best job she accomplished, to raise nice guys ! Respect for that !
The narrative from these male interviewers, that she was “being a drag” for leaving Tommy when he was drunk and holding their baby, is gross. And she keeps trying to correct the narrative, and the interviewer keeps empathizing with Tommy because he “can’t even have one drink”. It’s maddening
I completely agree. I was shocked by how often these interviewers kept cutting her off, that must’ve been so frustrating.
@@betheecommentator I really can’t shake the feeling that a conventionally attractive woman can be seen as low worth while someone else who’s seen as “unattractive” can also be seen as low worth, when it’s really these guys around these women treating them badly who are low worth, yet they’re the ones with a respect and their opinions hold weight with the public. It’s really infuriating
@@ShailaBano 🎯
I'm having a hard time even watching the whole video because of that... I hope we've learned something, but i dunno...
@@florencehenderson3707 I think we do it in different ways now, but there’s still an attempt to weaponize women just existing against them
A man pushes her out of a moving car and she's blaming herself
This is unacceptable
She's still unhealed.
Terry Johnson, a "boyfriend" at the time...pushed me out of his truck in front of my father. My father simply walked away. A mormon father who always tried to befriend those unworthy of his time...but wanted to fit in.
@@l.ellei.sorensen4121 I'm so sorry your father did that to you. That's not right.
Blonde Logic 🤷🏽♂😂
She was already blonde by then, wasn't she? 🤣
Pamela, a lot of people have been through what you have and not survived. Thank you for being a survivor and sharing your story.
“Forgiveness is a big thing.” What a brave and kind woman.
Another in depth look at a complex subject done sensitively. I was 13 when she posed in Playboy and unless you watched it happen in real time you can’t imagine the media coverage on her at the beginning of the internet age. Watching Hollywood’s treatment of her was very impactful for me as a young woman. The public didn’t want her to se sensitive, or insightful, or smart and kept trying to force her into a mold based on her appearance. Thank you for covering this topic so thoughtfully.
Thank you so much for watching! I really appreciate your feedback and support. I was much too young when she did playboy but I do remember her in the 90s, whenever I watched Baywatch.
I’m glad we covered her story as I feel it is so current and relevant today! Again, thank you for watching
There is a 3 month age difference between me and Pam. In real time....I always felt she looked as if she was walking around in a haze almost like a stupor, with all these men taking advantage of her. I never got that she was a bad person herself, just bad choices. I remembering hoping Kidd Rock would be good to her. He seemed like a better guy than Tommy. Apparently only a small improvement
that's so true, they were always trying to make her into what THEY wanted through their instrusive questions, they tried to pin a certain image on her... just looking like she did, they thought she somehow didn't deserve basic respect and I think a lot of people fell for that. I'm sure she had trouble asserting boundaries and they took complete advantage of that. She tried to handle it gracefully but that's not how these people work...
@@florencehenderson3707 You are so right about all of it.
That Howard Stern interview... jesus, that is so creepy! "You hadn't had your period? That is sooo sexy, that is just the best!" Like.. what the F?!
😳😳right?!
disgusting, isn't it?!
The thing I admire most about Pam is her willingness to be accountable and take responsibility. So few people seem to be doing that in this current culture of Narcissism. She's a brave, badass woman, who knows what she believes in and isn't afraid to admit her mistakes. Whoever woulda thunk it back in the day when we thought she was bubble headed?
Plus she is a smart woman and a great mom too!
I'm so impressed by Pamela's openness and honesty. So much pain in her childhood, yet valiant and resilient as a full grown adult. She's done more work on herself than most people and young women can learn so much from her sharing of her wealth of experience. Good for you, Pamela. You go, girl!
I think women also like her for her genuinely good nature.
@@happystarhappystar1477 yes after all she’s been through she is still kind and not bitter
I agree she is a fantastic soul ..she is simply organic
Shes a beautiful soul❤
And we don’t begin to realize that our childhood has so much to do with our outcome as adults especially when it comes to handling relationships, it’s too bad we realize when it’s too damn late
Such a very good point! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!
You are right 💯
I believe all drug abusers were abused in childhood. Unfortunately some don't even remember it or are in denial. All they know is the pain they constantly feel.
You nail it✨💯👍 when you still got some hope left and you want to work for the change, it's not too late. But sometimes life wears us out like you just need to pause realising no amount of therapy will fix it though...
It takes a lot hard work in therapy to recover from childhood abuse but its the only way to keep living is trying to heal - its what saved me from wanting to end it all - therapy and God is what saved my life- i’ve had to spend most of my adult life recovering which explains why i’ve been alone for most of my adult life trying to heal - now that i have i’m ready to go to grad school and become a therapist and help other people
Tommy trying to down play what he did to Pamela and Dylan is disgusting, he was jealous of the fact she was being a mother to her boys.
It’s interesting to hear her at her current age her parents are madly in love today but she remembers how verbal and physically abusive her father was to her mother….he killed animals as punishment…he was abusive to her as a child….are they madly in love or is she just beaten into submission?
Also, Howard stern needs to be in prison…for a variety of reasons
Ya! Wtf was his comment about her being so feminine for not having her period at 16🤢🤕😵💫
It made no sense, not having the very thing that defines you as a woman made her more feminine. He's got demonic lust in his mind.
Omg I just am speechless. Some of the personal things this woman was asked..I’d be mortified. Just sickening. I’ve always felt for her, as a woman myself I couldn’t imagine. Smh.
Seriously this woman’s strength makes her one of my hero’s! We love you P.A.! ❤
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Howard Stern is being so gross while seeming to empathize with her pain he is obviously getting off on the horror she experienced. I don't know how she put up with it because retelling such trauma often means reliving it. My heart broke for her.
So many focused on her sexuality, it's like the only saw a vixen, sex kitten, and playmate! She endured so much. She was violated multiple times, she delt with real trauma, she overcame a lot of challenges.
Pamela is a human being. She has a heart and soul. She's loving and caring, and she is much more than a sex object, fantasy, and playmate. I wish that those interviewing her would have been more thoughtful about their questions.
I grew up during the 90s and remember her and Anna Nicole being the ones all the boys talked about. But you could tell already then in both of their eyes that something was not right. I am glad that Pamela seems to grow a little more with each year and slowly finding out the right path for herself and not ending like Anna Nicole. I did not know about the abusive father but that explains a lot about her choices in men, you either break the bad pattern or you try to fix the trauma by "fixing" someone else. Beutiful story Bee, as always! The quality of your videos are just amazing!
Oh yes, I remember Anna Nicole. So sad. Thank you for watching and providing your take on this episode and topic. I appreciate you! ❤️❤️
Anna Nicole’s story is so tragic as well. Her daughter DannieLynn looks so much like her and her dad seems to value her not being in the spotlight.
@@debbiemckeown7626 Yeah, I have so much respect for him keeping the daughter safe. A different person could easily have sold her story and her background to make money but for once, a hollywood parent prioritized their kid's wellbeing so kudos to him!
@@debbiemckeown7626absolutely 💯 I commend Larry Birkhead for keeping DanniLynn out of the spotlight. I remember watching Anna's entire death court case and then the paternity fight. I was so thankful Larry was the father.
Yes. She’s so inspirational isn’t she that she seems to be choosing the right path more for her souls healing each year.
I JUST finished her book (in 2 days). It was SO good and showed how incredibly intelligent she is, how much she does for the less fortunate, animals, and the environment. She is beauty and brains.
I’m reading her book now and nearing the end of it of course I wish it wasn’t almost finished as I just love reading what she has written. Her honesty is a Blessing for herself and for women whom had also suffered similar incidents. She is bold and extremely brave love her ! ❤️🙏
Wow, I had no idea the stuff she's been through. And to come through the end of it still seeming so positive and kind... just wow! Thank you for covering so well :)
I know me either, I had no idea. I hope her story can help anyone out there! Thank you for watching as well as your feedback ❤️
And she is SO intelligent! You should read her book that was just released. It shows how much she has done for the less fortunate, environment, and animal rights. Her and her boys even took a class on how to save animals that were on the shore since they lived on the ocean. For Mother's Day, she would ask her boys to take her to art museums (as much for her boys to expand their minds as it was for her enjoyment). For her birthday, she would ask them to take her to feed the homeless. She used no ghost writers. She is brilliant and a beautiful soul with a painful past she works through daily using meditation, religion, and therapists.
I dont think women need men to be happy but i am rooting for her to meet someone kind and nurturing
Her concept of "KINDNESS AND NURTURING?" Is her purse, wallet, and bank account full of CASH. She has to pay for the maintenance to maintain all the fake equipment she's installed in her plastic Barbiedoll body.
Pamela went through it, she’s so gentle and feminine and I cringed by the men she dated and those interviewing her. I definitely experienced my father killing an animal in front of me and how that can psychologically effect your mind as a child.
That is so awful:( I’m so sorry
I'm so sorry :(
During the interview that Tommy Lee gave after he got out of jail, the way he tried to throw Pamela under the bus by claiming that she swung back at him while she was holding their child, WOW. He beat her while she was holding a child and he went to jail for it yet he is trying to save face in someway in this interview - just WOW. Disgusting. It’s called self-defense.
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He never said he was sorry the whole interview was 'I, I, I' what a POS.
Thank you so much. Pamela deserves so much more respect than she gets. She is three years younger than I am. Listening to this from the perspective of growing up in the same time period is very interesting. She went through so much but shockingly so much of what she experienced was “just how it was”.
I’m watching this through the lens of 2023. It’s downright scary how bad things were. I know everyone thinks things are bad now but imagine living in a time when YOU, as a woman, didn’t even realize what you were experiencing was wrong.
It’s crazy how much I have changed. How much the world has changed. So much has changed but we still have a long way to go.
Keep up the good work!
Thank you again ❤
Love this comment!! Thank you so much for watching and sharing your thoughts on her story and this topic!
Love you, I find it fascinating to re-visit issues/hot topics through the lens of our current time and standards. It is absolutely fascinating.
Again, your comment means so much! Thank you sharing ❤️❤️
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You’ve only gotten better ❤️
@@butterbeanqueen8148 what?! No way?! That is SO sweet!!! I’m so glad my channel was able to come across both your lives and that both enjoy it. Please tell your daughter, I said hi 👋 and thanks for her support ❤️❤️😊
Dont forget that what Pamala was doing was wrong as well,its called birds of a feather,but they do not ever have to flock together. thanks
@@betheecommentator I wasn’t speaking about who was right or who was wrong. I was speaking about what she endured because she was a woman at that time. It wasn’t easy being a woman then with how you were treated. Things have changed dramatically. No enough. But positively going in the right direction. She was treated as an object not as a human being with feelings and a brain.
I believe Tim Allen did that to Pam. That is so sad. So glad Pamela survived all the abuse. God Bless Pam. Thank you for the video.💯☺️
You’re welcome! Thank you so much for watching ❤️❤️💕💕
how do you know it was him? Thats not fair...
You have got to be kidding as Pam totally exposed herself apparently quite a few times even permanently. None of it was what anyone should have done,if we dare to listen to what God has to say. thanks
She is so humble and nice I've actually never heard her story before I always looked up to her when I was younger. She's such a beautiful woman it makes me sad to hear all the horrible stories of things she's gone through. I believe her when she said Tim Allen's incident was only the tip of the iceberg. I can't imagine what she had to go through
And of course he isn't going to admit it. He's probably very embarrassed and will take it to his grave. Unless he has a near death experience. That often gets people to wake up and take responsibility for their actions.
It sounds like something he would think was funny.
Guys forget and think because they like to see our bits that we want to see theirs. Sorry but nope we could do without the pics. We just want it to work when it's supposed to. We don't need a sneak peek. 😁🤭
Pamela is so classy and pretty soft spoken. I feel for her because not all that glitters is gold. So many men manipulated her, took advantage of her and abused her. 😢 I'm glad she has removed herself from the toxicity of the California Hollyweird lifestyle.
It truly terrifies me how many men are jealous of their children or feel "demoted" by their mere existence. That level of arrested development in a grown man who is now in control of another human life is SCARY. I really don't have the words for how disturbing i find how normal this seems to be. It's like watching a animal eat its young. It is deeply sinister and quite honestly, pathetically delusional for a grown man who chose to bring a life into this world look at his own helpless vulnerable baby and genuinely see a worthy opponent for competition.
U a dude or a chick
It's called narcissism.
sigmund freud called this the "oedipus complex"; however some see it as junk psychology because it is not something that can be scientifically tested. maybe it enters more in the realm of philosophy.
I had a man like that. He regularly threatened to kill me
EXACTLY, it’s disgusting to say the least
Her childhood was distributing. I hope she gets the healing. I hope she stays single and learn about herself and heal. That’s a good in-depth documentary.
Thank yo so much for weighing in and sharing your thoughts ❤️
Every one of these documentaries is thorough and in-depth. This is a fantastic channel. Thank you for all your work, it's greatly appreciated. 😊
This was a really in-depth piece. Wow. Thank you for putting this together. Her life is inspiring. The fact that she openly acknowledges many of her faults flaws and struggles. She’s a whole person with so much to offer our world. I have nothing but respect and appreciation for her. Thank you ❤
Someone needs to search Howard Sterns computers. Preferably homeland security.
I grew up watching Tim Allen’s Tool Time and Baywatch. I never knew how much abuse and violence Pamela Anderson underwent. I am so glad that she finally left him when he threw her and their newborn son against a wall. I would leave my husband as well if he ever did that. She is such a wonderful mom who protected and prioritized her children first.
Yes! I respect that about her so much. She put her children first, good for her! Thanks so much for watching!!
@@betheecommentator you did an amazing job telling her story in a very respectful manner
Eww that commentary on a young woman/girl not getting her period and being sexy. Wtf
Pamela is the sweetest, most unproblematic person to have ever been in the industry. She definitely understood how people work at a very young age and this makes her wiser than ever.
It's refreshing to find channels that don't shy away from lengthy videos. Thank you so much for the work you put in!
Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it and am glad you enjoy my channel
so many people did her wrong :( howard stern you won't be seeing the pearly gates! all media exploited her and even that recent tv show... she deserves peace and i hope she finds it. pamela seems to be a wonderful woman, i always liked her. thank you for making another great video ❤️
Thank you so much love 💕
@migoreng7789 The thing I admire the most about Pamela is how much her children admire her and always there to support her! 💖💖💖💖💖
Until he believes on the name of Jesus.
@@noyb12345He’s Jewish
That’s so sad she excused his kicking her out a moving car by saying she pushed buttons. Unless she was beating the hell out of him while he was driving, he shouldn’t have touched her at all.
Agree, it’s extremely cruel and plain abuse.😔😢😔
It's not sad because she admitted what many female "victims" won't tell and I absolutely respect her for it.
You’re a disgusting person unless she started beating him he has no right to put his hands on her
i just cried through this..man it takes us until our 50's to work through so much stuff in our past...what a journey
I KNEW I liked her!! she bounced around on Bay Watch and other women called her a blonde bimbo. The tape was stolen... others called her skanky. And I had no idea why but I knew she was way more innocent than people thought. There was just always something about her that made me want to... hug her and make it all better... in a mom like way.
Ugh, as if there weren't enough reasons to hate Howard Stern
Period.
So very happy to see my favorite journalist cover one of the only intriguing things coming out of Hollywood!!! I am so glad she is finally getting her story out. Thanks for brightening my day! Love your work!
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Thank you so much for watching and being so supportive! This story is a deep one! I appreciate your support ❤️❤️
@@betheecommentator it is! I can really relate too. Not so much being a play mate but choosing to be a fierce mother at the expense of my own happiness in a romantic way. I wouldn't have it any other way. But it isn't easy being a single woman, especially a single mother. I think people assume that being attractive, automatically equals finding love, or being successful. This couldn't be farther from the truth. Appreciate your work.
I really admire her for staying positive and trying to just do good despite everything that’s happened to her. What a story 😢 and the interviews, yikes. A lot of those questions would never fly today
Isn’t so interesting going back and just seeing how we’ve evolved as a society? Like you mentioned, those questions and statements from interviewers would not fly. I find it fascinating
I grew up with Pam as the quintessential blonde bombshell but now hearing her story makes me feel so sorry for what she went through. I watched her doc on Netflix too, tragic what some of the most beautiful women endure. 😢
She s beautiful,the woe men of Ethiopia looks better than her
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pam is the marilyn of our day. thank god life hasnt broken her... beautiful soul she is.. xxxxxx
I’m sorry, does no one think Tommy leaked the tape to get Pamela to work with him on something and get back together? The person who noticed the safe missing is him, she’s not living with him, bam! Tape calls come in. Little suspicious.
OMG Pamela I THOUGHT I went thru alot til I heard this story!!! I KNOW she's telling the truth because now that she's older she tells those horror stories the same way I do now. It happened, I survived, and I can't change it so accept that you survived and move on.
I’m so sorry to hear about what you went through, I’m wishing you all the best and the brightest of days ❤️❤️💕💕❤️❤️
It really is scary how your parent/s relationship or lack there of can influence your own adult relationships no matter how much you try to avoid following the same path or patterns.
That is why it is so important to include the one who created us,sustains us and died for us{the Lord Jesus} in our lives of us and our children to help us stay on the correct path. thanks
So many of the interviews are awful. You can tell she wanted to talk about so much more but all the interviewers only wanted to hear about was her body and sex life. She looked so disappointed every time Larry King cut her off.
Something I noticed with Pamela is that she is/was very transparent and forthcoming even with all these weird comments and questions by the interviewers. She always answered their questions and seemed so honest. Even the most outrageous, disrespectful questions she always answered them. That says a lot about her character 💕
@@betheecommentator she did it very gracefully also. She has a way of putting them in their place while being polite and even tempered. It’s like she’s so used to being treated that way that she expects their dumb questions and that’s really sad.
Watching and learning these things is breaking my heart over and over again. 💔😭 I wish I could reach back into the past and save that little girl. 🥺
I know 😞
There's so many of us who went through the same thing. It's like once you've been violated, you have a neon sign that says go ahead, I'm already broken.
I went through the same experiences and I'm not alone, there are a million of us who have been molested then g r ed, r ed at parties, r ed by dates or people we thought were friends.
I've been thrown on a table by a customer at Boston Pizza where I worked. Cook had to come out and rescue me. Things like getting touched or grabbed at are very familiar.
I hope previous generations taught the boys how to take responsibility for their feelings. All I ever heard was how much I turned him on, when in reality I didn't do anything. Men have to be responsible for how they feel. It's not me doing anything to you, it's the thoughts in your own mind that are creating your feelings.
We don't win by covering up girls, we win by explaining that guys thoughts create feelings and they can control that. They don't have to blame others.
@@lorimiller4301 well said. I agree. Thank you. 🫂💛
@@lorimiller4301 Yes, we don't win by covering up girls ... that last part you said was so important. Let's not blame the victims.
Pam is an amazingly intelligent, resilient, and strong person. She is a very nice person who sadly was taken advantage of by rotten persons. She rose above all of this. She is a Phoenix. She is very articulate and writes very well. I admire her wisdom, courage, and strength.
Agree
She was treated horrible. That pap screaming at her about her child....like people are not allowed to have a night out on the town. I feel bad for her.
I'm glad you're doing her. I watched the hulu show that focused on the tape and I was horrified the public made it seem like she wanted it ...i never really knew the story on it
Yes so far what I’ve come across Pamela nor Tommy wanted that tape out. How the tape was still able to be distributed without their consent is beyond me. They did file a lawsuit, but the depositions were so difficult for Pamela who was pregnant with their second child, they ultimately dropped the lawsuit.
@@betheecommentator I actually looked into this quite a bit and basically there just wasn’t a legal precedent for this kind of thing at the time. Theirs was truly the first celeb sex tape to be leaked on this level so they didn’t have any of the copyright laws and revenge porn protections that we have now. The rise of the internet was also what really made this so massive and so widely distributed. The guy who stole the tape didn’t have the funds to distribute it on his own and he didn’t want it to be traced back to him because he didn’t want to be held criminally liable, so he was reached out to distributers and eventually found one with mob ties who was shady enough to do loan him the money and resources to make the copies. They set up a website where people could purchase a VHS copy anonymously and they could mail out the copies without it being traced back to them. Eventually one of the illegal copies of the tape was purchased by Internet Entertainment Group’s founder Seth Warshavsky and he streamed it online for free to get more publicity and traffic to his porn site. This basically dried up the sales of the tape from the thief and he hadn’t even made enough to pay back the distribution loan, he made nothing off the tape and owed thousands to a shady distributor with mob ties (KARMA).
Pam and Tommy were ultimately able to get his site taken down to stop the illegal sales of the tape but the judge denied their request to also have it removed from Seth’s porn site because since he wasn’t charging people for it, he was technically covered under the 1st amendment. Which is so sad and disappointing 🤦🏾♀️ That’s the lawsuit they ended up dropping.
Seth then contacted Tommy and Pam to get them to sign away their rights so that he can charge people for it and they’d make money off it since it’s already out there. They basically told him to f*ck off. He kept trying and eventually he was able to convince them that if they sign away their rights, he will agree to stream it only once more to paying members and then that would be it. The alternative would be that he would continue streaming it for free and then even more people will see it. They just wanted it to be down so they figured they would just agree to the deal because it would limit the amount of people who saw it and then Seth would stop. They also didn’t take any money from Seth for the rights because Pam said she didn’t want any money from the tape and Tommy didn’t want people to think they’d consented to it.
Unfortunately Seth went back on that agreement and because he now had the rights, he was able to distribute it to actual video stores where people could rent it. Pam and Tommy found out and took him back to court. The judge pretty much said they couldn’t do anything about Seth’s company distributing the tape for profit because Tommy and Pam had signed away their rights BUT they were entitled to a portion of the profits. Seth’s company was ordered to pay Tommy and Pam a combined 1.5 million for what he had earned after getting the rights… buuuuut then Seth filed for bankruptcy because apparently he was already in debt and the amount he owed Tommy and Pam pushed it over the edge 😤 His company went under before Tommy or Pam got a single penny of what they were owed. 😢
To add insult to injury, because the court ordered the “company” to pay Pam and Tommy and not Seth personally, once the company went bankrupt, he wasn’t responsible for paying them the money. Seth was also able to sell the rights to Vivid Entertainment for 15 million, didn’t give any of that to Pam and Tommy, then ran away to Thailand
Vivid (same company that released the Paris Hilton and Kim K tapes 😮💨) sadly continued to distribute the tape and made their money back 5 times over, while Tommy and Pam couldn’t do anything about it because Vivid had the rights.
It’s honestly a sad miscarriage of justice and several disgusting men made a ridiculous amount of money off of someone else’s private intimate moments. 😢
Yes yes yes!!!! Cant wait for this! I'm such a huge fan of her and all of her activism for animal rights I actually bumped in Toronto restaurant and told her that and she couldn't have been any nicer! What a gorgeous human being inside and out!!
Oh wow that is awesome! She seems like a lovely person. I didn’t think I would be so emotionally invested in her story until I did it. It was very interesting ❤️
It's so strange how women are conditioned to fall for the "bad boy" I can change him because my love for him and his devotion to me is so powerful that he will magically become a great guy. It NEVER happens. He still a jerk and always will be. Yet time and time again we see that age old trope of the charismatic bad boy with a golden heart and the women who have been subject to abuse that chose them. It's awful.
Ugh so true 😞
When she was asked how it felt being endowed, my heart sank.
I agree. Ridiculous question to ask, in my opinion
@@betheecommentator exactly.
Very inappropriate. Also the Howard's/period comments were in very poor taste.
@@betheecommentator Yet she used her endowment all her life,even the total package,apparently totally exposed? thanks
I felt her so much. I became pregnant at 16 years old by a 22 year old grown man who groomed me. He was so manipulative. However, I do have a beautiful 25 year old daughter now and she has given me a granddaughter and now she has me a grandson on the way due on july 2023. Neither of us have anything to do with her father.
This was difficult to watch at times, especially the Howard Stern points. Her love and compassion for animals is enough to show her pure soul, and I was so against watching the Netflix doc so thank you for creating an honest and fair portrayal
Respect to Pamela and her journey. What she has been through , my God, sold short ! Underestimated and scapegoated her whole life. I love how authentic she is , and the older she has got the more determined she is to be her true self.
Thanks again Bee for your thoughtful, thorough compassionate treatment of this topic. Everyone has a story and Pamela is telling hers. I wish all the best to this courageous woman.
You’re welcome! And thank you so much for watching. You’re so right, we all have stories to tell ❤️❤️ hope you have an AMAZING day!!
Fascinating information about Pamela I didn’t know before this. New perspective of her, to go through soooooooo much and survive and become who she is is a testimonial to her strength and resilience. Good for you Pammy. 😊😊😊😊😊
Dear Pamela. I wouldn't say we were close , but I'd say you were a friend. I want to tell you how proud I am of you. You could have just given up. And no one would have blamed you. We are all looking for someone to save us. When the truth is we are here to save ourselves. Glad we escaped LA. My Dad said that men are ridiculous creatures trying to control everything around them. And it's all a disillusion . Glad you finally put this out. It's going to help a lot of girls.
stay strong and with her opening up will help so many women who can come out of the abusive darkness.
Pamela speaks so gracefully.
My list of the most incredible women ever. Pamela, you are on it. You, Drew Barrymore and Britney Spears are on this little "list" of mine. You all have incredible stories. Heart breaking, moving. A miracle you all made it enough to be able to tell us all what they did. I am so sorry. You are amazing.
I love your list! They are all amazing!
@@betheecommentator thank you. I'm thinking of maybe trying my hand at a short broadcast about this. There really are more sinister things than we can imagine. Too many cruel people "get away with it". While good humans beings are used and destroyed.
I love the way you present info in your videos! Like professional documentary quality without unnecessary commentary or opinions added. So well done!
I really appreciate it! Thank you so much, I’m glad you enjoy my format
howard stern is so gross for that…its so scary how many people think like that and hold ideals along those lines!! we gotta call it out as it happens in our lives not just laugh and say its gross!
He's gross for a ton of stuff!
He's not the only one.
I was surprised his co-host didn’t interject…
He's excited about a kid without a period??! Ughh
This notification made me so happy! Nobody does a deep dive like Bee! ❤
Aw that so sweet!! Thanks for watching and for your continued support ❤️❤️
My heart hurts for Pam as I didn't know that she had such an abusive childhood and lived in an alcoholic family. Then, Pam gets raped more than once 😢. I, too, was raised in an unhappy, alcoholic home. I've had similar experiences with being taken advantage of by men. Pam was attracted to toxic men like myself, because of living in an abusive and toxic childhood. You learn that love is abuse, its so twisted . Much ❤ to you, Pamela!!! 🙏☮️🕊️✌️
I think it's time to cancel Howard Stern once and for all. His comments were absolutely cringe!
Yes
Howard Stern needs to be exposed more for being a creep
Lots of young women run into the problem of “I might as well use my looks and body to make me money” and in the end it’s always detrimental to them. God bless her, she’s come far! I’m glad she knows she’s more than just a pretty face. Imo, Many young women are almost encouraged to do very exploitative work, we’re never really encouraged to challenge ourselves. It’s great she got herself out of the ditches she was in and is happy!
That is so sad and so true. Thank you for weighing in and sharing your thoughts with us!
Women who use their beauty to get somewhere get chewed by the same proffesion they assign themselves too. Beauty and brain ain't the duo. I don't think any model, actress or singer can complain about being percieved only as pretty and not being given props for talent. When you once offer your looks, people don't wanna see nothing else. Most of the time beauty is the only thing these women can offer.
@@silenceisgold758 interesting counter-points and argument! Thank you for sharing your take with us!
@@betheecommentator Thank you for making great videos. Love Pamela!
@@silenceisgold758 thanks so much for watching and supporting! Pamela is awesome ❤️
I have been through a lot of same things but not famous I’m glad your speaking on this topics n telling your story it gives hope for healing in many of us
This is a amazing and well done documentary on Pamela's life not over the top with added drama and unwanted commentary just raw and real good work
I appreciate it so much, thank you!
I have always loved this woman. She has always been so sweet and seems down to earth. A diamond amongst rocks.
This was beautifully done. I just found your channel within the last couple days and have watched about a dozen or more of your videos. They’re so well executed!!
Gosh! Gang rpe and so much abusive barely 18 😪
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Another great documentary!!! I love your videos, from your calm voice (perfect for narration) to your in- depth analyses. Liked as always and I look forward to the next one ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!! I’m so glad you enjoyed this and like my content and channel, I really appreciate it ❤️❤️
An important lesson Pamela missed that would have helped her. It's better to be respected than it to be desired.
Also she is good actress. But after Baywatch her carrier was over. Would be better if she had some new TV series.
Trauma, which she sustained several ways during her childhood, likely distorted her brain development...therefore the lack of judgment and reasoning for settling into unhealthy adult relationships and situations wherein she could be vulnerable & further victimized. Even she recognized following her mother's poor example of toxicity in partnership with an abuser...we're the same sign so I've always had empathy for her, but as a result of learning of her life stripes, I respect & admire her as a survivor!!
anyone whose been in a abusive relationship knows it’s way more complicated than choosing self respect or leaving a lesson. Your brain is trauma bonded to that person. It’s the same phenomenon as Stockholm syndrome. It’s how abuse impacts the brain. It makes you fall in love with your abuser because your brain uses it as a survival mechanism. There is fight flight freeze and fawn. Fawn is trying ti appease your abuser. I would highly suggest looking it up. I know this person didn’t mean to be invalidating. But abuse does something to the brain and that’s why ppl don’t understand why you can’t just leave. Combined with childhood trauma. She’s reenacting a childhood trauma which is a symptom of complex PTSD. She needed help and treatment more than to simply learn the lesson respect is better than love.
The problem is that more than half of these sexist male interviewers are still alive and thriving.
Another great one from you! I love how close Pamela seems to be with her sons, I think it’s really telling to the fact that she’s a great mom
As per usual, awesome work. It has always bugged me that people treat her like a dummy. She is so bright, kind, beautiful and intelligent. Thank you for your honest, thorough, and informative, representation of her in your work.
It feels like it explains a lot about her ideas on love if she described her childhood as lovely but also abusive, and her parents as so in love but also filled with DV.
So her dad was a bad guy? At the beginning she said she had a wonderful upbringing but then said he abused them
That’s a good question. She may compartmentalize certain aspects of her father
I think what she was talking about when she said she had a wonderful childhood was about being able to play in nature, be her Tomboy self, lots of time outdoors and use her imagination. She really valued that and still does. The abusive father, the molesting babysitter, the rape the abusive boyfriends, all that, she has said she put them out of her mind, blocked them. I think she focuses on the freedom of being an outdoorsy tomboy and sees it as a happy time in all of the darkness she’s blocking out.
But really I don’t think she’s really resolved all that trauma.
Very good video. The only thing that was missing is her advocacy for the release of Julian Assange. She gained tremendous respect from many, including me, for her efforts to bring attention to this issue.
Yes! You’re so right 💕
I really began to love her for doing that
Poor Pamela, she's really been through a lot. On another note, she has always been so beautiful, and still is.
Amazing..Thank you for taking the time to create this.. I grew up watching Pamala. Being a child of the 80's... Had me tearing towards the end.. A person that has so much love to give.
You’re welcome! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Her story is definitely one to hear. ❤️❤️
Ahhhh super happy you did this. I’ve been wanting you to cover her for almost a year!! Loveeee your work, keep doing you, we love it ❤
Thank you so much love!! I hope you enjoy it ❤️❤️
Wow, what an amazing video even though I barely know who she was and only heard of her. The end of the video made me cry, I really pray healing on her because she deserves all the happiness in the world. And I hope she makes a mini series about her life. Thank you for a wonderful video, and you did such an wonderful job. Great work.
For some reason I didn’t get a notification your last 2 videos so I had to binge this morning. This video, as usual, was amazing. Pamala endured so much and it’s nice knowing she is now reflecting and taking care of herself. Well done ❤️
I’ve been told that you have to make sure in phone settings that you have notifications turned on? Also, thank you so much for your continued support!! It means so much!!
I loved hearing and learning about Pamela’s story. I also, thought it was very insightful ❤️❤️