I'm only 17 and this January I lost my dad from a drug overdose. I never knew he was doing drugs this was so sudden but he was the kindest dad ever, I guess he just had some problems, I love you dad I'll stay strong for you. EDIT: It's been three years since I posted this and the support and attention on this comment has been unreal everyone. I'm in a lot better of a place now than where I was back then, time is definitely one the best medicines. It'll always hurt to think about, but having good people in your life really is key. Keep going and don't give up, even if it seems that all hope is lost because things will eventually get better, which everyone's immense positivity help me realize. I can't thank anyone who left a kind comment enough for the sincere words, you guys have no idea what that meant to me I never expected this much attention. Thank you all so much and continue to stay strong!
Playstation Gaming 😡😡😡😡 I don't normally get angry but what you just said is the most cruel thing possible. Who the hell do you think you are?! Don't even try to argue. She lost her dad! And you make a joke of it. And wish terror among her family. YOU BELONG IN AN INSTITUTION. Somebody help me out here!!!
Actually kinda hate that this song is only about the singer having fights with his brother but they get along now. Everyone else thinks its suicide idk kinda annoys me. Love the song tho
2025 still makes me cry. Lost the love of my life, now I just listen to the song wishing I knew. Tell the people reading this comment when it comes to the people you love let go of your anger it's not worth it. Suicide is a vicious monster with love compassion and understanding I could have saved a life 😢💔
Please don't ever think you could have saved a life. When a person mind is made up they are going to do it no matter what. I have been down that road my mother committed suicide in front of me I thought I could save her life but I didn't jump fast enough to know what was going on she had already pulled the.trigger 😢 it's not our fault 😢
I remember when my close friend killed himself. It was the toughest time in my life. He was only 12 at the time and his dad really abused him, and some days he would go without food. I remember getting told about it and feeling devastated, but I felt bad about myself, I couldn’t stop thinking about what I could have done to help him, and it has for the last few years. I’m currently 14 and there is not a day that doesn’t go by that I don’t think about him. I’ll always remember his smile, and the time we got caught drinking beers in my garage. I loved you Tom like brother. I remember reading his note that he left out on the table before he left. All it said was “it’s not your fault. I just wasn’t meant to be here. Just don’t get beat up over me. You’re all better off without me.” Reading that cracked my heart. I wanted to tell him how much he meant to me, and how he was the brightest thing in my life. This was always his favourite song and he always listened to it in the morning on the way to school. Tom, I just want to say that wherever you are, I hope you fit in there, and get the love you truly deserved.
Reading this comment, reminded me of most of friends experiencing this on their own and couldn't tell anyone about it, because they were trapped and had no where to escape the worst. I offered many suggestions to them and they had an idea of trying to hold themselves out and need to find a way out as quick as possible. I wish, I could help that person with his father also abusing them, because of not being better than other people in his class and must get the highest grades in the school. It hurts to not do anything for this person, so all I can do is keep in contact and pray that they'll be ok. It's so saddening to hear such stories on young people having to experience such a traumatic parts of their life, which having to mentally and physically hurt themselves to the core of no return. Just remember that your friend will always be in your heart and you couldn't read his thoughts, even if you wanted too, but stay strong for him, no matter.
To my mom, who I lost to cancer in 2016. I know I was 26 so an adult, but inside I was still very much a child. And to my grandmother, who died 2 weeks after her. I miss you both. It's a deep wound that will never totally heal. We just learn to live with it.
@IDONTLIKEMONDAYS-w2h You know what, lemme ask you something... You ever been to Mexico? Its my home country and its a beautiful place to visit and enjoy, so I want you to go there before you die. You won't regret it, really
When I was in highschool my Mother was a huge Fray fan and got me hip instantly. We used to listen to this one in particular a lot. She had a habit of helping people, and it often took a lot out of her. I think this song sort helped her feel her way through the 'muck' so to speak. She had a lot of her own issues and I think helping others took the spotlight off of that. She knew how to save others, but couldn't seem to save herself. She drank a lot unfortuantely. As time went on, that grew into substance abuse, and eventually addiction. She still played this song a lot though, trying to remain positive. Last year in April, the 5th, she lost that fight. Things are different now. This song is different now. I still love it, but I find it very hard to listen to at times. I still have the memories, pictures, old voicemails I refuse to delete, but not her. I keep going because I feel that I have to, for her. Some days are easy, some days are really, really, hard. I have lots of questions, lots of things to say that I will never get to. In time things will settle, life will return to normal, or whatever the new normal will be. Now, this song has found me again, at a time where it seems I have to save my own life. This ones for you Mom, and for me, and for anyone else struggling, for those worried about loved ones, whoever needs it. Please keep going.
Please keep in mind, it doesn't mean that she hasn't loved you. For some people an existence is too heavy burden to bear. Remember her for who she was for you.
That was beautiful. I ask everyone to have faith in yourself nd what you can do. Truth be told you can do anything you put your mind to, that strength was always there it just has yet to be found.
almost 10 years ago, when i was still a teenager in highschool, being bullied by classmates was part of a usual day so i would make myself small and silent. All of this made a depressive teenager and it was getting darker as it went. I was losing interest in going to school. One day out of no where two people came and sat next to me (where i would always go during breaks) they sat next to me and lightly tried to engage a conversation, not wanting to engage i would continue reading. so they sat next to me and continued talking together. everyday they came and sat at the same spot, next to me, and they would talk together. After some time i slowly started talking to them, and in no time i had made new friends and my days were starting to become brighter. By doing this simple action they might have actually saved a life! one of the two became a very good friend. I am glad she was there for me, and to this day she does not know how her actions affected me in a positive way.
That hit me, I was bullied alot and broke down alot at home, I'm 22 now but awhile ago I overdosed because of how heavy the weight of the world got, but my mum was there for me and still is, if it wasn't for her ringing an ambulance wouldn't be here, something inside of me wanted to just sit there and let it happen but there was no way I could leave my family with that pain, and i may not know you but it'd great you're still here on this earth, keep your chin up
I was with my dad holding his hand when he took his last breath, then 4 years later I was with my mom holding her hand as she took her last breath. I had told her I wouldn't let her hand go until dad reached down to grab it. "Mom, when you're ready to reach for his hand I will be ready to let go of yours". I thank God for allowing me to live that experience.
This is empathy 101. If a depressed person is suicidal it is never because he/she wants to die. Its just that living is to hard in his/her perspective. The art in saving someone is in showing them alternatives while starting from their perspective.
Well said. At my age what I've been through may be trivia to another not including the part with my Daughter. Life seems to be Daunting when your not able to sort out your problems. On the other hand it's only Daunting if you care so as you may see these two things are very confusing and important.
@@dizzee6089 Yo, it aint that easy... People are different and it's hard for some people to even say anything at times... that comment is really insensitive regardless joking or not. Even with the new gen being "soft" this isn't a topic to joke about. Sorry if I triggered anything, didn't mean too. Just explaining
@@dizzee6089 That's really big of you. I don't speak for everyone in the comment section, but I did feel people would have gotten hurt reading that. Thank you for deleting that comment! Most people would have just kept it to be "funny". I'm glad that you understand.
my wife died 2 months ago, after a hard year with endless hospital visits, chemo therapys, operations, everything. she was only 30 years old. I love her so much and miss her every day. still dont know how to handle it, when the woman you love more than anything else die in your arms. everyone please stay safe and healthy.
I'm so sorry sweet pea... "Runes of comfort for the bereaved" by Ralph Blum "I am the life and the light and the way- The Earth is my garden. Each of the souls I plant as seeds germinate and flower in its own season, and in each I am fulfilled. There is no cause for grief when a bloom fades but only rejoicing for the beauty it held and praise that my will is done and my plan served. I am one with all creatures and none is ever lost, only restored unto me having never left my side at all. For what is it mortal cannot be separated from its source. I am with you all, And each of you is a channel for my light. Feel My Love enfold you now and forever more."
Lost one of my best friends to suicide 7 years ago. This song came out when we were in high school, and it reminds me of the good times we spent together. I unintentionally come back here once a year to reminisce, usually after midnight, when everything is quiet. Today is one of these days. Luis, wherever you are, I miss you man. I know life was a burden to you, but you are still alive in our thoughts. RIP
Thank you for posting this. I just lost a best friend from high school from suicide. He served in the air force. The last video I have with him we are singing this song. I came here to find some piece of him. Seth, where ever you are. I’m sorry I failed you, I will love and miss you forever my friend.
I'm not sure whats worse...the fact that the world feels empty without you....or the fact that I know I will never accept that you're no longer in this world.
This song hits me every single time for the past 9 years…my fiancé god rest her soul, took her life while I was asleep. I woke to her hanging from my staircase. If only I had been awake. I have never been able to forgive myself. I should have stayed up with her all night…I miss you with all my heart baby! Rest in peace, I will be with you soon.
Oh my God I'm so so very sorry 😢😢 my heart breaks 💔 for you I also witnessed a suicide. My own mother no matter what we say or do they will always do it when a person stops talking about ending their life is when we must open our eyes an ears an be on point..God Bless you friend
9 years for me and also by hanging. That night she asked me to just jump in a car, leave with her. Every fiber in me wanted to go, but I said no. The next morning I got the call. I understand your last 9 years. Guilt. It never gets better. Nobody ever understands. How can they.
My grandma died recently. She was the only family left in my life. My father and mother died when I was a baby. Mother from cancer and father from a car accident. Grandma raised me and helped me go through the struggles of not having parents. Her dying left me feeling so empty. This song always brings me to tears. :'(
@@alexamelchor2787 I’m not much older than you are but you’ll be glad you found this song at 13. I wish I found this song sooner, I’m sure everyone else feels the same.
My dear friend died in a bike crash many years ago. Half of his face and body were badly crushed, and I’ve forgotten how they looked. But I still vividly remember how broken I felt that day. I cried while holding him in the morgue, remembering that only a week before, I had joined his family for dinner. At that dinner, I could feel the joy radiating from his little family of three. I've always admired his grateful family and did everything I could to protect them. He was a good father and husband, someone I looked up to. On the day of the accident, some erratic drivers caused my friend to make a dangerous maneuver, just when he was exhausted from all his hard work and duties. To this day, I still regret I couldn't help him more
If you're reading this, you're alive and I'm happy that you are if your reading this, you are alive. you are an amazing unique person and i’m proud of you.
sometimes, you need that and it doesnt have to be because you dont want too live anymore you just need some one there fore you. even a complet stranger. Thanks!
Hi everyone, Following my post 10 months ago. I would like to say I've beaten the cancer for the moment, following the forequarter amputation in February :) Thank you all for your prayers as they were what kept me strong and gave me the stamina to go on in life :) Love you all ❤️
“If you love someone, you tell them. Even if you’re scared that it’s not the right thing. Even if you’re scared that it’ll cause problems. Even if you’re scared that it will burn your life to the ground, you say it, and you say it loud and you go from there.” -Mark Sloan
I have major depression and anxiety and I can't even do any of that and been trying for years to even feel love at and ask myself why what's the point of anything
@@thedarkhamster9691 😭😭😭😭 back the you could walk anywhere with no worrys now you got to worry about gitting killed or just jumped sad world i want that all back
My best friend killed himself a week ago. He was only 17. I'll always regret that I couldn’t give him a hug and make him know how much he meant to me. If only I had seen what was in front of my face
@@kam2894 dude I know that I'm just some random guy from the Internet and we don't know each other but please don't do this life will get better I promise
I lost my best friend on march 31st, his last message was a meme he sent me and everyday I wonder if I just stayed up later would I be able to do something different, he was only 21 and he was the most cheery person even though he battled demons, his birthday is coming up and I wanted to say this somewhere, I really miss him.
I lost my little nephew last month to Suicide, he was only 15 years old. I listen to remember him. Where did i go wrong I lost a friend Love, you nephew, 4ever 🕊
I was anti social and didn't have much a social life until my later teens. When I listen to nostalgic music it makes me sad about all of the fun times I missed out on. :(
Hurtful yes, but how do you give anyone hope that things get better. Because it’s not a fact that things get better. For some people, it never gets better. At that point, the only hope you can give them is that this life isn’t all there is. At some point, the suffering does end, and then peace begins forever. That’s the symbolic message of Christ. The end of his life was suffering, but at last he could rest in Heaven. Hope can’t be given by small reassurances because often the suffering is too great. There wasn’t hope for Jesus on the cross, not in that moment, but there was hope after. So you want my advice, help people whenever practically possible, but when help isn’t possible, give them Christ.
@@godisgood201 Not to rain on the parade, but people will be eternally remorseful if they think they will just go to heaven when they die. Even though eternal life is a free gift, they need to understand the gospel of salvation found in the Bible and receive that free gift of eternal life by trusting completely in Christ and His finished work on the cross for them for salvation from eternal damnation. Once they truly do, then they are born anew, and then they know exactly where they're going when they die. Not because of any works of righteousness which they have done, and not because of any sins which they didn't do... or will ever do... but because of God's mercy to us in Christ, and the redemption that we have through His innocent blood, which He shed on the cross for the remission of our sins.
@@KS-nq8vo Everything physical in this world is, but not our souls. The most important thing that people need to settle is where they will be spending eternity.
If you’re reading this: Things get better. You don’t need to believe me, but at least stick around long enough to see a change. Because there will be one. No matter how long you spend crying, you’ll be okay in the end. I love you. I need you. I want you here. Don’t give up.
It's amazing that music can move people to say stuff like this It's sounds cheesy, but i have no doubt you meant every word, and that it was exactly what someone needed
Every now and then music gives us hope and courage to win our loneliness and our daily struggles . just keep hanging on we can all win our struggles eventually
It's been eight long years since I lost a dear friend to suicide. Friends from high school, we met up again when he started coming into my work at least once a week. When I was going through a really hard time, where I wasn't honest with the depression I was going through, my weekly conversations kept me going just as much as seeing my children's faces. I was working up the courage to tell him how much those moments meant to me and what HE meant to me. My friends knew I was into him, but I didn't think he could ever feel that same way about me. I was so down on myself, I didn't think anyone could ever want me. I never got the chance to tell him...he was battling his own demons. After going through a bad breakup, he was a light in the dark. Even though I've moved on, been with the man of my dreams for almost seven years and married for three and a half, the "what ifs" go through my head. Mike...I miss you every, single day. I hope I was just a little of your light in the dark as you were mine.
I cried reading this, especially at the end. I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm sure you meant so much to him, Meg. I'm wishing you the best in life and I'm so happy Mike could be there for you in those times
I lost my brother to suicide on December 31st, I found him with my mom. It was so shocking I saw him that morning but I didn't even say hi and stayed on my laptop. He had schizophrenia and got new meds so I thought maybe give him time to rest. i don't know. He was 26 turning 27. If I could give half of my life to bring him back I would. All my friends didn't really know how to comfort me so I got mad and now I have no friends anymore. I don't do anything and sometimes I wonder if I should even exist. I have faith things will change but what's the point? But I know how much pain and suffering and heartbreak my mom got when he died because he cared for her so much they were best friends. I try my best to go out and be ok but I can't afford a therapist or to even do things by myself so I just end up watching tv wasting my life and crying.
So sorry bro... Know that your brother is in a better place and that you and your mom are strong. Things WILL get better. Letting everything out is ok❤️
I think going to a therapist is insured by your health insurance, you need that shit bro bc remember it was never your brothers intention to have such an affect on your life. Stay strong and life will be waiting for you til you can stand on your own feet again❤️
try to talk to your friends again they will understand it's hard i battle with suicidal thoughts everyday too stay strong man and talk to your mom together you can do it i'm cheering you on
This song is so hard to listen to now. Lost my dad to suicide 2 years ago and I still can't accept it. I just want to talk to him one more time. Just want to be able to say goodbye... I love and miss you dad...
I'm so sorry dear... I lost my Dad to cancer last October... 😥 "Runes of comfort for the bereaved" by Ralph Blum "I am the life and the light and the way- The Earth is my garden. Each of the souls I plant as seeds germinate and flower in its own season, and in each I am fulfilled. There is no cause for grief when a bloom fades but only rejoicing for the beauty it held and praise that my will is done and my plan served. I am one with all creatures and none is ever lost, only restored unto me having never left my side at all. For what is it mortal cannot be separated from its source. I am with you all, And each of you is a channel for my light. Feel My Love enfold you now and forever more."
I am 31 years old and I have lost many close people from suicide, drugs, drinking n driving, war, deceases i have seen kids cry for a parent and I've seen parents cry over the loss of a child all this has changed me and has made me a better man not to take life for granted we only have a certain amount of time here on this earth and we should all cherish every single second of it yes our anger sometimes gets the best of us but we learn to let go of bad issues be happy, live life, and have fun 😃
you're right, but it can be so hard to just live life, and have fun, when everything you do is sorrounded by thoughts of unfullfilled love... and you're just lonely. And yeah, i tried to go out alone and have fun, but it just doesn't work for me, it's not possible. Yeah, sure, i can be alone, and to things on my own, but i just need friends in my life.
+OriginalLappen idk how old your really are but for every person there is a friend the hard part is finding your type of friends but now a days it shouldn't be that hard just be an open type person or be willing of trying new things but hope u do find some good friends I'm sure u will 😃
Eferson Borges F for your friend hes in a better place and hopefully hes watching over you andif you don believe in religion then im sorry for your loss man
Whenever I'm feeling depressed I usually come here. This song is therapeutic to me. Well, 2 weeks before Christmas I lost my dad and now its got a different meaning. He died from complications due to his health and COVID. Here I am, trying to cope.
I have lost my entire family to life illness and other things..but always had my wife of 18yrs..then she divorced me....I was almost homeless and had to give away my only friend ..my horse for I couldn't afford to feed him also. I prayed to God to please take me...and if he didn't I would know that he had a plan for me....fast forward I am making more money than I ever did and am living comfortably still am a single guy and get offers for dates and things...but I just want my wife back......though I know she will never be back....I guess we all carry some type of pain around.
My dad didnt even know who his real father is until he was 18, his father just died at ge 60, my dad hadnt talked to him in 7 years, and that time was the 2nd time he met him
Moral of the song......Always be willing to talk to your loved ones . Never walk away when done is suffering or you think that someone needs you to listen. Every person is precious and beautiful deserving of love and support.
@@twinedmouse7821 Well, I'm going to get things from my father this weekend as he is going to die quite soon. Stage 4 metastatic cancer. And my wife was arrested on absolutely ridiculous charges, so as a result they confiscated my two children as well. So...a bit alone.
@@biotoxic9691 Tch that's horrible.... I do hope you have the strength the carry on now I really do.. Even my father has cancer not as severe as yours but I know how you feel.. Have strength yeah?
My cousin died last december 5 because of depression and stressed. He just cant handle the pain of being left alone inspite of having a big family but no one reaches out for him. He was so hopeless and i was wondering what could we have done to save him but everything is done and gone. Please if you are reading this and experienced this kind of feeling talk to someone reach someone that you can talk to and tell all your worries and fears.
Nothing can prepare you for the goodbye you never thought you’d have to say. The loss that you never thought you’d have to face or the sadness that you never thought you’d have to feel.
I lost my mom 5 years from now, and I regret not being next to here when she died, and till this moment, I hate myself self for not apologizing for what I used to do and for not telling her how much she is important for me and that I love her the most
Having to say goodbye to my fiance' who was brain dead and having to make the decision to take him off life support is something I will never forget. I have had to learn to live with it but I will never forget.
LYRICS: Step one, you say we need to talk He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk He smiles politely back at you You stare politely right on through Some sort of window to your right As he goes left, and you stay right Between the lines of fear and blame You begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Let him know that you know best 'Cause after all, you do know best Try to slip past his defense Without granting innocence Lay down a list of what is wrong The things you've told him all along And pray to God he hears you And I pray to God he hears you And where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life As he begins to raise his voice You lower yours and grant him one last choice Drive until you lose the road Or break with the ones you've followed He will do one of two things He will admit to everything Or he'll say he's just not the same And you'll begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life ✌🏾
I very much hate myself and my life. I have hated myself for as long as i can remember. I really am a failure and i have referred to myself as being one since i was a child. I feel inferior and below everyone else, i usually always have the lowest quality of things when compared to other people, i failed school even though i attended it nearly every day, i am physically weak and a coward who cannot stand up for himself, i have Asperger syndrome and while it's something i usually don't like to approach, i have to admit, it is the main reason for most of my problems in life. I have seen over 5 therapists and none have really made much of an impact on me, mainly because i could never really communicate with them that well and because of that i was unable to express my feelings and thoughts about things. I verbally abuse my parents whenever i am angry when they love me and try their best for me, i am ugly and don't have many friends either. I think i will become homeless when i am older seeing how it is unlikely i will ever attain a job, and with that said i probably won't ever have a relationship with someone either. I really wish i was never born and with a dark future ahead of me i am almost desperate to commit suicide at the age of 16, i really don't want to live a painful life with Asperger's and that's why i feel i should end it as soon as possible before things get too bad.
This is a big tunnel with no visible light at the end. Turning around takes a great deal of self love and faith. "What the F**k is self love? It is a BIG HUGE monster that you are fighting on a daily basis. It would be so much easier to blame the pain on my parents, school bullies, and everyone else who has taken advantage along the way. Looking back, there was one common subject in every horrible, abusive story. Me. When you are ready, dump all of it into the toilet and flush it down. You will miss it. You will throw up. You will want to fall back on it. Goodness, that is your comfort zone. You are a loved person, and can you imagine how many people would miss you and love you? There is no need to be the center of attention.
KingofAmerica...I hear ya...honestly, I do....I'm ugly, worthless, and have been for 49 yrs...I was gonna kill myself 8 yrs ago...went and talked to someone, a social worker as it turned out. She got me to look at my life in a different way...and now I work in healthcare, taking care of people...I'm broke, I rent don't own a house, can't afford a car, I'll be eating in the hospital cafeteria for most of the next 2 weeks even tho I got paid today cuz I can pay for it on my hospital badge and they automatically take it out of your paycheck...............but I'm happy. I like taking care of people....I'm appreciated...and sometimes I'm even loved by women I would be normally be scared to even talk to. What I'm saying is...it can get better....but if you off yourself, you won't be around to find that out.I hope you rethink your decision. And good luck.
Kingofamerica97, bro you're in this world because you might be one of the only humans to be able to overcome pain 2. Just ignore your looks and everyones thoughts about you (except your parents) . 3. YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS, JESUS MADE U BECAUSE U ARE IMPORTANT U ARE A MIRACLE TO YOUR FAMILY! (This is out of topic but i'm a christian pre-teen boy)
I felt the same way when I was young, then all of the sudden I didn't care what people thought of me then it happened. I got a good job when I turned 18 had 2 girlfriends they didn't know about each other, and everybody wanted me around, because people all over everywhere feel the same way. Hang in there buddy it gets a lot better. Both of my parents are dead, please change your attitude towards them, one day you would give anything in the world to have just one more conversation with them. Been there done that.
This was My Mom’s favorite song 😭 I miss you so much mom. Fly high ☝🏽❤️☁️ (Thank you so much to everybody for the condolences. I really appreciate the support. To Those who have lost anybody in their life, stay strong 🙏🏽)
Nonton reels nya bru td. Yg dia pengen slamatin tmannya dr tertimpa bhn bangunan trbyata jd paku n beruntuun nas jd metong.. dstu liat ada tertulis audionya "the fray" cus lgsung meluncur ksni. Enak banget lagunya... sumpah diulang2 terus
7 years Christian. 7 years since you took your life. 7 years since I've seen you. I would have stayed up with you all night if I knew the signs that were in front of my face. I miss you so much and I will see you when He let's me. High school wasn't the same without you and I will never forget you. I love and miss you so much Christian
It's the people & the music for me. I love how they portray happiness, sadness, smiles, tears, some real pain & everything in between. It touches my heart & I realize we're all human animals. It lets me know we're all in this together.
I used to listen to this song when I was a kid yet I don't really knew the message. Not until today. I also lost a friend from depression, she commited suicide. I should've known how to save her, years after she passed I still see her in my dreams.
I am so sorry for your loss. You cannot blame yourself for this. There is no rule book on this. For some people, they just don’t realize how much they mean to others. She didn’t understand how much this was going to hurt you. You can keep her memory alive. Many times, the suicidal hide their plan from those they love, because she didn’t want you to change her mind. You need to talk to someone, who will uplift you and help you through this. I will pray that she Rest In Peace. I pray that God comfort you and guide you through the days of your life. We can chat if you ever need. God bless you.
sad ,im healing the same illness since 17 years ago with a part of paranoïa, i feel better now but i know how hard is to live with depression troubles..
@@Jsarmy87124 bruh bffr. This is a PUBLIC comment section and the commenter has every right to share what they want as long as it's ok with the community guidelines. It's not their fault that people are depressed or battling suicidal thoughts. They have been affected by that and if they feel that they want to share their feelings here then it's ok. This entire comment section feels like a safe space for people affected by that so let them be. If you don't like it then scroll tf down
I'm so sorry. No matter how we try, the illness takes over. It's no one's fault. It's depression. A real illness. No one's fault. We try to defeat that illness. No one's fault when our efforts are defeated.
Where did I go wrong? I lost my dad Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life. That's hat hit you.... I feel so close to you.... Pls be brave .....
My brother took his life four days ago. DONT EVER FEEL LIKE YOURE ALONE. YOURE ALWAYS LOVED. ALWAYS. YOUR LIVES MATTER. THEY MATTER MUCH MORE THAN YOU KNOW. I GOT THREE LIVES TO LIVE NOW. DONT EVER THINK YOU HAVENT DONE ENOUGH, DONT EVER THINK THAT YOURE ALONE. you always have someone who appreciates you, you have always made a difference. This world won’t ever be the same without you. It WILL get better , just be around to see it. I love yall
My condolences for the loss of your brother. Be strong you are not alone too and thanks for the sweet words, we love you back too. Srry for my Bad english greetings from Austria bro
Thank you so much for this. This Friday is my brother memorial day. (He committed suicide). It nearly broke my dad. I have struggled with depression for over 3 years now and the only thing that keeps me going is my dad. I would never put him through that pain again.
After playing this song on loop, I finally decided to tell someone how I have been feeling for the past year. This was a huge breath of fresh air after a long time of isolating myself from other people. Thank you for this song and thank you for the people in this comment section. To you who have been listening to this song for a while now, I hope you muster all strength to choose life and be better.
"It's a beautiful day to save lives people" -Derek Shepherd R.I.P Derek😭😭. "The man who has no imagination has no wings" - Muhammad Ali R.I.P Muhammad😔
My mom passed away last Sunday. We're still not exactly sure how it happened but we have our guesses. She was extremely heavy into substance abuse and also abused me like a dirty rag as a child. That also turned into her developing bipolar schizophrenia which made everything so much worse. Though she never got to show it well, she loved the hell out of me and always made some sort of effort, albeit sometimes a really messed up effort, to tell me she loved me and call me. I've probably had 250 voice-mails in just the last year from her alone. She always used to sing this song trying to remember the better times. I told myself and her that I hated her so many times. I even believed it for a long time because she had betrayed my trust so many times. I have scars inside and on my body from her. I resented her for so long and I never thought I would even cry at her passing. Now I'm just full of regret. I'm a stupid son. I let my bitterness get way too far ahead of me and I regret so many of the awful things I said to her. She still never believed it and always shrugged it off the next day, calling me and leaving me voice-mails. Mom... you were right. I was wrong. Your bubbies didn't hate you I'm so sorry. I'm so awfully sorry mom. I should've held back and bit my tongue. I'm left with such frustration and confusion on how I feel and I don't even know quite how to hurt over you. I'm so stupid.
You aren't stupid for not being able to process it the fact you can even acknowledge your own mistakes is proof of your growth and it's okay to feel regret and grieve and not cry and cry everyone processes grief differently and we are only human but that doesn't mean we are exempt from blame either when we make mistakes bit you also need to give yourself room to breathe drowning in misery and wallowing in pain doesn't help you or the ones lost but take your time however much you need be it a week a month a year or your entire lifetime you can still honor the person she was to you by living fully and acknowledging your mistakes but not wallowing in them pain and loss are natural parts of life so is mistakes but to me the fact you can feel regret over the way you acted is enough cause to believe you are capable of good and im sure that though your mother was perhaps not the best the care they must have had for you was extraordinary whether they could ever really properly verbalizd it or not life is fleeting and short things to happen that may not ever be answered the rational part of our brains demand a reason for them but sometimes there are things that happen just because they can it falls to those of us who are alive to live for all the people we care for that no longer are of this world it's not easy to take pain and keep your chin up and to continue to go on but its okay to take breaks to give yourself time to breathe to process because life is not linear we fall back and stumble but the most important thing is to keep trying, you are capable of great things and though it's a bit presumptuous of me to say im sure that your mother wished the best life for you even if they couldn't always properly express this so as someone who has experienced the pain of loss myself I hope the best for you and to live a fulfilling life no matter how long it takes
@usernotfound1191 thank you, I truly appreciate your words. Its not been an easy battle for me, but I will continue to try. I'll learn from these mistakes so as not to have the same regrets. Everyone is deserving of love and compassion.
@@ashleewhittlesey7874 The lead singer was part of a mentoring program or something of the sort for troubled youth. Apparently, he connected in particular with a young guy (he was 23, I think) who was also a musician and was struggling with depression. He ended up commiting suicide, and so the vocalist wrote this song with him in mind and you can tell he regretted not being able to figure out what kind of support that guy needed.
@@Olderaccount17 ah geez man...that hurts my soul. I'm 34 and have had clinical depression since i was a kid. Also adhd, borderline personality disorder, and generalised anxiety disorder. It's a lot to try and manage when I'm not a functional person to start with. I've spent a not insignificant amount of time thinking that if it weren't for the preferencial treatment i got for being white, I'd very likely already be dead.
Every time I hear this song, I cry for all of those that are in pain, feel hopeless, and think that the pain is never going to end. The pain can end... (in a positive way..) Back at the end of 2017, my best friend attempted. She was struggling for at least 6 months. She felt like she was losing her mind, her car was breaking down, she was getting into financial trouble, and nothing was professionally working out for her. Everything was just piling up on her. On top of that, she told her sister that she wanted to end it and her sister called the cops on her, and the landlord found out (she had been staying at a guesthouse). I stayed the weekend with her to help her feel better, and tried to help her get through it, but it didn't work. She felt guilty that I unconditionally loved her when she felt that she didn't deserve that love. I did stay up with her all night the last night.. I made the mistake of going to work on Monday and nearly lost her. I figured.. it doesn't matter what I say or do.. She is going to do what she wants, but at least she knows I care.. I texted her throughout the day and she said that she felt better. But then at 3 I didn't hear from her. I figured she was taking a nap. I got very worried about her and left work early. I got to her place and she was in the bathtub, having taking a number of pills. But she was still moving! I thought, "Better angry than dead" and called 911. I got her to a hospital and saved her life!! I stayed the next day to take care of dog and just take the day off. They took her in the middle of the night to mental facility and charged her for the ambulance ride (don't get me started on that!). When she got back, I stayed with her the next two weeks (luckily I already had vacation days planned for the holidays) and helped her get her life back on track. She was definitely angry with me for at least 6 months. Fast forward to today, while it has been a struggle and there have been some moments, for the most part she has been able to cope with all the pressures and she says she is motivated to do better!! And she never wants to go down that road again. :-) She recently changed her diet to an all plant-based foods and she has gotten her mind back! She now no longer has those thoughts! I am so happy she is still here. :-) To all those who feel hopeless... things can get better! Reach out and never let go...
It’s sad, there’s people who commented 11 years ago who are no longer with us. Hope they are in a better place . You fought hard Edit: never had this many likes before but that’s not why u came back to edit. All of you are so wonderful, keep fighting , wether it’s depression, corona or other chronic illness. You matter
To see Jesus face to face to feel Him in your arms to hear His voice and walk on water no more violence .no eye has seen no ear has herd what God has prepared for those who Love Him🌅🌺🌻🍃🌱🌊🌈🌦🌤
I remember when my best friend committed suicide, i was angry, frustrated, sad, and confused. I didn't cry much because you stupid guy thing. That monday, i was driving home from work, and i had my music on shuffle, and this song came on... i never cried so much in my life. I apologized and understood and accepted it... i miss you so much, Josue, until next time, my friend🕊
I'm only 17 and this January I lost my dad from a drug overdose. I never knew he was doing drugs this was so sudden but he was the kindest dad ever, I guess he just had some problems, I love you dad I'll stay strong for you.
EDIT: It's been three years since I posted this and the support and attention on this comment has been unreal everyone. I'm in a lot better of a place now than where I was back then, time is definitely one the best medicines. It'll always hurt to think about, but having good people in your life really is key. Keep going and don't give up, even if it seems that all hope is lost because things will eventually get better, which everyone's immense positivity help me realize. I can't thank anyone who left a kind comment enough for the sincere words, you guys have no idea what that meant to me I never expected this much attention. Thank you all so much and continue to stay strong!
skittle63099ify i wish u the best of luck in the Future!! Stay strong homie! !
Playstation Gaming Holy shit you're actually the worst
Playstation Gaming people like you genuinely need help
skittle63099ify u stay strong and be ur self he will always be by your side so just remember
Playstation Gaming 😡😡😡😡 I don't normally get angry but what you just said is the most cruel thing possible. Who the hell do you think you are?! Don't even try to argue. She lost her dad! And you make a joke of it. And wish terror among her family. YOU BELONG IN AN INSTITUTION. Somebody help me out here!!!
It’s scary how fast time flies. You just blink twice and the song you love is almost two decades old.
So true. Time goes by so fast
we don’t even realize it
2005! Nostalgia, memories when life was easier simpler times
So True
true
So real bro. I saw these guys live 8 years ago in Denver. I love this band so much
I can’t remember this song being that deep..
I get you man👌🏻
Love the vids, but yeah its very deep
Oh shit can u make a rebuld for an mls team.
Actually kinda hate that this song is only about the singer having fights with his brother but they get along now. Everyone else thinks its suicide idk kinda annoys me. Love the song tho
Valerie Knowles I feel people can interpret songs and lyrics in their own way though, the beauty of music.
2025 still makes me cry. Lost the love of my life, now I just listen to the song wishing I knew.
Tell the people reading this comment when it comes to the people you love let go of your anger it's not worth it.
Suicide is a vicious monster with love compassion and understanding I could have saved a life 😢💔
Please don't ever think you could have saved a life. When a person mind is made up they are going to do it no matter what. I have been down that road my mother committed suicide in front of me I thought I could save her life but I didn't jump fast enough to know what was going on she had already pulled the.trigger 😢 it's not our fault 😢
I was a teenage in middle school when this song came out!
Now (2020) I have a wife and kids. TIME MOVES FAST ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN STILL BREATHE.
This song is kinda sad...
ND Trends yeah that kinda hit Different man have you got any life advice?
I was 3
I was 6
Oh damn
I remember when my close friend killed himself. It was the toughest time in my life. He was only 12 at the time and his dad really abused him, and some days he would go without food. I remember getting told about it and feeling devastated, but I felt bad about myself, I couldn’t stop thinking about what I could have done to help him, and it has for the last few years. I’m currently 14 and there is not a day that doesn’t go by that I don’t think about him. I’ll always remember his smile, and the time we got caught drinking beers in my garage. I loved you Tom like brother.
I remember reading his note that he left out on the table before he left. All it said was “it’s not your fault. I just wasn’t meant to be here. Just don’t get beat up over me. You’re all better off without me.” Reading that cracked my heart. I wanted to tell him how much he meant to me, and how he was the brightest thing in my life. This was always his favourite song and he always listened to it in the morning on the way to school. Tom, I just want to say that wherever you are, I hope you fit in there, and get the love you truly deserved.
Wow, that hit deep.
May your friend rest peacefully
Reading this comment, reminded me of most of friends experiencing this on their own and couldn't tell anyone about it, because they were trapped and had no where to escape the worst. I offered many suggestions to them and they had an idea of trying to hold themselves out and need to find a way out as quick as possible. I wish, I could help that person with his father also abusing them, because of not being better than other people in his class and must get the highest grades in the school. It hurts to not do anything for this person, so all I can do is keep in contact and pray that they'll be ok. It's so saddening to hear such stories on young people having to experience such a traumatic parts of their life, which having to mentally and physically hurt themselves to the core of no return. Just remember that your friend will always be in your heart and you couldn't read his thoughts, even if you wanted too, but stay strong for him, no matter.
Aww I’m so sorry
I’m genuinely crying. Going through that must’ve been tough. I can only imagine the pain u have gone through
To my mom, who I lost to cancer in 2016. I know I was 26 so an adult, but inside I was still very much a child. And to my grandmother, who died 2 weeks after her. I miss you both. It's a deep wound that will never totally heal. We just learn to live with it.
TheNobsnob amen
TheNobsnob my dad died Nov 18th 2012 :(
TheNobsnob amen
Black Angel amen
Sorry For your lost
Let's be honest, this song has probably saved someone from depression driven suicide, so in a way this song is by far one way to save a life
This is honestly helping me make that choice. I'm all alone. I lost my siblings to a crazy guy. My kids have their own kids, I'm done
@IDONTLIKEMONDAYS-w2h Don't take the choice man. There's still a lot left you can do in life
@HerwakNic thank you but it's not all together true. I'm trying to hang on but my will is fading fast 💙
@IDONTLIKEMONDAYS-w2h You know what, lemme ask you something...
You ever been to Mexico? Its my home country and its a beautiful place to visit and enjoy, so I want you to go there before you die. You won't regret it, really
@HerwakNic 💙💙💙
"It's a beatiful day to save lives"
Derek Christopher Shepherd.
Miss that guy.
Im sorry
omg me too
deadass
yes omg
🥺
When I was in highschool my Mother was a huge Fray fan and got me hip instantly. We used to listen to this one in particular a lot. She had a habit of helping people, and it often took a lot out of her. I think this song sort helped her feel her way through the 'muck' so to speak. She had a lot of her own issues and I think helping others took the spotlight off of that. She knew how to save others, but couldn't seem to save herself. She drank a lot unfortuantely. As time went on, that grew into substance abuse, and eventually addiction. She still played this song a lot though, trying to remain positive.
Last year in April, the 5th, she lost that fight.
Things are different now. This song is different now. I still love it, but I find it very hard to listen to at times. I still have the memories, pictures, old voicemails I refuse to delete, but not her.
I keep going because I feel that I have to, for her. Some days are easy, some days are really, really, hard. I have lots of questions, lots of things to say that I will never get to. In time things will settle, life will return to normal, or whatever the new normal will be.
Now, this song has found me again, at a time where it seems I have to save my own life.
This ones for you Mom, and for me, and for anyone else struggling, for those worried about loved ones, whoever needs it.
Please keep going.
You will find your peace. I promise ❤
Please keep in mind, it doesn't mean that she hasn't loved you. For some people an existence is too heavy burden to bear. Remember her for who she was for you.
That was beautiful. I ask everyone to have faith in yourself nd what you can do. Truth be told you can do anything you put your mind to, that strength was always there it just has yet to be found.
Prayer up to you big dawg fr♥️
almost 10 years ago, when i was still a teenager in highschool, being bullied by classmates was part of a usual day so i would make myself small and silent. All of this made a depressive teenager and it was getting darker as it went. I was losing interest in going to school. One day out of no where two people came and sat next to me (where i would always go during breaks) they sat next to me and lightly tried to engage a conversation, not wanting to engage i would continue reading. so they sat next to me and continued talking together. everyday they came and sat at the same spot, next to me, and they would talk together. After some time i slowly started talking to them, and in no time i had made new friends and my days were starting to become brighter. By doing this simple action they might have actually saved a life! one of the two became a very good friend. I am glad she was there for me, and to this day she does not know how her actions affected me in a positive way.
Great to read 😀💛
That hit me, I was bullied alot and broke down alot at home, I'm 22 now but awhile ago I overdosed because of how heavy the weight of the world got, but my mum was there for me and still is, if it wasn't for her ringing an ambulance wouldn't be here, something inside of me wanted to just sit there and let it happen but there was no way I could leave my family with that pain, and i may not know you but it'd great you're still here on this earth, keep your chin up
Wow bro.
I'm really shocked.
U are so strong my man
Proud of you
god bless you
awww, God bless u
I was with my dad holding his hand when he took his last breath, then 4 years later I was with my mom holding her hand as she took her last breath. I had told her I wouldn't let her hand go until dad reached down to grab it. "Mom, when you're ready to reach for his hand I will be ready to let go of yours". I thank God for allowing me to live that experience.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Just know your parents are together and you did what any amazing child would do for their parents.
It truly is a blessing to be with someone you love until they take their last breath.
2004
Reading this through tears. What a beautiful gesture.
You made me start sobbing man i'm so sorry for your loss
This is empathy 101. If a depressed person is suicidal it is never because he/she wants to die. Its just that living is to hard in his/her perspective. The art in saving someone is in showing them alternatives while starting from their perspective.
This comment is ridiculously underrated. Please, take my heartfelt thumbs up!
its true, i don't wanna die but i felt living is hard
Well said. At my age what I've been through may be trivia to another not including the part with my Daughter.
Life seems to be Daunting when your not able to sort out your problems. On the other hand it's only Daunting if you care so as you may see these two things are very confusing and important.
Are you speaking from experience?
Boy are you wrong!
I'm not depressed. I just liked this song for years.
Right brother
Wish I could relate
@@dizzee6089 Yo, it aint that easy... People are different and it's hard for some people to even say anything at times... that comment is really insensitive regardless joking or not. Even with the new gen being "soft" this isn't a topic to joke about. Sorry if I triggered anything, didn't mean too. Just explaining
@@100PercentBudder I was initially trying to troll but... that really opened my eye tbh. I see the error or my ways and I'll delete the comment. Sorry
@@dizzee6089 That's really big of you. I don't speak for everyone in the comment section, but I did feel people would have gotten hurt reading that. Thank you for deleting that comment! Most people would have just kept it to be "funny". I'm glad that you understand.
my wife died 2 months ago, after a hard year with endless hospital visits, chemo therapys, operations, everything. she was only 30 years old. I love her so much and miss her every day. still dont know how to handle it, when the woman you love more than anything else die in your arms.
everyone please stay safe and healthy.
I’m sorry to hear that
I'm so sorry sweet pea...
"Runes of comfort for the bereaved"
by Ralph Blum
"I am the life and the light and the way-
The Earth is my garden.
Each of the souls I plant as seeds germinate and flower in its own season, and in each I am fulfilled.
There is no cause for grief when a bloom fades but only rejoicing for the beauty it held and praise that my will is done and my plan served.
I am one with all creatures and none is ever lost, only restored unto me having never left my side at all.
For what is it mortal cannot be separated from its source.
I am with you all,
And each of you is a channel for my light.
Feel My Love enfold you now and forever more."
Thank you guys, im really grateful for your words 🙏
@@par0x234 np
Stay strong, man
If you’re going through a tough time know there is always a light
I can't see it anymore..
@ “For He has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you. '” Hebrews 13:5
Lost one of my best friends to suicide 7 years ago. This song came out when we were in high school, and it reminds me of the good times we spent together. I unintentionally come back here once a year to reminisce, usually after midnight, when everything is quiet. Today is one of these days.
Luis, wherever you are, I miss you man. I know life was a burden to you, but you are still alive in our thoughts. RIP
big hug my friend.
sorry bro
Sending hugs
Thank you for posting this. I just lost a best friend from high school from suicide. He served in the air force. The last video I have with him we are singing this song. I came here to find some piece of him.
Seth, where ever you are. I’m sorry I failed you, I will love and miss you forever my friend.
sending you a hug. i’m so sorry
I'm not sure whats worse...the fact that the world feels empty without you....or the fact that I know I will never accept that you're no longer in this world.
I’m right there with you! God bless and stay strong
2004
Keep breathing my friend, you are needed, ❤
😢
I can relate so honestly and emotionally to this statement ❤
Every year i came back And every year this song hits harder.
Same here man. Hope you're doing well x
Its acc crazy
Be well my love x
Stay up my guyz we got this 💯
Mood
This song hits me every single time for the past 9 years…my fiancé god rest her soul, took her life while I was asleep. I woke to her hanging from my staircase. If only I had been awake. I have never been able to forgive myself. I should have stayed up with her all night…I miss you with all my heart baby! Rest in peace, I will be with you soon.
Oh my God I'm so so very sorry 😢😢 my heart breaks 💔 for you I also witnessed a suicide. My own mother no matter what we say or do they will always do it when a person stops talking about ending their life is when we must open our eyes an ears an be on point..God Bless you friend
9 years for me and also by hanging. That night she asked me to just jump in a car, leave with her. Every fiber in me wanted to go, but I said no. The next morning I got the call. I understand your last 9 years. Guilt. It never gets better. Nobody ever understands. How can they.
My grandma died recently. She was the only family left in my life. My father and mother died when I was a baby. Mother from cancer and father from a car accident. Grandma raised me and helped me go through the struggles of not having parents. Her dying left me feeling so empty. This song always brings me to tears. :'(
miksuaka ;-; I'm sorry for your loss
miksuaka your friends will help you through this :'(
Feel better soon man
Thanks so much for the well wishes :) I'm getting better slowly but surely.
miksuaka xxxxxx
This song is proof that music is life-changing/ life- saving.
Actually true. I’m 13 I rlly don’t like the upcoming music
Lmao
@@alexamelchor2787 I’m not much older than you are but you’ll be glad you found this song at 13. I wish I found this song sooner, I’m sure everyone else feels the same.
2004
@@youknowwho_sid I wouldn't say life saving
"It's a beautiful day to save lives." -Derek Shepherd
I just started watching grey's anatomy
No ur gunns make me cry😭😭
😢
@@adversityluiss6614 its sooooo good
YES!
My dear friend died in a bike crash many years ago. Half of his face and body were badly crushed, and I’ve forgotten how they looked. But I still vividly remember how broken I felt that day. I cried while holding him in the morgue, remembering that only a week before, I had joined his family for dinner.
At that dinner, I could feel the joy radiating from his little family of three. I've always admired his grateful family and did everything I could to protect them. He was a good father and husband, someone I looked up to. On the day of the accident, some erratic drivers caused my friend to make a dangerous maneuver, just when he was exhausted from all his hard work and duties. To this day, I still regret I couldn't help him more
It’s not your fault I hope god bless you remember that I’m here if you need to talk
The more you grow up the more you understand the lyrics of sad songs.
I agree
Aggred
Facts
It makes you let the little annoying things your family and friends do go. because life is so short shitty and precious lol
most definitely, How to save a life came out when I was 16 and I still enjoy the song a lot.
Teachers: “get in groups of 3”
The 4th homie:
lmao imma make this a meme
Literally just saw this on insta
I CHONKED
I am the 4th homie everytime 😂😭
This hits a little to close to home
listening to these songs has me feeling like i’m in a time machine
You must have been a baby
Same g fr
this is the closest we can get in a time machine
It really amplifies the dreadful feeling of the unstoppable passage of time. Atleast the inner anxiety can really turn up, Good for him.
True
Remember you only got one life so far we know. So live it up to the fullest. Your life is a gift from God.
“As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.” -Audrey Hepburn
amen sa pungkol
@@trastokkerko1929 pisti
@@kjracz15 bogo ka kaon igit
Unless you’re Jim Abott.
This is a great quote
If you're reading this, you're alive and I'm happy that you are
if your reading this, you are alive. you are an amazing unique person and i’m proud of you.
God bless you.
sometimes, you need that and it doesnt have to be because you dont want too live anymore you just need some one there fore you. even a complet stranger.
Thanks!
phong hoa awn thank you 🥺
Shut up
John Hayden why do people like you think you can shut out the positive 😐. I wish you could understand why people are like this 😕.
Hi everyone,
Following my post 10 months ago.
I would like to say I've beaten the cancer for the moment, following the forequarter amputation in February :)
Thank you all for your prayers as they were what kept me strong and gave me the stamina to go on in life :)
Love you all ❤️
god bless you my friend..im happy for you:)
@@brandyplays6134 thanks
Hooray!
No way I was watching this video crying and cried to your story a few days ago and I see this so recently I’m so proud of you right now
@@benjaminyes6308 :)
Thank God I had someone that saved my life. Just wish I could have saved all my friends who passed!
“If you love someone, you tell them. Even if you’re scared that it’s not the right thing. Even if you’re scared that it’ll cause problems. Even if you’re scared that it will burn your life to the ground, you say it, and you say it loud and you go from there.” -Mark Sloan
Thank you for sharing this! Stand up straight with your shoulders back :)
Hmmmm neat
I have major depression and anxiety and I can't even do any of that and been trying for years to even feel love at and ask myself why what's the point of anything
@@tylersoto7465 yo tyler my guy. I'm here if you need to talk. Lets run some among us or something, fuck it.
Yes
The older we got the more we realized how deep the meaning of this song was.
Fr it's crazy it's been 10 yours😭😭😭
Fax tho
@@thedarkhamster9691 😭😭😭😭 back the you could walk anywhere with no worrys now you got to worry about gitting killed or just jumped sad world i want that all back
@Temptation Gaming hi son
I use to listen before I knew the meaning it really helped me I was suicidal
I see so many people dedicating this music to people they lost, I feel kind of sad for all those people😔
Hope they rest in peace!
I dislike reading this comment section, it makes me too sad.
Yall still got that sago palm in that museum.
Gonna make me cry
Listen to the brighter side of grey. It's from the other perspective of the same sort of situation and hits deep
Thank you for saying this
This song hits different when the life you're tasked with saving is your own. How do I end a life without hurting the ones that will feel the loss?
My best friend killed himself a week ago. He was only 17. I'll always regret that I couldn’t give him a hug and make him know how much he meant to me. If only I had seen what was in front of my face
Strength
@@kam2894 I can assure you that to the people left behind hugs will never be enough to bear your loss
Maybe his story will save a life, your story
lol. F in the chat
@@kam2894 dude I know that I'm just some random guy from the Internet and we don't know each other but please don't do this life will get better I promise
Reading all these comments with the song in the background really hits different...
Simularbre Ikr
don't it ever.
im just here to ask people are they dead yet
Yes...😞😭❌🤔🙂 Never Give Up❌🏳 even if we are sad💦💧, we must get & take Happyness😀😃😄 and Serenity🚀🌅❗
Simularbre boomer
Scrolling through these coments and some of them are really powerful.
Rest in peace all those who died in tragic events.
0:39 Begin to wonder why you came.
I came from a ishowspeed live he was singing this song which caught my attention
2005
To reach post nut clarity
Praying for my brother right now hoping he will survive cancer 😞
Praying with you🙏
He'll get better the soonest 🤗
Hope everything goes good
Oh bless you I hope and pray that he can fight through it 😔🙏
Hope it all goes well ❤
I lost my best friend on march 31st, his last message was a meme he sent me and everyday I wonder if I just stayed up later would I be able to do something different, he was only 21 and he was the most cheery person even though he battled demons, his birthday is coming up and I wanted to say this somewhere, I really miss him.
I'm sorry to hear that. Stay strong. Sending love from Australia ❤️🙏💪
Lol
@@cristianmartinez7476 it’s sad but that’s funny af
@@matthewyoung1187 what??
I’m sorry to hear may he Rest In Peace sending prayers
Why does this song hit differently 10 years later
because burnley are gettin the drop you dosser
its just something called nostalgia
10 years letter i know this song, I remember.........
Minax this song is great in general
Because today has much worse music.
I lost my little nephew last month to Suicide, he was only 15 years old. I listen to remember him.
Where did i go wrong
I lost a friend
Love, you nephew, 4ever 🕊
There’s something about his voice that brings back the nostalgic vibe. Damn i miss my childhood
You should have had a 1970s childhood.
Im with you there I wish I was more grateful about being young
Gosh yes i know what your talking about, exactly what yourtalking about
I miss 2007
I was anti social and didn't have much a social life until my later teens. When I listen to nostalgic music it makes me sad about all of the fun times I missed out on. :(
This song makes me realize how hurtful this world is. I wish I could help everyone.
Hurtful yes, but how do you give anyone hope that things get better. Because it’s not a fact that things get better. For some people, it never gets better. At that point, the only hope you can give them is that this life isn’t all there is. At some point, the suffering does end, and then peace begins forever. That’s the symbolic message of Christ. The end of his life was suffering, but at last he could rest in Heaven. Hope can’t be given by small reassurances because often the suffering is too great. There wasn’t hope for Jesus on the cross, not in that moment, but there was hope after. So you want my advice, help people whenever practically possible, but when help isn’t possible, give them Christ.
@@godisgood201 Not to rain on the parade, but people will be eternally remorseful if they think they will just go to heaven when they die. Even though eternal life is a free gift, they need to understand the gospel of salvation found in the Bible and receive that free gift of eternal life by trusting completely in Christ and His finished work on the cross for them for salvation from eternal damnation. Once they truly do, then they are born anew, and then they know exactly where they're going when they die. Not because of any works of righteousness which they have done, and not because of any sins which they didn't do... or will ever do... but because of God's mercy to us in Christ, and the redemption that we have through His innocent blood, which He shed on the cross for the remission of our sins.
@Jesus is Lord everything is temporary my friend, even the universe is.
Welcome to the club bro
@@KS-nq8vo Everything physical in this world is, but not our souls. The most important thing that people need to settle is where they will be spending eternity.
If you’re reading this: Things get better. You don’t need to believe me, but at least stick around long enough to see a change. Because there will be one. No matter how long you spend crying, you’ll be okay in the end. I love you. I need you. I want you here. Don’t give up.
It's amazing that music can move people to say stuff like this
It's sounds cheesy, but i have no doubt you meant every word, and that it was exactly what someone needed
Every now and then music gives us hope and courage to win our loneliness and our daily struggles . just keep hanging on we can all win our struggles eventually
Just keep looking on the brighter side of life even you are really bleeding inside
That's the only reason I'm here
Damn I kinda don’t care
I pray that every soul fighting depression addiction or anything that you don't speak about, don't be ashamed
My dad went to sleep.. and never wake up... "and I would have stayed up with you all night"
I miss you always daddy.. I love you..
I wish you the best, R.I.P
Your comment made me cry 😢 i feel bad for you
You brought tears to my eyes. I'll be remembering you in my prayers.
Be strong my love xx
Omg I’m so sorry
Rip
I love you stay strong 💔
I’m sorry
It's been eight long years since I lost a dear friend to suicide. Friends from high school, we met up again when he started coming into my work at least once a week. When I was going through a really hard time, where I wasn't honest with the depression I was going through, my weekly conversations kept me going just as much as seeing my children's faces. I was working up the courage to tell him how much those moments meant to me and what HE meant to me. My friends knew I was into him, but I didn't think he could ever feel that same way about me. I was so down on myself, I didn't think anyone could ever want me. I never got the chance to tell him...he was battling his own demons. After going through a bad breakup, he was a light in the dark. Even though I've moved on, been with the man of my dreams for almost seven years and married for three and a half, the "what ifs" go through my head.
Mike...I miss you every, single day. I hope I was just a little of your light in the dark as you were mine.
My condolences man here's a hug 🤗 -freddy fazbear
I cried reading this, especially at the end. I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm sure you meant so much to him, Meg. I'm wishing you the best in life and I'm so happy Mike could be there for you in those times
So very sorry for your loss xo
very sorry..
We are all not in the same boat..we are in the same storm. Some have yachts, some have canoes, and some are drowning..be kind and help when you can.
So many languages in the world and you chose to speak facts
@@yahlidan9710 No they're speaking english
@@aoibhh please tell me you are joking
Amen...
Amen
Lost my brother when I was 17 now 19 he was 19 when he passed and this song hits me every time RIP JAKE
I’m really sorry about your loss ❤❤❤
How can a song make you feel strong and weak at the same time?
The strength comes from caring. The weak comes from understanding that it takes something bigger than us.
WoaH that's actually true
Like this
@@patrickburke6065 I speak from experience.
Frequencies
I lost my brother to suicide on December 31st, I found him with my mom. It was so shocking I saw him that morning but I didn't even say hi and stayed on my laptop. He had schizophrenia and got new meds so I thought maybe give him time to rest. i don't know. He was 26 turning 27. If I could give half of my life to bring him back I would. All my friends didn't really know how to comfort me so I got mad and now I have no friends anymore. I don't do anything and sometimes I wonder if I should even exist. I have faith things will change but what's the point? But I know how much pain and suffering and heartbreak my mom got when he died because he cared for her so much they were best friends. I try my best to go out and be ok but I can't afford a therapist or to even do things by myself so I just end up watching tv wasting my life and crying.
So sorry bro... Know that your brother is in a better place and that you and your mom are strong. Things WILL get better. Letting everything out is ok❤️
hafsa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think going to a therapist is insured by your health insurance, you need that shit bro bc remember it was never your brothers intention to have such an affect on your life. Stay strong and life will be waiting for you til you can stand on your own feet again❤️
try to talk to your friends again they will understand it's hard i battle with suicidal thoughts everyday too stay strong man and talk to your mom together you can do it i'm cheering you on
It seems you have a passion for writing.. keep it up
“It’s a beautiful day to save lives”- the hardest quote to process of my life
ouch:( i miss him sm
Greys anatomy
I feel you.
My beautiful Father in-law 💔
It wasn't his time 😢 but he thought otherwise and made it his last day 😭💔
My heart will forever miss him 😭.
I’m sorry I hope god blessings you
This song is so hard to listen to now. Lost my dad to suicide 2 years ago and I still can't accept it. I just want to talk to him one more time. Just want to be able to say goodbye... I love and miss you dad...
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you love. 💛
Sorry for your loss man may your dad rest easy and fly high 🙏
I’m sorry to hear that I don’t wanna lose mine
I'm so sorry dear... I lost my Dad to cancer last October... 😥
"Runes of comfort for the bereaved"
by Ralph Blum
"I am the life and the light and the way-
The Earth is my garden.
Each of the souls I plant as seeds germinate and flower in its own season, and in each I am fulfilled.
There is no cause for grief when a bloom fades but only rejoicing for the beauty it held and praise that my will is done and my plan served.
I am one with all creatures and none is ever lost, only restored unto me having never left my side at all.
For what is it mortal cannot be separated from its source.
I am with you all,
And each of you is a channel for my light.
Feel My Love enfold you now and forever more."
I'm so sorry for your loss 😔
Does anyone else tear up listening to this song even if you're not thinking of anyone in particular?
Yes
Yea i lost a cousin due to suicide 😥
I end up sobbing. Can’t help it.
Yeah, I almost lost my life to myself.
Yes, I thought it was just me. I do the same thing when I hear Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol.
I am 31 years old and I have lost many close people from suicide, drugs, drinking n driving, war, deceases i have seen kids cry for a parent and I've seen parents cry over the loss of a child all this has changed me and has made me a better man not to take life for granted we only have a certain amount of time here on this earth and we should all cherish every single second of it yes our anger sometimes gets the best of us but we learn to let go of bad issues be happy, live life, and have fun 😃
you're right, but it can be so hard to just live life, and have fun, when everything you do is sorrounded by thoughts of unfullfilled love... and you're just lonely.
And yeah, i tried to go out alone and have fun, but it just doesn't work for me, it's not possible. Yeah, sure, i can be alone, and to things on my own, but i just need friends in my life.
+OriginalLappen idk how old your really are but for every person there is a friend the hard part is finding your type of friends but now a days it shouldn't be that hard just be an open type person or be willing of trying new things but hope u do find some good friends I'm sure u will 😃
Easier said then done
What is stopping you?
Nixk490 nobody wants to be friends with me :D that's the sad truth, i already tried so much
我的好朋友在24歲自殺走了，當時慌亂的我無助的在網路上搜尋該怎麼辦，這是我第一次聽到這首歌。快10年過去了，這影響了我以成為一個精神科醫師為目標奮鬥著，期許能幫助更多需要的人。 安 你在那邊還好嗎，我一切都好喔!
WOW, THIS IS SO COOL!!!! 🔥🔥🔥 I WANT TO BE A PSYCHIATRIST! ❤️🔥
@ Psychiatry needs to balance medicine and psychology; it’s a fascinating field! Let’s start by understanding ourselves!
I dedicate this song to my best friend ever, whose life I couldn't save. May you be in peace, J.
@MLG SHREKER I feel no need to make up a story to get likes. It is true. Thank you for your condolences, and have a nice day.
I am so sorry - I lost my best friend too. If you ever need to talk I'm here.
Rip j
Eferson Borges F for your friend hes in a better place and hopefully hes watching over you andif you don believe in religion then im sorry for your loss man
🕯
Whenever I'm feeling depressed I usually come here. This song is therapeutic to me. Well, 2 weeks before Christmas I lost my dad and now its got a different meaning. He died from complications due to his health and COVID. Here I am, trying to cope.
I’m so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry I'm crying with you how can life be so painful yet so beautiful
You got this brother🙏🏽
I have lost my entire family to life illness and other things..but always had my wife of 18yrs..then she divorced me....I was almost homeless and had to give away my only friend ..my horse for I couldn't afford to feed him also. I prayed to God to please take me...and if he didn't I would know that he had a plan for me....fast forward I am making more money than I ever did and am living comfortably still am a single guy and get offers for dates and things...but I just want my wife back......though I know she will never be back....I guess we all carry some type of pain around.
Hey love, i’m sorry to hear what happened. You’re not alone. I lost my dad back in September 2021 from covid and complications. Keep your head up
The saddest part of life is when the person who gave you the best memories becomes a memory
Wow.. your comment really touched me
This hit hard ❤️
Bro this comment is so powerful !!!
Deep..
🥺🌹✨️
Guess that's why they call it a window pain / pane
This song always makes me cry cause life is always worth living even when it doesn't feel like it.
I wish me and my dad talked more in my teenage years instead of arguing he died aged 50 and I miss him so much.
My dad didnt even know who his real father is until he was 18, his father just died at ge 60, my dad hadnt talked to him in 7 years, and that time was the 2nd time he met him
I cried.. I'm sorry to know that
I can feel you man. . .
I’m sorry 🙏🏻
Same with mine I feel the pain bro
Moral of the song......Always be willing to talk to your loved ones . Never walk away when done is suffering or you think that someone needs you to listen. Every person is precious and beautiful deserving of love and support.
"Ain't nobody calling my phone. Where you been? Where you at? What's on your mind? They say every life precious but nobody care about mine."
@@biotoxic9691 alright I'm late here I'll ask you "How's life treating you?"
@@twinedmouse7821 Well, I'm going to get things from my father this weekend as he is going to die quite soon. Stage 4 metastatic cancer. And my wife was arrested on absolutely ridiculous charges, so as a result they confiscated my two children as well. So...a bit alone.
@@biotoxic9691 Tch that's horrible.... I do hope you have the strength the carry on now I really do..
Even my father has cancer not as severe as yours but I know how you feel..
Have strength yeah?
@@twinedmouse7821 I have to at this point, I have nothing left, so I have to fight the good fight, for my wife and children if not for myself.
I'm a 28 year old man and when I need a good cry I watch this video like 3 times in a row. I'm not ashamed. Just had a good cry, it was nice.
I have the same age and a I am doing the same now 💜
@@yas3243 stay strong you're loved ❤
hope you're doing well
Sometimes a good cry can let out so much pain. I feel you brotha
me too holy shit
My cousin died last december 5 because of depression and stressed. He just cant handle the pain of being left alone inspite of having a big family but no one reaches out for him. He was so hopeless and i was wondering what could we have done to save him but everything is done and gone. Please if you are reading this and experienced this kind of feeling talk to someone reach someone that you can talk to and tell all your worries and fears.
Dad you saved my life countless times. I love you, R.I.P Frederick M Holmes Jr. My best friend, my Dad, and my hero.
justin holmes ❤️
justin holmes ♥️♥️
That's very sweet
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
justin holmes R.I.P. I'm sorry for your loss.
Nothing can prepare you for the goodbye you never thought you’d have to say. The loss that you never thought you’d have to face or the sadness that you never thought you’d have to feel.
But i was have chance to say goodbay to my mom it was the wonderful 15 minutes of my life
So true! I never thought when I said goodbye to my son 5 years ago, it would be forever. I will never get over the guilt. Never...
Sad Facts
I lost my mom 5 years from now, and I regret not being next to here when she died, and till this moment, I hate myself self for not apologizing for what I used to do and for not telling her how much she is important for me and that I love her the most
Having to say goodbye to my fiance' who was brain dead and having to make the decision to take him off life support is something I will never forget. I have had to learn to live with it but I will never forget.
LYRICS:
Step one, you say we need to talk
He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left, and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
'Cause after all, you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you
And where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
✌🏾
Thanks 👍
Awesome 👌
You rock dude!
Thanks
🤓
2025, this song is always in my mind. we all miss you The Fray❤️
I very much hate myself and my life. I have hated myself for as long as i can remember. I really am a failure and i have referred to myself as being one since i was a child. I feel inferior and below everyone else, i usually always have the lowest quality of things when compared to other people, i failed school even though i attended it nearly every day, i am physically weak and a coward who cannot stand up for himself, i have Asperger syndrome and while it's something i usually don't like to approach, i have to admit, it is the main reason for most of my problems in life. I have seen over 5 therapists and none have really made much of an impact on me, mainly because i could never really communicate with them that well and because of that i was unable to express my feelings and thoughts about things. I verbally abuse my parents whenever i am angry when they love me and try their best for me, i am ugly and don't have many friends either. I think i will become homeless when i am older seeing how it is unlikely i will ever attain a job, and with that said i probably won't ever have a relationship with someone either. I really wish i was never born and with a dark future ahead of me i am almost desperate to commit suicide at the age of 16, i really don't want to live a painful life with Asperger's and that's why i feel i should end it as soon as possible before things get too bad.
Everyone deserves to live. I'm only 15 but I can tell you now, your worth it. And things will get better at some point..
This is a big tunnel with no visible light at the end. Turning around takes a great deal of self love and faith. "What the F**k is self love? It is a BIG HUGE monster that you are fighting on a daily basis.
It would be so much easier to blame the pain on my parents, school bullies, and everyone else who has taken advantage along the way. Looking back, there was one common subject in every horrible, abusive story. Me.
When you are ready, dump all of it into the toilet and flush it down. You will miss it. You will throw up. You will want to fall back on it. Goodness, that is your comfort zone. You are a loved person, and can you imagine how many people would miss you and love you?
There is no need to be the center of attention.
KingofAmerica...I hear ya...honestly, I do....I'm ugly, worthless, and have been for 49 yrs...I was gonna kill myself 8 yrs ago...went and talked to someone, a social worker as it turned out. She got me to look at my life in a different way...and now I work in healthcare, taking care of people...I'm broke, I rent don't own a house, can't afford a car, I'll be eating in the hospital cafeteria for most of the next 2 weeks even tho I got paid today cuz I can pay for it on my hospital badge and they automatically take it out of your paycheck...............but I'm happy. I like taking care of people....I'm appreciated...and sometimes I'm even loved by women I would be normally be scared to even talk to. What I'm saying is...it can get better....but if you off yourself, you won't be around to find that out.I hope you rethink your decision. And good luck.
Kingofamerica97, bro you're in this world because you might be one of the only humans to be able to overcome pain
2. Just ignore your looks and everyones thoughts about you (except your parents) .
3. YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS, JESUS MADE U BECAUSE U ARE IMPORTANT U ARE A MIRACLE TO YOUR FAMILY! (This is out of topic but i'm a christian pre-teen boy)
I felt the same way when I was young, then all of the sudden I didn't care what people thought of me then it happened. I got a good job when I turned 18 had 2 girlfriends they didn't know about each other, and everybody wanted me around, because people all over everywhere feel the same way. Hang in there buddy it gets a lot better. Both of my parents are dead, please change your attitude towards them, one day you would give anything in the world to have just one more conversation with them. Been there done that.
"It´s a beautiful day to save lives"
Miss him
It always is
I miss derek!😭🥺
I used to watch Grey’s Anatomy as a kid with my family, and my mum always mentioned this quote. I loved it so much.
💗💗💗
This was My Mom’s favorite song 😭 I miss you so much mom. Fly high ☝🏽❤️☁️
(Thank you so much to everybody for the condolences. I really appreciate the support. To Those who have lost anybody in their life, stay strong 🙏🏽)
R. I. P
Chicken Soup rip wish u the best
I wish you the best mate ❤️
F
Me to 😭😭😭😭😭🚬
Nonton reels nya bru td. Yg dia pengen slamatin tmannya dr tertimpa bhn bangunan trbyata jd paku n beruntuun nas jd metong.. dstu liat ada tertulis audionya "the fray" cus lgsung meluncur ksni. Enak banget lagunya... sumpah diulang2 terus
7 years Christian. 7 years since you took your life. 7 years since I've seen you. I would have stayed up with you all night if I knew the signs that were in front of my face. I miss you so much and I will see you when He let's me. High school wasn't the same without you and I will never forget you.
I love and miss you so much Christian
Sorry about your loss
متع عقلك thank you
Marissa FICTION Kroll RIP sorry for your loss
FireboyYT -Minecraft and more thank you :,)
your welcome
When we’re kids, it’s the music.
When we’re adults, it’s the words.
Was just telling my GF how different it is listening to this as an adult
You appreciate this kindof music differently once you've grown up, and lived life.
It's the people & the music for me. I love how they portray happiness, sadness, smiles, tears, some real pain & everything in between. It touches my heart & I realize we're all human animals. It lets me know we're all in this together.
Tru❤
@@HakeemTheDream616beautiful ❤
I used to listen to this song when I was a kid yet I don't really knew the message. Not until today. I also lost a friend from depression, she commited suicide. I should've known how to save her, years after she passed I still see her in my dreams.
I am so sorry for your loss. You cannot blame yourself for this. There is no rule book on this. For some people, they just don’t realize how much they mean to others. She didn’t understand how much this was going to hurt you. You can keep her memory alive. Many times, the suicidal hide their plan from those they love, because she didn’t want you to change her mind. You need to talk to someone, who will uplift you and help you through this. I will pray that she Rest In Peace. I pray that God comfort you and guide you through the days of your life. We can chat if you ever need. God bless you.
@@9522ccnot funny but I hope you’ve matured
@@dxmian1803 not funny at all. I deleted my comment
@@yang8136 keeping u in my thoughts n prayers yo.
I lost a friend six months ago to suicide, it's still hard for me and I keep coming back to this song. 🖤
Yes.
Same here man
Same man
13* & 28* but still so painfully accurate
Same..
This song came out when I was 21. Just wait until your 30s.
My sister died on Thursday after a very long and difficult illness, this has been very therapeutic
Nathan Guillemette sorry for you lose brother
Sorry for ur loss
fuerza hermano
Sorry for your loss. Sending love!
I lost my sister too...I am terribly sorry for your loss.
This goes out to my best friend Jordan who lost his battle to depression and took his life last summer
Radioactive Skull
Im so sorry for your loss. But he’s in a better place now.
Sorry for your loss buddy
We are here for you
sad ,im healing the same illness since 17 years ago with a part of paranoïa, i feel better now but i know how hard is to live with depression troubles..
I didn't know depression was a battle
@@Walter-white891 what is it then?
Hits the most when it's happening in real time..
❤
I lost my dad to suicide 14 years ago and I still think of my father every time I hear this song. It really goes through all the emotions of loss.
Sorry man
❤️
Whywhy are you saying that imagine someone does that too you know how much word are powerful to depressed people
@@Jsarmy87124 bruh bffr. This is a PUBLIC comment section and the commenter has every right to share what they want as long as it's ok with the community guidelines. It's not their fault that people are depressed or battling suicidal thoughts. They have been affected by that and if they feel that they want to share their feelings here then it's ok. This entire comment section feels like a safe space for people affected by that so let them be. If you don't like it then scroll tf down
I'm so sorry. No matter how we try, the illness takes over. It's no one's fault. It's depression. A real illness. No one's fault. We try to defeat that illness. No one's fault when our efforts are defeated.
My father passed away two months ago, and today is the first time I cried. Something about this song just hit me
I'm sorry for your loss 😢 My dad passed in 2009 when I was 13 and it still hurts so bad...
2004
Stay strong buddy, all I can say is that this too shall pass. Make sure you live a life that makes your pops Proud. Love ya
2008 the year I was born my dad died in jail
Where did I go wrong? I lost my dad
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life.
That's hat hit you.... I feel so close to you.... Pls be brave .....
My brother took his life four days ago. DONT EVER FEEL LIKE YOURE ALONE. YOURE ALWAYS LOVED. ALWAYS. YOUR LIVES MATTER. THEY MATTER MUCH MORE THAN YOU KNOW. I GOT THREE LIVES TO LIVE NOW. DONT EVER THINK YOU HAVENT DONE ENOUGH, DONT EVER THINK THAT YOURE ALONE. you always have someone who appreciates you, you have always made a difference. This world won’t ever be the same without you. It WILL get better , just be around to see it. I love yall
My condolences for the loss of your brother. Be strong you are not alone too and thanks for the sweet words, we love you back too. Srry for my Bad english greetings from Austria bro
I'm really sorry to hear that . My condolences and may his sould rest in peace. Stay strong!
i'm sorry for your loss. Stay strong and thank you for these amazing words.
Thank you so much for this. This Friday is my brother memorial day. (He committed suicide). It nearly broke my dad. I have struggled with depression for over 3 years now and the only thing that keeps me going is my dad. I would never put him through that pain again.
@@itsliz1609 If you ever need anyone to talk to then just know I'm here. Praying for you and your family.
This song helps me to heal.
RIP Dad
What happened ?
It's crazy how, when something happens in your life, a song can mean so much more than it did before.
ikr
Preston Yingling hey
dandre oliver I could not agree more
Preston Yingling that's the most beautiful thing about music IMO.
Preston Yingling facts
After playing this song on loop, I finally decided to tell someone how I have been feeling for the past year. This was a huge breath of fresh air after a long time of isolating myself from other people. Thank you for this song and thank you for the people in this comment section. To you who have been listening to this song for a while now, I hope you muster all strength to choose life and be better.
What you did isn’t easy you are a strong individual you will find happiness
💜
How did you find the right person to tell ?
I think I very much regret telling people how I feel. Nobody really takes it seriously.
"It's a beautiful day to save lives people" -Derek Shepherd R.I.P Derek😭😭. "The man who has no imagination has no wings" - Muhammad Ali R.I.P Muhammad😔
RIP Mohamed ali😭😭😭😢😓
+Idiot Savant Incarnate Damn
FUCK YOU FUCK YOU IM AT SEASON 3 AND YOU SPOILED DEREKS DEATH !!!!!!
WHAT HE DIES WHAT I'M AT SEASON 2 YOU CANNOT BE SERIOUS
I watch this video because of the death of Derek Shepherd :(
My mom passed away last Sunday. We're still not exactly sure how it happened but we have our guesses. She was extremely heavy into substance abuse and also abused me like a dirty rag as a child. That also turned into her developing bipolar schizophrenia which made everything so much worse. Though she never got to show it well, she loved the hell out of me and always made some sort of effort, albeit sometimes a really messed up effort, to tell me she loved me and call me. I've probably had 250 voice-mails in just the last year from her alone. She always used to sing this song trying to remember the better times. I told myself and her that I hated her so many times. I even believed it for a long time because she had betrayed my trust so many times. I have scars inside and on my body from her. I resented her for so long and I never thought I would even cry at her passing. Now I'm just full of regret. I'm a stupid son. I let my bitterness get way too far ahead of me and I regret so many of the awful things I said to her. She still never believed it and always shrugged it off the next day, calling me and leaving me voice-mails. Mom... you were right. I was wrong. Your bubbies didn't hate you I'm so sorry. I'm so awfully sorry mom. I should've held back and bit my tongue. I'm left with such frustration and confusion on how I feel and I don't even know quite how to hurt over you. I'm so stupid.
You aren't stupid for not being able to process it the fact you can even acknowledge your own mistakes is proof of your growth and it's okay to feel regret and grieve and not cry and cry everyone processes grief differently and we are only human but that doesn't mean we are exempt from blame either when we make mistakes bit you also need to give yourself room to breathe drowning in misery and wallowing in pain doesn't help you or the ones lost but take your time however much you need be it a week a month a year or your entire lifetime you can still honor the person she was to you by living fully and acknowledging your mistakes but not wallowing in them pain and loss are natural parts of life so is mistakes but to me the fact you can feel regret over the way you acted is enough cause to believe you are capable of good and im sure that though your mother was perhaps not the best the care they must have had for you was extraordinary whether they could ever really properly verbalizd it or not life is fleeting and short things to happen that may not ever be answered the rational part of our brains demand a reason for them but sometimes there are things that happen just because they can it falls to those of us who are alive to live for all the people we care for that no longer are of this world it's not easy to take pain and keep your chin up and to continue to go on but its okay to take breaks to give yourself time to breathe to process because life is not linear we fall back and stumble but the most important thing is to keep trying, you are capable of great things and though it's a bit presumptuous of me to say im sure that your mother wished the best life for you even if they couldn't always properly express this so as someone who has experienced the pain of loss myself I hope the best for you and to live a fulfilling life no matter how long it takes
@usernotfound1191 thank you, I truly appreciate your words. Its not been an easy battle for me, but I will continue to try. I'll learn from these mistakes so as not to have the same regrets. Everyone is deserving of love and compassion.
For this christmas, I want everyone reading this comment health, a loving family and lots of hapiness.
Enjoy the last days of 2019.
Thanks 😊 you to happy holidays I hope you spend time with your family and friends
"the second you start blaming yourself for people's deaths, there's no coming back"
That is the episode I came from 🥺
Yess we have some scrubs fans
God Bless! Stay strong, stay safe and take care of yourselves! Wishing everyone the best!
I'm still there ... and i don't think I can save myself anymore ...
Yeah ...your right
When I was little, I thought he was saying “sit down, we need a dog. He walks, sit down it’s just a dog” and I was just vibing to it
OMG LMMMFAOOOO
LOOOOOL I WAS SOBBING UNTIL I SAW THIS
nice
Did you got a dog?
Omg what a twist😂😂😂
R.i.p to all those that passed away in 100years❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 700million
this song is basically instructions on how to talk to a depressed person, basically how to save a life.
I thought it was about addiction. Pretty sure it is. Trying to save his friend from the grips of addiction
Omg you are right! They should have made it the song name or something haha
'Basically' doesn't cover it.
@@ashleewhittlesey7874 The lead singer was part of a mentoring program or something of the sort for troubled youth. Apparently, he connected in particular with a young guy (he was 23, I think) who was also a musician and was struggling with depression. He ended up commiting suicide, and so the vocalist wrote this song with him in mind and you can tell he regretted not being able to figure out what kind of support that guy needed.
@@Olderaccount17 ah geez man...that hurts my soul. I'm 34 and have had clinical depression since i was a kid. Also adhd, borderline personality disorder, and generalised anxiety disorder.
It's a lot to try and manage when I'm not a functional person to start with. I've spent a not insignificant amount of time thinking that if it weren't for the preferencial treatment i got for being white, I'd very likely already be dead.
Every time I hear this song, I cry for all of those that are in pain, feel hopeless, and think that the pain is never going to end. The pain can end... (in a positive way..)
Back at the end of 2017, my best friend attempted. She was struggling for at least 6 months. She felt like she was losing her mind, her car was breaking down, she was getting into financial trouble, and nothing was professionally working out for her. Everything was just piling up on her. On top of that, she told her sister that she wanted to end it and her sister called the cops on her, and the landlord found out (she had been staying at a guesthouse).
I stayed the weekend with her to help her feel better, and tried to help her get through it, but it didn't work. She felt guilty that I unconditionally loved her when she felt that she didn't deserve that love. I did stay up with her all night the last night.. I made the mistake of going to work on Monday and nearly lost her. I figured.. it doesn't matter what I say or do.. She is going to do what she wants, but at least she knows I care..
I texted her throughout the day and she said that she felt better. But then at 3 I didn't hear from her. I figured she was taking a nap. I got very worried about her and left work early. I got to her place and she was in the bathtub, having taking a number of pills. But she was still moving! I thought, "Better angry than dead" and called 911. I got her to a hospital and saved her life!! I stayed the next day to take care of dog and just take the day off.
They took her in the middle of the night to mental facility and charged her for the ambulance ride (don't get me started on that!).
When she got back, I stayed with her the next two weeks (luckily I already had vacation days planned for the holidays) and helped her get her life back on track. She was definitely angry with me for at least 6 months. Fast forward to today, while it has been a struggle and there have been some moments, for the most part she has been able to cope with all the pressures and she says she is motivated to do better!! And she never wants to go down that road again. :-)
She recently changed her diet to an all plant-based foods and she has gotten her mind back! She now no longer has those thoughts! I am so happy she is still here. :-)
To all those who feel hopeless... things can get better! Reach out and never let go...
Wow gr8 story😭😫
Youre good man !
Bad start but beautiful ending
Thank god you were there- I see people everyday going thru pain and looking..looking..looking for just a single soul who sees them.
You truly are a blessing most people dont have 💚😭
It’s sad, there’s people who commented 11 years ago who are no longer with us. Hope they are in a better place . You fought hard
Edit: never had this many likes before but that’s not why u came back to edit. All of you are so wonderful, keep fighting , wether it’s depression, corona or other chronic illness. You matter
I know :(
To see Jesus face to face to feel Him in your arms to hear His voice and walk on water no more violence .no eye has seen no ear has herd what God has prepared for those who Love Him🌅🌺🌻🍃🌱🌊🌈🌦🌤
Theres probably people that commented yesterday and died already
A B oh fuck that got dark
@@tabathamanzanilla2912 You are racist not everyone is christ like you
and btw
Allah is the only one
I remember when my best friend committed suicide, i was angry, frustrated, sad, and confused. I didn't cry much because you stupid guy thing. That monday, i was driving home from work, and i had my music on shuffle, and this song came on... i never cried so much in my life. I apologized and understood and accepted it... i miss you so much, Josue, until next time, my friend🕊
I hear you ❤
2005
CRY AS MUCH AS YOU NEED. NOTHING MANLIER THN BEING YORSELF. sorry about your friend. he will be missed