Jule's first 'what she knows?' I can tell you, it cant be truer. I was born with a disability and I would say that the first 20 years of my life, it was my BIG PAIN. I got into therapy at 20 ivi. Let me tell you, at 26 I have build a whole career around disability. It has served me, my family and my community. I cannot believe it myself sometimes. It is in the radical acceptance of myself that I made a beautiful, beautiful life for myself. Jules is usually in a different vibration, that why she cant even express her thoughts in our normal words 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 I fvcking love her. Love OVER25
Completely agree with Jules...I always thought I was different coz I couldn't concentrate and my mind would be everywhere I forgot things time and again and I used to HATE myself for it. I couldn't find my purpose in life and I literally listened to every podcast on how to find your purpose on RUclips. Turns out me listening to all those video was part of my purpose cause through that I learnt Soo much and I can creatively come up with ideas that help people....inshort your point of pain, anger and frustrations is aligned to why God brought you here. And if you learn to get through it then you become a holding hand to the people behind you experiencing the same
I understand where Jules is coming from. For example, you could feel disorganized or messy and completely feel terrible about it maybe because everyone around you is very organized , very plan oriented or whatever, maybe even your parents keep telling you that you’re disorganized. Kumbe that “weakness” is tied to something like art, or creativity, and you use it to create beautiful things, maybe because your mind wonders a lot…
I think things l know for sure is; 1. There is a higher power who is in control of everyone that happen in life 2. Life is a journey nothing happens by mistake 3.what you think is what you become.
This is such an insightful conversation. Going into my late 20s has been like an epiphany: you can dream all you want but without action you'll always be going in circles. You have to be intentional about where you want to be in life, it's not default. Another thing I know for sure: trash in, trash out. What you feed yourself mentally comprises your quality as a human. Be careful what you let in. It's always an "aha" moment with you guys. Keep being a positive influence to the world ❤.
I love these. Thank you, ladies. When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade! To add on Jules point to having weaknesses or facing adversity, a crisis, or even misfortune, you have to use that to your advantage and turn it into a positive thing. Most of the radio or Tv personalities I know today used to be referred to as really loud individuals saying they talk too much/noise makers as if it was a bad thing. But today, look what they are doing? Keeping people entertained with their noise. Many RUclipsrs at some point were regarded as ''oversharers'' and it still happens in some spaces somewhere in social circles but see what it has birthed! Communities of helpful and insightful spaces on inexhaustible daily life topics and challenges. Work-life balance does not exist but you can excel at many things in a given time frame. I did not want to bring my spirituality and Bible here but there is a reason God said we cannot serve two masters at ago! You need to concentrate on a thing per time. For example; you can not go drinking and partying every night and then manage to get the kids ready for school every morning and then go to work and remain productive functioning like this 24/7. You can split your hours among things, your days as well, and your months and the year. School time should be school time so that work time does not suffer and work time should be work time so that home time does not suffer etc. There are tools that help with this too. And also, the boundaries help, what are you really hoping to achieve more should set the pace. I know I will get heat for this but to women especially mothers, you need that 20 minutes, 30 minutes, a day off to yourself; the house will not catch fire hopefully but you need to fix yourself somewhere in this equation if it should ever balance at all. Find time to rest.
One thing I realized recently and discovered is you attract who you are , universe supply you with what you need you just need to have intentional vibration
This was a beautiful and timely episode. Thank you for sharing! One thing I know for sure, is nothing changes if nothing changes. Another thing I know for sure is, wherever you are, there you are. You cannot run away from yourself.
Correction: Wherever you go, there you are. If you do not make peace with yourself, you will always have that baggage. It doesn’t matter where you are or what you’ve achieved.
About work life balance. I read a snippet from Shonda Rhime's book "Year of yes" where she said that she got to a point of acceptance that work-life balance might be an illusion. She realised that when she's winning in her career, she's not fully present for her children as she'd want to, and vice versa in different aspects of her life. I found that insightful. So glad you're back💃🏾
She says that when she is huko scoring A’s in motherhood, it’s at the expense of his career. If she is acing in Shondaland, she’s definitely scoring D’s in motherhood. I loved that book also❤️❤️❤️
Jules- whatever challenges you most lies the Divine purpose. Find a purpose in it, it’s a area of your gifting. This was a very good convo thanks for bringing this thought to light
Totally agree with Jules...your greatest pain gives you purpose. My early widowhood has given purpose to my life so if you have friends going through this send them my way!!!
Loved the conversation. Very insightful. What I know for sure:- 1. Consistency is key 2. Life takes care of life 3. Done is better than perfect -whatever is worth doing, is worth doing poorly
@@sunshineheaven1802 I think she means just that. The fact that most people would rather not do something if they feel like they may not do it perfectly.
Powerful message: realizing that your weaknesses and the worst parts of yourself is where your purpose lies. 1.realizing that you can use it for good. 2. Redirecting the negativity towards it to a positive place. 3. Using it to help others.
This was such a deep episode! Jules felt everythiing I definitely relate much with Jules and Ivy much.. Vibrations and energies are real and nothing is a coincidence!
I absolutely get what Jules said. A good example of myself is growing up, I always asked questions and never accepted how adults and the society at large expects us to follow some 'rules' even when they don't make sense. My curiosity was not welcomed majorly because in my tribe, children and girls are seen as a decoration and are not expected to contribute any intellectual meaning to life. I never stopped asking questions and this caused friction at home especially with my mom because i was not being a 'good model daughter'. Now in my twenties and truly finding my ground with the kind of life i want to live, I have realized that me using my voice is my greatest joy and contribution towards creating a better world. For sure it comes with consequences but i realize that the backlash i received in my childhood has built me and now i can speak on behalf of those who cannot. My voice cannot be silenced and i have embraced it and just like the women who sacrificed so much of their lives to fight for a world that is worthy of living in, I am keeping that torch alive, using my voice, to pass it on to those who are yet to come. ☺
I understand exactly what Jules is trying to say. Every human being born into this world will always experience a certain pain that is so unique to them based on their upbringing and environment and only until you overcome that thing in your life is when you can live in your true purpose! There are so many things in our lives that are challenges to us but in reality, they are rooted in something else. Eg. Anger is an emotion rooted in fear. Vengeance is an emotion rooted in the offense. In fact, a lot of things we struggle with are rooted in fear, so it is fear that we need to overcome but instead, we spend years of our lives fighting anger, vengeance, etc when the entire time we didn't realize it is fear that was always behind the circumstances happening around us.
No coincidences in life. Just today I came across my late dad's writings, he loved to write. It went thus: Sow an action, you reap a habit, sow a habit, you reap a character, sow a character, you reap a destiny. My dad has been long gone, he died October 2020, but I see the notes today, only for me to hear Ivy say the same thing just now.
I think Jules is trying to relay that we all occupy a space that needs to be occupied. Your strengths are there to fill a certain gap, and the same goes for your ‘weaknesses’.
Here's my 2 cents on the conversation about dedication: My background is in Finance however my goal is to shift to marketing and I am currently pursuing a Digital Marketing Course. However, because I am qualified to get Finance jobs, I decided to dedicate myself to the Finance job as I get through Marketing school and when I'm done I'll be qualified to work in the Marketing Industry and will be able to fully immerse myself in Marketing. Also, working in general is giving me the experience that I require such that when I start working in marketing I'll be so versed and enriched in business operations. Sometimes you may not love what you do, but as Julia said, it's definitely aligned to a greater purpose
Thank you for sharing, ladies. Glad to have you back. For me, one thing I know for sure is that life is not suppossed to be the same for everybody. Everyday is going to be different. We are constantly changing and experiencing some level of growth even when we don't notice. Times will keep shifting and every season is going to be different. Just because you are going through a difficult situation right now, it doesn't mean you are doomed for eternity. It too shall pass. So will happy times. Just live life as it comes and keep pushing.
17mins into this and I'm a Life Guru.... juu weeee this is deep and I really needed this ....thank you y'all and I agree,Jules, its literally accepting your yin and yang.
Jules, I get what you are saying. Our experiences, our circumstances are not coincidental, we go through them to come full circle. They are what it takes to bring us to our purpose or complete person.
One thing I'm sure of is whenever I believe something with all my mind,it comes to pass. My faith has activated thing I don't think I know I would have on my own
Great content as always, enjoyed it! One thing I know for sure is a scarcity and negative mindset can never result into an abundant and positive life. Your mindset is indeed everything! P.S: The audio was quite imbalanced, I could barely hear Jules and Ivy. Lornzie's "Hmmm" were way more audible😅
There is no work-life balance, just work-life harmony. Sometimes work is taking more of your time, and sometimes it's your kids but the harmony should still remain.
First of all, WELCOME BACK 🎉 Jules I would really like to hear more about the turning your weaknesses to something positive. I think you have more to say. Do a whole episode on TLC 😂
I feel like this was shot for me, I definitely needed it and the lessons are so real. My take home is " death is coming and we don't have to be scared"
What I know for sure? Deliberate practice precedes flow. Before you can start doing something effortlessly, you have to do it effortfully numerous times. 10,000-hour rule
These ladies... the intellect, the eloquence, the love & support for each, the sage nuggets they drop on us the viewers...I ❤️ it for the ladies & I ❤️ it for us. Thank u so much ladies, may u all soar to heights beyond ya wildest dreams.
The amount of things I've learned or come to understand through Jules is just 🙌🙌The way i am inspired with Ivy 👍The way Shikie is calm and lovely that's what i would love to be🥰The way Lornzie is Smart and her listening skills are just out of this world I am learning through this girls to this date 📌 Ps:I am rewatching this episode 😢
Wow , Jules I get you..the awakening, there's no better way to express it than you have, one just has to experience, and I think that now depends on the universe's timing ,God's time when one is ready. In bible terms our faith gets tested, our bit is just to hang on ,then our faith moves the "mountain " ,cos most of the times ,one got out, it wasn't by there might,,problems with blessings that solved them.ours is just to keep the faith, be authentic, grateful and it happens 🙏🏽 Love ❤️ this episode Thanks
Ivy was talking about thoughts and the universe working towards what you want..and that's is so true..guys should read "The power of the subconscious mind" you'll understand in depth how it works.
I love Jules point the one that she felt that she couldn't explain aki she explained well and ...it simply spoke to me, actually I was crying most part of the day and listening to this especially that point I saw a silver lining asante Jules
Lorna your first point reasonates with me on another level…….life has given me wueh moments but at the same time good things are actually happening to me….in as much as it would be great having it all I feel like life has to have that balance…..…so I’m learning to take those lessons and taking one step at a time working towards getting better….
WELCOME BACK LADIES! I lovvveeddd the episode. This one was such an alignment episode for me since the weekend where we were learning on being a virtuous woman and the impacts we leave and carry with us and for others plus the experience on life altogether. Talk about aha! moments. I specifically loved the candidness in this one....YES, Motivation comes after the work put in. I love how you guys were shouting so profoundly yet softly on GROWTH AND REINVENTION towards our becoming. Thank you Lornzie, Ivy, Shikie and Jules!
What I know for sure 1. Change is the only permanent thing in life. The quicker you accept and move on, the less the growing pains. 2. All of life is a process of letting go. Be graceful about it and you'll be at peace. 3. The meaning of life is connected to love.
I have a friend whom I used to have these kinds of conversations with, but she relocated and we lost touch and I really miss her. Thank you ladies for sharing your friendship with us. It's a beautiful gift.
I had missed you girls. I think what you meant to say Juls is that your greatest trauma or weakness is at the core of your purpose in life. I found out that my greatest trauma which was rejection and facing unkindness as a child was there to teach me a lesson in grace. I have found that grace and kindness come to me easily because I have been through so much and in everything I do I channel a little bit of kindness and in my experience it has brought those I have met joy. People never leave me feeling empty.
Jules is so curious about spirituality and the self. I recommend an app called Waking Up and a channel Making Sense both by Sam Harris. The app has a unique approach to mindfulness/meditation and eye-opening discussions on spirituality and the self. For any curious person that app is worth exploring.
I almost wondered when you would upload. Finally. This episode was deep.im going to do a follow up podcast based on this especially what you said Jules on mastering our inner citric and knowing that our pains and challenges actually serve our purpose.Without the enormous hurddle nobody would have known say women who struggle with fertility. The infertility was their purpose.Sounds strange but I now believe my pains are for a cause greater than myself
I really loved this conversation..incorporating Mel Robbin's 5 Second Rule in my life has done me good so far...also love Ivy's finger shake when she's agreeing to something😂😂..noticed it in other videos too🤗
Welcome back. Feeling this content. So, Destiny Cycle >Habits become patterns...patterns become beliefs and back to thoughts. That's how it passes on to your children and guys start to believe 'that family is cursed' or something. The patterns.
@Jules the Bible as well puts it clearly in 2Cor 12:9 ....God's strength is made perfect in our weaknesses. So any weakness we see in us should be used for the good and not to put yourself down. For example if one is always and continuously in debt, drz a rzon the enemy is putting u thru the same cycle but also ts because that is your greatest strength if u figure it out u could bkam the wealthiest person and teach people how to make wealth. OR u could just keep thinking your not good for anything and bkam a distressed human all your life so yeah learn to take on any weakness in the positive way and work around it with a victor mentality not a victim mentality.
Wow...I've never loved an episode so much. It was just the exact soul food that my soul needed to lay out the map for my mind and heart. I identify so much with Jules like...I'm this deeply feeling person who wholly immerses themselves in every emotion and experience that it gets so difficult to navigate sometimes...you're just like, I need to pause for a minute. And I've been struggling to accept its relevance coz of its frequency cz I'm like...do I even have time for this? But what I've come to learn through this and still keep at it is letting go..(acceptance) & just trusting the process, that Higher Power because God's Will, will not lead us where His Grace cannot protect us...most times we try to silence that inner voice and thats where its reocurrence will forever be a bane in ones existence.
You guys are so right, everything you're talking about I've been going through. Thank you for this episode sometimes you know the answer but you just need someone to tell you again to align your focus. Don't go missing again 💘
Uniqueness is where we serve the community. Embrace it in either the positive and negative aspects. Some negatives don't vanish......embrace the when they recur and know it's u
Great conversation. Though. also telling a child "you are a good kid, I don't expect this behaviour from you" might lead them into a habit of people pleasing and hiding their weaknesses and troubles because they want to be perfect. I find that letting a child know a certain behaviour was wrong, why it was wrong and working with them to avoid it as well as reassuring them of your love might be a better strategy.
Thanks julez for making the point on your weakness being directly connected to your purpose. I totally get what you're saying cause I'm dealing with something and I keep wondering why though deep down I know when I figure it out so many things will fall into place. so thank you.
What I know for sure "we are all at different Phases of life. Every time the phases of our lives keep changing. So appreciate and Utilize the phase of life you are in now positively coz Tht life phase comes n goes and there's no repeat. 💯💯
Wowowowow so powerful 👌 especially Jules really loved what you said "your weaknesses are the place of your purpose and greatest opportunities" Well for me what I know for sure is Being intentional about being consistently disciplined (at whatever it is you want) its so so so powerful
I think what Jules mean is "Your shadow/polarity" is the missing twin self that you've always been looking for in this plain of existence. Its you against the guy in the mirror..Face it, embrace it, become it..become you-niverse..These are "wounds" that get us stack in this dense matter called "body" that weighs so heavy on us. Hence, balance/ harmony emerges through receptivity +shift of attitude and perception which are the north compass when riding the waves. In a nutshell, we are here to get In-sync with all that there is/god/universal consciousness without judging... Fundamental Consciousness.xo
Eeeish💕❤️best part for my life leveling,joting anything I think down always makes me figure out everything and it's been months now that my notebook has been my great friend,anything that I always think of and put to in actions shifts to real habits📚🤗 I even remember there's an educator that told me that if you really want something try doing it continuously for 3weeks then wait for the results🙏🙏But all in all it's been God✨
Jule's first 'what she knows?' I can tell you, it cant be truer. I was born with a disability and I would say that the first 20 years of my life, it was my BIG PAIN. I got into therapy at 20 ivi. Let me tell you, at 26 I have build a whole career around disability. It has served me, my family and my community. I cannot believe it myself sometimes. It is in the radical acceptance of myself that I made a beautiful, beautiful life for myself. Jules is usually in a different vibration, that why she cant even express her thoughts in our normal words 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 I fvcking love her. Love OVER25
I'm definitely digging Ivy's look 😍😍😍
Completely agree with Jules...I always thought I was different coz I couldn't concentrate and my mind would be everywhere I forgot things time and again and I used to HATE myself for it. I couldn't find my purpose in life and I literally listened to every podcast on how to find your purpose on RUclips. Turns out me listening to all those video was part of my purpose cause through that I learnt Soo much and I can creatively come up with ideas that help people....inshort your point of pain, anger and frustrations is aligned to why God brought you here. And if you learn to get through it then you become a holding hand to the people behind you experiencing the same
You're not alone
I understand where Jules is coming from. For example, you could feel disorganized or messy and completely feel terrible about it maybe because everyone around you is very organized , very plan oriented or whatever, maybe even your parents keep telling you that you’re disorganized. Kumbe that “weakness” is tied to something like art, or creativity, and you use it to create beautiful things, maybe because your mind wonders a lot…
This!
Your comment is the explanation she was driving at for sure.
Wairimu this is iiitttttt!!
Thanks, Nimo
Whaaaaaaaaaaattttt I totally resonate with this
I am 44, but you guys have influenced me. Thank you 😊 💓. My one thing that I know for sure is you can learn from anyone.
I think things l know for sure is;
1. There is a higher power who is in control of everyone that happen in life
2. Life is a journey nothing happens by mistake
3.what you think is what you become.
This is such an insightful conversation. Going into my late 20s has been like an epiphany: you can dream all you want but without action you'll always be going in circles. You have to be intentional about where you want to be in life, it's not default. Another thing I know for sure: trash in, trash out. What you feed yourself mentally comprises your quality as a human. Be careful what you let in.
It's always an "aha" moment with you guys. Keep being a positive influence to the world ❤.
I’m an older woman 65 to be exact! I really enjoy your videos and individually as well. I follow you on instagram as well. Keep up the good work
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I love these. Thank you, ladies.
When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade! To add on Jules point to having weaknesses or facing adversity, a crisis, or even misfortune, you have to use that to your advantage and turn it into a positive thing. Most of the radio or Tv personalities I know today used to be referred to as really loud individuals saying they talk too much/noise makers as if it was a bad thing. But today, look what they are doing? Keeping people entertained with their noise. Many RUclipsrs at some point were regarded as ''oversharers'' and it still happens in some spaces somewhere in social circles but see what it has birthed! Communities of helpful and insightful spaces on inexhaustible daily life topics and challenges.
Work-life balance does not exist but you can excel at many things in a given time frame. I did not want to bring my spirituality and Bible here but there is a reason God said we cannot serve two masters at ago! You need to concentrate on a thing per time. For example; you can not go drinking and partying every night and then manage to get the kids ready for school every morning and then go to work and remain productive functioning like this 24/7. You can split your hours among things, your days as well, and your months and the year. School time should be school time so that work time does not suffer and work time should be work time so that home time does not suffer etc. There are tools that help with this too. And also, the boundaries help, what are you really hoping to achieve more should set the pace. I know I will get heat for this but to women especially mothers, you need that 20 minutes, 30 minutes, a day off to yourself; the house will not catch fire hopefully but you need to fix yourself somewhere in this equation if it should ever balance at all. Find time to rest.
"start your day with a completed task" is certainly the oil for motivation! Thanks Ivy ❤️
"From your greatest pain will come your greatest triumph". Amen to that.
One thing I realized recently and discovered is you attract who you are , universe supply you with what you need you just need to have intentional vibration
This was a beautiful and timely episode. Thank you for sharing!
One thing I know for sure, is nothing changes if nothing changes. Another thing I know for sure is, wherever you are, there you are. You cannot run away from yourself.
Correction: Wherever you go, there you are. If you do not make peace with yourself, you will always have that baggage. It doesn’t matter where you are or what you’ve achieved.
About work life balance. I read a snippet from Shonda Rhime's book "Year of yes" where she said that she got to a point of acceptance that work-life balance might be an illusion. She realised that when she's winning in her career, she's not fully present for her children as she'd want to, and vice versa in different aspects of her life. I found that insightful.
So glad you're back💃🏾
She says that when she is huko scoring A’s in motherhood, it’s at the expense of his career. If she is acing in Shondaland, she’s definitely scoring D’s in motherhood. I loved that book also❤️❤️❤️
Jules- whatever challenges you most lies the Divine purpose.
Find a purpose in it, it’s a area of your gifting. This was a very good convo thanks for bringing this thought to light
What i know for sure is that engaging with your content is one of the best decisions I ever made.
Totally agree with Jules...your greatest pain gives you purpose. My early widowhood has given purpose to my life so if you have friends going through this send them my way!!!
Loved the conversation. Very insightful.
What I know for sure:-
1. Consistency is key
2. Life takes care of life
3. Done is better than perfect -whatever is worth doing, is worth doing poorly
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I think whatever is worth doing is worth doing well....no? A little typo
@@sunshineheaven1802 I think she means just that. The fact that most people would rather not do something if they feel like they may not do it perfectly.
Powerful message: realizing that your weaknesses and the worst parts of yourself is where your purpose lies. 1.realizing that you can use it for good. 2. Redirecting the negativity towards it to a positive place. 3. Using it to help others.
This was such a deep episode! Jules felt everythiing I definitely relate much with Jules and Ivy much.. Vibrations and energies are real and nothing is a coincidence!
I absolutely get what Jules said. A good example of myself is growing up, I always asked questions and never accepted how adults and the society at large expects us to follow some 'rules' even when they don't make sense. My curiosity was not welcomed majorly because in my tribe, children and girls are seen as a decoration and are not expected to contribute any intellectual meaning to life. I never stopped asking questions and this caused friction at home especially with my mom because i was not being a 'good model daughter'.
Now in my twenties and truly finding my ground with the kind of life i want to live, I have realized that me using my voice is my greatest joy and contribution towards creating a better world. For sure it comes with consequences but i realize that the backlash i received in my childhood has built me and now i can speak on behalf of those who cannot. My voice cannot be silenced and i have embraced it and just like the women who sacrificed so much of their lives to fight for a world that is worthy of living in, I am keeping that torch alive, using my voice, to pass it on to those who are yet to come. ☺
I understand exactly what Jules is trying to say. Every human being born into this world will always experience a certain pain that is so unique to them based on their upbringing and environment and only until you overcome that thing in your life is when you can live in your true purpose!
There are so many things in our lives that are challenges to us but in reality, they are rooted in something else.
Eg. Anger is an emotion rooted in fear.
Vengeance is an emotion rooted in the offense.
In fact, a lot of things we struggle with are rooted in fear, so it is fear that we need to overcome but instead, we spend years of our lives fighting anger, vengeance, etc when the entire time we didn't realize it is fear that was always behind the circumstances happening around us.
I totally agree with you. Most times we let our emotions get hold of us and certain circumstances will trigger a response.
Jules is so deep I LOVE IT!
"yet you are able to attract yoghurt, very quickly" 🤣😅😂🤣 also Lornzie saying mmm...is so soothing 😊
No coincidences in life. Just today I came across my late dad's writings, he loved to write. It went thus: Sow an action, you reap a habit, sow a habit, you reap a character, sow a character, you reap a destiny. My dad has been long gone, he died October 2020, but I see the notes today, only for me to hear Ivy say the same thing just now.
but isn't that a coincidence? 😊
@@linadelta7914 To me it's not.
Synchronicity. The universe is confirming that message.
Jules,... So much wisdom is in you but you often find it hard to articulate it. I can so relate.
I've literally just balled out because of Jules first point, because she's described my current season in life & omg! I needed that
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Me too gal ...felt that to the core. Jules you were God sent, made so sense to us
I think Jules is trying to relay that we all occupy a space that needs to be occupied. Your strengths are there to fill a certain gap, and the same goes for your ‘weaknesses’.
Faith you've broken it down so well 😍
Shikie really loves jules...it's so cuute❤😆
Julia on spirituality, I am there with you girl! Ivy, good work keeping me to challenge myself.
Here's my 2 cents on the conversation about dedication: My background is in Finance however my goal is to shift to marketing and I am currently pursuing a Digital Marketing Course. However, because I am qualified to get Finance jobs, I decided to dedicate myself to the Finance job as I get through Marketing school and when I'm done I'll be qualified to work in the Marketing Industry and will be able to fully immerse myself in Marketing. Also, working in general is giving me the experience that I require such that when I start working in marketing I'll be so versed and enriched in business operations. Sometimes you may not love what you do, but as Julia said, it's definitely aligned to a greater purpose
Thank you for sharing, ladies. Glad to have you back. For me, one thing I know for sure is that life is not suppossed to be the same for everybody. Everyday is going to be different. We are constantly changing and experiencing some level of growth even when we don't notice. Times will keep shifting and every season is going to be different. Just because you are going through a difficult situation right now, it doesn't mean you are doomed for eternity. It too shall pass. So will happy times. Just live life as it comes and keep pushing.
17mins into this and I'm a Life Guru.... juu weeee this is deep and I really needed this ....thank you y'all and
I agree,Jules, its literally accepting your yin and yang.
Jules, I get what you are saying. Our experiences, our circumstances are not coincidental, we go through them to come full circle. They are what it takes to bring us to our purpose or complete person.
One thing I'm sure of is whenever I believe something with all my mind,it comes to pass. My faith has activated thing I don't think I know I would have on my own
Literally grateful you answered my question ❤️❤️❤️.thank you !
Great content as always, enjoyed it! One thing I know for sure is a scarcity and negative mindset can never result into an abundant and positive life. Your mindset is indeed everything!
P.S: The audio was quite imbalanced, I could barely hear Jules and Ivy. Lornzie's "Hmmm" were way more audible😅
This is so true!! People underestimate the power of mindset
There is no work-life balance, just work-life harmony.
Sometimes work is taking more of your time, and sometimes it's your kids but the harmony should still remain.
Ivy speaks my language I can relate to her alott and Shiks is just that person I can’t get tired of listening to she’s such a vibe
It's how Lornz is quite while Jules is really trying to explain herself for me😂. I really learnt a lot tho from this episode.. thank you Ladies 💯😍
Wow Jules ..that was profound,those challenges will propel you to your destiny and success 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
First of all, WELCOME BACK 🎉 Jules I would really like to hear more about the turning your weaknesses to something positive. I think you have more to say. Do a whole episode on TLC 😂
So where is the positivity in late coming😂😂😂😂😂😂
yes...that episode would really be nice.I kinda relate what Jules is saying.
I feel like this was shot for me, I definitely needed it and the lessons are so real. My take home is " death is coming and we don't have to be scared"
Ivy looks sooo good. love love her look
What I know for sure? Deliberate practice precedes flow. Before you can start doing something effortlessly, you have to do it effortfully numerous times. 10,000-hour rule
Thank you for this reminder
These ladies... the intellect, the eloquence, the love & support for each, the sage nuggets they drop on us the viewers...I ❤️ it for the ladies & I ❤️ it for us. Thank u so much ladies, may u all soar to heights beyond ya wildest dreams.
The amount of things I've learned or come to understand through Jules is just 🙌🙌The way i am inspired with Ivy 👍The way Shikie is calm and lovely that's what i would love to be🥰The way Lornzie is Smart and her listening skills are just out of this world I am learning through this girls to this date 📌
Ps:I am rewatching this episode 😢
Wow , Jules I get you..the awakening, there's no better way to express it than you have, one just has to experience, and I think that now depends on the universe's timing ,God's time when one is ready. In bible terms our faith gets tested, our bit is just to hang on ,then our faith moves the "mountain " ,cos most of the times ,one got out, it wasn't by there might,,problems with blessings that solved them.ours is just to keep the faith, be authentic, grateful and it happens 🙏🏽
Love ❤️ this episode
Thanks
They say a word is enough for the wise, and I have picked alot of wisdom here,thank you beautiful ladies and welcome back
Ivy was talking about thoughts and the universe working towards what you want..and that's is so true..guys should read "The power of the subconscious mind" you'll understand in depth how it works.
I drank some wisdom on my birthday here
Thanks ladies 🥰
I think I get what Julie is trying to say.Some problems are blessings in disguise.
Happy belated birthday
@@Eddahtattooenthusiast Thanks beautiful
When Julia was trying to explain… all I could think of was.. “ All things are working for my good. Even the “bad”
When I have a bad day. That's the song that lifts me up
I think what Jules is trying to say is that your weaknesses/ traumas can be a resource. It is all about perspective.
Ivy those LV archlight sneakers are GORGEOUS 😮💨😍
I love Jules point the one that she felt that she couldn't explain aki she explained well and ...it simply spoke to me, actually I was crying most part of the day and listening to this especially that point I saw a silver lining asante Jules
I actually understood Jules point immediately she started talking, soo deep and real!...Jules you are soo enlightened, I admire you alot!
That last part i like how Shicky is happy for Jules and her books.... 🥰 absolutely loved this episode.
Lornzie oozes wisdom. Wooow!
It hit so bad, so strong.
You all gals are great, I missed you immensely
Before I watch, I need to say this; I HAVE MISSED YOU GUYS!! I didn't realise how happy a new episode would make me. Now lemme go and watch :-)
Girls, you're truly sent from above,
This is what I needed to take me through the week 🤗
Lemme tell you Jules....i needed to hear what you said as your first point this morning so thank you sana aki...i literally cried listening to you...
Lorna your first point reasonates with me on another level…….life has given me wueh moments but at the same time good things are actually happening to me….in as much as it would be great having it all I feel like life has to have that balance…..…so I’m learning to take those lessons and taking one step at a time working towards getting better….
WELCOME BACK LADIES! I lovvveeddd the episode. This one was such an alignment episode for me since the weekend where we were learning on being a virtuous woman and the impacts we leave and carry with us and for others plus the experience on life altogether. Talk about aha! moments. I specifically loved the candidness in this one....YES, Motivation comes after the work put in. I love how you guys were shouting so profoundly yet softly on GROWTH AND REINVENTION towards our becoming. Thank you Lornzie, Ivy, Shikie and Jules!
Jules you're such an artist!
This is My absolute favourite episode 💓🌸 I love you welcome back!!
What I know for sure
1. Change is the only permanent thing in life. The quicker you accept and move on, the less the growing pains.
2. All of life is a process of letting go. Be graceful about it and you'll be at peace.
3. The meaning of life is connected to love.
Wow
Deep!
I have a friend whom I used to have these kinds of conversations with, but she relocated and we lost touch and I really miss her. Thank you ladies for sharing your friendship with us. It's a beautiful gift.
I had missed you girls. I think what you meant to say Juls is that your greatest trauma or weakness is at the core of your purpose in life. I found out that my greatest trauma which was rejection and facing unkindness as a child was there to teach me a lesson in grace. I have found that grace and kindness come to me easily because I have been through so much and in everything I do I channel a little bit of kindness and in my experience it has brought those I have met joy. People never leave me feeling empty.
Lornzie's mic was so loud. You have to resonate with her 'mmmmhhh's😂 subconsciously
It is such a struggle to listen to the others 🙂 I hope they will resolve it.
It is such a struggle to listen to the others 🙂 I hope they will resolve it.
@@debraonyango8830 They sure did because the succeeding episodes are awesome sound wise😃
Damn! An episode could never have been more timely! Looove it! ❤
Jules is so curious about spirituality and the self. I recommend an app called Waking Up and a channel Making Sense both by Sam Harris. The app has a unique approach to mindfulness/meditation and eye-opening discussions on spirituality and the self. For any curious person that app is worth exploring.
What a comeback 🥺missed you guys! This episode was so insightful full of growth nuggets❤
Jules 💯.what you perceive as your weakness is as a matter of fact who you are. It is what makes you different.
I almost wondered when you would upload. Finally. This episode was deep.im going to do a follow up podcast based on this especially what you said Jules on mastering our inner citric and knowing that our pains and challenges actually serve our purpose.Without the enormous hurddle nobody would have known say women who struggle with fertility. The infertility was their purpose.Sounds strange but I now believe my pains are for a cause greater than myself
Wueeh my favorites are back, so excited to see you. Looking good ladies
This episode has been eye opening for me, so much to learn and think about
I really loved this conversation..incorporating Mel Robbin's 5 Second Rule in my life has done me good so far...also love Ivy's finger shake when she's agreeing to something😂😂..noticed it in other videos too🤗
Welcome back. Feeling this content.
So, Destiny Cycle >Habits become patterns...patterns become beliefs and back to thoughts. That's how it passes on to your children and guys start to believe 'that family is cursed' or something. The patterns.
@Jules the Bible as well puts it clearly in 2Cor 12:9 ....God's strength is made perfect in our weaknesses. So any weakness we see in us should be used for the good and not to put yourself down. For example if one is always and continuously in debt, drz a rzon the enemy is putting u thru the same cycle but also ts because that is your greatest strength if u figure it out u could bkam the wealthiest person and teach people how to make wealth. OR u could just keep thinking your not good for anything and bkam a distressed human all your life so yeah learn to take on any weakness in the positive way and work around it with a victor mentality not a victim mentality.
"What you appreciate appreciates..." That's a good one.
I understood your point Jules...100%
Wow...I've never loved an episode so much. It was just the exact soul food that my soul needed to lay out the map for my mind and heart. I identify so much with Jules like...I'm this deeply feeling person who wholly immerses themselves in every emotion and experience that it gets so difficult to navigate sometimes...you're just like, I need to pause for a minute. And I've been struggling to accept its relevance coz of its frequency cz I'm like...do I even have time for this? But what I've come to learn through this and still keep at it is letting go..(acceptance) & just trusting the process, that Higher Power because God's Will, will not lead us where His Grace cannot protect us...most times we try to silence that inner voice and thats where its reocurrence will forever be a bane in ones existence.
Am the most happy to have you beautiful ladies back.
There's a way u guys just lift my spirit 😊
You guys are so right, everything you're talking about I've been going through. Thank you for this episode sometimes you know the answer but you just need someone to tell you again to align your focus. Don't go missing again 💘
Uniqueness is where we serve the community. Embrace it in either the positive and negative aspects. Some negatives don't vanish......embrace the when they recur and know it's u
Huraaahhhhh👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿welcome back ladies 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Great conversation. Though. also telling a child "you are a good kid, I don't expect this behaviour from you" might lead them into a habit of people pleasing and hiding their weaknesses and troubles because they want to be perfect. I find that letting a child know a certain behaviour was wrong, why it was wrong and working with them to avoid it as well as reassuring them of your love might be a better strategy.
Thanks julez for making the point on your weakness being directly connected to your purpose. I totally get what you're saying cause I'm dealing with something and I keep wondering why though deep down I know when I figure it out so many things will fall into place. so thank you.
OmG I am so happy this morning 🌄 welcome back big sisters 😩
Just the 1st point. I really needed to hear that today. Life is not fair.
What I know for sure "we are all at different Phases of life. Every time the phases of our lives keep changing. So appreciate and Utilize the phase of life you are in now positively coz Tht life phase comes n goes and there's no repeat. 💯💯
Wowowowow so powerful 👌 especially Jules really loved what you said "your weaknesses are the place of your purpose and greatest opportunities"
Well for me what I know for sure is
Being intentional about being consistently disciplined (at whatever it is you want) its so so so powerful
What l know for sure is that God protects us!!! And praying heals!!!
I think what Jules mean is "Your shadow/polarity" is the missing twin self that you've always been looking for in this plain of existence. Its you against the guy in the mirror..Face it, embrace it, become it..become you-niverse..These are "wounds" that get us stack in this dense matter called "body" that weighs so heavy on us. Hence, balance/ harmony emerges through receptivity +shift of attitude and perception which are the north compass when riding the waves. In a nutshell, we are here to get In-sync with all that there is/god/universal consciousness without judging... Fundamental Consciousness.xo
Eeeish💕❤️best part for my life leveling,joting anything I think down always makes me figure out everything and it's been months now that my notebook has been my great friend,anything that I always think of and put to in actions shifts to real habits📚🤗
I even remember there's an educator that told me that if you really want something try doing it continuously for 3weeks then wait for the results🙏🙏But all in all it's been God✨
Y'all should have a podcast ama an audio form of your channel, something someone can listen to while doing an activity. Good job on your work!
I was actually thinking of the same thing, can we call it a coincidence😂 Shikie will disagree…. Joking
@@dee1176 lol yeah there are no coincidences, we were together in spirit
For audio run with technology.update .
@@janaleokesho8374 I don't understand what you mean
Powerful episode... I struggled hearing Ivy all through.
Welcome back guys. this was a really good conversation❤. What I know for sure is God loves me. otherwise i wouldn't be here😊
I needed this. Jules! I see myself in you.
my girls are Back ❤️❤️❤️....and you'll glowing 🌟🥰🥰🥰