I’ve been dating a Nigerian guy for a year now and he is Igbo… It has been nothing but heart aches and pains.. always cheating and lying… I have decided. To break up with him next month on his Birthday… That should teach him not to play with this Proud American woman of standards🇺🇸
Girl just leave.. you’re not going to teach him anything. He won’t care, he will be alright. Breakup now, go heal sis and attract better…. That is If you love yourself and know your worth
@@Christimony222 lol girl he is not evil for cheating and lying and being a manipulator? Plus he won’t care .. he will just go get some from the other girls he is messing around with. He’s not gonna cry about it. Men are not emotional like us.. he doesn’t care that’s why he’s cheating in the first place
@@Christimony222 if anything our good sis is wasting her time plotting revenge. Take the L and go do better. What one man don’t do the next one will. We gotta learn to know our worth and when realize a 🥷 is wasting our time to pick up and go. Time is currency.
@@NKbutnot that’s not true. men do care about their birthday and their girl purposely being vindictive. If you don’t like the cheating, break up with him but purposely waiting for the one day to celebrate him is simply wrong.
I dated one recently here in Houston. Came off as the sweetest person! A Yoruba demon he was. He drunk alot and smoked a lot. It was his way or no way! He had some mean and evil ways about himself. He was very established and financial secured. He thought he was God. Looked and talked down on African Americans. First experience dating one! Thank God for saving me! I pulled a him on him. He got mad and dumped me.. sir I was raised by the OGssss… Tf out of here
@@dorothycrawford3569I never dated one until I met that one! I was completely clueless. He was a Narcissist. That’s alright though! I’m sure he’s telling his new supply the story of me 😂😂😂. A story he will never forget!
I was talking to a Nigerian guy very briefly from the DMV. He was emotionally toxic and passive aggressive. I could tell by his actions he wasn’t serious about me, but expected me to reply to his text constantly. He would give me the silent treatment and ignore me when I set a boundary. The last straw is when he deliberately bragged about seeing another girl to my face. So I blocked him immediately. I also have had a bad experience with a Jamaican recently. I’m leery about dating foreign black men now… African American men aren’t perfect either, but it’s like foreigners think it’s culturally acceptable to mistreat women…almost like it’s mandatory.
I married a Nigerian man who treated me like a queen thr whole year we dated. As soon as we married with in 3 months he changed. I made a fake social media account with pics of a beautiful black woman. Guess who slid in my dms. Yep my husband and says he is single 😮😮😮😮😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I divorced him asap and found out he got a girl pregnant during our marriage. I thank god he showed me who his man was
@Laura you people quick to divorce in black communities, no effort to make anything work in your communities, single mother are so high in your communities, like your own men are good, they have 5 baby mama most of them
Wow I’m so sorry for that I can just imagine what your going through. Hang in there sis. I only think what my husband is doing- he values is phone more than his wallet.I’m in the starting phase of preparing my paperwork to exit this non sense
There are over 250 distinct tribes in Nigeria and each culture is very peculiar. Some have got really inflated egos because a lot of the men/women are from traceable royal or generally well to-do families. It's sad that you had bad experiences
As a Nigerian man you really know too much lmao. #4 was facts, that family pressure makes it difficult to play with our own women because of the culture, they don't get done as bad as women from here. I've watched some of my brothers date others because that lack of pressure lets them do whatever.. In Africa everything is family based, your family is supposed to protect you from men who have bad intentions but since that doesn''t exist in American culture many girls get taken advantage of. I apologize on behalf of my kin sweetheart😂
thank u for ur honesty. i hv found this to be true. American women don’t get to experience the best of Nigerian men because the relationships they hv with outsiders are not respected. when i say outsiders i mean NON AFRICAN! they do the absolute bare minimum for Americans ESPECIALLY AFRICAN AMERICAN. i wouldn’t advise any black American to date Nigerians. its never gonna end well.
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Not true. I’m American and was raised with men (my father and brothers) who were very overprotective and didn’t play about me. The average American guy couldn’t understand why I was not easy to take advantage of. They were not used to a lady telling them no to sex. I was pursued by a Nigerian and ended up marrying a Nigerian. We currently live in the USA 🇺🇸
From my experience? They all end up married and are trying to play on their wife or definitely have others making excuses about spending time with his “sister “ . I dont like to generalize but will be wary going forward after these experiences. 😢
Yeah that's very true and I just went through this with one guy I wasn't really into. But it was more like a lust thing with him. He claimed to love me and everything and I was like nope I've been damaged far too long to know that you're lying.
What is "American culture"? Abuse of men and hsbands and fathers at the expense of pleasing bratty entitled female adolescents pretending to be adults their entire lives? Or the culture of fatherlessness caused by a justice system that rewards degeneracy and lack of honouring vows of only one gender by incentivising them to divorce? Yeah respectfully, I dont blame any Nigerian nor my igbo brethren from respectfully checking out of this degenerate fake "culture" thats circling down the drain.😑
It's fact.. when u date a Nigerian lady u are fully involved and known by her family members, they would outrightly ask u when u getting married some would put a timeline to it.. so most men would prefer to date other ethnic group coz they wanna play pending when they are ready to get married
The Charlotte ones woooooohhhh my goodness. The Nigerian men are definitely growing but it’s super small. So you’re right you will end up dating someone’s friend because it’s small!
Nigeria man are not good they don't forgive if you guys have miss understanding u axed for forgiveness they will never forgive you 💔😭day ar heartless and heart breaker all what I want to say to you people if you want to be happy in your relationship please don't date Nigeria man 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🙏💔😭😭😭Day will send you to your early grave
I've been dealing with Nigerian men for 10+ years now the entitledment , the ego , the cheating ugh lol like even of your a good women they will not appreciate it
I hate when men say that cause yall that say that end up worse than the last one. This why i learned to never trust a black mans word no matter what part of the world he is from.
I recently met a super duper very loving kind affectionate Nigerian man. We are in 2 different countries & that’s good so we can get to know each other before we meet. If it goes well.. we are definitely planning to marry!! We FaceTime everyday & talk throughout the day!! He’s amazing!!
The Prince Zamunda took me out 🤣🤣🤣. It’s definitely there moments and been noticing that specially in the music industry. Yeap that make sense Nigerian women is going to be on their neck.
I didn't know any Nigerians until I went away to college back in 2015 and there's where I fell for their charm. I dated one who I really liked but ghosted me after I wouldn't have sex with him. Now I keep running into them and I'm like nope I will stay away 😂😂. But they really do be fine and smell so good, but I haven't dated to one in a year now, I been more focused on this Ghanian I had to cut off 😂
as a Nigerian man, it seems you are very familiar with the culture. So if you really want to settle with a Nigerian, you know age is big for us (for kids), so abeg find your oga and settle because you seem like a beautiful and lovely young lady that is a good catch. I'm just basing on how you come across. DMV has quite a few Nigerians and who are successful. Also it's easy to find out more about a person because it is a tight-knit community. Good luck.
@@Yourstruly4.0 Submissive to respect her man, and not a 304. The main problem is that three quater of kids nowadays are bastards and raised by men that are not the fathers
I just started talking to a Nigerian man who lives there currently. I live in the USA and all the stories I'm hearing is giving me vibes to not even date this man. I never dated an African man but my friends seem to love the ones that are here in the states. Let me mention, the guy is younger and from my knowledge that alone good be an issue. I appreciate the video and will subscribe. Keep them coming.
Be careful that he isn't a scammer. Nigerian men aged 19-26 meeting wowen online, especially if you are middle aged...they are often romance scammers wanting 🤑🤑🤑.
I currently just got engaged to a Nigerian man. We are both in our Fifties. Hes so sweet. He cooks his African dishes for me, he takes me out, the sex is great. Im getting nervous reading these comments, is he going to turn on me after we get married.
Well i was at work minding my business and making money and here he comes asking for my number. He has other women, lied about his money, controlling, stalker, absence, obsession, est he's too much for me but i feel somewhat stuck.
The settle-down part, it’s a lie. Any man knows if he wants to marry you from day one or not be it Nigerian or anywhere. It has nothing to do with Nigerians at all. When we marry we just don’t marry the beauty alone. the families of both parties have to make sense. No Nigerian will want to marry into a family that is full of baggies and drama. Well, I love your disclaimer anyway.
Well that's weird and also complete b*******. Because I was talking to this one guy who was basically 34 years old. The same age as me. He's also Nigerian however he was very aggressive with me and very mean to me. Needless to say he tried to marry me and another girl. However when we had that short break up he claims that's when he met her. Then he got back with me just to scare me. So I wouldn't dare mess with them anymore. I have one left who is actually 61 and he's pretty great but he is now giving me lack of attention. So I think East African men are a lot better at least when they cheat on you they'll let you know. They don't have time to sugarcoat any fairy tales like Nigerian men and some men from Ghana
I wish we was on the phone because Ive been telling my friends this . they are like the new Chanel bags and you can tell they not use to this type of attention kind of changing how they say Nigeria men spoils you
Oh and my comme t comes with facts, i dated a yoruba guy who had a nigerian gf in secret from me. I dumped his sorry ass and to this day he still tries to cheat on her with me. These shhh dudes are just rubbish and not worth a second of attention
Because American "culture" raises wmn to be nothing but functioning Pr0s titutes that pretend to go out to "work" in corporate jobs. Thats why foreign men detect this and act accordingly from early doors. 😊
I don't think all the Nigerian man are the same, I think there are some good people in Nigeria man and I think there are some people that is bad out of Nigeria man either living in Nigeria or abroad I think some of them have a good intention from the beginning to be honest. The best advice try to understand them learn their culture try to know their family try to see their family as your own family don't be like an American lady you know what I mean by that, try to be like them love them respect them because they like a lot of respect and demand a lot of respect from a woman make sure you show them love and make sure you always want to be with them treat them like your king then you will enjoy them don't try to be control those are the some of the things that don't really like? They hate it when a woman is controlling them always have a conversation with that over time are so many things.... just know that people come from abroad just to marry Nigerian men every day that is to tell you they have some things in them that is good that nobody see 👀 but God know the best thank you very much all I wish you learn from this comment 🙏 from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@@JordanSmith-pf1om I have date 2 Nigeria guys they don't forgive they are Heartless people 💔😢do you know what I am passing through right now 💔😭😭😭😭😓I am from Sierra Leone do you know what Nigeria man did to me 💔😭😭😭😭I will never forgive him not even in my next life
@@sussybabie527 am so sorry they are the wrong people who want to use you for there selfish earn but Know that they did that for Money or something that. Benefit them
I will urge you to take an ancestry test, you will find that you are 90% Nigerian. If you look back in history, 90% of African Americans are actually nigerians
I can tell from this video, you love it. You love all that comes with being a Nigerian man. Right now you just taking a time out. Dw we’ll be here waiting for you when you’re ready to return. 😂
Nigerian men I can tell you for a fact cannot deal with any woman who will not mix with their extended families. They are very family oriented. They take good care of their ladies, for sure. Nigerians are all about culture, and their families come first, versus the African American culture. I would say take your time and blend yourself into their culture and I guarantee you, you will enjoy them after all. You are a good looking sister and shouldn't any problem being my sister in-law.
There is a Nigerian saying " that what you are looking for at Sokoto is in your sokoto" . Meaning: You don't have to go to UK to find your Nigerian man. In your case, just you bit the wrong hook. Stuff like that happens everyday randomly. No need for the generalization with your small sample size.
Not every Nigerian en are ready, same goes to other country men as well. When the lady is ready and respectful and helpful. I bet u , no Nigeria guy will live u.
your number one point has disqualifies you and it shows you do not know Nigerian culture but you think do but you don't. Nigerian operate like a family.
Quite insightful points you made there however, its popular opinion that Nigerian men are the best pick for relationships/marriages. I'll be reacting to this video 😉
No they are not. I just dumped a nigerian man that was supposed to be my boyfriend but he playing them love scam games. A few other nigerians i talked to before him were on the same bs. Claiming they love me but only try to scam me. They asked for my bank log in, sent me fake checks and only talk to me when they want to transfer money. My sister is married to a nigerian man and he cheats on her all the time and treat her like trash. They have four kids together but he still don't care. He still treats her like trash.
Everyone is talking about Nigerian men like they are a form of addiction. I keep the same question; why is it that any woman who dates a Nigerian man finds it hard to date another man if the relationship ends. They are not perfect but they are sweet. Please, leave Nigerian men for Nigerian women. Their women understand their men better. They are the most unique and sought-after African men.
Lmfao yea that’s why a lot y’all women cry during relationships.. please I have a lot of Nigerian friends who are miserable as hell. Some of yall are misogynistic Tribalistic as hell…mentally, verbally and physically abusive. You’re right tho, yall women understand yall because they take your nonsense. Nigerian women especially the Yoruba are raised to worship men… divorcee is frowned upon because the women would rather d!e then be single parent. Toxic culture. I dated an Igbo who was very very very very generous.. with his money and also his PRICK… do u know why RAN because he had a nasty mouth…very very misogynistic!!
It's funny you that mention this but plenty of your Nigerian brothers are too busy chasing other black women because they claim there is no good Nigerian women for them. Even when I tell them to just stick with their women. Because we don't like scammers Yahoo boys you get what I'm saying. You also have to understand that most African Americans are of Nigerian descent as well but at least it's a bit easier to deal with African American men.
They are also not the most sought after men they just happen to be abundant in several countries. I like to go for African men who I can't find in my country. So if I see a bunch of Nigerians in a place I'm just going to assume that it s*** where they come from. And yeah sadly I am of Nigerian descent but I was born and raised over here anywho I see way too many of them. It's like seeing a bunch of headaches So I'm going to go for the Africans that I don't see like I've never met a man from Uganda until I went to Uganda. It's the same with Tanzania never met anybody from there unless I'm there in Tanzania.
I’ve been dating a Nigerian guy for a year now and he is Igbo… It has been nothing but heart aches and pains.. always cheating and lying… I have decided. To break up with him next month on his Birthday… That should teach him not to play with this Proud American woman of standards🇺🇸
Girl just leave.. you’re not going to teach him anything. He won’t care, he will be alright. Breakup now, go heal sis and attract better…. That is If you love yourself and know your worth
on his birthday tho? thats just cruel . why not just do it before then? instead of purposely making some evil plan against him
@@Christimony222 lol girl he is not evil for cheating and lying and being a manipulator? Plus he won’t care .. he will just go get some from the other girls he is messing around with. He’s not gonna cry about it. Men are not emotional like us.. he doesn’t care that’s why he’s cheating in the first place
@@Christimony222 if anything our good sis is wasting her time plotting revenge. Take the L and go do better. What one man don’t do the next one will. We gotta learn to know our worth and when realize a 🥷 is wasting our time to pick up and go. Time is currency.
@@NKbutnot that’s not true. men do care about their birthday and their girl purposely being vindictive. If you don’t like the cheating, break up with him but purposely waiting for the one day to celebrate him is simply wrong.
I dated a Nigerian plastic surgeon that I thought was serious about his intentions and he turned out be deceptive. Be careful with those Nigerian men!
That's a Yoruba demon
😂😂😂
They always have a bad intention breaking ladies hearts n playing with people's emotions is what they do best
I dated one recently here in Houston. Came off as the sweetest person! A Yoruba demon he was. He drunk alot and smoked a lot. It was his way or no way!
He had some mean and evil ways about himself. He was very established and financial secured. He thought he was God. Looked and talked down on African Americans. First experience dating one! Thank God for saving me! I pulled a him on him. He got mad and dumped me.. sir I was raised by the OGssss… Tf out of here
That's who they are yourba are not shit either they are terrible
@@dorothycrawford3569I never dated one until I met that one! I was completely clueless. He was a Narcissist. That’s alright though! I’m sure he’s telling his new supply the story of me 😂😂😂. A story he will never forget!
Sis, you had a Yoruba demon too???? 😂😂😂😂… neva again lol
@@Osunshoney409Yessss! Unfortunately!!!!
I was talking to a Nigerian guy very briefly from the DMV. He was emotionally toxic and passive aggressive. I could tell by his actions he wasn’t serious about me, but expected me to reply to his text constantly. He would give me the silent treatment and ignore me when I set a boundary. The last straw is when he deliberately bragged about seeing another girl to my face. So I blocked him immediately. I also have had a bad experience with a Jamaican recently. I’m leery about dating foreign black men now… African American men aren’t perfect either, but it’s like foreigners think it’s culturally acceptable to mistreat women…almost like it’s mandatory.
I also will had I have made really close friends with nigerian women and Caribbean women, they’re nicer then their men ❤️
I’m so sorry you’ve had some bad experiences.. I’m sure the right one will come along soon 😀 Thank you for tuning in !
Stay home sista. We love you
Time for me to date yt men
I had similar experience and for hım it was almost a right that a man has two women.He did not call "fuckbuddy".Not Muslim, agnóstic.
I married a Nigerian man who treated me like a queen thr whole year we dated. As soon as we married with in 3 months he changed. I made a fake social media account with pics of a beautiful black woman. Guess who slid in my dms. Yep my husband and says he is single 😮😮😮😮😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I divorced him asap and found out he got a girl pregnant during our marriage. I thank god he showed me who his man was
Was he from Nigeria or a Nigerian raised in America?
@@hlengiwemasondo2858 born and raised in Nigeria.
@Laura you people quick to divorce in black communities, no effort to make anything work in your communities, single mother are so high in your communities, like your own men are good, they have 5 baby mama most of them
Wow I’m so sorry for that
I can just imagine what your going through. Hang in there sis.
I only think what my husband is doing- he values is phone more than his wallet.I’m in the starting phase of preparing my paperwork to exit this non sense
Any suggestions for me? It hasn’t been two years of marriage for me yet.
Nigerian men are the veteran Passport Bros
There are over 250 distinct tribes in Nigeria and each culture is very peculiar. Some have got really inflated egos because a lot of the men/women are from traceable royal or generally well to-do families. It's sad that you had bad experiences
As a Nigerian man you really know too much lmao. #4 was facts, that family pressure makes it difficult to play with our own women because of the culture, they don't get done as bad as women from here. I've watched some of my brothers date others because that lack of pressure lets them do whatever.. In Africa everything is family based, your family is supposed to protect you from men who have bad intentions but since that doesn''t exist in American culture many girls get taken advantage of. I apologize on behalf of my kin sweetheart😂
Interesting fact. I like this input
Lol
thank u for ur honesty. i hv found this to be true. American women don’t get to experience the best of Nigerian men because the relationships they hv with outsiders are not respected. when i say outsiders i mean NON AFRICAN! they do the absolute bare minimum for Americans ESPECIALLY AFRICAN AMERICAN. i wouldn’t advise any black American to date Nigerians. its never gonna end well.
Not true. I’m American and was raised with men (my father and brothers) who were very overprotective and didn’t play about me. The average American guy couldn’t understand why I was not easy to take advantage of. They were not used to a lady telling them no to sex. I was pursued by a Nigerian and ended up marrying a Nigerian. We currently live in the USA 🇺🇸
You lied, you can't date Nigerian men because you can't manipulate them, they are very smart 😅😅😅😅
From my experience? They all end up married and are trying to play on their wife or definitely have others making excuses about spending time with his “sister “ . I dont like to generalize but will be wary going forward after these experiences. 😢
I’m so sorry you had that experience.. and you’re right we have to be careful out here they can be tricky 😩Thank you for tuning in !
You not generalizing it’s the truth !!!
My ex husband not Nigerian and he did this. If the man wants to be committed he will if he doesn’t he won’t.
@@msj793 thank u
Yeah that's very true and I just went through this with one guy I wasn't really into. But it was more like a lust thing with him. He claimed to love me and everything and I was like nope I've been damaged far too long to know that you're lying.
If a Nigerian man is reluctant or refuse to integrated into local (American or non- Nigerian)culture, problematic.
What is "American culture"? Abuse of men and hsbands and fathers at the expense of pleasing bratty entitled female adolescents pretending to be adults their entire lives?
Or the culture of fatherlessness caused by a justice system that rewards degeneracy and lack of honouring vows of only one gender by incentivising them to divorce?
Yeah respectfully, I dont blame any Nigerian nor my igbo brethren from respectfully checking out of this degenerate fake "culture" thats circling down the drain.😑
It's fact.. when u date a Nigerian lady u are fully involved and known by her family members, they would outrightly ask u when u getting married some would put a timeline to it.. so most men would prefer to date other ethnic group coz they wanna play pending when they are ready to get married
Very insightful and understandable. As a AA married to a African I can definitely agree with some of the things you are saying but be vigilant sis🤣
Lol thank you so much😂I appreciate your support 🫶🏼
Did you marry a South African man?
The Charlotte ones woooooohhhh my goodness. The Nigerian men are definitely growing but it’s super small. So you’re right you will end up dating someone’s friend because it’s small!
Charlotte Nigerian men are definitely run in the same circles. They are charming then they flip.
Dating with intentions baby ! Don’t play with it don’t play with it!
Yessss 🙌🏽 Thank you for tuning in 🤗
Nigeria man are not good they don't forgive if you guys have miss understanding u axed for forgiveness they will never forgive you 💔😭day ar heartless and heart breaker all what I want to say to you people if you want to be happy in your relationship please don't date Nigeria man 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🙏💔😭😭😭Day will send you to your early grave
Not all they came for business am sorry
@@JordanSmith-pf1om I see, if they don't stop god will visit them just like the way he visits turkey 🇹🇷😓🥺
@@sussybabie527 am sorry but u go na try me baby girl
What is special about yall?
What did u do, that u want them to forgive?
Ghanian and Nigerian men issa no 😂
I definitely learned my lesson.
I've been dealing with Nigerian men for 10+ years now the entitledment , the ego , the cheating ugh lol like even of your a good women they will not appreciate it
THEY HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO BE HUMBLE~
Baby girl am from Nigeria and I promise you all Nigeria men are not the same
I hate when men say that cause yall that say that end up worse than the last one. This why i learned to never trust a black mans word no matter what part of the world he is from.
@@urbanq5377I wholeheartedly agree with you I had to learn the hard way several times.
@@urbanq5377 relax😅😆some of guys are nice you know
We the same… Who cares… lol 😆
I recently met a super duper very loving kind affectionate Nigerian man. We are in 2 different countries & that’s good so we can get to know each other before we meet. If it goes well.. we are definitely planning to marry!! We FaceTime everyday & talk throughout the day!! He’s amazing!!
The Prince Zamunda took me out 🤣🤣🤣. It’s definitely there moments and been noticing that specially in the music industry. Yeap that make sense Nigerian women is going to be on their neck.
I didn't know any Nigerians until I went away to college back in 2015 and there's where I fell for their charm. I dated one who I really liked but ghosted me after I wouldn't have sex with him. Now I keep running into them and I'm like nope I will stay away 😂😂. But they really do be fine and smell so good, but I haven't dated to one in a year now, I been more focused on this Ghanian I had to cut off 😂
Why you running away from love. It's obvious you're destined to marry one of us. Lol
@@Ifeanyiijeh 😂😂😂😂😂 the stress but I always come back so maybe it’s meant to be
as a Nigerian man, it seems you are very familiar with the culture. So if you really want to settle with a Nigerian, you know age is big for us (for kids), so abeg find your oga and settle because you seem like a beautiful and lovely young lady that is a good catch. I'm just basing on how you come across. DMV has quite a few Nigerians and who are successful. Also it's easy to find out more about a person because it is a tight-knit community. Good luck.
As a Nigerian man , I respect your opinion, Arnold schwazenneger said, I'll be BACK 😀, see you soon
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Never… again! He lied through his teeth about everything
When I say lie… I mean lies you ain’t ever heard before 😂😂😂
@@Osunshoney409yes honey! Lol
If you’re masculine, we will never go all the way through with you. That’s a fact!
@@Yourstruly4.0 Submissive to respect her man, and not a 304. The main problem is that three quater of kids nowadays are bastards and raised by men that are not the fathers
@@Obalufon 😂😂😂😂
@@Yourstruly4.0 not a thug
@@Yourstruly4.0 and you want a masculine offensive trans of a lady?
@@naijamusictranslate6207 I don't want for anything, ho
The math doesn't even math... why would any American woman go after a Nigerian? 😂😂😂 like what?! The currency exchange doesn't work.
Lol I don’t go after them they go after me 😩 thanks for tuning in 😌
I like the "Currency Exchange" joke!!😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao facts!!!!
I just started talking to a Nigerian man who lives there currently. I live in the USA and all the stories I'm hearing is giving me vibes to not even date this man. I never dated an African man but my friends seem to love the ones that are here in the states. Let me mention, the guy is younger and from my knowledge that alone good be an issue. I appreciate the video and will subscribe. Keep them coming.
Wishing you the best with your current relationship 😀 Thank you so much for your support and for tuning in 🫶🏼
Don’t do it because they lie so much and Nigerian men don’t respect African Americans
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Be careful that he isn't a scammer. Nigerian men aged 19-26 meeting wowen online, especially if you are middle aged...they are often romance scammers wanting 🤑🤑🤑.
@nwdailyliving have you ever been scammed by a Nigerian before?. Stop this nonsense stereotype abeg jor
I never knew dating Nigerian men was such a thing.
I currently just got engaged to a Nigerian man. We are both in our Fifties. Hes so sweet. He cooks his African dishes for me, he takes me out, the sex is great. Im getting nervous reading these comments, is he going to turn on me after we get married.
Run trust me
Girl yes they all know each other here
Yesss they do 😩 Thank you for tuning in 😀
I dated a Nigerian man and he cheated and lied and scammer. Then I met a older one and he tried the same crap but I was already on game 😂😂😂
Well i was at work minding my business and making money and here he comes asking for my number. He has other women, lied about his money, controlling, stalker, absence, obsession, est he's too much for me but i feel somewhat stuck.
Your own men don't like you
Just move on. You’re worth much more than what he is giving you.
For me my sister i fear Nigerian men like corona, i have experience with one in Dubai
Sister, you are addicted to Nigerian men. If you decide to date other Nigerian men in the UK, I must say that they have been good to you.
The settle-down part, it’s a lie. Any man knows if he wants to marry you from day one or not be it Nigerian or anywhere.
It has nothing to do with Nigerians at all. When we marry we just don’t marry the beauty alone. the families of both parties have to make sense. No Nigerian will want to marry into a family that is full of baggies and drama.
Well, I love your disclaimer anyway.
Well that's weird and also complete b*******. Because I was talking to this one guy who was basically 34 years old. The same age as me. He's also Nigerian however he was very aggressive with me and very mean to me. Needless to say he tried to marry me and another girl. However when we had that short break up he claims that's when he met her. Then he got back with me just to scare me. So I wouldn't dare mess with them anymore. I have one left who is actually 61 and he's pretty great but he is now giving me lack of attention. So I think East African men are a lot better at least when they cheat on you they'll let you know. They don't have time to sugarcoat any fairy tales like Nigerian men and some men from Ghana
I’m loving this intro !!!
I wish we was on the phone because Ive been telling my friends this . they are like the new Chanel bags and you can tell they not use to this type of attention kind of changing how they say Nigeria men spoils you
From city to city, country to country with that thing huh. Good luck and wrap it up.
I was offended when I saw the title, but watching the video made me not to be offended.
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Oh and my comme t comes with facts, i dated a yoruba guy who had a nigerian gf in secret from me. I dumped his sorry ass and to this day he still tries to cheat on her with me. These shhh dudes are just rubbish and not worth a second of attention
Yes I agree heavy on the part about foreign black men tend to us other women for seccc. So it’s almost is a waste of time.
Because American "culture" raises wmn to be nothing but functioning Pr0s titutes that pretend to go out to "work" in corporate jobs.
Thats why foreign men detect this and act accordingly from early doors. 😊
Your opinion appears discriminatory. I will do a video to correct your erroneous opinion soon
Lmao...someone is triggered.
I don't think all the Nigerian man are the same, I think there are some good people in Nigeria man and I think there are some people that is bad out of Nigeria man either living in Nigeria or abroad I think some of them have a good intention from the beginning to be honest. The best advice try to understand them learn their culture try to know their family try to see their family as your own family don't be like an American lady you know what I mean by that, try to be like them love them respect them because they like a lot of respect and demand a lot of respect from a woman make sure you show them love and make sure you always want to be with them treat them like your king then you will enjoy them don't try to be control those are the some of the things that don't really like? They hate it when a woman is controlling them always have a conversation with that over time are so many things.... just know that people come from abroad just to marry Nigerian men every day that is to tell you they have some things in them that is good that nobody see 👀 but God know the best thank you very much all I wish you learn from this comment 🙏 from Nigeria 🇳🇬
I love them but
This it for me mama's boys
Make more content about Nigeria please I want to hear more about my country Nigeria from an America
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The men in Nigeria are very heart less an evil but God will visit them with anger 💔😭💢😈I know what he can do
@@sussybabie527 no it a lie try dating a Nigerian guys you will know the different between true love and love
@@JordanSmith-pf1om I have date 2 Nigeria guys they don't forgive they are Heartless people 💔😢do you know what I am passing through right now 💔😭😭😭😭😓I am from Sierra Leone do you know what Nigeria man did to me 💔😭😭😭😭I will never forgive him not even in my next life
@@sussybabie527 am so sorry they are the wrong people who want to use you for there selfish earn but Know that they did that for Money or something that. Benefit them
Armed men just ran off with a ballot box from the latest election in Nigeria. Sounds like a haven full of desirable men...
Just say you have no game. Don’t be hating.
Yes thats right maybe someday ❤❤❤😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
10:01Okay, that was the part I was waiting for so you could still date one of us then.🇳🇬
I will urge you to take an ancestry test, you will find that you are 90% Nigerian. If you look back in history, 90% of African Americans are actually nigerians
Your point?
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I can tell from this video, you love it. You love all that comes with being a Nigerian man. Right now you just taking a time out. Dw we’ll be here waiting for you when you’re ready to return. 😂
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@AccordingToQueen yes na . We are waiting when you are ready to return
@@kennyking5606 😂😂
Maybe u have Nigeria friends who have been in America for a long time or brought up in America, but am talking about born and brought up in Nigeria
update@kiyanawillis
I ended up with one who was a Nollywood actor and a straight romantic Scammer!!!
Fallacy of hasty generalisation
Queen do not give up on us though. It may be too soon to do that. 🇳🇬 represent
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Nigerian men I can tell you for a fact cannot deal with any woman who will not mix with their extended families. They are very family oriented. They take good care of their ladies, for sure. Nigerians are all about culture, and their families come first, versus the African American culture. I would say take your time and blend yourself into their culture and I guarantee you, you will enjoy them after all. You are a good looking sister and shouldn't any problem being my sister in-law.
You're right 100-percent
Not really too many of them just be straight lying I ain't got time for that😂
There is a Nigerian saying " that what you are looking for at Sokoto is in your sokoto" .
Meaning: You don't have to go to UK to find your Nigerian man. In your case, just you bit the wrong hook. Stuff like that happens everyday randomly. No need for the generalization with your small sample size.
Igbo men dangerous yuroba at list but in general those Nigeria men are scammers there are not serious with out side woman
Hahahahah. I just met someone and she said her husband is a Prince. Lol
If the Nollywood movies are true it seems like it’s smiled upon to be a side piece.
Sorry for your experience.
Coming from a naija sis😉
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Not every Nigerian en are ready, same goes to other country men as well. When the lady is ready and respectful and helpful. I bet u , no Nigeria guy will live u.
Lol not having their way !😂
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same here … from my experience foreign men lie to much
your number one point has disqualifies you and it shows you do not know Nigerian culture but you think do but you don't. Nigerian operate like a family.
Just get to the point girl 😘
Agreed
Wahala 🙄
Quite insightful points you made there however, its popular opinion that Nigerian men are the best pick for relationships/marriages. I'll be reacting to this video 😉
Every foreign women now Nigerian men as husband now
No they are not. I just dumped a nigerian man that was supposed to be my boyfriend but he playing them love scam games. A few other nigerians i talked to before him were on the same bs. Claiming they love me but only try to scam me. They asked for my bank log in, sent me fake checks and only talk to me when they want to transfer money. My sister is married to a nigerian man and he cheats on her all the time and treat her like trash. They have four kids together but he still don't care. He still treats her like trash.
Not all are the best all the ones I talk to are ass. 😂
East African men are much better I'm sorry.
Weather you date or you no date other babes go date.
8:26 that is true
This is scary
Shebi you wan collect. You don collect nau 😂
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Nigerian women are loud and masculine 😂
Everyone is talking about Nigerian men like they are a form of addiction. I keep the same question; why is it that any woman who dates a Nigerian man finds it hard to date another man if the relationship ends. They are not perfect but they are sweet. Please, leave Nigerian men for Nigerian women. Their women understand their men better. They are the most unique and sought-after African men.
Lmfao yea that’s why a lot y’all women cry during relationships.. please I have a lot of Nigerian friends who are miserable as hell.
Some of yall are misogynistic
Tribalistic as hell…mentally, verbally and physically abusive.
You’re right tho, yall women understand yall because they take your nonsense. Nigerian women especially the Yoruba are raised to worship men… divorcee is frowned upon because the women would rather d!e then be single parent.
Toxic culture. I dated an Igbo who was very very very very generous.. with his money and also his PRICK… do u know why RAN because he had a nasty mouth…very very misogynistic!!
It's funny you that mention this but plenty of your Nigerian brothers are too busy chasing other black women because they claim there is no good Nigerian women for them. Even when I tell them to just stick with their women. Because we don't like scammers Yahoo boys you get what I'm saying. You also have to understand that most African Americans are of Nigerian descent as well but at least it's a bit easier to deal with African American men.
They are also not the most sought after men they just happen to be abundant in several countries. I like to go for African men who I can't find in my country. So if I see a bunch of Nigerians in a place I'm just going to assume that it s*** where they come from. And yeah sadly I am of Nigerian descent but I was born and raised over here anywho I see way too many of them. It's like seeing a bunch of headaches So I'm going to go for the Africans that I don't see like I've never met a man from Uganda until I went to Uganda. It's the same with Tanzania never met anybody from there unless I'm there in Tanzania.
because after you date a Nigerian u will live in panic and fear! you will be traumatized forever!
@@bukumiBrown Facts!