No this is not called black love , there's a difference they title discipline as black love when it's just parenting but this is just horrible parenting she's a horrible person
These moms are exposing themselves. If your kid is dirty, you didn't raise them properly. If your kid is doing adult activity, you didn't supervise them properly. They are supposed to be learning after you so this means you simply arent there as much as you should be, this is a reflection of your parenting.
True 1) She told the world she had a kid she had to beg to have proper hygine 2) She told the world she has an illiterate child 3) She implied that she leaves her to her own devices and expects her daughter to figure out her education
Wrong and hear me out, I was dating a women that had a 15 year old daughter, her mother had OCD and was very clean, her house was very clean. Her daughter was dirty and lazy, she would tell her everyday about 10 times to go take a shower, and she wouldn't. Her daughter had this small dog's that would piss and shit all over her room, even in her bed and she would just lay next to all that not giving a fuck, and they would always fight and always tell me she didn't raise her like that and she always sees her mother cleaning so yeah it's just laziness and dirty ass little girl. Oh yeah she would watch porn in her 7 yrs old cousin tablet and when the parents of her little cousin found out what she was doing and showing her little cousin, she would lie and say she didn't watch porn and it was her little cousin but they found out she was lying because they look at her phone and you guess it nothing but porn so yeah big cap
Fr like her mom is treating her badly and see how she just dragged her daughter while pulling her hair? That is horrible, a mother shouldn't do that to her kid of her kids are dirty It's the mother's fault because she didn't tell her daughter how to love herself or respect herself Because she doesn't respect herself so the mother should have told her how to respect herself or love herself She was even showing her daughter's face which even though she can't be doing that because that's her daughter's privacy It will make it even worse because then creeps will go after for her daughter
I feel like if your daughter has hygiene problems, you're supposed to discuss that with her in private instead of putting her on blast on the internet to be humiliated in front of millions.
That first girl may have a developmental problem or another issue because bathroom problems at that age are a definite sign of something going on mentally and/or physically. She needs help, not humiliation.
Fr, or her mother just didn’t teach her how to properly take care of her hygiene, your meant to teach your child how to take care of their hygiene, to many parents think it just “comes naturally” which is stupid and an excuse for bad parenting
If your kid is peeing the bed passed 8 yrs old at MOST, you need to reevaluate yourself as a parent. That's either due to UTI or it's a trauma response (or both)
As someone with extreme PTSD and a mental disorder I agree with this statement because it is true if it’s not caused by a UTI then it’s definitely because of trauma or the parent isn’t doing a good job at teaching
That first one was uncalled for, over GRADES???!! My grades weren't that good in school either, but that wasn't enough for my mom to expose me. Now for the second one, being in a black family, doing all that will definitely make my family hunt me down.
The first one is pure hate! The mother needs to be investigated. Then when the child becomes depressed or tries to unalive themselves, the parents act like they don’t know what was happening and want to cry.
The second mom needs to be in jail. Whatever her issues are, she needs to work out behind bars because that is abuse and that baby girl deserves more than that.
@@EnvyDeranged_IG well its kinda obvious cuz at 10 i was watching spongebob if u doin yk at 10 she prob got groomed cuz the average 10 year old wont do ts
This is so many levels of abuse. Humiliation, Yelling, Emotional abuse through her cursing and language, she acted like she was gonna hit her! Poor girl looks so scared she keeps putting her hands up (at least you can litteraly see the reflex when her mom gets closer) she can’t control that! She’s protecting herself youre HUMONGOUS!!!!
I'm heartbroken for the first girl, she could have learning disabilities that need to be addressed. I have autism and no one knew until I just recently got diagnosed. I'm 37 years old. I have issues with numbers.
I failed the same math class 3 years in a row in high school. I tried over and over but my brain couldn't understand it. I tried tutoring sessions and I came in early to talk to the teacher. I had to go to summer school to complete high school. 🤷🏻♀️ I went through the same issues as a kid, I was called stupid because I couldn't count correctly.
Nah, not really bc you can hear it in the mom's voice how hurt she was, I can tell she's fed up telling her bout it Edit: many are replying to my comment and I apologize for my narrow view on the situation, I just focused on the pain in the mothers voice without thinking about why the child is acting in a way in which is harmful to them, and I standby what I previously said, just know I didn't mean that it wasn't abuse, but the fact that it's broadcasted and now lives rent free on the internet is something that can't be undone and that , together with how aggressive her way of disciple is, was in a way wrong, but I do believe the mother tried many times before this and just snapped but even if that's the case, she shouldn't have put it on here for many of us to see
This is not the way you discipline your kids don't be crying when you're child grows up in the future and doesn't want anything to do with you there is no reason to put your kids business out there like that
Right, that’s a reflection of the parents themselves, they failed so if anything they should be recording themselves telling the audience how much of a failure they are cause humiliating your child on live for something you clearly didn’t teach them is crazy work.
Peeing the bed is a sign of sexual abuse either way if she wasn’t sexually abused why put her on blast the mom sounds like she hates her own daughter the way she’s talking to her it’s disgusting
The first mother you showed us that said her daughter has a diaper all I got to say to her is she showing how uncapable she is a raising a child aren't you supposed to potty train her???? and another thing giving her a diaper is enabling because now all your teaching her is if she has to go to the bathroom pee in the diaper .The only reason why you give babies diapers is because they're too small to pee in the toilet as grown as she is she can sit her behind on the toilet. And then you're destroying any future she has of being an Ivy League schools because they will see this they look at digital footprint forget about Spellman, Harvard, yale.
@@kimanijoseph4258 Still is up to the parents to show them unconditional love and support. Not public humiliation, I don't know what you think anyone could learn from this besides to hide from you.
You messing up your kid mental health this is one of the main reasons people nowadays doing self harm and wanting to do bad things because of stuff like this i feel for this generation God bless them going forward
the second one she aint fighting she defending herself, that mother had NO rights to hit her child, NO excuse to abuse your child, i lived with this and still do and it really pisses me off when parents think its okay to hit their kids
and peeing the bed at 14 is a trauma response its nothing to do with hygiene. also with sleeping with multiple people or one night stands , hyper-sexuality is also a trauma response . the mother needs to learn her shit before embarrassing her daughter on the full web, she thinks shes disciplining her but all she doing is ruining her mother daughter relationship and traumatising her daughter , cps needs to take that poor child away
My sister was nasty like the first one and it was 100% my mom and stepdads fault. They were very negligent to us and basically used us as slaves to cook and clean. They treated my other 3 brothers and sisters like Kings and Queens. I feel like this is the reason my sister was the way she was. Some parents be blaming their kids when it's all on them, but they don't want to take responsibility for what they turned their child into.
I’m a child of abuse and neglect too my brother is like your sister actually he’s been doing it since he was one and my parents and family just said “he’s autistic” when he isn’t and never was but I feel for you and I hope you heal from that that have an amazing day ❤
If your kid is peeing the bed that long they have been sexually abused as a kid. Your kid was abused, and you're abusing her too. Call the cops. Nasty.
This is so sad bc a lot of times children/(pre)teens will neglect their hygiene if they’re experiencing forms of sexual abuse, subconsciously assuming the person abusing them will be less attracted to them, this even is the same with weight. They may subconsciously gain weight to deflect attention.. this is wrong on so many levels, you just don’t do shit like this. She needs to be redirecting her attention & trying to figure out if this kid is depressed, not humiliating her on fb live.
This a BIIIG problem with young moms AND moms who are jealous of their daughters…. Instead of evaluating themselves as a parent they treat their daughter as if it’s a grown woman their age💯💯💯
They both have now permanently destroyed their relationships with their daughters. I pray someone will take care of you when you’re unable to take care of yourself. 🙏🏽
This should be illegal, how heartless can these mothers be. Instead of shaming your daughter on social media,I don’t know maybe get her some therapy. There is definitely something going on. Why aren’t you helping her? Stop humiliating her, girl do what they see.
If your daughter is a “thot” at 14, you’re failing as a parent big time. I can see why these kids are acting out with such horrendous parents. I teach ninth grade and would call CPS on a parent who posted their kids like this
If my child was struggling with hygiene that bad I'd be consulting a doctor not the Internet, this is just going to cause this child major trauma on top of whatever is already going on with her, I really hope someone saw who saw that got her the help she needed
This happens to be predominantly in Black people too. Often the mother seek competition with their daughters because they’re younger so they embarrassed them to make them look bad and to make themselves look better. It makes no sense why anyone can sit here and laugh at this anyways, why laugh atsomeone’s abuse? Don’t get me wrong, I love Abdul‘s channel, but it just saddens me to have to keep singing the same old black mother technique going viral for millions to see, and the children are the onlyone suffering. Does the mother not care that her child can be potentially raped or molested by another child or an adult? Does the mother not care that she is ruining her child future ,her-reputation? I honestly hope these children realize that their parents have no good interest in them and move on and have successful lives without them.
You're right. This is a major problem in black communities. I have a terrible feeling that the daughter was probably molested already. That can only explain why she urinates the bed at 14 and, according to the mom if true, she's been sexually active since 10. I wouldn't be surprised if the mother allowed the abuse to happen by a boyfriend. It is so common for black children to be abused. More black and Latino girls report sexual abuse in the U.S, than any other race. I'm half-black and know all to well about this rough relationship that black mothers have with their daughters.
5:09 nah i dont care who you are or what you do or how Angry you are is bad Enough she couldn't just have a little sit down talk with her own daughter she had to put her on facebook and Reveal her privacy Then she call her a bastard and illiterate thats...man i dont know when my mom is angry she just stay away from everone but 2 words Illiterate and Bastard shouldn't even came out her mouth let along at her own Daughter
Is the fact that😭 the mom’s can’t keep it till they self. Nobody wants to see that and the moms need to stop putting stuff on social media and embarrassing their kids and whooping them and hurting them the wrong way you feel me.
@@Mekksあdoesn’t make an excuse to literally abuse her!! 2 wrongs don’t make a right. If I had that kind of mother police will be called and she going to be locked up for years! You ain’t finna treat me like that.
This is so sad. This lady is her mother and her daughter is a reflection of her and her raising. This is more embarrassing for the mother than daughter. This mother is 🗑️
I was reading comments, and the reason why she might be pissing herself is most likely because of S/A (sexual assault), and the mom isn't even doing anything about it, in fact, might be making it worse. She's just putting her on blast instead of asking her if anything's wrong or if she got 🍇d. Defo abuse.
im 15 and if shes still peeing in the bed AND trying to get sexual stuff that is not normal and she needs medical help, therapy and idk maybe PARENTS WHO CARE FOR HER, cause clearly they dont. 🙁 your childrens behaviour depends on YOU.
If we being real the girl tried fighting her mother and that's just how African Parents react. In Africa your expected to have discipline so what the mother did was. The other thing is that the girl was being freaky for her age. I'm not sure what part of the world this was recorded but if it was Africa CPS ain't doin nothin. How do ik? I'm African myself
the only way i was able to get through this was with your wit and humor. As someone who grew up with a mom like this, I cannot IMAGINE that being broadcast to the whole world. Sincerely, it would’ve been my 13th reason I fear. I hope that girl is okay.
These poor children they're gonna grow up and remember this absolute humiliation that their parent put them through. As someone who struggles with hygiene and being really behind in school due to mental health I feel for these girls.
I feel so bad for these kids..like should they be doing the shit they’re doing?? No! But you don’t publicly humiliate them, you punish them in private. Kids nowadays, especially teenagers, are rude asf!! Doing this shit to ur kid as punishment will only lead to bullying and depression from said bullying
Exactly this needs to be said more this is actually so sad and in the future the kids will end up hating their parents and never forgetting these kind of moments
10:29 15 boutta be 16 in June😭 I’m watching you + anime + RUclips + tryna get through the 10th grade and pass my exams + video games + Roblox + according to my mother being lazy😭 I ain’t do this at 14, I’m the same now as I was a year ago.
At 13 I was groomed by a 17 year old and a 27 year old 😢 so I can understand how her mum acted like that because she doesn’t want her daughter to be traumatised it’s literally grooming but at the same point the mum could of handled it better! Remember parents go through a lot and have feelings as well and feel anger saddens stress everything
Your fault at that age you know right from wrong I don't feel bad one bit cause that sounds like it was 100% your fault for letting much older men into your life you were seeking negative attention and got it that's on you 💯
This is doing nothing but traumatizing the poor girl. The mom keeps pointing out how disgusting her daughter is , as a mother she is supposed to teach her daughter how to. Be decent and take care of herself. Just sad
This mom needs to be prosecuted and a new precedent needs to be set on how to charge these types of parents. This will be on the internet forever!!! This lady doesn’t know the magnitude of how much she has just traumatized this young lady. The mom failed her and anyone who knows them personally and doesn’t report this to the authorities has also failed this child as well.
Teenagers go through difficult stages. It can be a battle to get them in the bathroom and continue a hygiene routine, but embarrassing them on social media, nope😡
All I hear is stuff that the mom failed to properly teach her. Everything that she's trying to shame her 14 year old daughter for is her fault. She's making herself look bad as a mother as well as embarrassing her kid, I wouldn't be surprised if they weren't close when she gets older
4:12 sounds like a depression issue. I've been depressed for a long, *LONG* time and after a while, I forgot to take care of myself and more, to where it did get to the point where my mom yelled at me about my teeth and my room. While I don't know if depression can cause everything that girl is doing ,going through, etc. It's a possibility on what's going on with the teeth and stuff.
at 14(im a female) i was trying find a job, and i had two for awhile😭(i didnt need too but i wanted to be successful or atleast have some type of money before i get 20)
14, I was baby sitting making money. Played sports in school, I didn't have time for boys 😅. Money money money, made my first million about 5 yrs ago. My kids love me, I teach respect. You want McDonald's, good grades and cleaning up after yourself. My kids have bank accounts. They want the new switch they can work for it. That's love.
I feel bad for the daughter's especially the 2nd one she did not deserve that :(i can not imagine how much pain she felt after her mom saying this. I would never forgive my mom after this..
When I was 14yo, I was playing Pokemon, nintendogs on ds and drawing and watch disney💀💀💀 now I'm 26yo and still playing Pokemon Jesus Christ the parents need to take responsibilities 😭😭
I cannot fathom why some parents resort to shaming their children online as a method of discipline. It is truly appalling. Any lack of proper hygiene habits in this girl can be attributed to her mother's actions and words towards her. The mother should have instilled proper hygiene routines in her daughter at a young age. Parents often overlook the fact that once something is posted online, it cannot be erased. The girl now faces potential humiliation from her peers at school. This is a regrettable situation. In some cases, children may develop suicidal thoughts or even turn against their parents. Mom, proceed cautiously. Remember, you will eventually have to sleep. Be mindful of your actions.
If your kid is peeing in the bed at 14 years old and doing inappropriate stuff that is on YOU! because if they do that then it must mean that you have been abusing her and then you wanna cry and tell them to come back when they don’t wanna even see your face anymore! Second mother was abusing the child. I get that the child tried to fight first but that doesn’t mean to drag her by her hair and abuse her… And plus you should talk about that in private because no one wants to hear that or see that stuff and if my mother did that to me police called and dad called!! No reason to do that stuff when you can just talk about this or give them a whooping without humiliating them on the internet especially when creeps are on there.
Exactly i get so tired of parents that think posting the stuff that happens to their kids online is gonna justify the way they treat they kids, dont fucking have kids if you gonna treat them like shit then have the nerve to be confused when they child/children stop talking to them in the future like what?!
@@Pooka-tz8nr okay listen i am asian and my mom hits and slaps the HECK out of me when i do smth wrong… and instead of talking to me my mom hits me and yells at me sometimes even known as abusing me… And I’m too scared to run away or talk back because… You know I AM GOING TO BE DEAD
@@Pooka-tz8nr But from what I have seen moms have been posting private information about their kids and even whooping them on camera and have the AUDACITY to post it or even record it live so millions of people can see. At school they are going to be HUMILIATED in school and be called names by people and worst maybe even SA… they blame their kids for that when ur the one that done it!
This is terrible. This is person is not a mother, she is supposed to be her daughters first teacher, and she is traumatizing her daughter. I hope this young lady grows up and shines, forgives her evil mother and raises her children to be stellar humans. This woman needs to lose custody asap. This is child abuse and heart breaking.
Personally, emphasis on personally…Instagram isn’t raising my child. Whatever my child has going on, it’s my responsibility and business to take care of it in a way that won’t add a lot of issues to what’s already one. Embarrassing kids isn’t the main point of discipline.
Although this clip is old. I do remember it. Her mom should've been more pro active in her daughter's life. Ain't no way on this earth that she shouldve gone this long without sime kind of therapy. This is a continuance of generational trauma and they both need help.
2nd one is child abuse. I sadly was sexual when I was 10 due to SA and grape a few years back so it made me hypersexual and made me think everyone just wants me for my body. I was 10. she might’ve been sexually assaulted or something idk, I hope she gets better.
@ I was pushed up a grade because of my intelligent reading level, I also was able to get some scholarships to local community colleges out of my city due to taking part in my schools extracurricular programs which meant I got more extra credit more than permitted, if you stay in school you could be just like me x
2nd one is child abuse, Its not black love, Its child abuse.
Yeah, and the mom putting her daughter on blast, I hope she can get out of their
All of them sre
No this is not called black love , there's a difference they title discipline as black love when it's just parenting but this is just horrible parenting she's a horrible person
Riiiii
It’s not abuse. The child hit her first.
CPS needs to be called regardless. If you are blaming your child instead of taking steps to take care of their sexual health, you are neglecting them.
Facts!!!!! Just saying
Yeah why like the second video is evidence of the mom abusing the daughter? But I see what you’re saying
Yeah, my mom needs to help me with that😭😭😭😭
Right! Plus parents reflect onto their kids maybe she should fix her parenting
Who said she didn’t get her help? Her daughter need discipline too
These moms are exposing themselves. If your kid is dirty, you didn't raise them properly. If your kid is doing adult activity, you didn't supervise them properly.
They are supposed to be learning after you so this means you simply arent there as much as you should be, this is a reflection of your parenting.
True
1) She told the world she had a kid she had to beg to have proper hygine
2) She told the world she has an illiterate child
3) She implied that she leaves her to her own devices and expects her daughter to figure out her education
Wrong and hear me out, I was dating a women that had a 15 year old daughter, her mother had OCD and was very clean, her house was very clean. Her daughter was dirty and lazy, she would tell her everyday about 10 times to go take a shower, and she wouldn't. Her daughter had this small dog's that would piss and shit all over her room, even in her bed and she would just lay next to all that not giving a fuck, and they would always fight and always tell me she didn't raise her like that and she always sees her mother cleaning so yeah it's just laziness and dirty ass little girl. Oh yeah she would watch porn in her 7 yrs old cousin tablet and when the parents of her little cousin found out what she was doing and showing her little cousin, she would lie and say she didn't watch porn and it was her little cousin but they found out she was lying because they look at her phone and you guess it nothing but porn so yeah big cap
Agree Fr fr
Fr like her mom is treating her badly and see how she just dragged her daughter while pulling her hair? That is horrible, a mother shouldn't do that to her kid of her kids are dirty It's the mother's fault because she didn't tell her daughter how to love herself or respect herself Because she doesn't respect herself so the mother should have told her how to respect herself or love herself She was even showing her daughter's face which even though she can't be doing that because that's her daughter's privacy It will make it even worse because then creeps will go after for her daughter
Not always, ik a girl with great really christian parents, yet she randomly had s*x with my other friend at 2am, Soo🤷
I feel like if your daughter has hygiene problems, you're supposed to discuss that with her in private instead of putting her on blast on the internet to be humiliated in front of millions.
Frr
exactly ngl tho when you that young you do what you see your mother do they are a reflections of them it’s sad
fr like she probably has mental health issues and the mothers just making it worse
I bet you she not gon be junk asl nomo
@@shayyllano u stop copying yo parents after like 13 anything from that age and up is literally just you😂
That first girl may have a developmental problem or another issue because bathroom problems at that age are a definite sign of something going on mentally and/or physically. She needs help, not humiliation.
Considering her mother it’s perfectly understandable why she’d be like that. Her mom is literally traumatizing her and this is the evidence.
Fr, or her mother just didn’t teach her how to properly take care of her hygiene, your meant to teach your child how to take care of their hygiene, to many parents think it just “comes naturally” which is stupid and an excuse for bad parenting
@@l1liapad81right, if her mom is concerned, she needs to teach her. And if she’s worried about her grades, why doesn’t she help her with it.
Im 15yo dude but damn this shi is traumatic, how can someone treat their kid like this?
Idk
For real. The mom thinks she’s doing something but it’s this terrible parenting that contributed to her behavior.
@@daveyjones3016 true
alot of parents like this pretty much view their kids as property and not people
And its crazy bc as black people we were viewed as property years ago, but we do the same to our kids?? I would never if i had a kid
If your kid is peeing the bed passed 8 yrs old at MOST, you need to reevaluate yourself as a parent. That's either due to UTI or it's a trauma response (or both)
As someone with extreme PTSD and a mental disorder I agree with this statement because it is true if it’s not caused by a UTI then it’s definitely because of trauma or the parent isn’t doing a good job at teaching
I had a uti once my d#ck was bleeding
No some ppl are just to lazy i pissed the bed at 9 once cuz of sleep paralyzes
Using the bathroom in a dream:
I peed the bed until 5th-6th grade because of undiagnosed auto immune diseases. Thank god we figured it out
That first one was uncalled for, over GRADES???!! My grades weren't that good in school either, but that wasn't enough for my mom to expose me. Now for the second one, being in a black family, doing all that will definitely make my family hunt me down.
@@trinitymoon8053 still don't need to expose her tho
@@trinitymoon8053 doesn’t matter you don’t expose your people like that now it says a lot about the parents regardless of race
She had poo on the floor 💀 and doesn't brush her teeth either
@@B_editizzthat’s the moms fault she wasn’t teaching her daughter hygiene
That's true bro, like how do you not teach your child Hygiene and then get all mad because of GRADES?????
The first one is pure hate! The mother needs to be investigated. Then when the child becomes depressed or tries to unalive themselves, the parents act like they don’t know what was happening and want to cry.
Riii
The second mom needs to be in jail. Whatever her issues are, she needs to work out behind bars because that is abuse and that baby girl deserves more than that.
true but she talking about eat my cat and she was laid up in bed with a boy recording her naked
@@UnchangedEsEspretty sure she was groomed
“deserves more than that”💀 couldn’t you have said deserves better?
@@Kari.Productionsit actually sounds so wrong when you put it that way 😅
@@Kari.Productions….now it sounds bad 😭
If her daughter was trying to have sex since she was 10 years old, she was groomed. Point blank. Where is the counseling?
You don’t know that
@@EnvyDeranged_IG well its kinda obvious cuz at 10 i was watching spongebob if u doin yk at 10 she prob got groomed cuz the average 10 year old wont do ts
@@cacaeater17 you don’t know anything about her personal life besides what was made public so that’s not an assumption you get the liberty to make
Girl, you sound like you supporting this shit 😖💀
@@EnvyDeranged_IG exactly random ass rumors just getting passed around by what people think happened 😂
Peeing in bed for teenagers can be a sign of sexual abuse :(
yeah can be
"Could be"
@@linox9073it’s the biggest sign 😭🙏
Someone explain
@@StarshineRubyexplain what.?
Child abuse, child abuse everywhere
This is so many levels of abuse. Humiliation, Yelling, Emotional abuse through her cursing and language, she acted like she was gonna hit her! Poor girl looks so scared she keeps putting her hands up (at least you can litteraly see the reflex when her mom gets closer) she can’t control that! She’s protecting herself youre HUMONGOUS!!!!
I'm ngl great message but that "you're HUMONGOUS" sent me 😭😭💀
@@sadiedixson6116SAMEEE
I'm heartbroken for the first girl, she could have learning disabilities that need to be addressed. I have autism and no one knew until I just recently got diagnosed. I'm 37 years old. I have issues with numbers.
I failed the same math class 3 years in a row in high school. I tried over and over but my brain couldn't understand it. I tried tutoring sessions and I came in early to talk to the teacher. I had to go to summer school to complete high school. 🤷🏻♀️ I went through the same issues as a kid, I was called stupid because I couldn't count correctly.
@@LisaRaven1682you’re so right the poor girl
That second girl was getting the life beat outta her😧💀
The second mom is kid herself just you can tell she was knocked she talks to her daughter like she's her age mate 😅
Second one is literaly abuse💀
Fr 💀
Nah, not really bc you can hear it in the mom's voice how hurt she was, I can tell she's fed up telling her bout it
Edit: many are replying to my comment and I apologize for my narrow view on the situation, I just focused on the pain in the mothers voice without thinking about why the child is acting in a way in which is harmful to them, and I standby what I previously said, just know I didn't mean that it wasn't abuse, but the fact that it's broadcasted and now lives rent free on the internet is something that can't be undone and that , together with how aggressive her way of disciple is, was in a way wrong, but I do believe the mother tried many times before this and just snapped but even if that's the case, she shouldn't have put it on here for many of us to see
@@Seasoned._.3eef- yea it seemed like she just was over it I see what u mean by the pain in her voice you can hear it
@@Seasoned._.3eef-yeah true no matter what never fight your mother who bring u in the world that’s a disgrace and you’re finna get cooked too
The daughter is probably a huge troublemaker though
This is not the way you discipline your kids don't be crying when you're child grows up in the future and doesn't want anything to do with you there is no reason to put your kids business out there like that
I agree with u 😢 Frl she deserves better than that mother
Right, that’s a reflection of the parents themselves, they failed so if anything they should be recording themselves telling the audience how much of a failure they are cause humiliating your child on live for something you clearly didn’t teach them is crazy work.
Or doesn't have a future cause they committed. Black women don't need kids.
Peeing the bed is a sign of sexual abuse either way if she wasn’t sexually abused why put her on blast the mom sounds like she hates her own daughter the way she’s talking to her it’s disgusting
The first mother you showed us that said her daughter has a diaper all I got to say to her is she showing how uncapable she is a raising a child aren't you supposed to potty train her???? and another thing giving her a diaper is enabling because now all your teaching her is if she has to go to the bathroom pee in the diaper .The only reason why you give babies diapers is because they're too small to pee in the toilet as grown as she is she can sit her behind on the toilet. And then you're destroying any future she has of being an Ivy League schools because they will see this they look at digital footprint forget about Spellman, Harvard, yale.
@@Rii741 oh thank you for the clarification but that's her child nobody else is going to teach your but her
@@Abenankansah-xv8qpOr her child is just dirty some kids just don't like to be taught , listen or hear what they're parents tell them so
She wasnt going there anyway 🤣🤣
@@kimanijoseph4258 Still is up to the parents to show them unconditional love and support. Not public humiliation, I don't know what you think anyone could learn from this besides to hide from you.
@@dorathehoora4527 Unconditional love is what got her here
My moms EVER talk to me like this, cps is getting called
Period! And I'll tell them she never potty trained me!
nah fr, i wouldnt put up with nun of this, her ass WOULD be locked up🤣
You messing up your kid mental health this is one of the main reasons people nowadays doing self harm and wanting to do bad things because of stuff like this i feel for this generation God bless them going forward
That’s what I was thinking this whole time. I get this dude is trynna entertain but he not discussing this :(
exactly
@@candy7414facts
the second one she aint fighting she defending herself, that mother had NO rights to hit her child, NO excuse to abuse your child, i lived with this and still do and it really pisses me off when parents think its okay to hit their kids
and peeing the bed at 14 is a trauma response its nothing to do with hygiene. also with sleeping with multiple people or one night stands , hyper-sexuality is also a trauma response . the mother needs to learn her shit before embarrassing her daughter on the full web, she thinks shes disciplining her but all she doing is ruining her mother daughter relationship and traumatising her daughter , cps needs to take that poor child away
My sister was nasty like the first one and it was 100% my mom and stepdads fault. They were very negligent to us and basically used us as slaves to cook and clean. They treated my other 3 brothers and sisters like Kings and Queens. I feel like this is the reason my sister was the way she was. Some parents be blaming their kids when it's all on them, but they don't want to take responsibility for what they turned their child into.
I’m a child of abuse and neglect too my brother is like your sister actually he’s been doing it since he was one and my parents and family just said “he’s autistic” when he isn’t and never was but I feel for you and I hope you heal from that that have an amazing day ❤
ts does not lead to you peeing the bed gtfo
@@ariibanksay I don’t know common knowledge without saying I don’t know common knowledge
14 being passed around?! Jit im still sneaking twinkies and fruit snacks at 4am.
Same bruh😂
rii
Same😂
Sameeee im 14 not even worried bout that stuff yet 😭
Fr fr
If your kid is peeing the bed that long they have been sexually abused as a kid. Your kid was abused, and you're abusing her too. Call the cops. Nasty.
Maybe but probably developmental issues or something else
My sibling had vaginal issues as well and it came from being sexually assaulted when she was a baby so the mother is in the wrong 100%
Imagine exposing yourself trying to expose your child
This is so sad bc a lot of times children/(pre)teens will neglect their hygiene if they’re experiencing forms of sexual abuse, subconsciously assuming the person abusing them will be less attracted to them, this even is the same with weight. They may subconsciously gain weight to deflect attention.. this is wrong on so many levels, you just don’t do shit like this. She needs to be redirecting her attention & trying to figure out if this kid is depressed, not humiliating her on fb live.
"why do YOU have a daughter?" took me tf OUT
Yes
At 14 i was watching Spongebob, I'm 17 turning 18 this year and I'm STILL watching Spongebob
At least I'm not the only one still watching SpongeBob
I'm 14 and trying to climb a tree goddamn
Never too old for SpongeBob 😔
13 I’m still play tag with little kids😐
@@dice_vidsayo
This a BIIIG problem with young moms AND moms who are jealous of their daughters…. Instead of evaluating themselves as a parent they treat their daughter as if it’s a grown woman their age💯💯💯
They both have now permanently destroyed their relationships with their daughters. I pray someone will take care of you when you’re unable to take care of yourself. 🙏🏽
This should be illegal, how heartless can these mothers be. Instead of shaming your daughter on social media,I don’t know maybe get her some therapy. There is definitely something going on. Why aren’t you helping her? Stop humiliating her, girl do what they see.
14 and peeing in the bed = emotional distress depression sadness
A lot of the time it’s due to SA, very sad 💔
I only pee the bed bc I never feel like GETING upp
@@Meira_sigma please tell me this is a joke
@@ne55_ I hate to say this but it’s not I’m stop doing it tho 💩
….
i dont know what pride the second mom was trying to protect? theres NOTHING more disgraceful than what she did to her daughter
every woman like this has massive generational trauma
If your daughter is a “thot” at 14, you’re failing as a parent big time. I can see why these kids are acting out with such horrendous parents. I teach ninth grade and would call CPS on a parent who posted their kids like this
That’s mad childish. Why the mom out here embarrassing her daughter. If she has hygiene problems talk about that in private not to the whole world.
Some parents don't need kids 🤦🏾♂️
If my child was struggling with hygiene that bad I'd be consulting a doctor not the Internet, this is just going to cause this child major trauma on top of whatever is already going on with her, I really hope someone saw who saw that got her the help she needed
This happens to be predominantly in Black people too. Often the mother seek competition with their daughters because they’re younger so they embarrassed them to make them look bad and to make themselves look better. It makes no sense why anyone can sit here and laugh at this anyways, why laugh atsomeone’s abuse? Don’t get me wrong, I love Abdul‘s channel, but it just saddens me to have to keep singing the same old black mother technique going viral for millions to see, and the children are the onlyone suffering. Does the mother not care that her child can be potentially raped or molested by another child or an adult? Does the mother not care that she is ruining her child future ,her-reputation? I honestly hope these children realize that their parents have no good interest in them and move on and have successful lives without them.
sorry for the misspell. I was typing really fast.
You're right. This is a major problem in black communities. I have a terrible feeling that the daughter was probably molested already. That can only explain why she urinates the bed at 14 and, according to the mom if true, she's been sexually active since 10. I wouldn't be surprised if the mother allowed the abuse to happen by a boyfriend. It is so common for black children to be abused. More black and Latino girls report sexual abuse in the U.S, than any other race.
I'm half-black and know all to well about this rough relationship that black mothers have with their daughters.
5:09 nah i dont care who you are or what you do or how Angry you are is bad Enough she couldn't just have a little sit down talk with her own daughter she had to put her on facebook and Reveal her privacy Then she call her a bastard and illiterate thats...man i dont know when my mom is angry she just stay away from everone but 2 words Illiterate and Bastard shouldn't even came out her mouth let along at her own Daughter
Is the fact that😭 the mom’s can’t keep it till they self. Nobody wants to see that and the moms need to stop putting stuff on social media and embarrassing their kids and whooping them and hurting them the wrong way you feel me.
I mean whoppings are discipline the others you are right
@@To-be-continued-13465Don't wanna be rude but it's discipline*
@@StarshineRuby thanks for correcting me
@@To-be-continued-13465 any time🗿
These girls needs to be rescued by CPS 😢 this is so sad. Poor kids. I wet the bed til 13 and my mom was always loving and helpful about it
Me too (mine was recent)
This beyond heartbreaking she should be removed from that house !!! Disgusting how she treats her own daughter 😞💔
She tried to fight her mother
@@Mekksあdoesn’t make an excuse to literally abuse her!! 2 wrongs don’t make a right. If I had that kind of mother police will be called and she going to be locked up for years! You ain’t finna treat me like that.
@@MekksあI get that but that was child abuse
@@yukimukiiii u ain’t doin shi
@@Mekksあ and how do you know that?
This is so sad. This lady is her mother and her daughter is a reflection of her and her raising. This is more embarrassing for the mother than daughter. This mother is 🗑️
8:17 nah i am glad she Record it her self doing that to her own. Daughter Heaven knows what she dose to her off camera call c.p.s
Fr straight up outing herself as a child abuser.
I demolished that like button like it was my toilet💀💀
Bru wut u be eatin?💀
Help- ❤
Taaaacooo?belllll
@@Klause_the_wise Taco Bell and Boiled eggs
The mother in the first one was abusing her daughter. She might actually have a learning disability.
I was reading comments, and the reason why she might be pissing herself is most likely because of S/A (sexual assault), and the mom isn't even doing anything about it, in fact, might be making it worse. She's just putting her on blast instead of asking her if anything's wrong or if she got 🍇d. Defo abuse.
@@stinky-goober26do research instead because it’s not “most likely “ a sign of sexual abuse listening to comments is mad dumb
@@stinky-goober26how do y’all mistake bed rotting for sexual abuse
@@ariibankmy aunt told me that could be one of the signs of rape, idk.
These parents r failures. 😢
im 15 and if shes still peeing in the bed AND trying to get sexual stuff that is not normal and she needs medical help, therapy and idk maybe PARENTS WHO CARE FOR HER, cause clearly they dont. 🙁 your childrens behaviour depends on YOU.
an as someone who studies psychology it also can be from s/a or grooming.
8:31 Where's CPS when you need it? 😨
ongggg cps be not doing the job they need
Unfortunately cps usually just makes things even worse. That girl doesn't stand a chance w a mom like that.
If we being real the girl tried fighting her mother and that's just how African Parents react. In Africa your expected to have discipline so what the mother did was. The other thing is that the girl was being freaky for her age. I'm not sure what part of the world this was recorded but if it was Africa CPS ain't doin nothin. How do ik? I'm African myself
@@prxncess.x.tbh cps don’t do there job they. Just separate the wrong family’s
This mother told on herself. Loud and clear. Doesn't take a Psychologist to tell you the incompetence in this family
And their unhealed parents!
These women hate themselves so much.
"Wait... WHY IS THERE POOP ON THE FLOOR?!👺👺" had me rollin💀💀
the only way i was able to get through this was with your wit and humor. As someone who grew up with a mom like this, I cannot IMAGINE that being broadcast to the whole world. Sincerely, it would’ve been my 13th reason I fear. I hope that girl is okay.
Currently 13 almost 14 and i watch tiktok and still play with Barbies 😭
If you're watching content like this you're past where I was at 13
@@pearlpearl3806wrd tho
that’s good :3
@@pearlpearl3806 😭
@@pearlpearl3806 the stuff i watch ranges from barbies to this 😭
These poor children they're gonna grow up and remember this absolute humiliation that their parent put them through. As someone who struggles with hygiene and being really behind in school due to mental health I feel for these girls.
These poor children probably have several mental health issues which means a lack in hygiene
I had a dirty ass room when I was little and the reasons were severe mental problems ,if my mom did that I would of ended myself for sure
I feel so bad for these kids..like should they be doing the shit they’re doing?? No! But you don’t publicly humiliate them, you punish them in private. Kids nowadays, especially teenagers, are rude asf!! Doing this shit to ur kid as punishment will only lead to bullying and depression from said bullying
Exactly this needs to be said more this is actually so sad and in the future the kids will end up hating their parents and never forgetting these kind of moments
This "mom" should be ashamed of herself. You NEVER do this to your children.
I’m confused. How are you calling your own kid a hoe if they are not having sex with anyone. This is a mom not ready to have kids.
Agreed
Absolutely 💯 as a parent you suppose to protect your child at all cost.
10:29 15 boutta be 16 in June😭 I’m watching you + anime + RUclips + tryna get through the 10th grade and pass my exams + video games + Roblox + according to my mother being lazy😭 I ain’t do this at 14, I’m the same now as I was a year ago.
At 13 I was groomed by a 17 year old and a 27 year old 😢 so I can understand how her mum acted like that because she doesn’t want her daughter to be traumatised it’s literally grooming but at the same point the mum could of handled it better! Remember parents go through a lot and have feelings as well and feel anger saddens stress everything
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re getting better.😢
Can’t be me😂😂
@@MarkelBrown-f6fwant a cookie?
Your fault at that age you know right from wrong I don't feel bad one bit cause that sounds like it was 100% your fault for letting much older men into your life you were seeking negative attention and got it that's on you 💯
@@xirosthedark5266real
I really cant stand when mothers call their kids the b word my mom use to call me and my sister the b word
Two reasons:
1. Parent example
2. Unsupervised access to the internet
That’s all I have to say
oof, i felt that unsupervised access to the internet 😢
This is doing nothing but traumatizing the poor girl. The mom keeps pointing out how disgusting her daughter is , as a mother she is supposed to teach her daughter how to. Be decent and take care of herself. Just sad
I love your content, i watch every single day, and I smash the like button so hard that the Wifi had to reload🔥🔥
No
This mom needs to be prosecuted and a new precedent needs to be set on how to charge these types of parents. This will be on the internet forever!!! This lady doesn’t know the magnitude of how much she has just traumatized this young lady. The mom failed her and anyone who knows them personally and doesn’t report this to the authorities has also failed this child as well.
The way the intro of him saying “Y-TUBE” while his breaking the sound barrier 😂
WE MESSING UP THE GIRL’S MENTAL HEALTH WITH THIS ONE 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Npc
If im an npc you’re a crocodile
Teenagers go through difficult stages. It can be a battle to get them in the bathroom and continue a hygiene routine, but embarrassing them on social media, nope😡
Her mother should be ashamed
All I hear is stuff that the mom failed to properly teach her. Everything that she's trying to shame her 14 year old daughter for is her fault. She's making herself look bad as a mother as well as embarrassing her kid, I wouldn't be surprised if they weren't close when she gets older
still peeing the bed at her age is a sign of something dark. Her mom failed her
4:12 sounds like a depression issue. I've been depressed for a long, *LONG* time and after a while, I forgot to take care of myself and more, to where it did get to the point where my mom yelled at me about my teeth and my room. While I don't know if depression can cause everything that girl is doing ,going through, etc. It's a possibility on what's going on with the teeth and stuff.
at 14(im a female) i was trying find a job, and i had two for awhile😭(i didnt need too but i wanted to be successful or atleast have some type of money before i get 20)
Thats cool
@@trinajackson7178 Thank you
did you succeed?
@@trinajackson7178 thank you
@@akcod I’m not 20 yet but I do have savings and 2 bank accounts one savings/emergency and one for college
SMASHED THE LIKE BUTTONNN SO HARD ITS LEGS ARE SHAKING AND QUAKING AS WE SPEAKKKKK
Ayo!!!💀
FRR 😭
Ohh!!
14, I was baby sitting making money. Played sports in school, I didn't have time for boys 😅. Money money money, made my first million about 5 yrs ago. My kids love me, I teach respect. You want McDonald's, good grades and cleaning up after yourself. My kids have bank accounts. They want the new switch they can work for it. That's love.
The second one needs to go to jail fr. Im black and my mama never said or did nothing like that to me😭
Thank God smartphones were never invented in the 90s , I'm convinced my mom will do the same thing and I won't live this long
I feel the same because she use to humiliate me other ways.
I feel bad for the daughter's especially the 2nd one she did not deserve that :(i can not imagine how much pain she felt after her mom saying this. I would never forgive my mom after this..
When I was 14yo, I was playing Pokemon, nintendogs on ds and drawing and watch disney💀💀💀 now I'm 26yo and still playing Pokemon Jesus Christ the parents need to take responsibilities 😭😭
I cannot fathom why some parents resort to shaming their children online as a method of discipline. It is truly appalling. Any lack of proper hygiene habits in this girl can be attributed to her mother's actions and words towards her. The mother should have instilled proper hygiene routines in her daughter at a young age. Parents often overlook the fact that once something is posted online, it cannot be erased. The girl now faces potential humiliation from her peers at school. This is a regrettable situation. In some cases, children may develop suicidal thoughts or even turn against their parents. Mom, proceed cautiously. Remember, you will eventually have to sleep. Be mindful of your actions.
The second one is just child abuse😢
FR.... My jaw dropped😢
I smashed that like button so hard that everyone around me can’t walk for a few hours
Ayo?
bro i’m 15 almost 16, and at fourteen, i was going to the mall with my friends, but i wasn’t with guys or anything, damn 😭💀
Fr and im 15 and not even allowed to date until I’m 21😭
One year difference I was 14 in 2010 I was in the house I couldn’t even go out to the mall we usually watched SpongeBob and stuff
I'm gonna be 14 in a year and I still have no friends 🙃
If your kid is peeing in the bed at 14 years old and doing inappropriate stuff that is on YOU! because if they do that then it must mean that you have been abusing her and then you wanna cry and tell them to come back when they don’t wanna even see your face anymore! Second mother was abusing the child. I get that the child tried to fight first but that doesn’t mean to drag her by her hair and abuse her… And plus you should talk about that in private because no one wants to hear that or see that stuff and if my mother did that to me police called and dad called!! No reason to do that stuff when you can just talk about this or give them a whooping without humiliating them on the internet especially when creeps are on there.
Exactly i get so tired of parents that think posting the stuff that happens to their kids online is gonna justify the way they treat they kids, dont fucking have kids if you gonna treat them like shit then have the nerve to be confused when they child/children stop talking to them in the future like what?!
@@Pooka-tz8nr okay listen i am asian and my mom hits and slaps the HECK out of me when i do smth wrong… and instead of talking to me my mom hits me and yells at me sometimes even known as abusing me… And I’m too scared to run away or talk back because… You know I AM GOING TO BE DEAD
@@Pooka-tz8nr But from what I have seen moms have been posting private information about their kids and even whooping them on camera and have the AUDACITY to post it or even record it live so millions of people can see. At school they are going to be HUMILIATED in school and be called names by people and worst maybe even SA… they blame their kids for that when ur the one that done it!
And this is why your kids will cut you off when they get older
“you talking like u her friend” EXACTLY.🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Ok the second one is just absolutely disgusting I hope after that cps was called ts is embarrassing asf abusing ur kid online is just messed up
'You got beef with your toothbrush?' 😂
That’s child abuse, and if she doesn’t have good Hygiene Habits that’s mom’s failure Teach your child. She is a horrible mother
This is terrible. This is person is not a mother, she is supposed to be her daughters first teacher, and she is traumatizing her daughter. I hope this young lady grows up and shines, forgives her evil mother and raises her children to be stellar humans. This woman needs to lose custody asap. This is child abuse and heart breaking.
Womp womp
@@Kiyotaka_Ayanokoji-hc5hq bro stfu ain't nobody cares 🤦♀️
These moms are just exposing their own self. The kids learn from their behavior.
The way certain mothers talk to their children is disgraceful, they should have never had kids.
Personally, emphasis on personally…Instagram isn’t raising my child. Whatever my child has going on, it’s my responsibility and business to take care of it in a way that won’t add a lot of issues to what’s already one. Embarrassing kids isn’t the main point of discipline.
It not even discipline it bullying and abuse
@ I definitely agree. None of what is shown here is discipline. It’s really just parents taking their frustration out on their kids.
Although this clip is old. I do remember it. Her mom should've been more pro active in her daughter's life. Ain't no way on this earth that she shouldve gone this long without sime kind of therapy. This is a continuance of generational trauma and they both need help.
2nd one is child abuse. I sadly was sexual when I was 10 due to SA and grape a few years back so it made me hypersexual and made me think everyone just wants me for my body. I was 10. she might’ve been sexually assaulted or something idk, I hope she gets better.
At fourteen, I was studying my ass off and then went to college at 16, here I am at 17, still trying to make my parents, siblings, and myself proud 🙏🙏
How'd you go to college at 16
@ I was pushed up a grade because of my intelligent reading level, I also was able to get some scholarships to local community colleges out of my city due to taking part in my schools extracurricular programs which meant I got more extra credit more than permitted, if you stay in school you could be just like me x
Calling your daughter all those names can't help any situation that's literally a product of you and obviously you don't respect yourself