Yes he has too. Now at this time of age. There's not many girls born like that. If i ever like a girl i would want marry that personality that same as the second girl.
@@victorinediop9227 maybe but he should have discussed it with her beforehand then do whatever he likes after. It's like ur mum or dad or bro or sia changed their religion without telling you. 'oh yeh guys btw I'm a ---------- now' ???? That's rude.
The first girl seemed like she had a problem with religion and didn't think of her significant other and how he felt. The other girls were very accepting and had much support they were only mad that they didn't include them into the decision and I really liked this video its was very interesting!
yeah, I 100% agree with this. most of the women (especially the last one) were very upset about their loved one making a big decision without them. I think a better experiment that could have been done is: Men asked their significant other if they would convert with them.
@@windwind6755 you may have misunderstood my point. These women weren’t angry that he converted, they were upset that he didn’t tell them prior to doing it. I’m not sure if you’re married or have a significant partner but one key to success of a marriage or with your other partner is asking their opinion about big decisions. Sharing it with them. Even if you’ve made up your mind and you’re going to do something regardless if your partner likes it or not, it’s very respectful to tell your partner about a decision rather than doing it and telling them after. Trust me. This is key to a successful relationship.
The women were not having a problem with teh religion. But saw that it was a big change in their partner´s life and felt not trusted enough to be part of it. I understand them.
thank you very much for your answer. I dont believe in Religion but I do believe in the one you should not give a name. And as a partner beeing excluded of something that is so important I would be hurt very much 2. I would also like to talk about it in privacy (where I feel more comfortable) and would need some time to figure out what is going on and why I am so hurt.
I love the second partners. That female is truely supportive and I really understand why she got upset. "you did it without me". This is true partner. Dude should propose to her.
I don't think any of these people were racist, they were more upset that this huge life changing decision is done without them. Being in a relationship means sharing a life.
Religion is not something simple, it's a new life, new belief, new practices, it would even affect their children in the future. So yeah I would be upset if such thing happened to me.
@@李珊-f2r That comment itself is racist. You just generalized the colour of someones body. Most white people are NOT racist. Alot are. Hundreds of thousands are. Hundreds of thousands of black people are, too. You're racist.
I can understand these women .. they are not mad about the religion. They were mad bcs the guys didnt share with their partner about the thought of converting.
@Jaan Jaan you definitely don't have a partner... Look back here once you've been together with someone else 3 years. And come on... In the heat of it (like this is) then obviously you can get flared up, and Muslims is probably the easiest religion to have stereotypes against in the west. Don't believe this video tells completely what they necessary think. If my girlfriend randomly said she converted I'd feel betrayed since she hadn't told me, something she had hidden from me. But sure, if anyone did have anything against Muslims it would be the first, even though I don't think so either.
@@Redwallagge that's what I wanted to say. Being with your partner which u believe there should be no secret between each other, sharing your thoughts are important. Suddenly came up with a big decision without saying anything will hurt your significant other. Like we don't consider her being someone really important in our live and their opinion really matter cz what happen in our life will affect hers too.
I understand why the second (?) girl was upset. She was supportive, but she wanted to part of it. I would’ve been the same thing. She would support you, but she would’ve like to known you were doing this before you actually decided to go through it.
Exactly. I'm a buddhist but I think religion should be a thing that makes you happy. There are some things in buddhism that I dont follow. Anybody can do what they want. So anyway I 100% agree with what your said.
Grade Berkley happiness doesn’t define what’s true and what’s false. A drug attic is happy and he believes drinking his whole life and ruining it is making him happy. Happiness is not defined by the Truth. Only 1 religion can be the truth. All the rest have to be false. They cannot all be true.
I don't understand how any of the boyfriends were being dishonest. They thought it over in private and came to a decision, then asked them about it. Do we have to update our spouse with progress reports on each significant belief?
@@GunBreaux It's not about updating their partners on your own beliefs. It's omiting a life changing decision to the couple's dynamic (conversion). The conversion itself brings with it a huge impact on BOTH their lives. And as a couple, the fundaments of a relationship are honesty, respect and reciprocity. It's not right for you to make a decision that directly affects the life of your significant other without at least giving them a heads up.
@@dino339 sure, what if your relationship was partially built based on your religion? if the other partner notices that you may start to have different beliefs, then it is okay to shatter the relationship. it should be understandable.
@@911SuperGT a materialistic relationship can also be partially built by things like: wealth, health, personality! How are you going to test their relationship integrity if you don't tell her that you went bankrupt? or got a handicapping disease? or made a problem that will get you into jail? all these things can be a burden for a women to bear and demands patience/supportive.. i don't see faith any different than that.. in fact it is less impactful than the rest.. which is a shame to see some pop off that much on spot..
It’s obvious that they were upset because they didn’t know from the start And that’s a big problem if you’re in a relationship and start making big dicisions without talking to your significant other
I think the issue here is actually women wants to be included in the decision making process. Whether they support you or they don’t, is a totally different story. Edit: i mean this is just my opinion of course.
I agree. A person as an individual does not have to get another’s persons Acceptance towards them changing their religion. I don’t think a person does not support or accepts another persons belief, faith, customs etc. Is not worthy of you. P E R I O D
I have to disagree. Converting to any religions will change their belief, their behaviors toward others, & what they value about life. You are too naive if you think converting to any religion is just a personal decision like picking up new Ice cream flavor.
Hessa Aldereih they don’t actually Hessa. They are just made their significant other didn’t include them in the decision because that shows they didn’t care about including them. They wanted to be apart of each other’s lives and help each other.
@@nearpod5207 yes it ... its a big matter its same like if u got a job oversea and accepted it without telling ur partner... and suddenly u tell he / she tht u going to fly tomorrow because of the job ...
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Normally I'm not interested by your vlogs. BUT, this one helped me to understand better what suffered those who used to lived at the time of the prophet Muhammad Peace Be upon him. They were ready to get rid of their emotional lives for the sake of THE CREATOR. Moving from the pagan life to the spiritual one needs a real leap of faith that few do understand and stick to.
the second girl saying it’s something really big as if he’s being locked up😭 why do people think Muslims don’t live a normal life tf we can do just as much as you can
If your gf want to leave you only becouse of your religion then let her go. True love or relations don’t depend on religion. If someone really loves you, he or she will love you in any way......!
Yo first of all, if my partner is ready to leave on me, whether I'm joking or not that means in our real relationship our connection isn't that strong. You just dont leave on someone who has made a change in their lifes goals. Serious people about each other try to shape their life's interests around one anothers lifestyles. Relationships are all about a compromise
As long as the person I'm with isn't converting to satanism😂, then if I truly love them, I wouldn't care what they believe in as long as it doesn't interfere in the way in which we love each other.
Nobody should be hated, left or shunned for converting to Islam. It is a beautiful religion..and people who convert should be respected. I am also a convert to Islaam.
I don't think people should be shunned for hated for converting, but choosing a partner is different. Your partner is supposed to be someone who reflects your values, personality and way of life, and there's no line that says "You can't leave someone for this reason". If your partner was Atheist or Christian and you thought your were going to raise your future kids under Atheist or Christian morality, that is going to be all kinds of unnecessary conflict. Now if you enter a relationship with someone who is already Muslim then you have nothing to complain about, you have embraced this life, but if you partner suddenly decides to convert one day then that's on them to convert back for the relationship to move forward.
@spaks Conversion involves all kinds of changes in life! Is the spouse going to force these changes on the other, whether, prayer, clothing, traditions, holidays, food, friends, etc etc?? Would he pressure her to convert?? Some people adapt and respect each other's choices, but others can not!
@spaks Xenophobia is fear of foreigners! A Conversion, or fear of, is not xenophobic! You seem to be downplaying the significance and big changes it presents! I am a loyal person, but if a converted spouse's change is negative, disrespectful towards me, makes me wear certain clothes, forces conversion, etc etc, I'm unlikely to tolerate this!
@@RoboFuryMan if you let religion become nuisance for you for raising children than you are beu g weak minded and avoiding for further explanations that religion shouldnt be a probpem in relationships. The more open minded a person becomes the better he controls things and overcomes fights. Thats a fact. There is no rule for dropping uo partner because of religion but its betrayal in part of rrlationships and is cinsidered hirting someone. If you let others religion bother you the problem is you not the other people. Its not easy to set out of religion. Its affection, way of soul, part of life. If thats a problrm you shoyld uave wider understanding ,just tell the partner not to impose it on you and your kids if you dont want to
this last girl was like "you know how I feel about muslims" and she created a scene and than later she was like "I have nothing against muslims" like girl what are you saying smh
@@whitekiki being a couple for years and know nothing about your partner concidering a new religion then converting will make anyone upset you'll feel like they don't trust you to yell you something so important and personal especially the last girl it's her fiancée
@@hasnaeatif4381 I saw that but still I can understand why it is hard to tell changing belief to partner even they are closest one. Because the process of change, painful itself, hard to accept new belief and cant turn to old one also. Most of time person cant tell to hisself change at first. After deciding new religion, person want to be sure hisself and then tell to partner or other closest people because dont know how they response. Well thats how happen to me, I didnt change my religion, most likely turns to more different and upper phase. I cant share with everyone because they might think wrong about me. I guess after fights, woman rethink and made empathy about it and call the guy.
@@whitekiki yeah true especially since they were in a date as normal suddenly they see a bomb thrown at them but after a while they calm.down and think through it
I’m a Christian but I believe everyone should be loved no matter what religion or belief they are because god said love thy neighbor and that being said I love all of you reading this
Can you make another but rather them having said they converted, them saying they’re looking into converting. Because like everyone said most of the negative reaction was induced by the fact that the girls were not involved.
this is extremely wrong, these women were not upset because their partners converted. They were upset because they felt left out of a big decision and that's 100℅ their right and their reaction is justified
@Adventurer You can't decide others religions of course but you can't also do it alone and be like hey now I worship cabbages and I'll be praying to the cabbage god 3 times a day instead of going out with you. Sorry about that but it's a personal decision. What kind of world do you live in?
@SAMURAI 武士 of course it's a personal decision and I don't even dare say otherwise but they're in a relationship together so before making a big decision like that they should have discussed first before throwing the bomb like that in their partners in a public place.
One thing I've learned from this video The 2nd and 3rd lady in this video were angry because they didn't include them in the decision....they don't have any problem of him changing his religion they just wanted to be a part of him in each and every life decision. That's just amazing 👏🙌 to have someone who cares about you that much.
It was too sudden, though, and being told such big decision after it was already took individually, without their consent, was very dramatic for them and of course so is it and so should have been. But after they calmed down and became rational, everything was just fine. We know nothing about the first one, though. We only know for sure that the other two gladly accepted to become part of their decision no matter how hard it would be.
I cant believe how people are seing this, they arent offended or mad because they converted to muslims , they are mad because the guys didnt envolve them in that big decision, they support their decision but all they wanted was to be apart of it and not be left to the side on that subject so please stop trying to make a race thing or saying that the people are brainwashed to hate muslims , or that they are racist cause its not. And you are being and instigator in a sensitive subject for no reason. So please dont. WITHOUT BEING THE FIRST ONE CAUSE SHES BEING SELFISH AND NOT REALLY SUPPORTING OR CARING ABOUT HIM BEING RELIGIOUS AND SHE TOXIC
The implication that these men didn't trust these women enough to share something like their transition to faith. That's a violation of trust if they are in committed relationships.
second and third girls are really nice and supportive but the first girl is really selfish and he should definetly brake up with her. The things she said are really disrespectful 'DID YOU EVER THINK ABOUT HOW I WOULD FEEL ABOUT YOU BECOMING MORE RELIGIOUS' this is definetly a toxic relationship
Lol I dont understand why he has to think about how someone else would feel when he's building his own path spiritually. It's just so selfish and absurd.
@@no-fc9tp What if they wanted to get married and have children? If she's atheist she doesn't want her children to be raised with a religion. And it's absolutely fair of her to respond that way. We don't know their relationship and all the things they've discussed.
Didn't seem like that at all tbh even though everyone is trying hard to paint it that way, I would never stay with any of these girls they way they behaved, everyone is all for my body my choice but we can't decide what we believe without consulting someone, that's ridiculous. You think they would have reacted that way if they said I believe in ghosts.
All of the girls were more into about "why I wasn't there when you did that big decision" and not the converting issue 🤔 makes me think that if they love you for real, they just want to be part of your life regardless of your decisions. aaaaw ❤️
Bruh imagine keeping lot of efforts to into someone for a long time, being they for every time and sharing everything with them and they don't bother to tell you about the bug decision they are making?
That second girl really deserves the best. He should always do everything she wishes and never break her heart. Unfortunately it is hard to find this kind of woman nowadays.
Its easy to say that but if you are married or engaged or been with your partner for a long time, its important to share and let them know what you feel or what you want to do because its gonna effect both of your life. Lets not be a hypocrite but admit the fact that religion plays a big factor when it comes to choosing your partner.
I feel sad for you if you believe that. Couples who truely love each other are ONE. They decide together, especially personal stuff cuz that's the important stuff. That's what love is, that's what trust is. I hope you'll find and understand that someday, Yasemin :)
What if your wife or your sister suddenly tell you that she has converted to Hinduism out of the blue? No disrespect but I'm just curious to know how your reaction would be in a similar situation. Thanks in advance
@@fakhrussalhin3149 well the reaction to your sister suddenly converting would be a little awkward. you've known her for all your life and shes directly family but at the same time she has her own life while if your wife suddenly converts thats different because you vow to spend the rest of your life together with her and converting without your knowledge isn't good on her part.
I get their point of view. They have a right to be angry in some way, these are serious decisions and can affect their lifestyle so they at least should be in the picture before making this kind of decision
@Tommy Vercetti I don't think you have to discuss it with anyone, they may not like the decision and they can leave but I don't believe you have to have a discussion of your faith unless you want to. You must inform them however.
I can see that all the girls reaction are just mad to their boyfriend because did not do decision together. For them, their boyfriends are selfish to decide alone without telling them. Maybe they will also reconvert together if was told ahead. Like Daud kim with his mom. He tell his mom first before reconvert and his mom accept him. Btw nice video, hope it just not experiment.
Changing your religion is a big decision, and it hurts if your partner change a big part of their life without telling each other. I totally understand why they’re mad about it I would be mad too.
Phaethon Zeros buddy... changing your religion is just like changing your career etc.. it wouldn’t effect you personally but you’re taking a big step in your life. So if you trust and love you partner you should tell them whatever you wanna do or think.
@@phaethonzeros2865 i imagine for a Woman its no small Thing if her Partner converts to a Religion that don`t provide her equal rights because of her sex....so totally understandable if they are scared or angry.
Zuliano87 they’re not mad because that religion don’t provide her equal rights ( which is wrong). they are mad because their bfs did not share with them.
So what would happen if they were told before they converted? They still have not right to middle in such a matter that is totally only someone's choice.
I think it would have been better if the guys told the girls that they are thinking about converting instead of telling them they already converted cause most of the girls just seemed pissed that the guys didn’t tell them beforehand. But I also wonder if the women would have reacted the same way if the men told them that they converted to some other religion like Judaism or Hinduism
My exact thoughts!! They were all pissed off because their partners didn't make them a part of this huge decision at that moment it was not really about the religion itself.
Omg! I’m so happy all of them worked everything out! I liked how in situations 2 and 3 girls accepted the truth from the beginning, they were just upset that their significant others didn’t tell them. That’s awesome when people accept and support each other no matter what💗💗Amazing experiment❤️
From what it seems the women were not upset about the conversion rather they were upset that their partner did not confide in them. And left them out of the journey or process. They didn't appreciate knowing like that.
Yeah, I think anyone (man or woman) would be angry if their partner of several years went and did a life-changing thing behind their back. I don't think I could trust someone who did that.
You dont need to take freaking permission from those you are close to, your relationship with god is just between you and him, after you are 100% sure you wanna convert, convert, and then tell the people, if they love you they will try and see your point of view, and maybe look into your religion if they trust you enough with ur choice, like you choose what religion u want to be in, again between you and god, then fix it with others, i kinda find it selfish how some of these people were just mad they didnt have a say in it, idk if u get my idea, but eh.. my fingers hurt now
Why is it gotta be always about her? Her feelings , her wants , her wish , everything is her's once i asked my girlfriend why is it gotta be you and only you ??? How do i know what you want ??? Now i was being rude to her.
Bro think if it is really never you and your wishes. Did she stop a habit you disliked about her? (For example smoking, drinking) Think if she really is that way and if yes openly tell her, but without accusing her of anything. Don't say : why is it always about you? Instead say: babe i need your support with ... why can you not help me?
I think you should repeat the experiment with couples deciding on converting. Because this was mainly an issue with trust and the reactions were based on hiding stuff from each other.
Most of them are not against Muslims, but the way the male said to the female was so sudden and out of the blue. The females just felt like the males didn't trust them for the past 4+ years and are hiding stuff. Their reaction is understandable in this case.
"how i would feel about you becoming more religious?" i feel like.. this is a bit selfish. religion is between that person and their god and restricting them to do so because you want them to think of you and your belief, is, a bit over the line.
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That guy better marry that second girl. You can tell she is very loyal :)
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Yes he has too. Now at this time of age. There's not many girls born like that. If i ever like a girl i would want marry that personality that same as the second girl.
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Exactly. She didn't have a problem with the conversion, she had a problem with not being a part of it.
They were mostly mad because their man converted without telling them.
Yeh they were more upset that the guy didn't tell them before and didn't include them in the decision.
@@dreamy665 well no one but him should be included in the decision
@@victorinediop9227 maybe but he should have discussed it with her beforehand then do whatever he likes after. It's like ur mum or dad or bro or sia changed their religion without telling you. 'oh yeh guys btw I'm a ---------- now' ???? That's rude.
But you do have a point. If the guy was legit going to convert, he could've told her about it so she knows what's happening.
What would you do if your wife converted to another religion?
All of the girlfriends were upset only because the decision were made without them
Exactly.....
But this decision is very personal why he would ask for her permission The only thing he can do is to inform her
It’s a personal decision!
@@desertrose9700 not to take their permission just to share, to make them feel they're trusted cause they've been together for long time
Imène MEZIOUD does it matter? They told their girlfriends now, not a difference
The first girl seemed like she had a problem with religion and didn't think of her significant other and how he felt. The other girls were very accepting and had much support they were only mad that they didn't include them into the decision and I really liked this video its was very interesting!
the first girl actually wanted to talk more at home, the two other girls wanted to walk away.
I think most of these girls weren’t upset with his decision, they were upset he didn’t tell them about his decision. I respect that.
it's a pretty huge decision in life, who wouldn't be upset if their partners hide it from them
Yuuto Yasashii For sure.
yeah, I 100% agree with this. most of the women (especially the last one) were very upset about their loved one making a big decision without them. I think a better experiment that could have been done is: Men asked their significant other if they would convert with them.
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@@windwind6755 you may have misunderstood my point. These women weren’t angry that he converted, they were upset that he didn’t tell them prior to doing it. I’m not sure if you’re married or have a significant partner but one key to success of a marriage or with your other partner is asking their opinion about big decisions. Sharing it with them. Even if you’ve made up your mind and you’re going to do something regardless if your partner likes it or not, it’s very respectful to tell your partner about a decision rather than doing it and telling them after. Trust me. This is key to a successful relationship.
The women were not having a problem with teh religion. But saw that it was a big change in their partner´s life and felt not trusted enough to be part of it. I understand them.
Same here
Well you need to tell your partner before converting to a religion, if they accept the idea, do it , If they don't, leave them and do it anyway .
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thank you very much for your answer. I dont believe in Religion but I do believe in the one you should not give a name. And as a partner beeing excluded of something that is so important I would be hurt very much 2. I would also like to talk about it in privacy (where I feel more comfortable) and would need some time to figure out what is going on and why I am so hurt.
People seem to be more upset because they were not involved in the process rather than being upset about their partner converting
I love the second partners. That female is truely supportive and I really understand why she got upset. "you did it without me". This is true partner. Dude should propose to her.
I don't think any of these people were racist, they were more upset that this huge life changing decision is done without them. Being in a relationship means sharing a life.
Religion is not something simple, it's a new life, new belief, new practices, it would even affect their children in the future. So yeah I would be upset if such thing happened to me.
Nourah A. Most white people are racist and Islamophobic
And so are those in this video!
Yunah Kim must’ve never been to Latin America lol
@@李珊-f2r That comment itself is racist. You just generalized the colour of someones body. Most white people are NOT racist. Alot are. Hundreds of thousands are. Hundreds of thousands of black people are, too. You're racist.
@@李珊-f2r did you know arabs are considered white dummy?
I can understand these women .. they are not mad about the religion. They were mad bcs the guys didnt share with their partner about the thought of converting.
@Football Always / كورة دائمًا wtf? 😂 No.. they're obviously mad about the non sharing.
@Jaan Jaan you definitely don't have a partner... Look back here once you've been together with someone else 3 years. And come on... In the heat of it (like this is) then obviously you can get flared up, and Muslims is probably the easiest religion to have stereotypes against in the west. Don't believe this video tells completely what they necessary think.
If my girlfriend randomly said she converted I'd feel betrayed since she hadn't told me, something she had hidden from me.
But sure, if anyone did have anything against Muslims it would be the first, even though I don't think so either.
@Jaan Jaan yeah, that's true. I guess we'll never know exactly. Nice talkin with ya, though!
@@Redwallagge that's what I wanted to say. Being with your partner which u believe there should be no secret between each other, sharing your thoughts are important. Suddenly came up with a big decision without saying anything will hurt your significant other. Like we don't consider her being someone really important in our live and their opinion really matter cz what happen in our life will affect hers too.
@Football Always / كورة دائمًا just the first one
All the ladies are angry because they were not aware about it before
yo that second guy really knew how to calm his girl down and get her to sit. its like mind control. impressive stuff
The girl too is chill
People hate Muslims for no reason.
And this actually hurts. We are humans too
did you not watch the video? these women got angry about their men taking big steps without involving them NOT because they personally hate Muslims.
Because of restrictions and hadis against the non believers a.k.a jews
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@@DeepakSharma-lx4mg well that is wrong actually go search google if we have any hate to anyone
I think most of them were only mad because they didn't get told beforehand they they converted.
I understand why the second (?) girl was upset. She was supportive, but she wanted to part of it. I would’ve been the same thing. She would support you, but she would’ve like to known you were doing this before you actually decided to go through it.
Well they where more upset with him not telling him rather than him converting, that was amzing video any
Christian, Islamic, Jewish, Atheist, Buddhist, Hinduism, whatever you believe in, you believe in what makes you happy.
Exactly. I'm a buddhist but I think religion should be a thing that makes you happy. There are some things in buddhism that I dont follow. Anybody can do what they want. So anyway I 100% agree with what your said.
@@anonymousblack1738 lord Buddha never tald to follow anything he only said leave everything
Grade Berkley happiness doesn’t define what’s true and what’s false. A drug attic is happy and he believes drinking his whole life and ruining it is making him happy. Happiness is not defined by the Truth. Only 1 religion can be the truth. All the rest have to be false. They cannot all be true.
It's not about the conversion to the faith. It's the honesty, trust with each other in a relationship. That's the issue there!
I don't understand how any of the boyfriends were being dishonest. They thought it over in private and came to a decision, then asked them about it. Do we have to update our spouse with progress reports on each significant belief?
@@GunBreaux It's not about updating their partners on your own beliefs. It's omiting a life changing decision to the couple's dynamic (conversion). The conversion itself brings with it a huge impact on BOTH their lives. And as a couple, the fundaments of a relationship are honesty, respect and reciprocity. It's not right for you to make a decision that directly affects the life of your significant other without at least giving them a heads up.
this is the perfect test to know how supportive your partner is.
No not really
@@911SuperGT mind sharing why it isn't the case?
@@dino339 sure, what if your relationship was partially built based on your religion? if the other partner notices that you may start to have different beliefs, then it is okay to shatter the relationship. it should be understandable.
@@911SuperGT a materialistic relationship can also be partially built by things like: wealth, health, personality! How are you going to test their relationship integrity if you don't tell her that you went bankrupt? or got a handicapping disease? or made a problem that will get you into jail? all these things can be a burden for a women to bear and demands patience/supportive.. i don't see faith any different than that.. in fact it is less impactful than the rest.. which is a shame to see some pop off that much on spot..
It’s obvious that they were upset because they didn’t know from the start
And that’s a big problem if you’re in a relationship and start making big dicisions without talking to your significant other
They’re just mad cuz they didn’t tell them earlier
I think the issue here is actually women wants to be included in the decision making process. Whether they support you or they don’t, is a totally different story.
Edit: i mean this is just my opinion of course.
I mean even if someone converted... they are still the same person, right? I mean they’re not aliens or trees. Right?
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Not really. Your values are changing and priorities change.
I agree. A person as an individual does not have to get another’s persons Acceptance towards them changing their religion. I don’t think a person does not support or accepts another persons belief, faith, customs etc. Is not worthy of you. P E R I O D
I have to disagree. Converting to any religions will change their belief, their behaviors toward others, & what they value about life.
You are too naive if you think converting to any religion is just a personal decision like picking up new Ice cream flavor.
@@nasdanu8204 Isn't it?
Why do they find us monsters just for believing in a specific religion...
Be proud and stay you❤️Muslim’s are beautiful people Xx
Hessa Aldereih because some muslims shows religious reasons and harms people that’s why most of the world don’t like muslims and prejudiced
@Merve and you'll be okay with trump bombing everywhere?
Liverpool F.C. no.
Hessa Aldereih they don’t actually Hessa. They are just made their significant other didn’t include them in the decision because that shows they didn’t care about including them. They wanted to be apart of each other’s lives and help each other.
I know they're "overreacting" but their partners are actually more mad about the fact that the guys did not tell them than about the conversion.
Most of them were just upset because they weren't told earlier.
Converting religion is a big decision.. man , so their response was OK
no cause its really non of their business unless they're married
@@nearpod5207 yes it ... its a big matter its same like if u got a job oversea and accepted it without telling ur partner... and suddenly u tell he / she tht u going to fly tomorrow because of the job ...
They were less against the guys being muslims and more against them hiding something from them...
No the first girl even said "u know how I feel bout Muslims"..... I think that's just an excuse
It’s so sad that Muslims are mistreated 🥺🥺
Dude. Imagine keeping your significant other out of the loop for months. If anything, the women are mistreated
@@Furrysuperstar listen to what the women are saying, pay attention to the video...
I am a Christian. But I support ur videos. I think ur video is like social movement on the internet instead of real life. I love ur topics that make me think deeply. Love u from Korea ♡
I am also Christian, personally I don’t judge people who believe in other religions but I try to help them
Hai..I'm suggest you to watch speaker corner for an intellectual debate about religion. May Allah guidance you
Daud Kim is one of my favorite youtubers ever, I'm happy you're bringing him more viewers because he deserves them
Normally I'm not interested by your vlogs. BUT, this one helped me to understand better what suffered those who used to lived at the time of the prophet Muhammad Peace Be upon him.
They were ready to get rid of their emotional lives for the sake of THE CREATOR.
Moving from the pagan life to the spiritual one needs a real leap of faith that few do understand and stick to.
the girls mad because they didnt involved made decision..not because the converted thing..
Yeah! America doesn’t hate Muslims!!!
@@splderbite3272 They do.
@Kakarot 22 but there should be no hiding in a marriage. It is a big decision and change so shouldnt leave your wife out of it
@Kakarot 22 you should have mentioned it before after is too late
Danistar 99 they don’t lol
the second girl saying it’s something really big as if he’s being locked up😭 why do people think Muslims don’t live a normal life tf we can do just as much as you can
You know they don't even know themselves!! They should try to know themselves before judging Muslims!! 😩
Stop blasting people in the name of religion .
I respect muslims and support them
If your gf want to leave you only becouse of your religion then let her go. True love or relations don’t depend on religion. If someone really loves you, he or she will love you in any way......!
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Yo first of all, if my partner is ready to leave on me, whether I'm joking or not that means in our real relationship our connection isn't that strong. You just dont leave on someone who has made a change in their lifes goals. Serious people about each other try to shape their life's interests around one anothers lifestyles. Relationships are all about a compromise
Seems like they’re more mad that they did that big decision without them and not really that mad about which religion it was
Same name
These women were mad because they simply didn't know that their bfs were going through it.
They don't have a problem with the conversion itself , it's about "they didn't tell them before"
The girls were upset bc they weren't part of conversion not bc that they converted.
False. Not everyone wants to be a part of that. Some don't want anything to do with religion and feel strongly against it for actual reasons.
As long as the person I'm with isn't converting to satanism😂, then if I truly love them, I wouldn't care what they believe in as long as it doesn't interfere in the way in which we love each other.
Awww that's so sweet
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Same pic
@KHALIIL01 It's a family reunion😂
The last one... She wants him to be part of her life. Why don't she be part of his life too
Nobody should be hated, left or shunned for converting to Islam. It is a beautiful religion..and people who convert should be respected. I am also a convert to Islaam.
I don't think people should be shunned for hated for converting, but choosing a partner is different. Your partner is supposed to be someone who reflects your values, personality and way of life, and there's no line that says "You can't leave someone for this reason". If your partner was Atheist or Christian and you thought your were going to raise your future kids under Atheist or Christian morality, that is going to be all kinds of unnecessary conflict. Now if you enter a relationship with someone who is already Muslim then you have nothing to complain about, you have embraced this life, but if you partner suddenly decides to convert one day then that's on them to convert back for the relationship to move forward.
@spaks Conversion involves all kinds of changes in life! Is the spouse going to force these changes on the other, whether, prayer, clothing, traditions, holidays, food, friends, etc etc?? Would he pressure her to convert??
Some people adapt and respect each other's choices, but others can not!
@spaks Xenophobia is fear of foreigners! A Conversion, or fear of, is not xenophobic! You seem to be downplaying the significance and big changes it presents! I am a loyal person, but if a converted spouse's change is negative, disrespectful towards me, makes me wear certain clothes, forces conversion, etc etc, I'm unlikely to tolerate this!
@@RoboFuryMan if you let religion become nuisance for you for raising children than you are beu g weak minded and avoiding for further explanations that religion shouldnt be a probpem in relationships. The more open minded a person becomes the better he controls things and overcomes fights. Thats a fact. There is no rule for dropping uo partner because of religion but its betrayal in part of rrlationships and is cinsidered hirting someone. If you let others religion bother you the problem is you not the other people. Its not easy to set out of religion. Its affection, way of soul, part of life. If thats a problrm you shoyld uave wider understanding ,just tell the partner not to impose it on you and your kids if you dont want to
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The first lady was so fucked up,who doesen't let somebody change their religion,I mean,try to convince him,the thing she did wasn't okay.
The last part got me in tears. May we all get partners of that kind.
I love people regardless of their religious beliefs.
this last girl was like "you know how I feel about muslims" and she created a scene and than later she was like "I have nothing against muslims" like girl what are you saying smh
Yeah exactly! That's what I was thinking about right now.
They're upset about not being included or told about it. Not the fact that they converted
You have no way of knowing that
yeah but religion is something personal, why so angry i didnt get it
@@whitekiki being a couple for years and know nothing about your partner concidering a new religion then converting will make anyone upset you'll feel like they don't trust you to yell you something so important and personal especially the last girl it's her fiancée
@@hasnaeatif4381 I saw that but still I can understand why it is hard to tell changing belief to partner even they are closest one. Because the process of change, painful itself, hard to accept new belief and cant turn to old one also. Most of time person cant tell to hisself change at first. After deciding new religion, person want to be sure hisself and then tell to partner or other closest people because dont know how they response. Well thats how happen to me, I didnt change my religion, most likely turns to more different and upper phase. I cant share with everyone because they might think wrong about me. I guess after fights, woman rethink and made empathy about it and call the guy.
@@whitekiki yeah true especially since they were in a date as normal suddenly they see a bomb thrown at them but after a while they calm.down and think through it
I’m a Christian but I believe everyone should be loved no matter what religion or belief they are because god said love thy neighbor and that being said I love all of you reading this
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that verse is very much similar in the quran, but i don't find that surprising since the injeel and quran came from the one same God, ie Allah 😊
It's nice to hear that.
You are breathtaking.
Very true
Can you make another but rather them having said they converted, them saying they’re looking into converting. Because like everyone said most of the negative reaction was induced by the fact that the girls were not involved.
this is extremely wrong, these women were not upset because their partners converted. They were upset because they felt left out of a big decision and that's 100℅ their right and their reaction is justified
Agree with you brother
You have a point
@Adventurer You can't decide others religions of course but you can't also do it alone and be like hey now I worship cabbages and I'll be praying to the cabbage god 3 times a day instead of going out with you. Sorry about that but it's a personal decision.
What kind of world do you live in?
@SAMURAI 武士 of course it's a personal decision and I don't even dare say otherwise but they're in a relationship together so before making a big decision like that they should have discussed first before throwing the bomb like that in their partners in a public place.
Shahi
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Religion is between you and God, nobody have the right to say something about it. Its a personnal choice.
exactly. it's a choice YOU have to make for yourself.
@Babar ke Bhakton Ka Baap ok lol 🤡 embarassing you are
@Babar ke Bhakton Ka Baap never knew Indians get paid for such idiotic remarks
One thing I've learned from this video
The 2nd and 3rd lady in this video were angry because they didn't include them in the decision....they don't have any problem of him changing his religion they just wanted to be a part of him in each and every life decision. That's just amazing 👏🙌 to have someone who cares about you that much.
It shouldnt be a thing you discuss with you S/O its between you and god and no one should get in the way
It was too sudden, though, and being told such big decision after it was already took individually, without their consent, was very dramatic for them and of course so is it and so should have been.
But after they calmed down and became rational, everything was just fine. We know nothing about the first one, though. We only know for sure that the other two gladly accepted to become part of their decision no matter how hard it would be.
*Do the Girl Version*
ليش شعليك انت
It would be really interesting
@@bora1776 what?
@@dema7625 what is there not to understand
I cant believe how people are seing this, they arent offended or mad because they converted to muslims , they are mad because the guys didnt envolve them in that big decision, they support their decision but all they wanted was to be apart of it and not be left to the side on that subject so please stop trying to make a race thing or saying that the people are brainwashed to hate muslims , or that they are racist cause its not.
And you are being and instigator in a sensitive subject for no reason.
So please dont.
WITHOUT BEING THE FIRST ONE CAUSE SHES BEING SELFISH AND NOT REALLY SUPPORTING OR CARING ABOUT HIM BEING RELIGIOUS AND SHE TOXIC
The implication that these men didn't trust these women enough to share something like their transition to faith. That's a violation of trust if they are in committed relationships.
second and third girls are really nice and supportive but the first girl is really selfish and he should definetly brake up with her. The things she said are really disrespectful 'DID YOU EVER THINK ABOUT HOW I WOULD FEEL ABOUT YOU BECOMING MORE RELIGIOUS' this is definetly a toxic relationship
Lol I dont understand why he has to think about how someone else would feel when he's building his own path spiritually.
It's just so selfish and absurd.
You've been to school
break up***
@@no-fc9tp What if they wanted to get married and have children? If she's atheist she doesn't want her children to be raised with a religion. And it's absolutely fair of her to respond that way. We don't know their relationship and all the things they've discussed.
@@no-fc9tp yes he is selfish, just thinking about himself and not about her feelings.
it's all about keeping a secret, nothing against religion, they're all pissed because of that
yeh exactly, good to see someone else who understands this xD
Didn't seem like that at all tbh even though everyone is trying hard to paint it that way, I would never stay with any of these girls they way they behaved, everyone is all for my body my choice but we can't decide what we believe without consulting someone, that's ridiculous.
You think they would have reacted that way if they said I believe in ghosts.
I think you should try this again, but this time it should be “Telling my Significant Other I am Considering to Convert”.
All of the girls were more into about "why I wasn't there when you did that big decision" and not the converting issue 🤔
makes me think that if they love you for real, they just want to be part of your life regardless of your decisions. aaaaw ❤️
Generally yes, but there are many cases where religion IS the issue especially because of people's ignorance.
Runsa Chan Totally right. Like I mentioned in my comment, it’s abt communication
“yoU DiD ThIs WiThOuT mE?!” Girl please, we’re talking about a personal spiritual voyage. Give the guy some space
Bruh imagine keeping lot of efforts to into someone for a long time, being they for every time and sharing everything with them and they don't bother to tell you about the bug decision they are making?
Well kinda but the again if you are really close then I mean... they should have at least said something but then again
That second girl really deserves the best. He should always do everything she wishes and never break her heart.
Unfortunately it is hard to find this kind of woman nowadays.
Don’t hate what you don’t understand
So you think this is hate...
Hmmm ironic how it can also work with your comment.
When woman says I don't wanna make a scene.
It's actually a action thriller coming up
Why do ppl hate us 😭 I swear I didn’t do anything
Sadly they do hate us😭😭
Klara Bijenier feelbadsman
wut... this video shows they don't hate you
They dont hate you, it might just be alot of rules for people that they dont even care about
americans hate everyone.
"Maybe this Religion has something that i would have thought was important too..."
Subhanallah, only if they knew...😔
Yooo I remember watching you like 2 years back!!..I was trying to find your channel for so longggg...do more social experiment mate!:)
The second girl is so amazing like i can tell shes trustworthy and a good woman 😭❤️
oohhwwee the second girls reaction 😍😍😍
she would even consider converting with him
Yeah she is a keeper
There is no God but Allah and Muhammad is his Messenger
@Come fall in love الله يهديكي
Come fall in love why such a negative energy we are all human right?
Zoya Khan yes
The biggest religion is BIGOTRY.
There is God only Allah and Muhammad is his messenger*
Would be really interesting to see the reaction if the girlfriend converted instead
Here you go HIJAB DATING EXPERIMENT ruclips.net/video/rs2DaQgusbE/видео.html
You know how i feel about muslims she said
THE SECOND GIRL IS OUT OF THIS WORLD AMAZING!!
Doesn’t matter if it is religion, decisions or anything girls will be mad if you never informed them about it before doing it
Haha that's true
Wait the minute....i seen your comments before hahahah
@@solkun7407 Taken Fahkumram0¿
Their reactions were legit. If you are sharing your life with someone you can't hide such a big thing from them.
So Everyone was RIGHT in this
these girls shouldn’t be upset that they weren’t apart of the decision, it’s personal and that’s that.
Its easy to say that but if you are married or engaged or been with your partner for a long time, its important to share and let them know what you feel or what you want to do because its gonna effect both of your life. Lets not be a hypocrite but admit the fact that religion plays a big factor when it comes to choosing your partner.
It is personal and that's exactly why it matters..
If the relationship is shallow then it doesn't matter.
I feel sad for you if you believe that. Couples who truely love each other are ONE. They decide together, especially personal stuff cuz that's the important stuff. That's what love is, that's what trust is. I hope you'll find and understand that someday, Yasemin :)
What the heck is their problem . His relationship with God is his business. She is no one to tell him how to pray and whom to pray to
What if your wife or your sister suddenly tell you that she has converted to Hinduism out of the blue? No disrespect but I'm just curious to know how your reaction would be in a similar situation. Thanks in advance
@@fakhrussalhin3149 well the reaction to your sister suddenly converting would be a little awkward. you've known her for all your life and shes directly family but at the same time she has her own life while if your wife suddenly converts thats different because you vow to spend the rest of your life together with her and converting without your knowledge isn't good on her part.
@@talonapex9775 so you agree with me then? 🙄
the second couple is very adorable. 🥺✊
I get their point of view. They have a right to be angry in some way, these are serious decisions and can affect their lifestyle so they at least should be in the picture before making this kind of decision
@Tommy Vercetti I don't think you have to discuss it with anyone, they may not like the decision and they can leave but I don't believe you have to have a discussion of your faith unless you want to. You must inform them however.
The 2nd girl was only mad he did it without her and she still stayed. What a keeper.
I can see that all the girls reaction are just mad to their boyfriend because did not do decision together. For them, their boyfriends are selfish to decide alone without telling them. Maybe they will also reconvert together if was told ahead. Like Daud kim with his mom. He tell his mom first before reconvert and his mom accept him. Btw nice video, hope it just not experiment.
You can use the word revert in place of reconvert, but apart from that very true.
Changing your religion is a big decision, and it hurts if your partner change a big part of their life without telling each other. I totally understand why they’re mad about it I would be mad too.
Why would you be mad about a person changing their religion it wouldn't affect you
Phaethon Zeros Don’t think you understand the point
Phaethon Zeros buddy... changing your religion is just like changing your career etc.. it wouldn’t effect you personally but you’re taking a big step in your life. So if you trust and love you partner you should tell them whatever you wanna do or think.
@@phaethonzeros2865 i imagine for a Woman its no small Thing if her Partner converts to a Religion that don`t provide her equal rights because of her sex....so totally understandable if they are scared or angry.
Zuliano87 they’re not mad because that religion don’t provide her equal rights ( which is wrong). they are mad because their bfs did not share with them.
I believe their upset because they wasn’t apart of it.... they were told after they “ Converted”
Derrica Chappell Exactly right! As what I mentioned in my comment as well
So what would happen if they were told before they converted? They still have not right to middle in such a matter that is totally only someone's choice.
EXACTLY!
@@DrAliWD its not about the Girls trying to change their minds or decisions, but about them wanting to know about that and sharing the experience
@@redacted5078 maybe for some of them, but definitely not the one that said "you know how I feel about Muslims"
I think it would have been better if the guys told the girls that they are thinking about converting instead of telling them they already converted cause most of the girls just seemed pissed that the guys didn’t tell them beforehand. But I also wonder if the women would have reacted the same way if the men told them that they converted to some other religion like Judaism or Hinduism
My exact thoughts!!
They were all pissed off because their partners didn't make them a part of this huge decision at that moment it was not really about the religion itself.
Great respect for the reverts, who have to do this for real
No love is bigger than love of Allah. So if she leave you because this so be it. It is good thing for you. Because Allah knows best but we dont.
Omg! I’m so happy all of them worked everything out! I liked how in situations 2 and 3 girls accepted the truth from the beginning, they were just upset that their significant others didn’t tell them. That’s awesome when people accept and support each other no matter what💗💗Amazing experiment❤️
Hye vlada 😊😊😊😊😊
From what it seems the women were not upset about the conversion rather they were upset that their partner did not confide in them. And left them out of the journey or process. They didn't appreciate knowing like that.
Yeah, I think anyone (man or woman) would be angry if their partner of several years went and did a life-changing thing behind their back. I don't think I could trust someone who did that.
Stop making excuses for xenophobes
These guys are so lucky to have partners who would support them no matter what. Would they have reacted the same way?
Mashallah alhamdulillah thanks Karim Jovian for a sharing this video out there in this world❤️
It will change soon when our leader arrived ( imam Mahdi)
Where my converts at ?? May Allah bless u ppl ,Amen
nearest mosque
You dont need to take freaking permission from those you are close to, your relationship with god is just between you and him, after you are 100% sure you wanna convert, convert, and then tell the people, if they love you they will try and see your point of view, and maybe look into your religion if they trust you enough with ur choice, like you choose what religion u want to be in, again between you and god, then fix it with others, i kinda find it selfish how some of these people were just mad they didnt have a say in it, idk if u get my idea, but eh.. my fingers hurt now
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May Allah guide them,they are very understanding ,i like their reaction
Why is it gotta be always about her? Her feelings , her wants , her wish , everything is her's once i asked my girlfriend why is it gotta be you and only you ??? How do i know what you want ??? Now i was being rude to her.
Bro think if it is really never you and your wishes. Did she stop a habit you disliked about her? (For example smoking, drinking) Think if she really is that way and if yes openly tell her, but without accusing her of anything. Don't say : why is it always about you? Instead say: babe i need your support with ... why can you not help me?
I think you should repeat the experiment with couples deciding on converting. Because this was mainly an issue with trust and the reactions were based on hiding stuff from each other.
True.
agree
Or reverse gender! Woman confessing their faith to their men.
Ikr
@@mysticrea4898 i guess men can take this kind of things without reacting much
they don't have problem with the conversion ,but they had the problem without noticing them .
This would be wrong for someone to not consult there partner during. That is a huge thing. They have a right to be mad honestly.
The second girl was so respectful i really love her
Most of them are not against Muslims, but the way the male said to the female was so sudden and out of the blue.
The females just felt like the males didn't trust them for the past 4+ years and are hiding stuff. Their reaction is understandable in this case.
Exactly.
People shouldn't be ashamed for being Muslims. This is someone's religion not something that other people can control. There is NOTHING wrong with it.
Thank you!
@@zah1238 it had to be said🤷🏻♀️😌
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"how i would feel about you becoming more religious?"
i feel like.. this is a bit selfish. religion is between that person and their god and restricting them to do so because you want them to think of you and your belief, is, a bit over the line.