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Daytime Tea Time is will n jada getting a divorce fr fr !!! Jada don't wear her ring anymore and will made comments recently about them not being married anymore but life time partners /friends ..
yall know the reason why they encouraged her to continue the song was because will and jada may needed the extra money. anytime you push your children to do something for money it's so their child could have their own money to spend or to help out the family.
This was so deep 🤔 I was raised in the 80's with strict parents. I hated it but as I became an adult I thank my father bc I figure out why he protected me. I raised my daughter the same way. She did not like my ways but hey I didn't allow her to spend the night over people houses, I had to meet her friends parents, visit their homes b4 she could play with them. We had to go to church. When she got to middle school she wanted to do everything. The answer couldn't be yes all the time but now she's 20 in her 3rd year in college been on the dean's list the whole time. She goes to different cities preaching to children about the Lord. She told me, I hated how strict you were but now I understand why you were protecting me. So every parenting is different. Is up to the children how they going to turn out. I use to tell my child, you have one life, only you can make it better or screw it up. It will be nobody fault if you decide to follow behind idiots. Thank God 🙏 she decided to take the right path. Bottom line prayer and faith is all you need. It's hard raising children in this cruel world 😥
I grew up in the 90s and was raised by a single mom. She was one of those cause I said so, but she also took the time to explain why to me and my sisters. As parents we are not perfect, we make mistakes and I don't think allowing your child to make all their own decisions is the way to go. If your child was about to walk out into traffic would you sit by and allow it? What parent would do that. Well if you allow them to make all their own decisions that's exactly what you're doing. Setting rules and instilling a solid foundation in your kids is the very definition of being a parent. They are kids, and of course they will make mistakes. But equipping them with a strong foundation and guidance will help them to be strong when faced with adversary. You don't have to let your child live the way they think they should in order to make them independent and self-sufficient adults, but instilling morals and rules will give them with they need to make good choices. We live in this world and we all have rules and laws thay we even as adults must obey, so even if you think that you don't have to give them rules, society will. Even the world knows that without rules......you get chaos.
If it's any consolation, Willow Smith that song Whip My Hair help save my life. I am a 54 year old woman, who had hair and in 2000 May of 2012 found out that I had cancer and lost my hair I used to listen to that song before it happened and I used to Whip My Hair whenever I was going through something and then when you was on Oprah you said it's not just whipping your hair but it's an attitude so when I lost my hair I realize that I can still shake my head around with my Whip my hair because my attitude was to fight this cancer and not let it take me out, I'm 53 and I still listen to that song when I get down and I blasted loud like my attitude towards cancer is I'm kicking your butt I'm whipping my hair, I am Brenda Watson a woman is old enough to be your grandmother who listens to that song and every time I get down two fighting cancer I had to cancel the first time a year and a half later I got cancer again and I lost my hair again and I play that song Oh my iPod with my hair like no matter what people say if you going to make it it's the fight as hard but I still with my hair so even though you went through something it empowered me and it still does and I'm still in the fight of my life because even though cancer-free the doctors recently found something in my chest you know what I say to that I can't worry imma praise God and Whip My Hair to thank you Willow thank you Jada and will for having such amazing children that can help others even when they don't even realize it I say blessings blessings blessings to you Willow and your family thank you for the song it has empowered me
Exactly,we as parents do truly 'at least most of us', do our utmost best with our children. We can't be perfect as Much as we try! We hurt, we cry because our Best just isn't enough. Like it was said, we come with our own issues we were still trying to figure out.😢 Very good conversation what Jada bought to light.😊😊
“Because I say so”, has saved plenty of souls. Kids can’t handle all those decisions the maturity needed, they just don’t have. That’s why there are laws to protect them.
KIWIFUZZY Very true! You are right! But I just feel like you can't "because I said so" to EVERYTHING! Children and teens have to learn to make SOME mistakes.
Daytime Tea Time ok I see your point! But let's face it. They went too far with the whole 15 on your own. If anything had happened Will and Jada would have been responsible.
KIWIFUZZY I swear, this is the Only comment that makes all the since.. Kids that have way too much power granted to the to make decisions, often make a Even BIGGER MESS to clean up. Can blame the kids on that one. New age bullshit is Satanic. Given the children to MOLOCH.
I feel like Jada and her mom's parenting styles are two extremes of a spectrum. I think Jada gives her children too much freedom, where as Jada's mom didn't give her enough and seemed controlling. It's important to have an open line of conversation. And as children grow up, I think parents needs to graudally give them more responsibilities and freedom, BUT at the end of the day, children need to be guided. Although Willow and Jaden are "still here", as they said, something about them seems off psychologically.
Josie I think u feel this way bc they are smarter and more "woke" as some people like to say. So by meaning they don't act the way most kids act. They all did "crazy" stuff. She did in fact give them a lot of freedom. But with freedom comes trust. I think she trusted her kids enough to be out on there own and make a rational decision and even if they messed up. They are only kids and they did learn from them. Hopefully, they did and most importantly they are rich they can afford to make mistakes regular people can't make.
While I agree I don’t believe they’re off psychologically, I believe they’re much more mature and understanding of how life is than other kids because of how their parents don’t sugar coat their feelings and are so open with them.
I agree with most of what you said but, we have to factor in other variables. A big example is the fact that they are wealthy children and their lives are totally different from the average child we encounter every day. Honesty, we all have some form of psychological issues, it's all about how we are capable of coping with living life. They both seem very mature and like their mom said, they have a "therapy fund". But, yes you are so right on both grandma and Jada being on two extremes of the spectrum, spot on!!!
Right...esp making money that is practically given to you bc of your fathers connections. If u dnt hv to audition for a role, ur in there no matter what! Lol
They are functioning tho and that’s what u see. Functioning well. Their happiness is their business. Happiness is a choice and it’s very temporal. One day you’re happy, one day you’re choosing another emotion
I lived by myself from the age of 15 with another girl my age were fine ..... we done teenager properly we learned the hard way what happens if they don't pay bills and spend the shopping money on alcohol and weed .... I was raised in the 80s I'm still here and actually one of the few people that are happy .... I know the difference between wants and needs.... just because you don't live at home it doesn't mean you don't have guidence or help .... people can marry in most western societies at 18..... 3years .... it is down to the individuals because we all are
I understand their point sometime parents have to look past their child's age and focus on their maturity I moved out at 17 I still finished my senior parents have to look past their child's age and focus on their maturity I moved out at 17
Interesting but I cannot relate to Jada’s parenting style. And even with her giving her kids all this freedom and money... something seems off in the kids. But what do I know... I don’t live in that world.
I agree with your point of view. I do the same with my children. I also explain that children always have a choice, even when they’re children; because they can choose to not listen even with parents who say “b/c I said so”. I just explain to my children that although you have a choice, making poor choices comes with consequences. I’m there to guide and offer a more experienced opinion but you have a choice to listen or not. But I wouldn’t allow my child to move out at 15.
If their grandmother wasn't there the kids would've been out of balanced. I agree that yes explain yourself to your kids however letting them make every decision on their own, knowing it won't go well for them. It's about balance, I tell my daughter why we can't go outside right now and explain why. But I'm also going to be strict to certain things when it comes to some of her decision if I know it will not go well I'm not going to let her do it.
I allow my son to have a voice, but right is right and wrong is wrong. if we have a conversation and he still trying to make the wrong decision.... He will get the because I said it.
Pure foolishness, didn't Willie just admit she was cutting herself. Their lives are already set up, Willow is the boy in the family and Jaden is the girl. The way Will was kissing his son in the mouth at various times, the whole family is sick.
At first I was very judgmental of both Will and Jada about their parenting. After watching this episode I get it! Their children are very intelligent and they seem to have a great relationship with them and to me that's so important in this day and age. So I say hats off to them both!
@abundantly seeking Absolutely right, she had no boundaries. Who sleeps and has a relationship with her son's friend? That's not normal. Messing with a man that young says something about her maturity level.
Honestly the entire family has that same look, i believe its just the facial features a little more but it still definitely is most likely a deeper meaning
I’m in college, 23 yrs. Honestly I always thought that super old school parents enjoy the power dynamic between parent and child. In my opinion, those kinds of parents hold their power over their children because it’s what their parents did when they were young. To me it’s a very destructive and sadistic pattern that eventually causes their children to rebel more and possibly become very narrow minded in the future.
Lol so wise 🙄 if you're really 23, you need to take a seat & realize that knowledge comes with experience and an open mind. You think you've got it all figured out & you have no idea how things work.
Evey Cocoa I disagree. We have more school shootings than ever with these new age kids. School bullying is at an all time high. And children as young as 8 are committing suicide because of their peers. Because of young people who think the way you do, true parenting doesn’t happen anymore. You all read too much into shit instead of trying to realize that your parents are just trying to help you. This generation is so dramatic and are guided by a false sense of entitlement. Its really sad and unfortunate.
Unconventional Methods For Raising Jaden & Willow was Will & Jada Choice .... However , I Wouldn’t Have Chosen Their Method .... 😞 I Agree With Her Mom 😍 The Brain is Still Developing ... Come On Facts Please Use Common Sense ...
i get that but look at them. parents think that if they give their children opportunities to be open, then they’ll want to make bad decisions or mess their lives up. sheltering kids definitely leads to that. jaden and willow may have been raised unconventionally but have you ever seen them in any serious mess? they just live their lives and make their music and mind their business yet they receive so much hate. i love the way she raised them. they’re great kids. if i’m blessed to have kids, i’m gonna raise them the same way.
I agree with some of their parenting style and some of will's law of attraction beliefs. However I'm not too sure that jada kids are as well adjusted as she thinks. It's great to let your children make choices for themselves but also be right there to guide and teach. I don't believe in just throwing them out into the world without educating them first and still being there to offer guidance. Those kids still need parenting. I dont like that jada is treating them like her job is done as a parent. Congrats on your channel growing so fast! Love your point of view and videos❤
blkbarby Yea I agree. I like the open dialogue she has with her kids but that's a lot of power and responsibility early on. I couldn't do it. Children must be guided but not controlled or throw to the world so soon. And ohh thanks! I'm so glad you are enjoying my channel 😁🤗😘
Very well said to both these comments and I agree 100%. They do hv a great relationship and special bond with their kids and for the most part I feel theyve done a great job but I do believe they gave them too much power without enough education and I honestly dnt believe if they were regular, schmegular parents with 9 to 5 jobs, that they wldv taken this approach. I think they felt safe to do that bc they are rich and protected, both the kids and parents.
Well to be honest a lot of 9 to 5 type of people end up subconsciously giving their kids a lot of control and being on their own responsibility wise because they are rarely home. Especially with single parents. And basically Jada's mother did the same because her daughter was on the street hanging and hustling probably because her mom was a young single mother and a functioning addict.
When you know that no matter how your kids turnout they will ALWAYS be financially secure, you can raise your kids like that BUT for regular folks idk how well this would work. You have to instill a "work ethic" in your kids or the world will tear them up and spit them out. Just my opinion.
I try to provide my daughter explanations that she can understand at 4. But when I realize she doesn’t want to understand, and she just wants her way I have to remind her that my way goes. And being that teenagers brains are literally still developing, I would never let her move out as a teenager. I don’t care how “mature” she seems. Biology still has to run its course. I really don’t like some of The Smiths parenting choices girl...
Lailah Lynn Yea that moving out at 15 OMG I counld NEVER!!! Same here after the explanation it's definitely what the parents says goes. But conversations help understanding. And Yeah their parenting is different but I admire their open conversation. A lot of their choices are a bit off tho I definitely agree.
Lailah Lynn I also think the fact that these children literally have been all over the world and have been exposed to different languages and cultures and seen the world’s extravagances as well as its poverty gives Jaden and Willow different insights than the average. So while regular children might not be equipped to leave home at 15 Jaden was. Plus on a realistic tip many kids in Hollywood leave their homes to work in the business basically by themselves or with a legal guardian which is no real difference than what Jaden did.
Lailah Lynn Totally agree bc if Jaden wasn't rich then nobody will be talking about maturity then. N i can't say he was "making his own money" when managers lawyers agents are booking the gigs and signing the papers.
Ultimately, both Will and Jada Smith did the best that they could have. Just like any other parent. No matter how “different” their parenting styles are/were.
Like she said,hey they may have to tap into that therapy fund at some point...but so far so good. At the end of the day that goes for damn near every parent. No matter how well we think we do our kids will always point out something we did to screw them up....lol
Being raised old school and raising children in this now today's time, there has to be a balance between both. Old school instilled values. Raising children today takes alot of patience and prayer. I'm not saying prayer as a cliche but because there are so many different spirits around children (pedophile, mental illness, and even murders) prayer is really needed. School shootings are becoming the normal. Legally children are minors until 18.
Before seeing this video, a few weeks ago me n my friend who is the same age as Jaden came to that conclusion. Like they don’t have a close relationship at all. It seems strange. And he only dates white girls...that could have something to do with his mom
This was very deep... This is why I waited to have children because regardless of how hard to try to correct the mistakes done to you, your own children will have other mistakes done to them by you. This hit me hard !!! loved your take on it too.
Let me say I think the Smith's are great parents & good role models to there children and public. I also appreciate her n the fam sharing n discussing real subjects in open forum. It's so needed n refreshing. My first comment about Jaden's body language (eyes) toward Jada wasn't to criticize her parenting. It was just something I picked up on. It could hve been something innocent, private, or embarrassing to him tht he didn't want her to mention . Nothing more. I'm happy to see a show with worthwhile conversations. 🤗❤🖤💚💛
LTG TG Completely agree! I saw and felt the same way immediately. He tried to share his feelings/thoughts/opinion about a job of some sort that he had done in earlier years but jada cut him off very abruptly and just finished His story/thought for him! It was quiet strange to me. Something just seemed off and a bit unsettling. Although they both have always adamantly claimed the reasons they chose this way of parenting was to allow their kids to embrace their own individuality, have their own voice, and to be succesful, strong, self reliant adults who live their Own individual life how they choose... it felt quiet the opposite. Oddly enough Jaden (whom now truly IS an Adult) seems to be suppressing many things and unsure about vocalizing himself. He portrayed much submissiveness, while his mom portrayed dominance.
I’m confused. Why is this sick and stupid? They listen to their kids and let them make decisions for themselves instead of running their lives. That’s not sick or stupid. Also these aren’t normal kids, their celebrity kids with probably more money than all of us combined.
There is a reason why kids don't raise themselves. There is a reason why they don't walk straight outta the womb into the job agency. They need to grow and learn. You can't let them raise themselves! You need to teach them life skills, and part of those skills is being able to respect authority and follow instructions. They'll question that authority and those instructions on their own, you don't need to teach them that. But give them the tools to survive before you let them have at the establishment.
I'm a middle ground. If I tell the children don't go outside they know I'm going to say because I'm the Mom and your the child. But if they ask why they can't play with there friend I'm going to explain it to them. But once I explain why, they know I'm not giving them options, no means no
I don't have any children yet but but I know for a fact that being a parent is a challenging job because each child comes with different needs and love languages. What works for one may not work for another but you are one person that has to learn from each and every child and adapt over time, which can prove challenging and unsettling. You could be doing everything in YOUR book that you think is right and still not meet your child specific emotional needs. It's a hard knock life for us!
I'm a BECAUSE I SAID SO with a line of COMMUNICATION , kids need structure and a balance, I don't like when you tell a child to do something and they're questioning you WHY?😑 In my opinion they should not even reached that point to say WHY because you give them the authority to question you and as they get older it gets worse, (seen it so many times). You can tell a child to do something and explain to them why you told him to do it before they even ask, especially today's kids that are so out of control because discipline especially verbal discipline is almost non-existent.
Vala Dina they ask why because they’re developing a mind of their own. Being a because I said so parent ALL OF THE TIME will prevent them from growing into their own person. Making them have your exact mindset isn’t exactly a good thing.
Spot on....When my kids were a certain age i was God and what i said was law with no question. I am the parent with a certain level lifes experience and more importantly WISDOM, so yes i was in a very good position to instruct my children. When they got to an age where they could reason and understand, then i would explain things to them. But, i did not have any child running me down with why this and why that. Also children need to be brought to a place where they trust that if you as a parent guide or direct, they know you have their back and you have a good reason for it.
NO parent will be the perfect parents. NO child will have the perfect childhood. We are not perfect people, so it is impossible that to achieve this. I would say that I am a combination. I like to explain, but there are times when I know they are trying me - so it becomes because I said so, end of discussion. But we no have the safe zone. It's a time when you can say what you want how you want. It's the only time cussing is allowed in the house. But you still have to be respectful, but other than that on in, if you need to. When the safe zone is closed, it's closed until next time.
I don’t know about everyone else, but my childhood was perfect... at least in my eyes. Maybe as a child I would have said otherwise, but looking back it was great.
alisha l He’s a teenage boy, what do y’all expect?? Sitting and talking things out is very feminine, he’s a young man and probably wants to do other things
I wish my mom had that mindset like Jada or something close. At 16, my mom decimated my career choice. I had just moved to a new school and environment. My 1st time living with her since I was 3 and I've wanted to be with her for so long. This was abt 10yrs ago. To this day she doesn't know the impact that had on me. I tried to tell her a few months back but she wasn't receptive. The past couple of years I've been climbing out of my stagnated state. It took me awhile but I'm moving forward.
Am I the only one who sees that these children are broken, money and talent or not? The industry comsumes people and takes their soul and these children were fed to the wolves... Now sip on that☕
Focused on Truth the streets do too. Every industry does. It’s the world of capitalism. They weren’t going to be saved from life, either way. Like they said: Hollywood is not the hood. Sharks are everywhere in the world. Their hell is not your hell but hell is hell and u don’t know theirs 🤷🏾♀️ one thing we do know is that they have the support of their family no matter what it is...and stability is one hell they don’t have to worry about because they can work to eat AND they are in therapy for their mental health.
@@Daya1828 my husband always says " If I stick a 🔪 in your back, and give you directions to the hospital, does that make me a good person?" Food and support, no matter what🤔 uh, ok😯
Jada is crazy as hell....The point of being a parent is to raise your children and until you COMPLETE THAT JOB you need to keep them in your house under your roof....Smh HOW are you so open to let your MINOR children make choices for THEIR LIFE but NOT open enough to share YOUR STORY & HISTORY with your children....NOOOOOOO She wasnt transparent if her children had to hear about her PAST in the streets.....Smh😒😒😒 I love me some Jada too but this is OUT OF ORDER....Sorry but its the TRUTH. WILLOW went through that because her parents DID NOT KNOW HER....Hands down. Parents have to build a relationship with their children making SURE they feel COMFORTABLE coming to TALK to you about ANYTHING..... IF you cant go to anyone else in this world YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO RUN TO YOUR PARENTS & KNOW THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU🏆🌸
This was a great comment I totally agree with everything you said. This is what parents are here for to guide direct encourage and helped lead the way for their children. This family is very lost and confused. Now you see what too much freedom can do for you. She trusted her son to get his own place at the age of 15 th years old. But was ashamed to tell them about her history. This family appears to be very lost confused and still trying to find their way. When I watch Jada it seems like she is still performing practicing for her next role. Still trying to convince the world that she is that bad girl that does not take any s***. This is so sad. I wish her and her family the very best.
I don’t have kids, I’m 18. My mom never really made choices for me but she did try to guide me. Our situation was a little different because I have many chronic illnesses. From a young age I was pretty independent, and I was allowed to research the treatments that the doctors wanted me to do, I always made the Final decision. Don’t get me wrong my mom had her saying but at the end of the day it was my decision. she said it was my body . When it came to things out side of health she never really had to punish or ground me because I honestly never really left the house and was to Ill to really get into trouble.... How she raised my brother and sister was way different from how I was raised, every child needs something different. I think if my mom would’ve raised me how she raise my siblings it would have been at worked.
It really saddens me to see babies being pushed beyond what they should be doing, God sees your pain Jaden and Im praying for your spirit and soul to be lifted high. Continue being wise, brave and strong man you are.
People are forgetting if Jada was a middle class mom all of this would go out of the window. Because you woudn't have the funds to give your teenager their own apartment or home. This stuff comes into play when there is little to no stress about money and you have money to burn... in other words privilege.
Tamara Laird I disagree a little. I would allow my child to move out into a tiny home we have already planned to build. I talked to my six year old about it he is very mature. And I taught my kids how to make their own money even by simply drawing pictures and selling them. I am a single mother and low income and I make it work. My children see my hustle and drive and they know what is up in the real world. I expose them little by little as to not overwhelm them and we talk. Jayden made his own money. He didn't use his parents money. And they said the knew he would make good decisions because the taught him how. And I agree he makes as good of decisions as any mature adult with a good moral compass. He is able to explain exactly why and defend his position very well. Just as my children's money and privilege has nothing to do with it.
Money relieve stress but it's not a privildge. You amy not have to worry about alot but u still worry. And jada and will are actors. Acting is a hustle. You're only as good as your last film and hope to God u made a hit. Cuz bull hva etc gwt paid. That's why they ask for so much as they get popularas actors. To maintain a lifestyle.
I didn't like how Willow talked over her gma, Adrienne. That to me is poor parenting not to mention cursing in front of her. The gma coming from a "well off family" then getting addicted to drugs but being functioning sounds about right in line with the crack epidemic. When Jada talks all I hear is someone retelling a story based on how they want it to be perceived. This just seems ridiculous. Saying cus I said so is meant for a child to be reminded of their place. To take it any other way is simply being entitled. Kids and most adults are not owed an explanation cus everything doesn't deserve one.
I think their parenting style is good! Because when I was growing up my mom was pretty much the disciplinarian and what she said goes and the cuz I said so line would be thrown around. I have a 3 yr old and me and my bf parent him good. We explain things to him and we are constantly telling him how amazing he is! Growing up my mom never really told me I was good at stuff. My parents pretty much doubted me gave me low self esteem so me and my bf always boosted our sons confidence and tell him he can do anything he sets his mind on! I don't ever want my son to look bad and think wow my parents hated me ! I wish jadas show was on RUclips or cable cuz I don't have Facebook!! It looks like a good show.
They treated them like adults because they lost and didn’t want to take the time out and raise them is all plus y’all give will too much credit when in reality he is just as broken as jada because he came from an abusive home
No you treat the like adults so that they can learn independence and know how to properly navigate the adult world. They unlike other teenagers/ 20’s are NOT out here complaining about “adulting”
I explain myself too. I can’t just say no and not explain why. It just seems wrong. The deserve an explanation “because I’m afraid you will get hurt” because you need to do it this way” because it’s easier this way” etc etc...almost always about protecting them.
And folks believe that Jada & Will are off beat parents yet they let them move to the beat of their own drums. Neither kid has drug & abuse charges it’s awesome!!
DanYiel Teflon She cuts herself....and we are not aware of their habits. not to mention they feel pressured to have success in that industry...maybe that's not their choice. That's what I was hearing. shrugs
Willow cuts herself at the age of 10 and went through some emotional issues during that "whip my hair" phase .... no drug problem or arrest so that must means they did right?? They both became adults way to quickly. Many kids born into develop other habits other than drugs and arrests charges doesn't mean they were raised right.
DanYiel Teflon Just bc ppl cut themselves all the time doesnt mean its normal. What kind of justification is that. She causes physical harm to herself, which in essence, is comparable to drug abuse in the sense that you are causing self harm and suffers from depression. Also this family is super rich. We hv no idea whether or not theyve ever done anything to be charged with. I mean its great that we never heard of anything as far as the drugs and whatnot but we dont know.
P.Nicole Gills Are u kidding me. U must have missed the part where jaden and Willow are on Record for being depressed to the point of SUICIDE.. SO. being poised is least of their worries
P.Nicole Gills Oh and another thing.. These are kids growing up cutting their wrist, their hair, and maybe the fuckin furniture. So stop with this shallow ass fairy tale-looking HOLLYWOOD Fake- ACTING OUT LIFE ass bullshit. Will and Jada put their kids through the fire for sacrifice.. Do u think THE MOST HIGH JUDGES ACCORDING TO OUR POISE OR OUR LEVELS OF RIGHTEOUSNESS AND OBEDIENCE?
Are you serious? If my daughter was cutting herself I have to take some responsibility in that. She missed everything the haircuts the depression, the cutting, and you say great job, no you have to own your mistakes as a parents it isn't easy but at least acknowledge it, why is she letting her daughter believe it was all her fault.
I don’t think Jada’s parenting style is as smart as it seems like they’re tryna make it out to be.. that’s partly why her kids out here doin whatever today. You can talk to your kids without putting them on the same level as you and if kids knew it all and were able to make smart decisions on their own then God would’ve have given us parents...
I think on the face of it they are well balanced, articulate individuals and perhaps that's all that matters? I can't say I can relate 100% with Jada's parenting style; I tend to take on a "because I said so" stance with my children after I have explained SEVERAL times and they refuse to listen. Each child is different and thus needs a different style of parenting. My children are not mature enough to make such life changing decisions (some decision making is required for their personal growth. I do encourage them to reason things out). Her children also had a very different environment. For the most part, being wealthy, having security and/or being chauffeur driven allowed her children to have a lot of freedom (and that's wonderful for them). I can't allow my 14 year old son such privileges (as much as that breaks my heart) because many black boys are being inducted into gangs or killed in the our streets.
Alexandria UK I completely agree! After explaining If the child still doesn't want to listen then I definitely say I'm the adult so do what I said. And yea moving out at 15 yea I guess that works for rich folk... I could NEVER! I like what you said about every child is different! That's so true. Have parent them according to their needs. Great comment!
If people stop babysitting their kids and raise them, they will be just as mature as they need to be. Money has nothing to do with. Example in a poor single parent family the kids will more likely be mature as they will have more responsibility.
I have a 13 year old daughter. It gets harder when your kid is a teenager. In their minds, the whole entire world revolves around them. I want my kid to be respectful to adults and not question them. Her classmates didn't learn home training and they disrespect their teachers all the time. I give my daughter options, but not TOO many. That girl is almost taller than me and she's a karate blue belt. I have to put some boundaries on her. She's not going to walk all over me.
Vanity Posh sometimes questioning authority isn’t always disrespectful. Because adults are nowhere near perfect and they are wrong at times. Honestly if you teach kids to never in life question adults, they’ll be easily influenced by everyone because they won’t have a mind of their own.
Evey Cocoa I explain many of the reasons she has to do certain things but I'm not at liberty to explain everything. The things that I tell her to do is beneficial to her. I'm just saying.... when you give a child too many options, it's not always a good thing. There are way too many spoiled disrespectful brats out there. I definitely don't want my kid being disrespectful to teachers or my mother. Many teachers have complimented my daughter to me about her behavior in class and I wouldn't want it any other way. Anyway, I think letting a child move out at 15 is a bit much. But they are celebs. I can see them doing something like that. I also know that being too strict on a child will make them rebel. You have to find that middle ground.
This is one my favorite topics you cover. :) I love their family table talks. I have a young son, almost two, and I will definitely be taking some Jada’s and Adrienne’s parenting advice. And life advice. I can’t agree more when Jada said that parents need to learn to forgive themselves more often. That every child will have their own burdens to bear.
I just realised I’m drinking tea like your pic (note: drinking, not sipping). I enjoyed this and your commentary. Especially the parts on children making mistakes while children, and not at 30. My God. At the start I was like ‘I said what I said’ all the way, but I realise that, as pointed out in the video, it leads to a child not being able to share stuff with their parent, which is so dangerous and detrimental to the child-parent relationship. And Jada’s point about adults coming into parenthood with their childhood traumas couldn’t be more true. Definitely something that needs to be recognised, acknowledged and acted on/managed by an adult that becomes a parent.
I’m a let’s sit and talk parent. I feel like when parents say “Because I said so” they missed the opportunity to educate their children on life., which is exactly what I realized my parents did. They taught me nothing. I learned everything through trial and error and I never want my daughter to experience that. However, I do understand that she’ll have her own challenges to deal with but I want to be available for any conversation she wants to have.
A. B. Look what it took, cutting herself shaving her head ball the child was miserable and nobody even knew, and you say great job, they made them successful that's why you're probably saying good job. Look at the cost
I respect giving kids choices,but a child can’t make adult decisions so it’s all about good balance, I can ask my child what they want to wear, watch on tv or what to eat , but moving out at 15 no not happening! I’m not passing judgement it’s just my opinion! Im a protective and attached parent , I also believe that trying your best is key that’s all we oughta do for the kids there’s no hand book that tells us how to be a perfect parent or kid ! So if it works for them so be it! It’s def a different style of parenting that I’m not completely use to! And the cursing 🤬 in front of my mom and grandma won’t ever happen and I’m 23 ( I just don’t curse tho)
Great commentary! I get your position. However, there are moments when “Because I said so is relative. If I tell you to “stop,” because I see the car coming and you don’t can save your life. You feel me? In that split second between me saying ‘stop’ and you asking me “why?“ can mean the difference between your child living or dying in that split second. So I’m saying that they are both relevant. Finally, my grandmother and many women of her era were married at 15 and their husbands were 18. Soooo age is also relative given the experience and circumstances.
I love them and I think each parent has to find a method that works for their family. We all make mistakes because no one is perfect. But learning from our mistakes, making positive change(s)and growth from those mistake and keeping an open line of good communication with your child/children helps a great deal.
this ending... had me in tears... I just had my first born... and I have so much to bury and burn from my childhood that it haunts me to think I may pass some to him... so much pain is held between my mom and I... I am so resentful of how absent she was in my life.... and just trying to address that so that my son can have a relationship with her... the struggle is REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I moved out at 16 and my mom didn’t stop me! Some children grow up with parents who continuously tell them “I can’t wait til you get out of my house”, so to each is own. Back in the day people started working in elementary school & by time they were teenagers they started having their own kids. It’s all about perspective, because honestly I don’t think we’re supposed to be sheltered until we are 18. Children should start preparing for their adult life much sooner than 12th grade or college. That’s my personal opinion! 💋
Welp, that parenting didn’t work for Jada’s kids though 🤷🏾♀️ patenting styles is based on the type of kid you have. It is so important to get to know your children, individually. That gives you an insight on what parenting style approach should be taken. Letting them “run wild” at an early age isn’t good though. The child will feel like they don’t have anyone who actually cares for them. All fun when they are young but, it really hurts them in the long run.
Charlene Moore yep and that's exactly why when she posted a video earlier about Jada and her daughter Jada had no idea that her daughter was cutting herself, had no idea how daughter learn her first sexual experience catching her parents having sex this style of parenting makes no sense to let a child as early as 4 and 8 do whatever they want to do we're here to teach them of course you got to give a child space to grow and to develop and learn for themselves but we are here as parents for a reason
Charlene Moore They haven't guided their children at all, except guided them to how to use fame and make money. This whole red table talk is exploitive.
Ce B. What may work for one family may not work for another. My step mom didnt know my sister cutting herself and she was one of those smothering moms that wasnt there emotionally. Her mom tried to raise her the same way her mom did and it didnt work. It drove them apart later on in life and till this day she doesnt talk to her mom.
Totally agree about the "because I said so" in response to anything said. My husband and I are huge on explaining and keeping the communication lines open. It's absolutely true the "because I said so" comment can stop a child for coming to get perspective from their parents-the people who cares more than anyone.
I love the fact that she gave her children choices I'm all for that. Give them the option to fall and make mistakes. But there still has to be rules and boundaries. Moving out at 15 oh hell no! Shaving your head also a no-no but to each their own.
That's why it is important to teach your kids about God and try to live a Godly life. Yes, nobody is perfect and we all to have and will have our own burdens to bear. That is why God will be and is there with us through our burdens.
I love it when this family is open and true to themselves. Life goes on in the real world with a sense of confidence..and security. Love and understanding..is No:1.
Except she's said 100 times that she isn't so... there's that. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, you're NOT however, entitled to your own facts. Conspiracy theories help no one.
Parenting does not come with instructions and so knowing that I have a choice to make when it comes to parenting I sometimes had to let go and realize that the children I had had a mind of their own and the quicker I made up my mind to let go and just listen and pay attention so that I know how to step up and provide some answers that they may need one day cause sometimes we feel like parents just don't understand life when the truth is living and learning is a cycle and in order to accept change or try something different you have to be willing to do the work to make it happen. Everything comes in pieces and you to stay work so that you can start to build and contiue to build. What ever pieces come up first that's what I work on and keep moving while fixing mistakes and changing my mind so that I can focus on doing better for self then others, I appreciate the honesty of Jada, her mom and her children. We were thinking of the same ways of letting our children just be and learn by doing then feeling whatever they feel so that they want to talk about it just to see what your thoughts are. Another thing that I did was listen and talk to my children about what they were going through even if they did not try it my way the information was given and I always hope that they know and understand that they have a choice to remember what I gave them or just sit and what for a miracle after praying but do no work. It's really on them to be good to self and fix mistakes meaning thoughts that did not belong to them. The day that I made up my mind and said "these are not my kids but the were given to me to take care of and to do the right thing by them by showing and telling the the way to go that will be better for them is to keep living a life being good to people even when they are not good to you. There have been so many people that have gone to jail that have done time and/or still doing time because the reacted to someone in a way that was not good. They lost their freedom, we can't let people make us so angry that we forget to see self and know that that situation is not mine, it's the other person's therefore, I don't need to respond because I know who I am. This is what I want for my children also so the remember this and think it makes it part of who they are. This is good for all people. Too many petty arguments leads to being in a place that you never thought you would be in so pay attention and Love so that you know when to walk away, everything ain't personal and you don't have to respond again it's s choice. What would you choose "when the going gets tough" Billy Ocean, I think.
Because I said so is different from them telling you what they will and will not do. Children need to be raised and directed. So I don’t agree with Will and Jada. We have to parent our children with what they need not what we missed. Definitely a balancing act.
The down side of parenting your children that way is that once they go to school and other places outside of home people won’t treat them the same.... also they have money, their experiences are wildly different than people who don’t have those resources.
Will and Jada are blessed their kids were so smart and mature ,not all kids are like that. A lot of kids follow bad influence into peer pressure, some have ADHD which makes it harder. My parents were good protectors but they were over protective and made a lot of mistakes that I've learned from and still we are all not perfect.
Thank you for keeping up with this!! And I Verbatim said that entire scene on low down dirty shame. We didn’t have cable and that was a regularly watched vhs tape in our home.
Excellent...I can relate. My parents worked so hard to keep me and my sister away from "worldly" things and that way of life. At 30 I figured it out...my mom said that is the only thing she regrets about raising us...it's important to allow kids to know about life and it's not always good even with fame and fortune...you must be prepare to handle both...knowing God truly helps...
Hurricane Ethyl ....Yes ma'am....I agree that it's okay to allow children to make decisions, but teach them to be wise in their decision making. It's not always good to learn a life lesson by making a bad decision that could have been avoided.
Some mistakes there's no returning from. Like having a boyfriend and having sex at an early age. Moving out to early. Allowing them experience drugs. And when a parent say I rather they do drugs at home, or with me then in the street. This to me, is the craziest mess I've ever heard
I think Jada kids was abuse also is something off about her kids.i don't know how young her daughter was I saw a video of her laying in bed with a white guy she looks 14. it just look a little odd that Jada would allowed her daughter in that bed with that man it was a little weird.
I feel something happen to will and Jada children ,something so dark that no amount of money can fix . I feel it in my gut wen ever I see Jaden or willow cry.I’m glad someone else think that thought .
I'm a sit down & let's talk type of parent. After viewing this I have a better understanding as to why their children were raised the way they were & I don't judge them any more for their decisions. I do the same with my daughter for the same reasons & now I theirs I'm understanding of it cause I want my daughter to make her mistakes now & I want her to be able to make logical decisions. Thanks for this I really needed to hear it & thanks to Jada for having such open conversations with "The Red Table Talk "
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Daytime Tea Time that was crazy
Daytime Tea Time The families people are raised in!!!!
Daytime Tea Time is will n jada getting a divorce fr fr !!! Jada don't wear her ring anymore and will made comments recently about them not being married anymore but life time partners /friends ..
yall know the reason why they encouraged her to continue the song was because will and jada may needed the extra money. anytime you push your children to do something for money it's so their child could have their own money to spend or to help out the family.
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I was raised with the "because i said so"and i do see the communication problems with my parents.
This was so deep 🤔 I was raised in the 80's with strict parents. I hated it but as I became an adult I thank my father bc I figure out why he protected me. I raised my daughter the same way. She did not like my ways but hey I didn't allow her to spend the night over people houses, I had to meet her friends parents, visit their homes b4 she could play with them. We had to go to church. When she got to middle school she wanted to do everything. The answer couldn't be yes all the time but now she's 20 in her 3rd year in college been on the dean's list the whole time. She goes to different cities preaching to children about the Lord. She told me, I hated how strict you were but now I understand why you were protecting me. So every parenting is different. Is up to the children how they going to turn out. I use to tell my child, you have one life, only you can make it better or screw it up. It will be nobody fault if you decide to follow behind idiots. Thank God 🙏 she decided to take the right path. Bottom line prayer and faith is all you need. It's hard raising children in this cruel world 😥
MrsLina plus5 I love your comment. Remain blessed.
I grew up in the 90s and was raised by a single mom. She was one of those cause I said so, but she also took the time to explain why to me and my sisters. As parents we are not perfect, we make mistakes and I don't think allowing your child to make all their own decisions is the way to go. If your child was about to walk out into traffic would you sit by and allow it? What parent would do that. Well if you allow them to make all their own decisions that's exactly what you're doing. Setting rules and instilling a solid foundation in your kids is the very definition of being a parent. They are kids, and of course they will make mistakes. But equipping them with a strong foundation and guidance will help them to be strong when faced with adversary. You don't have to let your child live the way they think they should in order to make them independent and self-sufficient adults, but instilling morals and rules will give them with they need to make good choices. We live in this world and we all have rules and laws thay we even as adults must obey, so even if you think that you don't have to give them rules, society will. Even the world knows that without rules......you get chaos.
MrsLina plus5 Amen Amen Amen!!!
MrsLina plus5 doesn't sound strict. But normal 🙂
Congratulations good job
If it's any consolation, Willow Smith that song Whip My Hair help save my life. I am a 54 year old woman, who had hair and in 2000 May of 2012 found out that I had cancer and lost my hair I used to listen to that song before it happened and I used to Whip My Hair whenever I was going through something and then when you was on Oprah you said it's not just whipping your hair but it's an attitude so when I lost my hair I realize that I can still shake my head around with my Whip my hair because my attitude was to fight this cancer and not let it take me out, I'm 53 and I still listen to that song when I get down and I blasted loud like my attitude towards cancer is I'm kicking your butt I'm whipping my hair, I am Brenda Watson a woman is old enough to be your grandmother who listens to that song and every time I get down two fighting cancer I had to cancel the first time a year and a half later I got cancer again and I lost my hair again and I play that song Oh my iPod with my hair like no matter what people say if you going to make it it's the fight as hard but I still with my hair so even though you went through something it empowered me and it still does and I'm still in the fight of my life because even though cancer-free the doctors recently found something in my chest you know what I say to that I can't worry imma praise God and Whip My Hair to thank you Willow thank you Jada and will for having such amazing children that can help others even when they don't even realize it I say blessings blessings blessings to you Willow and your family thank you for the song it has empowered me
Let freedom ring. Thank you.
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The Atheist Gangstar G nice.
Thats so beautiful 😭😭😭 God bless you
There's no perfect parent. No matter what we do our kids will have their issues to bare. We all do! No one's free from having issues and struggles.
Amen to that!
Say that
Briana R teach them how to pray an give back early. Everything starts at home raise them up right. God will provide for them
Exactly,we as parents do truly 'at least most of us', do our utmost best with our children. We can't be perfect as Much as we try! We hurt, we cry because our Best just isn't enough. Like it was said, we come with our own issues we were still trying to figure out.😢 Very good conversation what Jada bought to light.😊😊
“Because I say so”, has saved plenty of souls. Kids can’t handle all those decisions the maturity needed, they just don’t have. That’s why there are laws to protect them.
KIWIFUZZY Very true! You are right! But I just feel like you can't "because I said so" to EVERYTHING! Children and teens have to learn to make SOME mistakes.
If we’re keeping it funky
Daytime Tea Time ok I see your point! But let's face it. They went too far with the whole 15 on your own. If anything had happened Will and Jada would have been responsible.
KIWIFUZZY I swear, this is the Only comment that makes all the since.. Kids that have way too much power granted to the to make decisions, often make a Even BIGGER MESS to clean up. Can blame the kids on that one. New age bullshit is Satanic. Given the children to MOLOCH.
KIWIFUZZY I totally agree with you on that
I feel like Jada and her mom's parenting styles are two extremes of a spectrum. I think Jada gives her children too much freedom, where as Jada's mom didn't give her enough and seemed controlling.
It's important to have an open line of conversation. And as children grow up, I think parents needs to graudally give them more responsibilities and freedom, BUT at the end of the day, children need to be guided.
Although Willow and Jaden are "still here", as they said, something about them seems off psychologically.
Josie I think u feel this way bc they are smarter and more "woke" as some people like to say. So by meaning they don't act the way most kids act. They all did "crazy" stuff. She did in fact give them a lot of freedom. But with freedom comes trust. I think she trusted her kids enough to be out on there own and make a rational decision and even if they messed up. They are only kids and they did learn from them. Hopefully, they did and most importantly they are rich they can afford to make mistakes regular people can't make.
Josie Very interesting analysis I have to agree
While I agree I don’t believe they’re off psychologically, I believe they’re much more mature and understanding of how life is than other kids because of how their parents don’t sugar coat their feelings and are so open with them.
I agree with you for the most part. BUT, I think only time and their actions will reveal the extent of any psychology paradigm shift residing in them.
I agree with most of what you said but, we have to factor in other variables. A big example is the fact that they are wealthy children and their lives are totally different from the average child we encounter every day. Honesty, we all have some form of psychological issues, it's all about how we are capable of coping with living life. They both seem very mature and like their mom said, they have a "therapy fund". But, yes you are so right on both grandma and Jada being on two extremes of the spectrum, spot on!!!
Rich ppl problems. The avg 15 year old isn’t making enough money to go out on their on.
SoSoSteph LMAO exactly! In Hollywood 15 year olds are like 25yr olds. I definitely can not relate to that mentality.
Right...esp making money that is practically given to you bc of your fathers connections. If u dnt hv to audition for a role, ur in there no matter what! Lol
Yeah, I've said that too! No kid from an average home would move out at 15! These kids have no idea how it is in the real world!
Yep!
I moved out at 18 making 1000 a month.
Jaden looks sad, BROKEN, Hurt and confused and angry, depressed for real.
True
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I'm glad someone said this
He looks like something happened to him and he can’t talk about it
Exactly! No matter how mature you are your still not an adult.
I see thru all that then kids ain't happy jada ain't happy and it's sad
Yeah, they aren't happy...smh
They are functioning tho and that’s what u see. Functioning well. Their happiness is their business. Happiness is a choice and it’s very temporal. One day you’re happy, one day you’re choosing another emotion
It ain’t Will’s fault she need Jesus!
Warrior of God who said it was?? 🤔
No human is truly happy lol and they're in therapy, so things are fine.
I do agree with Will & Jada to an extent, but I would *never* let my son move out at 15, even if he seems mature.
Yeaaa that's going too far
Demi Schae Amen ,Amen.
Well apparently it turned out to be what they thought, difference is they trusted they kids and maybe you just dont
I lived by myself from the age of 15 with another girl my age were fine ..... we done teenager properly we learned the hard way what happens if they don't pay bills and spend the shopping money on alcohol and weed .... I was raised in the 80s I'm still here and actually one of the few people that are happy .... I know the difference between wants and needs.... just because you don't live at home it doesn't mean you don't have guidence or help .... people can marry in most western societies at 18..... 3years .... it is down to the individuals because we all are
I understand their point sometime parents have to look past their child's age and focus on their maturity I moved out at 17 I still finished my senior parents have to look past their child's age and focus on their maturity I moved out at 17
Interesting but I cannot relate to Jada’s parenting style. And even with her giving her kids all this freedom and money... something seems off in the kids. But what do I know... I don’t live in that world.
Gourmet Thursday I agree
Yeah....they seem strange!
Yes they don’t even seem happy it’s like fake happy something sad behind them 🤔
That Smith family is all sorts of WEIRD
Those kids are as crazy as them. SMH!!
I agree with your point of view. I do the same with my children. I also explain that children always have a choice, even when they’re children; because they can choose to not listen even with parents who say “b/c I said so”. I just explain to my children that although you have a choice, making poor choices comes with consequences. I’m there to guide and offer a more experienced opinion but you have a choice to listen or not. But I wouldn’t allow my child to move out at 15.
I understand both sides of the discussion...but my mum went old school on my ass😤 LoL
MyTwell and I bet you turned out better for it
MyTwell hellz yea😂😂😂
If their grandmother wasn't there the kids would've been out of balanced. I agree that yes explain yourself to your kids however letting them make every decision on their own, knowing it won't go well for them. It's about balance, I tell my daughter why we can't go outside right now and explain why. But I'm also going to be strict to certain things when it comes to some of her decision if I know it will not go well I'm not going to let her do it.
Fatumata Gumaneh Amen to that!
I agree
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I allow my son to have a voice, but right is right and wrong is wrong. if we have a conversation and he still trying to make the wrong decision.... He will get the because I said it.
Sonia Wiggins Exactly!
Pure foolishness, didn't Willie just admit she was cutting herself. Their lives are already set up, Willow is the boy in the family and Jaden is the girl. The way Will was kissing his son in the mouth at various times, the whole family is sick.
Well, Jada did say that they did get their share of therapy in the process although they seem to turn out ok in the end.
And at the end he will still do what he chooses, he just won’t tell you
I agree 90％ because in the little things that won't really scare my children, I let them just make the mistake.
At first I was very judgmental of both Will and Jada about their parenting. After watching this episode I get it! Their children are very intelligent and they seem to have a great relationship with them and to me that's so important in this day and age. So I say hats off to them both!
TheHairgirly23 totally agree!
“Because I said so” didn’t bother me, it was more of a norm than anything.
Jaden always looks defeated and broken down .
@abundantly seeking Absolutely right, she had no boundaries. Who sleeps and has a relationship with her son's friend? That's not normal. Messing with a man that young says something about her maturity level.
He does
He always looks like that
Honestly the entire family has that same look, i believe its just the facial features a little more but it still definitely is most likely a deeper meaning
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I’m in college, 23 yrs. Honestly I always thought that super old school parents enjoy the power dynamic between parent and child. In my opinion, those kinds of parents hold their power over their children because it’s what their parents did when they were young. To me it’s a very destructive and sadistic pattern that eventually causes their children to rebel more and possibly become very narrow minded in the future.
Evey Cocoa Yep.
Lol so wise 🙄 if you're really 23, you need to take a seat & realize that knowledge comes with experience and an open mind. You think you've got it all figured out & you have no idea how things work.
Jenni Boo i never claimed to know it all. But so far, I do have my life figured out because I’m not dumb.
Thanks
Evey Cocoa I disagree. We have more school shootings than ever with these new age kids. School bullying is at an all time high. And children as young as 8 are committing suicide because of their peers. Because of young people who think the way you do, true parenting doesn’t happen anymore. You all read too much into shit instead of trying to realize that your parents are just trying to help you. This generation is so dramatic and are guided by a false sense of entitlement. Its really sad and unfortunate.
actually most kids/children are committing suicide because of
their parents.
Unconventional Methods For Raising Jaden & Willow was Will & Jada Choice ....
However , I Wouldn’t Have Chosen Their Method .... 😞
I Agree With Her Mom 😍
The Brain is Still Developing ...
Come On Facts Please Use Common Sense ...
Sabrina Doctor ...right
Finally a comment from someone with some commonsense
i get that but look at them. parents think that if they give their children opportunities to be open, then they’ll want to make bad decisions or mess their lives up. sheltering kids definitely leads to that. jaden and willow may have been raised unconventionally but have you ever seen them in any serious mess? they just live their lives and make their music and mind their business yet they receive so much hate. i love the way she raised them. they’re great kids. if i’m blessed to have kids, i’m gonna raise them the same way.
I agree with some of their parenting style and some of will's law of attraction beliefs. However I'm not too sure that jada kids are as well adjusted as she thinks. It's great to let your children make choices for themselves but also be right there to guide and teach. I don't believe in just throwing them out into the world without educating them first and still being there to offer guidance. Those kids still need parenting. I dont like that jada is treating them like her job is done as a parent. Congrats on your channel growing so fast! Love your point of view and videos❤
blkbarby Yea I agree. I like the open dialogue she has with her kids but that's a lot of power and responsibility early on. I couldn't do it. Children must be guided but not controlled or throw to the world so soon. And ohh thanks! I'm so glad you are enjoying my channel 😁🤗😘
Very well said to both these comments and I agree 100%. They do hv a great relationship and special bond with their kids and for the most part I feel theyve done a great job but I do believe they gave them too much power without enough education and I honestly dnt believe if they were regular, schmegular parents with 9 to 5 jobs, that they wldv taken this approach. I think they felt safe to do that bc they are rich and protected, both the kids and parents.
Stokely Banks That part
Jada is still growing up herself. Her and Will seem to have been the immature ones hence the kids being so mature
Well to be honest a lot of 9 to 5 type of people end up subconsciously giving their kids a lot of control and being on their own responsibility wise because they are rarely home. Especially with single parents. And basically Jada's mother did the same because her daughter was on the street hanging and hustling probably because her mom was a young single mother and a functioning addict.
When you know that no matter how your kids turnout they will ALWAYS be financially secure, you can raise your kids like that BUT for regular folks idk how well this would work. You have to instill a "work ethic" in your kids or the world will tear them up and spit them out. Just my opinion.
I try to provide my daughter explanations that she can understand at 4. But when I realize she doesn’t want to understand, and she just wants her way I have to remind her that my way goes.
And being that teenagers brains are literally still developing, I would never let her move out as a teenager. I don’t care how “mature” she seems. Biology still has to run its course. I really don’t like some of The Smiths parenting choices girl...
Lailah Lynn Yea that moving out at 15 OMG I counld NEVER!!! Same here after the explanation it's definitely what the parents says goes. But conversations help understanding. And Yeah their parenting is different but I admire their open conversation. A lot of their choices are a bit off tho I definitely agree.
Lailah Lynn I also think the fact that these children literally have been all over the world and have been exposed to different languages and cultures and seen the world’s extravagances as well as its poverty gives Jaden and Willow different insights than the average. So while regular children might not be equipped to leave home at 15 Jaden was. Plus on a realistic tip many kids in Hollywood leave their homes to work in the business basically by themselves or with a legal guardian which is no real difference than what Jaden did.
Lailah Lynn Totally agree bc if Jaden wasn't rich then nobody will be talking about maturity then. N i can't say he was "making his own money" when managers lawyers agents are booking the gigs and signing the papers.
Lailah Lynn ok so what happens when you explanation is not enough
Lynette Mcduffie “I have to remind her that my way goes”
Ultimately, both Will and Jada Smith did the best that they could have. Just like any other parent. No matter how “different” their parenting styles are/were.
Like she said,hey they may have to tap into that therapy fund at some point...but so far so good. At the end of the day that goes for damn near every parent. No matter how well we think we do our kids will always point out something we did to screw them up....lol
I like to explain but nobody is moving out at 15! 😂
Renie Nostalgic I know that's right! I'm like umm no! Go upstairs to your room! 😂😂😂
Renie Nostalgic I agree!
Its also illegal.
Some ppl do. I have two friends who left home in high school bc their mom was too strict.
Renie Nostalgic Because you said so! 👍 Exactly!
Being raised old school and raising children in this now today's time, there has to be a balance between both. Old school instilled values. Raising children today takes alot of patience and prayer. I'm not saying prayer as a cliche but because there are so many different spirits around children (pedophile, mental illness, and even murders) prayer is really needed. School shootings are becoming the normal. Legally children are minors until 18.
Shakita Weaver hello. These kids are wild.
Something was off with Jaden energy towards Jada, not sure what but there's a disconnect.
Before seeing this video, a few weeks ago me n my friend who is the same age as Jaden came to that conclusion. Like they don’t have a close relationship at all. It seems strange. And he only dates white girls...that could have something to do with his mom
Vinis Walker its prob bc his mom was sleeping with his friend August smh
Chic warrior Babe 🤣 probably
Overall Jaden is a hard person to read.
He isn’t as expressive in his face like the rest of his family
Shay45 facts. And I’m not tryna create a story that isn’t there but he barely interacts with his mom. Compared to Will. Watch Will’s RUclips
This was very deep... This is why I waited to have children because regardless of how hard to try to correct the mistakes done to you, your own children will have other mistakes done to them by you. This hit me hard !!! loved your take on it too.
Amen and Amen!❤😊
Some of Jada's methods sound very Scientology-ish.
Oh it is
Jaden's eye language to Jada says something .. I dnt want to assume, but it seems like something unspoken
LeeLee it means more to the story of something body language says much more than words...
Let me say I think the Smith's are great parents & good role models to there children and public. I also appreciate her n the fam sharing n discussing real subjects in open forum. It's so needed n refreshing. My first comment about Jaden's body language (eyes) toward Jada wasn't to criticize her parenting. It was just something I picked up on. It could hve been something innocent, private, or embarrassing to him tht he didn't want her to mention . Nothing more. I'm happy to see a show with worthwhile conversations. 🤗❤🖤💚💛
LTG TG I noticed it too. He seemed angry, and closed. Something was def bothering him. Even his tone was standoffish
I saw him roll his eyes at her multiple times
LTG TG
Completely agree! I saw and felt the same way immediately. He tried to share his feelings/thoughts/opinion about a job of some sort that he had done in earlier years but jada cut him off very abruptly and just finished His story/thought for him! It was quiet strange to me. Something just seemed off and a bit unsettling. Although they both have always adamantly claimed the reasons they chose this way of parenting was to allow their kids to embrace their own individuality, have their own voice, and to be succesful, strong, self reliant adults who live their Own individual life how they choose... it felt quiet the opposite. Oddly enough Jaden (whom now truly IS an Adult) seems to be suppressing many things and unsure about vocalizing himself. He portrayed much submissiveness, while his mom portrayed dominance.
I'm old school,and this is blowing my mind.
Simple Me ok this is sick and stupid
Simple Me girl!!!
Right. It's not even so much about being old school it's you having common since and these parents today have none.
Arshaela Ok just sick.
I’m confused. Why is this sick and stupid? They listen to their kids and let them make decisions for themselves instead of running their lives. That’s not sick or stupid. Also these aren’t normal kids, their celebrity kids with probably more money than all of us combined.
There is a reason why kids don't raise themselves. There is a reason why they don't walk straight outta the womb into the job agency. They need to grow and learn. You can't let them raise themselves! You need to teach them life skills, and part of those skills is being able to respect authority and follow instructions. They'll question that authority and those instructions on their own, you don't need to teach them that. But give them the tools to survive before you let them have at the establishment.
I'm a middle ground. If I tell the children don't go outside they know I'm going to say because I'm the Mom and your the child. But if they ask why they can't play with there friend I'm going to explain it to them. But once I explain why, they know I'm not giving them options, no means no
Facts!
Jaden up here cursing in front of his mom and grandma. Nah couldn't be my kid
Willow too
Pisces R'us lips would've been gone
He won’t make it out alive with me
Pisces R'us ...in this table table talk sit down was in their grown age. Not 5 or 14 or 17 years old. Lol!
Tijuana Holston I’m 30 and don’t cuss in front of my mama like that 😂
I don't have any children yet but but I know for a fact that being a parent is a challenging job because each child comes with different needs and love languages.
What works for one may not work for another but you are one person that has to learn from each and every child and adapt over time, which can prove challenging and unsettling.
You could be doing everything in YOUR book that you think is right and still not meet your child specific emotional needs.
It's a hard knock life for us!
THIS! You are very wise and will make a great parent IMO, because u already understand that it isn't easy💗
I'm a BECAUSE I SAID SO with a line of COMMUNICATION , kids need structure and a balance, I don't like when you tell a child to do something and they're questioning you WHY?😑 In my opinion they should not even reached that point to say WHY because you give them the authority to question you and as they get older it gets worse, (seen it so many times). You can tell a child to do something and explain to them why you told him to do it before they even ask, especially today's kids that are so out of control because discipline especially verbal discipline is almost non-existent.
Vala Dina they ask why because they’re developing a mind of their own. Being a because I said so parent ALL OF THE TIME will prevent them from growing into their own person. Making them have your exact mindset isn’t exactly a good thing.
Spot on....When my kids were a certain age i was God and what i said was law with no question. I am the parent with a certain level lifes experience and more importantly WISDOM, so yes i was in a very good position to instruct my children. When they got to an age where they could reason and understand, then i would explain things to them. But, i did not have any child running me down with why this and why that. Also children need to be brought to a place where they trust that if you as a parent guide or direct, they know you have their back and you have a good reason for it.
Don Jazzy PERFECTLY SAID👏👏👏👏
Don Jazzy A child can understand and explain things at an early age. They are curious.
Vala Dina Typical black parent. They are asking why because they are trying to understand the world around them.
NO parent will be the perfect parents. NO child will have the perfect childhood. We are not perfect people, so it is impossible that to achieve this. I would say that I am a combination. I like to explain, but there are times when I know they are trying me - so it becomes because I said so, end of discussion. But we no have the safe zone. It's a time when you can say what you want how you want. It's the only time cussing is allowed in the house. But you still have to be respectful, but other than that on in, if you need to. When the safe zone is closed, it's closed until next time.
Priscilla Jackson that is SOOO me
Priscilla Jackson this , this , this !! ❤️
Priscilla Jackson who decides what is perfect? I do.
I don’t know about everyone else, but my childhood was perfect... at least in my eyes.
Maybe as a child I would have said otherwise, but looking back it was great.
Lol @ they're trying me lol!
Jaden looked like he was so over it.
alisha l He’s a teenage boy, what do y’all expect?? Sitting and talking things out is very feminine, he’s a young man and probably wants to do other things
Sitting and talking things out is feminine? That’s new
Now we know why lol...August
Yes, even as his mother was crying and getting emotional
Yo why Jaden got his dad mannerism
I wish my mom had that mindset like Jada or something close. At 16, my mom decimated my career choice. I had just moved to a new school and environment. My 1st time living with her since I was 3 and I've wanted to be with her for so long. This was abt 10yrs ago. To this day she doesn't know the impact that had on me. I tried to tell her a few months back but she wasn't receptive.
The past couple of years I've been climbing out of my stagnated state. It took me awhile but I'm moving forward.
💞💞💞💞💞
Sending positive 🙏 and thank you for sharing your experience.
Am I the only one who sees that these children are broken, money and talent or not? The industry comsumes people and takes their soul and these children were fed to the wolves... Now sip on that☕
They are very 🤦🏽♀️but their not to blame
@@JakiyrahSpivey I blame those who fed them to the wolves🤔
Yeah I don't see that.
Focused on Truth the streets do too. Every industry does. It’s the world of capitalism. They weren’t going to be saved from life, either way. Like they said: Hollywood is not the hood. Sharks are everywhere in the world. Their hell is not your hell but hell is hell and u don’t know theirs 🤷🏾♀️ one thing we do know is that they have the support of their family no matter what it is...and stability is one hell they don’t have to worry about because they can work to eat AND they are in therapy for their mental health.
@@Daya1828 my husband always says " If I stick a 🔪 in your back, and give you directions to the hospital, does that make me a good person?" Food and support, no matter what🤔 uh, ok😯
Jada is crazy as hell....The point of being a parent is to raise your children and until you COMPLETE THAT JOB you need to keep them in your house under your roof....Smh
HOW are you so open to let your MINOR children make choices for THEIR LIFE but NOT open enough to share YOUR STORY & HISTORY with your children....NOOOOOOO She wasnt transparent if her children had to hear about her PAST in the streets.....Smh😒😒😒
I love me some Jada too but this is OUT OF ORDER....Sorry but its the TRUTH.
WILLOW went through that because her parents DID NOT KNOW HER....Hands down.
Parents have to build a relationship with their children making SURE they feel COMFORTABLE coming to TALK to you about ANYTHING.....
IF you cant go to anyone else in this world YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO RUN TO YOUR PARENTS & KNOW THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU🏆🌸
This was a great comment I totally agree with everything you said. This is what parents are here for to guide direct encourage and helped lead the way for their children. This family is very lost and confused. Now you see what too much freedom can do for you. She trusted her son to get his own place at the age of 15 th years old. But was ashamed to tell them about her history. This family appears to be very lost confused and still trying to find their way. When I watch Jada it seems like she is still performing practicing for her next role. Still trying to convince the world that she is that bad girl that does not take any s***. This is so sad. I wish her and her family the very best.
Like I talk to my kids but still at the end I make the choices just I explain why
Exactly! Same here!
Sameeeee
I don’t have kids, I’m 18. My mom never really made choices for me but she did try to guide me. Our situation was a little different because I have many chronic illnesses. From a young age I was pretty independent, and I was allowed to research the treatments that the doctors wanted me to do, I always made the Final decision. Don’t get me wrong my mom had her saying but at the end of the day it was my decision. she said it was my body . When it came to things out side of health she never really had to punish or ground me because I honestly never really left the house and was to Ill to really get into trouble.... How she raised my brother and sister was way different from how I was raised, every child needs something different. I think if my mom would’ve raised me how she raise my siblings it would have been at worked.
It really saddens me to see babies being pushed beyond what they should be doing, God sees your pain Jaden and Im praying for your spirit and soul to be lifted high. Continue being wise, brave and strong man you are.
People are forgetting if Jada was a middle class mom all of this would go out of the window. Because you woudn't have the funds to give your teenager their own apartment or home. This stuff comes into play when there is little to no stress about money and you have money to burn... in other words privilege.
Tamara Laird I disagree a little. I would allow my child to move out into a tiny home we have already planned to build. I talked to my six year old about it he is very mature. And I taught my kids how to make their own money even by simply drawing pictures and selling them. I am a single mother and low income and I make it work. My children see my hustle and drive and they know what is up in the real world. I expose them little by little as to not overwhelm them and we talk. Jayden made his own money. He didn't use his parents money. And they said the knew he would make good decisions because the taught him how. And I agree he makes as good of decisions as any mature adult with a good moral compass. He is able to explain exactly why and defend his position very well. Just as my children's money and privilege has nothing to do with it.
Money relieve stress but it's not a privildge.
You amy not have to worry about alot but u still worry. And jada and will are actors. Acting is a hustle. You're only as good as your last film and hope to God u made a hit. Cuz bull hva etc gwt paid. That's why they ask for so much as they get popularas actors. To maintain a lifestyle.
I love A Low Down Dirty Shame!
Wow😲 , amazing!!! I explain things to my children & always have, but, parents need to be parents & not friends!!!
Tedra Hogan I agree! Parents should have the final say! But explanations are good for kids to have understanding.
I didn't like how Willow talked over her gma, Adrienne. That to me is poor parenting not to mention cursing in front of her. The gma coming from a "well off family" then getting addicted to drugs but being functioning sounds about right in line with the crack epidemic. When Jada talks all I hear is someone retelling a story based on how they want it to be perceived. This just seems ridiculous. Saying cus I said so is meant for a child to be reminded of their place. To take it any other way is simply being entitled. Kids and most adults are not owed an explanation cus everything doesn't deserve one.
I'm late, but this is everything.
I think their parenting style is good! Because when I was growing up my mom was pretty much the disciplinarian and what she said goes and the cuz I said so line would be thrown around. I have a 3 yr old and me and my bf parent him good. We explain things to him and we are constantly telling him how amazing he is! Growing up my mom never really told me I was good at stuff. My parents pretty much doubted me gave me low self esteem so me and my bf always boosted our sons confidence and tell him he can do anything he sets his mind on!
I don't ever want my son to look bad and think wow my parents hated me !
I wish jadas show was on RUclips or cable cuz I don't have Facebook!! It looks like a good show.
They treated them like adults because they lost and didn’t want to take the time out and raise them is all plus y’all give will too much credit when in reality he is just as broken as jada because he came from an abusive home
No you treat the like adults so that they can learn independence and know how to properly navigate the adult world.
They unlike other teenagers/ 20’s are NOT out here complaining about “adulting”
Shay45 yeah but at 8 years old a child should be treated like a child and not an adult. That kind of parenting makes the kid grow too fast
Yea they both came from abusive homes
I explain myself too. I can’t just say no and not explain why. It just seems wrong. The deserve an explanation “because I’m afraid you will get hurt” because you need to do it this way” because it’s easier this way” etc etc...almost always about protecting them.
And folks believe that Jada & Will are off beat parents yet they let them move to the beat of their own drums. Neither kid has drug & abuse charges it’s awesome!!
DanYiel Teflon She cuts herself....and we are not aware of their habits. not to mention they feel pressured to have success in that industry...maybe that's not their choice. That's what I was hearing. shrugs
nakrwa w people cut themselves all the time & a lot of the times you never hear anything about it...
Willow cuts herself at the age of 10 and went through some emotional issues during that "whip my hair" phase .... no drug problem or arrest so that must means they did right?? They both became adults way to quickly. Many kids born into develop other habits other than drugs and arrests charges doesn't mean they were raised right.
DanYiel Teflon Just bc ppl cut themselves all the time doesnt mean its normal. What kind of justification is that. She causes physical harm to herself, which in essence, is comparable to drug abuse in the sense that you are causing self harm and suffers from depression. Also this family is super rich. We hv no idea whether or not theyve ever done anything to be charged with. I mean its great that we never heard of anything as far as the drugs and whatnot but we dont know.
DanYiel Teflon
Their well spoken & poised children. So with that being said, they did a job good parenting! Great discussions on this show.
P.Nicole Gills Are u kidding me. U must have missed the part where jaden and Willow are on Record for being depressed to the point of SUICIDE.. SO. being poised is least of their worries
P.Nicole Gills Oh and another thing.. These are kids growing up cutting their wrist, their hair, and maybe the fuckin furniture. So stop with this shallow ass fairy tale-looking HOLLYWOOD Fake- ACTING OUT LIFE ass bullshit. Will and Jada put their kids through the fire for sacrifice.. Do u think THE MOST HIGH JUDGES ACCORDING TO OUR POISE OR OUR LEVELS OF RIGHTEOUSNESS AND OBEDIENCE?
Girl thank you ,these kids are so messed up they cant even hide it.
They are actors. And every performance is money to them.
Are you serious? If my daughter was cutting herself I have to take some responsibility in that. She missed everything the haircuts the depression, the cutting, and you say great job, no you have to own your mistakes as a parents it isn't easy but at least acknowledge it, why is she letting her daughter believe it was all her fault.
i love how you pause and teach others from your perspective!
I don’t think Jada’s parenting style is as smart as it seems like they’re tryna make it out to be.. that’s partly why her kids out here doin whatever today. You can talk to your kids without putting them on the same level as you and if kids knew it all and were able to make smart decisions on their own then God would’ve have given us parents...
I love you will an Jada an your beautiful kids
They damaged those kids!
Will needs to stop kissing Jaden in the mouth, that isn't funny, he dont do that with his elder son so why with the younger, smh, not right.
I agree it’s that scientology stuff.
Well he is tangled up with this child trafficking
@@michellewood9409 lol 😂
Bro shut up and go cry about Dave Chappell comedy
I think on the face of it they are well balanced, articulate individuals and perhaps that's all that matters?
I can't say I can relate 100% with Jada's parenting style; I tend to take on a "because I said so" stance with my children after I have explained SEVERAL times and they refuse to listen.
Each child is different and thus needs a different style of parenting. My children are not mature enough to make such life changing decisions (some decision making is required for their personal growth. I do encourage them to reason things out). Her children also had a very different environment. For the most part, being wealthy, having security and/or being chauffeur driven allowed her children to have a lot of freedom (and that's wonderful for them). I can't allow my 14 year old son such privileges (as much as that breaks my heart) because many black boys are being inducted into gangs or killed in the our streets.
Alexandria UK I completely agree! After explaining If the child still doesn't want to listen then I definitely say I'm the adult so do what I said. And yea moving out at 15 yea I guess that works for rich folk... I could NEVER! I like what you said about every child is different! That's so true. Have parent them according to their needs. Great comment!
Yes i 100% AGREE
If people stop babysitting their kids and raise them, they will be just as mature as they need to be. Money has nothing to do with. Example in a poor single parent family the kids will more likely be mature as they will have more responsibility.
Alexandria UK agree
Dang Jada is a street hustler! Now I see how she manipulated August!
I have a 13 year old daughter. It gets harder when your kid is a teenager. In their minds, the whole entire world revolves around them. I want my kid to be respectful to adults and not question them. Her classmates didn't learn home training and they disrespect their teachers all the time. I give my daughter options, but not TOO many. That girl is almost taller than me and she's a karate blue belt. I have to put some boundaries on her. She's not going to walk all over me.
Vanity Posh sometimes questioning authority isn’t always disrespectful. Because adults are nowhere near perfect and they are wrong at times. Honestly if you teach kids to never in life question adults, they’ll be easily influenced by everyone because they won’t have a mind of their own.
Evey Cocoa I explain many of the reasons she has to do certain things but I'm not at liberty to explain everything. The things that I tell her to do is beneficial to her. I'm just saying.... when you give a child too many options, it's not always a good thing. There are way too many spoiled disrespectful brats out there. I definitely don't want my kid being disrespectful to teachers or my mother. Many teachers have complimented my daughter to me about her behavior in class and I wouldn't want it any other way. Anyway, I think letting a child move out at 15 is a bit much. But they are celebs. I can see them doing something like that. I also know that being too strict on a child will make them rebel. You have to find that middle ground.
This is one my favorite topics you cover. :) I love their family table talks. I have a young son, almost two, and I will definitely be taking some Jada’s and Adrienne’s parenting advice. And life advice. I can’t agree more when Jada said that parents need to learn to forgive themselves more often. That every child will have their own burdens to bear.
"This ppl are crazy!" Yes mam !
I just realised I’m drinking tea like your pic (note: drinking, not sipping). I enjoyed this and your commentary. Especially the parts on children making mistakes while children, and not at 30. My God.
At the start I was like ‘I said what I said’ all the way, but I realise that, as pointed out in the video, it leads to a child not being able to share stuff with their parent, which is so dangerous and detrimental to the child-parent relationship. And Jada’s point about adults coming into parenthood with their childhood traumas couldn’t be more true. Definitely something that needs to be recognised, acknowledged and acted on/managed by an adult that becomes a parent.
I’m a let’s sit and talk parent. I feel like when parents say “Because I said so” they missed the opportunity to educate their children on life., which is exactly what I realized my parents did. They taught me nothing. I learned everything through trial and error and I never want my daughter to experience that. However, I do understand that she’ll have her own challenges to deal with but I want to be available for any conversation she wants to have.
It's Summer time, Candice. Let them kids stay up, lolol!!!
Erika Franklin 😂😂😂 I know right. Shoot I need as much time with my husband and possible. All 3 are in bed my 8pm or 9pm at the latest! LMAO
Daytime Tea Time Lololol!!!!
Daytime Tea Time I know that is right!!
Erika Franklin 😃😅😆😂
"IT WORKED" PERIOD! Gr8 job Will & Jada, Grandma🤗
A. B. Look what it took, cutting herself shaving her head ball the child was miserable and nobody even knew, and you say great job, they made them successful that's why you're probably saying good job. Look at the cost
MAHOGANY Highlight this, *Where's Ur Channel?🤔
MAHOGANY B. Excellent point!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Keto Goddess 💯💯💯
THANKS!!! FOR ur comment. I can relate.
I don't mind ads now and then, but this video had soo many ads that it drove me crazy! lol Great video!
Good morning, Candice!! Congrats on 65k!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Michelle Robinson Thanks!
I respect giving kids choices,but a child can’t make adult decisions so it’s all about good balance, I can ask my child what they want to wear, watch on tv or what to eat , but moving out at 15 no not happening! I’m not passing judgement it’s just my opinion! Im a protective and attached parent , I also believe that trying your best is key that’s all we oughta do for the kids there’s no hand book that tells us how to be a perfect parent or kid ! So if it works for them so be it! It’s def a different style of parenting that I’m not completely use to! And the cursing 🤬 in front of my mom and grandma won’t ever happen and I’m 23 ( I just don’t curse tho)
Great commentary! I get your position. However, there are moments when “Because I said so is relative. If I tell you to “stop,” because I see the car coming and you don’t can save your life. You feel me? In that split second between me saying ‘stop’ and you asking me “why?“ can mean the difference between your child living or dying in that split second. So I’m saying that they are both relevant.
Finally, my grandmother and many women of her era were married at 15 and their husbands were 18. Soooo age is also relative given the experience and circumstances.
I love them and I think each parent has to find a method that works for their family. We all make mistakes because no one is perfect. But learning from our mistakes, making positive change(s)and growth from those mistake and keeping an open line of good communication with your child/children helps a great deal.
Willow so beautiful! ❤
I got emotional too. I really enjoyed this Red Table Talk. Thanks for sharing.
Sometimes you need to say that but I agree I do explain some stuff but they went beyond that
this ending... had me in tears... I just had my first born... and I have so much to bury and burn from my childhood that it haunts me to think I may pass some to him... so much pain is held between my mom and I... I am so resentful of how absent she was in my life.... and just trying to address that so that my son can have a relationship with her... the struggle is REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Who’s here confirming the tea from 2020?
Heeyyy 😂
I definitely enjoy the TEA but I think I come here just to hear Candices' soothing voice during work lol
I really liked the point of letting children make mistakes while they are children...
I moved out at 16 and my mom didn’t stop me! Some children grow up with parents who continuously tell them “I can’t wait til you get out of my house”, so to each is own. Back in the day people started working in elementary school & by time they were teenagers they started having their own kids. It’s all about perspective, because honestly I don’t think we’re supposed to be sheltered until we are 18. Children should start preparing for their adult life much sooner than 12th grade or college. That’s my personal opinion! 💋
Welp, that parenting didn’t work for Jada’s kids though 🤷🏾♀️ patenting styles is based on the type of kid you have. It is so important to get to know your children, individually. That gives you an insight on what parenting style approach should be taken. Letting them “run wild” at an early age isn’t good though. The child will feel like they don’t have anyone who actually cares for them. All fun when they are young but, it really hurts them in the long run.
Charlene Moore yep and that's exactly why when she posted a video earlier about Jada and her daughter Jada had no idea that her daughter was cutting herself, had no idea how daughter learn her first sexual experience catching her parents having sex this style of parenting makes no sense to let a child as early as 4 and 8 do whatever they want to do we're here to teach them of course you got to give a child space to grow and to develop and learn for themselves but we are here as parents for a reason
Charlene Moore. What have they done to make you think their style didn't work?
Charlene Moore They haven't guided their children at all, except guided them to how to use fame and make money. This whole red table talk is exploitive.
Ce B. What may work for one family may not work for another. My step mom didnt know my sister cutting herself and she was one of those smothering moms that wasnt there emotionally. Her mom tried to raise her the same way her mom did and it didnt work. It drove them apart later on in life and till this day she doesnt talk to her mom.
Bt Rec Scientology... 100%
Totally agree about the "because I said so" in response to anything said. My husband and I are huge on explaining and keeping the communication lines open. It's absolutely true the "because I said so" comment can stop a child for coming to get perspective from their parents-the people who cares more than anyone.
I love the fact that she gave her children choices I'm all for that. Give them the option to fall and make mistakes. But there still has to be rules and boundaries. Moving out at 15 oh hell no! Shaving your head also a no-no but to each their own.
They're lucky to have such a wonderful parents who'll push you to the limit to succeed and always be there for you. They've taught me a lot. Thanks
That's why it is important to teach your kids about God and try to live a Godly life. Yes, nobody is perfect and we all to have and will have our own burdens to bear. That is why God will be and is there with us through our burdens.
I love it when this family is open and true to themselves. Life goes on in the real world with a sense of confidence..and security. Love and understanding..is No:1.
Jada is a Scientologist... never forget.
Scientologist keep everybody. You go to one meeting and they keep you on record forever.
Yes. I used to question whether she was, but I think their parenting style confirms it 100%. Scientology dictates to treat children as adults.
Except she's said 100 times that she isn't so... there's that. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, you're NOT however, entitled to your own facts. Conspiracy theories help no one.
Where are the receipts that she's in Scientology?!
No she's not get it together and stop saying lies smh
Parenting does not come with instructions and so knowing that I have a choice to make when it comes to parenting I sometimes had to let go and realize that the children I had had a mind of their own and the quicker I made up my mind to let go and just listen and pay attention so that I know how to step up and provide some answers that they may need one day cause sometimes we feel like parents just don't understand life when the truth is living and learning is a cycle and in order to accept change or try something different you have to be willing to do the work to make it happen. Everything comes in pieces and you to stay work so that you can start to build and contiue to build. What ever pieces come up first that's what I work on and keep moving while fixing mistakes and changing my mind so that I can focus on doing better for self then others, I appreciate the honesty of Jada, her mom and her children. We were thinking of the same ways of letting our children just be and learn by doing then feeling whatever they feel so that they want to talk about it just to see what your thoughts are. Another thing that I did was listen and talk to my children about what they were going through even if they did not try it my way the information was given and I always hope that they know and understand that they have a choice to remember what I gave them or just sit and what for a miracle after praying but do no work. It's really on them to be good to self and fix mistakes meaning thoughts that did not belong to them. The day that I made up my mind and said "these are not my kids but the were given to me to take care of and to do the right thing by them by showing and telling the the way to go that will be better for them is to keep living a life being good to people even when they are not good to you. There have been so many people that have gone to jail that have done time and/or still doing time because the reacted to someone in a way that was not good. They lost their freedom, we can't let people make us so angry that we forget to see self and know that that situation is not mine, it's the other person's therefore, I don't need to respond because I know who I am. This is what I want for my children also so the remember this and think it makes it part of who they are. This is good for all people. Too many petty arguments leads to being in a place that you never thought you would be in so pay attention and Love so that you know when to walk away, everything ain't personal and you don't have to respond again it's s choice. What would you choose "when the going gets tough" Billy Ocean, I think.
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Estelle Clare Thank you!!
Because I said so is different from them telling you what they will and will not do. Children need to be raised and directed. So I don’t agree with Will and Jada. We have to parent our children with what they need not what we missed. Definitely a balancing act.
I don't agree with this. I believe in open communication with my kids (which I didn't have growing up), but kids still need guidance.
The down side of parenting your children that way is that once they go to school and other places outside of home people won’t treat them the same.... also they have money, their experiences are wildly different than people who don’t have those resources.
FacedByFoxxyy girl nothing but the truth
Will and Jada are blessed their kids were so smart and mature ,not all kids are like that. A lot of kids follow bad influence into peer pressure, some have ADHD which makes it harder. My parents were good protectors but they were over protective and made a lot of mistakes that I've learned from and still we are all not perfect.
She cuts herself and they both have stated to being so depressed they wanted to commit suicide 😴
Thank you for keeping up with this!! And I Verbatim said that entire scene on low down dirty shame. We didn’t have cable and that was a regularly watched vhs tape in our home.
I love this, everybody’s family is different!!!!
Excellent...I can relate. My parents worked so hard to keep me and my sister away from "worldly" things and that way of life. At 30 I figured it out...my mom said that is the only thing she regrets about raising us...it's important to allow kids to know about life and it's not always good even with fame and fortune...you must be prepare to handle both...knowing God truly helps...
Nope. Don't agree. Bible says train ur child in the way they should go. Not let them make their own choices.
Ms. P well... If you don't teach your child to make their own choices, others out there will... And it may not be in your child's best interest.
Hurricane Ethyl ....Yes ma'am....I agree that it's okay to allow children to make decisions, but teach them to be wise in their decision making. It's not always good to learn a life lesson by making a bad decision that could have been avoided.
This is more open to interpretation than you think,
God gives us choices though, yea there are consequences but we still can choose how we want it to go.
Ms. P Amen, say that.
11:43 time stamp is That West Baltimore shit..West Baltimore born and raised in THE streets where I spent most of my days.
Some mistakes there's no returning from. Like having a boyfriend and having sex at an early age. Moving out to early. Allowing them experience drugs. And when a parent say I rather they do drugs at home, or with me then in the street. This to me, is the craziest mess I've ever heard
I love how you showcased what they spoke about and tied it with your experiences and views 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💛💛💛
I think Jada kids was abuse also is something off about her kids.i don't know how young her daughter was I saw a video of her laying in bed with a white guy she looks 14. it just look a little odd that Jada would allowed her daughter in that bed with that man it was a little weird.
I feel something happen to will and Jada children ,something so dark that no amount of money can fix . I feel it in my gut wen ever I see Jaden or willow cry.I’m glad someone else think that thought .
I'm a sit down & let's talk type of parent. After viewing this I have a better understanding as to why their children were raised the way they were & I don't judge them any more for their decisions. I do the same with my daughter for the same reasons & now I theirs I'm understanding of it cause I want my daughter to make her mistakes now & I want her to be able to make logical decisions. Thanks for this I really needed to hear it & thanks to Jada for having such open conversations with "The Red Table Talk "