I feel so bad for the last girl, she's really mature and understands everything in such a young age. she isn't supposed to worry about things like that. it's just so sad.
+RED SAFIRA yes it's true.. she is a tough girl, but if parents/grandparents doesn't solve/talk about the issue, she will have grudge not only to grandma but also her brother. thank God she brought it to Hello Counselor, hope she release her grudge and become a better girl for her family : )
RED SAFIRA she's in 7th grade, no matter how mature she looks, it's affecting her deep down and if it isn't solve she'll grow up with that thought with her,
+Nafolchan yes , you're right , because you know what ??? i'm 26 years old , and i had the same problem as her . but from my experience , you can't people's hearts , i just gave up long time ago .no matter what i do even if i build a rocket i'll always be second not to mention last .i guess the only resolution i found is to accept reality and move on.
poor little girl. just bcoz shes independent,mature &can take care of herself doesnt mean that they can love her less. i feel u girl. ur situation is happening almost d same in any other family. its either obvious or not.
I was so touched by the last girl, she's clearly the midle child and I think that all the midle child can relate to her problem. I felt like that a lot of times, like everybody loves my big bro, everybody likes my little bro and nobody liked or loved me, you feel like you are on your own a lot of times. So I hope her family can show her their love more often and make her feel loved, It's the most important thing you can do for a kid, show love.
I really hate that people like her that do it as an hobby and bring dozens/hundreds of fish home where it's not even wanted and they all go to waste. Overfishing is already a problem without her and other people causing more harm. I am totally fine with hunting and eating it afterwards but killing the animals just for the fun of it I think it's wrong
+Hazel0283 I wonder that myself, I see a lot of people have fishing as a hobby, they would only take a picture with the fish and let them back into the sea afterwards, maybe occasionally take one or two for consumption or gift.
I don't want to be sound so rude, but I think she is completely mad. She caught about thousands of the fishes but doesn't let them go because she want to kept them as trophy. Just let them free, lady! You not even eat them! They are also living creatures! Jeez...
She isn't killing them for fun, she didn't say she gets a buzz from taking the life of an innocent organism and knowing that she killed it did she? She gets the buzz from the experience of fishing, very different things in my view.
+Hazel0283 She said it herself She likes fishing for a Hobby. Catching that many fish is Excessive. I don't know what the laws are in Asia but she would need a permit to go fishing here in the US and she has a limit to how much can bring home. This woman is purely selfish!
this episode was another example of this show making light of serious issues, the fishing lady is contributing to damaging the ecosystem because she's just plain greedy and only thinks of herself and the last concern, rather than using the opportunity to try educate the older generation about the emotional and psychological damage that can spring from such preferential treatment, they turned it into a joke...i will say that only saving grace for girls going through this is that alot of these boys end up being useless adults when they are older because they are so used to being given everything and being spoiled and the family suffers because they can't pull their weight, grandma will probably be begging noonas to help the grandson out etc
+InLKdream Agreed. And in fact, it's not a saving grace, because then those boys turn into men who expect their poor wives to wait on them hand and foot - we've seen more than enough of those guys on this show. Spoiled, selfish, and with no sense of responsibility or self-sacrifice for their family.
+InLKdream don't worry , as time passes and the girls grow up more , the grandmother will realise their values , that if she still alive.the problem is that what makes me angry more is that the women who put them selves in this visious cycle of racism , i mean if it was a guy who did the racism because he likes his own gender more i'll say ( what a doochbag) , but for a female ( the grandmother) who racist against her own gender that's just savage.in the end , racism based on gender especially on the same gender tells that the person has complex .pity her (the grandmother)
+RED SAFIRA I'm sorry but you're totally misusing the word racism and I just have to point it out. What she's doing is giving the boy preferential treatment and that's a proper way to say it. I hope you don't get upset with me for saying something, but I deal with words for a living. I do agree with the point though; that it's a bad cycle and I think that Garin is doing a good thing by raising the concern on national TV.
+tvtoms why i misusing the word racism??? for you when you prefer somebody over somebody what do you call that ,??or race over race ....ect?i'm not saying that because of this girl , i'm saying that because i have the same problem as the girl but worse , it's with my parents , we're 5 siblings , but they only see the older brother and the younger sister , the rest of us the three we're invisible as fuck.the hell i'm gonna call it racism , that's what my mom and dad doing.
if the girl doesnt want to stop fishing she should just fish and release them. catching more than 4000 fishes in 2 hours and doing almost nothing with them, letting them die is cruel and bad for our planet
It actually isn't bad for the planet. Korea has a massive abundance fish. Aside from that, of all the things that are bad for the planet why should she stop?
+The5streetThe I was thinking the exact same thing. What's the point in have 4 refrigerators full of fish if you don't even like fish? And it definitely can not be good for the environment to over-fish to that extent (mind you she isn't the only one fishing, and there's been numerous concerns on this show about people who fish too much). She could catch and release, or give them to a restaurant.
the fishing woman, made me so mad, fishing that much and then it all goes to waste ... didn't let the fish live and nobody is benefiting from them.....
Agree. I feel that since she like the tugging feeling from catching a fish on a rod, she should just let the fish go after catching them. And not bring home tones of it yet no one is gonna eat it
+Nawal oon (Nawaloon) Yep. I've fished for something like 30 years and have only kept a couple of fish the entire time. That's what "sport fishing" is all about, but in some parts of the world that's simply unheard of. It's a giant waste. When she uses a trap or net to catch 2000 fish that her mother has to clean, there's no tug or sport whatsoever. She didn't even have any good reasoning. I think they let her off the hook way too easily. Pun intended.
Im sorry, but the first concern....you cant do that. First of all, I'm pretty sure she is breaking some sort of law. There is a thing called Fishing Regulations, and they surely go against how many fishes she's catching. If she likes the tug, then she can do the catch and release. My grandfather fished for decades, I grew up watching him fish. He enjoyed the tug and was always eager of catching new species. But he would let them go after taking a quick picture. Why? Because he understood what fishing morals was. This girl is just irresponsibly catching them. Our fish populations are exponentially decreasing due to overfishing, she should know about the issue since she fishes. Gosh, I'm starting to dislike this show....whenever serious issues arise, they always make a joke out of it.
I really hate the fact that in most asian countries, females are still placed at a lower rank in society compared to males who are seen as the better gender. The last concern really hit close to my heart because i have always been one to strive for gender equality. To hear such a story really pains me......
+Chelsea sujin same here, i was annoyed at the last concern, from a young age she's taught to be less than her brother, i was shocked the grandma said that she only liked him because he was a boy and everyone found it funny. i wish things would change
In Western countries, girls are given more attention and treated better than boys in literally every situation, but nobody bats an eye. A couple weeks ago, a group of boys stuck a pool stick up another boys butt soo far they punctured his bladder. People are brushing it under the rug saying "Boys will be boys" when he was clearly raped. Mid 2015 a group of women drove around in vans late at night holding men at gun point and forcing them to have sex. They were never arrested because the NYPD didn't even investigate. My sister is 10 months older than she has NEVER mowed the lawn or unclogged a toilet. When we moved, her and my mother sat back and watched my dad, brother and I move everything into the truck. Girls are applauded for being tomboys, whereas boys are considered a waste if they're feminine. I could go on. If you want equality I suggest you look at both sides of the coin instead of one.
+Flying Pig That's literally not true.... What does that even mean? Okay your sister may not mow the lawn but I do. A ton of girls do. You can't use your own situation to justify ALL girls being treated better. Because I'm sure they are definately having a better life with their more ability to be raped, murdered and kidnapped then men. I'm sure with their lack of any high government or military power makes them better. Its definitely better when they are the majority sex yet they are the minority in education until a little while ago and now still their majority is only by a smidgen. The thing about the boy who was sodomized is a horrible incident but please do remember that boys did this . The boys who get maltreated need representation but this isn't girls hurting other boys we need to fix it from a crime stand point not a male vs female standpoint because girls have done way worse to other girls before any nothing had been said of it either. The females you know may not "do" anything in your mind even though I'm gonna take a wild guess that most of the home cleaning and cooking is done by them. The fact that boys get insulted by being told being feminine is bad but its bad on women too because it means that unconsciously we are saying having characteristics that are attributed to females are bad so its not just an insult on men who are like that but females also. Insults targeted at men have connotations that have to do with being female. Like why is being a pussy, bitch, sissy, fag or girl bad? It's literally saying I will insult you by saying you are a female which isn't something any person should want to be
Same we have seen a couple problems like this and i cry everytime bc it hit close to home. Im grown now so i understand and forgive the past but i really wonder why i needed to go through those painful years sometime and it still get me down.
It's changing now. I'm an Asian but I was never discriminated. And about the chickens, my brother is nine years younger than me but I get most of the better chicken pieces. Although my aunt used to think that only women and girls belong in the kitchen, now she's started to change her mind about that as well. These comments make me feel grateful that my parents don't favour any gender.
korea really needs to have better fishing laws omg... overfishing should not be taken as lightly as was on this show.... all those poor fish that died for no reason... if someone slaughtered 400 cows or 1000 chickens just for the fun of it everyone would be disgusted
does she not know what overfishing is?? and gah everytime i think of the massage woman from last week, i cant help but wonder if she thinks her legs are more precious than girl's day yura's legs (im pretty sure that her legs are insured)
I am extremely pissed at the fishing woman for overfishing. I am so annoyed every time she smile and laugh not knowing the fact that she is wasting so much resources.
garin's concern always have been every second child's concern. i often hear my friends (who's a second child) story about being dicriminated. that was actually upsetting. but all she needs to show her grandma is achieve more in anything though she lacks some care. make this concern the driving motive of why she needs to be better than her siblings.
First concern: She's selfish for over-fishing. Second concern: um, wasn't really paying attention but I hope he stops being indecisive. Third concern: the grandmother blatant favoritism was irritating and I didn't find much to laugh at.
The girl from the first concern was handing out those free bags of croaker fish like they were one day from going bad or something lol. It really amazes me how addicting people can get when it comes to fishing, some may see it as a way of relaxing, and others simply love to fish as a hobby, but it's never a good idea to catch so much, because then you won't know what to do with them afterwards nor have a place to store it to preserve it.
Grandma is being unfair. The granddaughter should also love her grandmother. My grandparents are loving people and both love us all equally! Be nice to her because you'll regretted it.
This is my first time watching a new Hello Counselor on a Monday. I feel accomplished. Except for the fact that I have 3 tests this week and a project due tomorrow...But organizing my priorities is in beta...
for the woman who love to fishing, you should release the fish back into the sea after catch them if you only love the tug and thrilling however not planning to eat them... such a waste. plus you catch way too much to call it just a hobby!
i wish in the first concern they would have scolded her more and told her to feel the tug then throw the fish back because all those fish are going to waste
The last one got me. I'm half Korean and Vietnamese so when I saw that last concern, I started to tear up and cry. Thankfully, my Korean grandmother doesn't do, but sometimes my Vietnamese grandma does that but she will change it if I tell her. I felt so sorry for her like COME HERE, I WILL TREAT YOU LITTLE SIS! 😭😭😭
I can relate to the last concern, because I've constantly heard from other people to my parents how it's a shame they only had three girls, and no boys. And my mom would always tell me to do certain chores and stuff "because I'm a girl", and the whole, "you have to learn to cook, what are you going to do when you're married if you can't cook". This girl seems very mature, and understanding, hopefully she is able to understand that her grandmother won't change her ways, but she doesn't have to believe the same things her grandmother does.
the fishing concern shouldn't treat so lightly.. it's really dangerous for ecosystems. korean governor should make a new law about it tbh.. i've seen too many fishing concern like this in hello counselor :(
I hope the Korean netizens will speak up and stop the women from fishing. She's basically destroying the natural resources and she thinks it's ok???!!!???!!! Urg.... It irritates me when people act irresponsibly towards the environment
favoritism in children is really upsetting, what a heartbreak for a little girl like garin and others who experiences the same treatment. thankfully im an only child.
+el dorado naaaah!!! at first i thought he's a liiiil bit attractive, because of the justin beiber hair , then when he started talking , the charm flew with the wind.
Idk why them cooking the pregnant fish with the eggs made my stomach churn like it did. But agree with majority of the comment here, the lady should really put the creature back if she just likes to fish for the tug. Would think there would be a law or limit. She's catching too much and it could be bad for the ecosystem.
it's not like we don't know how much parents /grandparents love us, but if they don't express much as they do to other then we can't feel it too. love is communication : )
I just wanted the woman to catch and release in the first concern like please the fish is going to waste. I was just so done when she said she caught several sharks. I was waiting for her to say she released them back into the ocean, but found out she gave them away. I can understand if she eats the fish, but why is she keeping them when she doesn't and her family can't stand just fish everyday?? This isn't good for the environment. Second concern was kind of funny, but he needs to reevaluate his part in their friendship Third concern made me kind of angry since everyone was so blatant about how back in the older days boys were prized over girls and didn't make an effort to change the stubborn grandmother's beliefs. My mom adores my younger brother for the same reason and that he's younger, but my family probably prefer girls over boys because we help out much more. This in itself is a problem though because why can't boys help around the house? I'm glad my family is not like her grandmother and my brother has to help out too even if it's not as much as me, being the only girl in the family. Well the grandmother is in her 70s now so I guess just let her stay stubborn, but I don't want the girl to feel less loved than her siblings. Being the middle child for her is probably lonely. Side note though the woman from last week's concern is so annoying. She's so selfish and puts herself too high than what she really is. The whole time she had on a bitch face, excuse my language. I hope her friends and family as well as people who watch the show will tear her a new one and tell her she's not as precious as she thinks she is. I'm sorry, but her self attitude annoys me.
For the second concern, when the mc asked that man's job i was like it'd be really funny if he works in active service and boom he turned out to be a police man!!! I was stunned for a moment 🤣🤣
I cried a river during that last concern! Poor girl!!! I understand HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!!!!! asians grandparents are LIKE that.We (the girls) don't even get our name written on any property owned by our deceased grandfather! I'm ALL for gender equality HEFORSHE!!!!!!!
Wow!!!! A shark???!!! I thought it was illegal to catch a shark anywhere. But I would have liked to see how she reeled it in without getting pulled out of the boat.
I think the reason why they weren't somber in the last concern was because they could see the young girl was very smart and lively. I can see the family members now realise this can be a big concern to her and they will change. The older generation is like that.. It's not right but it's their culture and they never thought anything wrong about it. Some of my family members are the same and I feel for her. But I love her positivity and I'm sure it's going to get better. I know her grandma loves her too. She just needs to show it more and not discriminate anymore
Okay, excuse me, but rather than cola and deep-fried chicken, that grandma should look into braces or some other dental procedures for grandson. It's probably a very superficial and stupid thing to notice, but that's a real thing to show affection through - care of health and well being rather than which cut of chicken he gets. Not to mention, no matter how safe the neighborhood is, why would you send your granddaughter out at night when she should either study or sleep as a 7th grader? Not to mention the constant mentally emotional abuse she provides for the poor girl. Sad, just sad. From this weeks concerns, this annoyed me the most.
Sending a 7th grader out at night is just too much despite Korea being largely urban and crowded. Korean society and media is so fked up tbh smh. You could literally murder someone on the roads and people wouldnt give two fucks and do anything to help literally. Im so disappointed in my country sometimes 😔
I feel sorry for the little girl.I really wanted her to win because I wanted to see if her grandmother changed or not.I hope she continues to sing and become a singer that would be great.😄😊😍😆🎤 P.S: I am sorry for my bad English.😓😓
i never play down the seriousness of the concerns but tbh i would love too have the sister in the first concern as my sister cause i love fish and its not easy to get freshwater fish where i live...
I really understand the last concern.I'm myself a 7th grader and a second child..My parents have never pay so much attention towards me.All I can see is they love my younger brother and my sister more.
the last concern... middle kid problem. im a 2nd born with a big bro and lil sis and i can totally understand her. sometimes i feel like im the only one who is not loved at home... my parents favor my big bro a lot and my sis can act 'cute' to my parents. im the only one in awkward position and i always felt lonely lol but as i grow up i dont feel sad anymore... probably because im used to this situation already
That fishing girl can definitely make a business out of her hobby, if she's that good at fishing like no joke and was her occupation then she would be able to enjoy making money doing what she loves
Even though I feel bad for all those fishies, the first girl is adorable XD She sounds like me if I were fishing. "I don't know, but it was cute!" I feel so so so bad for the second guy. He's struggling so much and everyone is just laughing at him. I suffer from terrible anxiety and I know how he feels. I get the feeling he has anxiety too. He should probably be placed on medication and take some therapy...
as fishing lovers she should know basic of nature. She fished lots of fish then let them wasted. 1, she takes lots of fish with aimless 2,she only do it for fun but takes lots of fishes 3, if she do it for fun then she shouldn't take all fish home but she has to release it 4, she has to know how to fish without harming fishes so they can be released to sea immediately after she tug it... oow I hate her because all she do is smile and what was she doing only for fun. she doesn't even eat that fish 😠😠😠
i just felt so unfair for the last girl. she is at the age where she could just have fun and play around with her friends but she is bothered by things like this. i thought now women are at the same level as men? why are they getting treated so differently? i hope the grandmother do something to make her happy again. she had a bright future ahead but please dont let this things pull her down
The woman in the first concern really is selfish. She says that she does fishing cause she likes the "tug" only. Why doesn't she just put them back. At least she would be doing less damage to the ecosystem. Why bring back home fish you don't even want. It makes no sense.
If that was my grandmother I would have tell her infront of everyone on the show that if she can't be fair with me and my brother, then please never call herself my grandmother because if she doesn't want me, then I don't want a grandmother like her. From now on I will only clean up after my mess in the house and not my brother's. He's only 2 years younger than me, if having a boy is really that great then he should've known how to do all the houseworks himself. If that was my grandmother I wish to have no grandmother at all. Now I'm living half the globe away from my own grandma, she used to yell at me a lot but I know she loves me, she took really good care of me, I have an older brother too but I don't think she would put him over me. I love her and I wish the girl didn't have to live with such a narrow-minded grandmother.
+Zika Xiah Next week's guests are Oh Ha-young (A-Pink?), Eric Nam, Kim Ji-min and Lee Sang-hoon (Gag Concert?). The week after that will be the Moorim cast.
hehe i don't think last concern is that bad. well, the grandmother somehow is too much, but afterall she's still love garin as her granddaughter :) and i saw them as a lovely family.
Do you know if there are any forums or such where Korean netizens discuss this show for example ? Because I don't know if the show gets feedback like for the first concern, because I felt extremely frustrated ; the girl contributing to the extinction of some species for fun. And this is just one concern, a lot more were not considered serious when they were.
Poor sharks...leave them alone. There aren't that many, and they take fairly long to grow up. And stop fishing so much if you are not going to eat them or throw them back into the ocean.
Because of the lady in the first concern and people like her, there are less types of fish. So, she fished a shark because it was cute? Really? Some kids of sharks are endangered dude! She got me so angry
The last concern just so disgust me!!!! I don't even understand why're they were laughing!!! what's more disgusting is that they're talking as it's not a big problem and the grandmother's proud of it!!!!!
I know how it feels. I'm 11. I'm th only daughter but the oldest among my first cousins. My first cousins always cause trouble since they're aged 3-10 years old, I have to take care of them, put them before me. It's nice to see I'm not the only one... HWAITING. I suggest that girl to listen to BTS ;D
Do you guys remember the episode of Hello Counselor where some girl wanted to be a Rapper and her mom didn't want her to. And the girl looked up to zico. It was the episode with bts and Jessi. Doesn't the grandma in this look like the mom of the rapper?
+Sakura Kinomoto Ikr!! Also I almost thought the show was scripted for a sec, but then I too also noticed the slight difference in her face so I was like "Ohhhhh!!!! Okay okay" xD lol But they really so look alike
+Sakura Kinomoto Ikr!! Also I almost thought the show was scripted for a sec, but then I too also noticed the slight difference in her face so I was like "Ohhhhh!!!! Okay okay" xD lol But they really so look alike
becoz the viewers want the fish..they ignored the brothers feeling..thats y he just got 83 votes..for me..the sister is selfish..she caught the seafood,but at the end,it is her mother who need to clean up all the fish which they keep in fridge,after the balance leave of she gave to neighbohr and friend.. her mother is ill,not too strong to settle all fish..y u so selfish ,dont have any simpathy to her own mother..viewers want the fresh fish thats y they not votes her brothers consent..what a shame u korean people
Bro....... I feel bad for the last girl.. If the grandmother does not own up to what she promised, if I was Garin, i wouldve said "oh.. So you only said that because you were only on a broadcast? Fine. Ill leave. For good.. No one likes me anyways". Yeah. I would say that.
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I feel so bad for the last girl, she's really mature and understands everything in such a young age. she isn't supposed to worry about things like that. it's just so sad.
+Nafolchan but don't you think she can handle her self well , look at the way she speaks .
+RED SAFIRA yes it's true.. she is a tough girl, but if parents/grandparents doesn't solve/talk about the issue, she will have grudge not only to grandma but also her brother. thank God she brought it to Hello Counselor, hope she release her grudge and become a better girl for her family : )
RED SAFIRA she's in 7th grade, no matter how mature she looks, it's affecting her deep down and if it isn't solve she'll grow up with that thought with her,
+Nafolchan I know right! There were several times where my nose turned sour and I started to weep and sob when I see her on the verge of tears! agh!!
+Nafolchan yes , you're right , because you know what ??? i'm 26 years old , and i had the same problem as her . but from my experience , you can't people's hearts , i just gave up long time ago .no matter what i do even if i build a rocket i'll always be second not to mention last .i guess the only resolution i found is to accept reality and move on.
poor little girl. just bcoz shes independent,mature &can take care of herself doesnt mean that they can love her less. i feel u girl. ur situation is happening almost d same in any other family. its either obvious or not.
I was so touched by the last girl, she's clearly the midle child and I think that all the midle child can relate to her problem. I felt like that a lot of times, like everybody loves my big bro, everybody likes my little bro and nobody liked or loved me, you feel like you are on your own a lot of times. So I hope her family can show her their love more often and make her feel loved, It's the most important thing you can do for a kid, show love.
the moment Garin sing for her grandmother I started to cry.. I can feel her love for her through her song...
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I really hate that people like her that do it as an hobby and bring dozens/hundreds of fish home where it's not even wanted and they all go to waste. Overfishing is already a problem without her and other people causing more harm. I am totally fine with hunting and eating it afterwards but killing the animals just for the fun of it I think it's wrong
Ikr, plain selfish and stupid!!!
+Hazel0283 I wonder that myself, I see a lot of people have fishing as a hobby, they would only take a picture with the fish and let them back into the sea afterwards, maybe occasionally take one or two for consumption or gift.
I don't want to be sound so rude, but I think she is completely mad. She caught about thousands of the fishes but doesn't let them go because she want to kept them as trophy. Just let them free, lady! You not even eat them! They are also living creatures! Jeez...
She isn't killing them for fun, she didn't say she gets a buzz from taking the life of an innocent organism and knowing that she killed it did she? She gets the buzz from the experience of fishing, very different things in my view.
+Hazel0283 She said it herself She likes fishing for a Hobby. Catching that many fish is Excessive. I don't know what the laws are in Asia but she would need a permit to go fishing here in the US and she has a limit to how much can bring home. This woman is purely selfish!
this episode was another example of this show making light of serious issues, the fishing lady is contributing to damaging the ecosystem because she's just plain greedy and only thinks of herself and the last concern, rather than using the opportunity to try educate the older generation about the emotional and psychological damage that can spring from such preferential treatment, they turned it into a joke...i will say that only saving grace for girls going through this is that alot of these boys end up being useless adults when they are older because they are so used to being given everything and being spoiled and the family suffers because they can't pull their weight, grandma will probably be begging noonas to help the grandson out etc
+InLKdream Agreed. And in fact, it's not a saving grace, because then those boys turn into men who expect their poor wives to wait on them hand and foot - we've seen more than enough of those guys on this show. Spoiled, selfish, and with no sense of responsibility or self-sacrifice for their family.
+InLKdream don't worry , as time passes and the girls grow up more , the grandmother will realise their values , that if she still alive.the problem is that what makes me angry more is that the women who put them selves in this visious cycle of racism , i mean if it was a guy who did the racism because he likes his own gender more i'll say ( what a doochbag) , but for a female ( the grandmother) who racist against her own gender that's just savage.in the end , racism based on gender especially on the same gender tells that the person has complex .pity her (the grandmother)
+RED SAFIRA I'm sorry but you're totally misusing the word racism and I just have to point it out. What she's doing is giving the boy preferential treatment and that's a proper way to say it. I hope you don't get upset with me for saying something, but I deal with words for a living.
I do agree with the point though; that it's a bad cycle and I think that Garin is doing a good thing by raising the concern on national TV.
RED SAFIRA i think the word you're looking for is Sexism not racism
+tvtoms why i misusing the word racism??? for you when you prefer somebody over somebody what do you call that ,??or race over race ....ect?i'm not saying that because of this girl , i'm saying that because i have the same problem as the girl but worse , it's with my parents , we're 5 siblings , but they only see the older brother and the younger sister , the rest of us the three we're invisible as fuck.the hell i'm gonna call it racism , that's what my mom and dad doing.
if the girl doesnt want to stop fishing she should just fish and release them. catching more than 4000 fishes in 2 hours and doing almost nothing with them, letting them die is cruel and bad for our planet
It actually isn't bad for the planet. Korea has a massive abundance fish. Aside from that, of all the things that are bad for the planet why should she stop?
Flying Pig Because killing +4,000 fish and not even eating/using them is not good??
The5streetThe They're fish. You're being over dramtic.
Flying Pig I see you're obviously too young to even discuss about the matter.
+The5streetThe I was thinking the exact same thing. What's the point in have 4 refrigerators full of fish if you don't even like fish? And it definitely can not be good for the environment to over-fish to that extent (mind you she isn't the only one fishing, and there's been numerous concerns on this show about people who fish too much). She could catch and release, or give them to a restaurant.
the fishing woman, made me so mad, fishing that much and then it all goes to waste ...
didn't let the fish live and nobody is benefiting from them.....
Mte!!!!!
+Nafolchan omg.. me too!! especially the shark...
Agree. I feel that since she like the tugging feeling from catching a fish on a rod, she should just let the fish go after catching them. And not bring home tones of it yet no one is gonna eat it
+Nawal oon (Nawaloon) Yep. I've fished for something like 30 years and have only kept a couple of fish the entire time. That's what "sport fishing" is all about, but in some parts of the world that's simply unheard of. It's a giant waste. When she uses a trap or net to catch 2000 fish that her mother has to clean, there's no tug or sport whatsoever. She didn't even have any good reasoning. I think they let her off the hook way too easily. Pun intended.
agree she wasted resources for fun only. she is a harm to nature
Im sorry, but the first concern....you cant do that. First of all, I'm pretty sure she is breaking some sort of law. There is a thing called Fishing Regulations, and they surely go against how many fishes she's catching. If she likes the tug, then she can do the catch and release. My grandfather fished for decades, I grew up watching him fish. He enjoyed the tug and was always eager of catching new species. But he would let them go after taking a quick picture. Why? Because he understood what fishing morals was. This girl is just irresponsibly catching them. Our fish populations are exponentially decreasing due to overfishing, she should know about the issue since she fishes. Gosh, I'm starting to dislike this show....whenever serious issues arise, they always make a joke out of it.
I really hate the fact that in most asian countries, females are still placed at a lower rank in society compared to males who are seen as the better gender. The last concern really hit close to my heart because i have always been one to strive for gender equality. To hear such a story really pains me......
+Chelsea sujin same here, i was annoyed at the last concern, from a young age she's taught to be less than her brother, i was shocked the grandma said that she only liked him because he was a boy and everyone found it funny. i wish things would change
In Western countries, girls are given more attention and treated better than boys in literally every situation, but nobody bats an eye. A couple weeks ago, a group of boys stuck a pool stick up another boys butt soo far they punctured his bladder. People are brushing it under the rug saying "Boys will be boys" when he was clearly raped. Mid 2015 a group of women drove around in vans late at night holding men at gun point and forcing them to have sex. They were never arrested because the NYPD didn't even investigate. My sister is 10 months older than she has NEVER mowed the lawn or unclogged a toilet. When we moved, her and my mother sat back and watched my dad, brother and I move everything into the truck. Girls are applauded for being tomboys, whereas boys are considered a waste if they're feminine. I could go on.
If you want equality I suggest you look at both sides of the coin instead of one.
+Flying Pig That's literally not true.... What does that even mean? Okay your sister may not mow the lawn but I do. A ton of girls do. You can't use your own situation to justify ALL girls being treated better. Because I'm sure they are definately having a better life with their more ability to be raped, murdered and kidnapped then men. I'm sure with their lack of any high government or military power makes them better. Its definitely better when they are the majority sex yet they are the minority in education until a little while ago and now still their majority is only by a smidgen.
The thing about the boy who was sodomized is a horrible incident but please do remember that boys did this . The boys who get maltreated need representation but this isn't girls hurting other boys we need to fix it from a crime stand point not a male vs female standpoint because girls have done way worse to other girls before any nothing had been said of it either.
The females you know may not "do" anything in your mind even though I'm gonna take a wild guess that most of the home cleaning and cooking is done by them. The fact that boys get insulted by being told being feminine is bad but its bad on women too because it means that unconsciously we are saying having characteristics that are attributed to females are bad so its not just an insult on men who are like that but females also. Insults targeted at men have connotations that have to do with being female. Like why is being a pussy, bitch, sissy, fag or girl bad? It's literally saying I will insult you by saying you are a female which isn't something any person should want to be
Same we have seen a couple problems like this and i cry everytime bc it hit close to home. Im grown now so i understand and forgive the past but i really wonder why i needed to go through those painful years sometime and it still get me down.
It's changing now. I'm an Asian but I was never discriminated. And about the chickens, my brother is nine years younger than me but I get most of the better chicken pieces. Although my aunt used to think that only women and girls belong in the kitchen, now she's started to change her mind about that as well. These comments make me feel grateful that my parents don't favour any gender.
korea really needs to have better fishing laws omg... overfishing should not be taken as lightly as was on this show.... all those poor fish that died for no reason... if someone slaughtered 400 cows or 1000 chickens just for the fun of it everyone would be disgusted
does she not know what overfishing is?? and gah everytime i think of the massage woman from last week, i cant help but wonder if she thinks her legs are more precious than girl's day yura's legs (im pretty sure that her legs are insured)
I am extremely pissed at the fishing woman for overfishing. I am so annoyed every time she smile and laugh not knowing the fact that she is wasting so much resources.
garin's concern always have been every second child's concern. i often hear my friends (who's a second child) story about being dicriminated. that was actually upsetting. but all she needs to show her grandma is achieve more in anything though she lacks some care. make this concern the driving motive of why she needs to be better than her siblings.
First concern: She's selfish for over-fishing. Second concern: um, wasn't really paying attention but I hope he stops being indecisive. Third concern: the grandmother blatant favoritism was irritating and I didn't find much to laugh at.
lmao she's harming the environment and thinks of it as a hobby.
The girl from the first concern was handing out those free bags of croaker fish like they were one day from going bad or something lol. It really amazes me how addicting people can get when it comes to fishing, some may see it as a way of relaxing, and others simply love to fish as a hobby, but it's never a good idea to catch so much, because then you won't know what to do with them afterwards nor have a place to store it to preserve it.
dude......the whole WORLD is gonna see u xD not just korea
Grandma is being unfair. The granddaughter should also love her grandmother. My grandparents are loving people and both love us all equally! Be nice to her because you'll regretted it.
This is my first time watching a new Hello Counselor on a Monday. I feel accomplished.
Except for the fact that I have 3 tests this week and a project due tomorrow...But organizing my priorities is in beta...
good luck😅
good luck!!😅
good luck!! :D
good luck!! 😅
good luck during this week !! 😅
for the woman who love to fishing, you should release the fish back into the sea after catch them if you only love the tug and thrilling however not planning to eat them... such a waste. plus you catch way too much to call it just a hobby!
We have a rule when we go fishing. We only take what we need. And for neither of them to like fish is just astounding.
i wish in the first concern they would have scolded her more and told her to feel the tug then throw the fish back because all those fish are going to waste
The last one got me. I'm half Korean and Vietnamese so when I saw that last concern, I started to tear up and cry. Thankfully, my Korean grandmother doesn't do, but sometimes my Vietnamese grandma does that but she will change it if I tell her. I felt so sorry for her like COME HERE, I WILL TREAT YOU LITTLE SIS! 😭😭😭
I can relate to the last concern, because I've constantly heard from other people to my parents how it's a shame they only had three girls, and no boys. And my mom would always tell me to do certain chores and stuff "because I'm a girl", and the whole, "you have to learn to cook, what are you going to do when you're married if you can't cook". This girl seems very mature, and understanding, hopefully she is able to understand that her grandmother won't change her ways, but she doesn't have to believe the same things her grandmother does.
the fishing concern shouldn't treat so lightly.. it's really dangerous for ecosystems.
korean governor should make a new law about it tbh.. i've seen too many fishing concern like this in hello counselor :(
that grandmother must've stuck in Joseon dynasty in her brain. wake up old woman we're in 21st century now.
i agree with you ! she is annoying
I love watching this show! I learnt a lot of it too. The concerns were very interesting. Thanks KBS!!!👍😃
I hope the Korean netizens will speak up and stop the women from fishing. She's basically destroying the natural resources and she thinks it's ok???!!!???!!! Urg.... It irritates me when people act irresponsibly towards the environment
favoritism in children is really upsetting, what a heartbreak for a little girl like garin and others who experiences the same treatment. thankfully im an only child.
i fell in love with the sister from the first concern. she's so cute and i find her so pretty!!only if she's not obsessed with fishing...
Am i the only one who think the friend sitting beside the police man is cute?
I don't see him o:
meee xD
yep
+el dorado naaaah!!! at first i thought he's a liiiil bit attractive, because of the justin beiber hair , then when he started talking , the charm flew with the wind.
thank God I'm not the only one..
I can related to Garin so much. omg when she started singing I started bawling. I hope her and her family can get along better
Idk why them cooking the pregnant fish with the eggs made my stomach churn like it did. But agree with majority of the comment here, the lady should really put the creature back if she just likes to fish for the tug. Would think there would be a law or limit. She's catching too much and it could be bad for the ecosystem.
i really like the guests for this episodes because they really interacted alot ! hehe love this show so much !!!
it's not like we don't know how much parents /grandparents love us, but if they don't express much as they do to other then we can't feel it too. love is communication : )
I just wanted the woman to catch and release in the first concern like please the fish is going to waste. I was just so done when she said she caught several sharks. I was waiting for her to say she released them back into the ocean, but found out she gave them away. I can understand if she eats the fish, but why is she keeping them when she doesn't and her family can't stand just fish everyday?? This isn't good for the environment.
Second concern was kind of funny, but he needs to reevaluate his part in their friendship
Third concern made me kind of angry since everyone was so blatant about how back in the older days boys were prized over girls and didn't make an effort to change the stubborn grandmother's beliefs. My mom adores my younger brother for the same reason and that he's younger, but my family probably prefer girls over boys because we help out much more. This in itself is a problem though because why can't boys help around the house? I'm glad my family is not like her grandmother and my brother has to help out too even if it's not as much as me, being the only girl in the family. Well the grandmother is in her 70s now so I guess just let her stay stubborn, but I don't want the girl to feel less loved than her siblings. Being the middle child for her is probably lonely.
Side note though the woman from last week's concern is so annoying. She's so selfish and puts herself too high than what she really is. The whole time she had on a bitch face, excuse my language. I hope her friends and family as well as people who watch the show will tear her a new one and tell her she's not as precious as she thinks she is. I'm sorry, but her self attitude annoys me.
I had to make some fish at two o clock in the morning because this episode made me want it so bad.....
Hate that grandmother
Never clicked on something so fast xD
I really jate that grandmother at last concern . Not fair
For the second concern, when the mc asked that man's job i was like it'd be really funny if he works in active service and boom he turned out to be a police man!!! I was stunned for a moment 🤣🤣
I cried a river during that last concern! Poor girl!!! I understand HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!!!!! asians grandparents are LIKE that.We (the girls) don't even get our name written on any property owned by our deceased grandfather! I'm ALL for gender equality HEFORSHE!!!!!!!
Wow!!!! A shark???!!! I thought it was illegal to catch a shark anywhere. But I would have liked to see how she reeled it in without getting pulled out of the boat.
I feel so sad about the last girl TT I can relate to her...hope she stay strong :)
I cant believe he is a policeman... sucha weirdly cute guy😂
I think the reason why they weren't somber in the last concern was because they could see the young girl was very smart and lively. I can see the family members now realise this can be a big concern to her and they will change. The older generation is like that.. It's not right but it's their culture and they never thought anything wrong about it. Some of my family members are the same and I feel for her. But I love her positivity and I'm sure it's going to get better. I know her grandma loves her too. She just needs to show it more and not discriminate anymore
OMG I feel the last girl so much, I've have the same kind of family. I have a older sis and lil brother. Garin I know how you feellllll :"))))
Okay, excuse me, but rather than cola and deep-fried chicken, that grandma should look into braces or some other dental procedures for grandson. It's probably a very superficial and stupid thing to notice, but that's a real thing to show affection through - care of health and well being rather than which cut of chicken he gets.
Not to mention, no matter how safe the neighborhood is, why would you send your granddaughter out at night when she should either study or sleep as a 7th grader? Not to mention the constant mentally emotional abuse she provides for the poor girl. Sad, just sad.
From this weeks concerns, this annoyed me the most.
Sending a 7th grader out at night is just too much despite Korea being largely urban and crowded. Korean society and media is so fked up tbh smh. You could literally murder someone on the roads and people wouldnt give two fucks and do anything to help literally. Im so disappointed in my country sometimes 😔
I feel sorry for the little girl.I really wanted her to win because I wanted to see if her grandmother changed or not.I hope she continues to sing and become a singer that would be great.😄😊😍😆🎤
P.S: I am sorry for my bad English.😓😓
Donate the fish to the needy, hospitals, orphanges, etc.
i never play down the seriousness of the concerns but tbh i would love too have the sister in the first concern as my sister cause i love fish and its not easy to get freshwater fish where i live...
Ahahahah the guy in the first concern was so cute~
+Sabi Ya and that message woman makes me so mad e.e That's just really selfish..
오빠야 !! 상혁 오빠!! 사랑해요 ★.★
I really understand the last concern.I'm myself a 7th grader and a second child..My parents have never pay so much attention towards me.All I can see is they love my younger brother and my sister more.
The fishing girl in the first concern could've totally made fishing as her occupation.
she doesn't want to be a fisherman
the last concern... middle kid problem. im a 2nd born with a big bro and lil sis and i can totally understand her. sometimes i feel like im the only one who is not loved at home... my parents favor my big bro a lot and my sis can act 'cute' to my parents. im the only one in awkward position and i always felt lonely lol but as i grow up i dont feel sad anymore... probably because im used to this situation already
That fishing girl can definitely make a business out of her hobby, if she's that good at fishing like no joke and was her occupation then she would be able to enjoy making money doing what she loves
Am I the only one who cried when Garin sang to her grandmother? :(
Even though I feel bad for all those fishies, the first girl is adorable XD She sounds like me if I were fishing. "I don't know, but it was cute!"
I feel so so so bad for the second guy. He's struggling so much and everyone is just laughing at him. I suffer from terrible anxiety and I know how he feels. I get the feeling he has anxiety too. He should probably be placed on medication and take some therapy...
that girl doesn't respect the Biological rest period and she catch the small fishes and that's really bad for the ocean.
The 2nd concern is sooo relatable but the he has like 30 friends while I only have like 2?!??
I can not bear to watch the first concern...the sister is so selfish... I really hate people like her more than a criminal.. #AgaintsTrophyHunting
The noona who likes fishing is so pretty
as fishing lovers she should know basic of nature. She fished lots of fish then let them wasted. 1, she takes lots of fish with aimless 2,she only do it for fun but takes lots of fishes 3, if she do it for fun then she shouldn't take all fish home but she has to release it 4, she has to know how to fish without harming fishes so they can be released to sea immediately after she tug it... oow I hate her because all she do is smile and what was she doing only for fun. she doesn't even eat that fish 😠😠😠
i just felt so unfair for the last girl. she is at the age where she could just have fun and play around with her friends but she is bothered by things like this. i thought now women are at the same level as men? why are they getting treated so differently? i hope the grandmother do something to make her happy again. she had a bright future ahead but please dont let this things pull her down
Catch and release!
The grandma in third concern looks similar to the mother who had rapper daughter 😂
The episode in which RM ,V and Jessie were guests
The woman in the first concern really is selfish. She says that she does fishing cause she likes the "tug" only. Why doesn't she just put them back. At least she would be doing less damage to the ecosystem. Why bring back home fish you don't even want. It makes no sense.
I...i get excited every time i catch a shark in Animal Crossing....haha
28:25 Heeeeyyy!! It's the music from The Girl Who Leapt Through Time!
If that was my grandmother I would have tell her infront of everyone on the show that if she can't be fair with me and my brother, then please never call herself my grandmother because if she doesn't want me, then I don't want a grandmother like her. From now on I will only clean up after my mess in the house and not my brother's. He's only 2 years younger than me, if having a boy is really that great then he should've known how to do all the houseworks himself. If that was my grandmother I wish to have no grandmother at all. Now I'm living half the globe away from my own grandma, she used to yell at me a lot but I know she loves me, she took really good care of me, I have an older brother too but I don't think she would put him over me. I love her and I wish the girl didn't have to live with such a narrow-minded grandmother.
the first concern she would be awesome for " Law of the Jungle " ^^~~
Waiting for VIXX Hongbin n oth Moorim Institution's casts. Loading...
WHERE IS IT?😞😞😞😞😞
+Zika Xiah Next week's guests are Oh Ha-young (A-Pink?), Eric Nam, Kim Ji-min and Lee Sang-hoon (Gag Concert?). The week after that will be the Moorim cast.
+may91 o I got a link for it on twitter
+Harmony Mcnealy It probably won't have subs though. KBS World is 2 weeks behind the original TV broadcast, I think.
+may91 do you know where or which channel will have the ep raw?
hehe i don't think last concern is that bad.
well, the grandmother somehow is too much, but afterall she's still love garin as her granddaughter :) and i saw them as a lovely family.
haha that policeman guy is so friggin cute xD
Do you know if there are any forums or such where Korean netizens discuss this show for example ? Because I don't know if the show gets feedback like for the first concern, because I felt extremely frustrated ; the girl contributing to the extinction of some species for fun. And this is just one concern, a lot more were not considered serious when they were.
The guy in the second concern is so adorable!! xD I don't care that he's like that, I would totally date him xDDD
do they eat the gut of fish as well?
Poor sharks...leave them alone. There aren't that many, and they take fairly long to grow up. And stop fishing so much if you are not going to eat them or throw them back into the ocean.
Someone needs to teach her about the negative effects of overfishing to the environment!! My gosh! She's so annoying! Don't be so proud lady!
낚시 좋아 하는 여성분 마음이 참 아름다운 시내..❤
Because of the lady in the first concern and people like her, there are less types of fish. So, she fished a shark because it was cute? Really? Some kids of sharks are endangered dude! She got me so angry
are there no bones in sand fishes or whatever it was called
The last concern just so disgust me!!!! I don't even understand why're they were laughing!!! what's more disgusting is that they're talking as it's not a big problem and the grandmother's proud of it!!!!!
I know how it feels. I'm 11. I'm th only daughter but the oldest among my first cousins. My first cousins always cause trouble since they're aged 3-10 years old, I have to take care of them, put them before me. It's nice to see I'm not the only one... HWAITING.
I suggest that girl to listen to BTS ;D
She should like idk be a provider for restaurants with all that fish and stuff. She would make so so so so much profit from seafood restaurants.
Do you guys remember the episode of Hello Counselor where some girl wanted to be a Rapper and her mom didn't want her to. And the girl looked up to zico. It was the episode with bts and Jessi. Doesn't the grandma in this look like the mom of the rapper?
+Sakura Kinomoto Ikr!! Also I almost thought the show was scripted for a sec, but then I too also noticed the slight difference in her face so I was like "Ohhhhh!!!! Okay okay" xD lol
But they really so look alike
+Sakura Kinomoto Ikr!! Also I almost thought the show was scripted for a sec, but then I too also noticed the slight difference in her face so I was like "Ohhhhh!!!! Okay okay" xD lol
But they really so look alike
The man in the second concern sort of like jeongtae from boss yang muscle crew
Garin´s voice (last concern) sounds like Hyorin! =)
becoz the viewers want the fish..they ignored the brothers feeling..thats y he just got 83 votes..for me..the sister is selfish..she caught the seafood,but at the end,it is her mother who need to clean up all the fish which they keep in fridge,after the balance leave of she gave to neighbohr and friend..
her mother is ill,not too strong to settle all fish..y u so selfish ,dont have any simpathy to her own mother..viewers want the fresh fish thats y they not votes her brothers consent..what a shame u korean people
Bro....... I feel bad for the last girl.. If the grandmother does not own up to what she promised, if I was Garin, i wouldve said "oh.. So you only said that because you were only on a broadcast? Fine. Ill leave. For good.. No one likes me anyways". Yeah. I would say that.
How to download with the subtitle? I want to learn Korean by a program like this.
Garin's brother is DENSE. Even accounting for his age.
that guy on the second concern looks like woozi haha
first again!! yeah yeah first again!!😁😁😁
Can I've the policeman? He is so cute and handsome too, I would make his turn into a model jjanggg
Am I the only one who thought that the policeman looked like woozi a little bit?
at least give the fish to a homeless shelter or something
Last concern boy was looking like Kim Jon un
overfishing is really bad for the environment...