Let us show some love and respect to both families that lost their loved ones, pain is the same feeling, the wound equally deep, we refrain from judging, but only pray for acceptance and healing, for there lids on both sides, my heart bleeds heavily, a human being is as equal to the other.
As someone who has been a victim of abuse...ngyawuzwelana nomndeni kaNtobe and I wish nabanye abantu besifazane bafunde kulokhu bashiye kuse early cz abusers are very manipulative and they portray themselves as victims in public😔😔💔
I didn't know this young woman but I'm a mother of three girls I'm scared for my girls if love is like this idont wish them to fall in love I hope God will heal the family and the child 😢
@@NomusaZondo-e7i ...the only thing I can at least say to you is to teach your children what is good and what is not, how you treat people...tell them about boys growing up being man on what they should look up for and notice...love is there, it our approach to it that makes us fail like this.
😢😢ash this is very sad last year i was lose my sister in this way she was try to run away for his Mostert husband but wambulala kunjalo sebehlukene.amadoda abulawa umona nokungazithembi 😢
The women on these comments siding with the killer is laughable to me. All of us were never around these peoples relationship, we just heard what uSbusiso said and everyone believes him and y’all don’t want to hear no one saying something different from what he said?? Because people are talking bad about uSbu and he can’t answer for himself?? uNontobeko can answer for herself on what uSbusiso said?? Love uSbu wakhona and side with him but y’all shouldn’t get irritated by people speaking up for uNontobeko Nontobeko didn’t get a chance to speak for herself and post on social media….. KEEP THAT IN MIND!!
😢😢😢Hi I'm so sorry for the family s my condolences to the family may God comfort you all in this difficult time MHSRIP may God heal u all in time specially her child 🙏💔💔💔💔💔
May her soul rest in peace. We heard all is painful.During funeral service we must comfort the de family of de deceased and speak the word of God only.God is our healer,holy spirit our comforter Jesus Christ the way the truth the life...They only need to hear such words only...not rehearsing the pain
This is painful. I was listening to one of the radio stations last night, bene interview nebest friend kaSbu He mentioned that uSbu walobola okokuqala, that relationship kwaba nezinkinga. Waphinda wazothandana noNtobe maduzane. I think he didn't heal maybe that's why ebenama trust issues. Not long ago friend ithi I one uSbu eseposte enye ipartner kwisocial media. He asked him wathi "bafo kubhedile" Labho uNtobe ubehambise umbondo this year So he didn't take time to heal uma ephuma kwenye relationship and leyonto iyalimaza
It's very sad yes it is painful even those parents who lost their son to me there was a psychogical problem in this relationship more than anything else please all men must learn to talk and tell their parents if there is something bothering them even close friends so that they can be helped before doing things like this it is hurting to make a child an orphan
What do you mean? The guy already told the story the way he wanted when the news broke on social media and most people ran with his pov. Now that the other side is being told, y'all are crying foul? By the way, this was the lady's send-off, who else were they supposed to support, him when many already took his side from the start?
@_theerealnono_7694 His parents also deserve condolences 🙏 and ministers to visit them since he was mentally unstable or ill . To also bring solutions to society at large our man will feel ladies are always favored.
@@Bandz-e6i I don't feel anything for abusive m-u-r-d-e-r-e-r-s. This was her send-off, not his. Social media keeps on trying to humanise him and d-e-m-o-n-i-s-e her only, that's what I noticed from the time this story broke. This tells me the calibre of people (especially men) we have in this country... some going as far as justifying m-u-r-d-e-r. Absurd!
@@Bandz-e6i I don't feel anything for those who take others' l-i-v-e-s. This was her send-off, not his. Social media keeps on trying to humanise him and make her some m-o-n-s-t-e-r, that's what I noticed from the time this story broke. This tells me the calibre of people (especially men) we have in this country... some going as far as justifying this g-r-u-e-s-o-m-e act. It's absurd!
Patience I hope you never get to experience this type of hurt first hand in this life time…. Sbu wakhona spoke for himself and y’all are running with what he said. uNontobeko uzothethelwa ngubani?? He killed her and didn’t give her a chance to answer for herself. Love/like Sbu but don’t try to silence those who are speaking up on behalf of uNontobeko, she deserves a voice too. Uzelwe njengo Sbu lo nimvelayo.
Sbu got an opportunity to speak for himself after he silenced Ntobe. We wish to have heard from Ntobe herself but that murder took that away from us. No one killed Sbu noone took away his voice sufuna avuke azokhuluma futhi ?awenelisekanga with what he said? He dont need anyone to speak for him he spoke for himself.
Khuluma ini😮to justify that he's a toxic bf and a murderer kahleni bo stop condoning nonsense because no matter what Nontobeko might have done no 1 has a right to kill finish
I took it at face value and simpathized with the perpetrator as though he was a victim When you go deep into this you can't help it but feel sad for Ntobeko because she is truly a victim I cannot help it but feel sad for her family and children
Yah uSbu took a wrong decision to kill the girl brutally he was deeply hurt because of what this girl did to her , abangane bathi uSbu u obsessed umngane wabo unjani ngoba naye bekangafuni ukuyeka lomfo ngoba bekathola imali sekwenzekile konke yingani angazange ambophise, wavumelani ukulotsholwa ngoba phela uSbu uyamgada ? Sewachithekile amanzi angeke asabuthwa mabalale ngoxolo
It was fun and games when he was on social media talking about her telling his side, now that we see who he really was, y'all want these people to keep it hush-hush? S.A. is truly of the devil.
inkinga lana kukhona loku singakutshelwayo sikufihlelwayo ebekusenzakala phaya emqashweni ngalabo Sisi , ngifisa nje noma kuyini loko bebekwenza sengathi bangakuyeka manje babe bafundile futhi babonile lapha ku Ntobe💔🕊️🙏🏽🙏🏽
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Nkosi siza lomnden ka Nontobeko lo Sbu kulesio exinzima kangaka.
Kunzima kuba umzali Im always praying for abantwana bami
I wish ladies can learn, you don't stay in abusive relationship no matter what, abusive man are very creative when coming liars.
💯 percent correct, you are so right
Let us show some love and respect to both families that lost their loved ones, pain is the same feeling, the wound equally deep, we refrain from judging, but only pray for acceptance and healing, for there lids on both sides, my heart bleeds heavily, a human being is as equal to the other.
This is how all abusive relationships end if you don’t leave.
@khensybakes yooo! They don't leave my dear
@@khensybakes very true
@@Truthholliness-cx4dxThose who leave are very lucky 😢😢
As someone who has been a victim of abuse...ngyawuzwelana nomndeni kaNtobe and I wish nabanye abantu besifazane bafunde kulokhu bashiye kuse early cz abusers are very manipulative and they portray themselves as victims in public😔😔💔
I didn't know this young woman but I'm a mother of three girls I'm scared for my girls if love is like this idont wish them to fall in love I hope God will heal the family and the child 😢
Stop being petty.
@@sbonzama7013 do you have girls kids as the same mother of 2 girls I do understand where is this come from fear of your kids in the future.
@@NomusaZondo-e7i Is it the first GBV yini.Its everyday nje lonto.
@@NomusaZondo-e7i ...the only thing I can at least say to you is to teach your children what is good and what is not, how you treat people...tell them about boys growing up being man on what they should look up for and notice...love is there, it our approach to it that makes us fail like this.
😢😢ash this is very sad last year i was lose my sister in this way she was try to run away for his Mostert husband but wambulala kunjalo sebehlukene.amadoda abulawa umona nokungazithembi 😢
🤗❤️
@@NomaswaziNtamane I'm sorry dear....be healed in JESUS MIGHTY name
The women on these comments siding with the killer is laughable to me. All of us were never around these peoples relationship, we just heard what uSbusiso said and everyone believes him and y’all don’t want to hear no one saying something different from what he said?? Because people are talking bad about uSbu and he can’t answer for himself?? uNontobeko can answer for herself on what uSbusiso said??
Love uSbu wakhona and side with him but y’all shouldn’t get irritated by people speaking up for uNontobeko
Nontobeko didn’t get a chance to speak for herself and post on social media….. KEEP THAT IN MIND!!
exactly 💯 ... well said ❤
Pick mes of note. These men don't care about them like that.
Wat a sad day unyaka usuphela 😢😢😢
Hamba kahle dzadzewetfu.noma singakwati kodvwa sidzabulile emoyeni
@@JabuMahlalela-b2w Kakhulu 😔😔
Duduzekani mndeni kanontobeko sibuhlungo ngalento ngojehova naye ulila kanye nathi hezekiya33,18 ujehova uzosula inyembezi lezi esisemehlweni nobuhlungu eninabo sambulo21 3,4 akugwinye ukufa kuphele nya isaya 25:8 ukufa kuyisitha zithandwa zami usho njalo ujehova kuyampontsha kusiphule inhliziyo 1kor26:15 ngithi duduzekani zihlobo ngalemibhalo sinethemba oluwukholo ujehova uyokwenza lokhu ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
RIP baby gal💔Pray to God for your family strength in raising your child
Heyi amantombazane ngezimali zabantu.if ningafundi kulokhu.anisoze.uhambe kahle cc nawebhuti.akebavele abakhulumele ubhuti singadlisi I team
Let us never live to witness this painful stuff in our lifetime.
Pray for the families. 🙏🏿
Bantu besifazane yekani ubufebe...... Nifeba too much......nibhanqa amadoda bese nithembe ukukhala izinyembezi zikatsotsi.... Selokhu nithi GBV... Niyanuka nibolile.... Masulotsholwe hlala ngentombi..... Uphume ebanganini..... Banomona kabi.....🤞🏽
😢😢😢Hi I'm so sorry for the family s my condolences to the family may God comfort you all in this difficult time MHSRIP may God heal u all in time specially her child 🙏💔💔💔💔💔
My condolences to all family and friends 😢
Yaze yabuhlungu into eyenzeke kuloMntwana ekubeni naye wakhula engenaye uMama. Ingane zakhe ezimbili zizokhula zintandane.
@@Thee-v9t Hmmmm💔💔💔💔💔💔
Ohh this is so sad May the family find Peace and comfort in Jesus name Amen
AMEN
May her soul rest in peace.
We heard all is painful.During funeral service we must comfort the de family of de deceased and speak the word of God only.God is our healer,holy spirit our comforter Jesus Christ the way the truth the life...They only need to hear such words only...not rehearsing the pain
Very painfully rest well cc lyf😢
Lala ngikuthula MaNdosi Magaye wena wakimkhulu wami sebekhulume konke abakthandayo kepha uthando aluboni nd benusabancane ningaka luqondi nilwazi ncese Mndeni wami
This is painful. I was listening to one of the radio stations last night, bene interview nebest friend kaSbu
He mentioned that uSbu walobola okokuqala, that relationship kwaba nezinkinga.
Waphinda wazothandana noNtobe maduzane. I think he didn't heal maybe that's why ebenama trust issues.
Not long ago friend ithi I one uSbu eseposte enye ipartner kwisocial media.
He asked him wathi "bafo kubhedile"
Labho uNtobe ubehambise umbondo this year
So he didn't take time to heal uma ephuma kwenye relationship and leyonto iyalimaza
So true people need to learn to take breaks in between relationships to heal💔
Unkulunkulu akasisize ngabantwana bethu hay ngeke uSathane uhlasele ngikhalela abazali kuyohonke lent
Bafwethu usathane ufikile s.a bafwethu masithandazeni
UMngani ka Ntobe uyadifenda amazwi akhe
A lesson must be learned here
@@phindilevilane36 I wonder in this case eyiphi i lesson okumele siyifunde
@@phindilevilane36 wat lesson exactly
It's very sad yes it is painful even those parents who lost their son to me there was a psychogical problem in this relationship more than anything else please all men must learn to talk and tell their parents if there is something bothering them even close friends so that they can be helped before doing things like this it is hurting to make a child an orphan
Wazewanesono lomfana kantaka ngengane yabantu mm
Ukube bayishayi isaphila lentombazane hhayi ukuzocula is ifile, like Adam ukube wamshaya uEva ngabe akamnikanga isithelelo, bheka manje
Yaa siyezwa kukhulunywa kodwa akusekho noyedwa emndenini othi ngamkhuza usisi ukuthi iyeke lentoyenzayo , cha asizwa
Alale aphumule ngoxolo, kulungile
kutshukuthi aloku uNontobeko ubekwalahlekiswa kwangabangane bakhe " uready na ubanendoda ezakugada nomasewusiya etoilet" ngumbuzo onjani lowo? banalo igalelo abatshomi bakhe ekumlahlekiseni uNontobeko, yona ichep le kuyabonakala ibimthanda kakhulu
Is that Bheki Cele??. R.I.P Ntobe😢😢
Ulipolisa u bheki cele
This is so weird and one-sided we will never heal as country Sbu was also someone's child. Yes, he did wrong rage got the better of him.
Since 2013? Please get a life sir
What do you mean? The guy already told the story the way he wanted when the news broke on social media and most people ran with his pov. Now that the other side is being told, y'all are crying foul? By the way, this was the lady's send-off, who else were they supposed to support, him when many already took his side from the start?
@_theerealnono_7694 His parents also deserve condolences 🙏 and ministers to visit them since he was mentally unstable or ill . To also bring solutions to society at large our man will feel ladies are always favored.
@@Bandz-e6i I don't feel anything for abusive m-u-r-d-e-r-e-r-s. This was her send-off, not his. Social media keeps on trying to humanise him and d-e-m-o-n-i-s-e her only, that's what I noticed from the time this story broke. This tells me the calibre of people (especially men) we have in this country... some going as far as justifying m-u-r-d-e-r. Absurd!
@@Bandz-e6i I don't feel anything for those who take others' l-i-v-e-s. This was her send-off, not his. Social media keeps on trying to humanise him and make her some m-o-n-s-t-e-r, that's what I noticed from the time this story broke. This tells me the calibre of people (especially men) we have in this country... some going as far as justifying this g-r-u-e-s-o-m-e act. It's absurd!
Aniyeke u Sbu ngoba engasakwazi ukuzikhulumela senikhuluma noma yini
Patience I hope you never get to experience this type of hurt first hand in this life time…. Sbu wakhona spoke for himself and y’all are running with what he said. uNontobeko uzothethelwa ngubani?? He killed her and didn’t give her a chance to answer for herself.
Love/like Sbu but don’t try to silence those who are speaking up on behalf of uNontobeko, she deserves a voice too. Uzelwe njengo Sbu lo nimvelayo.
Sbu wama simba, he's the one who killed this girl, futsek wena nonsense.
Sbu got an opportunity to speak for himself after he silenced Ntobe. We wish to have heard from Ntobe herself but that murder took that away from us. No one killed Sbu noone took away his voice sufuna avuke azokhuluma futhi ?awenelisekanga with what he said? He dont need anyone to speak for him he spoke for himself.
Hayi shem darling asikwaz ukumyeka he's a murderer.
@@sinazom9010 💯👌🏾 echo that.
Ubani ozokhulumela u Sbusiso?
@@denzelcarmichael7183 He did speak for himself after silencing Ntobe. What else do you want?
Khuluma ini😮to justify that he's a toxic bf and a murderer kahleni bo stop condoning nonsense because no matter what Nontobeko might have done no 1 has a right to kill finish
I took it at face value and simpathized with the perpetrator as though he was a victim
When you go deep into this you can't help it but feel sad for Ntobeko because she is truly a victim
I cannot help it but feel sad for her family and children
Cha nje Sbu uzoba idlozi elinomona,nesikhwele, nomhobholo, baze basize kubo bamngcwabe ngaphandle islingo somuntu ongcolise umhlaba wethu ngegazi abazali bakhe abageze ilizwe lethu badayise lemoto yakhe bathenge inkomo bageze ubukhosi besizwe sonke. Umuntu omanipulater ngisho efa indoda enamanga nx.
@@nomvulaveronicangema566 no he won't be Idlozi he killed himself nje..
Yah uSbu took a wrong decision to kill the girl brutally he was deeply hurt because of what this girl did to her , abangane bathi uSbu u obsessed umngane wabo unjani ngoba naye bekangafuni ukuyeka lomfo ngoba bekathola imali sekwenzekile konke yingani angazange ambophise, wavumelani ukulotsholwa ngoba phela uSbu uyamgada ?
Sewachithekile amanzi angeke asabuthwa mabalale ngoxolo
Yena lo mngani she knows something 🤔
About the child I can see that she's lying 😢
@@willnednkhoma1461 friend unesibindi she's not make sure naye
Nawe futy unguprophet
Ay lomngani ka Ntobe yasikhohlisa ngoba yena konke okubi kuku Sbu ku Ntobe kuhle konke
Ulale ngoxolo cctas.
Gals niyeke ubufebe bothando lwemali please
Really vel 😢 wow sumppl
Tell the same message to these men, they're not innocent. No one deserves what she endured at his hands.
Kodwa Hulumeni wethu nonke nje nino Baba o Bheki Cele niyakujabulela yhini na loku kubuhlungu kanje bcs kusazophinda soon loku kwenzeke nizooloko ni attender lezizifihlo zeziziganeko zikanje koze kube nini , nenzani pho ukulungisa konke loku kweziziganeko zinje ?🕯️🕊️💔🙏🏾🇿🇦
Ake niyeke uku khuluma ngo Sbu ngoba aka sekho ukuzi khulumela!
It was fun and games when he was on social media talking about her telling his side, now that we see who he really was, y'all want these people to keep it hush-hush? S.A. is truly of the devil.
Utsotsi lomngani wayebuzelan nje kuty uyavuman Kuba nomuntu ozokgada
inkinga lana kukhona loku singakutshelwayo sikufihlelwayo ebekusenzakala phaya emqashweni ngalabo Sisi , ngifisa nje noma kuyini loko bebekwenza sengathi bangakuyeka manje babe bafundile futhi babonile lapha ku Ntobe💔🕊️🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@SiyandaGwala yebo if wayeziphethe kahle mbuzomuni loyo
Cha uyambuza umngani Noma ini f ungakaze thula Nd kuyezwakala bebezwana kakhulu futhi emsabela umngani, yena lombulali ukuthathapi ukuthi acele umngani ukuthi aka unblock wayengalindi ngani Uma emthanda nilalelise bese niyahlaziya boh. Ma side onke
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