Why We Were Single For So Long | The Cimorelli Podcast - S5 E7
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- Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
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Today's title needs a bit of explaining.. first of all, we know that Amy and Lauren are still single. And second, this episode is for those who are single yet WANT to be in a relationship. We recognize that many people are perfectly content and happy being single and do not desire to be in a relationship. We also want to point out that being in a relationship is NOT superior to being single; this is a common misconception that is simply not true.
Disclaimers aside, this episode is for those who are single yet would like to be in a committed relationship someday. In this episode, we take a deep dive into our own fears and beliefs that held us back from finding commitment and companionship. We also share some of the things that have been helpful for us in opening our hearts up to love.
We hope you enjoy this episode, and that it is helpful and hope-filled!
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Lauren’s philosophy was the best.
“Do I wanna die alone? No? Then I need to talk to people.”
She’s my idol 😂
It sounds easier than it is
The fact the Amy is enjoying this topic so much is just so cute. You can really tell that she is ready to have a relationship but she is happy right now.
When Christina said “I can’t pull off a bald head” and Lisa said “Yes you could it would just be really scary” I LOST IT 😂😂😂😂
2:15 highs and lows
9:28 spicy advice Q&A
13:04 topic of conversation
-16:16 discussing mental blocks
34:32 bag of random
38:08 sister Spotlight
Thank you💘
thanks a lot
Thank you for this!!!! :)
ok amy got it
Katherine loving disclaimers so that she's sure she's not hurting anyone's feelings is soooo wholesome and an attitude we should all bring into 2021
yesss 🥰
Actually no. Social media has become toxic for that exact reason. These days, there is only one right way to say things without "hurting someone's feelings" or getting cancelled. People are allowed to have their own opinions and if you don't like it you can move on. No one owes you an explanation or a "disclaimer." That's ridiculous.
@@account10558 I agree.
Nowadays you re not allowed to say your own opinion anymore and need to agree to everything or people are going crazy on you.
@@00Mali00 straight facts only 👏🏻
I am like Amy, 25 and still single.
I've been single until I was 24. Thought I never find a love. I was badly in love with a young man but that love was with no good ending... So I stayed alone... And now I'm in love for a long time. It turns out good for you, too 😊
@@Daggy5 thanks but im ok being alone. i know what is it to be in relationship
I'm 25 and honestly even though I'm in a relationship I still think we're v young and it's extra normal to be single! Well any age should be a normal time to be single
@@lisab5592 I agree with you. It can happen anytime. But I hated to be alone. I always had the wish to have a boyfriend, get married and all this stuff. Romantic and stupid but without the highschool movie attitude.
It was bad for me.
There were a few boys and men who wanted to date with me but honestly... No... Just... No.
But on the other side if you're single and your fine with it, be happy be confident. I have a friend she decided to thay without having a relationship and she is one of the happiest human beings I've ever known. But it's not right for me.
Long story short if you're happy be it! With or without anyone on your side
same
Lisa's facial expressions are the best
28 and still single. had my heartbroken at 21 so that made me take quite a break. then struggling with addiction made dating kind of nonexistent.
now that I'm older, sober, and....mainly over my first love (as much as can be) i am ready to date.
but I am alright be alone too which is such a gift.
good for you!
Just turned 25 today. I’ve never had a serious relationship. I just haven’t met anyone who I feel would be a good partner yet. Still trying to figure out what exactly I want to with my life and feeling like I should already have it all figured, along with a good amount of savings, plans for the future, a stable job and relationship etc. No debt but also legit no money. No friends, as I had to leave a very toxic friend group that was mostly old high school friends. Scared I’ll be alone and lost forever but at the same time hopeful that it might work out somehow.
@@springlady8337 how are things going for you now? :)
@@cuca_ I just graduated a few days ago with my associates degree and accepted into university for my bachelors degree. I had to complete an internship for school so I met some really great people and made some connections which landed me a part time position for now. I’ve been dating and although I haven’t met the one yet, I’m definitely more hopeful and confident. I did make some work friends and since I don’t have schooling and internships to keep me busy, I’m going to work on making some real friends! I used to feel pretty lost and unfocused but now I set little goals and use things to help motivate me. I let myself have time and give myself self care and rewards. Honestly I’m in such a great headspace and shocked at how much I’ve accomplished in just two years!! It’s never too late.
They’re all literally in their 20s, that’s not exactly being single for “so long”!
Have you met teenagers these days?! My neighbors daughter is 13 getting her phone taking away constantly for giving dudes on the internet her number. I cannot imagine having five amazing beautiful daughters, there just aren’t enough shot guns! Their parents are so blessed to have such good amazing kids with such a great Christian moral value and watching them go through those hard teen years and early 20s and choose not to forsake their moral value. Their parents must be amazing parents and very proud. I bet people ask that about them being single so long because they all have such unique good natured and funny personalities that it just shines a spot light on their beauty
Most people have a boyfriend or a relationship in their teens so it can be considered a long time if they get into their first relationship in their 20’s for example!
I am 21 now and I have never had a boyfriend!
That could be considered a long time!
@@Caitzeee i mostly blame it on TV shows or the media since alot of these shows show teens getting in relationships. But to be honest I actually feel like most people do not get in relationships in their teens/highschool
Yea this honestly annoyed me too .. waiting so long is when ur 40 and single.. just saying
In this podcast I realized how Amy is absolutely hilarious
The Cimorelli podcast letter sign between Lisa and Lauren that M is definitely an upside down W, lol
If both people in a household work, both should do the chores - not just one, imo. If you see something needs done, do it if you have time - not imply why the other person hasn't. Implement this now, before you're 10-15 years down the road and burned out from always giving too much of yourself.
I enjoy the fact you still let us poor folk be able to be a part of podcasts. I’m grateful that i still get to watch podcasts and you still get to make money off patreon.
this was such a great convo! I too am single. For myself though, it's because I am waiting for who I think God has for me. It's hard being a Christian young lady bc we don't have all the men in the world at our fingertips. If we want a man who loves God too, sometimes we have to wait a little longer than others. But I know it'll be worth the wait!
Amen sistah!! ✨
I love the couch set up... Cimorelli are the most genuine, sweet youtubers ever
9:28 (Lisa) literally me after sitting in the same chair for 4 hours hahahahha
Who else doesn't want to be in a relationship but loves hearing what they have to say anyway 😂
I love how all of you guys have different stories that are all really relevant and helpful to us!
This episode is for me! Just turned 24 and I’m single. This year was the year I decided I was ready to date more however covid kind of spoiled that. When things are safer again I’m going to try to get out of my comfort zone in dating
Yasss good luck sweetie ❤️❤️
It will probably not happen for a few years. Brace yourself and hope for the best but expect the worst
-so... This is MY FAULT?!
-No! No no no no, i wasn't saying that
Lisa : -Yeah you have to clarify!... 😂😂😂😂😂
This set up is giving me college dorm vibes and I’m here for it
Don't make a moral judgement on not completing "care tasks" (daily chores, cooking, cleaning) these never end and it's not a sin to take a break.
Lisa's face expression in the thumbnail though- she looked ready to kill
she looks like a maniac 😂
When Lauren was talking about her mental blocks, it just felt really relatable for me right now.
20:03 Amy: anyway, that didn't work out. Unfortunately for him.
HAHAHA I love Amy 😂
38:32 I think that’s the first time I heard Lisa call Lauren Lolo
cute cute cute
23:16
⬇️Petition for to Amy cover Running
Yas
An icon of her time
Amy I felt that. I’m 23 and I have the “friend zone filter.” I’ve been with my bf for 2 & a half years now & we have a place together now but it took that 2 years and a lot of changing to get out of that...I’m still going through it tbh. Like I still get in moods where I’m like distant ish & miss my family etc plus I’m so used to being alone that I usually just do things on my own bc I’m used to it etc
I love how Lauren and Amy are single pringles but they are completely unbothered about this topic 🥺
Katherine's smile makes me smile 😊
Amy, I've also never been in a relationship because I always friendzone myself!😂 My fear comes from a place of rejection/abandonment. I hate losing friends, so I'm afraid if I tell a girl that I like her, she won't feel the same way, and then things will get awkward and I might lose her friendship. So I'd rather suffer in silence and stay friends than to speak up and risk losing her.
My best friend was single for years, and eventually she just gave God the reins and asked Him to do whatever he wanted. A week later she met a guy who she is now in a very serious relationship with. It just goes to show that as soon as you give up on what you want, you’ll get what you need.
I love Amy. She has always had a special place in my heart. My daughter is so much like her❤️
Time to listen to this while I avoid my responsibilities
confirmo! >
DON'T MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY
38:29
LAURISAAAA
we love Lisa calling Lauren LoLo hhaha
I can relate to Amy! Friendzoning yourself because you're too scared haha
New segment idea:
Chatting with Charles
Playing with Penelope
Ghosting with Ghost
NGL wreally need a segment with Lisa’s children
Jkjkjkjk I wish tho
And apparently ppl want to see Hanging with Hank (I feel like we need a theme song there) hahaha
Don’t forget about Amy’s fish Hank! 😂
Omg yessss
Hanging with Hank!
Awww you guysss this is one of my new favorite episodes. these genuinely make rough days so much better :')
You all are like angels thank y’all 🙏🏻
Oh wow, I am an ISFJ and I've always felt like Lauren could be one too because I feel our personalities are very similar, and now it turns out you are one! 😱 And I feel the same about the not wanting to blend in.
Lisa’s husband sounds like such a sweet guy 🥺 I’m so happy for her! ❤️
Amazing as usual, Lauren is so cute and lovely expressing herself 😊 (p.s. you all are the best!! )
Could you guys do a podcast/touch on seeking mental health help in a religious environment like asking your parents to go to therapy and how religion affects your mental health journey. I am currently struggling with mental health issues and my anxiety is keeping me from making friendships and romantic relationships. I love you guys! ❤️
Amy is a surefire treat to listen to! Very fun to be around 💛
didn't dani just badly bleach her hair where it was coming out in chunks LOL
LOLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
Lisa’s voice impression....... 👌👌 impeccable
Something I observed in the first 6 minutes: the conversation dynamic between Amy and Christina is so bizarre. Amy will ask a question a pointed question to her (out of genuine respect and interest, I'm assuming) and then Christina will answer the question to everyone else while pointedly ignoring Amy. Christina, she even complimented you a few times and you had no reaction. Can you please comment on this? The majority of North American, socialized people would interpret this as rude behaviour on your part. And it's happened in many other videos too, prior to any hormonal changes and the like. You're a good Christian woman, can you please answer my questions in good faith?
Perfect timing ya'll - just sitting down to draw ❤
notice the "m" on their lightbox is an upside-down "w' (look in the bottom left corner the word "cimorelli") 11:41
really enjoyed this episode🥰🥰 the beginning about getting out of ur comfort zone and making goals you can control is what i needed to hear! and i relate to amy about the grocery store thing HAHA
I don't think anyone realizes that no one is in a rush to date. Esau from the Bible in the first book was not married until he was forty. So was his brother Jacob.
Y'all always make me crave cold water when I watch these! 😆 love the unintentional positive influence. Can't wait for my Cimorelli merch to come in the mail 🤘
I'm early and I'm hear for it. I love you guys. Your podcasts help me a lot❤️
Katherine you have always the best advice!
ooooooohhhh! I LOVE the change of filming setting!
You all got really good at this podcast stuff! Great job all around. Wish the brothers would join in sometime! Heck even the husbands !
Loved that it was Lauren’s take this round! The stuff of greatness ! I tell ya.
I’m shook that Lisa’s married! Congrats! He’s one fortunate man!
OK but never stop !!!! Thank you for everything ❤
When I’m trying to do something that I need to do but I’m uncomfortable, I just say “f*#@k it” and do it. When I say that I let go of the outcome and just do the thing.
I'm an INFJ, but considering it has been years since I took the Myers-Briggs test, I wonder if my result would be different if I were to take it again.
I mean I am a simple Muslim girl I see a new Cimorelli video, I SCREAM and I click.
I love them that I feel I am their invisible sister. Is that weird?
Yes
@@ab-jf2re ouch
I needed this so much!! Thank you!💖
I love you guys so much! Thanks for being you! 💜💜💜
Yes to everything Katherine said. I always thought I needed to date an Artist, because I am creative myself. My husband is the most uncreative man ever. He still fits so well Into my life. And if my mother wouldn't have let go of her standards to date someone as athletic as herself, me and my sister would have never been born. You just never know, who your heart ist going to say "yes" to.
19:55 me to every math problem
14:51 Kath: I still am!
Amy: single!
Hahahah
18:52 THIS IS WHY WE LOVE AMY!!!
Haha when they said they love the name Coco T I laughed cause in a passed episode that person asked a question and they said they loved the name! I have listened to all the episodes on apple podcasts so many times, I remember the smallest details lol
They always give the best advice
Thanks for being so open about your lives!
I love Amy's hair!
that's why i love these queens!!!❤️👸
I was so happy Lauren was completely real and authentic, can totally relate to her & like how she admitted she sees therapy
THE INTRO-
10:08 AAAHHH THAT REALLY HIT HOME FOR ME RN
You guys are so inspirational and gorgeous (Lauren) you guys are also so enjoyable to watch 💖💗❤️
Someone please explain how Lisa's hair works-with the front bleached streak, where sometimes it's there, sometimes it's not!
those pictures/videos were just taken before she dyed it
@@kayladixon5361 ok thanks, I've just felt like I see both, and trying to make sense of it ;p
Amys confidence lately 😍😍😍
The thumbnail HAHAHA
“You know who didn’t have a relationship? Jesus.” 🤣🤣😂😂
Lol Katherine I love you but also this is so true & I remind my friends of this all the time!!
I loved this episode so much ❤️
I am like Amy in that I'm 25 and single and never been in a serious relationship, however I think my reasoning is a bit different. I am overweight and I have a major fear of being rejected, so I rather not put myself out there and not get hurt then put myself out there and have that fear of being rejected come true. I also always (similar to Amy) assume that any passes guys make are just them being friendly, as I guess I don't see how anyone can be actually interested in me. I feel like that sounds really pathetic and sad and I'm working to have a better self image, but alas it is still an issue I'm trying to over come.
18:58 my sister when I tell on her about stealing my stuff-
Loooove the Cimorelli Podcast🥰☺️🎉
The Lord’s angels: So, will the last name be Cim, or Elli?
The Lord: Yes
I was just wondering where did you guys get the tapestry in the background from because it is amazing! 🥳💜
I have the same one and I believe I got it from Amazon
@@dasiapeters962 ok thanks! 😊
This is so good!
This is Buddha thank all of u for just being able to talk like y'all do God bless y'all all
Ahhhhhh I’m so early and so excited I just wanna say I love you guys so much!!!!!!!
Hi Michelle. Are you from Ghana?
@@gloria6171 I am Ghanaian!!!!
Me too!!
Hey! Early/first!! I’m a big fan yuh
The ninjas in my room enjoyed this 😉
Love y’all!!
I love the Cimorelli Podcarst
love u guys!!! 💛
Lisa's face in the thumbnail though 😂
when it says 15 seconds ago
Please put season 3 4 5 on apple podcasts!
Where did Katherine get her sweater? So Cute!!
Yep, Lisa was definitely pregnant when this was filmed. 😂 She’s the best! So real. ❤️
I have to say Christina your hair color looks good 😌♥️
Kath looks so pretty