FINALLY OPENING UP ABOUT MY POSTPARTUM EXPERIENCE

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  • I finally decided to open up about my postpartum experience. It was definitely a lot harder than I expected. And included a roller coaster of emotions.
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    -Trace and Lydia🫶🏼
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  • @JolovesDecor
    @JolovesDecor Месяц назад +558

    There’s a block button. Use it. This is the enemy attacking you. Don’t let anyone tear you down. You’re a wonderful mother, and a Christian. Gods got you. You’re loved, respected, prayed for, and supported . ❤ for any child to be as blessed as yours is that. Blessed. Unfortunately, there are very evil people out there. Just know Jesus has you.

    • @48grandmachocolate
      @48grandmachocolate Месяц назад +29

      That's right it's the enemy the thief cometh not but to steal, and to kill and to destroy Jesus said but I have come that they might have life and have it more abundantly

    • @48grandmachocolate
      @48grandmachocolate Месяц назад +26

      You are a great mom and dad ryker is doing great and he is handsome smart sw

    • @sandybarth1
      @sandybarth1 Месяц назад +23

      Too many people hide behind the anonymity of the internet. They say things in writing they wouldn't dare to say to your face. They are the ones with problems, not you!
      Don't let people that don't know you bring you down.
      ❤ You are loved by your husband and family and your precious little boy.❤
      Anyone else and their snotty opinions can go pound sand!

    • @veelux76
      @veelux76 Месяц назад +10

      I couldn’t have said it better

    • @michellecarter5456
      @michellecarter5456 Месяц назад +14

      You can only block so many people though. And you have to go to there message to block them and see them. Sometimes just deleting and separating your self is the best.
      Lydia your an amazing mom! Everything is about learning don’t stress it! ❤❤❤

  • @Adri-oj3yt
    @Adri-oj3yt Месяц назад +205

    I cannot believe people could be so rude and obnoxious. They should be ashamed of themselves. Stop hurting this beautiful couple and family.

    • @katefrench7341
      @katefrench7341 Месяц назад +12

      It says more about that person than it does about Trace and Lydia. Just a nasty unhappy person in my opinion..that just wanted to hurt someone. Trace and Lydia has us here on YT they have to know that we love them and support them here.

    • @susanmine
      @susanmine Месяц назад

      ​@@katefrench7341oh wonderful for you how you want to fit in the mold of her perfect family. She thinks she is so much better than everybody else. Perfect life. I can't stand stuck up people like her. Christian, my ass. Everyone wants to parade around her and have her perfect life. Just shut up., lydia

  • @user-sb2ez9zc8t
    @user-sb2ez9zc8t Месяц назад +139

    For every hater, there are probably 10,000 of us who love you. So sorry you had to go through all of that. So thankful for your families for the support they give you. You are blessed. ❤

  • @melinda123ism
    @melinda123ism Месяц назад +137

    Trace & Lydia, you are WONDERFUL parents!!!! I'm a retired family therapist and I've followed you from day #1. Recall that you are engaged in a spiritual battle foremost! You represent everything that Satan hates. Don't let him take you down emotionally, physically, or mentally. His time is short and he's raging war on family right now.
    Sending YOU lots of LOVE, SUPPORT, and ENCOURAGEMENT from Alabama!!!

    • @connecttotech1265
      @connecttotech1265 Месяц назад +4

      You nailed it! Wonderful reply to support an amazing young family!

    • @jenniferharper1875
      @jenniferharper1875 Месяц назад +2

      It's true that people that follow Jesus are often treated unfairly. But yes Jesus is the way and will help all of us! AMEN! :)

    • @noorbohamad5796
      @noorbohamad5796 24 дня назад

      @@jenniferharper1875nobody should be treated unfairly

  • @jodifoster1973
    @jodifoster1973 Месяц назад +203

    There are so many evil people out there that love nothing more than to hurt us. Don't listen to the noise cus that's all it is. You're a great mother and that's all that's important.

  • @phillisgodwin84
    @phillisgodwin84 Месяц назад +114

    Anyone that sees Lydia with him, knows she is a wonderful, loving mom. ❤️

  • @lyndacrossman4101
    @lyndacrossman4101 Месяц назад +44

    HAVING BEEN A CHILD PROTECTED INVESTIGATOR...YOU HAVE NO WORRIES...THE CHILD HAS A SAFE HOME, LOTS OF LOVE, CLEAN AND WELL FED. BEEN A NURSE FOR OVER 30 YRS...NO WORRIES!! HUGS LYDIA!!

    • @TinasCrazyLife
      @TinasCrazyLife Месяц назад

      The girl who does report this needs to be investigated for pretty much abandoning her special needs child to bash people online

  • @bethleblanc3775
    @bethleblanc3775 Месяц назад +62

    Shame on them. A new mother needs all the support and encouragement you can get. You’re a great mother.

  • @patriciastarkey4951
    @patriciastarkey4951 Месяц назад +157

    Lydia and Trace I am a pediatric RN and you are awesome parents!!!

    • @jessicavanness2934
      @jessicavanness2934 Месяц назад +5

      You would know if Lydia is doing things wrong.

    • @NancyParish
      @NancyParish Месяц назад +1

      Lydia, I’m a child development specialist and educator. You are both doing a super job, and did from the beginning. It’s sad that a person who didn’t take the time to investigate and find out truth before opening her mouth did that to your family, and shame on all her minions who also failed to do their homework before attacking new parents. It sounds very much like an attention seeking. SMH

  • @kde2610
    @kde2610 Месяц назад +86

    Satan is controlling a lot of people!! All they do is spew evil!! Let's be real ... honestly, critism does hurt. We just need to remember where those lies are arising. Both of you are wonderful!! You're such a very loving Mommy whose love for her little one exudes from every part of you!! May God bless your entire sweet family!! ❤

  • @allie8812
    @allie8812 Месяц назад +51

    Lydia you are an incredible mother don't let anyone tell you different... Ryker is the happiest baby ever... Trace you are an incredible Husband And Father.

  • @dianabeauchesne6121
    @dianabeauchesne6121 Месяц назад +38

    It’s pathetic that people used you for their own social media gains. You guys are great parents and we all can see it. Block the negative and focus on the positive people who love watching your family. Sending you a big virtual hug. ❤

  • @karenseay2225
    @karenseay2225 Месяц назад +175

    Please don't listen to the haters. Anyone who would say ugly hurtful things to someone they don't even know and only see a small snippet of your life has no business telling you ANYTHING! There is not a thing wrong with anything you've said or done. You just keep God first and do what you need to do. Love and prayers going up for y'all!
    Oh my goodness.....he's still the spitting image of Gil Bates!

    • @suefriesen1161
      @suefriesen1161 Месяц назад +14

      I’m so sorry you and Trace had to go through all of this,both of you love the Lord,you are great parents to a cute healthy boy,best wishes to all of you,

    • @user-el9lp7cw1v
      @user-el9lp7cw1v Месяц назад +2

      Trace and Lydia you are wonderful parents I absolutely love your videos of you all and all of your family. Ryker is getting so big and he does look like papa Gill I said that from day one, also it is so sweet how your visiting your grandparents mama Jane and papa their so sweet and you guys are the best. Most importantly I’m sorry that all that happened just be mindful some people are just hateful and so judgemental just enjoy your family, love you all 🥰

  • @marianne362
    @marianne362 Месяц назад +122

    Lydia, you are a great Mom and Trace is a great Dad! It shows in your beautiful, happy, healthy baby!

  • @jangrady1061
    @jangrady1061 Месяц назад +53

    Have you ever noticed how brave people are behind a computer?! Those people would NEVER say awful things to your face. You are both doing great. Love to you all. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @sarahludos7970
      @sarahludos7970 Месяц назад +2

      I so agree with you, I say the same thing! I can’t imagine how unhappy they are.

    • @M_momlifestyle
      @M_momlifestyle Месяц назад +6

      If it’s the creator I’m thinking of she would. And she’s ruining so many people’s lives!! I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Especially at such a stressful time with everything else. 😔

    • @goose4397
      @goose4397 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@M_momlifestyleif we r both thinking of the same creator, there's no way she'd say it to their faces. She's terrified of being confronted in person bc of her actions online. She doesn't even leave her house. She has gone nowhere in the last 4yrs, except to the liquor store & to get botox injected into her forehead boil 😂her karma is coming she's so evil & she's gonna reap what she has sewn

    • @M_momlifestyle
      @M_momlifestyle Месяц назад +2

      @goose4397 Actually, I’m sure you’re right. And keeps saying “I’m not going to a faceless channel, or just a voiceover.” When in fact, that’s exactly what she’s done. I can’t watch anymore lol

    • @LaraCroftEyes1
      @LaraCroftEyes1 Месяц назад +1

      You omitted to mention that she would film it, as she enjoys being the center of attention.

  • @carrielynn1978
    @carrielynn1978 Месяц назад +39

    Oh Lydia!!! Girl, no one is a perfect parent and God does not send an instruction manual for these little blessings! Everything is trial and error and life is messy. In the end,though, kids are such a joy and a true blessing. Don't listen to the haters! You and Trace are doing amazing and little Ryker is so cute!

  • @pamelacoffos6288
    @pamelacoffos6288 Месяц назад +56

    All babies loose weight after they are born. You two are great parents .Ryker is blessed to have you two as parents.

  • @cindylaffoon607
    @cindylaffoon607 Месяц назад +84

    Honey don't let anyone still your joy. Your doing a wonderful job! Keep smiling!!

  • @dsf114
    @dsf114 Месяц назад +34

    My most useful saying is, "What other people think of me is none of my business." It's just an opinion and everybody has one. It speaks more about THEM than about you. When I took that onboard, I no longer cared what other people said about me, because they did not reflect who I am, only who they are. They are cowards who would not say to your face what they type online. You're good people, great parents, and it shows!

  • @kellyg3749
    @kellyg3749 Месяц назад +17

    Personally I don’t think it mattered how you worded it. Some horrible person reads a few sentences and then thinks they know your whole life. This person had zero knowledge about you and your family’s life but felt qualified to give opinions. That not only makes me angry it also makes me very sad. Sometimes people can be so ignorant and ugly. God was and always is on your side, and He is always there to help us navigate through the hard times. You have a beautiful heart and a beautiful family. I honestly feel that there are some people who are broken somewhere inside so they want others to feel the same as them. Please stay happy,healthy and safe and know that you are loved. Much love and prayers from Colorado Springs, Colorado ❤😊

  • @MegaCj65
    @MegaCj65 Месяц назад +37

    This broke my heart. Anyone can tell you to ignore the hate, but we are all human, and with it coming from every angle, it becomes impossible. I'm proud of you for rising above it. Keep rising above it and continue to speak your truth. That in itself will be healing for you. Sending you all the best wishes, Lydia! ❣

  • @alikatt
    @alikatt Месяц назад +137

    Trace and Lydia, I am so disgusted by the behavior of that creator. What she did to you was criminal! I hope you're doing better.

    • @dogmom7712
      @dogmom7712 Месяц назад +4

      Which creator said all of this?

    • @alikatt
      @alikatt Месяц назад

      @@dogmom7712 That would be Without a Crystal Ball. She's tame on RUclips. Her Facebook and Instagram are nasty and she has a habit of writing very nasty, defamatory statements and deleting them hours later as though nothing happened.

    • @Lambchop7
      @Lambchop7 Месяц назад

      Katie Joy Paulson, Without a Crystal Ball. There is a reason she is currently in her 6th (maybe 7th) defamation lawsuit. The most problematic, vile, piece of garbage RUclipsr.

    • @jenniferrice8137
      @jenniferrice8137 Месяц назад +19

      Probably the crystal ball crazy lady

    • @anniefenter8697
      @anniefenter8697 Месяц назад +12

      Wow, had no idea this was happening. I have been enjoying seeing Ryker grow up, and he is beautiful and so sweet.❤❤

  • @robinburke4133
    @robinburke4133 Месяц назад +41

    And also, I admire the Bates family for their love and support of each other. That’s what family is all about. And I’m sure Lydia that your family is the same way. They seem very sweet.

  • @jennifercody6936
    @jennifercody6936 Месяц назад +33

    You went through complete abuse by these folks. You both are beautiful people and the world needs more parents like you. ❤ and our world needs more families like yours❤

  • @alinafrankowski4371
    @alinafrankowski4371 Месяц назад +85

    Don’t listen to stupid people❤❤

    • @HLuna-qe5ts
      @HLuna-qe5ts Месяц назад +9

      I totally agree. When someone is talking about bad things about you, more blessings will come to you and your family🙏❤️

  • @melindercaudell2682
    @melindercaudell2682 Месяц назад +56

    I had no idea you were going through this. People are so cruel. I am so sorry you went through this. You are amazing parents.

  • @mymakersdaughter6041
    @mymakersdaughter6041 Месяц назад +25

    Oh beloved Lydia! This video brought me to tears! 😢 I don’t like social media! But please hear this and hear it clearly, as believers we know that we live in a very broken sinful world. People are hurting immensely, and they use the keyboard to express their feelings because they would never say these things to our face! They don’t have the hope of salvation that we have! It is so hard to be a woman and we are harder on ourselves than anyone else. The pressure to be a perfect mother, perfect wife, to be healthy, to be fit, to do everything because the world has told us we can have it all which is a lie from the adversary! We need to straighten each other 👑 when they’re falling down! We need to encourage and edify and applaud each other! A lot of times when I’m in the store and I see a mama in the store struggling; I say to her mama; you’re doing a great job! And every single time I say that she says thank you so much you have no idea what that means to me! Lydia, all those hateful comments that you were getting are from the enemy! You are a fantastic mother! Trace and you need to raise your baby the way you feel is best! I signed the petition for you and your families deportation and I will continue to support your family in anyway I can! The Bible tells us to pray for our enemies! They’re hurting and they have no hope, so sisters and brothers; let’s be bold and courageous and share the good news! Much love to you, Lydia and Trace!❤️

    • @cindyalmond2508
      @cindyalmond2508 Месяц назад +5

      I agree! Satan is trying to steal your joy. You’re fantastic parents with great family support on both sides. God bless you and keep serving him. Ryker is thriving! Love to you all!😊

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 Месяц назад +3

      @@cindyalmond2508 🤗

  • @cindymiller9548
    @cindymiller9548 Месяц назад +5

    I have never in my 62 years responded to a video. But I’m appalled and so sorry you went through that. You are wonderful parents and may God continue to bless you both.

  • @sdunger5901
    @sdunger5901 Месяц назад +55

    I can't believe how rude people were. I am so sorry you had to go through that.

  • @amandahaynes764
    @amandahaynes764 Месяц назад +51

    You are a wonderful mom. Anyone with eyes to see can see that. It's a blessing that you have so much family to help with the more difficult aspects of parenthood. Don't listen to the hateful people.

  • @peislandgirl3770
    @peislandgirl3770 Месяц назад +26

    God love you, Lydia! You had enough going on with the baby, parents and these “Keyboard Warriors” come after you! How sad of a human these people must be. Thank you for not letting them ruin your YT channel! Love from 🇨🇦

  • @barbaramiller3205
    @barbaramiller3205 Месяц назад +13

    This is exactly why I don’t share much of anything about my kids on social media. People are cruel.
    You are the best parent for your kids.

  • @user-rx7yj2hb6o
    @user-rx7yj2hb6o Месяц назад +39

    This is so heartbreaking to hear what you have had to endure from such evil people! You both are such loving parents who are guided by God's love ! Riker is blessed to have you for parents!

  • @KatzNDkradle
    @KatzNDkradle Месяц назад +50

    Please dont listen to the haters. You and Trace are both phenomenal parents. Looking beautiful as well. May God our heavenly Father continue to bless you and your family! 🌹 🙏❤️

  • @TeressaJ1960
    @TeressaJ1960 Месяц назад +7

    I can't believe anyone could say anything negative about either of you! All they have to do is watch you with him to see the enormous love and care you two put into him. He obviously adores his parents, too. I'm so sorry you had to experience that and I hope you will allow the hundreds of positive comments here to sooth your stress. There are more of us who love you than there are of those who don't. God bless you all.

  • @joymccullar1612
    @joymccullar1612 Месяц назад +11

    Lydia. You’re a beautiful person and excellent mother. Naysayers are always there. I’m sorry you had to go through all of that.

  • @tinaseidel5778
    @tinaseidel5778 Месяц назад +32

    THAT IS CRAZY I have watch all your videos and NEVER thought any of that in fact I thought you were such a good mom, beautiful, and so sweet. That is so sad you went through that.

  • @tami162
    @tami162 Месяц назад +100

    I’m sorry without a crystal ball did that to you. She’s an awful person and has unfortunately done this to many others. The best things you can do with someone like her is push back and send a cease and desist. Ignoring her doesn’t work. You guys are doing a great job!!

    • @bethannnelson5375
      @bethannnelson5375 Месяц назад +33

      I am so sorry that WOCB did that you! She has hurt so many wonderful families and I have heard she is a non believer so obviously Satan is in control of her and so many of her followers! You and Trace are wonderful parents and we all know the truth! Don’t let her steal your joy!

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 Месяц назад +26

      I do not watch her videos and I feel sorry for her because clearly she doesn’t know God and doesn’t have a personal relationship with Him! It is so sad that this is the only way she can make a living by gossiping and spreading lies about other peoples real life issues. Clearly, she needs Jesus! How awful for her children to know that this is how their mother makes a living! It’s really sad and I pray that she gets the counseling that she SO desperately needs!

    • @Blinda41
      @Blinda41 Месяц назад

      I figured it was KJ. That girl has rabbit hate for any thing IBLP or anybody that might remotely be related to it and that's how she makes her money I figured that long ago she is she just doesn't even see the truth if it's in her face and the ridiculous part is she's had child services called on her she knows what it's like yet she is the ringleader of hate

    • @cynthiajames-brown4510
      @cynthiajames-brown4510 Месяц назад +12

      Love and prayers from Soddy-Daisy, TN . It's terrible that you've been treated so badly . You're wonderful parents . NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU SHALL PROSPER .

    • @gailangermeyer4786
      @gailangermeyer4786 Месяц назад +19

      I stopped watching WOCB along time ago,

  • @donnagarretson3621
    @donnagarretson3621 Месяц назад +11

    You are great parents and that was evident from the get-go. Mean people have too much time on their hands; remember the Devil is a liar and the father of it, so the Devil always knows where to hit below the belt especially when you are at a weak place in body and emotions. God bless you all and keep up the great parenting. This little guy is growing up surrounded by love which is genuine. I praise the Lord for godly and loving people like yourselves.

  • @janetflorine2669
    @janetflorine2669 Месяц назад +4

    Usually, when people put other people down, they're jealous of them. You're a wonderful mom. God loves you, all your family loves you. We love you. 🥰 The haters are going to hate, especially when they're jealous.
    Don't listen to them!!!

  • @lyndabyrne3023
    @lyndabyrne3023 Месяц назад +26

    Trace and Lydia, as a mom of four, your doing a great job.
    Haters don't like to see others happy and content .
    Well done , love from Lynda in Ireland 🇮🇪.

  • @lianet777
    @lianet777 Месяц назад +22

    Man.. i had NO idea all this stuff happened... im very sorry that you guys went through all of that. God bless you both and the baby❤

  • @suestephan3255
    @suestephan3255 Месяц назад +6

    Ahh Trace & Lydia thank the Lord for Jesus. I am just stunned that that blew up like that. So untrue. We were all watching the same thing seeing what wonderful parents you are. Trace you were a big blessing to Lydia in how you took control of things and was a super wonderful husband & father. Lydia we literally saw & see such a loving doting mother. Again thankful for Jesus!!!! Our Rock

  • @anarhlia
    @anarhlia Месяц назад +4

    Lydia it’s absolutely massive what you went through, pregnancy with a little baby that you thought may have had restricted growth, plus your families deportation, and all of it looming over head while you just want to celebrate a little life.
    People are so mean, you are amazing.

  • @turner23kc
    @turner23kc Месяц назад +26

    I am so sorry for you guys! I remember seeing this back then and I remember who started the accusation and it is disgusting. People like that should not be allowed to have a platform to make money off of lies! You don’t have to take on the blame this person would have found anything to accuse you of…it is what they do. It is so easy to see how wonderful you guys are as parents. Keep up the good work!

  • @AngelBluff
    @AngelBluff Месяц назад +25

    Guys some ppl just have mean hearts. Most of the time that kind of stuff is out of pure jealously. Please just block them the first time they says something mean. You do not need to deal with that kind of BS. That is unbelievable that someone would go to that length. Really makes me mad! You are a wonderful mother. These ppl saying other wise don't know you. PLEASE block them! Right now there is a small but loud group of ppl that are anti-Christian. They are trying to hurt you on purpose. Don't let the devil in! You two are wonderful parents and wonderful role models for young ppl

    • @cjb2749
      @cjb2749 Месяц назад +3

      There is no blocking Woacb.. she has many sock accounts and she isn't above making new ones daily in order to sneak in somewhere that she isn't wanted. She doesn't do well with even the slightest form of rejection, and she obsesses over getting revenge, so while it IS best to avoid her at all costs, it's also very difficult

    • @AngelBluff
      @AngelBluff Месяц назад

      @@cjb2749 ahhh I had no ideal they were talking about without a crystal ball!! That explains it. I know who she is well. She is full of herself trying to make content by lying on people. I couldnt figure out who in the world would be so mean knowing now it is WOACB explains it all. She certainly isnt one who should be talking about people not taking care of their kids. She has had many encounters with DHS over her son. THANK YOU @cjb2749 Now knowing it was her makes sense WOACB hates Christians I should of known it was her

  • @deborahenos3127
    @deborahenos3127 Месяц назад +10

    You're both wonderful. My mom and dad stayed with my grandma the first week of my life cuts my mom was afraid to take care of me by herself. That's what family is for.

    • @cjb2749
      @cjb2749 Месяц назад +1

      I stayed with my parents for the first 3weeks of my daughter's life, just for reassurance and to have backup while I was learning how to be a mother.. it's really not an uncommon thing to do, at all

  • @MitMag-id1ij
    @MitMag-id1ij Месяц назад +3

    Lydia, just heard the intro on your video. People are jealous of you. You are young, beautiful, talented, and more importantly a believer in Jesus. The devil hates those of who walk with Christ! You are an incredibly loving, joyful mom! Ryker is blessed to have you and Trace for parents! God bless you!

  • @sunshinevandever4828
    @sunshinevandever4828 Месяц назад +17

    I'm so sorry you had to experience all that garbage! You can tell by looking at Ryker that he is well cared for by his parents!

  • @mountaingirl8124
    @mountaingirl8124 Месяц назад +14

    You guys are AMAZING parents and come from AMAZING parents. The Enemy is on the prowl for those doing God’s will. As believers, we are targets. Praying for your sweet family, God bless! (Love, from another TN Bates family!)

  • @rucker1977
    @rucker1977 Месяц назад +11

    This person loves drama! You guys are doing an amazing job!

  • @missbarbarajean
    @missbarbarajean Месяц назад +8

    This infuriates me! I wish I had known and could have least encouraged you. You did/are doing an excellent job! Ryker is such a beautiful boy and you both obviously love him very much. I'm so sorry you went through that. I am a great grandmother (I can't believe how fast that happened) and when my first baby was born we were nowhere near family, but my mother and grandmother drove hundreds of miles to come help me for awhile. I was only 18 and my husband was in the Army in Washington DC. I didn't even have friends. I am just so thankful you share your beautiful life with us. I am humbled and encouraged by such wonderful young parents. God bless you and prayers that you will have your rainbow baby very soon!

  • @BakersAcresFarm
    @BakersAcresFarm Месяц назад +14

    I’m so sorry you were treated in such a horrible way. You are doing great!! Keep up the good work and 🙏🏼God blesses you all with a rainbow baby soon😘

  • @omirasantillanes5150
    @omirasantillanes5150 Месяц назад +19

    Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Saturday evening and night with baby Ryker and he is so cute and adorable and he is 7 months old and he is getting so big already.

  • @katiemckenna1521
    @katiemckenna1521 Месяц назад +8

    Oh y’all. I’m so sorry for the difficulty you have faced in such a vulnerable time in your lives. Wish I could have given you a hug! From one former EP mama to another, you are a ROCKSTAR. Sending all kinds of love your way. ❤️

  • @Motherhood2Menopause
    @Motherhood2Menopause Месяц назад +4

    Lydia you ARE a wonderful MOMMY!!!! Do not listen to those “keyboard warriors”/aka trolls who would never say to you in person what they say to you in this forum .we absolutely love you guys so much . I love how good Maui is with Ryker SOO sweet and gentle. Stay strong! You will be gifted your rainbow baby in the Lords perfect time . Don’t ever let your shining light dim!

  • @lealuby884
    @lealuby884 Месяц назад +11

    Bless your hearts. I truly do not understand people acting like that. Y'all are doing a great job with Ryker!

  • @Happywatcher962
    @Happywatcher962 Месяц назад +12

    There is only One who can/will judge us. The rest who try are just blowing words in the wind. You guys are great parents and Ryker is doing good and God knows when will be the best time to Bless you with a brother/sister for him.

  • @salliecinnamon
    @salliecinnamon Месяц назад +3

    I’m sorry that happened to you. Absolutely insane. Many new parents hire baby nurses to stay with them to assist with care for the baby, so if one is fortunate to have family to help - that’s awesome! No need to apologize for how you previously worded anything in those early newborn days - you owe us no explanation. Take care, thank you for sharing your family with us! ❤

  • @annielyst
    @annielyst Месяц назад +6

    That is soooo awful Lydia! I'm very sorry to hear how bad it was. I know who that influencer is - she needs to worry about how she's raising her own kid and mind her own business. I was shocked when I heard what she was saying about you - I didn't know she said for people to call CPS. I am glad you had so much support. You are a terrific mom - he is so alert. I think he's going to be super smart.

  • @bethtaig
    @bethtaig Месяц назад +13

    I’m so very sorry you had to go through that. You are so fortunate to have the loving support you had. I helped my daughter. You did do everything right. There are some very nasty mean spirited people in this world. Every baby loses weight. Huge hugs 🤗

  • @sherrylee1072
    @sherrylee1072 Месяц назад +15

    I’m sooooo sorry y’all had to go through that! What is wrong with people! Love y’all

  • @scrapper900
    @scrapper900 Месяц назад +5

    I can’t imagine having my first baby literally on blast! People can be so awful. My mother gave me some very sound advice after I gave birth. I asked her how do I do it. How can I do all the things, all the time. I’m so tired! She said you do “whatever works”! I’m so sorry you were robbed of this experience that should have been peaceful. Motherhood is HARD!!! If you need extra hands…take advantage of the love! You are doing perfect momma! Don’t let anyone tell you different! ❤

  • @MonicaLopez-js4zn
    @MonicaLopez-js4zn Месяц назад +5

    Lydia so sorry that happened to you, you seem like the most sweetest, kindhearted person. Some people will say that it comes with putting your life out there, but many fail to realize that the only one that should judge us is God!

  • @papaapple93
    @papaapple93 Месяц назад +13

    Thank you sharing your post partum experience it was touching listening to you express what you had gone through. You and Trace are truly terrific parents to your son and you’ll continue to be wonderful parents as Ryker grows. I love watching your RUclips channel videos, looking forward to the next video I can see how much time and attention you put into each one and it is always appreciated

  • @Happywatcher962
    @Happywatcher962 Месяц назад +17

    Lydia I'm so sorry you had such a hard time. Your next time will be better.

  • @LisaR2392
    @LisaR2392 Месяц назад +3

    I had mine before social media…. I think people don’t realize anymore that you don’t owe anyone a play by play of your daily life. I can’t imagine posting everything for everyone. I was in another world and didn’t care about anything but my baby. I lost track of even what day it was. You DONT OWE ANYONE ANY INFORMATION about your life!! Us here that are here every week are just thankful for what you choose to share that brightens our day❤

  • @tammygeorge2756
    @tammygeorge2756 Месяц назад +2

    My heart was breaking, hearing about the horrible things that a few were saying and spreading about you all and Ryker. I love you both, and celebrate your family and your faith. Family helping one another is such a blessing for us all, from birth to death, we all need each other. Those of us that follow you, and the rest of the Bates family, are all blessed by your examples. None of us are perfect, but the love of God, through family and friends, makes our lives full. Blessings to you all and prayers for your continued healing and health 🙏💕

  • @jenniferanngoebel875
    @jenniferanngoebel875 Месяц назад +7

    I’m a mom of six and there are so many haters out there and people who think they know better than anyone else , or their way is the only way ! My advice to new moms is always to enjoy and embrace all those precious newborn moments even though they are usually very challenging, ask questions from people who you trust and admire the way the have raised there babies but ultimately I always say trust your motherly instincts because you are really the only one who knows what’s best for your child specific needs and grant your self grace , no matter how many children you have you are always learning new things and new ways to parent. You guys are amazing!l You love for each other and your baby is so evident! I have also had 2 miscarriages they are so hard but you are not alone. I hope you are blessed with a rainbow baby when end you are ready ❤

  • @krispettit6355
    @krispettit6355 Месяц назад +9

    So sorry you had to deal with that kind of thing as a new mother!! Some people are just evil & have nothing better to do with their time than to hurt others being their lives are so miserable!! Should something like that ever happen again, just know that God has your back, know that you’re a good person & that whoever is spreading hate is a sad & desperate fool trying to cause pain for their own twisted satisfaction! Don’t allow them into your world! Don’t let them win!! You & Trace are beautiful Christians living your lives with his best interests at heart! Keep doin what your doin 👍🙏🏻🫵🙏🏻💪🙏🏻🫶🙏🏻

  • @ruthwarren8685
    @ruthwarren8685 Месяц назад +3

    I am shocked! I had no idea this happened to you guys, especially Lydia! You are an amazing precious giving Mama to Ryker and Trace is an awesome husband and Daddy! You are a very special Godly couple and Ryker is so blessed to have you as parents! I’ll pray that God totally heals your hurts, memories of that terrible time! You three are greatly loved and admired by soooo many people! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @janschleiger6544
    @janschleiger6544 Месяц назад +5

    I am SO very sorry people were mean, rude, nasty and hateful to you. I cannot believe how awful it can be. You're a wonderful mother. Please know how much you're loved and admired. God bless you, sweet girl. You're fabulous parents. Plus, you're a new mama, get all the sleep you can. Every mama needs help and a support system. Nursing can be difficult. Don't feel guilty.

  • @susanpunako8590
    @susanpunako8590 Месяц назад +11

    Aww. So sorry you had to deal with such bad grief from negative people who felt it was necessary to be so ignorant to say such horrible things. A new parent(s) are learning how to navigate everything! It’s. Learning experience, your world is essentially turned upside down for a bit and that’s bad enough. I sure hope those picture perfect people got the feeling that they wanted from them harassing y’all. When people talk bad like that I was always told it’s them that has problems and we are supposed to pray for them. That sounds so weird but it’s true. Thanks for sharing your experience. Ryker sure looks very handsome and he likes to babble on !!

  • @user-ro5ot1px6w
    @user-ro5ot1px6w Месяц назад +9

    Ryker is a beautiful healthy happy baby and you are both loving wonderful parents!!! After 2 weeks of breast-feeding the pain will leave. ❤

  • @carlalewis6080
    @carlalewis6080 Месяц назад +5

    Don’t listen to all the negativity. You all are amazing parents and love you for sharing your videos.

  • @marsihopkins1995
    @marsihopkins1995 Месяц назад +4

    Don’t pay attention to those people you are great parents from all we’ve seen. We’re with you Lydia Trace and Ryker. Love listening to Ryker chattering in the background . Oh my goodness he is so cute and talkative. He so looks like Gil .

  • @leslieandres1349
    @leslieandres1349 Месяц назад +15

    You are an amazing mother!! I'm so sorry they bullied you and it hurt you.
    People are jealous and it's hard to see people do so well in life, when they are not happy with their life.
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @momsquared-lh4rm
    @momsquared-lh4rm Месяц назад +3

    Y'ALL ARE THE MOST AMAZING PARENTS AND IT IS TOTALLY CLEAR HOW WELL YOU CARE FOR RYKER. DO NOT LISTEN TO THE HATERS AND BLOCK THEM IF YOU CAN. I AM SO ANGRY THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU. YOU ARE SO SWEET AND LOVING!

  • @susanboyd3260
    @susanboyd3260 Месяц назад +2

    i am a RN nurse, just rinse the pump parts and stick in frig when busy, the cold slows bacteria growth, please ignore the haters. You are doing a great job, you both are wonderful parents.

  • @Godsarmylady
    @Godsarmylady Месяц назад +1

    Anyone who watches your little family can clearly see that Lydia absolutely adores her baby your wonderful frist time parents and Trace is a wonderful husband and Daddy ❤

  • @helenbell1988
    @helenbell1988 Месяц назад +8

    She is a disgrace and I was horrified when I heard that nonsense she spread.,. She is very cruel .. I hope you know now that your wonderful parents and the only parents Ryker wants or needs. !!.,, she has no right to speak on things she knows nothing about and cause any upset or anxiety for a beautiful young first time mum post partum when your emotions are up in the air and you feel criticism like that all the more . Irresponsible. You’re part of a very loving supportive family .. please never let internet trolls spoil your joy ❤

    • @user-rz5hv1yl9k
      @user-rz5hv1yl9k Месяц назад +3

      Comments like these are getting deleted! It’s just another pass woacb will get so she can continue to do what she does No accountability

    • @helenbell1988
      @helenbell1988 Месяц назад

      I just amended it … thank you

    • @Melli6000
      @Melli6000 Месяц назад

      The most evil part about all of this is WOACB targets the religious sector of youtube because she knows they will not sue! She has stated it many times that it is against their religion smdh! Biggest bully around! ​@@user-rz5hv1yl9k

  • @pamberry9167
    @pamberry9167 Месяц назад +5

    I'm so sorry you went through that. There are cruel jerks out in the world. Stay strong and don't let them define you. When i had my baby years ago. I was a wreck the 1st month plus I was a single mother. I thank God for my parents and the support system I received from them. You are surrounded with so much love and support from family and friends. There is also a great community out there supporting and praying for you.❤

  • @judiemcpherson8586
    @judiemcpherson8586 Месяц назад +1

    O my goodness you are an amazing mother ❤ and if you doubt that look at your baby how happy he is and how he just looks at both of you with those adorable stares into your eyes thanking you for being such wonderful loving parents 👶 I notice it how can you not keep being the loving parents that you are ❤

  • @musicdiva9365
    @musicdiva9365 Месяц назад +1

    Ryker is absolutely beautiful and people who don’t have anything going on in their lives are jealous. I’m on my 60’s and I’ve learned to ignore those people, it’s not worth the stress or time. Love your little family.

  • @joyzee1967
    @joyzee1967 Месяц назад +9

    So many bad people out there. You’re doing fabulous! God bless you and your little family.

  • @louisebourne5779
    @louisebourne5779 Месяц назад +5

    Hi Trace and Lydia, I’m so glad your all better after getting sick. Lydia your no way near a bad Mom and shouldn’t of had kids those people are awful never listen to the haters they have nothing better to do than try and hurt others they are disrespectful and demeaning, you are far worth more than they will ever be. Sending lots of love your way xxx 🥰

  • @Claire-yn5cx
    @Claire-yn5cx Месяц назад +1

    You are a great mom, Lydia. Ignore the people who can only say nasty things. They are not worth it to worry about it!

  • @user-cg3di4jc7y
    @user-cg3di4jc7y 7 дней назад

    Lydia, I love how honest and open you and Trace are, you two are so refreshing to watch. Thank you for sharing your lives and precious Rykers. Prayers always that God will continue to BLESS!

  • @carolboyd8532
    @carolboyd8532 Месяц назад +3

    Bless your hearts.😢 I’m so sorry you had to go through all of those stressful head games due to evil people that think they know it all. How dare they criticize your parenting skills and have the nerve to call CPS on you. All of you that called CPS and complained should be ashamed of yourself!! 😡 It should be obvious to any loyal follower of your channel. Lyda, you and Trace are doing an excellent job taking care of Ryker and meeting his every need. It’s obvious to any loyal follower Ryder is loved and well taken care of. Lyda don’t let these haters get to you. Ryker is a beautiful healthy looking baby. You’re fortunate to have such an easy going baby. I enjoy watching your videos so much. I get excited every time I see a new one to watch. May God’s blessings continue to cover your beautiful and sweet little family. Take care and be happy! God loves you and so do I, especially your precious baby boy, Ryker. 😊❤🙏

  • @Melli6000
    @Melli6000 Месяц назад +3

    Fortunately, the gossip tabloid channel that encouraged the hate and wished for more hate to pile on, has moved on to other victims to try and tear down. It’s honestly very sad.
    I can tell baby is so loved and nurtured. All of that babbling comes from attention, love and two amazing parents doing their very best to raise him❤❤❤.

  • @cheryllieberman9339
    @cheryllieberman9339 Месяц назад +1

    Lydia you are a beautiful woman and the best mom Ryker could have. Don’t listen to what other people say. They are just jealous. I’ve been watching your channel since you started. ❤❤❤❤

  • @marthanevill3360
    @marthanevill3360 Месяц назад +1

    I am a silent viewer… I don’t comment. I apologize for not doing that. You shared so many vulnerable things. Mom shaming should never happen. You are great parents! ❤

  • @sherrylee1072
    @sherrylee1072 Месяц назад +11

    And I’m glad I didn’t know anything about all this, except I would have prayed for y’all

    • @LisaGoehringer
      @LisaGoehringer Месяц назад

      Is that Ryker crying so long?

    • @sherrylee1072
      @sherrylee1072 Месяц назад +2

      @@LisaGoehringer I can hear him playing and making noise in the background, don’t sound like crying and look at his face, he doesn’t look to be crying.

  • @jeandelaney8080
    @jeandelaney8080 Месяц назад +3

    My heart is broken that folks can be so cruel! Please don’t listen to them! Don’t forget you are the son and daughter of The King!

  • @raspberrysky17
    @raspberrysky17 Месяц назад

    Your parenting skills are exemplary! Social media is unfortunately a perfect platform for bullies as they can attack others in relative anonymity. Please feel comfortable blocking them as it's crucial for your mental health and well-being. Remember, bullying reflects the character of the individual doing it and not the person in which it's aimed. Lydia, you are a beautiful, kind, smart and hard-working human being and Ryker is so blessed to have such a great mom! ❤ Trace, thanks for lovingly supporting your gorgeous, precious wife! You two are a perfect team! 💯

  • @user-sn1ft4dg8r
    @user-sn1ft4dg8r Месяц назад +2

    Haters goona hate. Ryker is a happy ,beautiful ,healthy, baby. You’ve done a wonderful job. New motherhood is hard. No one expects a new mom to know it all. Support is the key. God Bless❤

  • @barbieward4351
    @barbieward4351 Месяц назад +5

    Block that DEVIL!!! You are a wonderful mom!!! Wonderful parents

    • @marciabigg469
      @marciabigg469 Месяц назад

      Blocking her won't help, she has so many sock accounts.

  • @neeneemarie
    @neeneemarie Месяц назад +12

    Without a Crystal Ball aka Katie Joy Paulson is a horrible person. I'm so sorry she ruined your experience with your newborn. She has many, many, many victims who she's hurt. You seem like wonderful parents.

    • @user-tt8hs9ey5v
      @user-tt8hs9ey5v Месяц назад

      I heard a lot of bad stuff about her lydia please don't listen to her you guys are awesome

  • @cindygayle8
    @cindygayle8 Месяц назад

    Such a happy hard time with your first baby, and I didn’t have social media 42 years ago for advice,, thank goodness! I still remember how difficult it was to nurse, and the lack of sleep made me weepy all the time, although I loved my baby so much and felt so blessed. I still remember the wonderful smells coming out of the kitchen from my Mother’s wonderful cooking and nourishment; homemade soup and homemade bread! I can’t imagine how I would have survived without Mom’s help. Just to have her there and get her help and advice with my first was so helpful! Plus the encouragement that I was ok and things would be fine. My Mom had ten children, so she knew how important help was that first week home. Besides, I was in hard labor for three days and had an almost 9 lb 23 inch huge baby boy. You two are wonderful and are doing an amazing job with your son! This world.is full of kind people, but unfortunately, some are not so kind and judgmental!

  • @lilgirl5893
    @lilgirl5893 Месяц назад +1

    Oh Lydia my heart just breaks that you had to walk through this. Thank you for your courage in sharing what happened. I can't imagine.