Omg!!! First I still cannot believe I met you guys or that you came to my work and that my work in on here ...Second and Third ...I cannot believe after watching so many of your videos for the past year or so that I am in one and that I got shout out !!! Pretty friggin amazing! Thank you so much for making my night ! Thank you for coming there and thank you for playing amazing music!! ❤️😘 Everyone Tiffany and Chris are even more amazing in person!!! They are just as real in person as they are in their videos !!
What’s amazing about this is that we feel as excited to have met you! For those of you who don’t know Rachel, she was working her ass off at this bar until 3am or probably later and went home to sleep for a few short hours before waking up with her little boy. We appreciate you more then you know! Can’t wait to come back and play again!
"Do you want top or bottom?" I just want you to know I literally laughed out loud at the end. 😂🤣😭 Hope you guys enjoy every minute of your snuggles, your relationship is something to admire ❤️
Regarding ice cream everyone who was good gets it however the misbehaving babe doesn't. They will crack it but by physically showing what happens when they dont listen and act up makes it stick in their mind. May have to do this a few times but always works. As you know you try to explain things to kids and it just washes away 20 minutes later. It's not fair to punish the rest of the family because of one misbehaving child ❤ Love your family and asking for advice is wonderful because it really shows that you want to do the best for your family xxxx
Hey Chris & Tiffani! Congratulations on your gig Chris! My children are grown but listening to you sounds so familiar. Remember this. You don’t reward bad behavior, it’s not ok to act that way at home or in public. He is definitely trying you to see what he can get away with. Tell him it’s unacceptable and what happens if he acts out. Follow through is the biggest thing. Stop and correct it immediately. Don’t wait 2 hrs later. Setting boundaries is very important. You don’t want your other children thinking it’s ok to act like that. Believe me you will make it through this just set your limits and stick to it. Every parent goes through something like this. Sounds like you guys are doing the right thing! You will never go wrong teaching your children respect of others. Good job!
This is the sweetest family I have ever seen on youtube. Throughly enjoyed watching their wonderful content because it’s incredible all the excellent effort they put into editing their videos
If it makes you feel any better, my daughter was an awful toddler... she was nicknamed Angelica and I just knew she was going to be kicked out of preschool. Happy to report at about 4 1/2 she outgrew it and is now a very successful 27 year old that I’m super proud of! Be consistent and firm but know it shall pass. Y’all are awesome parents!
First he's sour then he's sweet 🤣😂 You want bottom or top😂🤣 Love you guys. Don't over stress about little guy. I'm a mom of 2 boys, he's pushing boundaries. I just explained things and followed through with consequences.
I am so impressed that you and tiffani are teaching your kids to be respectful and that if they dont listen and behave, they don't get treats. Reward good behavior!
Tiff we love Our vegetable garden as well we grow everything n it’s so rewarding n so much fun!! Then u get to enjoy eating all of it we can’t wait till it’s ready!!!
So happy for a new video! I binged all the videos on here and your channel and I need more of your adorable family! I love you guys so much, thank you for letting us all be a part of your lives!!
I love watching your family fun days! Ella is so darn cute, I want to squeeze her. Great parenting for taking the ice cream away, you are right, and are teaching good morals!
LOL!!!! You guys are the best! I love your family and I know your babies are going to grow up to be great human beings because they have awesome parents! It's funny because I wrote on Tiffani's instagram that I wanted to learn about her new herbs and stuff and she showed us in this video. I completely understand the excitement. My kids tease me because I just grew a pineapple and I freak out every day because it actually worked! I think it's ready so maybe we will pick it and cut it this weekend! Lol I love the Beastons! congratulations on your show! Have a happy Father's Day ! :)
We had a trampoline for a long time til last summer. It even had the safety net.. But last year my daughter was jumping on it and fell through a part of the net and she broke 4 parts of her left leg. Her ankle, 2 places in her calf and one above her knee cap. We sold it after that and will never get another one.
Trampolines are one of the items my home owners insurance forbade me from getting or I'd lose our insurance. Apparently they had too many home owner claims from friends and family getting hurt on them. Just FYI🙁😉 For kids I seriously suggest more chill time at home, my son was a hot mess until I pulled him out of all the activities and gave him time to breathe and figure out what his own passions were. I feel that over scheduled kids get tense and over anxious, wait until they ask to join things, it will come too soon, enjoy the play and snuggle time you get now. Congrats on your first gig Chris, looked like fun! Ps, I would have withheld ice cream too. Never make a threat you don't carry through & don't reward bad behavior.
Hey girl, I have an almost 2 year old girl who also throws tantrums when she doesn't want to do something. Very independent little girl. What worked for us is, instead of time out, which did not work for her and only made it worse, I either calmly pick her up or get down on her level and say "look at mommy" I tell her first that we do not act that way and explain to her why we have to do or stop doing what she wants. I also say, "it's ok to get upset but you use your words, we do not hit and scream" and I found by talking to her, she calms right down and the unwanted behaviour stops. Look up "gentle parenting". It helped me so much!!!xo
You both are awesome parents and I can totally see that you love your babies more than life itself. You're doing the right thing in teaching them at a very young age how to be little gentlemen. Don't be too hard on yourselves. I know that it literally hurts you more to discipline your children than it does them, but you will be so proud that you did. I love how much you love your babies and each other. P.S. I have to hear Chris sing. I got all pumped up and then didn't get to hear his voice so please have him sing for us. Love you guys! XOXO'S
My little girl is 2 1/2 years old and she was the exact same way. The thing that has made such a huge difference and I know you all know this, but be consistent in whatever punishment you choose. I was always like wishy washy like I would feel bad for punishing her all day when she was bad alllll day but I learned I just had to be consistent and not let her get by with anything. And things have gotten so much better. She knows when she does something momma said not to do, she will get in trouble everytime.. just hang in there! Parenting is so hard 😫 I tell my husband that almost everyday, hahah. But we'll get through it. Love your channel ❤ such a sweet little family.
Hey Chris! I totally agree with pulling the ice cream. It’s hard not to give in and let them have it, but if they know you mean what you say that is the best consequence. And really if you make that the norm when they are little, they know what is expected. As soon as they figure out you will give in, they will tantrum until they get their way. I think it sets the tone for the teenage years and everything in between. Stay strong! You guys are great parents! This is just a transition for everyone :)
Thank you so much for talking about toddler meltdowns. I’m really struggling with my almost 3 year old when it comes to transitions & things he doesn’t want to do as well. He also gets scary angry. They’re literally little sour patch kids 😳 it’s exhausting! Thanks for letting us know we aren’t alone! 💕
So I have been watching your vlogs for a while and I am just now realizing that your sisters name is Crystal. My sisters name is Tiffane and my name is Crystal! Mind Blown!🤯 love you guys!
As far as trampolines go, my almost three year old daughter Ella loves hers, but she gets bored up there quickly. But if I'm jumping with her she could do it all day. It doesn't get used every day but I am glad that we have it.
My daughter skipped the terrible twos but as soon as she turned 3, the tantrums started. She definitely tested my patience as a mom. Now she's an adult, working FT with her own place. You find a way to get through. I think high expectations through social media doesn't make parenting any easier. When my kids were young, there was no social media. You both seem like good people 😁
Congrats on the first gig, looks like it was a great night. Also where are those raised garden beds from in the backyard? Me and my husband love to garden and love the look of the raised beds you have 😁
Love the ending!!! You all will figure it out with Carter it is a phase he is going thru. Both of you are awesome parents!!! All your children will be great adults!!!
So glad you both had fun at the GiG!! You have such a beautiful family, and I love your backyard/patio! Parent life -staying up late and waking up early- I know how that is! Yet again, great video!!! As for advice to parenting. I don't have much because you both are such wonderful parents! I'm sure he will hopefully grow out of it! But, maybe let him choose his outfit, we had to let my almost 2 year old choose hers also. Otherwise she would kick, scream, and hit.. She's a lot better now!
I’m like you too Tiff-I have a hard time saying no to my kids when they’re being naughty but I agree that it’ll teach them to be good and respectful if you don’t reward them when their behavior isn’t good. But I get it. Your mama heart hurts when you have to discipline! 😭❤️
We have a trampoline and our kids love it. We have had it for 4 years and they still use it every day. We live in NY and although most people leave it up all year, we take the mat and net down for the winter and just leave the frame up. It still looks new after 4 years and it will last us until our kids are grown and out of the house. My dad does the same and he has had a trampoline there for 11 years and it’s in excellent shape. Totally worth it🙂
Lol, I love how you be like I’m from New Jersey. That’s how I am, I be like, I’m from DC, SE baby and you already know. Even though, I’m an old soul at heart. Parenting advice, sorry I can’t, I don’t have any children but I adore your family. I saw a video when a child was acting so the father started to cry and was like you’re not the only one who can cry and the baby stop. It was so cute.
I think y’all were right to pull the ice cream, I know it’s hard but you can’t reward bad behavior/disobedience and he will have another chance to make the right choices in the future and get rewarded then! Y’all are doing a great job!
Don't beat yourselves up too bad about not giving into bad behavior, you absolutely did the right thing!!! I think one of the very hardest ages of a childs life is 3 years old. They say terrible twos but in my experience it's age 3 which is the toughest time to deal with. Love you all Xoxoxo
My son went through a phase similar to your little man. We would go to Birthday parties and he would just cry so I would give him a 10 minute timeout and take him home and go back when he was calm. Fast forward a few years I thought he was showing signs of autism, got him tested and found out he hand anxiety with a bit of sensory processing disorder. He didn’t like loud sounds and a lot of commotion. He got used of me taking him out of the situation that he started doing it himself, asking me if he can take a alone break. He is now 14 and so much better, still don’t like loud sounds but plays well with others now. Hugs guys, I hope things get better ❤️❤️
I definetly would have pulled the ice cream u did the right thing maybe next time he will behave better n then he will get ice cream. Excellent parenting n I know it’s hard but u gotta do what’s right so that they learn. Thanks for sharing that ur both excellent parents keep it up!! Love u guys for being so honest with us it really means a lot!!!
Oh yeah n one more comment I love ur dogs they r so adorable!!! I have a Bishon n she’s my Firth kid love her sooooo much!!!! Thanks so much for sharing I really enjoyed this vlog u guys r such a great couple see u next time
I know you said you don’t have time to read but No Drama Discipline by Daniel Siegel really helped me when I was dealing with very similar issues with my son. I listened to it on audio book from my library while I cleaned! Sometimes kiddos want to be listened to and understood- it just walks you through slowing down and listening to what your kiddo is upset about. Sometimes as adults we just want them to do something right then but explaining things clearly and hearing what they are feeling about the situation can make them feel understood and heard. I still have the same expectations but I communicate in a much more effective way and don’t have to yell or speak sternly to get my point across. I am always consistent too so they know I mean what I say! It really helped me and I feel like I am a better and more calm mom because of it. You guys are doing awesome with those kiddos. Love your family!
Carter is acting age appropriate❤️ Be consistent, give him one on one attention, and keep the praising the good. My boys were hardest at 2-4 years. Now my friends with daughters say the teen years are hardest.
My hubby also sings and there is something about it 🔥 makes me a proud wifey! My son had the same fits when he was 3 and luckily has since grown out of them (he is now 5). Hang in there!! Ella and her fart gun 😂😂 love it! Good job sticking to your guns 👍 it's hard, especially when you just wanna hug and love on them, but learning that there are consequences for their actions is all a part of learning to be a wonderful human being 💗
Great parents and I laughed on "top or bottom?" Lol then Tiffany pulls the laundry baskets 😂 kiddos will push until they see they can't get away with things. But you guys really are doing a great job
My son did the same thing at that age. Like, randomly screaming like an insane person. We still call him our sour patch kid lol!! Good news is it passed and we all made it out alive, just doing our best ha! You guys are awesome. Thanks for sharing the highs and lows. ❤
We felt the same way. Frustrating to say the least. I honestly think it was a phase that lasted a couple months. If it was a time where I could physically do it (and also not about to lose my temper lol), instead of regular timeout, I'd make him have timeout on my lap and practice deep breathing once he was sane enough to reason with haha. It actually helped a lot. And letting him use his words to explain why he was feeling that way. He's a natural cuddle bug, so it seemed to calm his Hulk out lol.
I love watching your videos!! You guys are awsome!! My husband and I have 3 kids also 2 boys and a girl boys are 6 and 4 and our daughter is 3. And its crazy town it's nice you are talking about parenting struggles.. it's a thing.. I will say for us we always do dessert somewhere else sometimes a icecream shop.. sometimes at home. My kids just don't have the attention span to sit through it all...(that's not advice just what we do lol) you guys are killing it! I love watching your family mostly because you guys are so real! And honest. Keep up the good work!
trampoline-best investment!! mint grows like crazy and amazing in smoothies! you're awesome Tiff I love watching your videos and Chris you're cool too:) love the kids!
I love your videos and think you guys have an amazing family....obviously each person will parent differently.. I am a firm believer in the saying “ you spare the rod you spoil the child”... not corporal punishment but clearly a pop to the toosh or a quick flick to mouth worked wonders for my daughter when she got out of control. Most of the time threatening to take away something they love worked as well. I used to have to put my daughter in a timeout chair in the middle of the room because she would find anything to play while she was being punished... good luck Beastons ❤️
You're doing great!! Stay consistent. Always follow thru. Don't feel guilty. (all easier said than done lol) And just remember, you're actually doing your kiddos a disservice when you don't discipline them.
It's good for them to learn independent play. So I agree you don't always gotta be doing stuff with them. My son has had an indoor trampoline since he was two. We do the Pure Fun mini rebounder trampoline 38' from amazon. It's awesome. He goes through two a year because he uses it so much. Great exercise! I think you guys are great and your kids are so stinkin cute. Thanx for sharing! Cheers
I vote swing set over trampoline sole because my 6 year old broke his leg in March on one just jumping. We have a swing set with three different types of swings, a playhouse and a sandbox underneath. We made a wood cover that goes over the ladder so they can't go up it if we don't move it out of the way. Ya'll have such a great back yard though...I imagine anything you get the kiddos will love!
For the gap under the fence, you can use either cinder blocks, or large garden pavers. Another option is chicken wire ( I think that’s what is called) or screen mesh. Anyways I have a Runaway dog too, so I’m always thinking of these things. My dog actually looks a lot like yours, she is a yorkie poodle mix though. She runs away any chance she gets ! 🤷♀️🤦♀️
I wanted a trampoline for our boys to burn off energy. My husband says something about hearing u should have insurance for it. Idk. So no trampoline here. But we do have the big swingset they like and pool. Yeah i'd say no ice cream too. Love your garden!!
You guys are such amazing parents & I love your family. You guys have such a fair size garden & love the green fingers Tiff, keep it up. Greetings from South Africa
Sounds like Carter is growing up. He's trying to find his voice in the family. When this happened with my 2 boys the therapist said to have one-on-one time with him. Doesn't have to be long or expensive, just time alone especially with the oldest. Just wanted to let you know what I did when my boys were little ❤💚💜💙💛
Omg...Ella is the freakin cutest. She seems lik such a smart bby. Makes me want a lil girl. 😍 Ps: at a certain age wen u kno ur child can comprehend and you see tht they do everything you tell them 2 do unless its something they dnt want 2 do to me is tha rite time 2 start taking away activities. I think No ice cream was tha rite thing 2 do if u feel lik your child could have behaved alot better..you guys are great parents but i also think your to lenient wit them. Mayb its your patience wit them. Which i give u props for having. Love u guys and your kids. #AmazingFamily
Love you videos. My oldest is 6 and he loves the trampoline. We bought a few soft playground balls and he loves to see how high they can go. Ours also came with a net and basketball hoop. He plays on it almost every day.
They make dig barriers for under your fence line but can basically be a tiny fence for the gaps under your fence. I think they make some with stakes you can just push into the ground.
Yes I would they will respect u later for it being consistent helps. I regret not being consistent. U r being great parents I know it’s hard but they will respect u in the long run
Hi guys ! Great video as always!! You are doing so amazing with ur parenting - every family dynamic is different -- and trial and error happens also !! Kudos !!
I love your channel I never get tired or bored of your content I'm going through a bit of mommy blahh!! How we just get ran down but your videos always make me feel better and I just strive to be like you for my own personal wife and motherhood & also homemaker sometimes it just gets so redundant but your videos definitely make it better ! Thanks so much ! Btw I'm from jersey as well and we lived in pa before moving to Indiana! I kno I kno but I had a sick grandmother who needed taking care of ! Sorry to just blabber on lol !! O and i love that you used my tip on the razor blade & mrs meyers or method on the stove I was one of the first to put it I was so surprised you actually did it I was watching your video and heard you saying it I was like omg !!! Lol ❤ x0x
As far as dealing with tantrums, we try to get eye level and talk calmly (phrases like I understand you’re having a hard time, I hear you and I know you’re upset right now, etc) until they settle and sometimes if they just won’t settle they just really need to go to bed for a nap!! 😂
I got a trampoline for my 10th birthday like 22 yrs ago and we followed the instructions with two jumpers at a time and there was never one injury and it’s still in great condition today! My kids get to use it at my parents now 😊. We are getting my soon to be five and one year old one for their birthdays this year 👍
My only advice is to not make food a reward, it's not about the ice cream but just the trip. If someone is cranky it means they're tired and it's time to go home and rest and skip the next stop. Trampolines are good for more than jumping, kids will use them to lay down and stare at the sky and they are the BEST bed for backyard camp outs with mom and dad.
My kids love their trampoline..even as teenagers. But! I sold the first one we had because in the first 2 years we had it, all 4 kids were injured on the trampoline. Twisted ankle, concussion, broken arm, and the last one busted his head open. We had the safety net and the padding...it didnt matter. 😆 i just bought the second trampoline about 2 years ago. No injuries yet but they do use it often.
My daughter went through a time where she would freak out like that ! Its was scary lol ! Thank God as shes gotten older (6yrs old ) shes definitely chilled out 🤗 I know it sucks and is sometimes like WTF ! But your a great mom you'll get through it !
Y'all ate awesome parents. You already know that. You definitely made the right choice by not giving them ice cream ! You can reward bad behavior. That's just my option. My kiddos acted up too but i punished them when they acted up. I know its hard to not give into your children. But at the same time they have to have rules. And realize they cannot act up especially in public ! Im proud of you Tiff & Chris . children learn by their mistakes rifht ? Keep up rhe great work. It does get easier if you stick to it !! Love y'all
We bought our granddaughter a big trampoline with the netting for her 2nd birthday. Her first birthday we bought her a gaint swingset and massive ball pit. Lol my daughter and her husband get nervous when ups delivers to their house close to my granddaughters birthday. I never tell them what we bought her.lol this year we are think drum set and guitar with lessons.
I absolutely agree with withholding ice cream. He needs to understand that his unacceptable behavior is why no one got ice cream. Be consistent! He’ll get it and so will Tanner and Ella just from watching.
Omg!!! First I still cannot believe I met you guys or that you came to my work and that my work in on here ...Second and Third ...I cannot believe after watching so many of your videos for the past year or so that I am in one and that I got shout out !!! Pretty friggin amazing! Thank you so much for making my night ! Thank you for coming there and thank you for playing amazing music!! ❤️😘
Everyone Tiffany and Chris are even more amazing in person!!! They are just as real in person as they are in their videos !!
What’s amazing about this is that we feel as excited to have met you! For those of you who don’t know Rachel, she was working her ass off at this bar until 3am or probably later and went home to sleep for a few short hours before waking up with her little boy. We appreciate you more then you know! Can’t wait to come back and play again!
I second what Chris said! You are killing it girl! Thank you so much for everything! We were so excited to meet you!! ❤️❤️❤️
Ahhh Rachel I love tiffany and her family!! I'm so jealous!! ❤
jen sincavage i know!!!! Pretty crazy when they came into my bar I was like omg hah they are the coolest
😂"Although I'm a kind person, I'm also from New Jersey and I stand up for what's right!" 😂love it, Tiffani!
Ella and the fart gun I cannot hahah
Like mother like daughter, amused by fart sounds
"Do you want top or bottom?" I just want you to know I literally laughed out loud at the end. 😂🤣😭 Hope you guys enjoy every minute of your snuggles, your relationship is something to admire ❤️
Regarding ice cream everyone who was good gets it however the misbehaving babe doesn't.
They will crack it but by physically showing what happens when they dont listen and act up makes it stick in their mind. May have to do this a few times but always works.
As you know you try to explain things to kids and it just washes away 20 minutes later.
It's not fair to punish the rest of the family because of one misbehaving child ❤
Love your family and asking for advice is wonderful because it really shows that you want to do the best for your family xxxx
Hey Chris & Tiffani! Congratulations on your gig Chris! My children are grown but listening to you sounds so familiar. Remember this. You don’t reward bad behavior, it’s not ok to act that way at home or in public. He is definitely trying you to see what he can get away with. Tell him it’s unacceptable and what happens if he acts out. Follow through is the biggest thing. Stop and correct it immediately. Don’t wait 2 hrs later. Setting boundaries is very important. You don’t want your other children thinking it’s ok to act like that. Believe me you will make it through this just set your limits and stick to it. Every parent goes through something like this. Sounds like you guys are doing the right thing! You will never go wrong teaching your children respect of others. Good job!
This is the sweetest family I have ever seen on youtube. Throughly enjoyed watching their wonderful content because it’s incredible all the excellent effort they put into editing their videos
papaapple93 aw thank you so much!
Thank you so much! Hoping to get better at filming so editing isn’t so much work lol
Tiffany, your life is awesome, it is the simple things in life that bring true happiness! I'm very impressed with your gardening!
Y'all are amazing parents! Keep up the good work! Love y'all! 💛
If it makes you feel any better, my daughter was an awful toddler... she was nicknamed Angelica and I just knew she was going to be kicked out of preschool. Happy to report at about 4 1/2 she outgrew it and is now a very successful 27 year old that I’m super proud of! Be consistent and firm but know it shall pass. Y’all are awesome parents!
“Oh yea I had that when I was 16 lol I took it out of moms thing “
That is so me!!!!!!!
Woohooooo Tiff !!!!!!
First he's sour then he's sweet 🤣😂
You want bottom or top😂🤣
Love you guys. Don't over stress about little guy. I'm a mom of 2 boys, he's pushing boundaries. I just explained things and followed through with consequences.
I am so impressed that you and tiffani are teaching your kids to be respectful and that if they dont listen and behave, they don't get treats. Reward good behavior!
Tiff we love Our vegetable garden as well we grow everything n it’s so rewarding n so much fun!! Then u get to enjoy eating all of it we can’t wait till it’s ready!!!
So happy for a new video! I binged all the videos on here and your channel and I need more of your adorable family! I love you guys so much, thank you for letting us all be a part of your lives!!
Katie Beckler thank you for watching Katie!
Yes!!! I know that feeling!
I love watching your family fun days! Ella is so darn cute, I want to squeeze her. Great parenting for taking the ice cream away, you are right, and are teaching good morals!
You channel definitely helps me remember that there are people with good hearts out there🌈😊
LOL!!!! You guys are the best! I love your family and I know your babies are going to grow up to be great human beings because they have awesome parents! It's funny because I wrote on Tiffani's instagram that I wanted to learn about her new herbs and stuff and she showed us in this video. I completely understand the excitement. My kids tease me because I just grew a pineapple and I freak out every day because it actually worked! I think it's ready so maybe we will pick it and cut it this weekend! Lol I love the Beastons! congratulations on your show! Have a happy Father's Day ! :)
We had a trampoline for a long time til last summer. It even had the safety net.. But last year my daughter was jumping on it and fell through a part of the net and she broke 4 parts of her left leg. Her ankle, 2 places in her calf and one above her knee cap. We sold it after that and will never get another one.
Trampolines are one of the items my home owners insurance forbade me from getting or I'd lose our insurance. Apparently they had too many home owner claims from friends and family getting hurt on them. Just FYI🙁😉 For kids I seriously suggest more chill time at home, my son was a hot mess until I pulled him out of all the activities and gave him time to breathe and figure out what his own passions were. I feel that over scheduled kids get tense and over anxious, wait until they ask to join things, it will come too soon, enjoy the play and snuggle time you get now. Congrats on your first gig Chris, looked like fun! Ps, I would have withheld ice cream too. Never make a threat you don't carry through & don't reward bad behavior.
Hey girl, I have an almost 2 year old girl who also throws tantrums when she doesn't want to do something. Very independent little girl. What worked for us is, instead of time out, which did not work for her and only made it worse, I either calmly pick her up or get down on her level and say "look at mommy" I tell her first that we do not act that way and explain to her why we have to do or stop doing what she wants. I also say, "it's ok to get upset but you use your words, we do not hit and scream" and I found by talking to her, she calms right down and the unwanted behaviour stops. Look up "gentle parenting". It helped me so much!!!xo
You both are awesome parents and I can totally see that you love your babies more than life itself. You're doing the right thing in teaching them at a very young age how to be little gentlemen. Don't be too hard on yourselves. I know that it literally hurts you more to discipline your children than it does them, but you will be so proud that you did. I love how much you love your babies and each other.
P.S. I have to hear Chris sing. I got all pumped up and then didn't get to hear his voice so please have him sing for us. Love you guys! XOXO'S
We want to hear his singing voice. Love you guys. Looks like you had fun. Thanks for sharing.
My little girl is 2 1/2 years old and she was the exact same way. The thing that has made such a huge difference and I know you all know this, but be consistent in whatever punishment you choose. I was always like wishy washy like I would feel bad for punishing her all day when she was bad alllll day but I learned I just had to be consistent and not let her get by with anything. And things have gotten so much better. She knows when she does something momma said not to do, she will get in trouble everytime.. just hang in there! Parenting is so hard 😫 I tell my husband that almost everyday, hahah. But we'll get through it. Love your channel ❤ such a sweet little family.
Hey Chris! I totally agree with pulling the ice cream. It’s hard not to give in and let them have it, but if they know you mean what you say that is the best consequence. And really if you make that the norm when they are little, they know what is expected. As soon as they figure out you will give in, they will tantrum until they get their way. I think it sets the tone for the teenage years and everything in between. Stay strong! You guys are great parents! This is just a transition for everyone :)
Thank you so much for talking about toddler meltdowns. I’m really struggling with my almost 3 year old when it comes to transitions & things he doesn’t want to do as well. He also gets scary angry. They’re literally little sour patch kids 😳 it’s exhausting! Thanks for letting us know we aren’t alone! 💕
So I have been watching your vlogs for a while and I am just now realizing that your sisters name is Crystal. My sisters name is Tiffane and my name is Crystal! Mind Blown!🤯 love you guys!
As far as trampolines go, my almost three year old daughter Ella loves hers, but she gets bored up there quickly. But if I'm jumping with her she could do it all day. It doesn't get used every day but I am glad that we have it.
Awww Tiff sleeping with Carter was so cute. You both are great parents ❤️
My daughter skipped the terrible twos but as soon as she turned 3, the tantrums started. She definitely tested my patience as a mom. Now she's an adult, working FT with her own place. You find a way to get through. I think high expectations through social media doesn't make parenting any easier. When my kids were young, there was no social media. You both seem like good people 😁
Congrats on the first gig, looks like it was a great night. Also where are those raised garden beds from in the backyard? Me and my husband love to garden and love the look of the raised beds you have 😁
Love the ending!!! You all will figure it out with Carter it is a phase he is going thru. Both of you are awesome parents!!! All your children will be great adults!!!
So glad you both had fun at the GiG!! You have such a beautiful family, and I love your backyard/patio! Parent life -staying up late and waking up early- I know how that is! Yet again, great video!!!
As for advice to parenting. I don't have much because you both are such wonderful parents! I'm sure he will hopefully grow out of it! But, maybe let him choose his outfit, we had to let my almost 2 year old choose hers also. Otherwise she would kick, scream, and hit.. She's a lot better now!
I’m like you too Tiff-I have a hard time saying no to my kids when they’re being naughty but I agree that it’ll teach them to be good and respectful if you don’t reward them when their behavior isn’t good. But I get it. Your mama heart hurts when you have to discipline! 😭❤️
We have a trampoline and our kids love it. We have had it for 4 years and they still use it every day. We live in NY and although most people leave it up all year, we take the mat and net down for the winter and just leave the frame up. It still looks new after 4 years and it will last us until our kids are grown and out of the house. My dad does the same and he has had a trampoline there for 11 years and it’s in excellent shape. Totally worth it🙂
Lol, I love how you be like I’m from New Jersey. That’s how I am, I be like, I’m from DC, SE baby and you already know. Even though, I’m an old soul at heart. Parenting advice, sorry I can’t, I don’t have any children but I adore your family. I saw a video when a child was acting so the father started to cry and was like you’re not the only one who can cry and the baby stop. It was so cute.
I think y’all were right to pull the ice cream, I know it’s hard but you can’t reward bad behavior/disobedience and he will have another chance to make the right choices in the future and get rewarded then! Y’all are doing a great job!
Just know you’re not alone with the tantrums Momma! It is so hard and in the moment it is so overwhelming! 💜
omg yes a poool lol ur yard is perfect for it! it would look amazing too. I always had a dream for a house with a pool.
Don't beat yourselves up too bad about not giving into bad behavior, you absolutely did the right thing!!! I think one of the very hardest ages of a childs life is 3 years old. They say terrible twos but in my experience it's age 3 which is the toughest time to deal with. Love you all Xoxoxo
My son went through a phase similar to your little man. We would go to Birthday parties and he would just cry so I would give him a 10 minute timeout and take him home and go back when he was calm. Fast forward a few years I thought he was showing signs of autism, got him tested and found out he hand anxiety with a bit of sensory processing disorder. He didn’t like loud sounds and a lot of commotion. He got used of me taking him out of the situation that he started doing it himself, asking me if he can take a alone break. He is now 14 and so much better, still don’t like loud sounds but plays well with others now. Hugs guys, I hope things get better ❤️❤️
I definetly would have pulled the ice cream u did the right thing maybe next time he will behave better n then he will get ice cream. Excellent parenting n I know it’s hard but u gotta do what’s right so that they learn. Thanks for sharing that ur both excellent parents keep it up!! Love u guys for being so honest with us it really means a lot!!!
Oh yeah n one more comment I love ur dogs they r so adorable!!! I have a Bishon n she’s my Firth kid love her sooooo much!!!! Thanks so much for sharing I really enjoyed this vlog u guys r such a great couple see u next time
I know you said you don’t have time to read but No Drama Discipline by Daniel Siegel really helped me when I was dealing with very similar issues with my son. I listened to it on audio book from my library while I cleaned! Sometimes kiddos want to be listened to and understood- it just walks you through slowing down and listening to what your kiddo is upset about. Sometimes as adults we just want them to do something right then but explaining things clearly and hearing what they are feeling about the situation can make them feel understood and heard. I still have the same expectations but I communicate in a much more effective way and don’t have to yell or speak sternly to get my point across. I am always consistent too so they know I mean what I say! It really helped me and I feel like I am a better and more calm mom because of it. You guys are doing awesome with those kiddos. Love your family!
Man goes home from pub and eats salad 😎 fair play ! In Ireland you go to mc Donald’s or chip shop
Carter is acting age appropriate❤️ Be consistent, give him one on one attention, and keep the praising the good. My boys were hardest at 2-4 years. Now my friends with daughters say the teen years are hardest.
My hubby also sings and there is something about it 🔥 makes me a proud wifey! My son had the same fits when he was 3 and luckily has since grown out of them (he is now 5). Hang in there!! Ella and her fart gun 😂😂 love it!
Good job sticking to your guns 👍 it's hard, especially when you just wanna hug and love on them, but learning that there are consequences for their actions is all a part of learning to be a wonderful human being 💗
Great parents and I laughed on "top or bottom?" Lol then Tiffany pulls the laundry baskets 😂 kiddos will push until they see they can't get away with things. But you guys really are doing a great job
My son did the same thing at that age. Like, randomly screaming like an insane person. We still call him our sour patch kid lol!! Good news is it passed and we all made it out alive, just doing our best ha! You guys are awesome. Thanks for sharing the highs and lows. ❤
Mrs. T that is great news because I am losing my mind lol
Thank goodness!! At about what age? Please don’t say 10!
We felt the same way. Frustrating to say the least. I honestly think it was a phase that lasted a couple months. If it was a time where I could physically do it (and also not about to lose my temper lol), instead of regular timeout, I'd make him have timeout on my lap and practice deep breathing once he was sane enough to reason with haha. It actually helped a lot. And letting him use his words to explain why he was feeling that way. He's a natural cuddle bug, so it seemed to calm his Hulk out lol.
I love watching your videos!! You guys are awsome!! My husband and I have 3 kids also 2 boys and a girl boys are 6 and 4 and our daughter is 3. And its crazy town it's nice you are talking about parenting struggles.. it's a thing.. I will say for us we always do dessert somewhere else sometimes a icecream shop.. sometimes at home. My kids just don't have the attention span to sit through it all...(that's not advice just what we do lol) you guys are killing it! I love watching your family mostly because you guys are so real! And honest. Keep up the good work!
trampoline-best investment!! mint grows like crazy and amazing in smoothies! you're awesome Tiff I love watching your videos and Chris you're cool too:) love the kids!
Lool that ending though, made me laugh 😂👌🏼 Love you guysssss👏🏼👏🏼I always look forward to videos! 🙌🏼
I love your videos and think you guys have an amazing family....obviously each person will parent differently.. I am a firm believer in the saying “ you spare the rod you spoil the child”... not corporal punishment but clearly a pop to the toosh or a quick flick to mouth worked wonders for my daughter when she got out of control. Most of the time threatening to take away something they love worked as well. I used to have to put my daughter in a timeout chair in the middle of the room because she would find anything to play while she was being punished... good luck Beastons ❤️
You're doing great!! Stay consistent. Always follow thru. Don't feel guilty. (all easier said than done lol) And just remember, you're actually doing your kiddos a disservice when you don't discipline them.
It's good for them to learn independent play. So I agree you don't always gotta be doing stuff with them. My son has had an indoor trampoline since he was two. We do the Pure Fun mini rebounder trampoline 38' from amazon. It's awesome. He goes through two a year because he uses it so much. Great exercise! I think you guys are great and your kids are so stinkin cute. Thanx for sharing! Cheers
I vote swing set over trampoline sole because my 6 year old broke his leg in March on one just jumping. We have a swing set with three different types of swings, a playhouse and a sandbox underneath. We made a wood cover that goes over the ladder so they can't go up it if we don't move it out of the way. Ya'll have such a great back yard though...I imagine anything you get the kiddos will love!
“First they’re sour, then they’re sweet”...we used to say that about our now four-year-Old all the time when she was a toddler! 🤣💕
I admire parents that pull the ice cream. Such a beautiful family. Awesome garden.
For the gap under the fence, you can use either cinder blocks, or large garden pavers. Another option is chicken wire ( I think that’s what is called) or screen mesh. Anyways I have a Runaway dog too, so I’m always thinking of these things. My dog actually looks a lot like yours, she is a yorkie poodle mix though. She runs away any chance she gets ! 🤷♀️🤦♀️
I wanted a trampoline for our boys to burn off energy. My husband says something about hearing u should have insurance for it. Idk.
So no trampoline here. But we do have the big swingset they like and pool. Yeah i'd say no ice cream too. Love your garden!!
I would recommend the dog defense animal barrier from Lowe’s for the spaces in the fence. Easy and removable! Hope this helps!
Awesome video! Love the funny at the end Tiff!😆
You guys are such amazing parents & I love your family. You guys have such a fair size garden & love the green fingers Tiff, keep it up.
Greetings from South Africa
Sounds like Carter is growing up. He's trying to find his voice in the family. When this happened with my 2 boys the therapist said to have one-on-one time with him. Doesn't have to be long or expensive, just time alone especially with the oldest. Just wanted to let you know what I did when my boys were little ❤💚💜💙💛
Cathleen Weaver yessss ! This !
What about threshold ramps to “raise” the ground? It seems you need a way to shorten the space between the ground and the bottom of the fence...
Omg...Ella is the freakin cutest. She seems lik such a smart bby. Makes me want a lil girl. 😍
Ps: at a certain age wen u kno ur child can comprehend and you see tht they do everything you tell them 2 do unless its something they dnt want 2 do to me is tha rite time 2 start taking away activities. I think No ice cream was tha rite thing 2 do if u feel lik your child could have behaved alot better..you guys are great parents but i also think your to lenient wit them. Mayb its your patience wit them. Which i give u props for having. Love u guys and your kids.
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8:16 is when Chris’s prayers came true😍❤️❤️
You guys should get a pool, that backyard is gorgeous!
Love you videos. My oldest is 6 and he loves the trampoline. We bought a few soft playground balls and he loves to see how high they can go. Ours also came with a net and basketball hoop. He plays on it almost every day.
They make dig barriers for under your fence line but can basically be a tiny fence for the gaps under your fence. I think they make some with stakes you can just push into the ground.
Yes I would they will respect u later for it being consistent helps. I regret not being consistent. U r being great parents I know it’s hard but they will respect u in the long run
Hi guys ! Great video as always!! You are doing so amazing with ur parenting - every family dynamic is different -- and trial and error happens also !! Kudos !!
Yes always always follow through with what you say..never give in! Its best for them
Congrats on your 1st gig!! Amazing! We need to see more of this! No end to this daddy’s skills! 👍❤️
I loved my CABOODLE!!! Those were the best carry-alls everrrrrr- get it GURLLLL!! 💅💄👄
I love your channel I never get tired or bored of your content I'm going through a bit of mommy blahh!! How we just get ran down but your videos always make me feel better and I just strive to be like you for my own personal wife and motherhood & also homemaker sometimes it just gets so redundant but your videos definitely make it better ! Thanks so much ! Btw I'm from jersey as well and we lived in pa before moving to Indiana! I kno I kno but I had a sick grandmother who needed taking care of ! Sorry to just blabber on lol !! O and i love that you used my tip on the razor blade & mrs meyers or method on the stove I was one of the first to put it I was so surprised you actually did it I was watching your video and heard you saying it I was like omg !!! Lol ❤ x0x
Best ending ever!! 😂👏🏻 I just love you guys!
Tiffany could u do a video on gluten free meals 😳. We are needing to go gluten free and I’m so overwhelmed ...
Get chicken wire to cover the holes. Can also get tons of mulch and pour around fence area to lift up ground.
As far as dealing with tantrums, we try to get eye level and talk calmly (phrases like I understand you’re having a hard time, I hear you and I know you’re upset right now, etc) until they settle and sometimes if they just won’t settle they just really need to go to bed for a nap!! 😂
We have a trampoline for our 2 1/2 year old son and he LOVES it!! He's on it multiple times a day and is always asking to jump!!
Cinder blocks do great and Tif can alway grow flowers in them to help their look 😊 that what I had to do with our first house
I got a trampoline for my 10th birthday like 22 yrs ago and we followed the instructions with two jumpers at a time and there was never one injury and it’s still in great condition today! My kids get to use it at my parents now 😊. We are getting my soon to be five and one year old one for their birthdays this year 👍
Oh too many to quote..... I loved it. You guys are great. But i have to say top or bottom won. That was just the best.
My only advice is to not make food a reward, it's not about the ice cream but just the trip. If someone is cranky it means they're tired and it's time to go home and rest and skip the next stop. Trampolines are good for more than jumping, kids will use them to lay down and stare at the sky and they are the BEST bed for backyard camp outs with mom and dad.
My kids love their trampoline..even as teenagers. But! I sold the first one we had because in the first 2 years we had it, all 4 kids were injured on the trampoline. Twisted ankle, concussion, broken arm, and the last one busted his head open. We had the safety net and the padding...it didnt matter. 😆 i just bought the second trampoline about 2 years ago. No injuries yet but they do use it often.
My daughter went through a time where she would freak out like that ! Its was scary lol ! Thank God as shes gotten older (6yrs old ) shes definitely chilled out 🤗 I know it sucks and is sometimes like WTF ! But your a great mom you'll get through it !
I would have pulled the ice cream too. You said if they were good maybe they could have ice cream. I agree with you.
Your so sweet and honest, its refreshing and uplifting!!😘
I love how ms. caboodles is in so many scenes
She’s cool😂
Y'all ate awesome parents. You already know that. You definitely made the right choice by not giving them ice cream ! You can reward bad behavior. That's just my option. My kiddos acted up too but i punished them when they acted up. I know its hard to not give into your children. But at the same time they have to have rules. And realize they cannot act up especially in public ! Im proud of you Tiff & Chris . children learn by their mistakes rifht ? Keep up rhe great work. It does get easier if you stick to it !! Love y'all
"Hey babe, you want top or bottom?" 😂
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Since you like to have flowers in the house, T, it could be fun to make that older garden area in the back a flower 💐 garden.
Oh my goodness the ending! I love y’all 😂
Mommie advice.....let your no mean no ..and your yes mean yes...never ,never give in..love you and your family
I can relate, my almost 3 year old has been throwing the most awful tantrums. It is so overwhelming 😫
So overwhelming!
We bought our granddaughter a big trampoline with the netting for her 2nd birthday. Her first birthday we bought her a gaint swingset and massive ball pit. Lol my daughter and her husband get nervous when ups delivers to their house close to my granddaughters birthday. I never tell them what we bought her.lol this year we are think drum set and guitar with lessons.
We live in AZ, I could not live without a pool! We have a fence around it, that is a must with kids.
I absolutely agree with withholding ice cream. He needs to understand that his unacceptable behavior is why no one got ice cream. Be consistent! He’ll get it and so will Tanner and Ella just from watching.