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So A Scorpio Is Mad At You... (Sun, Moon, Mars)
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Scorpio grudges are not just years but usually for life.
paul lee sometimes yeah
I am a Scorpio and I can confirm this.
I'm a Scorpio, and can definitely agree with this though it depends on how much you have hurt/lost our respect; from how you pissed us off.
I co-sing this....Life
At my old house when i was around 4 (im now 13) my mum promised me one last swim in the pool before we left and i ended up not getting a last swim. I will never ever let that down. And she knows it.
My best friend is a Scorpio, and while he's so damn patient, I've witnessed him completely cut out people because they pissed him off one too many times. He does the same with anyone who hurts his friends, if you did anything to make the people he cares about feel bad, purposefully or not, your existence is irrelevant to him. That being said, he's still such a lovely person, the most passionate person I know, and the truest friend I've had.
Erin Cotton I've seen him be like that a couple times, despite all my efforts of separating him from those people. Being a Pisces, I understand the emotional side of it all, especially when it comes to those you have an attachment to. Unfortunately, I hate confrontation and fear that I might come off as possessive, jealous, or something of that sort, so I'm not the best person to interfere with things like that.
Erin Cotton Scorpios and Pisces, from what I've experienced, tend to be perceived as soulmates of sorts, and I really do think that's because of the genuine understanding and emotional connection the two signs can have between each other. A Scorpio is able to shield the more nervous Pisces, while the Pisces is such a strong nurturer and can truly help the Scorpio break down the walls they've built around themselves. They compliment each other so well, and are really able to provide each other with comfort and support. Personally, I've always found it hard to really become friends with people, mostly due to how anxious I am, but as soon as I connected with my Scorpio best friend, I immediately felt safe.
Erin Cotton I'm in the same boat. We've known each other for nearly two years, but really became connected in early 2017. We've been through a lot, and have had a lot of friends since then, but we've consistently stayed with and supported each other through it all. I can't imagine how my life would be without him, other than knowing I wouldn't have all the happiness he's given me. I could see us being close friends for most our lives, even if we end up thousands of miles away from each other. I truly love him with all my heart, and he's shown me a realm of friendship and care that I've never experienced before.
You just literally described me to a T. I don't always cut people out if they hurt. I never know when I'm going to cut them out but once I do. It is a wrap for me. If you hurt my friends and family, I don't give you a chance.
@Heart Felt me too.
More evolved and mature Scorpios know that real revenge is depriving someone of your presence completely.
ehhh really? nah
I’ll vanish for 25 years come back and finish it on my terms
Matured Scorpio here, yes exactly true. My friend is very clingy and needy with me and needs a lot of my attention and affection and I've done so much good for him, only one who got him to stop drinking and seek healthier habits. He upset/offended me once more recently, now I withdraw my presence and extract my revenge wholly and watch him writhe for undermining all of my good efforts, all the support and care in the world accepting him for all his flaws and for all his offenses against me, the stinger now hangs over head, do I withhold my ire? do I strike? am I merciful? or am I malevolent? I choose a slow noxious poison by withdrawing my presence..
EDIT:
The friend came crawling back.. they always do... but do they change? nope
PeriodT
ACTUAL AND FACTUAL LOL
When Scorpio is angry
He goes cold.
Seeks revenge later.
True chefs know the dish is best served cold
When words can cut you like chainsaws, you walk in pieces.
🙂😐😈
When angry, scorpios either go cold or explode no in between
right
Scorpios are actually forgiving and can tolerate a lot of crap except being insulted or humiliated, that's when they become the secret child of John Wick and Monte Cristo
True
Very true
JUST WATCH YOUR 🚶
Fr I’ll be there through 90% of things.
Aylimas music exactly people act like you say one little thing about Scorpios and it sets them off but no it’s continuous shady or shitty behavior.
I am a scorpio and she is telling the truth. I don't have a lot of Friends and i don't like if people disturb my private life.
Me too
I have few friends and 2 best friends. But I have lot of acquaintances. I always say in friendship I prefer quality then quantity.
Kian Kuiper I literally have two friends
I'm a Scorpio and most of what she had said is true.
I wanted to say "fuck this bitch " ... but she's right
As a Scorpio I don’t like too many people because I see right through them. I don’t tolerate fakeness, people who boast or weak minded people. If you cross me you will be dead to me, you won’t get ANY acknowledgment from me PERIOD… other than that I’m a joy to be around🤣
An angry Scorpio is usually cold, calculated and ruthless when need be. I know from being one
What does it mean if scorpio and I got into an argument bc he was distant bc of work n other stuff. As a Sag it hurt so bad and I expressed that angrily. He's never sent me a message saying "ur about to piss me off and u said enough bs last night I don't want to hear it today "
I'm a Scorpio and the reason I hold grudges is, I feel the sadness and anger in my body so intensely, I physically cannot deal with the person who hurt me bad. It's like a huge stone sinking slowly from my throat to my stomach. It's not like: "Hah, I'm choosing to stop being your person, because I'm just so damn petty" - It's actually a chemical thing. And after that, every time I see that person, my body automatically reminds me of the 'danger' of getting hurt again.
Omg yes. Whenever, I get angry, my body literally gets heated and every time I see or think about whatever got me angry, the anger returns. So for my mental wellbeing, I just like to isolate myself from whoever or whatever hurt me.
Sameee!! I'm a cancer
Okay try haveing all the 8 trait,s that a full grown Scorpio has ,hey very , very SCARY to have all that power ?????
Ur description is spot on
Yyyyyyoooooooo
Scorpios don’t use your secrets against you when angry. I actually think we are a lot more loyal than that. Almost, the opposite. Once you tell me your secrets and let me in, that shit is on lock for life. 🔐
Yes! 💞
THIS IS A FUCKING FACT!
True. I'm scorpion and my high friend exposed my deep secret I usually do tell people about my things and I feel so angry and hurt but I keep all her secrets with me because secrets are secrets.
Yes very true
Yeah but we'll want to expose someone but not do it
As a Scorpio I think that we actually punish people and hold them accountable for what they have done, show them what happens when they do a certain thing and it teaches people to stop whatever toxic trait they have and to change. But we’re seen as the bad people 😁
Usually because we hold ourselves to a higher standard as well as others.. idk maybe that's just me
Absolutely!
From my experiense, you do the shit, then blame it on the others and hold them accountable for your own mess, so...
This is Sooo Real.
@@o6ina Yep- no one zodiac sign is a complete saint!
"I will never love you again" = "I will always love you" .. When a Scorpio say this ir means he is bleeding to death but remember that the Phoenix is one of Scorpio's symbols.. He will love again and it will be even more intense but always remember that he will NEVER forget you!
I feel like meeting a Scorpio is like meeting your karma, good or bad.
Except aquarius fool scorpio all the time
Steven Winter nah they’d be playing themselves. No one can out play a Scorpio lmao
Yeah we tend to give you what you deserve, or something like it. Scorpios need to learn to be merciful because it leaves a permanent mark to your psyche if you punish anyone, no matter how much they deserve it. It's a little more ok if you do it to teach them, to wake them up, but still not okay.
Yes. Yes. I'm a Scorpio.
And me and my bestfriend, knows thisss.
I did it subconsciously, and not even trying to do it.
But I am your Karma. I really feel likee this is truee..
I don't choose to be.
BUT I know this. And even my friend's agree.
Idk why. But yeah I am.
I am Karma. Or your Karma. Not even thinking about itt. Or trying.
I am your Karma. I am your Karma.
I will be your Karma. Not even trying.
accurate
Us Scorpio’s are very good people but if you ever do anything to betray us or hurt us it’s not gonna end good for you
Emily Marie
Scorpio here and if someone is mean to me I will not if talk to them for days until I get a good explanation or you are out of my life. Don't mess with the wolf inside of me!
i agree, but for me as a scorpio like she said and what i feel will fix this is to give me a good point that validates us staying friends, if not then it will depend on how well did our relationship as friends get. though if said person doesn't change/was an still is a bleep, then its a yes or no aka 50/50 toss which usually ends on the bad side. i have a lot of friends, but smaller amount to my close friends that i trust/respect who get me.
Same
Trust me, all the scorpios have a strong WOLF inside of us.
No depends on the evolution of the Scorpio. If it’s a Scorpion Scorpio evolution those type of people are always hell bound on revenge based on every betrayal. If it’s an eagle Scorpio evolution those type of people pick and choose their battles, uses success and power as justice, not vengeance, then there is the Phoenix Scorpio Evolution never letting anything get to them, these people die many deaths, emotionally, psychologically to their own desires and self and are reborn as this all powerful being, this is usually a latter life evolution later in life.
As a Scorpio, I could never take disrespect. Especially public disrespect. Or my insecurities being thrown on my face. Or my secrets being revealed. I will give any such person doing that, a lesson of their life. No matter, who they are.
Usually ppl do that when that person is the one who is insecure about them and they want to lower their image than them just to feel higer than them.... whether Scorpio or not. I don't think anyone is okay with that. Im being a Pisces i deal with such situation on a routine level lol
Scorpio is like a Pissed off Batman.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So true. 😎
With no need for a robin or a nightwing.
Lol thnx
soo ture...my background on pc is batman.....moon in scorpio...lillith in scorpio....
Ok I’m scropio, scropio hides their talents and wait people to underestimate them and wait until the right moment to prove them wrong.
Likes if you know what I mean. I didn’t read anything I got from myself
Scared_Kenny scary accurate 🤣🤣💯
Haha. Im like that and Aries.
Yups...
ShHhHhH
OMFG. BEYOND ACCURATE
Some Scorpios have stronger core traits than others. The one part I could not relate to was about using someones secrets to expose them and try to hurt them. Because i deeply believe in keeping promises i'll find another way to ruin your life without breaking my promise to keep your secret.
lawl970 so true. We’ll keep secrets to our grave.
Truth
For me, it depends how big the secret is, and how bad the person betrayed me. If they deeply, and i mean, DEEPLY AND PAINFULLY hurt me, I honestly won't hesitate to expose every dirty shit they did.
But yeah i agree with you on the most part, i wont break the promise at all if it wasn't as bad.
lm with you on that one
I think this is true for most of us ❤
I'm a Taurus, but I feel like a Scorpio would just randomly and suddenly test your loyalty and tolerance levels, just because they're bored.
I'm surprised by how accurate you are.🤣
Oh this is exactly me!😂
Look who's talking
It's not because we're bored, it's because yall cause red flags
As a scorpio who love taurus we r scared that of r u happy with us so its just the way we find out i know its tough but we really care about u especially taurus 🥺🥺
I would never tell anyone’s secrets, when someone tells me one, I’ll never use it against them, no matter how much I hate you.
Agreed
except if they betray a secret of mine. eye for an eye.
Yup
I told someone they liked me to someone else, becasue i am was sure of myself that i am devoted to that person. so i didn't take it seriously. If i have to defend that person from embarrasment i would have said i liked her more. that's that.
"I'm always going to care for you but I will never love you again " The most scorpio thing ever been said
So very true! Never forget a thing!
Absolutely right
Absolutely right
Nope. I'm not this way haha if I'm done with u, I'm done. I don't give a shit about your life...
I won't care either💁♂️
I hate when people ask for my opinion and get mad at me when it’s hurtful especially when they want an honest opinion
Thunder Storm they can't handle the truth!!!
Same
Thunder Storm I feel you
Thunder Storm its not that we are trying to be mean. Its just the truth.
KeikiKitsune now wtf are you even talking about?
I’m a Scorpio but I’d never use someone’s secrets and insecurity’s against them.
true.
Interesting 🤔 we don’t really do it upfront it’s mostly like unknowingly lol
True
Ahhh I have . but never in public , only when I am alone with that person .
@@itscesarbtch3451 lmfao, exactly 🤣🤣 and sometimes, in the most messed up cases, knowingly 😂😂😂
As a Scorpio, My life resembles this quote.
“You can’t throw me to the wolves, they come when I call”
My enemies are at my every whim. They come to me I don’t go to them. I’m always in control
You're brutally honest and as a Scorpio, I really respect that.
Better real than fake indeed
Color Sounds as a Pisces I respect you
Do not agree with a lot which saddens me, was looking for accuracy in this star stuff. God did create the stars...
Psalm 139...perfectly and wonderfully made even in the zodiac Scorpio! Lol
Christian studying the stars.
Im a pisces so if you piss me off in anyway I'm gonna shut you out and just hold into my anger and my regrets how i feel towards a scorpio
Us Scorpio are one of the most misunderstood people ever we do things for a reason.
Yes
I rly don't know y we are ever misunderstood
Lol true
So true
If they dealt in logic , they would understand a Scorpio. When you become an evolved Scorpio , you just don't raise your voice anymore , you speak a lot softer but with more meaning . Us Scorpios is like … once bitten twice shy …
Ideally, in astrology, Leo and Scorpio DO NOT usually get along 😬, so Scorpios, if she sounds really bias, its pretty obvious she doesn't get along with this zodiac. As a pisces ♓who's friends with Scorpios♏, I think that they don't use your secrets against you, more like they avoid you for a reason that you caused to hurt them.
It's cos Cancers are emotionally intelligent.
I have realized that I hate Leos sorry and I run across so many. My dad was a leo
Hey I hope everyone here is great. Wanted to comment on the scorp Leo thing and basic astrology. My husband is a Leo. He is a very strong Leo born dead center his zodiac sign. I am a Scorpio very strong born dead center my zodiac sign. We are both fixed signs my mercury is in scorp. His mercury is in Leo. So we communicate from our own signs. I have 6 aspects in Scorpio. He has 4 in Leo. We share the same moon and rising. We share the same Chiron. We are complete opposites or completely the same in our astrology but our Venus. His is cancer- a water sign. Mine is sag- a fire sign. So we swap right there. I have a Mars scorp he has a mars Leo.
Look again. We are twins. My darkness to his light. My depth to his astonishing light. My heaviness to his light. He is the sun. He is the only one who can illuminate me. We are best friends. We have 5 kids and been married a quarter century and everyday I love him more. He is my God. I have no other God. Never ever will. So rethink the basic astrology stuff. Leo and scorp is as tight as they come in our case. Peace and love. That’s what we are: peace and love. Love you all
My horse is my business partner. We travelled the world together winning money and cars and medals and acclaim. He is a Pisces. A very prominent one. He sometimes lets me see the jumps coming up like he’s sees them- all mystical and kaleidoscopic. I love Pisces. You guys understand us scorps
Me a Scorpio and my brother who is a Leo lmao trust me it's war everyday
Being a scorpio an having bad ADHD an anxiety is very hard to be around people an to even make friends.....
ghetto or gang loses all points not scorpio HUA!
My mom is a scorpio and man is she scary!!!! Oh my god if you mess with her you will die, she made grown men cry... BUT she is the most amazing person I have ever met, I love my scorpio mother, she loves so intensely and not many people can handle that, I'm a Gemini, and luckily for our relationship I'm pretty grounded, I understand her very well. Love you mom
Reinhart I know exactly how you feel. I share your pain haha
What if
I am scorp & moon gemini
Hmm
tell this to her, she will love it :))
My moms a Scorpio and im a gemini to we have somthing in common
Im a Scorpio guy and my mom is a Sagittarius when I was a young kid she was like your mom 😂😂😂
As a scoripio, I do think about revenge a lot. But I'm more of a silent killer, as other scorpios could probably relate. I won't embarrass you in an ethic debate or post grudges on social media, as you mentioned. I don't like having others see my vengeful actions, I don't need to have others know of my anger towards you(the person I'm angry at). I ONLY want YOU to feel it, and I'll make sure you feel it and that you don't fall asleep at night.
Truuueee
Whoever u are we are in the same page I destroy in silence and with a smile
How'd you know??
I often wonder how many professional assassins are scorpios? We are bold, cold, and calculating.
I just close the door and do my best to completely avoid them & let the time heal the wound but depending on the deepest of the wound I feel them dead in my heart and only then I don't feel anything toward them no love, no hate. And I think is better than holding grudges.
I as a scorpio moon i don't hold grudges anymore, i learned to set boundaries, its all about peace, if someone does me dirty while im loyal and true to them whether its a friend or a partner, its their's to deal with it, since i've dealt with mine by letting them in and i paid the price for my naivety and trust, im not letting them get back to me again, im not perfect, and i don't pretend to be, but i learnt the hard way from every mistakes that i've made so far, and i learnt that removing people that has been toxic towards you from your life is selfcare selflove and selfrespect, because people know what they are doing since they don't want it to be done to them, and most of the people are driven by their egoself, and life has to humble them first for their apologies to be honest and sincere.... ✌
This is so true. Exactly how i feel.
as a fellow scorpio moon, i couldn't have said better.
Scorpios are irreplaceable,there's none like us
will marry you
"As a a Scorpio, I don't start a fight, I finish it!" ♏♏♏
Deanna Marin Period
I'm a scorpio I DO THAT
PERIOOODD
Heh.....I’m the one Scorpio in the crime scene would be the killer,I start it~ I end it~
My god same
I feel personally attacked by this relatable content
Japanausea sane just a bit😂jk but yes
Lmao
I DID TO.WELL I CAN SAY SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE PISSED OFF A SCORPIO.TO ME THIS GIRL IS FAKE.SHE SAID SHE HAD ALOT OF SCORPIOS PISSED OFF AT HER.IT AINT US SCORPIOS IT HER. LOVE BEING A SCORPIO.SCORPIO UNTILL THE DAY I DIE.
Japanausea right!😂
😂
A Scorpio’s ego would never let him stoop so low to use your secrets against you.
Another thing as a Scorpio woman, I never go back. If I finish a relationship (and it is always me who makes the decision and moves on) there is no looking back. If it doesn’t work it doesnt work. No more chance.
“I’ll never love you again.” Aka “I’ll always love you and never acknowledge that part of myself ever again.”
Sad but true.
Faxxx
Those words could kill even the strongest person
Facts.
Yes...so true!....
When upsetting a Scorpio our eyes will show it. When really upset there is no calming us down. When I get really upset, I become silent and have the most ruthless, cold, and intimidating stare. My friends tell me all the time that I am VERY scary when I get like that. I have made Men who tested me, coward in intimidation with my Scorpio glare. We will warn you not to drive us to that point, if you don't listen.. that is your demise.
Omg my friends refer to it as “that face” and I know exactly what they are talking about. It’s like our soul leaves our eyes. My eyebrows get lower and my jaw gets sharper and my eyes get darker. Like I even feel like my hair is standing up. But I’m completely still trying not to blow fire at whoever the face is directed at 😂
same girl, it s literally written all over my face!!
and if no one calms me down, if not at that moment but later shits gonna go down.
Facts. I have the same stare
Facts 100% I scared this one person to the point where they even know if I get upset they gotta run. I do this stare where I will 'remove your soul from your body' as per a friends saying.
David Humphrey same!! Then when I get to point of no return . And I try to calm down I really can’t . Lol my bf (sagittarius) hates it.
So true that if someone shares my deep secret that I told them with others MY TRUST IS OVER, I will NEVER TRUST THEM, but it also makes me realised that I can not trust anyone.
Something weird I've noticed happens to us scorpio is that when we finally angry yell at someone, its super hard to stop the tears, that's more or less how you can measure how we feel anger.
yes so much anger and then tears with exploding head
Angry and emotional at the same time!
Lol..I am laughing so DAMN hard..because this is so True. Great video. We are the BEST friends but the worst enemies.
Tracey Owen Hughes YOU ALL ARE NOT THE BEST FRIENDS
Just Enemies PERIOD!!!!
Fuck Scorpios,just find their weak points and mount an attack on all fronts while humiliating them. The worst people that I have ever come across,evil,liars,duplicitous,deleterious with information,try to take advantage of good natured people, these have all been Scorpios. They are the worst,the absolute pits and deserve nothing better than pure contempt and should be exiled from society. Stay away from Scorpios,they are evil.
Passionate beyond belief in everything we do.
Tyron Smith Scorpios won't do anything to you unless you cross them, whatever scorpios you knew you probably did something just as bad to make them angry. Also chill out, scorpios are really cool when you take the time to get to know them 😊
Wow I'm a scorpio and everything that you said was accurate.
I know my Scorpios! haha love you guys!
Krista Klavina hi
Krista Klavina true dude, true
@Gachevers wolf Ianni I was born on October 28th
@@GabrielaFrancescaCarrillo No you don't "know" us. Read the comments, EVERY SCORPIO disagrees with you saying us Scorpios will expose someone's secrets. THAT is soooooo far from the truth, more like something sneaky witches like you Leo's do!!!!
Scorpio anger : think about killing someone in 4 different ways and replay them in their heads
4… those are rookie numbers in this racket son, you gotta bump those numbers up
Bumb that up to 700 and them thats the bottom line
Exactly ,i dont start a fight ,i only finish what they started😂
It means scorpio have a good memory and strong character. Anything casual is filth for scorpios. They love to live with intensity and with honest people, definitely not with the two faced ones. Only a two faced can accept a two faced one. I don't think anybody likes a two faced person.
True. My memory is perfect.
Mmhmm. Very strong memory. And definitely a despised by others for their strong character. However ppl undermine my scorpio vibes. They see my sun sign gemini. And thought its an easy target to bully. Theyget real upset when they realize Im a secret scorpio.
@@MeredithMynroseUniversalHealer can relate 😁. My sag sun almost completely hides my Scorpio moon until it's too late 😈
@@MeredithMynroseUniversalHealer Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon/Pluto hahahaha
Scorpios clash constantly with aquarius and geminis
So true.. throw a stone at a Scorpio expect a flaming boulder back
Skye JP ah, you mean pebble. Throw a pebble at a Scorpio, expect a flaming boulder back.
Your missing the point. You had the INTENT to hurt or piss off a scorp. It's premeditated. We don't do that shit first.
MAN....Listen. Don't piss us off. LMAOO!!
I'm a Scorpio and I will come back with a Katana and drag you to hell.
Commons people:Hell is just a name....
Scorpio:You FOOL!!!!!😈😈
The way you can be made to feel by a Scorpio is either you're basking in the Savannah or you're shivering in some place like the Antarctic. When they love you they're channeling all that love and attention and affection at you and you can feel so "seen" and heard and felt, because they invest in you so much and there's so much substance there... And you're right, when they feel crossed or betrayed, especially in friendships they can shun you and you're done with. You're dead... It's a very cold and lonely world on the wrong side of a Scorpio. Just for the fact that so much care can be erased and leave you shivering.
As a Scorpio moon, you helped me understand a lot of why/when I get so deeply hurt. You explained it best where I literally have to sit with the pain, “have my funeral” and come back around after I’ve felt what I needed too and to piece my words together...because words just don’t hold value to the depth of our pain. I’m seeing these imbalances and trying to grow from them, so as someone trying to master their emotions, this video helped more than you realize. 💜🌺 Also, I laughed at the Taurus sun, yes. To a T. Send me flowers and food after I’ve gotten through my funeral!🌷🌮
A Scorpio never tolerates betrayal or forgives one.
That's right!!! Especially after we Scorpios have put in lots of time in opening up our super small circle so we can give chances to people in earning our unrivaled loyalty. So many people think it's a joke to betray us, which is why I am extremely skeptical to seemingly no end. I don't care if I'm being overboard unreasonable, once betrayed, the perpetrators are dead to me, even if they are "gods" and "goddesses." Only a "miracle" can get me to trust them again, even if they have worked so hard to the brink of their deaths.
Nope!! NEVER, once betrayed we will make you feel as though your dead to us!!
We Scorpio's feel much much safer if we take it to Heart.'
Never
Nah.
There are a lot of people that are dead to me.
Demon Cats me too lol. I made a video too about Scorps from a Scorp
Same
Same here ♏️😂🙈
Same 😂
Same here...I embrace my solitude and isolation.
"I will destroy you in the most beautiful way possible and when I leave, you will realise why storms are named after people."
-Scorpio
When a Scorpio loves someone and the love is reciprocated, it means a world to them. More than physical they seek for emotional attachment. Therefore, what he meant was he is not going to wish for any bad things to happen to you in future but at the same time he can't love you anymore even if you come back to his life later because you betrayed his emotions once.
I’m a Scorpio. 11/11. Scorpios don’t let things go unless the person is willing to apologize for whatever they did. You don’t get to pretend like you don’t know what you did, then act surprised towards my response. You can be labeled a shitty friend for thinking you’re going to smile in our face knowing you should address what was done or said. Scorpios know when a person is secretly hoping what they did was not caught on to. That’s the part that causes rage in Scorpios. So if you are a narcissist/gaslighter, Scorpio will be the first to let you know because people can be slick with a smile and hate apologizing like Leo’s. People like to play with fire, then act surprised and victimized when sh** gets real.
exactly key traits of a schizophrenic
true
Hbd to you long life and prosperity
Lordt! The truth in this comment! I'm 10/30 Scorpio and this is directly on the nail! When people do fucked up shit and act like shit gonna be fuckin 🌹 GTFOH!
I honestly hate saying sorry to people. So i really feel you.
Im a scorpio and I found out I was betrayed a few years after the fact. I went straight to the person and confronted them to give them a chance to redeem themselves and not completely fall from my eye. But they played stupid and denied everything. I walked away and blocked that person everywhere. Even after their millionth phone call and lots of messages later, I never answered and never will do again.
That doesnt mean I hold a grudge. I actually wish him well, just the hell away from me!
My point is, trust is a big deal. And if a Scorpio has taken their valuable time to create a loving space with you, and you CHOSE to betray them , you’re throwing everything down the trash. All is gone in a split second. Were all adults here. Once someone shows me what they are made of, I believe them. Thats the end of that and have a nice life.
Well said ,I loved the way u explained that.
"I still want to see you eat, just not with me"
A T fair enough but sometimes you need to stand up for yourself when the Scorpio is bullying you!
true!!!
Wooooow strong one♥️😘I did the same also..
Sometimes when we say something like "I will never love you again" it isnt necessarily meant to hurt you, but to try and convey what sort of hurt you've inflicted unto us. If it hurts you in turn, thats just a nice side effect.
When my Scorpio wife goes shopping I'll sometimes get a call with her going critical mass over an idiot driver or feeling she was slighted by someone at whatever store. I let her vent which calms her down somewhat but then I have to hear the story again when she gets home and her eyes turn blue to grey and the basilisk stare of destruction begins as she recalls the event. (Much to my amusement.) If she's quiet, that's when I get worried. On the other hand they are some of the most tender, insightful and loving people you can meet once you're worthy of that beautiful gaze.
Hopefully you read this but you misunderstood your ex. When he told you he'll always care for you but never love you again he wasn't trying to hurt you (though a part of him definitely wanted to). He was letting you know how badly you hurt him, and how scared he was of experiencing that again with you. So he accepted the "truth" you showed him and would be moving on.
He was saying even though his love was (and in a sense always will be) deep and true for you, he felt you clearly didn't feel the same via your action to (I presume) immediately date someone else after breaking up. Like you just moved on, no problem, as if he never really mattered to you. And because of this, he could never risk letting you re-enter his heart and life again (romantically at least).
Now I don't know if he was right for saying this, but based off of what you said I can tell that's at least what he meant.
Also about the fear of being upgraded that your spoke of. Scorpios don't fear being upgraded, they fear learning that someone didn't care for them the way they did for that person. Since that's what upgrading is, not caring (unless that friend being upgraded is toxic).
That's exactly what I thought.
I thought that too.
Exactly!
well said! She's pretty but still needs a lot of tweeking between the ears! har har har
oEXTRA Facts
I am a scorpio and i don't agree with what are you saying....if we do some things...we do it for a reason😐
yea i think she's really over simplifying things. scorpio anger is not that surface level in the slightest. we are calculating and resourceful with our emotions. when i'm mad at someone, it may not be for life, but you can bet your ass that my decision isn't what's best for other people. it's going to be the best move for me. i don't get super pissed and cut people off, but i do have my list of people that have wronged me. and those were all calculated choices.
Elisa Lung you’re probably really a ;libra sun
Its always for a reason...im convinced people think we(♏) supposed to just blow shit off and be ok with it...but no thats not the way it works
@@pavgarbis9609 bingo
Yeah there are some things I don't feel ring true for me. I'm definitely all for ignoring the person who wronged me but it takes a lot for someone I'm loyal to to hurt me. I can take a lot but once my trust is broken it's final.
I’m a Scorpio, and if I feel very betrayed by someone I trusted and cared about, we need to have an honest conversation about it where the other person takes accountability for their actions. I’ll take accountability for anything I did wrong, too. I’ll be super irritated if the person knows I’m upset and tries to fix it by buying me gifts or trying to flatter me, because to me it seems like they’re trying to sweep a big problem under the rug by using charm. I might enjoy being around them but I’ll know they will let me down again if the problem is never addressed. Not being able to have serious talks is emotionally weak in my opinion, and I’ll reconsider if they’re worth having in my life.
I think it has to do with the maturity of a person and self esteem. I have never bullied anyone I am the one stand up for the underdogs. It's true that if I am done with people I am done. I don't have energy to deal with drama and waste my time. I never harm anyone. I believe everyone is free to be who they are. Not every Scorpio is the same since we have other planets and houses to determine our individuality. All people value loyalty, honesty, trust and respect in all relationships.
I agree and a lot of what she says isn’t true for me, being a Scorpio. Maybe it has a lot do with when you were born , like the beginning , middle or end which literally is parts of 2 months!
I also hate when people make Scorpios seem like emos, like they always wanna die or something. It pisses me off, it really isn't true at all.
lavender river I know right. We are introverts not emo. I made a video from the perspective of a Scorpio if you wanna see it. ruclips.net/video/O6ENuZFU_iA/видео.html
they are sociopathic af though
lavender river I talk about that in my video. True shit.
lavender river preach
lavender river
Theres a reason why we're one of the most misunderstood zodiac signs. Peoples interpretation of things are always different. What many interpret as anger and grudge holding for us is simply "I'd rather not deal with ___"
I’m a Scorpio I forgive but never forget 🙌🏼🤗
I have a hard time with the forgiving part lol
Well girl you are to for giveing I am a full grown Scorpio with all 8 trait,s and I treat each person , differently , with me they only get one chance , time,s to short to fuck around , if I want I can be nice , or a complete ass hole depending on the occurance it all depends,s on the person , time and when shit happen,s ?????
Never ever forget....
I don't forgive
Same.
I know it sounds silly, but every time my Scorpio boyfriend and I have an issue or if I piss him off, I watch this video...it has truly helped me to understand how scorpios deal with certain things and to remind myself to not beat myself up so much about the problems that arise in our relationship. Scorpio anger is a whole nother level, and it's intense to deal with. But watching this always helps...
The worst betrayals I experienced were from scorpios. And now I've sort of fallen in love with someone with a sun, venus and mars in scorpio. Bye- 💀
Im a scorpio sign and all what you have said is true. U hurt us once, will kill you twice. Just be urself with scorpio and be genuinely good person. 😊
noypi21stcentury Don’t tell me what to do
noypi21stcentury so (btw am a Scorpio too just sayin')
If you betrayed a Scorpio, best you get a protection order now....
No I'm a Scorpio and I'm always the victim that's the reason why I just ignore the bullies and just continue drawing (I'm just a grade 6 student in the Philippines who loves drawing)
Clai Cielo that's great, I wish I could do that but I can't. Sorry to hear about the bullying thou, that's not cool. Take care young one
Scorpio its ok (but it's just so annoying because EVEN IF WE'RE NOT CLASSMATES SHE COMES UP TO *MY* CLASSROOM and invite me over for lunch then tells her friends terrible things about me in 5th grade I storm out and eat my lunch in my classroom (we are NOT allowed to invite each other to his/her house in our school it's just for basic safety we eat in the classroom or fields because we have 5 or 6 fields in my school) then she spreads rumors about me after that but I'm used to it. It's not that hard (maybe because I'm a psycho I don't know probably) I don't talk to anyone at school I just draw terrifying drawings (and by terrifying I mean people with knives or people covered in blood from murdering some-one) sorry if I'm weird but that's just me its actually the reason I have no friends
Do you think you take your anger out in drawing? That's quite mature of you. That's how I see it. As for the girls spreading rumours you once again are being the bigger person and ignoring them. School can be a terrible place, it's easy for me to say don't worry about it but I know it's hard. Keep drawing, your a Scorpio, you will be ok
Scorpio ok it'll go away when I graduate (at least I hope she's not going to the same school as me when we get in high school if she is it'll be so awkward)
You can not upgrade us. Every time she says that it gets on my dam nerves lmaoo we are the shit 😹👌🏼🦂👊🏼🔥
We’re not stubborn we are driven and will always succeed in our goals
Scorpio’s hold grudges till the end of time 🤷🏾♀️
they're all mentally unstable
Lmaooo deadass🙆🏾♀️😂♥️
@@colonelyungblonsk7730 not all of us hun. I actually forgive easily to the people who deserve it
Sooo trueee
actually we hold it longer then that somehow
As a Scorpio I've found the best way to deal with people who disappoint me or hurt me in some way is not to go after them,(it may be unconscious on their part) they just cease to exist...I never confront them or waste my time explaining what they did, I just stop talking to them..Sometimes depending on the person, I'll use the three strike method because I know it can be hard for people to rise to the level of expectation that Scorpios hold so high, but if they continue to behave in such a way I deem unacceptable there's no coming back from that. Some people would prefer an argument to this!!!
Elizabeth Johnson so true, i do the exact same thing!
I matured into that 5 years ago but that is for the ones I love. Ones I don't. I'm coming out with swords, lol😂😂. I just wanna hurt them more than I feel or have made me feel.
THANK YOU!!! I'd rather not seek revenge or play games. If I'm over it, it's fuck you forever or at least for years...
Same. They are blocked like I never met them.
For me everyone gets one strike .
Once a mistake twice a choice .
As a Scorpio, I can definitely approve of this. We are a sign that is very secretive and if you earn our trust, don't ever break it. When it comes to me personally being mad at people, I usually just completely cut them off from my life and never speak to them again until I feel like they have changed and are approachable. We do this a lot even if we cut off the wrong people or for our jealousy. But it's only because we have a hard time opening up to people and I also feel like we are afriad of being broken by the people that we love. That is also why our circle of people that we love is so small because trust is a major thing to us. I also noticed that a lot of Scorpios, including myself have abandonment issues and are afriad of being abandoned and that's why we get jealous when seeing others love the people that we love.
I don't know if any other Scorpios can agree with this but this is my view as a Scorpio. What do you think?
On point!
As a Scorpio who allowed only one person (Leo) the right to their heart; what hurt me most was how quickly she broke off the "only true love" in her life. It was over text and reading the words 'its best we dont talk' had never crossed my mind. What did cross my mind was 'hope I can marry this girl one day'. The way things ended shattered every ounce of my being. Thats simply how deeply I love and theres nothing worse than somebody pretending to reciprocate that and then vanish out of thin air. How naive I was to give her the satisfaction of knowing she had broken me too. I don't hold no grudge, she is simply dead to me.
I'm sure you;ve heard this before, but...I can relate..almost exactly...
As a Sag who let a Taurus male into my heart, we tried dated 3 times - even during a long break(break-up), I still wanted him - and done what I could to improve myself - as a way of getting him back...
While it never worked after 3 times, we remained close friends...and it never occurred to me that the day would come when he would ever leave back to his hometown and find another girlfriend - nor tell me that she'd give him the ultimatum of choosing between me and her, in which he'd choose her...
This was a guy I dated with (12/19/2007 - 3/9/2008, 12/12/2008 - 1/12/2009 and 6/23 - 8/1/2009)...this was a guy who I was friends with (9/10/2007) before we ever dated and someone who saw what I went through - good and bad...this was a guy who I talked about my life with - especially the traumatizing events of my life up to that timespan (2007-2008) - we would prepare to move out into the real world throughout 2009...this was a guy who met my parents, grandparents and a few of my aunts...this was a guy whom I had in my future, wanting to have a life and who I wanted to have kids with...
We met at a vocational school where we not only learnt a trade, but we learnt how to be independent and learn social skills...
He was lost to me on 2/26/2014...yet, it occurred to me on Valentine's Day of that year...I wanted to see him again since I hadn't seen him in almost 5 years...and as it was a beginning of a new year, I wanted to start with making an improvement on our friendship which I had started to notice deteriorate into "penpals/acquaintance", and I wanted to revive those feelings of being friends again, with me.
Needless to say, upon saying my goodbye - for the final time, it made me feel nothing - he never tried to be a friend to me, nor did he seem to want to keep me around as a friend...but when it sunk in, it hit me hard...so much so, that throughout the year, it gradually almost destroyed me...first, I spent most of that year crying...I never knew a day in any month of that year, when I didn't cry - even waking up and start bawling...or crying myself to sleep...among other symptoms of depression...ven when I found a new job (7/2 - 8/22/2014), or went to Canada for vacation - 10/2 - 11/2/2014), I wanted to tell him about it - especially when we - my mom and I were travelling through Stockton, California(where he was from)...but I had to remind myself that he was no longer around...the suicidal thoughts came later; I couldn't seem to hold onto anything - a friend, a job, and I watched my mom's own relationship end in front of me - and he used her for what he wanted to get (financially)...and I was basically doing nothing with my life nor for anyone...and I couldn't seem to get out of the black hole I was in...and I thought about ending my life...what kept me from doing that, was the thought of my cat...I didn't want to leave her all alone with nobody to take care of her, or for her to be thrown from home to home, or taken back to the shelter I got her from, or to be put out onto the streets...that saved me;
After a whole year, I thought and felt it best to just care about him as a regular human being...never again, will I date him or be his friend again. He threw me away like a toy that was all used up...out with the old, in with the new sort of thing...all I felt for him - love, liking, trust, respect, it's dead....what I feel for him is what I feel for other humans...as I mentioned...
This experience has been a contributing factor in my reluctance to date again, even though I would like to...and it's been 8 years, already...
I just thought I'd share my own experience with you - as a way of letting you know I, too, have been there...
I don't think your ex-boyfriend said that to hurt you being another Scorpio I think he said that because of the the pain of his own heart it is truly hard for a Scorpio to fall in love for real so when they do and it doesn't work out it feels like death to them to see the one they love move on
I totally agree.
Lord knows I honestly struggle to love people so when I do, I just want them to love me too and it really hurts when they don't.
I disagree. If she hurt him (obviously he was hurt) then he would do or say whatever (or at least I would) he needed to cause her pain. Whether it was true or not, it worked. If I knew that was the one thing that would hurt her the most, it would've been the 1st thing I did. I'm not pretending to know this person but sounds like exactly how I would handle it.
I agree ,but i think he will always appreciated for their memories.
Yeah this i can agree on. When a scorpio has loved and wishes you well after you hurt him then he is abandoning everything he felt too be true.
Scorpio is NOT immature. Scorpio does not put up with crap at any point. I am extremely emotional and I do not possess the trait of meanness. toward others. Defensive yes
no they are
me too im like that
@@amirab7884 are you amira baha by any means? also known as my aunt? i'm asking this for a friend?
just kidding it's just a funny coincidence, my aunt is also called amira. she's...well...
tom sawyer im definitely not ur aunt... but yeah my namenis Amira 🤷🏻♀️
You express yourself so well about these issues and you speak from personal experiences. You give good tips and lots to think about. This is very helpful to people who are the sheepish type.
I'm a scorpio and this video was ON POINT.
I was expecting the general stuff that everybody says, but you described some scenarios and explained them so well! Absolutely possessive in the way you described, and when we are mad we are MAD.
The worst thing anybody can do to us is share a (deep, because we only do deep) relationship with us and then backstab us. That's it. Dead to me.
BUT
we love with allllll our hearts I swear lol.
I'm Scorpio and we had this super good instincts at observing fake people it's true that we're very secretive (coz that's my attitude) we love to observe people a lot (that's my habit)
As a fellow Scorpio, you aren't alone. Ive done this basically my entire life whether I realized I'm doing it or not.
hmmm i might want you
Fr
You explained everything very well as always. The longest grudge I've held on to was 15 years long-- but it was for good reasons I promise. The best way to get a Scorpio to be less mad at you is just to show them that you're sorry. Genuinely sorry. When I was younger, and scarier tbh, if I was mad at anyone, I would rip them into pieces. Like you said, if you hurt a Scorpio, everything is fair game. And Scorpios usually know exactly where to sting. But awesome video and great insights as always!
PaHoua Vang Yep, that’s how it is! Yes you have to really show remorse and that you’ve changed. Not an easy task, to make a Scorpio forgive! Thanks for watching!
+Gabriela Francesca (Mindful Indulgence) I have a problem I was wondering if you could help me I meant this Scorpio guy 2 months ago I like him and he knows I like him I text him that I like him but I will like him as a friend he said fine by me but he likes girl and I always say hi to him and look for him where he hangs out I know I'm obsessed with him . and I feel like I annoye him and I talk to him and stare at him when we talk I can't help it i think he knows i wait for him near the locker room just to talk to him or say hi one time I saw and said hi and was going to give him a high five and he stop and turn to me face me and I stop smiling and he was just smiling at me and he walk away my friend said your weird I don't what happened I just froze and I next day I talk to him just staring at him and 2 days he was there but I say where he was hanging out but didn't say hi or talk to him I was nervous and was thinking damn I feel like I'm bothering him and feel bad that I do that and wonder if he thinks I'm werid or mad at me or annoying him can you help me or give me advice
for what I know about Scorpios ....people are d one who always breaking up with them because of their bad awful character devils
Diana Joseph Lmao
PaHoua Vang I hear you!! So true!! (Scorpio here) 👍🏽
I'm a scorpio myself and I have been lied to betrayed backstabbed insulted and disrespected recently and I have no remorse or sympathy for the individual that done me like that the person is definitely dead to me never going to be able to be friends or care for them again.
I'm sorry you had scorpio friends that are so possessive they didn't like you having other friends. As a scorpio (&with other super close scorpio friends) I do believe other friends are important, they are different sides of you. BUT I've also kept my mouth shut when I realized other friends were toxic. I let time tell the truth and to myself I always prove myself right about those toxic people.
What happens when there is a fight between two Scorpios?
WW3
Shit about to go down.
Or truce?
Lol! No. We just get fed up with each other due to our immunity to each others nasty words. Our egos phase from one issue to another so we never know truly how to really hurt each other.
Don't worry the world will not explode on our accounts.
Elaine Persephone P. my twin sister and i are scorpios. let’s just say the fight never truly ends and we do basically everything that’s explained in this video. scorpios (from my standpoint) are honestly ruthless and don’t care about others feelings when they’ve been wronged. we will go in for the kill and rub salt in wounds. it’s like neither of the scorpios will truly win or lose. it’s really a tie.
Actually its the end of the world lmaoo
I'm a scorpio sun, mars and mercury...i couldn't have said it better. spot on. Believe me when a scorpio enters your life it's for a reason!. Their life will never be the same and we do help people grow in some way.
S. F. im aquarius and scorpion mars and everything you said was soooo meee
S. F. Wow thank you so much! So glad you connected with what I said.
True
A Scorpio came to my life & did me wrong things got ugly for that scoripo
As a Scorpio I approve this message ☑️
Hahahahaha “Thank you for NOT killing me.” 😂😂😂
I just tell myself THEY are not worth a reason going to jail 😂😂😂
You want a scorpio to forgive you? Be genuine with them, man/woman up and apologize. Do not attempt to tell them that they were upset, hurt or angry for no reason or try to justify that it was a petty issue/fight/argument/tantrum/etc. If you know a healthy well balanced and mature Scorpio and they get angry with you it really is for a justified reason. You did something (regardless if you realized or not) to cross them or betray them in some form. Find out what it was if you are not sure and be genuine and apologetic if you know or don't know what you did. But more than likely a mature scorpio will tell you so you will have the opportunity to make things right because they want harmony with their friends and partners deep down. If we mess up with you and are mature we will come forth and make things right however we have to, apologies, love letters, peace offerings, do nice things for you etc. If you messed up with us...Be willing to be honest about your mistake, error in judgement, dishonesty, false intentions, betrayal, bad attitude, 2 faced ways, etc. A mature and balanced scorpio is the realeast, truest friend and partner you will ever have in this lifetime. Don't mess it up or take it for granted. There's a lot of fake, superficial, dishonest, users, liars, disloyal, corrupt people in this world. Scorpio knows this to be true and pledges to not be one of those kinds of people in your life if you pledge them the same. If you play games you lose and it is never worth the hassle it will cost you in the long run. You will feel thr loss of a Scorpio in your life as well as the beneficial transformation that they bring you.
Excellent!!!!
Absolutely well said. 👏👏👏
Really?every scorpio I have known could not hold there own.Super lazy and 2face.They dont value real frienfs or honesty.To emotional,also not very clean...male or female.No matter the relationship.Friend,brother,lover.BIG BABY SCORPIO!😂I have literally had to put them down like dogs at the pound.They are the sign I had done the most for and still dont appreciate anything.Petty people.I know this may not apply to all scorpios.So dont get but hurt.This only pertains to those I knew.
@@MegaBrandon3 That's you experience. You can feel what you feel, they are validated, but it's not a fact. That's exactly what Gabriela is doing in this video
Brandon Woods he said MATURE Scorpio
Remember: if a Scorpio ever tells you something personal, you have signed an invisible contact that you can’t back away from
And if you do back away, then they will take care of their side of the contact.
Period 😂
xd
You just signed your death warrant lmfao
well you can back away but the penalty for violating that non disclosure agreement is the wrath of the scorpio.
periOD
That's already something personal... We now all have a contract with you 🤔😎
Why should "we" learn a lesson? If we're betrayed we feel bad then it is the fault of that person who hurted us...n he/she surely has to pay for it "with interest" coz not only the deed but also the thought of betraying us is the reason why we're hurt
@Revolver Borre can you elaborate your point more i m interested to listen....
I don't like people with a lot of friends cuz it makes me see them as attention seekers which i despise. It's not possessiveness or me feeling threatened by it
I am Scorpio rising and I hate when people run their mouth about things, especially things that I feel are between me and them. The things you said about not liking two-faced people is so true; it makes me feel like I can't trust them and I won't share anything important with them. My sun is in Taurus and my moon and mars is in Leo so generally, I don't have conflict with people often and if I do I will ignore them. Thank you as always!
Naomi Yep, totally makes sense! Thank YOU for watching!
Absolutely. It just pisses me off when someone runs their mouth about something I said to them cause I just feel like my shit being known by someone is my decision to take and like they took that decision away from me. You just don't do that.
Julie James Yes!!! It’s obvious that it was something that I shared with you because I wanted YOU to know it not everyone else. Some people feel the need to fill awkward pauses or gossip with people’s personal lives to have something to talk about! It takes a lot for some people to open up and when trust is broken it makes it difficult for us to feel as though we can trust again.
Thee Absolute Truth...Preach!!!!😡😡
Naomi
GOT DAMIT!!!!
SO TRUE!!!
I CAN SPOT A FAKE SNAKE,, LIKE A HAWK IN THE SKY SPOTS DINNER!
What people fail to understand is if u wrong a Scorpio and u don't acknowledge it ( you only have yourself to blame)
We forget nothing.
And i mean nothing (♏)
BK Fressh and what about if we do acknowledge it?
Toni Garcia Scorpio moon here. If you acknowledge your faults GENUINELY and don’t try to justify it or make excuses but just say sorry I fucked up wont do it again... I would personally forgive you because you’re not playing the victim and you show that you want to do better. Of course that has to be followed by not making the same mistake again.
@@ablurida I agree. This is how I am. I'm a Scorpio
Mars in Scorpio here...I’ve definitely had a couple zombies in my life (people that were dead to me that I allowed back into my life after YEARS ignoring them). You’re right that we weigh their value of the effect they’ve had on our lives and determine if we want to let them back in.
yeah we try to keep an even keel. Here's why.... it's hard enough not being afraid
or feel no consequences, but if you do go down that path, it will come back to bite you. we don't wish or want to do that!! an example of consequences could be invisible forces haunting you......
Ignoring people as if they are dead once they wronged us is really just natural response. It's not silent treatment, it's not begging for attention. If I ignore someone it's simply because they are no longer exist as far as I know, or at least not worthy of my attention.
I'm a Scorpio and everything you said in this video is true. I am petty. I am jealous. I ignore you. I am vindictive. I hold grudges. I am spiteful: if you do hurt me, I strive to destroy you. I remember and bring up everything. I am loyal. I value my few friends. But, if you are truly my friend, you have a friend for life.
Maybe youre just a shitty person? I know alot of scorpios that are the most gentle people.
If Scorpio mad at you, you definitely deserve it. Fully without any excuses.
Also, Scorpions does not hold the grudges for ages, they just got good memory, that helps them to keep away from the same crappy situation and shitty people.
It's a huge challenge to ruin the relationship and trust they build up with someone, but once you manage to ruin it, it's going to be a greater challenge to win their trust and relationship back...
🎯Well said!
As a Aquarius, Scorpios are my go to, my best friend is a Scorpio and the person I’m in love with is a Scorpio. So, to me, the are the best. Haha
My bestie for over 25 years is an Aquarius
All of my best friends are Aquarius and Capricorn’s ❤️ Luckily for me both my children happen to be a Aquarius and Capricorn 💕
thank you for bearing with us.
I hate my possessive trait because I want you to find new people but if you start leaving me out I’ll feel hurt.
"I will never love you again" is a phrase I've said a few times and honestly it hurts me more than anyone could know but it definitely helps me heal from a personal standpoint.
Im a Scorpio and was in an emotionally abusive relationship from the ages of 17-20. When we finally broke it off I realized I had lost myself completely. It felt like it was taking so long to rebuild a new life and heal and I blamed him, even though I now know this would be one of many deaths and rebirths I would endure. For years after I was hellbent on him knowing how bad he made me feel about myself and for embarrassing me. I didn’t wanna hurt him I just wanted him to KNOW that he was wrong and somehow feel bad for hurting me like it was the ultimate crime. I wanted him to regret it and I wanted him to acknowledge it. He never did which made it harder to move past. A decade later I’ve come to peace because I have more compassion for others now and understand motives of people. I think it’s important for Scorpios to do that inner work to channel the good aspects of the sign for the sake of others, but more for themselves. They aren’t “bad” like they’re made out to be but there’s a tendency foe that. There’s a lot of power there. The destructive nature of Scorpio does the most damage to the Scorpio itself.
I never used to believe in zodiac signs. However lately ive just been trying to find myself and why i act a certain way. Was beginning to think im not normal. However i am gladd that that my research has paid off and im not the only one like this.