Just wanted to say for anyone experiencing our silence. If you were someone we talked to all the time and our bond was deep, there is no way we would desire to cut you out completely unless you've violated our trust. We either read, heard or even felt you've done something that ruined our ability to trust you. If we can't trust you, then we will never place ourselves in a vulnerable position to even hear you out. We literally kill the bond, we mourn for you but we will never, ever return to you. Unless it's to make you feel the pain you left us with. Other than that, give us time and we will reveal to you our reason for silence, most likely we are juggling something heavy.
@@kilealove7265 we can handle heated arguments but depending on the truths spoken during that time. If anything wasn't to hurtful or you revealing that you truly don't love them.. then you'll be fine after a while. Just reach out first
@@OfficialFloydboy the argument was that I still love him and want to be with him but he broke up with me because I told him that our lives won’t change if we broke up because our relationship was mainly online and we couldn’t physically see each other. I didn’t say it to hurt him. I was just thinking out loud. But he broke up with me and told me to leave him alone. So I did. Then he came back a month later to tell me he missed me but he didn’t want to bother me anymore and that he was never going to text me again. So I told him “FU for playing with my emotions and wasting my time.” And now he says he’ll definitely never text me again.
U r so right 💎 ♊ woman I let my ♏ male has hos silence no call, after sex( which the way I'm the badass) He tells me damn n that he needs to recharge. Us ♊ need that same silence❤❤❤
Well sometimes Scorpios can be silent because they are going through hard times, feel stressed etc, it doesn't have to be because of something you did. I agree with your advice though to be patient and give him or her some space.
Thank you for this....I am coming on to strong I think, because "my" scorpio is in very stressy enviroment for the moment and actually told me he doesnt want to settle me up with his problems
It's always abt scorpios there way of thinking is there the only humans who work an need to sleep on time an can cancel at last minute if any1 else does it there the bad party's well they need to understand u give u get there we all have importance we allake scarification only scorpio thinks abit to highly of themselves in reality they have just been reading on Google that much they believe in it so sorry scorpio time out
thanks .. need to hear this cuz now he gives me silent treatment because of at the moment hes grieving of his grandma and he cant give me attention , so he told me just give me a time for a sec .. :( its been 2 weeks
If a scorpio is having a bad time and goes silence. Give them space but also let them know that your there and care for them. Hell even just sitting next to them in silence means a lot to a scorpio.
This is abuse.. If you give them space and wait around they will go silent more than they did before each time.. I had this guy I was falling in love, he iced me out around a weekish before, I gave him space like suggested and dragged him back but next month he gave it to me for 2 weeks.. You can't live like that, if they really care about you, they wont give you silence more than a few days.. I tried to make him talk as sweet as I can be as a cancer.. Nothing.. Didnt even demand an explanation but still nothing.. I broke up with him then , cause if they wanted you they wouldnt do that anyway.. He left my break up on seen but still checks my IG stories.. I told him to leave my life as I was leaving his, I unfollowed him and never check his stories etc.. but he still follows me and checks mine.. So tempted to remove him from m followers at this point.. Cant handle this abuse and childish behavior any longer..
I’m a Cancer too. And trust me it never changes. I’m married to a 44 yr old childish Scorpio having a tantrum as I write this. Hell no I’m not apologizing, he did wrong, not me. I put him in his place and he gives me the silent treatment, “thank you” Now I can go on as normal. He can be silent for all I care. I’m getting fed up with it. 🏃🏻♀️ away as fast as you can!
@@oliviaanumba I am not sure how old you are. But let me tell you. I was with my first husband since I was 15 yrs old. Had 2 kids. Together for 20 yrs. After that many years we both grew out of each other and I found myself having to make the decision to start over again with a 13 & 16 yr old. Best decision I ever made! I did eventually get married again to this Scorpion man and been with him 10 yrs. with that being said. I know myself worth. And I would start all over again on my own if I had to. You need to know your self worth. You need to be happy for you and your kids. Trust me, my kids now as adults even tell me they understand why I left their dad and know that it was the right decision for my sanity at that time. Listen to your soul, you’ll know what to do. Hope everything works out for you sweetie! 🥰
I agree, I think space is important if I have been hurt by someone close to me, I take a breather, take a step back come back level headed and mature, and say what bothered me. But, imo if that person came back to me as you did with your SO, by being sweet and caring it would, for me at least, make me more than happy to have a civil discussion. My close friend of mine lately, whose very attached to me has hurt me on several occasions, not once did he apologize or change behaviors, and atm I'm just too hurt to talk to him right now and need time
Im scorpio. The silent treatment is when we are hurt. We feel this hurt deeply, even by the smallest details. True, its a form of punishment. Like u dont get/deserve my attention for hurting me. But this only happens when we reaaaaally care about you. The only way we can hurt deeply. Otherwise we dont care if u mean nothing to us. It is also a way of protecting you from the rage we feel deep inside. So as not to hurt you with a burst of anger.
I agree For me, it’s not always the actions Cut off the beginning and end, and it’s the details in the middle. What led them to do, say, think, etc that has hurt me.
I go silent when I feel deeply hurt, depressed, betrayed, judged or misunderstood. If I'm angry, thats when I'm NOT silent and Scorpios can traumatize someone with words.
If someone gives you the silent treatment move on!! Communication is golden. The scorpio could easily tell you they need time alone. Don’t let anyone control your emotions, block them then move on! If you are dealing with a scorpio keep a back up friend because they are eventually quitting you anyway haha😹😹!
I disagree. You give me a reason to give you the silent treatment. If I've effectively communicated with you over and over, if I've given you boundaries and you've crossed them on purpose, that is your fault. What is the point in me telling you I'm not talking to you if you were never listening in the beginning. Again, each circumstance is different, some people are damaged by people with motives and have gotten to the point of having no problems cutting ties with people who bring misery.
Why blocking though? That is just as childish as solitude might seem to some people. Scorpio’s silence does not come from selfishness, it comes from emotions that are so strong that they need to withdraw in order to be able to make sense of a situation and to protect those emotions.
@@sofia01ht AGREED I’m not Scorpio I’m libra Only got Venus Mars and Pluto in Scorpio so at the emotional level I can understand that so much ! Dating a Scorpio and he is like this. At the beginning I thought he was manipulative but not at all if you’re thinking that you’re the manipulator and the control freak , so I just let him be , and do his life and doing mine I like space too and I’m crazy about him in secret 😂 that’s a Scorpio trait that I get from my chart, got the half of my chart in water signs particularly Scorpio and a planet in pisces 🤷🏽♂️
Sun, Venus, jupiter and Mercury in Scorpio. ✋ I go silent to let the person figure out what they have done to offend me. I always vocalize what you're doing to upset me before I go silent. So I'm fair. If you keep offending , I'm going silent and then it's all on you to save the relationship. You have to prove you want me in your life.
Well I think the intention is important to distinguish the difference there. I wall up cuz I'm trying to find the perfect words to say. But you could definitely wall up to stone wall someone. I kinda think it's easy to see the difference tbh. But I'd like to tell myself its because I can read people well. Sometimes I can see things that aren't there but usually I can. I'm not gonna just fire off at the mouth I'm definitely gonna overthink and not speak. Couldn't tell you if that's any better really lol. Just cuz someone feels like a Scorpio does doesn't mean they cant be an abusive person. Heck I think it means there's a greater chance lol
@@msprettykawaii950 uhh that's tough. I broke it off with my gf recently because I was telling her things I didn't like about her life and influences and she wasn't really changing and I kinda think people only change if they want too. I didnt know what to say. I kinda think Scorpios think people think the way they do and they should already see the issue and solve it. I kinda just blocked her out. I'm not proud of it but I literally severed the connection we had for eight months and it was like a switch just on then off. It did however slowly eat me alive. And cause me huge anguish. And I finally broke down and just talked to her. She expressed wanting to get back together and I'm happy but I'm still looking at those aspects of her with absolutely insane precision. I don't know if that helps but hey. There are plenty of other people out there.(some of them Scorpios 🙂) Scorpio dude who barely believes in signs and stuff tbh lol. Scorpios have a chance to be pretty evil people. I feel evil like I'm playing a chess game with people and it's actually exhausting. And I think I want a partner I can give a blind spot too and not analyze.
I think Scorpios need to understand something much deeper in life. They lack wisdom, most of them. With great power comes great responsibility. And if you misuse the responsibility you turn powerfully evil. Firstly a few people from all signs are intelligent. The lighter air signs or firey fire signs wouldn't exist if they weren't meant to exist in this world. And they bring another type of intelligence & depth to the world and balance the energies. Besides every human has a combination of planets, signs, houses in their chart. So some Scorpios would also have fire, air elements within their own chart affecting them. Infact Scorpio's lord is Mars which in itself is a very firey planet. There could be a thousand reasons why a human being is acting 'frivolous'. They may have experienced a trauma on the account of someone else and are therefore unable to trust just like a Scorpio is unable to. For eg, I was 5yrs old (I am not Scorpio) and my elder Scorpio sister did something mean, something I remember even now that I am 37, and I have never trusted her again & it was 1 of the reasons because of which I developed a sense of mistrust in people. Every human's soul's innate nature is to have faith. So, babies are mostly trusting. But experiences in life changes our ability to trust and therefore sometimes people themselves become untrustworthy. Also Scorpios very often hurt other people so they are sure to get the treatment in return. Nobody wants to be hurt. And not everyone will stay silent when scorpions hurt them. Scorpions feel they "know" people, they know what's going on beneath the surface. Then they should really be able to understand other signs with wisdom and compassion and not just critically and judgementally. But since they don't understand this depth in humans, I find scorpions to be very childish in their reactions & a little too proud about the fact that they "understand". & I feel this inability to truly deeply understand human nature hurts them and keeps them hurt forever. And in turn they hurt others ruthlessly. That's not the wisest thing to do. I feel bad for them, for my sister also. If they truly had deep understanding, they would feel sorry for the childishness of the world and therefore would feel compassionate towards it while also sharing their deeper observations & understanding & helping others come out of their childishness. Not hurt others instead. Personally, I worked hard on myself, on my various traumas, & have been able to understand people from a much deeper place. I'm a work in progress but much more trusting, forgiving and supporting than I was. I do find some scorpions have depth but then I find a few people from all the 12 signs having such depth.
Realistic analysis!! Nothing special with this sign, they need to learn to communicate & balance their interactions of their relationships. Not being immature & self-centered & that other people need not to adjust with their moods & tantrums. Everyone can & knew how to ghost people that is if you lack wisdom & understanding to be a good human being.
I don't give the silent treatment to regular folks (those i face them hard), i give silent treatment to those i care the most and it's more a self-control mechanism, it's to spare them of my regular rage, my ugliest side. I go silent and distant so i can cool off the anger that builds more quickly when dear ones don't get it the first time i explain a certain behavior is bad. The message in my silent treatment: - i care alot about you, cuz you have very good morale principles; - when i witness a bad behavior on you, i'm taken by surprise ... like a false testimony for example, based on assumptions instead of reason; ... not to call it delusion😆 - i am angry at you and i expect a glimpse of remorse from you, showing you become aware that behavior was bad, ... not to call it apologizing😉; that would cool me right away and make it all good in a bit; - if i see no glimpse of awarness on you, after my internalized rage is cooled off i'll get in touch with you again finally, forgive everything and so; - i won't forget that you lack awarness more then i expected ... not to be harsh and to say you didn't had the guts to forgive yourself and face me;
Grue Grozav i have been In a relationship for 4 months and he suddunly disapear for a week now... Isend him a text message to know how he was and so and I told him « you disapear » and he answered me « I don’t I am still here » and that’s it... what can I do please help
@@jajarounette95 if I'd be you i would reply "where here?" to that last message from him, followed right away by expressing my feeling or need about his "disappearance", like: "i miss you" or "i worry about you", "i need you around me. Let's meet🙂!". PS: be aware constantly he said he didn't "disappear". I would be careful not to use that word with him, as i feel he might find it innapropiate as meaning, critic or accusatory towards him. I would've used "you're not next to me" instead of "you disappear". All the best and good luck!🙋♂️☺ May God bless with unlimited confidence and courage!
@Grue Grozav I'm dealing with a Scorpio too. He already came back asking for forgiveness once about bad behaviour in the past. Last year he messed up by not going to his best friend's wedding because of drama he caused, and put me in the middle of the dispute. Now he said he doesnt want to talk anymore. Our friend group lost quite the respect but trying to let him back into their lives slowly. He is pissed at me now. Haven't heard from him since Sept. What's with this long silence and not taking accountability? Do I reach out? I feel it's gonna be the same drama all over again (its the same for the last 6 years basically). Any advice?
@@clemencelinet4103 Is there a choice to be made? ... him or the group? Wouldn't use words like "dealing" i reckon 🙂 Would make up my mind if i love him or not, if i want "drama" or not.
@@avlieox Love or not, sometimes love is not enough if a person treats you with disrespect. And no choice for sides, I choose for what is right. Not sure how a Scorpio sees this? Because most of the group feel that he demands respect but is unwilling to give it in return. But yeah, I love him. Since the first day I met him :)
Helpful tips: ask what's wrong, listen, apologize, just be caring towards our feelings. Scorpios hold a lot of pain and darkness inside, they tuck away from others and the world. We withhold a lot of our anger and work through our pain alone, don't be another source of emotional pain for us, if you do so accidentally, just say sorry and try not to trigger that deep rooted core wound. Either that, or beg and submit, we definitely like that too lol!
We scorpios sometimes need to have space on our own to think. Its like me everytime im stress out like, i dont want to share my burden to others and handle it on my own. Me, personally i know i can handle it because i know im strong. I cant share it to someone special that i know who's not so strong as I am.
Im not Scorpio I’m libra with a lot of Scorpianic energy in my chart and that’s exactly the point , very deep emotions strong and sometimes dark that you have to accept , 2 years ago I didn’t know what emotions was until big heartbreak, I checked my chart asking myself why my emotions was so strong and deadly and I knew it was about my Scorpianic energy 🤷🏽♂️ I accept them whole, those emotions are here for something
I used to get silent if I'm mad or angry...I do believe that my tongue sharper than my mind...and my heart won't able to handle it...so therefore the 0ne I hit it would b rather die...than to hear it.
Scorpio has 1 000 001 things on his plate. He put it there. He pursued a relationship with me. He was very attentive and our relationship grew. After a year we hardly see each other and his communication is very little. I think I'm in the 2nd million of things of his life suddenly. He is always busy doing charity work, active in PTA and politics so when I ask for some of his time how is that hurting him? Should I know that he's always busy and should settle with that? Why the hell did he want a relationship in the first place?
Few Scorpios last in marriage or love affair.. Our silence easily destroys our relationship with others even though we go off not because you have wronged us.. we simply enjoy silence more often but at the same time we love u
@@sultantv2000 update on scorpio. Found out that he's in another relationship. We had no quarrel or disagreement. I don't know if all he said was a lie but that trust is gone to me I am not the clingy type. I supported him with whatever career path or business he chose The person he's with is 20 years younger I am really heart broken but I do hope he can find true happiness wherever he is right now
My scorpio girlfriend calls me twice sometimes 3 times a day.. I enjoy when we link up randomly and spontaneously.. the adventure and hiking trips are priceless.. we are deeply in love.. knew each other 30 years.. I'm a virgo by the way
I've enjoyed watching these scorpio videos. I used to think this astrology thing was bs, but watching these videos has given me assurance that im not some outlier by myself doing these things that seemingly nobody does.
1 minute in to video...floating Orb (middle of screen) 1 minute 1 second in, floating Orb, (Orb floating downwards towards right hand of screen) you are surrounded by angels 😇 be blessed always ❤🌟 🙏
Thank you. Been keeping busy and give space for a while. Just inner intuitive shows they are going thru much. Just send good wishes nightly. 🙏❤️🔥🧘🏼♀️ I know, they run this. I respect it.
TY TY I enjoyed your video. I'm a female Scorpio w/ many placements in my chart. Yes, silence is golden. I can have a conversation w/ anyone; yet, I prefer depth in conversations rather than shallow talk.
Scorpio woman here (Scorpio moon and Sun ) and i dont meet everyone in silence. People im not close to hears exactly whats on my mind (no filter lol) if im really close to you and i go silent (like with person im involved with) and i go silent on them then its 100% over. There is nothing that can be said or done at that point in the relationship. I dont give up on relationships easily at all but once im done im completely done. I never took an Ex back before cause i don't go backwards, only forward lol. If i meet a family member or close friend with silence then thats because im pissed and im trying to tone down my words before i say anything (plus i need space to do this) of not then i lose the battle and the filter comes off lol
Really annoyed,scared,worried at the reality of my feelings. Am really trying (years) . Being very ‘logical..’ but there’s a thorn somewhere within that won’t quit. Shiiiit. Thanks for your listfullness ✌️✌️✌️👍
@@muezzathestray750 facts! When k het quiet on a partner km completely done with you there is nothing that can be said or done to change that. I also dont take an Ex back. I move forward never backwards lol
My mate scorpio was taking long to respond to my text messages so I didn't bother asking why instead I stopped texting and calling guess wht his crying whts happened iv not responded cuz I think give them silent treatment he will understand... A little pain is always required when they think there smart, 😂👌
I'm a scorpio sun, mercury and pluto woman and agree totally about communication difficulties....I feel very much comfortable in silence, most of all about emotions....must be difficult to other people to have a relationship with me
Show you care , be honest and don't lie if they need time to them self they need that Alot , i need it too since I'm dating one and i am one as well so its very 50/50 from my stand point , i need space only every now and then but she needs it because of her past and things like that what i learned she told me about her past and i understand it now , when we first met we hung out but i listened to her . which i didn't realized this trait was was real about me/. But i told her everything and i mean everything about my past my mistakes etc and she knew that i was being honest with her, we have been dating for a few weeks now , i told her that i loved her but she didn't say it back i wasn't to mad about . I know she doe's because the way she around me .so some words don't need to be said /but that's my thoughts on that.
As a talkative person, I’m hurt lol I used it to gauge another person and how much I annoy them. I don’t see many people or talk to anyone really so when I do hang with someone I can tend to talk waaaay to much. I scared my Scorpio away, but I honestly don’t care. He was into some really bad stuff anyhow.
after week of getting to know each others, 3 hours per day of call, he suddenly stopped messaging me then after a day just messages like we didnt talk about dating? Whats this????
I think he is playing it cool. Like he doesnt want to seem too eager. Scorpios do that. Sometimes its also a test if you will start the convo if he doesnt initiate it. Sounds like a game. But its more of testing the waters i guess.
My Scorpio guy has done similar thing but he went out with his friends and yeah we chatted but it was so dry Like he won’t see my messages for like hours Then he’ll respond and when I respond in matter of minutes he is gone again Now he said he’s coming to see me Don’t know he confuses me. And as an Aries I’m very straightforward and can’t keep stuff what’s on my mind is on my mouth. Both blessings/ curse.
And one thing I very much dislike bout most Scorpios is that they don’t tell you what they are mad or upset about You just have to play the guessing game?
Or, or, Scorpios can go silent because they’re being sneaky and seeing other people. Scorpios are the type that can be players and there are some that will be up front and tell you that they are seeing other people but if he disappears and goes silent, it’s the other girls turn. If they do this to you, don’t allow them back. Tell them to kick rocks with no socks and move on, for your own sake. Also NEVER EVER agree to an FWB with a Scorpio. Thank me later 🥴
My Scorpio guy texted me for 3 days and had some excuses for not coming to see me (bc he said he was tired) the text we dryyyy Now all of a sudden he said he’s coming and asked if I needed some food…. Like what kind of twisted game is that
Am I supposed to guess what’s on his mind and when I ask him “what’s wrong” he says “ nothing” how am I supposed to react to this I’m an Aries woman btw
As an Aries I try not to get angry in front of him. But playing mind games with me is 1st tiring 2nd very very annoying I can’t keep guessing every time what’s the problem
I did that to someone who was narcissist , what a Pathetic person he was , he was trying to apologize after disrespecting me and lying to me many times,but that Day after i blocked him and the death stare i never saw him again , I'm glad i never came across the devil again i hope i never will.
I definitely agree with when asking questions they really ignore u lol I asks him questions he will answer some but then skip some . During the silence, I been feeling stuck. Like what can I do to help if you’re going through something . I’d like to help but u can’t ask them nothing they will just ignore you
i grew out of my tourettes , but i also felt my moon before i been hurt ,is like fantasy daydreams and imaginary friends when i was a kid it felts ten fold my energy was to much that u can cause multi personalitys , with u select friends and bullies , but i always had confidience in being myself as wierd as that may be, i dont care,if theres a saying i see out of my eyes and no one elses so i dont know any other way its how i was born in my qi / energy
Scorpio's know words have power and can be spells or curses, So first off we don't talk when we are upset because we don't want to say something out of anger. Second it takes us time to cool off and prosses what has happend . First we are bitterly angry if we are betrayed or lied to . Then we analyze why,you did what you did . If we can find a good reason or that some of it was our fault ,Thairs a chance if you apologize you will be forgiven. But We respect truth, and honest people . We have no time for gamie people, gelious people ,lies and player's we want to know the friendship is w/o Motivations i/e motives. Heart to heart conversations is all we want no chit chat about the stupid weather ! L.O.l
I just started dating a Scorpio Man 3 months I been with him two times in person probably like six times on the phone on FaceTime but after we were intimate he shuts down after intimacy so instead of me bothering him I leave for weeks then I come back and check on him and if this man continues to show me that he’s not interested I will take that as a sign and just leave because I am a Gemini Pisces Scorpio female who deeply feels emotion and it kills me when someone is silent from r to long I leave 2 weeks and he never reaches out first it’s always me it’s hurtful to be ignored but anyway I am trying I’m not sure this is what I want the mote i see these behaviors but then I’m trying to Understand him ti but I am not sure if this is something I want
I here u. ♊ me n ♏ him been together😂 3mos. When he goes silent only hear r c him maybe 1 r 3 times out the month. Then here we go again silent. Should I leave this relationship?
@@Hobimasak888 . ❤️ 💎 ♊ woman. Yes I am still with my ♏ man. It's now 8 mos into the relationship. He is everything that I imaged so far. He has taught me patience(something I don't have before).😛💯🥰
@@vivianjackson7016he still ignoring you most of the month tho? Like I don’t know how yall do it. If I deal with something like that you best believe I’m seeing other people while I “wait” for Scorpio to get his shit together. I’d rather just find someone else. I don’t like forcing myself to be with people that I’m not compatible with
@@Darkempress45 He started coming to c me once a week now. Till last week MIA. NO call, txt r nothing after I explained for the last time my boundaries( call, txt aleast once r twice a week) so I'll know u are ok n for me not to worry. I got a feeling it's going to b awhile. But this time(U know us 💎♊), I'm gone like a 👻. I have meet someone.
My scorpio guy do not trust me but I love him don't know what to do to make him believe me. he is silence on me his reason is,I was concerned about another guy through my words.well I m pieces and can reflect so I m also silence on him.hahahhaha. Scorpio trust issue is serious .
@@Anitoouyyyu They're saying Scorpio is hurt because Scorpio was caught manipulating. They're saying Scorpio got its feelings hurt because it got caught being dishonest. This is projection. Scorpio is a fixed energy of self-preservation through personal transformation. Most Scorps are not occupied with manipulating other people. Fixed signs, including Scorpios, are mostly occupied with doing their own thing. And as a Scorpio, I would completely shut down around OP and avoid them, because they are projecting their own dishonesty on to me. So, for self preservation, Scorpio just shuts down and walks away. They're not going to debate it with someone. Now if the Scorpio thinks its an honest mistake, that's a different matter. They will talk it out. But once someone is haphazardly breaking trust, that's it. Scorpio is done.
Just wanted to say for anyone experiencing our silence. If you were someone we talked to all the time and our bond was deep, there is no way we would desire to cut you out completely unless you've violated our trust. We either read, heard or even felt you've done something that ruined our ability to trust you. If we can't trust you, then we will never place ourselves in a vulnerable position to even hear you out. We literally kill the bond, we mourn for you but we will never, ever return to you. Unless it's to make you feel the pain you left us with. Other than that, give us time and we will reveal to you our reason for silence, most likely we are juggling something heavy.
very well said :) this is my observation to scorpios too
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@@russlleno Thank You. Yes, we love to let our silence speak the loudest 🦂
Even after a heated argument that may or may not had a couple of F Us?
@@kilealove7265 we can handle heated arguments but depending on the truths spoken during that time. If anything wasn't to hurtful or you revealing that you truly don't love them.. then you'll be fine after a while. Just reach out first
@@OfficialFloydboy the argument was that I still love him and want to be with him but he broke up with me because I told him that our lives won’t change if we broke up because our relationship was mainly online and we couldn’t physically see each other. I didn’t say it to hurt him. I was just thinking out loud. But he broke up with me and told me to leave him alone. So I did. Then he came back a month later to tell me he missed me but he didn’t want to bother me anymore and that he was never going to text me again. So I told him “FU for playing with my emotions and wasting my time.” And now he says he’ll definitely never text me again.
This Scorpio likes silence and solitude. It doesn't mean I don't like you, I just like spending time with myself more.
U r so right 💎 ♊ woman I let my ♏ male has hos silence no call, after sex( which the way I'm the badass) He tells me damn n that he needs to recharge. Us ♊ need that same silence❤❤❤
Well sometimes Scorpios can be silent because they are going through hard times, feel stressed etc, it doesn't have to be because of something you did. I agree with your advice though to be patient and give him or her some space.
Thank you for this....I am coming on to strong I think, because "my" scorpio is in very stressy enviroment for the moment and actually told me he doesnt want to settle me up with his problems
It's always abt scorpios there way of thinking is there the only humans who work an need to sleep on time an can cancel at last minute if any1 else does it there the bad party's well they need to understand u give u get there we all have importance we allake scarification only scorpio thinks abit to highly of themselves in reality they have just been reading on Google that much they believe in it so sorry scorpio time out
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SOME space yes but not like a year lol.
thanks .. need to hear this cuz now he gives me silent treatment because of at the moment hes grieving of his grandma and he cant give me attention , so he told me just give me a time for a sec .. :( its been 2 weeks
If a scorpio is having a bad time and goes silence. Give them space but also let them know that your there and care for them. Hell even just sitting next to them in silence means a lot to a scorpio.
This is abuse.. If you give them space and wait around they will go silent more than they did before each time.. I had this guy I was falling in love, he iced me out around a weekish before, I gave him space like suggested and dragged him back but next month he gave it to me for 2 weeks.. You can't live like that, if they really care about you, they wont give you silence more than a few days.. I tried to make him talk as sweet as I can be as a cancer.. Nothing.. Didnt even demand an explanation but still nothing.. I broke up with him then , cause if they wanted you they wouldnt do that anyway.. He left my break up on seen but still checks my IG stories.. I told him to leave my life as I was leaving his, I unfollowed him and never check his stories etc.. but he still follows me and checks mine.. So tempted to remove him from m followers at this point.. Cant handle this abuse and childish behavior any longer..
I’m a Cancer too. And trust me it never changes. I’m married to a 44 yr old childish Scorpio having a tantrum as I write this. Hell no I’m not apologizing, he did wrong, not me. I put him in his place and he gives me the silent treatment, “thank you” Now I can go on as normal. He can be silent for all I care. I’m getting fed up with it. 🏃🏻♀️ away as fast as you can!
@@mrsmdub259 same thing I am passing through and he is 43years and we are married with 3kids.I wish I knew better before starting a family.
@@oliviaanumba I am not sure how old you are. But let me tell you. I was with my first husband since I was 15 yrs old. Had 2 kids. Together for 20 yrs. After that many years we both grew out of each other and I found myself having to make the decision to start over again with a 13 & 16 yr old. Best decision I ever made! I did eventually get married again to this Scorpion man and been with him 10 yrs. with that being said. I know myself worth. And I would start all over again on my own if I had to. You need to know your self worth. You need to be happy for you and your kids. Trust me, my kids now as adults even tell me they understand why I left their dad and know that it was the right decision for my sanity at that time. Listen to your soul, you’ll know what to do. Hope everything works out for you sweetie! 🥰
I agree, I think space is important if I have been hurt by someone close to me, I take a breather, take a step back come back level headed and mature, and say what bothered me. But, imo if that person came back to me as you did with your SO, by being sweet and caring it would, for me at least, make me more than happy to have a civil discussion. My close friend of mine lately, whose very attached to me has hurt me on several occasions, not once did he apologize or change behaviors, and atm I'm just too hurt to talk to him right now and need time
Im scorpio. The silent treatment is when we are hurt. We feel this hurt deeply, even by the smallest details. True, its a form of punishment. Like u dont get/deserve my attention for hurting me. But this only happens when we reaaaaally care about you. The only way we can hurt deeply. Otherwise we dont care if u mean nothing to us. It is also a way of protecting you from the rage we feel deep inside. So as not to hurt you with a burst of anger.
Thank you for sharing :)
I agree
For me, it’s not always the actions
Cut off the beginning and end, and it’s the details in the middle.
What led them to do, say, think, etc that has hurt me.
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I go silent when I feel deeply hurt, depressed, betrayed, judged or misunderstood. If I'm angry, thats when I'm NOT silent and Scorpios can traumatize someone with words.
Do you like the person to leave you alone or reach out?!
WOW! I'M a scorpio. 👏👏👏👏👏
@@princewins88bw❤️ JACKSON MS.💎♊ woman dating a ♏ man. I like both leave alone because sometimes I want the same. Reach out love that too
If someone gives you the silent treatment move on!! Communication is golden. The scorpio could easily tell you they need time alone. Don’t let anyone control your emotions, block them then move on! If you are dealing with a scorpio keep a back up friend because they are eventually quitting you anyway haha😹😹!
I disagree. You give me a reason to give you the silent treatment. If I've effectively communicated with you over and over, if I've given you boundaries and you've crossed them on purpose, that is your fault. What is the point in me telling you I'm not talking to you if you were never listening in the beginning. Again, each circumstance is different, some people are damaged by people with motives and have gotten to the point of having no problems cutting ties with people who bring misery.
Why blocking though? That is just as childish as solitude might seem to some people. Scorpio’s silence does not come from selfishness, it comes from emotions that are so strong that they need to withdraw in order to be able to make sense of a situation and to protect those emotions.
@@sofia01ht AGREED I’m not Scorpio I’m libra
Only got Venus Mars and Pluto in Scorpio so at the emotional level I can understand that so much ! Dating a Scorpio and he is like this. At the beginning I thought he was manipulative but not at all if you’re thinking that you’re the manipulator and the control freak , so I just let him be , and do his life and doing mine I like space too and I’m crazy about him in secret 😂 that’s a Scorpio trait that I get from my chart, got the half of my chart in water signs particularly Scorpio and a planet in pisces 🤷🏽♂️
I agree move on in life time is precious. Communication is a first important part of developing any potential partner.
Never put up with narcissistic abuse which is exactly what silent treatment is.
Sun, Venus, jupiter and Mercury in Scorpio. ✋
I go silent to let the person figure out what they have done to offend me. I always vocalize what you're doing to upset me before I go silent. So I'm fair. If you keep offending , I'm going silent and then it's all on you to save the relationship. You have to prove you want me in your life.
So people are suppose to read your mind? Get over yourself lol
Yes girl!!!
same here .. we go silent for them to thinking .. and if they just want to move on .. okay just go haha
I laughed right with you once you said “typically they don’t care what you think about them anyways” 🤣🤣🤣 we really don’t
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This may come to as a surprise to some scorpios silent treatment for days, weeks or months is called stone walling (a strong form of mental abuse).
I only give it to people who deserve it
True, people with a narcissistic personality disorder does it. My husband is not Scorpio but it hurts a lot, we are now separated
Well I think the intention is important to distinguish the difference there. I wall up cuz I'm trying to find the perfect words to say. But you could definitely wall up to stone wall someone. I kinda think it's easy to see the difference tbh. But I'd like to tell myself its because I can read people well. Sometimes I can see things that aren't there but usually I can. I'm not gonna just fire off at the mouth I'm definitely gonna overthink and not speak. Couldn't tell you if that's any better really lol. Just cuz someone feels like a Scorpio does doesn't mean they cant be an abusive person. Heck I think it means there's a greater chance lol
@@davidwilliams5431 Im so upset about the new Guy, he did this to me while I was seeing him as a good next serious relationship
@@msprettykawaii950 uhh that's tough. I broke it off with my gf recently because I was telling her things I didn't like about her life and influences and she wasn't really changing and I kinda think people only change if they want too. I didnt know what to say. I kinda think Scorpios think people think the way they do and they should already see the issue and solve it. I kinda just blocked her out. I'm not proud of it but I literally severed the connection we had for eight months and it was like a switch just on then off. It did however slowly eat me alive. And cause me huge anguish. And I finally broke down and just talked to her. She expressed wanting to get back together and I'm happy but I'm still looking at those aspects of her with absolutely insane precision. I don't know if that helps but hey. There are plenty of other people out there.(some of them Scorpios 🙂) Scorpio dude who barely believes in signs and stuff tbh lol. Scorpios have a chance to be pretty evil people. I feel evil like I'm playing a chess game with people and it's actually exhausting. And I think I want a partner I can give a blind spot too and not analyze.
I think Scorpios need to understand something much deeper in life. They lack wisdom, most of them. With great power comes great responsibility. And if you misuse the responsibility you turn powerfully evil.
Firstly a few people from all signs are intelligent. The lighter air signs or firey fire signs wouldn't exist if they weren't meant to exist in this world. And they bring another type of intelligence & depth to the world and balance the energies. Besides every human has a combination of planets, signs, houses in their chart. So some Scorpios would also have fire, air elements within their own chart affecting them. Infact Scorpio's lord is Mars which in itself is a very firey planet.
There could be a thousand reasons why a human being is acting 'frivolous'. They may have experienced a trauma on the account of someone else and are therefore unable to trust just like a Scorpio is unable to. For eg, I was 5yrs old (I am not Scorpio) and my elder Scorpio sister did something mean, something I remember even now that I am 37, and I have never trusted her again & it was 1 of the reasons because of which I developed a sense of mistrust in people. Every human's soul's innate nature is to have faith. So, babies are mostly trusting. But experiences in life changes our ability to trust and therefore sometimes people themselves become untrustworthy. Also Scorpios very often hurt other people so they are sure to get the treatment in return. Nobody wants to be hurt. And not everyone will stay silent when scorpions hurt them.
Scorpions feel they "know" people, they know what's going on beneath the surface. Then they should really be able to understand other signs with wisdom and compassion and not just critically and judgementally. But since they don't understand this depth in humans, I find scorpions to be very childish in their reactions & a little too proud about the fact that they "understand". & I feel this inability to truly deeply understand human nature hurts them and keeps them hurt forever. And in turn they hurt others ruthlessly. That's not the wisest thing to do. I feel bad for them, for my sister also. If they truly had deep understanding, they would feel sorry for the childishness of the world and therefore would feel compassionate towards it while also sharing their deeper observations & understanding & helping others come out of their childishness. Not hurt others instead.
Personally, I worked hard on myself, on my various traumas, & have been able to understand people from a much deeper place. I'm a work in progress but much more trusting, forgiving and supporting than I was.
I do find some scorpions have depth but then I find a few people from all the 12 signs having such depth.
What's your sign. Are you a Libra or Pisces.
can u just drawing .. to long haha
@@user-xw1hf lol
Realistic analysis!! Nothing special with this sign, they need to learn to communicate & balance their interactions of their relationships. Not being immature & self-centered & that other people need not to adjust with their moods & tantrums. Everyone can & knew how to ghost people that is if you lack wisdom & understanding to be a good human being.
I don't give the silent treatment to regular folks (those i face them hard), i give silent treatment to those i care the most and it's more a self-control mechanism, it's to spare them of my regular rage, my ugliest side. I go silent and distant so i can cool off the anger that builds more quickly when dear ones don't get it the first time i explain a certain behavior is bad. The message in my silent treatment:
- i care alot about you, cuz you have very good morale principles;
- when i witness a bad behavior on you, i'm taken by surprise ... like a false testimony for example, based on assumptions instead of reason; ... not to call it delusion😆
- i am angry at you and i expect a glimpse of remorse from you, showing you become aware that behavior was bad, ... not to call it apologizing😉; that would cool me right away and make it all good in a bit;
- if i see no glimpse of awarness on you, after my internalized rage is cooled off i'll get in touch with you again finally, forgive everything and so;
- i won't forget that you lack awarness more then i expected ... not to be harsh and to say you didn't had the guts to forgive yourself and face me;
Grue Grozav i have been In a relationship for 4 months and he suddunly disapear for a week now... Isend him a text message to know how he was and so and I told him « you disapear » and he answered me « I don’t I am still here » and that’s it... what can I do please help
@@jajarounette95 if I'd be you i would reply "where here?" to that last message from him, followed right away by expressing my feeling or need about his "disappearance", like: "i miss you" or "i worry about you", "i need you around me. Let's meet🙂!".
PS: be aware constantly he said he didn't "disappear". I would be careful not to use that word with him, as i feel he might find it innapropiate as meaning, critic or accusatory towards him. I would've used "you're not next to me" instead of "you disappear".
All the best and good luck!🙋♂️☺
May God bless with unlimited confidence and courage!
@Grue Grozav I'm dealing with a Scorpio too. He already came back asking for forgiveness once about bad behaviour in the past. Last year he messed up by not going to his best friend's wedding because of drama he caused, and put me in the middle of the dispute. Now he said he doesnt want to talk anymore. Our friend group lost quite the respect but trying to let him back into their lives slowly. He is pissed at me now. Haven't heard from him since Sept. What's with this long silence and not taking accountability? Do I reach out? I feel it's gonna be the same drama all over again (its the same for the last 6 years basically). Any advice?
@@clemencelinet4103 Is there a choice to be made? ... him or the group?
Wouldn't use words like "dealing" i reckon 🙂
Would make up my mind if i love him or not, if i want "drama" or not.
@@avlieox Love or not, sometimes love is not enough if a person treats you with disrespect. And no choice for sides, I choose for what is right. Not sure how a Scorpio sees this? Because most of the group feel that he demands respect but is unwilling to give it in return.
But yeah, I love him. Since the first day I met him :)
Helpful tips: ask what's wrong, listen, apologize, just be caring towards our feelings. Scorpios hold a lot of pain and darkness inside, they tuck away from others and the world. We withhold a lot of our anger and work through our pain alone, don't be another source of emotional pain for us, if you do so accidentally, just say sorry and try not to trigger that deep rooted core wound. Either that, or beg and submit, we definitely like that too lol!
Thanks 🙏🏻 for this comment 🤗💗
We scorpios sometimes need to have space on our own to think. Its like me everytime im stress out like, i dont want to share my burden to others and handle it on my own. Me, personally i know i can handle it because i know im strong. I cant share it to someone special that i know who's not so strong as I am.
scorpios always stressed
Im not Scorpio I’m libra with a lot of Scorpianic energy in my chart and that’s exactly the point , very deep emotions strong and sometimes dark that you have to accept , 2 years ago I didn’t know what emotions was until big heartbreak, I checked my chart asking myself why my emotions was so strong and deadly and I knew it was about my Scorpianic energy 🤷🏽♂️ I accept them whole, those emotions are here for something
Scorpio is Moody and know how to be silent treatment .
Let me tell you something: I’m a Leo sun. If someone gives you silent treatment? He does not care. The End.
This goes for the scorpio women to Silence is golden.
It’s for any Scorpio in general. It would still be the same as Scorpio is a feminine Yin sign.
I used to get silent if I'm mad or angry...I do believe that my tongue sharper than my mind...and my heart won't able to handle it...so therefore the 0ne I hit it would b rather die...than to hear it.
Scorpio has 1 000 001 things on his plate. He put it there. He pursued a relationship with me. He was very attentive and our relationship grew. After a year we hardly see each other and his communication is very little. I think I'm in the 2nd million of things of his life suddenly.
He is always busy doing charity work, active in PTA and politics so when I ask for some of his time how is that hurting him? Should I know that he's always busy and should settle with that? Why the hell did he want a relationship in the first place?
Few Scorpios last in marriage or love affair..
Our silence easily destroys our relationship with others even though we go off not because you have wronged us.. we simply enjoy silence more often but at the same time we love u
@@sultantv2000 update on scorpio. Found out that he's in another relationship. We had no quarrel or disagreement. I don't know if all he said was a lie but that trust is gone to me
I am not the clingy type. I supported him with whatever career path or business he chose
The person he's with is 20 years younger
I am really heart broken but
I do hope he can find true happiness wherever he is right now
@@eac-guy7272there is no true happiness for people like him trust me
Bad people get their karma
My scorpio girlfriend calls me twice sometimes 3 times a day.. I enjoy when we link up randomly and spontaneously.. the adventure and hiking trips are priceless.. we are deeply in love.. knew each other 30 years.. I'm a virgo by the way
Thanks for sharing!!
I never thought once in my life that I would check someone I’m talking to zodiac sign .. this is how he messed my mind
I've enjoyed watching these scorpio videos. I used to think this astrology thing was bs, but watching these videos has given me assurance that im not some outlier by myself doing these things that seemingly nobody does.
Thank you. I mean, you dont have to agree, it is not my goal but it is great to hear that you recognized yourself in some of this stuff:)
1 minute in to video...floating Orb (middle of screen) 1 minute 1 second in, floating Orb, (Orb floating downwards towards right hand of screen) you are surrounded by angels 😇 be blessed always ❤🌟 🙏
We only fight when we still care .. but mostly if we go silent .. u rather move on and live ur life without us 😚
Thank you. Been keeping busy and give space for a while. Just inner intuitive shows they are going thru much. Just send good wishes nightly. 🙏❤️🔥🧘🏼♀️
I know, they run this. I respect it.
The Silent Treatment is certainly the best gift we can give annoying and unwanted people.
TY TY
I enjoyed your video. I'm a female Scorpio w/ many placements in my chart.
Yes, silence is golden.
I can have a conversation w/ anyone; yet, I prefer depth in conversations rather than shallow talk.
Master of killing in Silence / without evidence Found 🦂
🦂
Scorpio woman here (Scorpio moon and Sun ) and i dont meet everyone in silence. People im not close to hears exactly whats on my mind (no filter lol) if im really close to you and i go silent (like with person im involved with) and i go silent on them then its 100% over. There is nothing that can be said or done at that point in the relationship. I dont give up on relationships easily at all but once im done im completely done. I never took an Ex back before cause i don't go backwards, only forward lol. If i meet a family member or close friend with silence then thats because im pissed and im trying to tone down my words before i say anything (plus i need space to do this) of not then i lose the battle and the filter comes off lol
Toni M Cole Hi, thanks for sharing :)
Really annoyed,scared,worried at the reality of my feelings. Am really trying (years) . Being very ‘logical..’ but there’s a thorn somewhere within that won’t quit. Shiiiit. Thanks for your listfullness ✌️✌️✌️👍
When we silent we have come to terms with the fact that it's over move on
Yup. We're pretty much done at that point
@@muezzathestray750 facts! When k het quiet on a partner km completely done with you there is nothing that can be said or done to change that. I also dont take an Ex back. I move forward never backwards lol
My mate scorpio was taking long to respond to my text messages so I didn't bother asking why instead I stopped texting and calling guess wht his crying whts happened iv not responded cuz I think give them silent treatment he will understand... A little pain is always required when they think there smart, 😂👌
Lol
He's an immature scorpio, still feeling it out. In a few years, when more mature, he'll ghost you and never look back.
I have Venus in Scorpio, everything you said is true. For us it is all or nothing.
Suffering from it now from a scorpio woman. This gemini is pissed .
I'm a scorpio sun, mercury and pluto woman and agree totally about communication difficulties....I feel very much comfortable in silence, most of all about emotions....must be difficult to other people to have a relationship with me
Thank u. I'm glad that i listen to this film. It was helpful.
Well, every silent treatment hurts if you care, but if not you do only a favor don't speak at all. 😉
Show you care , be honest and don't lie if they need time to them self they need that Alot , i need it too since I'm dating one and i am one as well so its very 50/50 from my stand point , i need space only every now and then but she needs it because of her past and things like that what i learned she told me about her past and i understand it now , when we first met we hung out but i listened to her . which i didn't realized this trait was was real about me/. But i told her everything and i mean everything about my past my mistakes etc and she knew that i was being honest with her, we have been dating for a few weeks now , i told her that i loved her but she didn't say it back i wasn't to mad about . I know she doe's because the way she around me .so some words don't need to be said /but that's my thoughts on that.
I wish I could give 2 thumbs up
sher V lovely, I appreciate it :)
U just won a scorpio heart
Wonderful video. Unfortunately I can wait around for my Scorpio. The silence isn't cool
Scorpios Are The Masters Of Silence
But Some Scorpios Can't Deal With A Virgo Silence
We enjoy Virgo silence sheesh all my best friends are Virgo y’all talk a lot 💪🏾😂
I Said "Some"
I'm a Virgo dude and my ex is a Scorpio chick and she kicks my ass with the silent treatment.
@@eaglespirittthey sure do and complain so much lol.
Vengence is silence
Just a sort of manipulation !!!
In my experience talkative people are just wasting energy on unimportant stuff.
As a talkative person, I’m hurt lol
I used it to gauge another person and how much I annoy them. I don’t see many people or talk to anyone really so when I do hang with someone I can tend to talk waaaay to much.
I scared my Scorpio away, but I honestly don’t care. He was into some really bad stuff anyhow.
You know who else uses silent treatment as a weapon...narcissists
Scorpio women = Wasting of time
Life is too short
So just move on
after week of getting to know each others, 3 hours per day of call, he suddenly stopped messaging me then after a day just messages like we didnt talk about dating? Whats this????
I think he is playing it cool. Like he doesnt want to seem too eager. Scorpios do that. Sometimes its also a test if you will start the convo if he doesnt initiate it. Sounds like a game. But its more of testing the waters i guess.
My Scorpio guy has done similar thing but he went out with his friends and yeah we chatted but it was so dry
Like he won’t see my messages for like hours
Then he’ll respond and when I respond in matter of minutes he is gone again
Now he said he’s coming to see me
Don’t know he confuses me. And as an Aries I’m very straightforward and can’t keep stuff what’s on my mind is on my mouth. Both blessings/ curse.
And one thing I very much dislike bout most Scorpios is that they don’t tell you what they are mad or upset about
You just have to play the guessing game?
Still waters run deep
Master of ignoring people
It doesn't effect us one bit lol
@@sarahsmile2883 it doesn't affect you because you are the one who is doing it....
Its been a month since my scorpio guy havent spoken to me. He as cut all source of communication
I approve ☑️
8:12 on point.
i love 🦂 that way ❤️ ♓
Very accurate!
I am scorpion. ACCURATE!
Or, or, Scorpios can go silent because they’re being sneaky and seeing other people. Scorpios are the type that can be players and there are some that will be up front and tell you that they are seeing other people but if he disappears and goes silent, it’s the other girls turn. If they do this to you, don’t allow them back. Tell them to kick rocks with no socks and move on, for your own sake. Also NEVER EVER agree to an FWB with a Scorpio. Thank me later 🥴
My Scorpio guy texted me for 3 days and had some excuses for not coming to see me (bc he said he was tired) the text we dryyyy
Now all of a sudden he said he’s coming and asked if I needed some food…. Like what kind of twisted game is that
Am I supposed to guess what’s on his mind and when I ask him “what’s wrong” he says “ nothing” how am I supposed to react to this
I’m an Aries woman btw
As an Aries I try not to get angry in front of him. But playing mind games with me is 1st tiring 2nd very very annoying I can’t keep guessing every time what’s the problem
if we are silent and have a death stare........... don't say nothing, be patient and just walk away.
I did that to someone who was narcissist , what a Pathetic person he was , he was trying to apologize after disrespecting me and lying to me many times,but that Day after i blocked him and the death stare i never saw him again , I'm glad i never came across the devil again i hope i never will.
The iceberg analogy...🤌🤌🤌
Why do they tell other people they love you but not you?
Wau! I have no idea!
Accurate video as they don’t rush
Did you`ve seen guided scorpio`s spirit in the vedio an a white color ?
I definitely agree with when asking questions they really ignore u lol I asks him questions he will answer some but then skip some . During the silence, I been feeling stuck. Like what can I do to help if you’re going through something . I’d like to help but u can’t ask them nothing they will just ignore you
He asked for my picz and I refused
He went silent
After 5 hours he texted me again 😅
I've got Pluto and Mercury both in Scorpio and both in the 8th house and Venus in Scorpio in the 7th. Its ridiculous.
Y’all failed the TEST
i grew out of my tourettes , but i also felt my moon before i been hurt ,is like fantasy daydreams and imaginary friends when i was a kid it felts ten fold my energy was to much that u can cause multi personalitys , with u select friends and bullies , but i always had confidience in being myself as wierd as that may be, i dont care,if theres a saying i see out of my eyes and no one elses so i dont know any other way its how i was born in my qi / energy
Scorpio's know words have power and can be spells or curses, So first off we don't talk when we are upset because we don't want to say something out of anger. Second it takes us time to cool off and prosses what has happend . First we are bitterly angry if we are betrayed or lied to . Then we analyze why,you did what you did . If we can find a good reason or that some of it was our fault ,Thairs a chance if you apologize you will be forgiven. But We respect truth, and honest people . We have no time for gamie people, gelious people ,lies and player's we want to know the friendship is w/o Motivations i/e motives. Heart to heart conversations is all we want no chit chat about the stupid weather ! L.O.l
I just started dating a Scorpio Man 3 months I been with him two times in person probably like six times on the phone on FaceTime but after we were intimate he shuts down after intimacy so instead of me bothering him I leave for weeks then I come back and check on him and if this man continues to show me that he’s not interested I will take that as a sign and just leave because I am a Gemini Pisces Scorpio female who deeply feels emotion and it kills me when someone is silent from r to long I leave 2 weeks and he never reaches out first it’s always me it’s hurtful to be ignored but anyway I am trying I’m not sure this is what I want the mote i see these behaviors but then I’m trying to
Understand him ti but I am not sure if this is something I want
I here u. ♊ me n ♏ him been together😂 3mos. When he goes silent only hear r c him maybe 1 r 3 times out the month. Then here we go again silent. Should I leave this relationship?
@@vivianjackson7016 me same, then do you still with scorpio?
@@Hobimasak888 . ❤️ 💎 ♊ woman. Yes I am still with my ♏ man. It's now 8 mos into the relationship. He is everything that I imaged so far. He has taught me patience(something I don't have before).😛💯🥰
@@vivianjackson7016he still ignoring you most of the month tho? Like I don’t know how yall do it. If I deal with something like that you best believe I’m seeing other people while I “wait” for Scorpio to get his shit together. I’d rather just find someone else. I don’t like forcing myself to be with people that I’m not compatible with
@@Darkempress45 He started coming to c me once a week now. Till last week MIA. NO call, txt r nothing after I explained for the last time my boundaries( call, txt aleast once r twice a week) so I'll know u are ok n for me not to worry. I got a feeling it's going to b awhile. But this time(U know us 💎♊), I'm gone like a 👻. I have meet someone.
People are too egocentric to think that, some of them have a life 😐
Silence ? I wish !! They've got Mars in Gemini, I used to wear hearing aids but they couldn't handle it
Are you pertaining to Scorpio rising folks..??..
Good knowledge
My scorpio guy do not trust me but I love him don't know what to do to make him believe me. he is silence on me his reason is,I was concerned about another guy through my words.well I m pieces and can reflect so I m also silence on him.hahahhaha. Scorpio trust issue is serious .
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1:02 Spirit guide is present. Also, 1:10.
What if is just a bug flying by? especially 1:10 xD
Have they been hurt due to the failure of their manipulation back firing?
Why do you assume it was manipulation? This kind of question is why Scorpio shuts down around you. You're done.
@@daveygentry8418well if the person is really not manipulating and is genuine just upset won’t they say they are serious bout the relationship ?
@@Anitoouyyyu They're saying Scorpio is hurt because Scorpio was caught manipulating. They're saying Scorpio got its feelings hurt because it got caught being dishonest. This is projection. Scorpio is a fixed energy of self-preservation through personal transformation. Most Scorps are not occupied with manipulating other people. Fixed signs, including Scorpios, are mostly occupied with doing their own thing. And as a Scorpio, I would completely shut down around OP and avoid them, because they are projecting their own dishonesty on to me. So, for self preservation, Scorpio just shuts down and walks away. They're not going to debate it with someone. Now if the Scorpio thinks its an honest mistake, that's a different matter. They will talk it out. But once someone is haphazardly breaking trust, that's it. Scorpio is done.
Ageed on silence cause there’s nothing to say no faking here but it has nothing about anybody
R u Scorpio too?
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Ya bounce all a way out Da door lol
Ur speech isn't accurate
Bs, Beata doesn't get it either. You may skip this video.