@@cameroncaws8506 right. I am hunched back and I have a eye that sits lower then the other. And I hear this and I am like WTF. Do you know how much I wish that I could look atleast decent. Let alone look as beautiful as some of these people. That I wish I could be even halfway decent as them.
I'm sorry, but insecurities don't exclude typically/conventionally attractive people. You don't know what another person is going through. Anyone can be insecure, and just because they're considered pretty according to other people/society, doesn't take away that sense of insecurity, but instead when people invalidate those people's feelings, they'll just bottle them up and hide them, but that feeling/sensation will still remain. This is no hate to you by the way, I'm just trying to explain how anyone can be unhappy with themselves (they shouldn't be, no one should, but they still are) and they're just as valid as someone who isn't typically/conventionally attractive. :)
I've barely left my house in 5 years for the exact same reason, and I can barely be around my family. They just don't understand what its like to hate every small thing about yourself and to look in the mirror and see yourself as a literal monster. To feel like everything about yourself is a disgrace and embarrassment. Some people have insecurities, but my insecurity is me. And I even hate myself for that.
Sorry, I didn't mean to speculate or project, but I've just never actually heard someone have that same problem before, and no one can ever seem to understand it. Sorry again.
I hate that I HAVE to go out every day for work as a driver and have strangers seeing and judging how ugly I am. I can't wait to retire so I can hide in my house and go out to the store late at night wheres almost no people.
I’m just so done of never being good enough for people, never being anyones first choice, and hating what I see every time I look in the mirror. I can’t even come up with one thing I’m good at. I’m such a waste and a failure. I don’t deserve anything that I have in my life and there are people that deserve to be in my position. I just hate myself.
The lie of not being “good enough” is something that a lot of people struggle with, myself included. But what you have to ask is good enough for who? For what? Who are we trying to please? Honestly, the world is always going to try and knock us off of our feet. The question is do we let it. Do we let others define us and our worth. Do we stay on the ground and let these things conquer us. There is nothing wrong with giving up for a moment but you don’t have to stay there forever. There are always people out there who will see your worth. I don’t know you but I can see it through one simple paragraph. Please be kind to yourself and know that nobody has the right to define your worth except you :)
Mirrors are my enemy.. I will literally turn away or flinch when I see myself. I am 16!? I never wanted to be like this. This all started when I was 9.. I let younger me down.. And Im so sorry and scared...
Always being there for people, but it seems like nobody really sees me. I have really beautiful siblings, but I'm just small and fat and whatever I try can't change that. It's sometimes hard to be yourself when you don't like yourself.
my friends today asked if we could imagine a world without another, and i said i could, yet, they never heard me. they went into their own conversation, leaving me out again. i’m so tired of not being enough, i’m just ready to die. i have everything ready, i just need a time soon. i’m not worth that weight they have to carry. i have no purpose besides just being a burden for anyone. i’m so sorry
Hey, you are worth much more than you realize, you being here, on this earth, right now, is so meaningful to me and to others, if you were not here the world would be of. You are worth more than those lousy "friends", remember the good things, at least try to, how when the sun hits your skin its warm, how petting your or others cat and dog is soft and many other beautiful things and feelings. Thats you. You're warm, soft and beautiful. Please don't give up. For the small beautiful things the world has to offer you. I love you.
I used to have 'friends' like that and I didn't realise how toxic they were at the moment but leaving my school and my 'friends' was the biggest release of anxiety I could have had at that time. I have learnt that saying "things will get better" doesn't help and I can't tell the future but I will say that you deserve a hell of a lot more respect than the way your 'friends' treated you and the way you are treating yourself. your feelings should matter more to you than anything else. you are a human with feelings so fuck those 'friends' who act otherwise. my advice is to annihilate anyone who cannot handle your glorious and magnificent presence because they do not deserve it. (sorry for the swearing) I hope you feel better soon
Hey, you reading this, yes. I'm crying too. I'm with you. We're all with you. No matter what, always remember you will GET THROYGH IT. Trust me. It always feels like nothing has changed and nothing ever will, you will always be sad. But no, believe urself. How much ever u hate it, believe urself. I'm going through aot right now, and maybe you are too. But you will be fine I swear. U keep so many people happy. Trust me, I'm happy because of you. Just Believe❤
Thank you. I still struggle with all of it. When you are called ulgy for 9 years and your mother sends you to another family. She tired of looking at you .YesIr hard and I pray alot.
I am ten but every time I see other girls they are pretty and soft spoken and I feel like the odd one out I hide it tho but the pain still hurts because I am loud and not so skinny and i feel so dumb and ugly but I am trying to push through
I act like I don’t care what people think abt me but really I’m just thinking of how ugly and fat and how no one will ever like me.i feel like the biggest person in the whole entire store or room.
No matter what your size, what you look like, or anything like that know that you are beautiful. Inside and out. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise even if the person saying it is yourself.
I am tired. Even when I feel a little good about myself people drag me down making me close myself out all the self esteem that I’ve been trying to build up crumbling to my feet. I hate how unfair life is.
not to sure if I will ever get anywhere 100 per cent but I can only try my best got no friends I only go to get food when go shopping and get game for Nintendo switch then go home to shut my self from this world I can't win much hope others do way better than me just to get somewhere in this world
Same I don’t like me either I get bullied every day at school I’m so tired of trying and doing this I got played I got call a b word and I didn’t do anything and life doesn’t get better because when I did believe it life just got worse and bad
All of the people here are actually pretty. And look at me, a guy being 5'5, ahh I absolutely hate myself. I wear insole under my shoes because I feel so inferior.
How I overcame self-loathing: "He will never leave you, nor forsake you" Deuteronomy 31:6. If you feel like you're worthless, Jesus believes you're worth everything, that's why he died for you! Put your trust in him for salvation and turn from sin and you'll enjoy fellowship with Him forever and God will grant everlasting life as a free gift! "For God so loved the world that He sent His only begotten son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have eternal life" John 3:16
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You know what angers me most when I watch these videos, all the people looking in the mirror and hating how they look are always good looking.
Yess
Good looking people can hate themselves too. Self-esteem depends on how you see yourself.
@@multiloverwrites I know, sorry for generalising. Its still kind of obvious how nobody in these kind of videos never look particularly ugly though.
@@cameroncaws8506 right. I am hunched back and I have a eye that sits lower then the other. And I hear this and I am like WTF. Do you know how much I wish that I could look atleast decent. Let alone look as beautiful as some of these people. That I wish I could be even halfway decent as them.
I'm sorry, but insecurities don't exclude typically/conventionally attractive people. You don't know what another person is going through. Anyone can be insecure, and just because they're considered pretty according to other people/society, doesn't take away that sense of insecurity, but instead when people invalidate those people's feelings, they'll just bottle them up and hide them, but that feeling/sensation will still remain. This is no hate to you by the way, I'm just trying to explain how anyone can be unhappy with themselves (they shouldn't be, no one should, but they still are) and they're just as valid as someone who isn't typically/conventionally attractive. :)
Im literally scared to go anywhere cause im scared people are gonna start judging me for every reason
I've barely left my house in 5 years for the exact same reason, and I can barely be around my family. They just don't understand what its like to hate every small thing about yourself and to look in the mirror and see yourself as a literal monster. To feel like everything about yourself is a disgrace and embarrassment. Some people have insecurities, but my insecurity is me. And I even hate myself for that.
Sorry, I didn't mean to speculate or project, but I've just never actually heard someone have that same problem before, and no one can ever seem to understand it. Sorry again.
@@merlinpotter5038 u have nothing to apoligize for mu friend
@@sadcoconut9277 Thank you, and I hope that things can get better for you.
I hate that I HAVE to go out every day for work as a driver and have strangers seeing and judging how ugly I am. I can't wait to retire so I can hide in my house and go out to the store late at night wheres almost no people.
I feel so ugly and so small. I feel like ppl see me as nothing
If you need to talk I’m all ears
It's really bad feeling like that.
Ur not nothing tho Lily May. U are someone... Keep going don't quit on urself💯♥️
If there is no enemy within, the enemy outside could do us no harm.
Home sweet home
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Haha I thought you said sweet home Alabama and I was really confused
I’m just so done of never being good enough for people, never being anyones first choice, and hating what I see every time I look in the mirror. I can’t even come up with one thing I’m good at. I’m such a waste and a failure. I don’t deserve anything that I have in my life and there are people that deserve to be in my position. I just hate myself.
Wounded. Keep going💯
The lie of not being “good enough” is something that a lot of people struggle with, myself included. But what you have to ask is good enough for who? For what? Who are we trying to please? Honestly, the world is always going to try and knock us off of our feet. The question is do we let it. Do we let others define us and our worth. Do we stay on the ground and let these things conquer us. There is nothing wrong with giving up for a moment but you don’t have to stay there forever. There are always people out there who will see your worth. I don’t know you but I can see it through one simple paragraph. Please be kind to yourself and know that nobody has the right to define your worth except you :)
That's awesome..:>
Mirrors are my enemy.. I will literally turn away or flinch when I see myself. I am 16!? I never wanted to be like this. This all started when I was 9.. I let younger me down.. And Im so sorry and scared...
I hate myself so much that I lay there thinking about dieing-
If you need to talk I’m all ears
Thank you for being here. ❤️
You deserve to live a beutiful happy life you are living for your own not for others
❤️ Life is too short enjoy be happy ❤️
Always being there for people, but it seems like nobody really sees me. I have really beautiful siblings, but I'm just small and fat and whatever I try can't change that. It's sometimes hard to be yourself when you don't like yourself.
"I don't like the way I look"
Me : join the club darling
If you read this, you are beautiful, and you are so much important than you think, I love youu❤️
I LOVE YOU TOO
@@shelfruity Thanks UwU
I love you too
@@shilpachauhan9456 😁🌸
I feel like every time I watch these videos I feel like this is helping me become more skinny
This is what keeps me from not eating
I hate myself
Emori • hey sweetie. Do you wanna talk privately? I think we can help and encourage each other?
Emori • are you on Instagram?
Emori • okay what’s your handle? Mine is @atta_firdaus
I hate myself as well 😞💔😢
You are so beautiful and elegant. Don't hate dear.
my friends today asked if we could imagine a world without another, and i said i could, yet, they never heard me. they went into their own conversation, leaving me out again. i’m so tired of not being enough, i’m just ready to die. i have everything ready, i just need a time soon. i’m not worth that weight they have to carry. i have no purpose besides just being a burden for anyone. i’m so sorry
Hey, you are worth much more than you realize, you being here, on this earth, right now, is so meaningful to me and to others, if you were not here the world would be of. You are worth more than those lousy "friends", remember the good things, at least try to, how when the sun hits your skin its warm, how petting your or others cat and dog is soft and many other beautiful things and feelings. Thats you. You're warm, soft and beautiful. Please don't give up. For the small beautiful things the world has to offer you. I love you.
I used to have 'friends' like that and I didn't realise how toxic they were at the moment but leaving my school and my 'friends' was the biggest release of anxiety I could have had at that time. I have learnt that saying "things will get better" doesn't help and I can't tell the future but I will say that you deserve a hell of a lot more respect than the way your 'friends' treated you and the way you are treating yourself. your feelings should matter more to you than anything else. you are a human with feelings so fuck those 'friends' who act otherwise. my advice is to annihilate anyone who cannot handle your glorious and magnificent presence because they do not deserve it. (sorry for the swearing) I hope you feel better soon
Hey, you reading this, yes. I'm crying too. I'm with you. We're all with you. No matter what, always remember you will GET THROYGH IT. Trust me. It always feels like nothing has changed and nothing ever will, you will always be sad. But no, believe urself. How much ever u hate it, believe urself. I'm going through aot right now, and maybe you are too. But you will be fine I swear. U keep so many people happy. Trust me, I'm happy because of you. Just Believe❤
Thank you. I still struggle with all of it. When you are called ulgy for 9 years and your mother sends you to another family. She tired of looking at you .YesIr hard and I pray alot.
I'm crying...and i think you can guess why.
I have pretty bad Acne. , brown skin , and I'm so skinny I'm sure that I'm ugly girl
Brown skin holds so much power, and once you realize that sis, you will become dangerous, you are beautiful
Same
You’re all beautiful and I love you all 🥺💕
1 Samuel 16:7💗
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I'm fat, ugly and will never be good enough
I am ten but every time I see other girls they are pretty and soft spoken and I feel like the odd one out I hide it tho but the pain still hurts because I am loud and not so skinny and i feel so dumb and ugly but I am trying to push through
I'm so sorry what you've been going through 💖 but remember your Awesome in your own way! There so much more to live for
I'm 2 years older then you, but literally having this feeling at such a young age hurts.. but- soon it'll just fade away :
I act like I don’t care what people think abt me but really I’m just thinking of how ugly and fat and how no one will ever like me.i feel like the biggest person in the whole entire store or room.
No matter what your size, what you look like, or anything like that know that you are beautiful. Inside and out. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise even if the person saying it is yourself.
@@Grace-pi5pi thank you🙏😊😁
I am tired. Even when I feel a little good about myself people drag me down making me close myself out all the self esteem that I’ve been trying to build up crumbling to my feet. I hate how unfair life is.
Guys this comment section is our home.
true beauty is on the inside all of you are beautiful
not to sure if I will ever get anywhere 100 per cent but I can only try my best got no friends I only go to get food when go shopping and get game for Nintendo switch then go home to shut my self from this world I can't win much hope others do way better than me just to get somewhere in this world
Same I don’t like me either I get bullied every day at school I’m so tired of trying and doing this I got played I got call a b word and I didn’t do anything and life doesn’t get better because when I did believe it life just got worse and bad
All of the people here are actually pretty. And look at me, a guy being 5'5, ahh I absolutely hate myself. I wear insole under my shoes because I feel so inferior.
Buddy you are not the only one who feels inferior
I feel so small
Loved ❤️
0:06 name of the movie please.
The edge of seventeen
Movie please sir?
3:03 can someone please name the movie
Sierra Burgess is a loser
How I overcame self-loathing: "He will never leave you, nor forsake you" Deuteronomy 31:6. If you feel like you're worthless, Jesus believes you're worth everything, that's why he died for you! Put your trust in him for salvation and turn from sin and you'll enjoy fellowship with Him forever and God will grant everlasting life as a free gift! "For God so loved the world that He sent His only begotten son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have eternal life" John 3:16
AMEN THANK YOU FOR SPREADING THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST. 🙏😇✝️💙💛💚
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Movie title? 1:45
The edge of seventeen
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So... How is this supposed to help?
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