7 Tips to Simplify Your Life

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @patriciabaines5832
    @patriciabaines5832 Год назад +32

    You are such a blessing to me. You inspire me to choose more carefully how I spend time and what I spend my time on. I turn 78 in three days and I feel as you do, that for so much of that time I spent letting life just happen. Thank you for your insight and encouragement. God bless you in your ministry 🙏🏻

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад +1

      Have a blessed birthday!!! 🤍

    • @NonaMaryGrace1952
      @NonaMaryGrace1952 Год назад

      Happy Birthday to you. You are blessed. 💕NonnaGrace 🐓

  • @KarenReusch-j1u
    @KarenReusch-j1u 5 месяцев назад +1

    Attitude of gratitude!!! Every Day!!!!😊

  • @marysmith861
    @marysmith861 Год назад +2

    I wrote down your suggestions. I'm 67. I've had to say no to well meaning people when they give me things. I live in an apartment. There just isn't room. Not that I don't contribute to my own mess. I don't go to the thrift store as much as I used to. I can't have it all. People who gave me subscriptions to magazines have stopped. I asked them to. I'm going through my myriad of paper's. I've shredded so much. It's taken me time.
    My 8 month old grandson passed away February 1st of this year. That's been a tough one. But I know the Lord has everything in his hands.
    Either we change or, stay stuck. We can get overwhelmed and not enjoy life.

  • @karinwade
    @karinwade Год назад +18

    Thank you for putting into words what I am trying to focus on in my own life. Daily Bible study has helped me to focus on knowing God and in setting appropriate boundaries with myself and others. Much calmer overall, grateful and decluttering...

  • @Casper-jx1zd
    @Casper-jx1zd Год назад +8

    You look absolutely fabulous 🌟

  • @maureendickie5571
    @maureendickie5571 Год назад +8

    I think you explained the issue of ‘draining people’ very well, with love and respect - for oneself and them.

  • @karenm7260
    @karenm7260 Год назад +7

    Thank you for this video. Number six is one I realized a couple of years ago I needed to address as the Lord had put people in my life that needed to hear His Word however our time together needed to be limited. Over time I have been able to address with them the drama they bring to so many situations and what God’s Word says and also what the stressors in their lives are doing to their health. For us as believers we need to rely on God and go to prayer and ask for His wisdom.

  • @joanncole9603
    @joanncole9603 Год назад +9

    This morning around 5:30 am in north central Alabama, just after daybreak. My husband and me saw the most beautiful rainbow for about 10 minutes. I felt it was a gift from God, made just for my husband and me. He is battling lung and kidney cancer. The Lord really helps us. Bless you sweet lady, I’ve just recently started watching you.

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад +1

      I am so sorry to hear about your husband's and your battle. I will be praying for him and for you. So thankful that you know the Lord is with you right there in the middle of it. May He be your comfort and strength and peace and even joy as you walk this road together with Him. 🤍🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @joanncole9603
      @joanncole9603 Год назад

      @@TheLifeTidy Thank You.

  • @albertthompson4381
    @albertthompson4381 Год назад +4

    I appreciate your tip on draining people. As a Christian I do want to minister to these people but have found if I don’t put up some boundaries with them my own mental health suffers ( being prone to depression).

  • @donnalusk2866
    @donnalusk2866 Год назад +9

    I LOVE your confidence in speaking TRUTH and SOUND DOCTRINE! I needed this encouragement. Thank you for sharing your Christ-focused wisdom.

  • @HT-sh1yj
    @HT-sh1yj Год назад +9

    I’m so glad this video popped up in my feed. Very good tips. I would supplement the point about staying away from emotionally draining people by saying those people can be people you don’t personally know but who you interact with on social media. For example, I try to avoid social media by people who I disagree with politically, but I’m now thinking I also need to limit my exposure to those I agree with politically because their constant complaints and harping are emotionally draining and only get me upset about the current situation. I think this is good advice no matter what “side” you are on politically - or on any other emotionally charged issues. It’s all just so draining.

  • @KarenReusch-j1u
    @KarenReusch-j1u 5 месяцев назад +1

    Boundaries will work wonders....

  • @heather1778
    @heather1778 Год назад +7

    Thank you so much for this encouragement. As wives and mothers it can be such a challenge to know what we truly want and what *our* priorities are. After spending years (decades!) on that magic carpet helping everyone else around us accomplish their needs/goals/priorities it can take some effort and introspection to learn what is important to US now. It’s been so long since I’ve had the luxury of considering my personal priorities ~ not complaining, just recognizing where I am and why that question is so difficult for me. And letting go of the guilt for saying “no” because of not wanting to disappoint anyone, ever! Gratitude comes more easily because there is so much to be grateful for always. You are a treasure and, speaking of gratitude, I’m grateful for you! 🌸

  • @rubyus7332
    @rubyus7332 Год назад +2

    So glad I found your channel and the community of like minded people! I’ve been doing decluttering for a while now and would like to see what others are doing. Yes, please, do a video on decluttering and minimizing wardrobe n that’ll be really helpful! Wishing success to you and your community!

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад

      Thank you so much! Super glad to have you here!!!

  • @ros8986
    @ros8986 Год назад +3

    I am so happy with my uniform - I have a summer uniforms and a fall/winter/spring uniform. I worry that people are looking for clothes to do something they can do.

  • @karencrecco2922
    @karencrecco2922 Год назад +1

    Yup. Purposeful living is the ticket.Ecclesiastes 12:13

  • @luisafoodadventure5294
    @luisafoodadventure5294 Год назад +1

    Lovely video! Letting go of toxic people is a gift we give ourselves. I am not the most religious person however I believe that God gave us power of choice every second of the day and he wants us to be fulfilled in our passage on earth. So letting go of toxicity is a choice we can make to make the world a better place.

  • @dianeshaw9061
    @dianeshaw9061 Год назад +3

    Such a great message!! Thank you for taking your time to bless us. This is your ministry. 😃
    I also had to give up the “opera drama” that had taken over in my life. It really was draining; and yes, it was still hard to do. Your thoughts on that really spoke to me, so thank you. God bless you on this beautiful day!

  • @bernetajohnson3296
    @bernetajohnson3296 Год назад +4

    Thank you for this wonderfully realistic video. There comes a time in our lives where less is more.

  • @bernadettejavier8184
    @bernadettejavier8184 Год назад

    I do implement those tips you’ve mentioned in my life.Thanks for the video!

  • @aprilwilcher3311
    @aprilwilcher3311 Год назад +3

    I don’t comment but have to say your videos are so helpful and a joy to watch. You’re an inspiration and a blessing. Hugs🤗

  • @rebeccajourney3183
    @rebeccajourney3183 Год назад

    I have already incorporated most of these in my life! Thank you❤

  • @myfuturepuglife
    @myfuturepuglife Год назад +1

    You are speaking the words I needed to hear for decades! Thank You So Much! Especially number six. It IS a VERY real thing.

  • @rebeccajourney3183
    @rebeccajourney3183 Год назад +1

    I am really enjoying this series! And I just want to say, I love how put together you look in that sweater. It is very becoming and inspires me to downsize my wardrobe❤
    I think this was the best video yet!

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much! I love that sweater as well. It's funny how every now and then you just find a piece of clothing that really works! And you especially gotta love it when you find them at a garage sale for a dollar 😊😊😊

  • @teamginger6359
    @teamginger6359 Год назад +3

    These tips are wonderful, thank you! Each tip is a fresh new perspective & helpful! I cleaned out 2 closets today & filled bags & bags of clothes to go to Bibles for Missions so this was timely! Thank you for speaking of your spiritual priorities & putting God first. It is refreshing to hear you speak openly about your faith. Yes, I am one who blunders & am still learning to set boundaries with others. I do often feel as though life is running me, rather than vice versa. I'm working on this! It is good to hear you speak about this also, thank you. I look forward to watching your videos on minimizing my clothing (especially after cleaning closets all day, ha!). 💖

  • @Catherine-do5ok
    @Catherine-do5ok 4 месяца назад

    Thankyou for your honesty I have been overwhelmed by the aging process happening All at once unexpectanly one minute I'm not aging seemingly and the next everything possiblel happened after a period of stress bought on by other people,

  • @jooyonpark1247
    @jooyonpark1247 Год назад

    Thank you so much for your wisdom. Such a valuable lesson!! ❤

  • @lorihorton6218
    @lorihorton6218 Год назад

    Thank you for all the great advice and the focus on God and how we spend our time and prioritize. Thank you for inspiring me. I have a very rewarding but very demanding job so my time is not prioritized I’m doing a little each day. Thank you for inspiring me more.

  • @debbiestrang7774
    @debbiestrang7774 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing. Great ideas. Be intentional about living and Be grateful. Thank you for sharing these ideas!
    God bless you ❤️🙏🏼

  • @annevogtle5016
    @annevogtle5016 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Catherine, again this is so real. I am struggling with the emotionally draining step, as my mother is that person for me. She is now in a nursing home, and I am the only family close by. She is not in crisis, just negative about everything, and has been for years. I am trying to discern how much God wants me to give in this area. Your tips were great reminders for the other aspects of my life, thank you.

  • @jocelynrose7911
    @jocelynrose7911 Год назад

    I'm thankful for coming to your channel this morning. May God bless you as you bless others.

  • @metesarabi9273
    @metesarabi9273 Год назад

    I have benefited a great deal from your videos. Thank you!

  • @lindachristie6060
    @lindachristie6060 Год назад +2

    It was so good to see your video. All of your 7 tips hit home with me and have given me new direction on simplifying my life. At 75 my priorities have certainly changed. Things that were important for so long have become much less important. Thank you for this list, it has reaffirmed exactly how to prioritize my life. Much love to you! 💕

  • @deb4375
    @deb4375 Год назад

    Thank you for your videos. This morning I was noticing how the evergreens were lifting up their boughs to the Lord and how God provided a cool breeze.
    I want to focus on a smaller wardrobe and keeping up on chores.

  • @Tehomet
    @Tehomet Год назад

    So much truth in this

  • @juliejackman2649
    @juliejackman2649 Год назад +2

    I love jobs that help people. The 2 paid jobs I've had were me just focusing on helping people. My most favorite job is being a Wife and Mom. I have a teen son with autism and adhd that I homeschool. I really love your channel and your focus on God and Family💕

    • @charmingintrovert3240
      @charmingintrovert3240 Год назад +1

      Oh my goodness Julie, I can identify with you and have empathy for your situation.
      My youngest son is now 21 years old and also is on the Autism spectrum along with ADHD.
      When she was talking about people who emotionally drain us, it is most definitely my son for me.
      And the difficult part is we cannot just choose to spend less time with them because they need us.
      May the Lord bless you and give you peace while you care for him while homeschooling as well.💐

  • @judy_h
    @judy_h Год назад

    Very helpful tips. I took notes. 👍

  • @KarenReusch-j1u
    @KarenReusch-j1u 5 месяцев назад

    We ❤ you Katharine!!❤

  • @KarenReusch-j1u
    @KarenReusch-j1u 5 месяцев назад

    Beautiful sweater!!❤

  • @nancylayman7374
    @nancylayman7374 Год назад

    Thank you very much for your video.

  • @kellyhinkle6989
    @kellyhinkle6989 Год назад +1

    Love ALL of these reminders! Thank you!!❤

  • @Carol-br3bd
    @Carol-br3bd Год назад +1

    It is amazing, how we hold on to the same things or events and visit them daily, sometimes several times a day...while it does seem that the west is empowering victimhood and ignoring flaws in personal responsibility, i see it starting to change...Its a ploy from the adversary to keep us riled up, angry, hateful and depressed. Before we know it our earth life is ending.and whats worse, in my opinion, is waiting for someone else to change it...we really need to get a good working understanding of the definition of love and evaluate that daily. Everything we need to know is in it...❤

  • @maryjohnson-xk4pm
    @maryjohnson-xk4pm Год назад

    Thank you Catherine. Just what I needed today. Life can get overwhelming if we let it.
    Blessings to you.

  • @marileemcpherson3478
    @marileemcpherson3478 Год назад

    Thanks for these words of encouragement. I'll listen to this again. I'm 68 and on the verge of retirement and thinking a lot about the next stage of life and finding structure and purpose in it.

  • @jeannebowes2898
    @jeannebowes2898 Год назад +1

    Right there with you! It was a wonderful garden day here in Montana

  • @mclaire899
    @mclaire899 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your hard-earned wisdom💞

  • @lisaann6267
    @lisaann6267 Год назад

    Thank you katherine, 🙏🙏🙏 for your continued healing.

  • @debbiephillips6809
    @debbiephillips6809 Год назад

    I love what you said about priorities and gratitude! Thank you. 😊

  • @KarenReusch-j1u
    @KarenReusch-j1u 5 месяцев назад

    Greetings from Ontario, Canada ❤❤❤

  • @phyllismorton1206
    @phyllismorton1206 Год назад

    Thank you much for the tips. You are a lovely person and I was blessed by hearing you.

  • @ros8986
    @ros8986 Год назад +2

    Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by McKeown, Greg - there are youtube lectures by him on it (it is a book), a lot of it is about business situations but it applies to everything. also Effortless: Make It Easier to Do What Matters Most , McKeown, Greg

  • @poodledaddles1091
    @poodledaddles1091 Год назад +1

    Well, I’ve listened to and enjoyed at least 5 of your videos, I might as well go ahead and subscribe. Lol!

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад

      Glad to have you along for the adventure!! Thank you for being here! 😊

  • @bethyoung3654
    @bethyoung3654 Год назад +1

    Great video, thank you!

  • @ElinorRumming
    @ElinorRumming Год назад +1

    Great tips! I absolutely love your outfit!

  • @annagia153
    @annagia153 Год назад +1

    Oh boy did I need this!! Great video. Thanks Katherine 🤩

  • @distaff2935
    @distaff2935 Год назад

    Your best episode! The excess "stuff" is just part of a bigger picture.

  • @jeridavidson9074
    @jeridavidson9074 Год назад

    Great discussion on tip 6!

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад +1

      Thank you! I was a little nervous about that one 🙃😊

  • @NonaMaryGrace1952
    @NonaMaryGrace1952 Год назад

    Hello Catherine, your a very wise person. I had a person that I would limit the time spent with them because the would drain me. I love this person but the constant bragging was way to much. Things have gotten better as the person has aged. 💕NonnaGrace 🐓

  • @michaelmatthews4168
    @michaelmatthews4168 Год назад +2

    Keep up the good work!

  • @WesleaBell
    @WesleaBell Год назад

    Enjoying your videos very much!

  • @midsouthhomestead7527
    @midsouthhomestead7527 Год назад

    Thanks

  • @virginiagrenier8572
    @virginiagrenier8572 Год назад

    I have a friend that I've known for 23 years. She is very negative and always complaining about something or telling a very negative story about something that's happened to someone in her family. I've been hinting that she needs a more positive outlook but I haven't seen a change. Finally, I was blunt with her saying that if you know a person that you are dealing with isn't going to change and you want change, you will have to be the one to change or you are enabling their behavior. She was hurt by my comment but I don't know what else to do but tell the painful truth at this point. There is no sugar coating things anymore.

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад +1

      It is hard sometimes, but sometimes speaking the truth is the most loving thing we can do if we do it with kindness. It might take her a while, but hopefully she will make some changes and find herself happier for having done so. 🤍

  • @Feathe3642
    @Feathe3642 Год назад

    I love this video- it is so helpful. Thankyou and May God bless you! 💕🙏

  • @heidimartin6711
    @heidimartin6711 Год назад

    Excellent tips! Thank you❤

  • @jopayne3310
    @jopayne3310 Год назад

    Thank you for reminding me to express gratitude! I’ve a couple of WhatsApp messages to send now to say ‘thank you’ to someone!

  • @tb2835
    @tb2835 Год назад

    Tacksam för din video

  • @christinearnold590
    @christinearnold590 Год назад

    Gratitude and clothes!! Two of the 7 things I need to work on but all seven apply to me!!❤

  • @simmiedavissimmiesings8185
    @simmiedavissimmiesings8185 Год назад

    This is exactly what Holy Spirit said to me all week. We are all being led by the Creator to be that sweet aroma in His nostrils.

  • @bojanaarmacki6475
    @bojanaarmacki6475 Год назад

    I just discovered your channel, I wanted to say I find it incredibly inspirational. I have been trying to implement Number Six in some sort of way with my mother, but find it difficult as I would also like ho to have some semblance of a relationship with her grandchildren. She makes random judgemental and shaming comments to them that I can barely stand it.

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад

      That is such a difficult balance to find. I will be praying that you find the wisdom you need that honors your mother and your desire for her to have a relationship with her grandchildren but also protects your children.... and you. So difficult. But I have seen people succeed at finding that sweet spot. Sometimes it takes a hard conversation with Mom. And sometimes it takes explaining to your children that your mom came from a different generation and they communicated differently than we do now. And sometimes it takes both. 🙏🤍

  • @pamelavance648
    @pamelavance648 Год назад

    Me pausing video lol to put laundry in washer.... multitasking is a necessity some days

  • @shirleymcmurtrie7853
    @shirleymcmurtrie7853 Год назад

    Thank you, Katherine...you have truly added inspiration to my day. ❤🙏

  • @ziggyustar3137
    @ziggyustar3137 Год назад

    As I'm listening I look around my room and see a cassette laying on the floor. I haven't had a cassette player since I gave mine to my Mom she died almost 10 years ago. Closet? I put three bins with socks, undies bottoms, undies tops, no more drawers with stuff I never wear. Five or ten small tops, five pairs of stretchy pants fancy wear? limit to five fancy wear in case I need a fancy wear. The rest(other than my furs) getting rid of/ Jeans only the ones that fit. Shorts less than 6 pairs no one needs more. Thanks for making me more active. I'm trying

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад

      Sounds like you are rocking it!!!!! 🤍

    • @ziggyustar3137
      @ziggyustar3137 Год назад

      @@TheLifeTidy Started caning a chair this morning stopped at 4:00pm when it started to rain. Thank You for getting Me going I needed a shove in the right direction

  • @carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679
    @carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679 Год назад +1

    7:34 - "be discerning in that"
    THAT is the gem in this video
    It doesn't matter whenther it's people, places, tings, actions, activities, and especially the media you learn from/consume
    EVERYONE wants something from you. Time, atttention, effort, money, eyeballs, anger, action.
    BE DISCERNING
    Not everyoen who smiles is your friend.
    Not every appointment needs to be met.
    Not every video needs to be watched.
    Not every person needing your help needs to be helped.
    I am not saying "be totally defensive and frugal.
    I AM saying "pay attention, and be OFFENSIVE on your time, money, energy, waht you bring in your home, etc. etc.
    YOU CHOOSE!
    Someone said "if you don't choose the path for your life, then someone else will. Guess waht their plans are for your life? Not much."
    DISCERNMENT!
    And i hear that word more, adn more, and more in our community!

  • @KarenReusch-j1u
    @KarenReusch-j1u 5 месяцев назад

    Absolutely, but we are human,we cannot fix everyone,....

  • @nildabridgeman8104
    @nildabridgeman8104 Год назад +3

    Someone told me a Jewish saying once: Your dancing at every wedding! You can't be everywhere

  • @Catherine-do5ok
    @Catherine-do5ok 4 месяца назад

    Your white top looks lovely on you,

  • @ΓεωργίαΓεωργίου-υ9η

    ❤❤❣️

  • @raerae2885
    @raerae2885 Год назад +1

    ❤️🙏🏼

  • @rebeccacarter1914
    @rebeccacarter1914 Год назад

    Energy vampires! Yes, they will suck your life force from you. Wise words, thank you! God bless!

  • @carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679
    @carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679 Год назад

    10:51 - please find the quote by Robert Heinlein about saying NO.... "just a moment of your time, sir" If you give them that, they will take it all and howl for more...Learn to say NO - and rudely if necessary"
    Find the full quote

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад

      In my experience it is rarely necessary to be rude. But I'm sure there are those situations. .. 🙃

    • @carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679
      @carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679 Год назад

      ​@@TheLifeTidy Hinge point
      "and rudely if necessary"
      If you have been outside in anything above 10,000 people ...i think it is an easy realization that not only rude, but PHYSICALLY ACTIVELY RUDE can be warranted at times.
      I didn't want it this way...THEY DID.
      so, let's give ti to them like a child having a tanturm in aisle 4...and give it to them....HARD!
      Walking along the Florida Bay, i am gentle and wonderful, and i love my dogs.
      Go to town? I carry a bat.
      "i didn't want it this way...THEY DID!"
      So, let's give them what they whined for!

  • @NagwaAnwar-fc8ko
    @NagwaAnwar-fc8ko Год назад

    ارجوا ترجمة الفديو هات الى اللغة العربية من فضلك

  • @lileelisamc.4722
    @lileelisamc.4722 Год назад

    are you saying that you turned 50 a few years ago?

    • @TheLifeTidy
      @TheLifeTidy  Год назад

      I will be 59 in December. 🙃😊