Shuler King - She Said It’s Cool

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  • @Ash-ol3ji
    @Ash-ol3ji 2 года назад +3264

    When a woman is calm about something she should be upset by, you better brace yourself! 💯🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @cyanoxicrose
    @cyanoxicrose 2 года назад +2569

    The fact that he asked, "tf that mean" tells me he's already worried. 🤣

    • @kourtney101
      @kourtney101 2 года назад +125

      She got his mind playing tricks on him... (Like the Ghetto Boys)

    • @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert
      @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert 2 года назад

      LMAOOOO That ass is NERVOUS

    • @Cruzan9
      @Cruzan9 2 года назад +29

      Yup! 😂😂😂

    • @missbttrsctch
      @missbttrsctch 2 года назад +35

      Yep, and that's a good start!

    • @knowthyself5044
      @knowthyself5044 2 года назад +25

      I know right🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙄🥺🥺

  • @deniseedodson1938
    @deniseedodson1938 2 года назад +3543

    Came home and found my husband in bed with another woman. The "light bulb" went off in my head. I told him it was okay. I suddenly realized I no longer loved him. I had already been planning on leaving him but I was pregnant and afraid. When I saw that woman in the bed it gave me the courage to start packing and walk out. He expected me to yell and cry. When I did not he started to cry. He said he was deeply sorry he had hurt me so badly. I felt nothing for him. I responded "I'm glad you found someone because I am done". I moved to another state and started a whole new life. A few years later I met someone who treated me like a queen. My second husband and I remained married and in love for 30 years until he died of cancer. Trust God - not mankind.

    • @serenitymuszings
      @serenitymuszings 2 года назад +152

      Amen.
      Reason
      Season
      Lifetime

    • @missgermany8174
      @missgermany8174 2 года назад +91

      @Denise E Dodson,you better tell it girl!!! Preachhhhhh
      #BiggernBetterBlessings

    • @swannfiya8949
      @swannfiya8949 2 года назад

      💯👑🤍🌼

    • @angelsweet9611
      @angelsweet9611 2 года назад +142

      Aww I’m sry for your loss tho!!

    • @marybrickhouse9710
      @marybrickhouse9710 2 года назад +119

      That's what God does. So sorry for your loss.

  • @DrLolaJohnston
    @DrLolaJohnston 2 года назад +138

    A mentor of mine says that a woman can make your food, keep your house and EVICT you from her heart. This dude BEEN evicted!

    • @Ariesqueen6053
      @Ariesqueen6053 24 дня назад +2

      TRUTH‼️ I told my ex husband before we divorced I sat down & calmly explained to him….if u keep on with your foolishness u gone end up a VISTOR with a call before u come to my house if I’m at home knocking on what use to be your own front door real talk heed my warning advice to u conversation….but obviously he chose the ex files so oh well 😂

  • @mariecampbell3373
    @mariecampbell3373 2 года назад +477

    "The CIA ain't got sh-t on a woman with a plan."

  • @prncssdiva20
    @prncssdiva20 2 года назад +2696

    She was waiting for him to say it out loud so she can proceed accordingly. Her girls are in formation and everything.

    • @user-ph4mg1mh9c
      @user-ph4mg1mh9c 2 года назад +143

      It’s showtime 🤡💀

    • @duchesseebene1273
      @duchesseebene1273 2 года назад +237

      Everyone is in formation. The movers are an hour away from pulling up, the locksmith is 2 hours away. Her brothers are already in the driveway securing the area. Her friends are holding steady, ready to roll the cameras. His big momma's on speed dial in case he wants to show dominance in exactly ONE hour!!!

    • @PopsieLouisiana59
      @PopsieLouisiana59 2 года назад +51

      I am just waiting on the TikTok show.

    • @tiffakang4525
      @tiffakang4525 2 года назад +94

      Facts! Sir just leave. Cause if I say that...... I'm about to take yo azz through it.

    • @glad2balive
      @glad2balive 2 года назад +20

      preach on it! 🤣🤣

  • @mecahunter7092
    @mecahunter7092 2 года назад +1296

    When I no longer argue with you, it literally means there is nothing left to fight for and mentally I'm already gone.

  • @jaylene.turner6524
    @jaylene.turner6524 2 года назад +2145

    When you hear those words
    especially from a black woman,
    know that it’s definitely not cool.
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lj2rah993
      @lj2rah993 2 года назад

      It means you're going to die

    • @kourtney101
      @kourtney101 2 года назад +54

      The shade, tho. 🤔😂😂.

    • @zombiegoddess1524
      @zombiegoddess1524 2 года назад +15

      That's Not true

    • @chareelangston7328
      @chareelangston7328 2 года назад +81

      That means sleep with one eye open or you better not close your eyes in here presence 🤣

    • @stevengill9442
      @stevengill9442 2 года назад +53

      Not cool is right hell he better pack his stuff and leave it's about to get ugly 🤣🤣🤣

  • @qcp974
    @qcp974 2 года назад +122

    Some men are so arrogant... Why do women always have to wreck house afterwards or have a dude on the side for some men to believe we can be calm and accepting in a situation? How about... and this is crazy, I know... we truly are emotionally done with you after we learn you cheated on us?
    I left my ex (who didn't even cheat on me) and the first thing he asked was "is it because of someone else??"
    Nevermind all the blow-ups we had had over the years, nevermind that particular argument where he laughed at me crying, nevermind his total lack of support for me eating just a LITTLE bit healthier, or exercising, or studying for my degree, or saving money, or having friends. Nevermind me having to act as his chauffeur while I'm also going to work and school, because he finally got a job like I demanded but refused to get a car until I threatened to kick him out. The only thing HE thought when I finally asked for a divorce was that I got someone else.
    There was no one else waiting to take his place. I was simply that tired of his shenanigans.

    • @DebraRicks-dp7xq
      @DebraRicks-dp7xq 6 месяцев назад +17

      I agree. It’s not about having another person. It’s about just being sick and tired of the BS.

  • @lf9038
    @lf9038 2 года назад +277

    Why do so many people (including Shuler) think she has someone else? When you've been dealing with a lying SOB, the last thing you want to do is get up under another one. You chill by yourself for a bit and enjoy the peace.

    • @queenprincess4life
      @queenprincess4life 6 месяцев назад +15

      Nah that chill by yourself mess is what got all these single church women sitting up there lonely 20 years later, after they’ve been done wrong. My aunt said God made the world in 6 days and rested on the 7th, she said take a week and get it out your system and get back out there. Life is too short to be miserable. Plus these men move on quickly and don’t be sitting alone single forever.

    • @greensilk58
      @greensilk58 5 месяцев назад +27

      Say it! When you're fed up, you don't have to have someone waiting in the wings..you're just done with his sorry a**!

    • @cosima9586
      @cosima9586 5 месяцев назад +29

      ​@queenprincess4life why would u assume somebody lonely just because they don't wanna lay up under some fool and enjoy their peace. Just because you can't function without being in a relationship doesn't mean others can't. YOU may be a lonely person who accepts crap for the sake of saying you have some1 but that doesn't apply to all women

    • @gcchair7634
      @gcchair7634 5 месяцев назад

      Because he’s a man and they think it’s someone else rather than Women will be alone rather than deal w someone’s BS .

    • @B.UnApologetic
      @B.UnApologetic 5 месяцев назад +2

      So don’t get under another one. Go find a man that got his ducks in a row.

  • @tenadefiant
    @tenadefiant 2 года назад +729

    Ah hell, she ain't even mad. That means she's already left and he just don't know it yet

  • @avisroberson-little8333
    @avisroberson-little8333 2 года назад +783

    That’s means she was already planning to leave. It doesn’t matter anymore.

    • @lindaburgundy5301
      @lindaburgundy5301 2 года назад +7

      Don't ever think that va black woman is going to let that ride watch your back

    • @amandamcgee609
      @amandamcgee609 2 года назад +4

      🎯

    • @nellecarrero3671
      @nellecarrero3671 2 года назад

      RRRIIIIGGGHHTT! She probably was already mentally checked out of the relationship

    • @1college100
      @1college100 2 года назад

      @@lindaburgundy5301 It's alot of black women will let that ride by leaving with their pride and power knowing that alone gone kill him for the rest of his life. You only cut up when you give a damn.

  • @michellee6151
    @michellee6151 2 года назад +1397

    This happened to me once and I said the same thing. I had prayed about it asking for peace of mind. I had my suspicions and then he reluctantly confirmed them. I had not cheated and I had nobody waiting. Even though I was heartbroken, I walked away. He was more afraid of me in my calm state then I think he would've been had I lashed out. I had never thought about getting back at him. I just prayed and asked God to take care of it. There are some women who aren't petty.

    • @MsJoyce31202
      @MsJoyce31202 2 года назад +22

      👍

    • @Future-zx9ts
      @Future-zx9ts 2 года назад +90

      Amen! I’m sorry that happened to you, but you’ll be blessed for being the bigger person, even if it just comes in the form of internal peace, which is a huge blessing in and of itself!

    • @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert
      @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert 2 года назад +80

      You're right that everyone doesn't plot revenge. Some people know how to just cut someone off and walk away. We all know this channel is meant to make us laugh though, so the comments reflect that.

    • @drillosophy1012
      @drillosophy1012 2 года назад +21

      Solid response.

    • @dianaphillips3979
      @dianaphillips3979 2 года назад +94

      @@TheeAntisocialXxtrovert Exactly!!! I dont do drama. I come in peace and leave in peace. You either want to be with me or you dont. 😉

  • @tjudah9022
    @tjudah9022 2 года назад +65

    He just became the most insignificant blip in her universe. Mentally and emotionally, she's already light years away.

  • @ivorybryan3261
    @ivorybryan3261 2 года назад +240

    When a person becomes numb to toxicity….. brace yourself.

    • @TEWMUCH
      @TEWMUCH Год назад +13

      Yup. There's def something wrong.

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 Месяц назад

      Hell hath no fury like….

  • @lisab6372
    @lisab6372 2 года назад +1158

    "Conscious- Acceptance" is a flowing State of being. She has accepted you are who you are, and your actions no longer leave her stuck in your 🐂💩 with you. Her new furniture has probably already been delivered to her new place. 😅

  • @Shadowcub69
    @Shadowcub69 2 года назад +1530

    Just remember that if you can do it, she's gonna do it better.

    • @feliciahurd5573
      @feliciahurd5573 2 года назад +42

      Amen😊

    • @Juschillin2024
      @Juschillin2024 2 года назад +37

      Facts!

    • @rodom9195
      @rodom9195 2 года назад +8

      Women dont cheat better , men just keep they mouth shut to keep the access. I been around my brother Dope boys and business men. once women know u run your mouth they make sure it's known and they stop messing with you. Get with the game Bro

    • @Cruzan9
      @Cruzan9 2 года назад +5

      Now that I believe!

    • @ingridjohn3455
      @ingridjohn3455 2 года назад +3

      💯

  • @ari333
    @ari333 2 года назад +291

    She left a long time ago in her heart.

    • @belovedonesalways7880
      @belovedonesalways7880 2 года назад +10

      Yes ma'am women can compartmentalize very well so when you think you slick and cheating hasn't been detected...you will be the one shocked, hurt and in disbelief.
      She has had her life setup and left while you were at work telling the boys how cool she was about it.

    • @lamekajones6228
      @lamekajones6228 2 года назад +3

      Exactly 💯

    • @eveningglow9023
      @eveningglow9023 2 года назад +1

      Yep

  • @360Mirrorswithin
    @360Mirrorswithin Год назад +90

    She finally received the golden ticket she had been waiting for..am out of here! thank you very much💃💃..

    • @promotechs2540
      @promotechs2540 7 месяцев назад +1

      if he's smart he'll leave her right after that conversation lol

  • @Erica92184
    @Erica92184 Год назад +103

    Instead of bye Felicia….it’s bye Fred. Just don’t care.

  • @nickknardirell9821
    @nickknardirell9821 2 года назад +1697

    1. That female intuition already checked her gut
    2. She has text messages, call logs and pics
    3. She has already met and had a whole convo w said side chick
    4. She has already made arrangements for her new spot, new phone number and new life
    5. “I ain’t even sorry, Charlie”

  • @lifeamotha3975
    @lifeamotha3975 2 года назад +300

    It never fails to amaze or entertain me when men cheat and get all in their feelings if and when a woman does it! They've even got the nerve to be angry when you don't trust them!

    • @bjmorgan3092
      @bjmorgan3092 2 года назад +30

      I asked a man "why do you get mad when you know you're lying". He said you get mad because you can't convinced her to believe what your saying . smh

    • @umdabest74
      @umdabest74 2 года назад +16

      Chii the audacity they have lol

    • @spacebabyksworld
      @spacebabyksworld 2 года назад +6

      I mean period 💅🏾

    • @rejac2833
      @rejac2833 2 года назад +12

      Angry when you no longer trust is such manipulation🤦‍♀️

    • @sherrymickey8101
      @sherrymickey8101 Год назад +3

      The whole nerve! Like ninja you was having whole dates without me👀👀

  • @Jamz1178
    @Jamz1178 2 года назад +286

    That means she knew he cheated before he did 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Mishy555
    @Mishy555 2 года назад +61

    It’s called: The “calm” before the “STORM”and there isn’t a raincoat big enough for his a*s when it hits him🤣

  • @baldqueen2762
    @baldqueen2762 Год назад +33

    She no longer requires your services. Your severance pay is this garbage bag to put your belongings into. Good Day.

    • @soniapinkney1342
      @soniapinkney1342 5 месяцев назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!!

  • @gwenstevens1963
    @gwenstevens1963 2 года назад +239

    She tell you it’s “COOL” You can Guarantee yep she knew and doing her thang!!

  • @CBrown023
    @CBrown023 2 года назад +144

    Lmfao that mean she already knew before he told her and she got something up her sleeve. She bouta hurt his feelings now...probably been cheating on him back when she first found out before he even confessed it to her.

  • @rosalindalexander449
    @rosalindalexander449 2 года назад +523

    I say, don’t ever eat at home ever again! Just tell her you ate already and you ain’t hungry!

    • @chicoduffey669
      @chicoduffey669 2 года назад +33

      😂😂😂😂😂😂👍🏽

    • @procurementqueen
      @procurementqueen 2 года назад +21

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @yaadapaah887
      @yaadapaah887 2 года назад +10

      Lol

    • @sagittariusque8932
      @sagittariusque8932 2 года назад +48

      "Oh so you not hungry"/ "where you get food from?"
      It's cool tho
      Don't eeen worry about it

    • @blessed4219
      @blessed4219 2 года назад +4

      😐🤨😑🤦🏽‍♀️watch out

  • @rop8331
    @rop8331 2 года назад +71

    "If you think your lonely now, wait untill tonight" Bobby Womack

  • @kyliegreen2349
    @kyliegreen2349 2 года назад +22

    Nah, as a woman, it means she don't give af. She is leaving and that's all. Nobody got time for bleach on the clothes, busting out windows, bleach in the cool-aid, sugar in the gas tank, aint nobody got time for that. Who got time be screaming, yelling, crying, you all emotional, blood pressure up cmon man...why waste time on individuals who are not going to elevate you to your higher
    purpose...why?

  • @engagedgothgirl
    @engagedgothgirl 2 года назад +290

    If she ever says she going to the hardware store RUN… she about to get all the supplies she needs to show you how Alright she is 😭😂

  • @ZuleikaLambe
    @ZuleikaLambe 2 года назад +138

    That means that she already knew, had already broken up with him emotionally, and now with confirmation that they can physically break up, she can move on to the man she has prepared to be next in line. 👋🏾

    • @belovedonesalways7880
      @belovedonesalways7880 2 года назад +4

      In that order...Holla!

    • @annepierre9459
      @annepierre9459 2 года назад +11

      Period sis we too old we no longer fighting the side chick we not calling or texting them we just going to leave homeboy on the spot nice and calmly 🤣

  • @FullofSouthernCharm
    @FullofSouthernCharm 2 года назад +411

    it could mean either:
    she already knew
    she is cheating herself
    she was just waiting for a reason to leave you

  • @noudidityesterdayremember2445
    @noudidityesterdayremember2445 5 месяцев назад +13

    That means she already prayed for God to remove you and for YOU to find someone else. She dont need a replacement, baby. She asked for peace in her household. No other man is required for that. The narrative that all women need a replacement is false. That's society that thinks that. Some get tired and need a mental break for a while.

  • @nicolenikki2729
    @nicolenikki2729 2 года назад +94

    She has moved on, even if it isn't physically. I reacted the same way when my ex husband told me his extracurricular activities. I had already known by intuition, was in the process of filing for divorce, and getting the hell on.

  • @sayitaintso7544
    @sayitaintso7544 2 года назад +193

    Its the calm before the storm. The tremor before the quake. When you think everything has settled down youre about to get a gut punch that will make you rethink life.

  • @dajam9035
    @dajam9035 2 года назад +71

    Funny thing is there are people out there cheating and get pissed off when they hear you are cheating too. Wtf 🤣.

  • @rejubi-minkaokose6836
    @rejubi-minkaokose6836 2 года назад +100

    It means that you already paid for cheating in advance, you're paying, or you're about to pay. Shalom, my brother.🥺

    • @blackbutterfly8338
      @blackbutterfly8338 2 года назад +6

      Uh-huh. That means, “NEXT!”

    • @cbounds3265
      @cbounds3265 2 года назад +4

      Why are you worried about him though? He's about to get what he deserves and the world will be balanced again.

  • @ramonaharris-smith9332
    @ramonaharris-smith9332 Год назад +17

    It is true, when a Woman is fed up, you could cry her a river and she will not care. If she gets quiet, then she is done.

  • @Coollovelee
    @Coollovelee 2 года назад +36

    We don't always have someone else lined up. I was over by my ex's house when I found evidence he was cheating, he wasn't home. He went on an errand using my car so I was stuck there until he got back. When he got back I confronted him about it. He denied it at first but then finally admitted it. I said ok calmly. Told him I gotta go right now. He begged me to stay. Told him it was over but he insisted to call me later to talk about it. I agreed since he wouldn't let me leave. He called later and told him it was over. In the months that followed, he tried to get back but I never budged, the trust was gone. You made your bed now you gotta lie in it.

  • @SaharaColeman
    @SaharaColeman 2 года назад +677

    •She either cheatin’ herself •She just using him or •She don’t even like him. Chile it could mean one of the three but that’s a relationship no one should’ve invested time in 🤣

  • @ebonyjackson3198
    @ebonyjackson3198 2 года назад +103

    That means she was contemplating leaving you anyway and now she finally has a good reason...😁

  • @deloto8004
    @deloto8004 2 года назад +209

    As a woman I'm not the type to yell and scream at a man as if he's my son and I'm disciplining him. The relationship would simply be over. There is no cursing out or trying to teach him a lesson, or trying to get back at him to hurt his feelings. It would be me moving on with my life because he doesn't love or respect me and/or our relationship and there is nothing I can do to change that. So I could see myself having a seemingly mild reaction. I wouldn't use the words "It's cool" though. lol

    • @MsAnseide
      @MsAnseide 2 года назад +44

      Right, why expend any extra energy, its not worth it. Just disappear like a ghost from his life and move on.

    • @MsPathow
      @MsPathow 2 года назад +10

      My sentiments exactly.

    • @lizyahbethyahsraela3034
      @lizyahbethyahsraela3034 2 года назад +19

      She paid that woman to take him off her HANDS.

    • @MsPathow
      @MsPathow 2 года назад +8

      @@lizyahbethyahsraela3034 LOL

    • @erehistruth2356
      @erehistruth2356 2 года назад +4

      @@lizyahbethyahsraela3034 Damn 😆

  • @ChosenJudaHiTess_TheShemiTess
    @ChosenJudaHiTess_TheShemiTess 2 года назад +23

    💀Yes, She Grieved That Relationship Already. It Is Basically On Life Support. She's About To Pull The Plug. I Kinda Had An Experience Like This.

  • @ft9399
    @ft9399 2 года назад +110

    My husband made his confession and I said the same thing! He’s so concerned I didn’t blow up he’s not sleeping. Matter of fact he’s getting the best treatment of his life. Have I cheated? Nope. Just seeing him sweat worrying what I’m doing is enough payback 😂. He put tracking devices in my car , purse and God knows where else 😂. I’m always present and accounted for. His blood pressure is skyrocketing cause he’s a mess wondering why? How? I never brought it up again. I wake up at night and he’s staring at me sleeping. It’s so hilarious.

    • @jameerpearl1680
      @jameerpearl1680 2 года назад +24

      😹😹😹😜🤪😛
      The best payback

    • @dw1617
      @dw1617 2 года назад +16

      Child, you’re making him squirm. 🤣

    • @angasanders172
      @angasanders172 2 года назад +20

      You are my hero.

    • @vanessalatimer1565
      @vanessalatimer1565 2 года назад +75

      Don't get caught up in thinking that he's not thinking. He could hurt you because, he's feelings some kinda way. It's never hilarious when you wake to someone watching you sleep. Be careful. IJS

    • @brocourtney
      @brocourtney 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @joemomma3208
    @joemomma3208 2 года назад +286

    When a woman says “it’s cool” these are the truest opposite words ever said.

  • @tederickwebb2384
    @tederickwebb2384 2 года назад +155

    When a woman says this in a calm manner then you better just stay far gone from her😂😂

  • @melissajkrebbs
    @melissajkrebbs 2 года назад +175

    That means she’s at peace with your trifling ways. That means she’s learned to love herself enough to not let you define who she is. She’s learned to love herself enough to know that she doesn’t deserve second best and the crumbs you offer ain’t sustainable anymore. She’s past crying. She’s past caring. Yeah, he should be worried.

    • @Mishy555
      @Mishy555 2 года назад +16

      Well said!!!!

    • @wll7773
      @wll7773 2 года назад +11

      She is about to remodel the house 💰 💰 💰 you'd better call Tyrone

    • @tennillegenise8968
      @tennillegenise8968 2 года назад +3

      👑🙏🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯

    • @rupertrobinson7085
      @rupertrobinson7085 Год назад

      CAP

    • @promotechs2540
      @promotechs2540 7 месяцев назад

      What if he wants to stay with the side chick?

  • @lauraporter6516
    @lauraporter6516 2 года назад +45

    When Shuler said she already had a chosen one in mind, I lost it. I was in a bad relationship and I had a gut feeling that he was cheating. You damn right I had a pre-selected chosen one on standby; a man like that is like having money in your savings account or 401K; hope you don't need it but nice to have it available when you do.

  • @trinathompson8587
    @trinathompson8587 2 года назад +127

    That means she already knew,or at least suspected that he was cheating on her,and now she's about to go buck wild with no regrets or guilt whatsoever! In other words "it's on till the break of dawn!"

  • @whatwho9595
    @whatwho9595 2 года назад +70

    My son is 14 and I have already explained to him when a woman says it's cold, it's alright or okay in a very calm tone..it's a problem for him..its cool cus she doin her too and he pays the cellphone🤣..guys always think they so special..we know when a guy is fully into us verses...giving us "time".🤭

  • @sbussea2691
    @sbussea2691 2 года назад +319

    Many possibilities, thinking of two:
    1. Sleep with one eye open, she already knew and she's playing chess with your brain. She knows full well you expect her to go off the rails but no, she knows her being "cool" about it will kill you inside. Imma say this, this type of woman is scary dangerous...
    2. She really couldn't care less because she already has someone for herself.

    • @Ash10000
      @Ash10000 2 года назад +5

      I say 2. Lol

    • @pipertarver1852
      @pipertarver1852 2 года назад +4

      Danger!!! 😂😂😂

    • @missbttrsctch
      @missbttrsctch 2 года назад +2

      There Ya go!

    • @melissajkrebbs
      @melissajkrebbs 2 года назад +20

      Or 3.... Shes accepted that he doesn’t care about her and she’s done with his trifflin ways. She has turned numb to the hurt. When a woman stops crying and yelling and turns quiet and doesn’t fight about it anymore that means she quit caring about him and has accepted that she deserves better. He’s played her for the last time and she’s decided it has nothing to do with her and everything to do with him. When she use to yell, cry, scream and try to talk about it then one day she just stops you know her “ give a darn” is broke. Men, when she stops responding with her emotions and stops fighting and just walks away, yeah, you should be very afraid. Just know it takes a lot for a woman to reach this point. Somewhere along the way he broke something inside her. When someone shows you they don’t really respect you at all then you have to be at peace knowing you tried but you ain’t gonna be sloppy seconds. She has been enlightened to the fact that real love don’t do that. It’s a beautiful thing when God gives you that kind of peace. Just knowing he’s baffled by her response, questioning her motive and expecting retaliation is the best revenge. She’s stopped fighting for him to care for her. She’s DONE.

    • @sbussea2691
      @sbussea2691 2 года назад +6

      @@melissajkrebbs like i said, many possibilities, and yours is another one. Best put, nuff said.

  • @alisasanders3
    @alisasanders3 2 года назад +64

    My ex burst out in tears one night and told me that he cheated. I was quiet for a second because I was trying to come up with a reaction to show I was upset. I hope that I was convincing, because I really didn't care. I left that relationship long before he told me that. I didn't cheat, but I was over it.

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 2 года назад +1

      You are a keeper.

    • @jaypmoregain
      @jaypmoregain 6 месяцев назад

      So if u didn't care why u stay with someone who u didn't care about? leave y'all need to stop it with the mind games

  • @claudiabarnswell252
    @claudiabarnswell252 2 года назад +15

    She was already gone where it counts...her heart and her mind. The both of these things together. Women leave a relationship emotionally before they leave it physically. When a woman questions and argues with you, she still cares. It's when she goes silent that you know you've lost her.

  • @aynekyenal8646
    @aynekyenal8646 2 года назад +47

    It means you about need Therapy. Physical, mentally, and maybe even occupational and speech therapy. You may need to make sure your life insurance is in good standing. However, Mr. King is speaking my exact thoughts.

  • @mauricejohnson1068
    @mauricejohnson1068 2 года назад +244

    She in a whole other relationship my boy 💪🏾don’t stress about it now

    • @acampbell5022
      @acampbell5022 2 года назад +16

      ha!!😜
      that is hilarious😂😂

    • @procurementqueen
      @procurementqueen 2 года назад +11

      😂

    • @blackbutterfly8338
      @blackbutterfly8338 2 года назад +23

      She don’t even remember your name: “Okay, we met where? And when was this…?”

    • @promotechs2540
      @promotechs2540 7 месяцев назад +1

      that's good then both sides can go in peace

  • @remotecontrol1468
    @remotecontrol1468 2 года назад +41

    It’s said the wife is the last to know. NO! They are the first to know

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 Месяц назад

      Always, that’s when the gaslighting starts!

  • @loviejohnson5700
    @loviejohnson5700 2 года назад +12

    OMG, this literally just happened to me 😭 he said he cheated and I said coo, it's all good!! Only thing I ment was, good bye, Period 🙄 be gone, and I don't gaf... Sometimes it's just that simple, I don't wish him any ill nothing, just stay TF away from me ☺️

  • @creolequeen8642
    @creolequeen8642 2 года назад +10

    Someone once told me take the time you spent in a relationship and divide that by two. That’s how long you’ve actually been broken up with in the woman’s head. She was just waiting for an out. I did that math on past relationships and it’s kinda accurate… she “ain’t trippin’” because dude wasn’t her man anymore anyway. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
    @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 2 года назад +33

    Sooo he cheated and told her something she pretty much already knew, but her reaction got him startled🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️the unmitigated gall of some men 🙄🙄. Dude just gon back to whomever you cheated with because bro you bet yo ass she is no longer your woman 💯 SMDH

  • @smoke2668
    @smoke2668 2 года назад +113

    Translation: "I got'cho ass."
    😁😁😁😁

    • @dr.100purrscent5
      @dr.100purrscent5 2 года назад +9

      That's it, that's all 🤷🏾

    • @blackbutterfly8338
      @blackbutterfly8338 2 года назад +6

      Grab a passport, if you can. Run for the border, Chico.🏃🏾‍♀️ 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

    • @jenn7559
      @jenn7559 2 года назад +1

      Nah it means:
      Come get anything you may have left at my place, you got till 5pm I gotta cook before BIG DADDY get home 😅🤣😂🤪

  • @ECA2
    @ECA2 2 года назад +26

    He's an afterthought. Backup plan has been activated. Auxiliary plan is on standby.

  • @reddawn613
    @reddawn613 11 месяцев назад +4

    She is about to show him how its DONE! He better have on his big boy pants.

  • @tracyjacksonjackson4221
    @tracyjacksonjackson4221 2 года назад +6

    She straight took his power. He expected a scene and she gave him serene. He will never understand her reaction and he knows that it does not bode well for him. Works everytime.

  • @gabriellehanks6850
    @gabriellehanks6850 2 года назад +275

    1.She already knew. We always know in our gut when a man is cheating even if we don’t confront you.
    2. She left the relationship emotionally 6 months before he told her and probably has a side dude. Women always leave a man emotionally before we leave physically. That’s why she was so calm.
    3. She’s planning her exit strategy and she’s just letting him think it’s cool so he won’t bother her while she’s saving up for the security deposit on her new place.
    🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @HeavenScentsDetroit
      @HeavenScentsDetroit 2 года назад +18

      Exactly lol we been knew wassup and been working on the exit strategy for months. 😆

    • @angellee9307
      @angellee9307 2 года назад +4

      When women getting older they are more concerned about the kids bills and house. It’s enough for a man to smile and say hello. To keep tripping over the same thing is not smart. That’s why she ain’t pressed. Weather he is dead or alive , your behaviors shouldn’t be because of other folks actions. SHE ALREADY KNEW.

    • @enlighteneddragonfly6813
      @enlighteneddragonfly6813 Год назад +3

      Yes, we always know

    • @joycecarr1661
      @joycecarr1661 11 месяцев назад +1

      That part. We got to unravel ❤😂

    • @pip6602
      @pip6602 7 месяцев назад

      💯

  • @alee7322
    @alee7322 2 года назад +52

    When a woman says “That’s ok honey”,when it comes to cheating. It means ITS DEFINITELY NOT OK. AND WE DO THINGS 100%. Lol.

  • @bellabellasdb4543
    @bellabellasdb4543 2 года назад +62

    People know when they are being mistreated, whatever form the mistreatment takes. Those that stay expect their compromise to pay dividends and that is not always monetary. Vacate having been truthful or proceed with caution knowing that hurt people hurt people.

    • @Superlife1369
      @Superlife1369 2 года назад +4

      You are 💯 % right about that! People DO know when they are being mistreated no matter what form it takes!

    • @jrzydvlgrl711
      @jrzydvlgrl711 2 года назад +4

      So excellently put, I 100% agree.

  • @KAT-wo1js
    @KAT-wo1js 6 месяцев назад +7

    This happened to a friend of mine. She'd told me that a guy who liked her kept telling her what he'd do if he had a chance with her. She was married and trying to hold on and resist cause she loved her hubby, but I could tell she liked the other guy. She was a Good Church going but not holier than though young lady. Baby, as soon as she caught her husband of 12 years cheating, actually saw it, she had no problem going to the other guy. She and her husband were both serving and well known in the church. She had remarried now and seem to be living their best lives. She left him, changed careers, and still attends the same church.

  • @NSims113
    @NSims113 2 года назад +4

    All I can hear in the background is Mr. Johnny Taylor singing “When she stop asking about where you've been, yeah
    That's when you better start to make it on in
    When she stop worrying about where you go, yea
    Might be a sign that the girl just don't care anymore (just don't care no more)”

  • @smoke2668
    @smoke2668 2 года назад +53

    It means she's gonna burn everything you own.
    😂😂😂😂

    • @crystalgrose
      @crystalgrose 2 года назад +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Like Angela Bassett did in Waiting to Exhale. LOL!!!!!! And then sale what wasn’t burned.

    • @karenmyrie6215
      @karenmyrie6215 2 года назад +2

      Not the Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes approach. 😉🔥

    • @tangyjoe4326
      @tangyjoe4326 2 года назад +3

      My neighbors used to always fight and one night I woke up to hear them fighting and he had locked her out of the house. I heard her say “You f*****d with the wrong person Jerome!”. I said “ Oh s***” and got up and replaced the batteries in my smoke detectors. 😳

    • @leonwright8643
      @leonwright8643 2 года назад

      @@tangyjoe4326 😂😂😂😂

  • @chantadunn2426
    @chantadunn2426 2 года назад +45

    That means she either has someone already lined up....or she got her another man already😆🤣

    • @viccarter2149
      @viccarter2149 2 года назад +2

      She wants the brother to be unhinged for a while. He don't know where she is coming from.

  • @jaylene.turner6524
    @jaylene.turner6524 2 года назад +180

    She gonna bust the windows out your car,
    pour the hot grits,
    and everything in between.
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @PopsieLouisiana59
      @PopsieLouisiana59 2 года назад +16

      In the words of The Rev Al Green, "Love And Happiness". Take that for what it is/was in his case.

    • @prncssdiva20
      @prncssdiva20 2 года назад +12

      His credit is done.

    • @goingketo7584
      @goingketo7584 2 года назад

      Nope. She will do nothing that would make her catch a charge. Your life will be destroyed in silence and she will observe from afar.

    • @candacetyndall6142
      @candacetyndall6142 2 года назад +13

      @@PopsieLouisiana59 make you come home early; make you stay out all night long!

    • @ea7109
      @ea7109 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @missj8426
    @missj8426 Год назад +7

    This is me all day every day. I'm not raising my voice and I'm not fighting in the street but that bee sting gon hurt.

  • @renaewilliams8126
    @renaewilliams8126 2 года назад +5

    I've never much of a yeller or flip-out type for me it's about self-control. Life has taught me a woman's strength is in her silence in a chaotic space. As long as I'm communicating, reasoning, and being understanding you are good. But when I get quiet you better get worried, I'm more of a quiet calculating storm.

  • @kianicole101
    @kianicole101 2 года назад +51

    She found out and was waiting on him to confess, she tired and fed up with the bullshit, now she about to live her best life, might as well say ok and go back to the other girl sir, it's a wrap.

    • @prettybrown209
      @prettybrown209 2 года назад +7

      That's me right now lol

    • @kianicole101
      @kianicole101 2 года назад +6

      @@prettybrown209 sorry that happened to you, go do you sis

  • @zombiegoddess1524
    @zombiegoddess1524 2 года назад +71

    I really hate the shade being thrown in this comment section....especially towards black women. I don't have a violent bone in my body and I've never cheated ... however I have been cheated in. My response was similar. Probably because I already had an assumption. I didn't go to another man and I've been happily single And Celibate for 12 years. I also left gracefully (well he left cause it was my house 🤣🤣🤣) I let him take my furniture cause I found out it happened in my bed. I didn't even want my couch after that. He got mad at me cause I didn't "fight for him" 🤦🏾‍♀ why would I fight for a cheater?.....
    With that being Said please stop that whole "black women this, white women that"... thing....its getting real old and tired

    • @amllc5201
      @amllc5201 2 года назад +7

      I agree, all of us don't want violence. Those of us who have experienced cheater become better at not picking this type of man the 2nd time. The education we get from the cheater, makes us drop like a hot-potato anyone else who seems suspect.

    • @spacebabyksworld
      @spacebabyksworld 2 года назад +3

      Right exactly

    • @blackirishrose4040
      @blackirishrose4040 2 года назад +3

      Never gets old and tired
      Never

    • @catflon2388
      @catflon2388 2 года назад +2

      I see that too.. all the supposed violent impulses we have😏😏, plus that's likely to be a non-black woman since BM have preferences. I don't know why people automatically assume that it's a BW when a BM refers to his partner.

    • @bernadettedevereaux8694
      @bernadettedevereaux8694 2 года назад

      @@blackirishrose4040 I agree with you. The reaction of Black women and white women can be very different. Want an example? Do you think that President Obama cheated on his wife, his first and only wife, while she was pregnant? Donald Trump very publicly cheated on his third wife while she was pregnant.

  • @heathertea2704
    @heathertea2704 2 года назад +13

    It MEANS Ur-uh,
    "U Not the Only one, Patna.
    Been Fun.
    On my way Out the Door.
    Y'all Enjoy yourselves.
    ......u can Keep the Furniture.
    SMOOCHES."☕

  • @latoyabentley5156
    @latoyabentley5156 2 года назад +7

    she then started singing in her Jazmine Sullivan voice "Don't forget to pick up all of your ooh ooh feelings; don't leave no pieces!!!

  • @MzSam2U
    @MzSam2U 2 года назад +28

    When you hear those words, you better worry about it!

  • @reel1tv587
    @reel1tv587 2 года назад +56

    So that was it?
    Him: Babe, I'm sorry but I cheated on you.
    Her:(5 seconds later) It's cool I ain't even trippin.
    Him: So you not mad?
    Her:(2 hours later) No.
    Ohhhh noooo😂😂😂😂😂

  • @theadrenalizedartist6843
    @theadrenalizedartist6843 2 года назад +20

    She has already emotionally moved on from him and/or she already has plenty of receipts on what he’s been doing to state her case in a court of law and bounce.

  • @MrsAK.Simmons
    @MrsAK.Simmons 2 года назад +8

    This happened to me once when I responded like this. He got mad as hell about my reaction. I truly didn't care any longer. Definitely was planning my exit long before.

  • @theautomomma6750
    @theautomomma6750 Год назад +9

    I didnt have anyone waiting in the wings when he acted the fool. I just went on ahead about my business and I couldn't be happier 😂❤🎉

  • @jamesclark8935
    @jamesclark8935 2 года назад +29

    Okay take his players card because buddy you’re out of the game on soooooo many levels!☠️ R. I.P

    • @TheDjsweetneat
      @TheDjsweetneat 2 года назад +1

      Lmao 🤣🤭🤣🤭🤣🤭🤣🤭

  • @CrixusHeart
    @CrixusHeart 2 года назад +29

    Or, she say "it's cool" means you should not go to sleep tonight, at least not at home.

  • @sayitaintso7544
    @sayitaintso7544 2 года назад +16

    Hes going to be at work, at the card table, at the gas station, over his momma house, at the grocery store thinking all day about where she at, why she hadnt called lately, and why she gets home calm, relaxed and too tired to cook.

    • @belovedonesalways7880
      @belovedonesalways7880 2 года назад +1

      Him*dropping everything running home*, oh goodness say it ain't so!

  • @korimoore1691
    @korimoore1691 2 года назад +4

    The fact that you are more bothered by her lack of reaction versus the fact that you cheated on your woman says a lot why do you even care you cheated on her!!

  • @VeeAll
    @VeeAll 2 года назад +8

    When this happened to me I already knew through intuition. My husband got her pregnant. I told him you're not the first person caught cheating, tell her we'll raise the child but she aborted. I really wasn't that upset about it but we eventually separated bcuz I couldn't take his constant lying.

  • @kayrobbie5840
    @kayrobbie5840 2 года назад +27

    Ok three reasons she's so calm. (1) She's is cheating as well. (2) She's leaving him. (3) She has a replacement already.

    • @kuldoxy5637
      @kuldoxy5637 Год назад +1

      4) she was so hurt and in shock that she didn't even know where to begin, so she just decided it was a waste of time and not even worth it.🤷🏾‍♀

    • @tawneengraves-oluwafemi6191
      @tawneengraves-oluwafemi6191 11 месяцев назад

      4 she's done

  • @TexanBeautie
    @TexanBeautie 2 года назад +33

    👀"roster" truest words there's always some charming, handsome man circling the fence that we encounter often who is persistent and we turn them down out of loyalty, integrity etc. So it's true..someone unbothered by your infidelity already understands that WE are in an open relationship.

  • @happyme2989
    @happyme2989 2 года назад +10

    THAT MEAN SHE'S ALREADY WAS 5 STEPS AHEAD OF YA AND 2 LEVEL ABOVE YA!😌She knew and UNBOTHERED... she got the last laugh boo!👏 she was waiting on you. WATCH AND SEE WHO SHE REPLACED YOU WITH

  • @spennynash
    @spennynash 2 года назад +10

    That calm before the storm will get you every time. When I'm quiet and I don't look angry, thats the time to pack your things and go. That storm when it hits is like a Tsunami of anger that's going to wash away your entire life.

  • @JamaicanemeraldQueen
    @JamaicanemeraldQueen 2 года назад +5

    😂😂😂😂😂😂HE WASNT REASY FOR HER QUICK COMEBACK!!
    He was expecting the ghetto loud reaction..but hers was even more painful.
    Fellas remember ..if you can do it..so can she..so either break up or dont cheat!!
    😂😂😂😂

  • @Godgotmealways
    @Godgotmealways 2 года назад +16

    Trust me it hurts and man more when you react just like she did and just leave him period and don't go back
    He will realize what n who he lost and by then it will be well on to late
    His rejection is and always will be God's Protection 🙏🏾 🙌🏽 😊🤷🏾‍♀️
    So like she said it's cool I ain't even fazed

  • @androssteague
    @androssteague 2 года назад +38

    When a woman is done with a relationship she wants to cut ties but she wants to give you the scissors to do it. I ain't even tripping means I've been done with us long before you even laid eyes on the chick you screwing on the side.

  • @brandonflan83
    @brandonflan83 2 года назад +25

    Watch your homies too, youngin’! Because those are the first candidates on her list, and she about to check em all off like Santa with the good kids 🤣

  • @tammykinstrue9849
    @tammykinstrue9849 2 года назад +5

    That means "Say less. I already got you back." She already moved on, Shuler.

  • @elainejames9275
    @elainejames9275 Год назад +5

    As Teddy Pendergast said “Look like another TKO!”

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 2 года назад +37

    That means she already had another dude on the side so she ain't mad at all. She good 🤣🤣

  • @ms.nikola9810
    @ms.nikola9810 2 года назад +47

    He's a serial cheater, and she's been through this several times. She's done acting up and getting over emotional and using up all her precious energy over him. Most importantly, he is not adding anything to the pot. It's not enough money here, and I don't have anything to lose by leaving you.

    • @ea7109
      @ea7109 2 года назад +4

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @MikeJones-mi3di
      @MikeJones-mi3di 2 года назад +1

      Naw ma’am, she been cheating on this man he just didn’t know it. Plus she already knew he was cheating

    • @ms.nikola9810
      @ms.nikola9810 2 года назад +2

      @@MikeJones-mi3di She was allegedly cheating. Allegedly. We know for a fact that he was cheating. He admitted it. Aside from that, once you've been through it a few times you stop making a big deal out of it.