This story reminded me of an old one, posted in this channel a year ago, where OP's son stole his late wife's wedding ring to propose to his Karen of a girlfriend, despite the fact that the mother's jewelry, wedding ring included, was willed to OP's daughter.
So glad that by the end everyone knows who the real problem is in this situation. At the beginning I was afraid the daughter was as dense as her grandmother, but luckily she is surrounded by good people that made her realize her mother did nothing wrong.
A family heirloom is something that you get when a person passes away. If she'd asked for it to be left with her that would be fine but you don't ask to just give it up because you want it. It doesn't matter who helps pay for it, it was a gift and a gift once given belongs to the person it was given to, no one else.
Family heirlooms are given not taken If she would have been forced to give it away it would have destroyed what the true meaning of a family heirloom is ... just saying
If your mom was with your Dad for that long and the ring means a lot to her, you should have just let it go. Or better yet, not even asked her. What an absolute insensitive brat.
Wow, OP's MIL has some major projection issues. All this accusations towards OP about being controlling and manipulative, has this MIL ever taken a good look at herself in the mirror lately?
It's not your fault it's your mother-in-law's fault because she wanted her wedding ring and she got her mother-in-law involved to make her give her the wedding ring and her grandmother tried to turn her daughter against her and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
Aren't 'heirlooms' meant for when someone has passed or is close to passing? At least the person that has the heirloom, whether its a very old heirloom or a new one, at least the current owner needs to be ready to part with it. Its crazy to me that your daughter expects this.. I know there's a golden ring my mother wants me to have, and its indeed an heirloom. I know she wants me to keep it an pass on as well. Even though I could always use the money that its worth (one can never have too many horses 😜) I would never. I value it too much to pawn, steal or whatnot. MAYBE... and that's a very strong maybe, I might ask to alter it if I ever were to get married. Its a heavy solid gold ring, simple but beautiful and timeless, but I'd love to add a or some stones. I think it would even be possible to make both an engagement ring as well as a wedding ring, since it really is rather heavy and thick. I'm fairly certain my parents would totally be on board with that. At least then it would be worn as opposed to just reside in a dark safe for all eternity. But im not that good at finding someone at all unfortunately. At this rate they'll legalize cat-human marriage before I ever make any progress on that
The ring is emotionally important to OP, plus it’s her wedding ring, the daughter is an entitled tit if she thinks she can demand stuff like a toddler, especially something as important as her moms wedding ring from her moms dead husband.
what. the. fuck? It is literally a WEDDING ring and it belongs to OP's DEAD husband. You need to be in a psych ward if you think she should give it up.
POV you are entirely dependant on someone and you decide to make them mad
"Don't bite the hand that feeds you"
Nobody gets to demand you give them anything because they like it.
Right?
Legacies are not just things, but the memories and feelings they carry. It's a beautiful story.
It is and the ring I wouldn't be able to let anyone else have it, I just couldn't .
This story reminded me of an old one, posted in this channel a year ago, where OP's son stole his late wife's wedding ring to propose to his Karen of a girlfriend, despite the fact that the mother's jewelry, wedding ring included, was willed to OP's daughter.
Dude, that story enraged me. The entitlement of the son and his Karen was insane.
Omg I remember that. I was punching air cos I was pissed off
I remember that one too! I really want to find it again cause it was entertaining
@@LocalTiredArtist Video title is "My son STOLE his DEAD mother's RING for his girlfriend, and now he won't TALK to me after making him RETURN it..."
@ Ty!!
So glad that by the end everyone knows who the real problem is in this situation.
At the beginning I was afraid the daughter was as dense as her grandmother, but luckily she is surrounded by good people that made her realize her mother did nothing wrong.
It's weird to demand something currently loved and used by someone who is living. The claim of selfishness is mere projection.
A family heirloom is something that you get when a person passes away. If she'd asked for it to be left with her that would be fine but you don't ask to just give it up because you want it. It doesn't matter who helps pay for it, it was a gift and a gift once given belongs to the person it was given to, no one else.
Totally agree with you.
Why do people try to have extravagant weddings but CANNOT afford to?!?!?! Make it make sense!!!🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
You need to LIVE beyond that ONE DAY!!!
Wedding rings aren't even that expensive. Especially compared to the cost of a wedding.
The drama of daughter and MIL is so pointless.
Family heirlooms are given not taken
If she would have been forced to give it away it would have destroyed what the true meaning of a family heirloom is ... just saying
"If wanted some much.. put ring on it"
😅
Ask for the mother-in-laws ring.
If your mom was with your Dad for that long and the ring means a lot to her, you should have just let it go.
Or better yet, not even asked her.
What an absolute insensitive brat.
She can ask but she shouldn’t push it further once a “no” was given.
Wow, OP's MIL has some major projection issues. All this accusations towards OP about being controlling and manipulative, has this MIL ever taken a good look at herself in the mirror lately?
The entitlement... Op is waaaay more polite about this nonsense than necessary
It's not your fault it's your mother-in-law's fault because she wanted her wedding ring and she got her mother-in-law involved to make her give her the wedding ring and her grandmother tried to turn her daughter against her and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
Hi roboresponse, you just keep saying the same over and over. Either get creative or stop inputing grammatically incorrect and misspelled trash.
is either a bot or someone that is lazy
Aren't 'heirlooms' meant for when someone has passed or is close to passing? At least the person that has the heirloom, whether its a very old heirloom or a new one, at least the current owner needs to be ready to part with it. Its crazy to me that your daughter expects this.. I know there's a golden ring my mother wants me to have, and its indeed an heirloom. I know she wants me to keep it an pass on as well. Even though I could always use the money that its worth (one can never have too many horses 😜) I would never. I value it too much to pawn, steal or whatnot. MAYBE... and that's a very strong maybe, I might ask to alter it if I ever were to get married. Its a heavy solid gold ring, simple but beautiful and timeless, but I'd love to add a or some stones. I think it would even be possible to make both an engagement ring as well as a wedding ring, since it really is rather heavy and thick. I'm fairly certain my parents would totally be on board with that. At least then it would be worn as opposed to just reside in a dark safe for all eternity. But im not that good at finding someone at all unfortunately. At this rate they'll legalize cat-human marriage before I ever make any progress on that
You have to be a special kind of moron to threaten no contact with the person who’s bankrolling your entire life…
What a brat that daughter is
The mom said no Alice or no money 😕
bro you said diffrent games and continued playing minecraft after 1 game now i like minecraft but im interested in the other games too
Too long-winded!
I’d say stop pissing of the people you depend on, but 50% of these stories play the “forgive family no matter what” card
Bruh 😊
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YTA
It's a ring give it to your daughter u don't need it now u barely wear it seriously
The ring is emotionally important to OP, plus it’s her wedding ring, the daughter is an entitled tit if she thinks she can demand stuff like a toddler, especially something as important as her moms wedding ring from her moms dead husband.
Lol you must never been in love or youre entitled like that child
what. the. fuck? It is literally a WEDDING ring and it belongs to OP's DEAD husband. You need to be in a psych ward if you think she should give it up.
Maybe they are that child lmao
My mum still wears her wedding ring and my dad passed away last year and I wear his wedding ring around my neck on a chain
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altough i know no one cares