thank yall so much for the continued patience and endless support ❤ my MacBook has been through some THANGS hunny lol. I finally got her fixed and was able to get this up for yall. Last vlog of 2023, and next week will be the Christmas and new years vlog! Then we will be caught up. Love you sooo much gang! Enjoy 😘
Your journey from wedding prep to exploring Charlotte was a whole vibe! The part where you talked about being single because God intends it resonated deeply with me.
Your “God wants me single” segment I can relate to soooo much ! It’s like you saying out loud what I’ve been saying in my head for a while now. The devil definitely trying but he’s only pushing me closer to God. I hope you and Sky feel better and I’m looking forward to your next vlog 🤗🤗❤️❤️
Yes yes yes!!! All those terrible thoughts and ideas are only from the devil himself. He hates how close we are all getting to God! God knows our heart 🥰🤍🤍 thanks for watching boo! See you next week
Pleaseeee the way I was cheesing and dancing at all the wedding portions of this video as if I was in full attendance 😂. I loveeeeee a Nigerian wedding! Now let me continue watching the remaining parts of this movie.
we missed you! you don’t know how much that segment about being single hit me. i literally was questioning my self if i was even worthy enough but I definitely believe we need to leave things up to God and he will continue to lead us in the right direction
Girrrrrllllll Such a small world! Your cousin's wife is one of my little sorority sister! It was wild seeing her and my other babies in your video!! And Crave has literally been my spot since 2007! So glad you got to go there!
What a beautiful and lit wedding. Wishing them a healthy happy marriage. Thanks for all of the transparency throughout the Vlog. Looking forward to more content. #keepgoing ❤
I love how you said we would get the make-up routine in short form and then proceeds to snatch our pearls with a full beat. About to add some stuff to the cart lol
LOVE YOU!!!! ❤I swear you be taking the words right out of my thoughts! Especially when you mentioned basically this being your single season.. Why is it so hard to have companionship? But God is ordering our steps and in due time! Also, lately I’ve been binge watching SWAT!!! && they’re coming out with a new season!
Oh, your look for date night was vibe😍😍😍 thoroughly enjoyed this vlog! Don’t be discouraged, your content is always top tier. Keep pushing! Cheers to a fruitful and productive 2024.🥂
The commentaries get me every time😂😂 you definitely be over the trucks but “prison, jail time “ took me out I’ve been watching NCIS when it’s not watching me 😅 Your makeup is gorgeous 🤌🏾 especially for the concert! 🥵 the makeup tips will definitely be put to use, but can we have a face routine ? 👀 I just started to use topicals for dark spot correction, the dark spots are my biggest haters
My African sister, I loved the wedding it was beautiful, auntie was so cute she be lit and I love it 💚 I hope you’re feeling better now! You know our parents are never on time when it comes to anything they be in their own world as if others are not on time lol… So happy for the long vlog 💚
Dessy, you’re always doing the damn thang girl. Love all your vlogs, we all jump on the struggle bus sometimes. Keep being your authentic self. That’s what really shines through on your vlogs. And can we take a moment to appreciate that purple outfit 🔥
Its you telling us in the last vlog thats youre going to be more consistent, then give us a vlog a whole year later😂😂😂😂😩😩 jk, we missed youuu girlll ❤️❤️❤️ You in the car driving, is meee, cause what??? These people on the road in Texas will drive you mad😂 Love ur videos… Cant wait for the next vlog💃🏾
Girl the way I put my whole foot in my mouth smh!!!😒😭😭 I have to do better! I missed yall like crazyyyy as usual lol 🤍🤍🤍 And LISTEN!! I’ve never felt real road rage until I moved here I swearrr😂😂😂
She's back!!! I'm actually thinking about either moving back home to Chicago or Charlotte in which i have family all over NC... Dallas has been rough these jobs not giving here 😏
Charlotte wasn’t like oh wow amazing, but impressed me by how many resources there were. A lot of businesses. Very “family oriented”. Decent weather. A lot of positive things I saw! I kinda get it lol
@@TheDessyRayWay great insight thanks I’m a truck driver and just looked they pay kinda low as well 😩. I’ll have to figure it out because I do like Texas though.
Awww ! Jeff and I went to college together! He's a great guy :) So happy for them! You looked great , btw! Great vlog! I create content as well, and I felt you on ALL THAT! ❤
Thank you for watching 🥹🤍 I LOVED it! Its a very elevated experience to say the least. I had the collared green fried oysters as an appetizer and lobster ravioli as my main and when I tell you I CLEARED my plate 😭😂 whewww the drinks were also so tasty. I believe it’s black owned too which did it for me 🥰 a whole vibe! Please visit and let them know I sent you
Hey boo!! I always go on SoundCloud :) I will search something like “good days spa reverb” for example. There are so many edits out there. If I remember I’m gonna try to put it in one of my vlogs coming up!
28:36 Im disappointed in you too for making me wait this long for a vlog and then you put up a 1 hour vlog. Ummmmm no ma’am im gonna need a movie please. 2-3 hours vlog only 🤣🤣🤣😘
Going to a burna boy concert after saying God is isolating you from men is crazy cause I heard that’s where the men be 👀 better you than me cause God know I still got work to do
thank yall so much for the continued patience and endless support ❤ my MacBook has been through some THANGS hunny lol. I finally got her fixed and was able to get this up for yall. Last vlog of 2023, and next week will be the Christmas and new years vlog! Then we will be caught up. Love you sooo much gang! Enjoy 😘
Idk if you noticed but you give like black girl luxury SZA kinda vibes😌✨ I’m here 4 it Des👀🍿👏🏼
Get the Mac computer, sometimes the laptop cant handle the editing
@@gadinagill342next on my list of big girl purchases!!
@@Dangerouzunfckwitable478 aww I love that. Thanks 🥰🤍
Your journey from wedding prep to exploring Charlotte was a whole vibe! The part where you talked about being single because God intends it resonated deeply with me.
Aww thank you 🤍
Your “God wants me single” segment I can relate to soooo much ! It’s like you saying out loud what I’ve been saying in my head for a while now. The devil definitely trying but he’s only pushing me closer to God. I hope you and Sky feel better and I’m looking forward to your next vlog 🤗🤗❤️❤️
Yes yes yes!!! All those terrible thoughts and ideas are only from the devil himself. He hates how close we are all getting to God! God knows our heart 🥰🤍🤍 thanks for watching boo! See you next week
Pleaseeee the way I was cheesing and dancing at all the wedding portions of this video as if I was in full attendance 😂. I loveeeeee a Nigerian wedding! Now let me continue watching the remaining parts of this movie.
Awww thanks sis 🥰🥰 some of my favorite parts!!
we missed you! you don’t know how much that segment about being single hit me. i literally was questioning my self if i was even worthy enough but I definitely believe we need to leave things up to God and he will continue to lead us in the right direction
Girrrrrllllll Such a small world! Your cousin's wife is one of my little sorority sister! It was wild seeing her and my other babies in your video!! And Crave has literally been my spot since 2007! So glad you got to go there!
Ahhhhh I love me some Beni 🤍🥰 she’s such a gem. So happy that Jeff and her are together!
OMGGGG Benedict !!!!!! ❤ congratulations brideeeee
It’s crazy how many people that watch me know her and my cousin Jeff!! Haha I love it 🥰🥰
What a beautiful and lit wedding. Wishing them a healthy happy marriage. Thanks for all of the transparency throughout the Vlog. Looking forward to more content. #keepgoing ❤
right??!! ugh watching it back I started missing it all over again lol. easily one of the best weddings I've ever been too! thanks for watching 💕
I love how you said we would get the make-up routine in short form and then proceeds to snatch our pearls with a full beat. About to add some stuff to the cart lol
😭😂😂😂 you’re hilarious
LOVE YOU!!!! ❤I swear you be taking the words right out of my thoughts! Especially when you mentioned basically this being your single season.. Why is it so hard to have companionship? But God is ordering our steps and in due time! Also, lately I’ve been binge watching SWAT!!! && they’re coming out with a new season!
GIRL I LOVE YOU!! ugh it’s so difficult in this generation, but I just know God would never leave us alone. We are meant to find our Kingdom spouse 🤍🤍
I need to checkout SWAT!! I’ve heard great things 👀
Oh, your look for date night was vibe😍😍😍 thoroughly enjoyed this vlog! Don’t be discouraged, your content is always top tier. Keep pushing! Cheers to a fruitful and productive 2024.🥂
Amen amen amen 🙏🏾🤍 thank you so much love!
I plan to visit Charlotte soon. I can't wait ✨
I hope you enjoy! Make sure you go to Crave 🤍
The commentaries get me every time😂😂 you definitely be over the trucks but “prison, jail time “ took me out
I’ve been watching NCIS when it’s not watching me 😅
Your makeup is gorgeous 🤌🏾 especially for the concert! 🥵 the makeup tips will definitely be put to use, but can we have a face routine ? 👀 I just started to use topicals for dark spot correction, the dark spots are my biggest haters
LMAOOOO THEM TRUCKS I CANTTTT
Sis I’m struggling with hyperpigmentation too! I’m just now finally starting to take care of my skin low lowww key lol
Congratulations to your cousin!
She was a beautiful bride.
I agree my cousin in law was such a beautiful bride!! My actual cousin was the groom :)
Girl I love your videos ❤
Thank you boo 🥹🤍
My African sister, I loved the wedding it was beautiful, auntie was so cute she be lit and I love it 💚 I hope you’re feeling better now! You know our parents are never on time when it comes to anything they be in their own world as if others are not on time lol… So happy for the long vlog 💚
Dessy, you’re always doing the damn thang girl. Love all your vlogs, we all jump on the struggle bus sometimes. Keep being your authentic self. That’s what really shines through on your vlogs. And can we take a moment to appreciate that purple outfit 🔥
Thank you so so much 🥹🤍🤍 that means a lot to me! I appreciate you
Oh your outfit for the concert was gorg. You looked so beautiful!!!
Thank you so much!!🥰😘
Yes a Mariah the scientist Stan!
The way that I LOVE her omg 😩
Sooo happy you are back! Set my notifications so I won’t miss a video!!💓
yesss 🥰🫶🏾
Wow, what an absolutely gorgeous wedding and bride! Congratulations to your family!🥂❤️
Right??! I can’t believe how great it was. Thank you!!
Its you telling us in the last vlog thats youre going to be more consistent, then give us a vlog a whole year later😂😂😂😂😩😩 jk, we missed youuu girlll ❤️❤️❤️
You in the car driving, is meee, cause what??? These people on the road in Texas will drive you mad😂
Love ur videos… Cant wait for the next vlog💃🏾
Girl the way I put my whole foot in my mouth smh!!!😒😭😭 I have to do better! I missed yall like crazyyyy as usual lol 🤍🤍🤍
And LISTEN!! I’ve never felt real road rage until I moved here I swearrr😂😂😂
Congratulations to your beautiful cousin the wedding was everything. ❤
Thank you 🤍🤍
She's back!!! I'm actually thinking about either moving back home to Chicago or Charlotte in which i have family all over NC... Dallas has been rough these jobs not giving here 😏
Charlotte wasn’t like oh wow amazing, but impressed me by how many resources there were. A lot of businesses. Very “family oriented”. Decent weather. A lot of positive things I saw! I kinda get it lol
@@TheDessyRayWay great insight thanks I’m a truck driver and just looked they pay kinda low as well 😩. I’ll have to figure it out because I do like Texas though.
Loved this vlog fr! Don’t stop creating sis!
Thank you so much 🤍🤍
Missed you!! Welcome back girly❤
Missed YOU!!🥰
Awww ! Jeff and I went to college together! He's a great guy :) So happy for them! You looked great , btw! Great vlog! I create content as well, and I felt you on ALL THAT! ❤
Such a great person! :) thanks for watching babe 🤍🤍
I literally came to your page like 2 days ago and was like where is my girl and then I went on your tiktok 😂😂
Lmaooo! I’m so happy you hopped over there too bc I’m over there daily 👀🤭
Love the content as always. ❤❤
Appreciate you 🥹🤍🤍
Congratulations to your cousin 🎈🎊🎉🥂🍾🥳❤ such a beautiful ceremony 🥰❤️
Thank you so much 🤗🤍
glad your back, hope your better💕
Thank you 🥰
Beautiful wedding Your Mother is a vibe ❤❤
Haha that’s my girl!! Thank you 😊
WAIT….. what?! $198!!!! Babbbbbbbbby I KNOW you about to look GOODT in that dress! Congratulations to your cousin
I’m still mad about it to this day!!!😭😭
The wait is over!
finally!
Not me guessing the overnight was only $70😂 like omg they tried it but glad it came. The weddings looked lit! Can’t wait for the next vlog🫶🏾
Girl they robbed me 😭😂😂
Thanks for watching sister! 🤍
Loved this vlog so much 🫶🏾
Glad you enjoyed sis 🥰🤍
Hey Des. Welcome Back.
So happy to be back! Thank you 😊
yaaaaay new vlog!!!
I hope you enjoyed sis 🥰
what a beautiful wedding.
Love it. The vibes were everything!
Girl who does your lashes ?! 10/10
Thank you 😊 her IG is @madamwinks ! Let her know Dessy sent you 🤍
Tapped in!!!! ❤️
Ahhh I hope you enjoyed sis 🥰
Love your outfit so freaking pretty
Thank you babe 🥰🥰
Thanks for your content! It's always inspiring to watch. How was The Warwick? I've been thinking of going
Thank you for watching 🥹🤍 I LOVED it! Its a very elevated experience to say the least. I had the collared green fried oysters as an appetizer and lobster ravioli as my main and when I tell you I CLEARED my plate 😭😂 whewww the drinks were also so tasty. I believe it’s black owned too which did it for me 🥰 a whole vibe! Please visit and let them know I sent you
@@TheDessyRayWay 🥰🥰 Thanks! I'm about to reserve a table now! 😆
Yesssss!!! y'all she really responds lol she will see that DM and she will answer!
I try 🥰
Always enjoy your videos
I appreciate that🥹😘
Nothing is wrong with a little “ayyyye”😂🙌🏽
Hahahaha it’s my go to 🤦🏾♀️😂
20:52 if my wedding reception isn’t this lit I don’t want itttt!!!!!🎉
Right!!!?? Way too much fun!!
29:08 I’m having this exact feeling about my content but I’m trying to push through it.
YOU GOT THIS BABE 🤍🤍
Yayyyy!!! We here babes!!! #raygang
Gangggg🥰🥰 I hope you enjoy babe!
I did!!! Your true supporters will always be tuned it! Don’t let the algorithm deter you babes!
@@queendlifestyle8756 🥹🤍🤍 I needed to hear this
No lie, I knew Delta’s were in the building.
They put onnn!
Where is ur outfit that u wore to the concert from?? U are literally so gorgeous❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much 🥹🤍 it’s from this French brand Maniere De Voir! I tried to link but the site is currently locked bc they are about to have a sale 👀
Oh my your makeup is gorgeous you are so beautiful thank you 💃💃💃👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Thank you so much 🤗🤍
Hey Dessy. Can you share how you get your non copyrighted songs💕
Hey boo!! I always go on SoundCloud :) I will search something like “good days spa reverb” for example. There are so many edits out there. If I remember I’m gonna try to put it in one of my vlogs coming up!
Thank you so much! Love your vlogs💕
Yyyaaaaaaaaasssssss!!!! ❤❤❤
I hope you enjoy sister 🥹🤍🤍
You made me feel like I was at the wedding 🤣
That’s what I love to hear 😏
28:36 Im disappointed in you too for making me wait this long for a vlog and then you put up a 1 hour vlog. Ummmmm no ma’am im gonna need a movie please. 2-3 hours vlog only 🤣🤣🤣😘
Please forgive me for I have failed you 😭😭😭
“Ayyyeeeee”😭😭😭
Plssss😭😭😭😂
What brand leggins set are you wearing, its cute. I need more.
Hey boo! The black set? It’s from Lululemon
What pink blush did you use for getting ready for the wedding!!
@rarebeauty matte liquid blush in the shade Grace 🤍 my favvvv
@@TheDessyRayWay thank u!!🩷🩷
What brand and color was the contour stick?
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You paid for the dress twice almost😩😩 I know you were sick!!
SICKKKKKKKK 😭😭😭
You driving …is me😭
LMAOOOOO these folks will take you there 😭😭😭
CLT Airport is a funny name 😅
Stop it 😂
Ok I paused….I think it was about $140.00 to overnight the dress
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😘😘
🗣️Culture!
My favorite part of the video 🥰
😊
I was just about to hit up your IG and ask where you’ve been.
Hahaha beat you to it! 😌 happy new year!
Going to a burna boy concert after saying God is isolating you from men is crazy cause I heard that’s where the men be 👀 better you than me cause God know I still got work to do
lmaoo you are true cancer pulling your own hair like that 😂 some stuff i would do
😂😂😂😂
We’re nuts smh
I say you spent $200-300 to overnight the dress. Let me see! I am scared.😂
Lmaoooo $198 and I’m still mad about it 😒
Maybe God isn’t just keeping you single. Maybe he wants to keep you focused.
Amen 🙏🏾
Yea Charlotte has the worst hookah ever!!!!
It was like 5/10 😭