Prophet Muhammad ﷺ Marriage To Aisha Explained - Shaykh Hamza Yusuf
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Critics allege that Aisha was just six years old when she was betrothed to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and only nine when the marriage was consummated.
They base this on a saying attributed to Bibi Aisha herself (Sahih Bukhari volume 5, book 58, number 234), and the debate on this issue is further complicated by the fact that some Muslims believe this to be a historically accurate account.
Many who accept this saying argue that since the Qur'an states that marriage is void unless entered into by consenting adults, Aisha must have entered puberty early.
They point that in 7th century Arabia, adulthood was defined as the onset of puberty. (A fact as it was the case in Europe: 5 centuries after Muhammad's ﷺ marriage to Aisha, 33-year-old King John of England married 12-year-old Isabella of Angoulême.)
Point to note - Many criticis of Muhammad ﷺ made at the time by his opponents, not one focused on Aisha's age at marriage.
According to this perspective, Aisha may have been young, but she was not younger than was the norm at the time.
Some Muslims doubt that Aisha was 6 at the time of marriage, referring to historians who have questioned the reliability of Aisha's age as given in the hadis.
In a society without a birth registry and non celebration of birthdays, many estimated their own age and that of others.
Aisha would have been no different.
What's more,
Aisha had already been engaged to someone else before she married the Prophet ﷺ, suggesting she had already been mature enough by the standards of her society to consider marriage.
It seems difficult to reconcile this with her being 6. If anyone would have objected it would have been her parents.
Some modern Muslim scholars have more recently cast doubt on the veracity of the saying, or hadith, used to assert Aisha's young age.
In Islam, the hadith literature (sayings of the prophet) is considered secondary to the Qur'an. While the Qur'an is considered to be the verbatim word of God, the hadiths were transmitted over time through a rigorous but not infallible methodology.
Taking all known accounts, historical events and records of Aisha's age at marriage, estimates of her age range from 9 to 19.
Thus it makes it impossible to know with any certainty how old Aisha was.
The Islamophobes on the Prophet’sﷺ marriage to Aisha, motivated by misplaced desire fits within a broader Orientalist depiction of Muhammad as a philanderer. This idea dates back to the crusades.
This portrayal ignored the fact that before his marriage to Aisha, the Prophet ﷺ had been married to Bibi Khadija, a powerful businesswoman 15 years his senior, for 25 years.
When she passed on, he ﷺ was devastated and companions encouraged him to remarry. A female acquaintance suggested Aisha, a bright and vivacious character.
Aisha's union would also have cemented Muhammad's ﷺ longstanding friendship with her father, Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him).
As was the tradition in Arabia and still practiced today, marriage served a social and political function - a way of uniting tribes, resolving feuds, caring for widows and orphans, and generally strengthening bonds in a highly unstable and changing political environment.
Of the women Muhammad ﷺ married, the majority were widows. To consider the marriages of the prophet outside of these calculations is profoundly ahistorical.
What is evident is that Muhammad ﷺ and Bibi Aisha had a loving and egalitarian relationship, which set the standard for reciprocity,
tenderness and respect enjoined by the Qur'an. Insights into their relationship, such as the fact they liked to drink out of the same cup or race one another, are indicative of a deep connection which belies any misrepresentation of their relationship.
To paint Aisha as a victim is completely at odds with her persona.
She was certainly no wallflower. During a controversial battle in Muslim history, she emerged riding a camel to lead the troops. She was known for her assertive temperament and mischievous sense of humour - with Muhammad ﷺ sometimes bearing the brunt of the jokes. During his lifetime, he established her authority by telling Muslims to consult her in his absence; after his death, she went to be become one of the most prolific and distinguished scholars of her time.
A stateswoman, scholar, mufti, and judge, Aisha combined spirituality, activism and knowledge and remains a role model for many Muslim women today. The gulf between her true legacy and her depiction in Islamophobic materials is not merely historically inaccurate, it is an insult to the memory of a pioneering woman.
Those who manipulate her story to justify the abuse of young girls, and those who manipulate it in order to depict Islam as a religion that legitimises such abuse have more in common than they think.
Both demonstrate a disregard for what we know about the times in which Muhammad ﷺ lived, and for the affirmation of female autonomy which her story illustrates.
@Aymane Kortobi I do not know where you live so I can not report you to the police for insult and defending child rape
but I really DO know that child rape is evil and that islam is backward superstition.
do you know why normal people reject child rape?
@Arianit Krasniqi so, muhamed raped a nine year old, your books say so
what are you trying to tell me, my friend?
that we should imprison all muhamedans?
I love this. Thank you.
Do you know that Isaac was 40 years when he married Rebekkah who was 3 years old.
Do you know God's mother, Mary was 12 years when she married Joseph who was 90 years old.
@@samsingh6643
Brother,
Imam al-Shafi’i, may Allah be pleased with him, said in his poetry, “If a fool speaks to you, do not answer him, for the best answer is silence. If you speak to him, you have delighted him. If you leave him, he nearly dies in anguish.”
These people obviously did not watch the video, or is watching with a closed mind. Just ignore them, no matter how many times to explain to them, their hatred towards Islam will always engulf them.
We live in 2 different societal norms. Even in the early 19th century it was fairly normal for girls to get married at a young age!
Let's talk about Alexander the Great. He was just 16 when his father went to battle the Byzantine Empire and left him in charge of Macedonia. Alexander saw the opportunity to prove his military worth and led a cavalry against the Sacred Band of Thebes-a supposedly unbeatable, select army made up entirely of male lovers-during the Battle of Chaeronea.
What are 16 year old boys of today doing? Can you imagine what people would say if a 16 year old boy were to lead a whole army today?? This is the same concept!! People back then mature so much faster and was given huge responsibilities from a very young age!
Let's talk about Mehmed the Conqueror. At the age of 21, he conquered Constantinople (modern-day Istanbul) and brought an end to the Byzantine Empire. Can you imagine a 21 year old man leading a whole army and taking down USA today? This is why we are living in 2 different societal norms. People could finish their entire formal education by 15-16 back then, but today a man would complete it at the age of 22-24.
Our Prophet PBUH and the Sahaba was fighting wars between the age of 50-60 WITH SWORDS. Can you imagine the strength people of the past had back then. Different societal norms!!
Why can't people understand this? Do not say Sahih Bukhari is wrong. The man dedicated his entire life for his work. He was already facing so much fitnah while he was alive, but I didn't expect the fitnah's to circulate even after this death!!
Modern day concept is that children are supposed to be children but back then, the moment they are brought forth into this world, they are already treated like young adults! There is no toys to play with, no cartoons to watch, they were very matured at a young age!! New World Order changed all this.
Well explained Dear Shaykh. May Allah raise your status!
U’r sick bro
His voice is so calm
AlexHector 💀💀⚰️😂😂 you aint lyin. Satan is pretty deceiving!!!
That is the adab when talking about prophet s.a.w
@@MakeupTheresaBurnett just do a comparative religion studies
Why does there have to be music in this video? I don’t think the Shaykh would approve of it. We have to focus on one thing at a time and do it to the best of our ability. How can one focus on such a beautiful explanation when the mind is getting distracted by the sound in the background?
Fatema Shaikh I dont even think the shaykh sees it as haram sister!
ROD OF DISCIPLINE - PLEASE do some research before making stupid commentts
In Biblical times people were married at a very young age. Girls were usually betrothed before they reached puberty - majority of the time the marriage would have consummated when the girl reached puberty, and that was usually between the ages of 8, 9 or older,
(Note: when a girl reached puberty prior to the 20th century, she was considered to be an adult in most cultures/societies).
In this article I will mostly quote Scholarly sources to prove that marriage in ancient Israelite times took place at a very young age, sometimes the girls who were married off were pre-pubescent.
There was no law against a pre-pubescent girl being married off.
Actually as you will read further, you will come to realise that the Mishnah gave approval for a Man to have intercourse to a betrothed girl, any-time after the age of three years old.
Isaac’s wife was Rebecca, mother of Jacob, and Esua. According to calculations made by Rabbi Solomon Itzhaki (A.K.A. Rashi a well-known respected Jewish Scholar), Rebecca was three years old when she married Isaac.
1. Rashi’s commentary on Genesis 25:20 says:
forty years old: For when Abraham came from Mount Moriah, he was informed that Rebecca had been born. Isaac was then thirty-seven years old, for at that time Sarah died, and from the time that Isaac was born until the “Binding” [of Isaac], when Sarah died, were thirty-seven years, for she was ninety years old when Isaac was born, and one hundred and twenty-seven when she died, as it is stated (above 23:1): “The life of Sarah was [a hundred and twenty-seven years.”] This makes Isaac thirty-seven years old, and at that time, Rebecca was born. He waited for her until she would be fit for marital relations-three years-and then married her.- [From Gen. Rabbah 57:1
[Retrieved it from this website: www.chabad.org/library/bible_cdo/aid/8220/showrashi/true]
discover-the-truth.com/2013/09/14/bible-child-marriage-in-ancient-israelite-times-paedophilia/
Critics allege that Aisha was just six years old when she was betrothed to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and only nine when the marriage was consummated.
They base this on a saying attributed to Bibi Aisha herself (Sahih Bukhari volume 5, book 58, number 234), and the debate on this issue is further complicated by the fact that some Muslims believe this to be a historically accurate account.
Many who accept this saying argue that since the Qur'an states that marriage is void unless entered into by consenting adults, Aisha must have entered puberty early.
They point that in 7th century Arabia, adulthood was defined as the onset of puberty. (A fact as it was the case in Europe: 5 centuries after Muhammad's ﷺ marriage to Aisha, 33-year-old King John of England married 12-year-old Isabella of Angoulême.)
Point to note - Many criticis of Muhammad ﷺ made at the time by his opponents, not one focused on Aisha's age at marriage.
According to this perspective, Aisha may have been young, but she was not younger than was the norm at the time.
Some Muslims doubt that Aisha was 6 at the time of marriage, referring to historians who have questioned the reliability of Aisha's age as given in the hadis.
In a society without a birth registry and non celebration of birthdays, many estimated their own age and that of others.
Aisha would have been no different.
What's more,
Aisha had already been engaged to someone else before she married the Prophet ﷺ, suggesting she had already been mature enough by the standards of her society to consider marriage.
It seems difficult to reconcile this with her being 6. If anyone would have objected it would have been her parents.
Some modern Muslim scholars have more recently cast doubt on the veracity of the saying, or hadith, used to assert Aisha's young age.
In Islam, the hadith literature (sayings of the prophet) is considered secondary to the Qur'an. While the Qur'an is considered to be the verbatim word of God, the hadiths were transmitted over time through a rigorous but not infallible methodology.
Taking all known accounts, historical events and records of Aisha's age at marriage, estimates of her age range from 9 to 19.
Thus it makes it impossible to know with any certainty how old Aisha was.
The Islamophobes on the Prophet’sﷺ marriage to Aisha, motivated by misplaced desire fits within a broader Orientalist depiction of Muhammad as a philanderer. This idea dates back to the crusades.
This portrayal ignored the fact that before his marriage to Aisha, the Prophet ﷺ had been married to Bibi Khadija, a powerful businesswoman 15 years his senior, for 25 years.
When she passed on, he ﷺ was devastated and companions encouraged him to remarry. A female acquaintance suggested Aisha, a bright and vivacious character.
Aisha's union would also have cemented Muhammad's ﷺ longstanding friendship with her father, Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him).
As was the tradition in Arabia and still practiced today, marriage served a social and political function - a way of uniting tribes, resolving feuds, caring for widows and orphans, and generally strengthening bonds in a highly unstable and changing political environment.
Of the women Muhammad ﷺ married, the majority were widows. To consider the marriages of the prophet outside of these calculations is profoundly ahistorical.
What is evident is that Muhammad ﷺ and Bibi Aisha had a loving and egalitarian relationship, which set the standard for reciprocity,
tenderness and respect enjoined by the Qur'an. Insights into their relationship, such as the fact they liked to drink out of the same cup or race one another, are indicative of a deep connection which belies any misrepresentation of their relationship.
To paint Aisha as a victim is completely at odds with her persona.
She was certainly no wallflower. During a controversial battle in Muslim history, she emerged riding a camel to lead the troops. She was known for her assertive temperament and mischievous sense of humour - with Muhammad ﷺ sometimes bearing the brunt of the jokes. During his lifetime, he established her authority by telling Muslims to consult her in his absence; after his death, she went to be become one of the most prolific and distinguished scholars of her time.
A stateswoman, scholar, mufti, and judge, Aisha combined spirituality, activism and knowledge and remains a role model for many Muslim women today. The gulf between her true legacy and her depiction in Islamophobic materials is not merely historically inaccurate, it is an insult to the memory of a pioneering woman.
Those who manipulate her story to justify the abuse of young girls, and those who manipulate it in order to depict Islam as a religion that legitimises such abuse have more in common than they think.
Both demonstrate a disregard for what we know about the times in which Muhammad ﷺ lived, and for the affirmation of female autonomy which her story illustrates.
Fatema Shaikh yeah, plus it's not just that the sheikh won't approve of it, it's just reallyyyyyyyyyyyy annoying when ur trying to concentrate on something. Ugh.
Hey, Jesus hung around with macho fishermen because he was gay, right? Fuck off. This is the only way to respond to assholes like you. Now suck your own rod. @rod of discipline
Arabs used to ditch the dozens in ages when speaking between themselves ( familiar language) so when they say that she was 6 when fiancée and 9 for mariage means 16 then 19.
This is true. It's hard to tell people this without them thinking you're making it up though
What's your source this is intresting
People used to get married at a younger age. The prophet(saw) is an example. His life serves as an example. He married an older woman too, right? Besides, I think there's an obvious wisdom behind a marriage at a younger age, especially in the historical and religious context, which is often overlooked. Because nowadays, non-muslims and certainly islam bashers will look at it as young girls for older men, while the reality is, is that this used to be for young people in general. In other words, a young woman would marry a young guy. The point is to have lovers be allowed to be together, in accordance with the religious rules. It's not like now, where young people can't get married, but they still fall in love just the same, at a very young age. But since they're not allowed to be together like that, they start dating in secret, and girls lose their virginity to their boyfriends before reaching the age of 16 often. And that's how it is. How many single moms do you know, if you're in the west? I'm guessing quite a few.. because there are a lot. Mothers in their early twenties, trying to raise a child who is already 8 years old. You see this a lot in the west. But society has prescribed that 18 years is when they can be together lawfully. That's fine, but nature doesn't care about that: people will still feel what they feel and desire to be with their beloved, and so they'll do it anyway, and often times, they end up pregnant, and quite often, they'll end up as single mothers. Teenage mothers. Because in a religious context, that's a problem, it is therefor allowed for the young lovers to become husband and wife, if they are mature enough for it. I believe that in Morocco, a girl can get married at the age of 15 if I'm not mistaken. But that's if she wants to, and if she has the mental maturity for it. Boys on the other hand can only get married when they're 18 I think, which is kind of funny, because the reason for that is because they feel like boys mature slower than girls, and of course, should they become pregnant, then the boy has to provide for the girl. I don't know if I actually believe the age given to Aicha(ra) in that narration, but even if it was 9 years of age, then I think that Hamza's point is very valid. Historical context, the sociel envirenmont, life expectancy, you know? All of these things would play a big role in how societies back then functioned and what would be considered acceptable. To compare that to our modern world, which really is quite anomalous when compared to 99% of the human experience on earth and how people used to live, but to compare that without taking into account the enormous changes.. I think that's not just unfair, but it's not realistic.
I see you avoided the issue: Your false prophet, at age 53, had sex with a 9-year-old CHILD.
In civilised countries and with people who have a moral compass, that's called PEDOPHILIA, pure and simple.
"People used to get married at a younger age."
- That doesn't mean that it was right then though, does it ?
Death during child birth was much higher historically; there is an inverse correlation between death in child birth and the maturity of the female.
It's as simple as googling "faster maturity in desert enviornment"
There were no kindergartens, no kid shows, no talking dumb. You had to trade with adults and learn to figh them in case other tribes attack.
Desert lack of resources do it's part on the development of a person. Just look it up.
Phychologicaly she was ready and nature dictates that menstruation is the begining of fertility.
If you want to apply modern standards of children to people living 1500 years ago in those conditions be my guest. But you will be wrong.
It does not matter what Ayesha's age was. She was the daughter of the prophet's (PBUH) closest companion. She loved with prophet with all her heart and was extremely intelligent. And she is the primary source about the prophet.
It matters to us, we have morality,, we obey no master
\we love Human Rights and we like to destroy islam
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@@worfoz ye your morality is similar to animal farm
Your false prophet was a 53-year-old man and she was a 9-year-old CHILD when he raped her.
And we're supposed to believe he had the highest of morals?
Your mind is in the gutter, along with your false prophet's.
She was not 6 by all REASONING!! and 9 when consummated
and the DALILS ARE MANY - in fact, bukhari itself has three hadiths that contradict this very report by Aisha herself (as its a false Hadith attributed to her) - look into it
Not only that, if he married her at six that goes against the Qur’an (let alone had sex with her at 9)…. we are not even suppose to have kids of 6 to pray since they don’t k ow enough yet (but she consented at 6…)and the Quran also says u are allowed to marry a NISSA’ - which is an adult women - He did not use the term baligh or others which would mean that of reaching adolescents or teenage years after puberty - WHEN HE WOULD HAVE IF IT WAS PERMISSIBLE…. want me to name more? want me to also name the hadiths by REASON that contradict Aisha being 6??? And yes Allah tells us over 30x alone in the Quran to use our aql (our reasoning)
its one thing to try and reason over HIS KALAM, its another thing to use reason when describing reports that came nearly three whole centuries after the prophets passing made by fallible humans…..
Yes, it really does matter. It matters alot.
Aisha RA was previously engaged to Jubair bin Mutim .
A lady named Khawlah bin HaKim came to the Prophet and made the suggestion to marry Aisha.
She then went to Aishas house to ask the parents.
The parents agreed to the engagement.
So if the parents agreed who is anyone else to criticise or judge ?
love your answer thanx brother
love your answer thanx brother
the parents didn't have a choice,do you think they could've said no?
+Luqman Khan .
Aisha was a widow by the age of 18.
But she chose not to remarry, nor did she complain about her marriage.
She died in her seventies.
@@40rty7even4 the wives of the prophet weren't allowed to remarry
JazzakAllahu Khairan for uploading, May Allah forgive us all and grant us all Jnanatul-Firdaus. Ameen
In Biblical times people were married at a very young age. Girls were usually betrothed before they reached puberty - majority of the time the marriage would have consummated when the girl reached puberty, and that was usually between the ages of 8, 9 or older,
(Note: when a girl reached puberty prior to the 20th century, she was considered to be an adult in most cultures/societies).
In this article I will mostly quote Scholarly sources to prove that marriage in ancient Israelite times took place at a very young age, sometimes the girls who were married off were pre-pubescent.
There was no law against a pre-pubescent girl being married off.
Actually as you will read further, you will come to realise that the Mishnah gave approval for a Man to have intercourse to a betrothed girl, any-time after the age of three years old.
Isaac’s wife was Rebecca, mother of Jacob, and Esua. According to calculations made by Rabbi Solomon Itzhaki (A.K.A. Rashi a well-known respected Jewish Scholar), Rebecca was three years old when she married Isaac.
1. Rashi’s commentary on Genesis 25:20 says:
forty years old: For when Abraham came from Mount Moriah, he was informed that Rebecca had been born. Isaac was then thirty-seven years old, for at that time Sarah died, and from the time that Isaac was born until the “Binding” [of Isaac], when Sarah died, were thirty-seven years, for she was ninety years old when Isaac was born, and one hundred and twenty-seven when she died, as it is stated (above 23:1): “The life of Sarah was [a hundred and twenty-seven years.”] This makes Isaac thirty-seven years old, and at that time, Rebecca was born. He waited for her until she would be fit for marital relations-three years-and then married her.- [From Gen. Rabbah 57:1
[Retrieved it from this website: www.chabad.org/library/bible_cdo/aid/8220/showrashi/true]
discover-the-truth.com/2013/09/14/bible-child-marriage-in-ancient-israelite-times-paedophilia/
So you need the bible again to defend the enemy of the bible?
and even worse, you need to copy LIES about the bible form dawah sites?
how sad
muhamed was 54 when he raped 9 year old aisha
AlexHector Ugh and all the diseases being passed around!!!!
Your "(Note: when a girl reached puberty prior to the 20th century, she was considered to be an adult in most cultures/societies). " is not true.
For North-Western Europe the Malthusian school of Historian thought (later modified as more recods-based research started) claims that from 1300-1900 the marriage age was raised to reduce fertility. So girls/women married late. As people emigrated to the USA they were more optimistic and there was less scarcity of land and means, so they started marrying a bit earlier.
www.nber.org/papers/w17314 How the West 'Invented' Fertility Restriction, Nico Voigtländer & Hans-Joachim Voth, 2011
"Europeans restricted their fertility long before the Demographic Transition. By raising the marriage age of women and ensuring that a substantial proportion remained celibate, the "European Marriage Pattern" (EMP) reduced childbirths by up to one third between the 14th and 18th century." women married in their twenties.
For the USA
Haines has studied the long term Age of First Marriage in the USA www.nber.org/system/files/working_papers/h0080/h0080.pdf Women married in their early twenties.
For Britain there is also the work of
According to
archive.org/details/TheWorldWeHaveLost/page/n99/mode/2up
Laslett, Peter The World We Have Lost (1965) most common marriage age in the records was 22 with an average of 24. "We have examined a thousand licences containing the ages of the applicants, issued by the diocese of Canterbury between 1619 and 1660 to people marrying for the first time. One woman gave her age as 13, four as 15, twelve as 16: all the rest were
17 and over, and 966 of the women got married for the first time after the age of 19, that is nearly 85 per cent. The commonest age of first marriage for women in this sample was 22, and the median age -- the age below which as many got married as got married above it - was about 22.75: the average, mean age was about 24.
For Roman Egypt AD 0 -AD 300 research on the basis of the census data shows that 300 years before Muhmmed the marriage age of 12 was rare to get married at and the broadest band for first marriage was late-teens early twenties.
Bagnall, Roger S. The Demography of Roman Egypt. E-book, Cambridge [England]: Cambridge University Press, 1994, www.cambridge.org/core/books/demography-of-roman-egypt/marriage/EDC74C1C06DA145343594EA1D4001496
So it is certainly not true that marriage around the time Girls start having periods was the norm or common in Roman Egypt nor in Northern Europe and the USA. .
Please write about it in blogging theology RUclips channel
@@concerned_parent Muhmedd? You can't even spell his name correctly and you expect us to take you serious...😅
Please remove the nasheed music, it is distracting to listen to while listening to the lecture
Its to avoid copyright
Always brilliant vids mashAllah
God’s ways of dealing things are all very strange which humans can’t believe whithout the help of Allah for example Allah saved Noha and his followers in an ark from the destructive flood,saved Hazrath Ibrahim from fire,helped Moses and his followers to cross the sea without any means so on.like wise Allah through Gebrial alahissalam asked prophet Muhammad sallallahu alahi wassalam to marry Aisha(r)and accordingly the marriage took place. Even before that Aisha’s engagement was done with another person which was latter broken because of her new belief. So there is nothing wrong in the marriage of Huzur with Aisha.
Salaam, Please don't use nasheed in the background. It's so "western"; something can't be attractive to listen to on its own without some "entertainment/background music" to it. The nasheed background music is so distracting to concentrating on the actual talk in the video. Not attacking akhi/ukhti. Just for your consideration.
Ala Dabat Salaam, please reread my comment; it's not about the type of music, but the fact that something of in and of itself which is of benefit has to be distracted with the entertainment of background muzak to make it more interesting.
1. The Prophet married her when she was at least 17-18 years old. Aisha had a sister-Esma who was 10 years older than her. She died in 73 (Hijri calendar) when she was 100 years old. (You can find it in all sources). It means that during hijrat (in 622 AD) she was 27 years old. So, her younger sister was 17 years old. And as the marriage between them took place after hijrat SHE WAS AT LEAST 17 YEARS OLD.
2. Arabs consider ageof the women not from the birth of a child, but from the time when they reach puberty. So, in hadith it says that she was 9 years old when they married and it means thet it was 9 years that she reached puberty, NOT THAT SHE WAS 9 YEARS OLD.
Aisha was engaged with a man called Jubair who and whose family were idolaters. They rejected her because his family was afraid that she will turn them into Islam. If Aisha was 9 years old in 622, it means that she was born in 613 when Quran has been already revealed. And Quran forbids a muslims to marry non-muslims. So, if Aisha indeed was born in 613 , her father (who was among the first to accept Islam) will never engage her with a non-muslim. So, we came to conclusion that she was born many years earlier.
”And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember” Al-Baqarah-221.
👉Read the truth, defend the Messenger👈
🔸️ This's [Part 2 of 3]
👉 Was Aisha the mother of the believers 6 years old when The Messenger of Allah Almighty sermoned her (Engagement)! and was she 9 years old when got Married to the Prophet? (peace and blessings be upon him)
🔵 And Sadly we still find many muslims try to proof this Lie against the Messenger and the Mother of believers, snd give the Islamophobes and haters a reason to Attack the Messenger with falsehood.
Let Stop this wrongdoing, and these are the truth.
🔴 4) Aisha's Islam before Omar Ibn al-Khattab: (This's a clear strong evidence)
According to Ibn Hisham's summary of the Prophet's biography of Ibn Ishaq, Aisha (Abu bakr Al Sidiq Family) embrace Islam before Umar Ibn al-Khattab embraced it, which means that she was at least 14 years old at the time of her wedding to the Prophet, peace be upon him, thus dropping the age of 9 years completely.
🔴 5) And This's an ultimate proof:
Knowing the Age of Aisha (MOB) by calculations, based on het older Sister Asma (may Allah be pleased with her):
According to Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi al-Zinad: Asmaa was ten years older than Aisha (biography of the flags of the nobles, al-Dhahabi: Maj. 2, p. 289, Foundation for the Message, Beirut, 1992). Ibn Katheer also agrees with Ibn Abi al-Zinad’s narration and says that she is - Asma: Ten years older than her sister Aisha (The Beginning and the End, Ibn Katheer Maj. 8, p. 371, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi - Giza 1933).
Ibn Katheer agrees with what all historians affirm without disagreement that Asma "witnessed the killing of her son during that year (73 AH), as previously mentioned, and five days later she died. And like other accounts, she did not die after 5 days, but rather after 10 or 20 days, or a few days later, or even a hundred days after the accident, so that the most likely story remains that she died a hundred days later, when she is 100 years old. (Beginning and End Ibn Katheer, Mug 8, p. 372, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi, Giza 1933).
And bin Hajar Al-Asqalani narrates that “Asma bint Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq [That Al-Nitaqain], the wife of Al-Zubayr bin Al-Awam, one of the great companions, lived a hundred years and died in the year of seventy-three (Al-Tahdheeb, Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani, p. 654, chapter on Women, Harf) a thousand).
According to the opinion of most historians, Asma, Aisha's older sister were ten years older than the last, and if Asma 'reached the 100 years of Hijra, then her age at the time of the migration would necessarily be 27 years old, and therefore Aisha’s age at that time would be 17 years old, and she also began living Along with the Prophet and she was 19 or 20 years old. Based on the narrations of Ibn Hajar, Ibn Katheer and Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Al-Zinad, the age of Aisha at the time of her marriage to the Prophet was between 19 and 20 years at least.
🔴 6) The date of Aisha's death determines the date of her marriage:
It is also mentioned in Al Maarif by Ibn Qutaybah that Aisha, the mother of the believers, died in 58 AH at the age of 77. Thus, the age of Aisha, the mother of the believers, immediately before the emigration, was 19 years (77-58), and since she married to the noble Messenger in the second year of the Hijra..so she was 21 years old at that time.
Even if we take the minimum approach, the presence of other accounts in other historical sources that determine Aisha’s age at 66 years of age, assuming that her age was only 5 years + 12 years (from the fourth year before the mission until the second year of migration) = 17 years at least.
🔴 7) Sahih al-Bukhari prooves Aisha's age:
This's another narration confirms for us Aisha's participation in the Battle of Uhud. “Anas narates that on Uhud: I saw Aisha bint Abi Bakr and Umm Salim, rolled their hands ready (Sleeves) - I witness the work of their arms - transport water containers on their bodies, empty them into the mouths of the people, then return and fill it, then come and empty it into the mouths of the people (Bukhari, Al-Fath. No. (2880).
This is a clear evidence of their grown age. Her age and her ability to serve the army during the Battle of Uhud. (As it's well known fact the Messenger never allow young children to participate in battles).
Thus, it is confirmed once again that Aisha witnessed the battles of Uhud and Badr.
🔴 8) Al-Bukhari narrates to us in another hadith:
On the authority of Yahya bin Saeed, said that Nafeh said, on the authority of Ibn Omar, May Allah be pleased with them, that the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he offered himself to the messenger on the day of Uhud when he was fourteen years old, and Messenger didn't allow him, and offered himself at the Ahzab, and he was allowed at the age of 15.
(Kitab Al-Maghazi, Chapter of the Battle of Al-Khandaq, which is the Ahzab or Trench).
This is a very strong evidence that the Prophet, peace be upon him, was not permitting to let someone under the age of fifteen in the Battles.
🌟This is evidence that the age of 9 years has no validity at all.
🔴 9) Participation in the battle of Badr:
In Sahih Muslim, a narration confirms Aisha's participation in the battle of Badr and is attributed to Aisha in the course of her discussion of her trip to Badr and about an important accident that occurred while traveling: “... even if we were in the tree ....” Which is clear evidence that she was among the delegation Traveling towards Badr, and the Prophet does not take children with him. (The Book of fighting and travel).
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Not much of a prophet if he couldn't see the problems of child marriage 1400 years ago.
People didn't find slavery strange either, so there's another example of Islam being era-specific.
Jasher 24:35-45 is that Isaac was 40 years old when he consummated his marriage with 10 year old Rebekah. in the bible.
Ughh please don’t do music over a Sheikh teaching something important. I’ve liked the video for Brother Humza’s talk but felt like disliking as well for the singing over him.
👉Read the truth, defend the Messenger👈
🔸️This's [Part 3 of 3]
👉 Was Aisha the mother of the believers 6 years old when The Messenger of Allah Almighty sermoned her (Engagement)! and was she 9 years old when got Married to the Prophet? (peace and blessings be upon him)
🔵 And Sadly we still find many muslims try to proof this Lie against the Messenger and the Mother of believers, snd give the Islamophobes and haters a reason to Attack the Messenger with falsehood.
Let Stop this wrongdoing, and these are the truth.
🔴 10) The Hadeeth book of Nisa'e narrated in his Sunan, and the ruling Mustadrak of Al Hakim, and Ibn Hayane in his Sahih, via Saheeh of Al-Husain Ibn Waqid, from Abdullah ibn Buraydah from his father, he said: Abu Bakr and Umar may Allah be pleased with them both asked the hand of Fatima, the Messenger of Allah said, peace be upon him: She was young, and Ali got engaged to her and he married her from him ([1]).
The age of Fatimah the daughter of the Prophet was much older than the alleged 9 years of age of the mother of the believers, Aisha, at the time of her marriage, and still the messenger didn't allow a young girl to get married.
(Some source mention the age of Fatima was around 18 years of age)
And This clear evidence that the Messenger wouldn't allow young girls to get married.
🔴 11) This Famous Hadeeth is an other proof:
The Prophet said: Teach your children to pray at seven years and admonish them strongly for it at ten years, and separate them in their beds (Boys and girls).
Narrator: Its chain of transmission is authentic Source: Musnad Ahmad
A girl of 9 years is still an immature child.
🔴 12) It was never mentioned in the biography that Quraysh or the Arabs before embracing Islam question the prophet integrity of the false alleged Engagement of a 6-year-old girl and 9-year-old marriage to her, and it was never questioned by the other peoples (e.g Romans, Persians and others) and this evidence that this matter/Fabrication is a modern insertion/manupulation of dates/Age in Bukhari/Muslim 2 Hadeeths.
(As these books have other hadeeths contracts this false allegation).
🔴 13) Analysis/Criticism of the so called hadiths in question supports (Claiming 9 years old): The Alledged hadith in which mentioned the age of (Aisha) came from five paths, all of which go back to a man called (Hisham bin Urwa), as Ibn Hajar said in (Hadi al-Sari) and (al-Tahdheeb): “Abd al-Rahman bin Yusuf bin Kharash said, and Malik (Madhab Al-Maliki) did not accept him/his narations, he was informed that Malik objected his narations to the people of Iraq - he came to Kufa three times - First - he used to say: My father told me, he said I heard Aisha, and he came the second, and he used to say: My father told me about Aisha, and he came to the third, and he used to say: on the authority of my father on the authority of Aisha.
The meaning is simply that (Hisham Ibn Urwa) was a sincere person in Medina, then when he went to Iraq, his memorization of the hadith began to get worse and he began to (pervert/mix information) that is to attribute the hadith to other than the narrator, then he began to say (on) my father, instead of (I heard or told me), and in knowledge The hadith is the word (heard) or (tell me) is stronger than the narrator's saying (on the authority of so-and-so), and the hadith in Al-Bukhari thus says in it Hisham on (my father) and not (I heard or told me), which confirms the doubt about the authenticity of the hadith, then the most important point is that the imam (Malik) said: The hadith of (Hisham) in Iraq is not accepted, so if we apply this to the hadith that Al-Bukhari produced, we will find that it is verified.
The hadith was not seen by a single narrator from Medina, but all of them are Iraqis, which proves that (Hisham bin Urwa) had narrated it in Iraq after His memorization worsened, and it is inconceivable for (Hisham) to stay in Medina for a long life and he does not mention a hadith like this even once, so we do not find any mention of the age of Mother of the believers Aisha, when she married the Prophet in the book (Al-Muwatta) of Imam Malik, who was the one who saw and heard (Hisham Ibn Urwa) directly in Medina.
So with these grave problems these two ailments to doubt the supports of Hicham's narration.
Among the shortcomings of his narations is the fact that some authentic narrations have appeared in al-Sahih al-Bukhari from ways in which Hisham does not appear.
🌟 The Simple truth is many researches believe the Narations of (Hicham Ibn Urwa) was altered/Manupulated from mentioning Aisha (MOB) was born years before the Message starts, to that she was born years before Hijra.
🔴 14) These are Analysis/Criticism of the Alleged narations of (Hicham Ibn Urwa) from books of hadith and biography:
Ibn Katheer - may God have mercy on him - said in the beginning and the end (3/37): (Ibn Ishaq listed the names of the early companions of the Companions, may God be pleased with them, he said Abu Ubaidah, Abu Salamah, Al-Arqam bin Abi Al-Arqam, Othman bin Maza'un, Ubaidah bin Al-Harith and Saeed bin became Muslim. Zaid and his wife, Fatima bint Al-Khattab, Asma daughter of Abi Bakr, and Aisha daughter of Abi Bakr..
That Ibn Ishaq said: Then God commanded His Messenger, after three years of the mission, to announce the message with what He was commanded, and to be patient on the harm of the polytheists. He said, and the companions of the Messenger of God, when they prayed, went in the reefs and hid their prayers among their people. As Saad bin Abi Waqas in a group of people praying in the reefs of Mecca when some polytheist appeared on them denounced them and reproached them.
The researchers concluded from this narration that it indicates that (Aisha) the household of Abu bakr, embrace Islam before the Prophet announced the call in the year 3, while the Mother of the belivers Aisha was (4) at least.
Fact: It is correct that the house of Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq was the first to embrace Islam at the very beginning of the Prophet's mission on the first year.
And even if the lowest estimate is taken (Not the case) in the year (4), which is equivalent to the year (614AD), meaning that she believed in at least the year (3), that is, in the year (613AD), so if (Aisha) according to (Bukhari's) narration was born in the year (4) From the beginning of the revelation, this means that she was not on the surface of the earth when the Prophet spoke out in the call in the year (4) of the beginning of the da'wah, or that she was a new born baby, and this contradicts all the evidence received.
but a proper account of her age confirms that she was born in at least (4) year before The beginning of the revelation, meaning the year (606AD), which implies that her age when pronouncing the call in year (614AD) equals (8) years, which is consistent with the correct timeline of events and invalidates the well-known/Fabricated narration of the age at the marriage.
🔴 15) This False allegation (9 years old) is recent.
This's recent and not old, and this indicates that if it had occurred, it would have been a real plague exploited by the first enemies of Islam who did everything in their power to undermine this religion, whether they were from the Quraysh, Romans, persians as well as others, and we all know the harm that the Prophet (PBUH) faced when he married the mother of the believers Zainab Bint Jahsh, even though she was an old lady married without any obstacle, as the Islamophobes look for any fake excuse to attack the Messenger of God Almighty and Islam.
Salam Alaikum, Peace be to Everyone.
Chapter: In defense of Imam Al-Bukhaari (رحمه الله), and Abu Bakr As-Saddeeq (رضي الله عنه)
Laws of England by Sir William Blackstone, says that the law of England allowed, at the age of 7, a girl can be betrothed and married with the consent of her parents. This was a book that was written about the jurisprudence of English people in the 19th century.
The cultural aspects of marriages between cultures have similar aspects in maintaining modesty and chastity before the 19th century.
Aisha (رضي الله عنها) was betrothed (engaged) to the Messenger of Allaah (اللهم صل على محمد وأزواجه) at the age of 6. The Messenger consummated the marriage WITHOUT having sexual intercourse at the age of 9, by bring her to his living quarters. She didn't see his (صلى الله عليه وسلم) private parts UNTIL a day after Ghazwa At-Tabuk, which means she was about 14 years of age or older. I believe this is a hadith in the Sahih Sitta which I read more than twenty years ago (possibly this hadith is in the Sunan of Abi Daud or Jami' At-Tirmidhee).
internetshakespeare.uvic.ca/Library/SLT/society/family/marriage.html clearly states that the rich sometimes married for political/contractual reasons, but that the normal people married in their mid-twenties.
Adnan Rashid should have used mean age of first marriage to verify his claims before spreading nonsense on the basis of a wrong methodology (using age of marriage/consent to etsablih the 'normal' behaviour) and then extrapoliating it to the past. www.rug.nl/staff/r.f.j.paping/ageatfirstmarriage.pdf and users.hist.umn.edu/~ruggles/Articles/Fitch_and_Ruggles.pdf also make clear that Adnan is missing reality by a long shot. The fact that the Roman Empire had a marriage age is also relevant. Muhammed encountered Romans.
Your statement "The cultural aspects of marriages between cultures have similar aspects in maintaining modesty and chastity before the 19th century." is based in false information/ crappy historical reporting,
also brother if it helps...
www.dailyamerican.com/entertainment/highschoolhighlights/are-children-being-pushed-to-grow-up-too-quickly-in-today-s-world/article_f6c24542-8eb4-11e3-b223-0017a43b2370.html
discover-the-truth.com/2013/09/09/age-of-consent-in-european-american-history/
listing incidence of individual laws and individual cases does not show what the social norm was, it shows what outliers were. Mean age of first marriage is the measure to see if behaviour was considered "normal". Mean age of first marriage is used in many studies where data has been collected (usually from church and public recors, bitrh and marriage-certificates etc )..
users.hist.umn.edu/~ruggles/Articles/Fitch_and_Ruggles.pdf 1850-modern times. Mean age at first marriage was in the twenties, US-census type data.
www.thespruce.com/estimated-median-age-marriage-2303878 has a table from 1980 to modern times with median age at first marriage in the twenties.US-census based
www.rug.nl/staff/r.f.j.paping/ageatfirstmarriage.pdf Dutch regional study 1720-1800 confirms median age at first marriage mid twenties.
ehps-net.eu/article/long-term-trends-marriage-timing-and-impact-migration-netherlands-1650-1899
internetshakespeare.uvic.ca/Library/SLT/society/family/marriage.html "One common belief about the Renaissance is that children, especially girls, married young. In some noble houses marriages were indeed contracted at a young age, for reasons of property and family alliance, but in fact the average age of marriage was quite old--in the middle twenties.
Marriage statistics indicate that the mean marriage age for the Elizabethan and Jacobean eras was higher than many people realize. Data taken from birthdates of women and marriage certificates reveals mean marriage ages to have been as follows:
1566-1619 27.0 years
1647-1719 29.6 years
1719-1779 26.8 years
1770-1837 25.1 years
< ed cut. > The reason for late marriage among labourers and the middle class was simple enough: it took a long time for a couple to acquire enough belongings to set up housekeeping, even in a room of their parents' home. Young love, however romantic, had to be kept in check if the two lovers were to survive in a world where subsistence earnings would not purchase a roof over their heads and put food on the table. "
So there were contractual and political marriages that were not necessarily about starting a family with children. And not about sex.
All studies show: mean age in the twenties.
Why is the norm for societies not to start marrying and procreating at the onset of puberty?
Because the risk of harm to girls is too big.
1. The risk of harm through intercourse is documentd under problem 12 of the marriage section of Khomeiny's book, which was published originally in Arabic, was called ‘Tahrir al Wasilah’. Translation: Dr. Sayyid Ali Reza Naqavi Pubished 2001 archive.org/details/TahrirAlVasilah/0000-tahrir%20j3-nA4/page/n441/mode/2up where he discussed the levels of sinfulness and risks of damage to girls under 9 and over 9.
2. Aside from the risks of damage throuh intercourse there is the riisks of pregnancy and delivery.
"A 10-year-old girl in Colombia recently gave birth via caesarian section, placing her among the youngest mothers in the world. Though the girl is now recovering, her case highlights the dangers of pregnancy before maturity, doctors say." i.e. the ideas of Islam about 'maturity' starting at the onset of puberty do not math with doctor's ideas about 'maturity' for pregnancy and delivery...............Any 10-year-old who is pregnant has already been abused significantly by somebody," he said. "That probably should go without saying."............... Just because a girl can get pregnant, though, doesn't mean she can safely deliver a baby. The pelvis does not fully widen until the late teens, meaning that young girls may not be able to push the baby through the birth canal.
The results are horrific, said Wall and Thomas, who have both worked in Africa treating women in the aftermath of such labors. Girls may labor for days; many die. Their babies often don't survive labor either.
The women and girls who do survive often develop fistulas, which are holes between the vaginal wall and the rectum or bladder. ........... a hole forms. Feces and urine then leak through the hole and out of the vagina. Women with fistulas are often divorced and shunned. And young girls are at higher risk.
Since the risks are so high societies cannot promote these ages to "the norm" because there would be too many victims.
Marriages may have been at lower ages than today, of course, but not at pre-adolescent levels.
If someone suggests that child-maarriages were so commmon they were the norm, maybe they should reincarnate as a mmarried 8 or 9 year old who gets impregnated?
@@cbcc3029 Someone's been copying from the same sources. Good. Apologists trying to use rhetoric and lists to promote a view as if having sex with 9 year olds was "normal" must be refuted. Having sex at 9 years old is pre-adolescent, high-risk of injury or even death.
Why not include:
Bagnall, Roger S. The Demography of Roman Egypt. E-book, Cambridge [England]: Cambridge University Press, 1994, www.cambridge.org/core/books/demography-of-roman-egypt/marriage/EDC74C1C06DA145343594EA1D4001496
Use three centuries of Roman Census data (000-300) in Egypt to calculate age of first marriage.
The most common ages of first marriage appear to be roughly equally ascending from 14-23 and then starting to go down. 12-13 year olds were uncommon.
No clear evidence of early onset of menstruation and related low marriage age. Lower first marriage age than nowadays, but not spectacularly lower and fair numbers of 19-23 year olds.
archive.org/details/0325323.nlm.nih.gov/page/n9/mode/2up
Socrates indicates that menses usually starts at 14 or 15 and he indicates "Hippocrates holds, that a youth of fifteen years or between that and seventeen, having much vital strength, is capable of getting a child."
Hippocrates 460-370 BC
Socrates 479-399 BC
Covariates of Men's Age at First Marriage: The Historical Demography of Chinese Lineages
Ted A. Telford
Pages 19-35 | Published online: 04 Jun 2010
Shows ages of first Marriages for men between 1520 and 1661 which includes a table with age-differences with their wives. Pattern: Women Married in early twenties.
All statistics so far confirm that Women did not marry as soon as they started menstruating. Women married when they could afford to raise children. Women did not marry extremely young because they knew labour would be unsafe.
Aisha and Muhammed having sex when she was nine was an exception and certainly not the norm.
There are many Hadith, in English, about Aisha's age they generally state as this Hadith does :
"It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine."
Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)
Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3255
It is graded as Sahih by some, but that is wrong.
These Hadith were transmitted by Hishaam ibn Urwa or sometimes it's just stated Hishaam, one and the same person.
When Hishaam grew old his memory suffered very badly and it was then that he transmitted these Hadith.
In the science of Hadith there are five conditions that must be met in order for a hadith to be graded as Sahih. One of the conditions is that the narrator have a high precision of memory.
Hishaam had a very bad memory and therefore doesn't meet the criteria in fact as his memory was very bad the Hadith is Apocryphal, Daef or false.
There is a Hadith transmitted by Umaartubnu Ghazeyah but he is listed as being Daef and therefore the Hadith is Daef.
The Hadith such as these are Apocryphal, Daef or false and many people do not know.
Asma, Aisha's sister, was 10 years older than Aisha. Asma died in 73 AH at 100. Which makes Aisha around 17 at the time of Hijra to Medina. She was conducted to her husband, Peace be upon him in a later Shawwal making her 19 years and 10 months old.
In The Holy Qur'an Allah says
"...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3
Marry THE WOMEN NOT CHILDREN.
Extra knowledge:
The fourth chapter, The Women, starts with
"O' Mankind…" 4:1
and therefore the address is to Mankind.
In Hadith 10 from 40 Hadith an-Nawawi
It is noted that :
"Verily Allah commanded The Believers* because He commanded with it The Messengers and
Allah said "O' The Messengers Eat from The Good and Act Righteously"
and He said "O' Those who Believe* Eat from The Good which We provided you"..."
We note that Allah addresses The Messengers separately from The Believers* and this is true throughout the Qur'an.
Therefore, Allah begins Chapter 4 with :
"O' Mankind…" 4:1
and the address is to Mankind and excludes The Messenger, Muhammad, Peace be upon him.
As the chapter continues it still addresses Mankind and says :
"...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3
This address is part of the address to Mankind and not to The Messenger Muhammad, Peace be upon him, who is excluded from this address.
However, Further along in The Chapter, The Women, Allah says :
"Allah wishes to make clear for you and guide you to The Practices of those from before you…" 4:26
In this verse which is still addressing Mankind Allah says He makes clear for you, Mankind, and guides you, Mankind, to The Practices of those from before you, and The practices of those before you is to, as Allah says :
"...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3
and those before you are The Prophets.
All The Prophets from before their practice was to marry Women NOT children exonerating them from any and all blame.
and Allah says :
"...Never will you find in The Practice of Allah A Changing…" 35:43 and their other verse from elsewhere in The Quran.
And no changing in The Practice of Allah in respect to The messenger of Allah, Muhammad, Peace be upon him.
The Prophet Muhammad's practice was already in line with The Practice of The Prophets from before that he and they only married women and therefore it was not necessary to address him,Peace be upon him, when Allah began The Chapter, The Women, with " O' Mankind…".
Allah makes clear and guides Mankind to The Practice of those before us namely The Prophets and The Practice of Muhammad, Peace be upon him, in which there was no change in that practice from before to :
"...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3
Marry THE WOMEN NOT THE CHILDREN.
There is more evidence but it would make this too long.
So when the prophet married bibi Aisha he was 53 and she was his third wife. Am I right?
And because this child was a genius and had a knowledge of course it was an OK thing to do.
And of course, to this day and age Muslim men still are allowed to marry 4 times am I ✅️
It's so sickening to see what these ignorant people have to say about this. I don't see why people have a problem with the Prophet (saw)'s marriage to Sayyidah Aisha (Ra)? She has one of the most honourabe titles in all of islamic history - "The mother of the believers" because of how learned she was and how the knowledge of Islam spread through her. On many occasions the Prophet (Saw) was asked who he loved most and one time he said "Abu Bakr" and then he said "Aisha" who was the daughter of Sayyiduna Abu Bakr Siddique (Ra).
God himself decreed their marriage when he revealed Sayyidah Aisha (Ra) three times to the Prophet (Saw) in his dream.
Imaam al-Bukhaari (may
Allaah have mercy on him) in his Saheeh from ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be
pleased with her), who said that the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
said to her: “You were shown to me twice in a dream. I saw you in a piece of silk
(i.e., he saw her image on a piece of silk, or he saw her wearing a silken garment). I was
told, ‘This is your wife, so unveil her,’ and it was you. I said: if this dream
is from Allah then it will come to pass.’” (Saheeh al-Bukhaari,
3606).
Mona J
Yeah.. there's nothing confirmatory in her age.. but more indications from shayk here she was 6 at marriage, consummated at 9.. he holds to the theory of what the Jews believed.? So to justìfy tis union.?
It was still a PAEDOPHILLIC inclination her though cuturally acceptable then. I'm gonna to BASTARDIZED their union, unlike moslems who thought Aiesya was much older..
it's sickening to see how you worship muhamed by defending child rape
Why are you muhamedans all so evil?
@@worfoz she wasn’t a child, and neither was it rape. We’re not defending either
@@fahoodie1852 she was nine, a child so it was child rape
stop lying, it is useless
and disgusting
@@fahoodie1852 it's sickening to see how you worship muhamed by defending child rape
i am muslima and i was crying to know the truth about the marriage of aysha pbu. i suffer from what they said.
may i ask why?
because they say tooo bad things about this marriage. but i am ok now with this marriage because that was know and common in this period of time.
because they say tooo bad things about this marriage. but i am ok now with this marriage because that was know and common in this period of time.
+larbi rawia if you do not understand the matter fully then it is best to leave it be :), just have faith in Allah and keep loving sayyiduna Muhammad pbuh and do not worry about such things as we as muslims should know without having to think twice that Allah created the prophet in perfection and we should show our highest respect and love for them always, we may not always understand certain situations and in that case we should humble ourselves and say Allah knows best, as humbleness is also a sunnah.
yes thanx brother that is what i will do inshaAllah. May Allah strengthen our iman and unify again our umma and fogive our ancesters who were the cause of our division and us also bcz we are doing no thing.
First of all, the compilation of the Hadith didn't begin until, what, 4 centuries after Aisha's RA death? Second, she was known to be jealous and possessive of the Prophet pbuh, and what she had going for her that none of Muhammad’s other wives had was that she was a virgin when he married her. The rest of Muhammad’s wives were divorcees or widows, and older than him. So, Aishah, when recounting these stories about when she married the Prophet may have motivated to make herself sound younger than she was.
It's not to say that our mother Aisha RA wasn't an intelligent person, or dishonest, but I don't think she knew that something she said to someone in passing were going to be written down decades later and immortalized.
People back then didn't keep calendars like today, and often only knew their age relative to major events (modern examples would be the JFK assassination or 9/11), or to their peers. I have many Yemeni relatives that are this way TO THIS DAY. They don't know when they were born, but they'll be like "Ziad was born during the year of the unification, and Yahya was born before him." They invent an official birthdate when they apply for a visa to the United States. 90% of my immigrant relatives have the birthdays: January 1, February 2, and March 3 (1/1, 2/2, 3/3. It's just them picking numbers). I know one person with the birthday July 4th, but has no idea how old she is. They must've thought the July 4th birthday would get her visa approved faster. It's quite hilarious actually. I can't imagine people in the seventh century Arabia had more of a grasp of their ages than that. It's often said that the Prophet Muhammad pbuh was born in the Year of the Elephant, demonstrating that they too were using the comparative dating.
It's also possible that there's a fault in the narration. I'll post some relevant sources on this:
www.ilaam.net/Articles/Ayesha.html
hameem.org/2019/02/11/proof-that-aisha-was-over-15-years-old-when-she-married-the-prophet-peace-be-upon-him/
www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/belief/2012/sep/17/muhammad-aisha-truth
Btw, to everyone attacking the Prophet pbuh, understand one thing. Aisha Ra herself would not in a million years take your side.
Aisha RA narrated roughly 2000 ahadith that painted a loving, positive picture of the Prophet, not a negative one. She herself was a fierce, outspoken, highly intelligent person who became a scholar, and later a military leader. If she wanted to complain about him in her 67 years of life, she would've.
I realised there is background music when I read comments
Turn the music OFF Please.
i know right....
1. The Prophet married her when she was at least 17-18 years old. Aisha had a sister-Esma who was 10 years older than her. She died in 73 (Hijri calendar) when she was 100 years old. (You can find it in all sources). It means that during hijrat (in 622 AD) she was 27 years old. So, her younger sister was 17 years old. And as the marriage between them took place after hijrat SHE WAS AT LEAST 17 YEARS OLD.
2. Arabs consider ageof the women not from the birth of a child, but from the time when they reach puberty. So, in hadith it says that she was 9 years old when they married and it means thet it was 9 years that she reached puberty, NOT THAT SHE WAS 9 YEARS OLD.
Aisha was engaged with a man called Jubair who and whose family were idolaters. They rejected her because his family was afraid that she will turn them into Islam. If Aisha was 9 years old in 622, it means that she was born in 613 when Quran has been already revealed. And Quran forbids a muslims to marry non-muslims. So, if Aisha indeed was born in 613 , her father (who was among the first to accept Islam) will never engage her with a non-muslim. So, we came to conclusion that she was born many years earlier.
”And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember” Al-Baqarah-221.
What's the purpose of the backsound? It's annoying!
there has to be another video on youtube without the music.
ALLAH HUMA SALE ALA MOHAMMED WA ALE MOHAMMED TRILLION X TRILLION TIMES ,,,,,,, AMEEN
👉Read the truth, defend the Messenger👈
👉 Was Aisha the mother of the believers 6 years old when The Messenger of Allah Almighty sermoned her (Engagement)! and was she 9 years old when got Married to the Prophet? (peace and blessings be upon him)
🔵 Sadly we still find many muslims try to proof this Lie against the Messenger and the Mother of believers, and give the Islamophobes/haters a reason to Attack the Messenger with falsehood.
Let STOP this wrongdoing, and take the truth.
🔸️[Part 1 of 3]
➡️《These are some of the irrefutable and strong evidences, that shows her Age was at least 21 years old at the time of her marriage.》
➡️ (15 undisputed evidences from the Sunnah Biography of the Messenger of God Almighty, as indicated by many scholars and researchers from Saudi and Egyp).
▶️ This work is in defense of the Messenger Muhammad (PBUH) and the authentic biography that they want to distort.
☆ First clarification:
Had the Prophet married our mother Aisha (Mother of the Believers) at the age of 9, we would've been the first to defend this legislation, because the Prophet is the legislator.
However, it is a repetition of slander in the name and message of God, with many people repeat it without proper research and knowledge, believing a lie, and aim to defend a fabrication that didn't take place at all.
☆ Second explanation:
The heart is sad to see some people who insults the Prophet biography, they call him the ugliest and the most vile names.
E.g. that he sexually assaulted a young girl (God forbid)
Many Muslims include some scholars repeat what Islamophobes say, and some of them try to justify something that the Prophet DID NOT do in the first place.
▪︎ They say, women in hot countries mature quickly, or at the time of the Prophet women were larger in size, which justifies their marriage at a very young age.
(These justification are not needed because Aysha the mother of the belivers didn't marry at the age of 9 yeard old).
👉 Initial summary:
The correct and logical answer is the source narrator who mentioned the age of Aisha, and all the so called correct sources end with (Hisham Ibn Urwa) the source.
The clear mistake that he made (or actually a recent alteration), is in mentioning that the mother of the belivers Aysha was born before the Immigration, and the correct is before the Mission started. (And this simple fact will make sense and align with all proofs and calculations we are presenting).
And because of these errors, the Islamophobes find easy grounds to attack the Messenger of God in the most horrific way, trying to cause ignorant muslims to doubt their Deen.
■ These 15 agreed upon proofs show the age of Aisha without a doubt (May Allah is pleased with her).
There is more evidence, but this is enough.
🔴 1) The date of the revelation of Surat Al-Qamar determines the age of Aisha (MOB):
It came in Sahih al-Bukhari on the authority of Yusuf ibn Mahek, who said: “At the time of Aisha, the mother of the believers, she said: It was revealed to Muhammad, peace and blessings of God be upon him, and I am a Maid. 《Rather, the hour is their time and the hour is worse and more important》knowing Surat Al-Qamar was revealed in the sixth or seventh year before the Hijra and the Messenger, peace be upon him, married her in the second year of the Hijra. If we believed the narrations that specify the age of nine years, this would mean that Surat al-Qamar was revealed while she was a baby, not a maid. She plays as she said in this hadith in Sahih al-Bukhari.
Facts:
Surat Al-Qamar was revealed at the beginning of the Prophet’s mission in Makkah.
And a maid, is not a child, meaning her age is more than 10 years or adolescence.
If her age is 10 years at least at the time of marriage in the second year of migration will be more than 20 years at least.
🔴 2) Another hadith in Al-Bukhari specifies the age of the Mother of the Believers, Aisha.
Al-Bukhari (Bab - Jewar of Abu Bakr during the time of the Prophet) reported that (Aisha) said: I have never thought of my parents except when they are professing the religion, and not a day passes for us without the Messenger of God coming to us both ends of the day in the morning and the evening, and when the Muslims were afflicted, Abu Bakr went out, migrating toward Abyssinia).
Then (Aisha) says that she did not understand her parents except when they were religiously professed, and that before the migration of Abyssinia as I mentioned, and she Said that the Prophet used to come to their home every day, which shows that she was rational for these visits, and what is certain is that the migration of Abyssinia was unanimous among the history books in the year (5) From the beginning of the Prophet’s mission, which corresponds to the year (615 AD),
The narration that was mentioned in Sahih al-Bukhari, which indicates events that occurred before the fourth year of the mission and that Aisha (MOB) narrated, indicates that Aisha was present before the fourth year of the mission started, and not only existed, but she was at the height of her awareness and understanding, enabling her to narrate the events of a story that occurred In this way and this means: If we assume that Aisha (Mother of the believers) was at least 5 to 7 years old before the fourth year of the mission, as it's realisticly and practicly impossible. This means that her age when the Messenger Married to her in the second year of the Hijra, cannot be in any way less than 15 to 17 years at least, and this undermines the narration that says that it was 9 years old from its roots!
🔴 3) Her previous Marriage before the Messenger of God Almighty to Jabir bin Mut`im. (Was a Marriage and not just an engagement).
And this is one of the largest evidences out there, which confirm maturity without any doubt.
From reviewing the evidence of Abbas Al-Akkad, the evidence that he is more likely to say that Aisha’s age at the time of her wedding to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, was not less than fifteen years at least.
Based on this extensive research of Al-Akkad is certain that the Messenger of God (may God bless him and his family) married to Aisha when she had reached a woman age, and she was seventeen at the time of marriage at the very least. And not that she was at that time a girl of six or nine, playing with swings, as claimed in hadiths atributed to her.
As for the claim that Aysha (MOB) had never been married before the marriage to the messenger, is also one of the well-known lies.
She had previously married Jubayr ibn Muta`im, then divorced, and the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her.
This is exactly what Ibn Saad narrated on the authority of Abdullah bin Abi Malika: “The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, when he spoke about Aisha, said Abu Bakr: I was given her to Mut'im for his son Jubayr, so let me save her from them, so he took her away from them as he divorced her, eventually the Messenger of God, may God bless him, married her. ” (Al-Tabaqat al-Kubra by Ibn Saad, c.7, p. 59).
Facts: Many hadiths show that Umm Jubayr rejected the mother of the believers, by saying to Abu Bakr (Do you want my son to accept Islam as your daughter did), meaning Aysha became Muslim.
This indicates that Aisha, the mother of the believers, was an adult and mature and took the decision of Islam as an adult, and this is in Mecca.
If we believe that her marriage to the Prophet was 9 years, then that means that she was married to Jubayr while she was a baby, and this is not acceptable to even think of.
Also, her mother, the wife of Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq - may God be pleased with her - saw that her daughter had grown up when her engagement was annulled (the truth is her divorce from Jubayr bin Mut'im bin Uday), and when she learned that the Messenger - may God bless him and grant him peace - had mentioned her for Engagement to himself, she said to Abu Bakr - be pleased God on him -: (This is your daughter Aisha, Allah had moved Jubayr and his family out of her way, so push her to the Messenger - may God bless him and grant him peace - so you may receive goodness and blessing)
▪︎The mother the best to know the signs of her daughter readiness for marriage and signs of her femininity.
So what is certain is that Aisha had been married and given to her husband, then she was surrendered and divorced from him, and this also confirms that she had reached the age of readiness at that time of her marriage, not that she was a child.
Note: as for whether she was a virgin in this marriage? The Hadeeth is silent about explaining that either way. Our strong beliefs that she wasn't a Virgin, as the narration is sensed, as it confirms that Abu Bakr had “given” her by her husband in marriage.
Ibn Saad narrated in Tabaqah (8: 09) on the authority of Abdullah bin Malikah who said the speeches of the Messenger of God (may God bless him and his family and grant them peace) Aisha bint Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq. He said: I had given her Mut'im for his son Jubayr, so let me until I save/drove her from them, so he took her away from them and Jubayr divorced her, so the Messenger of God (may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family) married her. End.
And Muhammad ibn Saad is a great hafiz and is a great scholar who is approved by the Sunni scholars unanimous- (see: Tadhkira al-Hafiz by al-Dhahabi) 2: 425.
▪︎continue to part 2
and this what i wanted to analyse with my freidns that the marrage from Aisha because of her brain superiority not because of something else .and this happened in a different world and that is and Bless you Hamza Yusuf.
Her brain was superior she was playing with dolls at the time
People need to stop excusing that this happened and go after the shady source of this information. This all goes back to Hisham Ibn Urwah, who heard this from his father in Medina and told people this when he moved to Iraq in his old age. There are no other sources for this information and stops at Aisha (SAW), who could have exaggerated. Nonetheless it's hearsay. She was also at the battle of Uhud, and it was strictly forbidden for anyone under the age of 15 to be there.
At Battle of uhud she wasn't fighting . She was just their for the aid of injured soldiers. That ruling applied to those who could fight in battle
Why on earth do you think marriage means sex? And it is not even well documented that Aisha (RA) was 9 at the time.
why on earth do you need us to believe your child rapist was a prophet?
here, read and see what filthy coward you praise
sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70
sunnah.com/bukhari/67/93
sunnah.com/abudawud/12/76
sunnah.com/nasai/26/60
sunnah.com/bukhari/63/122
sunnah.com/muslim/16/82
sunnah.com/nasai/26/61
sunnah.com/muslim/16/84
sunnah.com/urn/1261940
sunnah.com/muslim/16/81
Why in hell do you deny your own books and beliefs, lost pagan?
I know you worship a horrible coward,
marrying a six year old CHILD is a most coward crime and severe child abuse, so I understand why you muhamed worshipers go insane when we ask you about it.
Why on earth did your fake prophet had to do that?
THAT is the question you should ask yourself.
We have Aisha's testimony, you would love to hide that for us, that is why you lie and ask hypocrite questions like these ones.
This child marriage is very well documented, her age is clearly mentioned and lying about that only makes you look more stupid
@@worfoz This Hadith may not even be true. Just because its rated Sahih doesn't mean its true. There are tons of false Hadith websites. I can find you a Hadith that says it Sahih and Aisha (RA) was 19 when she was young if I wanted too. And did you even see the Zakir Naik video I sent you. There he clearly states that the 1 from 19 may have been lost (or something like that) and it is shown she was 19, not by muslims but by professors who are not muslim. Many of them are atheist and christian professors yet they agree that the history stating Aisha (RA) was actually 19 is true. And this History was written before the time Islam engulfed Arabia. And while you argue about only this, why then don't you argue about Kashmir's treatment of muslims and China's treatment to Uighur muslims. People like you see only what they need to see to deface Islam and use baseless statements.
@@soulofdarkandlight823 Just because its rated Sahih doesn't mean its true.
Six billion non-muslims totally agree with that.
But there is not ONE hadith suggesting she was any older than nine when muhamed forced her to have sex.
So that is all we know about your beliefs: you worship some child rapist by denying he was a child rapist.
Because you believe in books you do not believe in, and you hate everyone who questions these beliefs.
But all that was documented talk about muhamed marrying a child, and consummating that child marriage when Aisha was only nine.
And that is why we reject your child rapist, we do not approve with child rape and you hate us for that.
@@worfoz lol who said I or other muslims hate you? You are the one insulting us and our prophet. Yet many of us have not said one word of insult to you. And you believe a muslim saying Aisha was 9 yet you do not believe hundreds of muslims scholars saying, she was 19. Like I said, you see and believe only what you want. And I can't change your mind because firstly: I am not a scholar and don't have in-depth knowledge of more of the historical facts showing she was indeed 19. Secondly, you are insulting me when I am simply trying to make you understand. Thirdly,
(2:7)(Surah Baqarah, Ayat:7)-
خَتَمَ اللَّهُ عَلَىٰ قُلُوبِهِمْ وَعَلَىٰ سَمْعِهِمْ ۖ وَعَلَىٰ أَبْصَارِهِمْ غِشَاوَةٌ ۖ وَلَهُمْ عَذَابٌ عَظِيمٌ - 2:7
"Allah has set a seal upon their hearts and upon their hearing, and over their vision is a veil. And for them is a great punishment."
Fourth: You are hypocritical in your opinion saying that only us muslims say Aisha (RA) was 19 when only one muslim said she was 9 and this was not proven but DISPROVEN and many non-muslim professors also bear testimony that she was indeed 19. Yet you still believe in the Hadith of one man which more than likely is false for even in prophet Muhammad (PBUH) time, there were hypocrites in Islam disguised as muslims but in reality a backstabber.
Fourth: This one Hadith is narrated by Hisham (RA) whose other Hadith. While he is deemed as a true muslim, many of his Hadith do not correlate with actual historical events documented by both muslims and Meccans before they became muslim.
@@soulofdarkandlight823 who said I or other muslims hate you? You are the one insulting us and our prophet.
no my friend, your prophet is Isa and child rapist muhamed was a PIG, and you hate me because you worship that PIG so he is your beloved child rapist,and not the prophet of islam.
Your books prove that muhamed raped a nine year old, I don;t care about opinions and lies, your books are the only source I accept, THEY tell me muhamed 54 raped Aisha, 9.
And you have no other source, proof or fact, that is why you NEED to insult me and show your frustration.
We know your islam is a lie, we know what lies your islam is abased on because we study your sect.
And that is why you hate us.
We know what muhamed did to that poor child and we don't like it.
So you hope your demon alla scares us with his horrible punishment, this hope is all you got now.
I m not even sure what age my mom married to my dad.
Were they even married? Were they cousins? Are you the result of consanguinity?
why the music?
Does this go for little boys as well? So if the boy gets married to his nine year old wife and he's, let's say 11 shouldn't he be able to provide for his family because that would be his duty as a husband, when she has to fulfill in such a young age her duty to raise a child and being a good wife
You're comparing modern day snowflake crybabies who are addicted to Fortnite, to young men who were much more intelligent and responsible due to the culture at the time, for their ages. The king of Hungary at 14 went to war with the Ottomans and defended his lands centuries ago. Can you imagine any modern 14 year old boy doing this today? He would throw a bitch fit and hide under his blankets. Know your history.
@@zhussain9840 not only that, these people were basically adults at the time and fully developed mentally and sexually. When she was 14 Aisha (RA) was a veteran and led many armies to victory. She was a remarkable woman and yet people decide to make her look like a “victim”
"she was a genius...she knew poetry, arabic geneology, had her own opinions" yea, that stuff does make a person a genius
choudhury shadmani Do you want her to have an MBA decree and a masters in Quantum Mechanics.
She is a scholar of Hadeeth.
You don't know how deep and sophisticated Classical Arabic Literature, do you? Shakespeare pales in comparison.
Muhammed Salih exactly a scholar nothing more not a damn genius
Why do idiots like you watch these videos if you are going to be full of mockery. Sad, depressed individuals
Does it make it OK to marry her at the age of 9, a child's intelligence does not mens that he or she is not a child
Why Always Muslims trying to find excuses whey profit Muhammed married girl age 6 years old and nikah age 9years,
As in hadeeth Aalah asked profit to marry her,
The bottom line is this: Christians have deified Jesus pbuh; Muslims have elevated Muhammad pbuh
Both religions offer a sanitised version of both men.
Moreover, to say that Aisha as "a remarkable person"! Really!
Walter Langer was correct.
You only know what you know!
Individuals choose to believe what they want to believe; even should the evidence disprove your views.
Equivocation in matters of faith is evident in all religions.
Please remove the background music
I love your lecture, but can you not to have nasheed please?
AYESHA WAS 16AT HIJRAT HER ELDER SISTER ASMA 10 YEAR ELDER DIED IN 70 H AT THE AGE OF 100 ,,SO ASMA WAS 27 AT HIJRAT....PLEASE SEE THE LATEST RESEARCH IN HISTORY BOOKS.
How old was Isabella when she married Richard II?
Richard and Isabella on their wedding day in 1396. He was 29 years old; she was six.

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There's no khilaf about her age, only late historians who never met Aisha or any of her family or companions that make these theories. There are no statements of the family of aisha or companions that say she was any of those ages, but there are multiple sahih narrations of companions that asked Aisha r.a. directly what age she was when she got married and she responded 9
where is the whole video found?
AYESHA WAS 16 NOT 6... HER ELDER SISTER ASMA WAS 27 AT HIJRAT YEAR 01
ASMA WAS 10 YEAR OLDER TO AYESHA
@stella Nardella Dealing with you is simple, for you call to nothing tempting. You like to roast, yet what do you offer? Straight to the point “If/than” Excel spreadsheet flow chart. Get off the bus wherever your stop is. (God/Atheism) if “God” → (God/gods) if “God” → (God has orders/God is aloof) if “God has orders” → organized monotheism = Judaism, Christianity, Islam. (Jesus was important/Jesus was nothing) if “Jesus was important” → (God is decidedly anthropomorphic - has a gender, creates offspring, etc../ God is utterly Independent, Alone, Unique) if “God is utterly Independent, Alone, Unique” → Islam
1. The argument of "applying an modern template" i.e. anachronism is true for descriptive hsitory writing. We can discuss the Azects and them practicing human sacrifice without going overboard on maralism, accusations of murer etc. This is not descriptive history. Both for a priest wanting to introduce Human Sacrifice in our times and for a religion introucing a perfect human being/perfect role model in our time when he is having sex with a 9 year old when he is in his fifites: for both cases we can say: We do not want that in our time.
2. Well before Muhammed and Aisha the Roman Empire had a marriage age of 12 so marrying a 6 year old would not have been possibble and having sex with a nine year old was not seen as normal. In fact several comments by others on Aisha indicaate awareness of her being very young. Since many loactions retained parts of Roamn law after that empire collapsed many contemproaries of Muhammed and Aisha would have lived under laws that prohibited marriage at 6 and sex at 9.
3. Muslims will often claim that even today it is their god-given right to consider a girl a woman from the time she has her first period. Muhammed was well aware of the dangers to horses, goats, and other animals of risking very young pregnancies. Muhammed may have seen the effect of Obtetric Fistulas in girls if child-brides were common.
Goats:
www.goatfarmers.com/blog/goat-breeding%2F
"Age to Start Breeding
Be careful not to breed your goats at too young of an age. Why? Because a doe's body isn't prepared to grow and deliver a kid safely until A doe can reach puberty and be ready to conceive in as little as 4 to 12 months of age. That doesn't mean her body is prepared for the process. "
Horses:
www.wikihow.com/Breed-a-Horse
Be sure the mare is the right age for breeding. The best age to breed a mare for the first time is once she has finished growing herself, at around three to four years of age. It is possible to breed from 18 months, but this places a lot of demands on the body of a mare that is still growing itself. [6]
The Islamic law that considers a girl a woman from the onset of menstruation puts girls at great riskk of harm: and these practiices often cintinue up to this day because muslims feel entitled to break the countries laws and adhere to Islamic laws.
www.nytimes.com/2010/03/04/opinion/04kristof.html married at 8 divorced at 10
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/middle_east/8026545.stm 8 year old's wedding gets annulled from man in fifties.
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/middle_east/7579616.stm 8 year old's files for divorce from 28 year old.
Parents should have grave concerns about this if Muslims want to drag this age of consent to our times.
The effects of child-brides and early teen pregnances today www.livescience.com/19584-10-year-birth.html
4. Kings and nobility sometimes married children as part of contracts not to start procreating the day a girl had her first period. The difference is that we do not promote these people as Role models or perfect human beings. We know there have been pedophiles that got away with it, many otheer crimes etc. but we do notpresent them as ideal examples.
5. internetshakespeare.uvic.ca/Library/SLT/society/family/marriage.html
states: "One common belief about the Renaissance is that children, especially girls, married young. In some noble houses marriages were indeed contracted at a young age, for reasons of property and family alliance, but in fact the average age of marriage was quite old--in the middle twenties." gives statistics listing in shakespeare's tima as first marriage age for women in the mid to late twenties. Then Motivates: "The reason for late marriage among labourers and the middle class was simple enough: it took a long time for a couple to acquire enough belongings to set up housekeeping, even in a room of their parents' home. Young love, however romantic, had to be kept in check"
. concerned parents are allowed to say that the law in thhe countries where many muslims live often exlicitly forbids marriage at the ages that Islamic law allows (from the onset of puberty/first menstruation) just as it is illegal in most western countries. It s not Islamophobic, but responsible parenting to critisize a rule that risks pregancy from the first period on.
It is not Islamophobic because we acknowledge that chidl-marriage/very early pregnancies are not only a problem in Islam, Nepal, Philippines, The USA also ave clear problems, but none of them promotes it as a fantastic idea. Many muslims will still start about the onset of menstruation as their right. hat is just irresponsible.
Valid points here.
@@MichealStudies One other point: The Shaykh mentions around 3:15 that it was quite normal for 12 year old girls to get married in the 1830s. He references ages of consent/marriage. Historiaans use the age of first marriage to describe how people behaved and that is known users.hist.umn.edu/~ruggles/Articles/Fitch_and_Ruggles.pdf shows that marriages of 12 year olds were very uncommon and the mean age was in the twenties . Laws of marriage were often made to allow young political marriages, rather than to be used as a guide or advice.. internetshakespeare.uvic.ca/Library/SLT/society/family/marriage.html has marriage age in the west annd the description shows awareness of contractual marriages too. "One common belief about the Renaissance is that children, especially girls, married young. In some noble houses marriages were indeed contracted at a young age, for reasons of property and family alliance, but in fact the average age of marriage was quite old--in the middle twenties. Marriage statistics indicate that the mean marriage age for the Elizabethan and Jacobean eras was higher than many people realize. Data taken from birthdates of women and marriage certificates reveals mean marriage ages to have been as follows:". So using legal marriage age as an example of 'normal' is deceptive use.
@@MichealStudies I do not think Aisha was a political wedding, her father was Muhammed's successor so Muhammed was more a boss than an equal. And the consummation indicates the marriage was for sex too. Vastly different from child-marriages in the west. I am happy you also express that child-marriages were not the norm. I think so too. If many Arabs in 7th c. started having sex with girls who just had their first period history would show the high numbers of victims (deaths and disabled) somewhere. So I think Muslim apologists who claim it was the norm are not telling the truth.
@@MichealStudies Well one hadith states that a woman could find no fault with her except that she was a young girl who slept. So they clearly noticed. How many would criticize their boss even nowadays? Let alone in tribal culture.
Don't forget: he wanted Aisha, her other wedding plans get cancelled and he gets her. He wanted his adopted son's wife: they divorced and he got her. Tribal power dynamics are quite clearly understood.
@@MichealStudies I just listed the sequence, you interpreted the motivations. :-) Maybe because you infer them correctly and felt the need to defend. :-)
I agree that alliances can be strengthened and made less likely to change. That was often one of the motivations behind western royalty/nobility marrying children. However, they did not sleep with them at very young ages.
Critisiizing bosses can be felt to be necessary if the interests collide. However, if the boss marries a child: what can be your interest in picking a fight over it? Looking the other way is a lot more convenient.
paedophilia is paedophilia, regardless of shifting of time and social norms.
oh singh jee..oh bhai come on i wasn't expecting you guys like these peps..khair no prob..everyone can get dragged in sheep thinking..here is yur answer..also bro wht about his prophecies should we just throw thm outt the door... we cant cuz one after the other they coming to fruition..like for ex: my prophet Muhammad(Pbuh) predicted (cars/phones) close to 1500yrs ago.. how did he know tht! was he scientist/entrapenur..or yu name a field? wht he was!...cuz yu had the likes of einstein, sir issac..exct..who were the smarty pants of their era! they didn't even have clue about this stuff..i mean just 200yrs back yur ancestors and mine didn't evn know wht is a phone..and the car same thing go back 400yrs no one knew wht is car.. so plz would yu care to elaborate on this too?..and this is just tip of the iceberg... nxt time do at least minimum of research so yu dnt make a fool outta yur self..yu welcome tc..
discover-the-truth.com/2013/09/09/age-of-consent-in-european-american-history/
www.dailyamerican.com/entertainment/highschoolhighlights/are-children-being-pushed-to-grow-up-too-quickly-in-today-s-world/article_f6c24542-8eb4-11e3-b223-0017a43b2370.html
Whats the name of nasheed played during his talk pls? Thanks
Subhanallah Beautiful
Will Durant was 28. Ariel was 15. Hamza fibbed about their ages.
Also 15 year old isn’t the same as a 9. Wonder why he fibbed
This is beyond sick!
Sorry I didn’t mean music I meant the nasheed in the background.
It is still music.
Allahu Akbar
Salam, does anyone know this specific nasheed
Skip the music. Do you think is MTV???????
I agree with a lot of what this man is saying but then why does it still occur in modern Islamic countries?
1. The Prophet married her when she was at least 17-18 years old. Aisha had a sister-Esma who was 10 years older than her. She died in 73 (Hijri calendar) when she was 100 years old. (You can find it in all sources). It means that during hijrat (in 622 AD) she was 27 years old. So, her younger sister was 17 years old. And as the marriage between them took place after hijrat SHE WAS AT LEAST 17 YEARS OLD.
2. Arabs consider ageof the women not from the birth of a child, but from the time when they reach puberty. So, in hadith it says that she was 9 years old when they married and it means thet it was 9 years that she reached puberty, NOT THAT SHE WAS 9 YEARS OLD.
Aisha was engaged with a man called Jubair who and whose family were idolaters. They rejected her because his family was afraid that she will turn them into Islam. If Aisha was 9 years old in 622, it means that she was born in 613 when Quran has been already revealed. And Quran forbids a muslims to marry non-muslims. So, if Aisha indeed was born in 613 , her father (who was among the first to accept Islam) will never engage her with a non-muslim. So, we came to conclusion that she was born many years earlier.
”And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember” Al-Baqarah-221.
This man said false stuff.
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mark carey hi. This happens nowadays for example, in Afghanistan because of poverty. Although it’s not the norm, people will resort to marrying their daughters off because at least she’ll be taken care of by a mature man. Again, it’s not the norm even in Afghanistan but this is definitely a way to secure provision for their daughters.
Thank you for that.
mark carey you’re welcome.
Because a lot of "modern" Muslim countries are still very agricultural and have very harsh living conditions. It doesn't happen in industrial Muslim countries.
If this was totally wrong or not allowed - don't you think God would have forbidden it or at least his community would have frowned upon it & her father/mother would have not approved the marriage....etc etc
Didn't God allow marrying and having sex with prepubescent girls 65:4
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Did Prophet Marry Aisha (RA) at Age 6?
Where do we learn that the Prophet (pbuh) married Aisha (RA) when she was 6 years old and consummated the marriage when she was 9 years old? From a Shahih Bukhari hadith narrated by Aisha (RA). Now, the question naturally one can raise, are AHadith collections books of history? When did the Ahadith receive the status of a history book? Or has it ever been considered a book of history? The answer is a BIG NO, that never happened.
What is the Holy Quran saying about marrying an underage girl? Let's read the verse 004:006 (Surah An-Nisa):
“Test (trial) the orphans (Arabic: wa-ibtalu l-yatama) until they reach the age of marriage (Arabic: balaghu l-nikaha); if you then find sound judgment in them, release their property to them; but consume it not wastefully, nor in haste against their growing up. If the guardian is well-off, let him claim no remuneration, but if he is poor, let him have for himself what is just and reasonable. When you release their property to them, take witnesses in their presence (Arabic: Fa-ashiddu alayhim) : But all-sufficient is God in taking account.”
There is no mention of children in these verses. To the contrary, in order to reach marriageable age, it is clear that one must be of sound judgment, maturity and certainly old enough that their wealth and property can be fully entrusted to them. The mention of witnesses in their presence clearly implies a discharge of responsibility and contractual in nature. There is no indication that any of these can be accomplished with a child. Whilst verse 4:6 clearly twins 'marriageable age' with the ability to entrust orphans with their wealth / property, another verse 6:152, clearly instructs believers not to come close to the orphan's wealth until they are 'ashudd', implying physical maturity, full strength or to be in a state where one is fully grown. Thus keeping both verses 4:6 and 6:152 in view, attaining full physical strength also becomes a precursor to discerning marriageable age.
Let's read the verse 006:152 (Surah Al-An’am) "And do not go near to the wealth / property of the orphans except with that which is best until he reaches his maturity / his full strength (Arabic: Ashuddahu)..."
Therefore, both physical maturity and mental maturity are imperative in discerning marriageable age.
It is clear from the guidance given by the Quran that marriage is a very powerful and important institution. This contract of marriage can only be entered into by an individual of sound mind, judgement, free thought, physical maturity and one that completely understands the nature of the contract and its implications. This would certainly not be a child.
The question remains, would a Prophet of Allah go against the very revelations that were given to him? Or are the narrations found in the Islamic secondary sources, i.e. Ahadith corpus falsely or incorrectly attributed?
The answer is there. It is a fabricated lie of the Ahadith corpus. It was fabricated during the Umayya Khalifs (Ummaya dynasty) who were not only hostile to the Prophet (pbuh), it is them who killed the 4th Khalifa Ali (RA) and his sons, Hassan (RA) and Hussein (RA), its purpose have been to distort the image of the Prophet (pbuh) to depict him as a sexual pervert and nearly 2 centuries later such fabricated mischaracterization of the Prophet (pbuh) became incorporated into Ahadith compilations like Bukhari and Muslim.
So you muhammedans will defend child rape because muhammed was the perfect example for you
defending child rape is an act of worship, muhammedans prove their unconditional loyalty to pig muhammed by denying child rape is a horrible crime
what a weird sect you have
Aisha did NOT exist, she is a fictional character invented by Shia (to
be the enemy of Ali). The Shia made Aisha fight Ali in battle of the
camel . The Sunnis claimed that Aisha is the wife of Muhammad. Both
Shia and Sunnah believed these 2 lies. After that a problem arose. The
age of marriage of Aisha. Because the battle of the camel was at year
35H,while Muhammad died at year 11H. So in order for Aisha to fight Ali
she must be (not so old) , so they made her marry the prophet as a
child.
Interesting opinion. If both the Shia and Sunni believe Aisha was the wife of Muhammed you are talking about the vast majority of Muslims and the 5 major legal schools of thought. They may not agree on her age, but they usually do agree on her existence. I think the only way to deny her is to deny all Hadiths and go Quran only, but there may be other marginal groups with similar ideas.
its big story..u need to know all early history of Islam after Muhammad..thin link all threads together ...i need to write a book to go into details..but simply ...it was the wars for khilafah between army of Iraq and army of Syria..Syria won and ruled Iraq for a century ..killed them tortured them ..Iraqis invented many lies as propaganda to regain kilafah ..invented Abubaker (father of Aisha) as enemy of Ali (he is also fake) ..then invented Fatima (fake) to quarrel with Abubakr ..then Ali became khalifah ..invented Aisha to fight Ali (she is like continuation of her father) ..Aisha got her name from battle with Ali (thousands killed around her but she lived).. early Islamic history is unreal ..its propaganda ,fantasy and lies to get soldiers (armies) to get khilafah and power. also if Aisha is real (and she is a big mouth) why she is ignoring the history of Muhammad in Madinah? she is only talking about Ali or women issues.
@@salemsalem7867 Interesting ideas, but so far off mainstream thinking that you are probably closer to people like mel (ruclips.net/video/l3k__ke1b5Q/видео.html) than to mainstream Muslims.
@@concerned_parent that video is nonsense... real Muhammad is like this... he was from line of Abraham (came after him around 2500 years)...he was from tribe of Quraish which lived in Makkah around House of God (that Abraham built)..Makkah is the same location today (near Jeddah) ...Muhammad was an orphan ..His people called him Muhammad (=great,praised,loved one,thanked one,...) because of his great attractive personality (like honesty,goodness, ...)...later he became messenger of God given Quran...later he went to Madinah ..he fought with his people Quraish ..he entered his own village Makkah ..he died...Muslims within 100 years conquered most Earth ..and killed each other for power ..hadith books were invented full of lies about Muhammad..most Muslims now are not following Quran of Muhammad but the lies about him. True Muhammad and True Islam is what we find only in Quran.
@@salemsalem7867 Quran only sounds nice, but how about prayer 5 times a day? It is from the Hadiths. Also, the last 9 years of Muhammed saw many wars according to the Quran as well. So Muhammed does not come across as only good. Where do you get the history from? The historians are aslo closely relatted to the Hadits.
So many lies
Wrong 100% I will explain this on my RUclips channel.
1. The Prophet married her when she was at least 17-18 years old. Aisha had a sister-Esma who was 10 years older than her. She died in 73 (Hijri calendar) when she was 100 years old. (You can find it in all sources). It means that during hijrat (in 622 AD) she was 27 years old. So, her younger sister was 17 years old. And as the marriage between them took place after hijrat SHE WAS AT LEAST 17 YEARS OLD.
2. Arabs consider ageof the women not from the birth of a child, but from the time when they reach puberty. So, in hadith it says that she was 9 years old when they married and it means thet it was 9 years that she reached puberty, NOT THAT SHE WAS 9 YEARS OLD.
Aisha was engaged with a man called Jubair who and whose family were idolaters. They rejected her because his family was afraid that she will turn them into Islam. If Aisha was 9 years old in 622, it means that she was born in 613 when Quran has been already revealed. And Quran forbids a muslims to marry non-muslims. So, if Aisha indeed was born in 613 , her father (who was among the first to accept Islam) will never engage her with a non-muslim. So, we came to conclusion that she was born many years earlier.
”And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember” Al-Baqarah-221.
you meant this explanation?
@@theoneandonlyhooda I appreciate your intentions, but calling bukhari and muslim as fabricated hadith is nothing short of ignorance. The hadith about Aisha(R)'s age in bukhari and muslim are absolutely sahih, and there's izmah among classical and medieval scholars about her age even though it's not necessary in this particular case. It is an absolute fact that she was that young when she got married. There are multiple hadith that proves it, and her attitude and attributes described throughout multiple hadith and seerah books reconfirms her young age multiple times, and there's nothing wrong with it. There are no single weak hadith in sahih bukhari and muslim, you should learn the history and the sciences of hadith before making such a serious accusation. Making her age 17 to 19 is laughable really, at that age during that time, it would've been impossible for a lady to stay unmarried. The arguments presented in the second half of video is pretty lame and weak. It is only a modernist secular agenda that clouded some misguided western people to come up with this garbage and put a question mark on sahih hadith and accuse the salaf and classical scholars! It's a shameful defeated mentality that is becoming a cancer in our time for Muslim ummah.
As for refuting this video- 1st of all that 10 year age gap was just a guess work by one narrator, other estimations their age gap at least 20 years, because they had two brothers in between their birth time. Asma(R) died in 692 CE at the age of 100 (lunar years), which's a historical fact known because oh her son's death, which puts her birth year at 595 CE. Aisha(R) said multiple times in hadith that- she never saw khadijah(R). It would've been only possible if she was a young child during the time of her death. Again confirming her young age. Also if Aisha(R) would've been a teeager then it would've made no sense for her to stay in her parents house for 3 years before going into our prophet's house.
It is an absolute fact that our mother Aisha(R) was 6 or 7 when she was betrothed to our prophet(S) and 9 when the marriage was completed, And she was proud of it, and we should be too. There's nothing wrong with it. Any muslim who has problem with it, has weak faith and those come up with this explanation has little knowledge. Hope Alllah(SWT) saves us from this fitnah.
@@shafqatishan437 I know she was 9. That comment is outdated and it doesn't represent my current beliefs. Thanks for responding and explaining how it's invalid.
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