@@chocolatewifiey having a child should not be like you are in a prison, no freedom, no safety...The guy seems a responsibe one. They can take care of the kid when apart.....my opinion
I really feel what the guy is going through, he deserves peace.He cant live that way forever.All times anxiety,stress,fear..they need to come up with a solution.Those parents are so toxic and inhumane
No one deserves such kind of threats , The lady should be bold enough to face her parents and address everything accordingly . In the current state the reationship is not worth fighting for
But in this case she seems to trully love this guy, to the point of sticking with him despite all the threats, and choosing him even over her stubborn people...
Personally I blame this beautiful lady....she can take her time go home and make peace with her parents sasa wakiua huyu apatane na mwingine the parents wasimpende wamuue pia....ataua wangapi😢😢😢 I feel for this man walahi
The lady should involve her grandmother, uncles, Aunts, brothers and sisters, may be they can talk some sense to her parents. If the parents soften their hearts, this young man should then go with his elders and pay at least half of dowry to begin with. If they started long after she dropped from college the lady should be clear to her parents about it to protect her man from being blaimed.
this young man has a valid reason to want to end that relationship but the young lady thinks is all a big joke. When parents behave like monsters just be careful and if it means ending up a relationship let it be your life is important..it's really sad to see those in power thinks others are nothing...if was me will track him down too see who get who first...value your life first
They genuinely love each other...There are only two problems; 1. The father to the lady who's misbehaving. 2. Lady to be open to her parents about dropping school before meeting her husband. Wayforward - Steve let the lady talk to her uncles and aunts tell them about her parents and seek their intervention with her father and mother....It will work out.
Both facing a very difficult situation but what is amazing me is that they seems to love each other genuinely n my prayer is that the gal relatives intervine just like you have said n try to let the gal parents understand the situation
This guy needs security he isn't safe at all,even though the lady loves her he can't trust at all huyu ni mtoto wao,good job for opening up it is well ,may God protect you 🙏
My advise to young man, tafuta wazee na security2 peleka msichana kwao ambia baba ya dem this is your dota in good health, please forgive and spare my life mzee na utoke
Bro pole i passed thru that for last 5yrs even to b taken to police till nkajitoa peace of mind is key my marriage ended, lost my daughter....muchangi family weuh
I believe in you BMS you will come up with something for helping your neighbor, Let this girl and her parents decides the final future of this young couple
Si lazima watu wasome ,this guy should send elderly people to visit the lady's family waongee...meanwhile the should go back home and make peace with the family
Mambo ni matatu hapa; 1. Parents are being all this and especially her father 2. The father would wanted her daughter to get married to a rich man 3. Either if she had ex might be doing all this..
Such parents live in the past! So long as this lady isn't a minor, the parents should let her live her life. It's so uncouth to dictate whatever your daughter marries or dates!
Parents should not interfere with the marriages of their own children, meaning daughter's, son's and even relatives.🤔🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃, but also this man should be also be responsible for his own family
The lady should go back home and talk to her parents! She's the one who's making this things difficult year to Year.The problem here they are threatening the man but not their daughter!!!!Why don't she take time with her parents and solve the issue????The lady is not helping her husband at all.AMA KIJANA TAFTA PASSPORT KISIRI UJITOE MIAKA KADHAA ATLEAST AND WHAT I KNOW HUWEZI FUNGWA JELA COZ YOU MET HER OVER AGE!!!SOME PARENTS ARE SOOO HEARTLESS 😢😢
That man shud run for his life,he needs to leave without telling the lady,he changes his numbers just for his safty,if possible he can go to another country may be Arab countries he works and makes his life better,it will be e best decision ever
my daddy went all this drama za family ya wakina mummy people trying kumwambia waachane bt aliona si poa juu hakutaka sisi tuteseke juu tulikuwa wadogo the year 1992 my uncle ulipika daddy na bro ya daddy kama mtoto 😢😢😢 right now daddy really regret akilia kama mtoto coz mummy never change and that situation make daddy poor until today hata sisi Wenye we have trying bt the same family now wako kwa sisi never married someone kutoka kwa family kama hizo you will cry hadi kwa kaburi mm
Let this girl talk with the father, to give the husband peace. Or else she will be blamed for murder one day. This is very serious aki, kuishi na such threats hujui who is next to you
These people love each other truly............life inaweza kua tricky sometimes. Sad thing is this guy can easily get insomnia and thats a road that they dont want to walk down the road
Bro wisdom. Never take threats for granted ..this one is like a life sentence first what..haki someone can dismantle this ginene called love..this man is super strong..may God protect him🙏🙏🙏
They should reach out to her uncles and aunts and discuss this issue. They may help. DCI guys can track you anywhere and moving or charging lines won't help, he will track the daughter and get him
Steve advice thiy guy what to do this is serious a CID can track your movement anywhere through your phone sahii watu wanachingwa anyhowly ..your peace of mind come first it's sad what we go through in the name of love😢😢
Parents need to understand that education is not a guarantee to success, but I believe this man should sent his parents na wazee to the girls side they talk things out
His approach ya kuomba jiko was somehow insulting. Elders from both sides of the family have a role to play in cementing this marriage union. if all fails local chief should summon girls parents to stop & issue stern warning against making unnecessary threats
Dont die in the name of love,Stevo make sure you bring the father of this lady to the set,we need to set things straight.We have to know him.Hawezi endelea kuthreaten huyu kijana.
Alot of couples r going through depression silently and fear to open up koz wana ogopa kusengenywa,they end up killing them selves but atlst they open up to Steve,that man is going through shit and e woman is preventing him from opening up
Marriage is not just about the person you're marrying but the family you're marrying into. Bro, give them back their daughter, if being with her means risking your life. At times it's a great blessing to be single, than letting marriage rob you of peace to that extent.
Respect to the lady at least akiambiwa anyamaze ananyamaza. Huyu boy anataka kujitoa hakuna threats ziko kwanza mtu wa CID si mjinga kutuma texts which can be used as evidence.
These people love each other -But the parents of the lady are the problem-Real love still exists. The Dad to the lady needs to taught that these are old people who made a choice to be together, he should stop interfering with this young man's relationship much as the lady is a daughter to him
This is a serious issue that need to be addressed,the girl sees it as a joke but the reality is if his man disappear what would she say if at all his father decide to take action.The father is using his authority to threaten the guy and he doesn’t seem to realize that he is punishing him to depression,depression kills and that is what he is doing.I salute him becoz he has stayed strong for long two years of threats sleepless nights.They truly deserve to be happy together,Big man Stivo is our savior.
Mm nilivyoona ni mawili kwnz baba mkwe anaweza kua kamwekea mwanae labda mwanaume alimtaka alivyoona imeshindikana ndo kaamua kufanya hvy au inawezekana baba mkwe hamtaki jamaa na tayari kaona jamaa kamzalisha so anaamua kumtumia hz msg au pia yule mwanaume alietaka kumuoa anaweza pia kuhusika na hilo jambo
Marriage is subliming from being union or alliance of two loving partners to a challenging venture. Somewhere along the pathway, it just hits a rock of unforeseen eventuality and down it goes to the dogs. The million-dollar-question here would be what does it take to have a bankable marriage?
Maskini i feel this boy aki buda ya dem ameamua amfanye chizi na threats and its not easy to live with fear unaeza fyatuka dem akichekaga tu akikwambia seriously,its a high time you address this issue stevo nakuaminia
I have said over and over again that my biggest fear in life is that the person I'm gonna meet next might just be dumb, who in their right senses can imagine a father of a whole big mama can behave like a kid. No school teaches that
Once this woman shared his No with her Dad, he definitely was able to get his ID No. Her Dad is using his ID No to know her new No and he is tracking him down.
Parent fighting for daughter,lady fighting for relationship,man fighting for his life. All of you part ways and every one live their life.,
The girl loves him...but the guy is not safe...this love is not worth dying for
What love when you don't acknowledge your partners distress
I can feel the pain of this man, don't die in the name of love,move on
true
Si awache huyu lady....kwani amestikiwa hapo
Threats are a crime under the laws of this country. Take the threats very SERIOUSLY !!!
Wise men never take threats for granted. Only a foolish man does.
Thank you 😊
Akona mtoto bro
Well said...wisdom
@@chocolatewifiey having a child should not be like you are in a prison, no freedom, no safety...The guy seems a responsibe one. They can take care of the kid when apart.....my opinion
Unaogopa nn na life ni Yako face huyo Buda kwani maisha ya sai usiogope kitu
The lady is fighting for 2yrs in relationship, the guy is fighting for his life,😏😏
Bana wewe tu ndo umeongea kitu ya maana
I really feel what the guy is going through, he deserves peace.He cant live that way forever.All times anxiety,stress,fear..they need to come up with a solution.Those parents are so toxic and inhumane
It's either the lady go talk to his parents or they just part ways with the guy for his safety 😢😢😢coz peace of mind matters
Very true..
Don't waste another Year building pointless relationships..Let this year be all about your growth..Focus on bettering yourself 😌
True ndio naona
Growing oneself
A big lesson here for young adults, visit each other parents while dating some problems can be avoided.
Good Idea
Not possible with the current generation
Ideally, Yes..... But many a times pregnancies happen unplanned. This was the case na hawa.
No one deserves such kind of threats , The lady should be bold enough to face her parents and address everything accordingly . In the current state the reationship is not worth fighting for
Never fight for a woman, she knows who she loves. Never lose sleep over a man, he knows who he wants
Kunywa soda na ujilipie umesema kweli
Tuma Paybill hukunywe soda
😂😂😂 very true
hii akili gawia zakayo arule nayo kenya🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
But in this case she seems to trully love this guy, to the point of sticking with him despite all the threats, and choosing him even over her stubborn people...
Personally I blame this beautiful lady....she can take her time go home and make peace with her parents sasa wakiua huyu apatane na mwingine the parents wasimpende wamuue pia....ataua wangapi😢😢😢 I feel for this man walahi
at least hii nimewatch kuanzia mwanzo Hadi mwisho,,,, izo zingine ni kusonga Hadi uko drama iko
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The lady should involve her grandmother, uncles, Aunts, brothers and sisters, may be they can talk some sense to her parents. If the parents soften their hearts, this young man should then go with his elders and pay at least half of dowry to begin with. If they started long after she dropped from college the lady should be clear to her parents about it to protect her man from being blaimed.
this young man has a valid reason to want to end that relationship but the young lady thinks is all a big joke. When parents behave like monsters just be careful and if it means ending up a relationship let it be your life is important..it's really sad to see those in power thinks others are nothing...if was me will track him down too see who get who first...value your life first
They genuinely love each other...There are only two problems;
1. The father to the lady who's misbehaving.
2. Lady to be open to her parents about dropping school before meeting her husband.
Wayforward - Steve let the lady talk to her uncles and aunts tell them about her parents and seek their intervention with her father and mother....It will work out.
Both facing a very difficult situation but what is amazing me is that they seems to love each other genuinely n my prayer is that the gal relatives intervine just like you have said n try to let the gal parents understand the situation
The lady should protect the boy and the parents should just support them and let them be.
The lady's father seems to be using Police tracking devices to illegally track the son-in-law. Let the son-in-law lodge a complain with IPOA.
This guy needs security he isn't safe at all,even though the lady loves her he can't trust at all huyu ni mtoto wao,good job for opening up it is well ,may God protect you 🙏
This is a crime. With all those threats, he will either turn up dead or be framed for something and still end up dead.
My advise to young man, tafuta wazee na security2 peleka msichana kwao ambia baba ya dem this is your dota in good health, please forgive and spare my life mzee na utoke
I just feel for this couple. May someone intervene in their situation..
Justice for this guy....threats are bad
This guy was happy to meet you and for your success and growth
This is painful 😢😢How will you keep on living in such scenario very touching 😢😢I feel the pain of this guy he is going through alot😢😢😢
The police man can be dealt with this guy needs to urgently get in touch with IPOA
Aki
Bro pole i passed thru that for last 5yrs even to b taken to police till nkajitoa peace of mind is key my marriage ended, lost my daughter....muchangi family weuh
I believe in you BMS you will come up with something for helping your neighbor,
Let this girl and her parents decides the final future of this young couple
This is so serious i want follow this to the end Stivo help this pple. This needs to aired on national TV
This girl needs to talk to her parents and solve this.
I feel sad for this man. May God see you through. However, the girl loves you
Si lazima watu wasome ,this guy should send elderly people to visit the lady's family waongee...meanwhile the should go back home and make peace with the family
Some parents will never know peace may God protect u boychaod.
Breaking up with this woman will worsen everything, the best you should is to stay with your wife and try to solve all this with your in-laws bro
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Mambo ni matatu hapa;
1. Parents are being all this and especially her father
2. The father would wanted her daughter to get married to a rich man
3. Either if she had ex might be doing all this..
Nikiimagine kuna doc ameuliwa pale nakuru, na huyu pia ni mtoto wa mtu aki na bado ni mchanga. Whiiih, Mungu turehemu
😢😢😢budake ni bigi
I am a woman but bro peace of mind is important . Kanyanga please . Your life is more valuable
Mapenzi na kifo chagua moja... Mr handsome tembea kubwa kubwa don't leave your mum in pain in this world because of a woman
Simple and clear
Such parents live in the past! So long as this lady isn't a minor, the parents should let her live her life. It's so uncouth to dictate whatever your daughter marries or dates!
I feel your pain bro
Parents should not interfere with the marriages of their own children, meaning daughter's, son's and even relatives.🤔🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃, but also this man should be also be responsible for his own family
We can lie to ourselves as much as we want but nothing can change the fact that dating one person is healthy and peaceful
Perfectly said 👏l don't know what they earn by cheating your partner
Ushasema
Correctly spoken
True
❤
The lady should go back home and talk to her parents! She's the one who's making this things difficult year to Year.The problem here they are threatening the man but not their daughter!!!!Why don't she take time with her parents and solve the issue????The lady is not helping her husband at all.AMA KIJANA TAFTA PASSPORT KISIRI UJITOE MIAKA KADHAA ATLEAST AND WHAT I KNOW HUWEZI FUNGWA JELA COZ YOU MET HER OVER AGE!!!SOME PARENTS ARE SOOO HEARTLESS 😢😢
They need to call the entire clan and sit down and resolve. Leaving the beautiful lady ain’t a solution.
This people love each other. The lady should face her parents and apologize. She truly loves this man. She's genuine with him.
Guys nothing sounds sweet than to be honest or loyal to ur partner..😢soko nichafu stay safe and be real, dating one person u love dat enough...❤
Aki I agree
Usicomment tu juu umeona hapa,listen to this story
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That man shud run for his life,he needs to leave without telling the lady,he changes his numbers just for his safty,if possible he can go to another country may be Arab countries he works and makes his life better,it will be e best decision ever
This young man needs protection
Infact its now more risk to this man because someone might want to put this lady and their family in a case by hurting this guy........
my daddy went all this drama za family ya wakina mummy people trying kumwambia waachane bt aliona si poa juu hakutaka sisi tuteseke juu tulikuwa wadogo the year 1992 my uncle ulipika daddy na bro ya daddy kama mtoto 😢😢😢 right now daddy really regret akilia kama mtoto coz mummy never change and that situation make daddy poor until today hata sisi Wenye we have trying bt the same family now wako kwa sisi never married someone kutoka kwa family kama hizo you will cry hadi kwa kaburi mm
Just watching bro mungu akutangulie
It's good you have brought this to the public
Your lady is also a victim don't betray her
She really loves you Man
Dumbing her is not the solution
Word
Threats can't be taken for granted and also you can't decide who your daughter/son to marry. It's wrong for those parents.
Kaka stand with you instincts coz you Never know one Threats,Sms's,Death
It is better you guys to part ways maisha yako muhimu bro
the couple is loyal......@BMS why didn't you give them 12k?
Let this girl talk with the father, to give the husband peace. Or else she will be blamed for murder one day. This is very serious aki, kuishi na such threats hujui who is next to you
These people love each other truly............life inaweza kua tricky sometimes. Sad thing is this guy can easily get insomnia and thats a road that they dont want to walk down the road
Life is hard bro just separate and move on with your life,I feel thease guy
I thought huyu ni engineer SUDI
Let the officer come up now ,officers this is wrong so where do you get izo guts manzi ukiimuua utakua ba mtoi
Bro wisdom. Never take threats for granted ..this one is like a life sentence first what..haki someone can dismantle this ginene called love..this man is super strong..may God protect him🙏🙏🙏
Imagine threatening someone's innocent son,cz of this good for nothing ladies 😢😢😢😢😢Lord protect this guy🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
The parents should also meet at their own level and talk about this. Steve you can be the bridge.
The lady loves him. Steve talk to both of them. Try and find the mother to the girl and talk to them.
They should reach out to her uncles and aunts and discuss this issue. They may help. DCI guys can track you anywhere and moving or charging lines won't help, he will track the daughter and get him
Steve advice thiy guy what to do this is serious a CID can track your movement anywhere through your phone sahii watu wanachingwa anyhowly ..your peace of mind come first it's sad what we go through in the name of love😢😢
This one is a serious case. Love is not worthy dying for.
Parents need to understand that education is not a guarantee to success, but I believe this man should sent his parents na wazee to the girls side they talk things out
His approach ya kuomba jiko was somehow insulting. Elders from both sides of the family have a role to play in cementing this marriage union. if all fails local chief should summon girls parents to stop & issue stern warning against making unnecessary threats
"My Dad can overreact"...The older I get, the more I realize how parents sabotage their own childrens' future....
Dont die in the name of love,Stevo make sure you bring the father of this lady to the set,we need to set things straight.We have to know him.Hawezi endelea kuthreaten huyu kijana.
This so tricky me wondering how he has been surviving all this long
Hii ni kipindi tu
The gentleman has the Sword of Damocles hanging over his head in this relationship or situationship.
Safe this situation big man...call the parents we need them on set
Alot of couples r going through depression silently and fear to open up koz wana ogopa kusengenywa,they end up killing them selves but atlst they open up to Steve,that man is going through shit and e woman is preventing him from opening up
Comrade mwili wako uko vizuri asikudanganye mtu eti umekonda No No
Let the guy involve his Parents
Vitisho baridi sio poa
Oiiiye boy child GOD protect you and thenx for opening up there is a solution with GOD
Marriage is not just about the person you're marrying but the family you're marrying into. Bro, give them back their daughter, if being with her means risking your life.
At times it's a great blessing to be single, than letting marriage rob you of peace to that extent.
Respect to the lady at least akiambiwa anyamaze ananyamaza. Huyu boy anataka kujitoa hakuna threats ziko kwanza mtu wa CID si mjinga kutuma texts which can be used as evidence.
😂😂😂😂let me continue to trust myself. Young Man run away for your dear life you need to be happy guy.
Huyu ahamie tu uganda
These people love each other -But the parents of the lady are the problem-Real love still exists. The Dad to the lady needs to taught that these are old people who made a choice to be together, he should stop interfering with this young man's relationship much as the lady is a daughter to him
Wah...this is serious aki...May Almighty God protect him
This is a serious issue that need to be addressed,the girl sees it as a joke but the reality is if his man disappear what would she say if at all his father decide to take action.The father is using his authority to threaten the guy and he doesn’t seem to realize that he is punishing him to depression,depression kills and that is what he is doing.I salute him becoz he has stayed strong for long two years of threats sleepless nights.They truly deserve to be happy together,Big man Stivo is our savior.
She is not taking it seriously, doesn't believe her parents are capable of anything bad. She better let this guy go
Mm nilivyoona ni mawili kwnz baba mkwe anaweza kua kamwekea mwanae labda mwanaume alimtaka alivyoona imeshindikana ndo kaamua kufanya hvy au inawezekana baba mkwe hamtaki jamaa na tayari kaona jamaa kamzalisha so anaamua kumtumia hz msg au pia yule mwanaume alietaka kumuoa anaweza pia kuhusika na hilo jambo
Kama wazazi wa mke wako hawakupendi utapelekea nani mahali😢...it better you break up 💔as early as possible.
This sad aki ,Seek Asylum bro for your safety,,Ama kam tu dubai 😢😢
Steve help this young man,to seek Asylum its the only way out
The girl can go to her parents akae uko
Parents to let these two love each other. They genuinely love each other
It's for better for worse nothing will happen to you bro hakuna mzazi anaweza taka mtoto wake awe mjane hata kama ni nini this lady really loves you.
Marriage is subliming from being union or alliance of two loving partners to a challenging venture. Somewhere along the pathway, it just hits a rock of unforeseen eventuality and down it goes to the dogs. The million-dollar-question here would be what does it take to have a bankable marriage?
Kindly BMS, assist this guy, plz plz he is going through hell.
Maskini i feel this boy aki buda ya dem ameamua amfanye chizi na threats and its not easy to live with fear unaeza fyatuka dem akichekaga tu akikwambia seriously,its a high time you address this issue stevo nakuaminia
If anything happens to this man its this gal and her family
Huyu dem s angeprotect huyo boy,mm parents hawaezi threatened ndoa yangu ,not me wakae tu life yao
Aah siuwarudishie msichana wao love is not worth your life.Akirudi atakaa na wazazi wasolve arudi mambo ikiwa sawa but for now choose life
Niko nangoja Stevo aje atusomee msg yenye atatumiwa akiambiwa akae mbali na hizo maneno ama na yeye apotezwee...🥱
Young man start a fresh live this woman alone you are not safe 😢😢😢😢
I have said over and over again that my biggest fear in life is that the person I'm gonna meet next might just be dumb, who in their right senses can imagine a father of a whole big mama can behave like a kid. No school teaches that
Once this woman shared his No with her Dad, he definitely was able to get his ID No. Her Dad is using his ID No to know her new No and he is tracking him down.
Correct
It's better you separate and forget this Relationship . You are Risking your Life my Dear.... Please think about it😊
Some parents r so hurtless,,kwani wao tu ndio walizaa msichana wao,,, kijana hakuzaliwa pia na wazazi? or their daughter is so special......