Nurse Criticized for Posting TikTok After Patient's Death
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- Опубликовано: 7 июл 2022
- A nurse is facing backlash for posting a TikTok of her crying after a patient died. In the video, the nurse is overwhelmed with emotion as she leans against the wall and removes her mask. However, many people who have seen the video on social media are calling her "self-promoting" and the video to be "cringe-worthy." Some health care workers even believe she went too far. The nurse has now deleted her TikTok account.
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Imagine setting up the phone, opening TikTok, choosing the song, setting the countdown, then pacing in the hallway doing this nonsense.
Takes 3 seconds
@@keeliaskye3155 lol 😆 smh
@@keeliaskye3155 you clearly have never actually made content
She probably had multiple takes too....
She domt give a damn about the patient 😂
This woman is not grieving. She’s performing.
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😂😂😂 So True
This is beyond cringe
This woman is not grieving. She's emoting
I agree.
"Look at how strong and caring I am". This is absolutely sick.
She looks hot though cheers.
Exactly
How disrespectful it is not only to the patient but to also to the patient's friends and family.
So how do you even know there's a real patient that died? I mean we're assuming she's faking everything about her emotion for clicks so why assume there's a real dead patient?
I don't think so unless she made their name public. She's just exposing herself as an attention seeking narcissist.
@@itchiegamesThat's a good point. I hadn't even considered that, lol. Of course nurses have plenty of patients die so I find it hard to believe that she'd have to make it up. You could be right though.
@@beestingzawhat about the people who use their elderly parents for clicks and views...I can't believe people will post their own parents about to pass away...their most vulnerable moments of their lives and their own adult children post it all over social media for strangers to watch...I just don't understand it...attention seeking nuts.
@@8ballhemeloid I haven't seen that but I don't doubt it's true. Social media has turned millions of people into attention seeking narcissists with main character syndrome.
My sister is a nurse and whenever she has lost a patient she doesn't even want to talk to anyone let alone pick up a phone set it up and put on a show for social media.
That’s part!!!
My sister is a dentist so obviously she doesn’t lose patients, I mean it can happen but very very very rare as i’m sure you can assume…
But I say all that to say even when something does go wrong in the office that day or something, like you said she doesn’t even wanna talk about it let alone post it!!
I just don’t understand this New Generation boy I tell ya… 🤦🏽♀️
social media is a hot mess and it’s really ruining us as a People… 😔
That's the difference b/w someone who loves what they do for others & someone who loves what others do for them. Thank you to your sister, and all of our healthcare workers out there who put their heart & soul into caring for others. I've seen quite a few clips like this, and it is disrespectful to patients & their families, also done in poor taste esp as it pertains to patient confidentiality.
@@amandawhitney6255 Thank you! And I totally agree its so disrespectful
@@rosereacts843 yes, my sister works on the nursing home/rehabilitation side and I remember once she stayed in before for a couple of days because of how distraught and emotionally drained she was. I honestly have to disconnect from social media at times and have become very choosy in what I watch and listen to alot of it is so toxic to the mind and spirit
Well buddy, its abonoxious how she lost a patient because you don't feel good when you lost patients
As a nurse I absolutely find other nurses who post tik toks while on the job extremely annoying and unprofessional.
You're right, I absolutely agree. Back in the mid 90's, I did clerical work, working closely with physicians and nurses at a small medical facility. Back in those days there was much more professionalism in the work place and doctors and nurses were held to a higher standard. Today we see medical personnel choreographing twisting their butts around in the facilities they work at and filming it to post on social media. Sadly those types of things actually get applaud and go vital. The public should be repulsed by these adults acting like little teenagers and it should not be well recieved. Futhermore, the superiors should be strongly reprimanding that type of behavior on the job. Or perhaps even fire them.
Oh what’s that someone dies time to tic Tok like it’s a plague on our society
Me too
Females like to look at themselves and hear themselves talk . Naricissus
100% agree and I work in a restaurant. I don't think we should even be allowed to have phones. There to work not for leisure.
As an RN of 43 years and now retired, this is so disturbing on so many levels. I’m grateful that my bedside ICU days were before all this social media stuff. HIPAA was passed for a reason.
Is she violating hippa if she didn't reveal the name of the patient who died? I agree her behavior is egregious and narcissistic, but as the "expert" said, she didn't violate any medical ethics.
In the clip displayed here, there is no HIPAA violation, at all.
@@SummerLove217Apparently her original video got 1.5M likes so it looks like a fair number of people don't know performative nonsense when they see it. Could explain why our world is so incredibly stupid these days.
This isn't a HIPAA violation at all.
As a healthcare worker, this is cringe AF. I've lost patients, unfortunately, and there's too much work, charting, dealing with doctors, nurses and even families. I don't even have the time to think about pulling out my phone, going to a corner and record myself dealing with a death.
RIGHT ??? When I've been fortunate enough to have a break, I use it to finally use the restroom. I want to work where THIS nurse works.
Imagine how distasteful it would have been to see your nurse set up a camera, press record, and then act like this after your family member died.
I wouldn't care...I'd be dead 🤷🏾♀️
Utterly disgusted and appalled is how I would feel. Then probably angry.
@@ShortCakeMeg I'm pretty sure she is talking about the family seeing it. You may feel differently if it was your close family member.
The acting is ultra cringeworthy
no one but me mourned when my "n'er do well" fiance died.... so I'd be kinda appreciative that someone other than me was affected by his passing.
Narcissism is a major problem in this country, and I blame all social media platforms for turning people into attention seeking fools.
Mostly TikTok tho
@@ia19753 true
Couldn’t have said it better
@@ia19753 And RUclips as well
Facts
This is so embarrassing and immature if I was aware of my physician ever doing this I’d refuse treatment from them
I died on the gurney in the e.d. I'm glad the medical staff worked so hard to bring me back instead of running out into the hall to make a video.
She 100% took a patient dying and made it about herself. Yes it’s unethical
Among other things.
The person who died doesn’t care, so why should anyone?
@@user-sf9gs2pg1b it's disrespectful to the family, and it's showing that the nurse really doesn't care about the patient at all. She took the first opportunity she could to make it about herself
@@user-sf9gs2pg1b bruh she recorded a tik tok mere moments after her patient DIED and is overdramatising her reaction for views it’s gross and completely unethical
@@quietdemon8138 how do we know it was literally after a real patient died, instead of her trying to show what that situation is like?!
She opened tiktok, set up her phone in a good angle, show her fake cringe emotion, apply the song/text etc. wonder how many takes did she have to do in order for her to post this 🤮🤮🤮
Exactly
I always just imagine them going on their phone, setting everyting up, searching the song they want to use and then putting the "oh I'm so sad" face on for the video
Disgusting
I hate what people have become because of social media
I won't say the emotions were fake
This is why I don't like tiktok.
Lol
@@mcdragon0123 sure they aren't.. but she went home had a glass of wine n saw those views go up .. now it's another day for her . But the patients family ? Don't see them doin tik toks
The last thing a person experiencing real grief wants to do is record it.
I developed very close relationships with a few patients when i worked in a nursing home. I considered them actual friends, not residents. Id have lunch breaks in their rooms chatting, theyd give me cookies and id just let them tell me their stories.
Not once when my friends died did i ever think of making some weird tiktok. If youre able to process the thought of " i should record my grief" - youre probably not really grieving. The most i did was reach out to their families and offer condolences. I dont need strangers online giving me sympathy. Ill cry in private.
Rest in Peace Maidi and Nana Lois 🕊
We live in a world were people want to be seen as some sort of local celebrity instead of acting professional when dealing with serious matters.
It can be considered an addiction now..24/7 seeking attention
Things chnagr snd prople judge on things they never have to do
Ikr, have some dignity in your job
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Long story short, people have brain damage. Still acting like a bunch of children in grade school.
Ppl who record themselves acting sad never fails to make me cringe.
😂😂😂 I can feel my skin crawling away watching this video
Hmm notice the likes on this 666... just gonna leave this here....
"My dad just died 😫" and it has the female tik tok voiceover
@@andrewgoodman4367 I see 962 likes
This and funeral selfies, man. Talk about questionable life choices..
How ridiculous!! She's not thinking about the patient she lost, she is thinking about how she can be a centre of attention and get sympathy from other 🙄😒
She should be fired. That’s unacceptable.
Social media is the worst thing that has ever happened to mankind.
True, very true. I don't know how can this be fixed
Completely agree. Ironically it is making us anti social.
No i disagree...It's just a symptom...the result of the rampant simpery
I agree
It just shows the true side of these people. SM is just a platform, its the people who post it.
Yep, staging yourself in front of a camera like this is unprofessional, and narcissistic. It's not about you, and it's all about the patient, and yes, their family too.
I agree 100
Sometimes when you don’t see it, you don’t believe it.
There’s a lot of them on tiktok.
She’s not grieving , she is performing and it’s disgusting.
She should be in prison for the level of cringe alone
I have been a nurse for 30+ years.
This was VERY unprofessional and yes, unethical. It's never about YOU!
... and disturbing.
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its probably also against the privacy policy
It sucks that you feel that way. It's not healthy.
I left nursing 15 years ago, because of jerks like you!!!
Just because she saw someone die doesn’t mean she can just turn on a camera and showcase her emotion and put on music and everything else. This isn’t about you.
This is morbid
Wow I can’t believe someone actually commented this
@@flawlessclaws120 Why not...it's spot on.
@@flawlessclaws120 you’re probably one of those sheep from tiktok who blindly comment under videos like the nurses with all your love and support like an npc
It's morbin time!
Why is it morbid, we aren't seeing a body or a sheet covering the body with her next to it. Maybe you should learn what morbid really is.
Imagine your dads dead and the nurse that failed to keep him alive hits the griddy
Weird. I have only been upset once in the healthcare field, i do hold some grief when a patient does pass away but i just talk to a good friend or psychologist (they offer free mental health services usually at the workplace). These tiktokers do it for attention, it is unprofessional. Social media is our downfall.
So emotional and over whelmed. You grabbed your phone, opened an app, set up your phone, hit record, walked away ,recorded youself, walked back to your phone, hit stop, did overlays, selected a song, trimed the video, watched it, then posted it.
This is a performance piece.
Right! so embarrassing to watch knowing thats what they do, so disingenuous and cringe‼️ yikes 🫣
@@salh9276 That music is also cringe worthy.
Factzzz
Damn. Smfh so sad
Wow, saying it like that really puts in into perspective.
I’ve worked in a lvl 1 trauma ER and seen countless reactions after a patient codes and passes. No one’s reaction was grabbing a phone and recording themselves. The audacity of these people to seek attention after one passes is truly astonishing.
welcome to socialist media grooming narcissism.
It’s sickening
Well, PRAISE JESUS cuz, I surely hope not!
Cheers to half the world that doesn’t suffer from grandiose delusions.
I never cried when patients die💔 I wait until I get in my car to vent alone.
Seems it would be crossing so many lines. This would be technically “taking a break” right??
I was born in the 80's and so happy that I did not have social media in high school. I hate Tik Tok and my daughter is on it a lot. I think that it is a beautiful thing to be able to get an education online and connect with so many people from all across the world but we need to get back to basics, what happened to reading a book, going outdoors, and eating without your phone at the table?
When a patient passes away, it’s not natural to take the time/effort to position the phone just right to then be able to accurately video record her own ‘natural reaction to someone’s passing‘ . .
I’m a nurse, while true we feel really down after losing a patient, but you know what? It shouldn’t be about us. We don’t make it about us. We move on and carry on with our duties. We don’t make videos for attention. That’s just really unprofessional and a narcissistic behavior.
I agree. NEVER in my 30+ years as a Nurse have I ever felt the need to make a patients death a spectacle. So self absorbed.
YES!
My first thought would be what if my patients family saw this, it’s so disrespectful
I'm a RRT. I can't see doing a video like this. I am older; but, that is ridiculous!
@@basicallybabs cause ur old
@@basicallybabs you prob have a patient die and say shi man well another dead
I always thought someone recording themselves crying or snapping a picture of themselves crying was weird! This world is too invested into social media. I'm a 90's baby (91 to be exact) and you can't pay me to be bothered with anyone if I go through something traumatic. I don't even want anyone in my face. Everything does not have to be recorded. It comes off as attention seeking versus being emotionally drained
I'm 94 born. And I can't even imagine switching on the camera and then reacting/acting .....
This is the late 00s (07) talking. I don’t even post any social media pictures with my face or identity on it (including tik tok), and filming myself acting like that and posting it onto the internet is an absolute hell no for me. I don’t get why people would share things like that. Sure it’s good to have yourself heard. But that all acting and posing, it’s too extra
I would never do that either it just doesn’t make any sense it’s like what was the point of all of that really embarrassing lol
‘89 here. It also never occurs to me to do this.
@@Songs-lr4wt Ayeeee I'm 94 too, which month?
they couldn't have been too upset when their first thought is: "hey, i have to get this on tik-tok".
I've been in health care sector as frontline staff for the last 9 years. I've never grieved like this and I don't know any colleague doing this either. If someone's death touches me deeply, I allow myself few seconds of sadness and regrets then I have to go back to work, to look after the rest of the patients.
Yep, "have to go back to work". EXACTLY. When I actually had a few minutes to spare, I took the opportunity to finally use the restroom.
@@morgankelly9725 yep, I can't tell how many times I postponed to go to toilet "let's finish only this, and this, and this one now's calling for a bed pan" until I was almost bursting.
The loss of sincerity we have suffered due to social media is just the worst thing.
I couldn’t agree more.
I can relate to her because she probably reached a point where after seeing someone pass away, nothing can make her stay motivated easier than a tik tok. As strange as that sounds.
If I saw a deployed soldier doing the same, I could understand why they would feel like doing that after seeing +5 of their friends pass away in such a short period of time
You're on social media right now, does that include you? 😂
@@diahreea2022 I’d never set up a phone and film myself in the hallway.
@@nonid5627 It’s not fair. You don’t have the same responsibilities as the person who made this tik tok. So you’ll never have to experience, for example, seeing 10 people pass away on the same day, followed by another 5 passing away the next day.
I don’t know how I’ll react either or do to cope with seeing the loss of many. Doing a tik tok on the hallway sounds like a good therapy
She was so grief stricken that she set up a camera, added music, and dramatically walked and posed at just the right angle to display her grief…
😂😂
LMAOOO
And without shedding a single tear .. smh
Oscar award 👏
and her cute butt
When I lose a patient, i dont want to talk to anyone. Let alone go to my phone and stage how sad I am. Incredibly unprofessional behavior
If she actually cared about the patient she would not use their death for personal gain/attention. Where is her dignity? And how about respecting the dignity of your patient? I think it's completely disgusting and these people should be fired.
I’m a doctor and I’ve cried many times while in a room with a patient that’s about to die or when examining them to pronounce death. I’ve never once thought this would be a great time set up a tripod and record this. I caught flack from hospital CEOs for just mentioning stuff that happened in the hospital on Facebook. There would be hell to pay if I recorded a video.
You think she recorded this right after someone died. I'm surprised your even a doctor if you couldn't figure out she's acting she didn't record this right after someone died. I guess that PHD doesn't come with common understanding.
@@angelmedina2762 More babble!
If these millenial nurses want to "share" their grief they should do it in a documentary, or in a book. Theses silly and disrespectful tik tok videos should face some legal consequences.
@@JANK-qm9vg how do you know they're not 😂😂
@@angelmedina2762 how pathetic and cringy to “act” sad on camera. That doesn’t make it any better.
My mum is a nurse and one of her patients died, she would never do anything like this, this is just disrespectful and wrong.
We should all message her: "Wow, what an terrible experience you had... it's amazing you made it through..."
Everyone needs support. Health care workers deserve better support they deal with grief every day and hide it better than anyone.
Even in the face of another's death, tiktokers still manage to make everything about themselves. And people wonder why so many of us have lost faith in humanity...
Agreed
exactly. i've seen teens (19-20) with large platforms pass away and their "friends" all of a sudden swoop in and make 10 videos in a row saying "Why didn't *I* see the signs? *I* wish *I* was able to do something... *I* am hurting so bad..." it's ridiculous.
World is going to sh**
@@goarmybeatnavy841 hi Clint bad nurse work bad eithics
No lie. This is a officially a me me me. Me world we live in. Someone can die or be sick and someone will make it about them
As a PICU nurse who unfortunately experiences children’s deaths a few times a year…this nurse is ridiculous. The real nurses I promise you grieve quietly while working and get right back to work so the next child has a fighting chance.
Please show the nurse in the video all the Love and Respect she deserves
@@ACXIAO666be quiet troll
Nope
It would have been different if someone else was taping without her knowledge... but for her to do it shows it's for attention. And that's disgusting. I had a friend who taped herself after her still birth baby... and I know her well, it was all drama. Narcissistic behavior runs wild these days. As a mom of 7, I would never put that out there because it's between me and my baby😢💔
@@beckyjbarkeri don’t get it still birth mean just born or something happened to the baby
If CRINGE were a person.
Karens wanting to be Instagram famous
I was an EMT for 12 years, I worked 5 years in an emergency room and have seen many patients sadly not make it. The worst was when we did CPR on a one month old that did not make it. I walked out of the ER and cried. I would NEVER make a video of me after that happened. This nurse did this for attention in my opinion and it was beyond unprofessional.
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got me rethinking about being a nurse 🥲🥲😔😔😔
Cool story
@@HellfireHellesto God sees you
@@lifewitkassie emergency medical, or any patient care can be emotionally draining some days; other times is very rewarding. As much as you try to put your emotions in a box, some patients slip thru and it hurts to lose them, or watch them suffer. If you want to help people, and really care, patients need you. I loved being a paramedic and miss it terribly.
This still isn't the worst thing I've seen. Remember that mom who was dancing next to her dying child? .-. social media has brought out the monster in everyone.
I haven’t seen that one, kinda glad.
The what? Why aren't this types of videos banned?
Huh? Who does that?
@@SieMiezekatze i don't think tiktok has an AI to detect and ban videos on this basis
In some.
Maybe they're all low-key auditioning for a Nurse Jackie reboot?
😭😭😭😂😂The nurses twerking randomly HAD ME WEAKKKKK 1:07 😭😭🤣🤣
When you set up a camera to film yourself mourning over a patient, it’s more about acting rather than feeling the full emotions of grief. Who does this? I’m a nurse. Worked in ICU for many years, lost many patients. I would never video myself over something like this. This is more about “likes” and recognition. Social media has destroyed our moral values.
You're right .
Good morals and right conduct is so poor nowadays..not just young ones but older ones trying to be hip
this is why tik tok should be banned..
So true!
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it would be a different story if someone else, like another patient, took a photo of the nurse to showcase what they can go through during a difficult moment. But I agree that taking the time to set up a camera and video of yourself getting emotional for views is out of line professionally.
I agree when it was "stolen shot"
I’ll be there with a camera the next time you cry.
Yep
My wife is a nurse and she doesn’t act like this gal in the news clip at all
@@Joe_Brown99 really grandpa....
Only old people use the word gal
@@SUGAR_XYLER what does it matter the word he used? If you focused on that instead of the substance of what he was trying to say you have bigger issues that you get trigerred by word usage..news flash, you share the world with people of all ages
I was in emergency services for 16 years. I had to put up a wall inside in order to do my job. Sometimes it didn't work and I used to feel guilty for my emotions. As bad as i felt I knew the family and friends felt so much worse. Even if social media had been around back then, i cannot imagine wanting to capture those moments on video and post them for the world. She's making the death of a patient about her. It just doesn't feel right.
We need to get rid of TikTok and other such narcissism factories.
I’m a nurse, who graduated in ’93. Her behavior is absolutely unprofessional. It’s heartbreaking when you lose a patient, but maintain your professionalism and dignity….that’s how you honor your deceased patient.
She's full of it! Nothing about this is real. Don't get me wrong, I would be balling my eyes out for at least the first ten or so patients that died on me before I would be immune to it, but there is no way in bloody hell I would set up a recording of it, find some music, and post it online. I'd be in the bathroom or my car or on the phone with my husband or something of that nature, and crying in private. This woman is a complete attention seeking jerk!
No it’s just plain NARCISSISTIC and DISGUSTING!
Don't be a snowflake it's just a tiktok video
@@hayabusa1329 don’t be stupid it’s obvious what it is and what this world is teaching society to care about!
@@hayabusa1329disrespecting a patient and being unprofessional
Imagine being SO overwhelmed with emotion from the pain of losing someone, that you setup your tripod, record a video and then edit it with proper color correction, perfectly timed text captions and a musical overlay.
She could have saved a step if she used the corpses dead hand to hold her phone for her...
@@drewpknutz1410 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅
@@drewpknutz1410 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
Litterally
I still remember the first patient I ever lost, and telling the family that she will be alright, she coded (unexpectedly) and couldn’t be resuscitated. When I found out, I was shocked. I put my phone down and didn’t even text the attending back because I was shocked. Truly shocked. My attending asked me if I was ok, and I remembered at that time I hadn’t even responded back. I was so shocked I couldn’t even process the emotions and then 30 minutes later I broke down in tears. You know what wasn’t on mind? Let me record myself. That idea has never crossed my mind even regardless of the amount of lives lost. This is not just cringey but also insincere. It’s staged and not a true reflection at all of what healthcare workers truly experience when a patient dies.
Not too long ago I had a patient who died at the beginning of my shift. I'll probably never forget it because that was the first time I had NOBODY to call for a patient. No family no friends , nobody .... I said a prayer for the patient and felt sad but I would never pull out my phone to record anything that happens while I'm at work ..... I will never understand why people do it .....
They need to stop this.Everything doesn’t have to go on social media.
That's why I rarely use social media
@shortie finest it's true people only care about Themselves that why people Commit suicide and there is Attack shooting happening at schools and placeing because no one care and staff at schools don't care and let people get bully and the bully things they can get away and then they get into the real world people murder other people and people shoot schools and people Steal things. This Just Make Me Hate Being American i wish was Canadian.
For real
we stan
So true
This is honestly the most pathetic thing I have ever seen… Before this nurse was leaning against the wall in turmoil… First she had to open up TikTok, propped her phone up, then stepped to the correct place, so she could start crying and put her head in her hands.
How on earth do people do this? I have so much secondhand embarrassment for you. How pathetic
That's exactly the word I was looking for.... Secondhand embarrassment.
@@medix1203that’s two words
I genuinely feel sad for those who have lost loved ones. I’ve lost family and friends in death also and I know the pain that comes with that. Nevertheless, this comment had me laughing because I was thinking the same thing. I’m guessing that maybe they felt bad / sad for the patients that died. However, it is interesting to me that they felt the need and took the time to do what was necessary to record their reaction for others to see. 🤔
What's her political affiliation? I'm betting politics plays a role in this
@@christophermonarch3267 it was meant to be a joke, like biden said "2 words , made in America" I figured that people would get it... I guess not 😂
It just shows how compassionate she is! I always thought that they didn’t care! But THEY do!
As a healthcare professional who has lost dozens of patients during Covid. This is sick and cringey.
Damn I hope I’m never in your care 🤣
@@LivingStone4Christ LMAAAAOOOO
U let them all go or what?
If you’re not lying, maybe try another profession like seriously 🤣
If you've lost dozens of patients, you shouldn't be a doctor
She's so distraught that she's picking up her phone, and setting it up to record her "grief".
Narcissism at it's finest.
We truly can't understand what they go through. How they deal with it speaks volumes.
Imagine dying in a hospital and the nurse emoting over your body like 💃 🕺
It’s distasteful. Can you imagine if a family member found out she was using the death of their loved one for what- likes or shares? It’s disrespectful.
There’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with this. She’s a grieving nurse, and because she’s posting it on her TikTok to show what it’s like to be a nurse during this pandemic, that makes her some performative actress looking for attention? C’mon y’all, have some damn empathy.
@@JacksonPlayzGames nah she's a weirdo
@@JacksonPlayzGames If you take the time to SET UP YOUR PHONE and play out movements that aren’t natural since you KNOW you’re recording yourself is most certainly her ACTING for her camera. No one in their right mind would spend the time nor have the energy to record themselves grieving, that’s insanity. Go to the bathroom and cry, yell, scream, whatever don’t make yourself a victim for likes when the real victim is the person who DIED. It’s beyond distasteful.
@@kje5120 lmao 😂
@@kje5120 so you think there's nothing wrong in using a dead person for fame?
I'm a retired firefighter, and I've had a LOT of patients pass due to the extent of their injuries. NEVER ONCE DID I EVER THINK OF RECORDING MYSELF GRIEVING THE LOSS OF ANY OF THEM!
THIS IS APPALLING AND PATHETIC!
Thank you for your service
Everyone wants to be TikTok famous. This also includes instagram. Pathetic
Thank you for your service and I think it's very sick and twisted somebody would post something like that because they're making it about them. I don't know why everybody these days wants to be a tiktok star.
I have firefighters in my family. Right now my brother is working in DC. I thank you for your service!
Doesn't mean you didn't grieve
As a former Critical Care RN - I find this inexcusable. It’s critical that we maintain our humanity while not allowing our emotions to impede our ability to do our job. I’ve cried at times- most of us have. It’s okay. But to post an emotional reaction on social media with music!? I have to question what prompted it. My dad was a Philadelphia Firefighter, I was an ER nurse and my brother is a Funeral Director. We have all experienced emotional trauma- we cope - we talk it out with peers/ family- we don’t advertise it to millions and hope someone will hit the “like and subscribe “ button!
She must've been TOO SAD because couldn't type "shake IT off." 🙄 What a doofus.
My sister has her patients pass away all the time. She works with the elderly. You know what she does? She writes their stories in books. She writes the lessons they taught her. She grieves with me by her side. She doesn't post it because, it's disrespectful to the persons memory and their family.
Does she publish the books? I think you said she doesn't, but I want to double check, because if she does publish them, I want to buy them.
@@merissadoesstuff No she doesn't. She doesn't believe it's right to make money off of their life. She writes their stories for herself. She never wants to forgot the people that taught her so many things.
That is actually so nice
Thats so sweet of her! I'm sure her patients would've loved that.
THANK YOOOOOOUUU REEEEAAAALLL WOOOOMMMMAAANNNN!!!
The fact that she had to prop her phone up, or get someone to hit the record button is absolutely absurd. This should go below our society's standards ,but our society unfortunately deems things like this as the norm and only feeds it. How disgusting.
exactly what i was thinkin..
And she’s showing her ass off in scrubs for the thirst factor. Gross.
They said third time is a charm,Am officially a nurse now. To all my repeat test taker I pray y'all make it some day but will advise you keep reading and believing in yourself ☺️🎉
@@De-Zay The NCLEX exam is really frustrating, I can't believe I failed again after studying so much🥺🥺😓😭😭
@@stephenmc8271 You will pass Every one has their own season,just keep going pray and believe you will receive
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who witnesses a death of a patient and then says grab the camera and film me upset over it? very odd
After having just retired from 30 years in the fire service, yeah I felt the same way after losing a patient, but I NEVER filmed it, much less acted like this in public, I saved the emotional breakdown in the PRIVACY of my own bunk back at the station. This isn't a very wise thing to do what this nurse is doing. Just my humble opinion.
Congrats on your retirement brother. Well deserved
@@OneSmellyTaco Thanks, it was one Hell of a ride.
First thank you sir for so many hats of hard amazing service, blood , sweat and tears. Congratulations to you on your retirement 👏! See your generation was much more respectful of privacy and doing things respectful ways, sadly your a dying breed in this world.
Not everyone is private and it's OK to know your not a mute when it comes to work nor happy about the deaths. Maybe you were happy about them and just giving excuses to judge that lady.
She’s acting like she cares when she doesn’t
my dad was a doctor and losing a patient would ruin his entire day. taking a video of himself grieving is quite possibly the last thing he would ever think about doing. performative and frankly, gross and narcissistic. all for tik tok views.
Your dad is a good man.
Everyone that has TikTok freaking tries to give views from doing dances I don’t think she’s trying to refuse I think this was a way of coping with the loss for her Get your head out of your phone and think before you type Also keep your comments to yourself I know you want to say this but in my opinion if you have anything mean to say or say this is unethical look at yourself and think would you do the same thing if it was your way of coping
@@YuyaSakaki385 She was not trying to get views on TikTok from dancing. She was exploiting the fact that her patient died to guilt-trip users into giving her publicity. It is not a way of coping, it is a way to get attention. No decent person would do that to manage. Think before you type.
@@YuyaSakaki385 sorry but you can cope without making the death of someone else all about you, specially while you're still inside the premises of the hospital.
I won't go out and say this is unethical but it sure is both unprofessional and really narcissistic.
Which isn't at all surprising the US has become oh so fantastic at raising narcissists in the last couple years thanks to social media such as Facebook, TikTok, etc.
@@YuyaSakaki385 found her.
@01:12 had me cracking up, didn't know if she was trying Martials Arts for the 1st time or doing robotic jersaurelm dance challenge move.
I could care less about the nurse griefing and filming herself, FWIW
this would have been so different if she was *caught* on camera by someone else and she didn't know it. It would have a totally different ring to it. However, as many people have said her patient died and she said to herself "Self, set up your camera and "catch" yourself crying and having an emotional breakdown as if it was spontaneous." Cringe. She was performing 100%
If she was really distraught about losing a patient, she wouldn't have turned on her phone, set it up, opened TikTok and filmed herself pretending to be upset.
I hate that Social Media has made people in our Society think this is normal and okay..
Thanks for your efficient psychological mumbo jumbo.🙏🏻😌
It’s a drug addiction. She wants the likes so she can get that dopamine. Just going further and further to get it. No different than someone taking more and more heroin to chase that dragon
... and choose the right song from the playlist.. tsk tsk. Not cool.
I think she did it to show how the medical staff feel after losing a patient. They aren't cold hearted. They have feelings too
I agree. Although I would never go about it this way.
My mom was a neo natal nurse for 44 years. She never talked about anything unless it was extremely overwhelming and just broke down
As a retired nurse I can tell you I would NEVER have done this,five of my twenty year career were spent on an Oncology unit,I’ve been retired for forty two years now,I still remember the names and faces of my terminally ill cancer patients,I would be FURIOUS if I recognized this nurse as the one who took care of my relative,it’s extremely difficult to watch a person die ,even more difficult to inform a family member that their loved one has passed ,I don’t go on any social media sites ,in my opinion this was grandstanding and should NEVER been posted .
Well said, and God bless 🙏
She used a death for attention. Bottom of the barrel behavior from a supposed professional. Thank God for nurses like you.
Baha cry about it 😆
Thank you for everything you have done, I 100% agree with you
Personally i totally understand what you said n id do the same too but if i felt like i realllyyy need to share it with someone bcz its too much to keep it in then i would make a video too n just talk about it, sad songs n expressing that im sad, it is not my style id be more into just talking one sidedly in the video OR talk on live video with viewers.
I’m an RN and deal with death everyday, this is unprofessional, just deal with it quietly!! Medicine and healthcare is not the place for social media!!
I saw it as...now I know they not mutes or happy about deaths
I think she was trying to convey how difficult it can be for healthcare professionals in a general sense, not necessarily referring to one exact incident.
@@haleybryan3606 if you want understanding of the difficulties of healthcare, go to a hospital or clinic, this person is disgusting and unprofessional, she's just doing it for clout.
When a nurse loose a patient u can't tell her/him how to grieve, video is not necessary. We have no idea what's going on in the mind of a nurse🤔
I concurr and been an R.N for 15 years
I was a MEDIC for over 30 years, this is weak and narcissistic…..!
imagine coming back as a ghost and having to see this nurse post about your death ..
As a Nurse myself this conduct and display of emotion is seeking attention at the patient’s expense.
*YOU*
Should thank ALL the women....who wanted all these "movements".
After these movements that ruined the World........I ask myself, what benefit or positive things have happened, ever since ????????
@@cobrakainevereverdies6940 true
Here's the thing...someone dies and her first reaction is to record herself for likes. I get it we all handle death differently but this ain't it
Yes, because the patient was hurt
Women need the firm hand of a man to guide them.
It's one thing if she needs a private moment or a moment with a loved one or therapist but recording it and putting it online fells very ingenuine.
Cry me a river 😆
@@Tasha28289 Así que puedes ahogarte en él 😉
@@Tasha28289 Go to sleep in a river
it screams look at me, I need attention..
@@Tasha28289 found the nurse who washes the bedpans guys
This is a great example of "once you put it on the internet, it's there forever." 10 years from now, this will still be here. It's not that big of a deal, we all go through the cringe phase, it's part of life.
Who pulls out their cellphone to videotape their grief in the moment? Narcissistic people, thats who!!!! This is sick! And she shld've been reprimanded, if not lost her job! Highly unprofessional... and ABSOLUTELY UNETHICAL!!!
Disgusting!!!
My wife was a hospice nurse for over 5 years. Never, ever, would she have made herself the center of attention when a family looses a loved one.
Correct
Yup
Loses*
Because your wife has decency and respect...Bless her. That's a job I would never have the strength to do.
*loses
I've worked in health care at major medical facilities for 35 years, I've had patients hold my hand and take their last breath, I would never post my grief, I actually find this kind of bizarre.
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@@quitaulla1569 Probably not as bizarre as this individual right here.
@@Quinn8529 Let her express her feelings how she wants to. As long as she is not hurting anybody!! Give me a brake all of you sour people! 😝😝
U guys fart
@@quitaulla1569 So in you're opinon acting unprofessional and narcissistic = expressing her feelings?
I've worked in nursing homes where patients laid on a piece of matress and springs going in their skin, and Noone cared 😢 I'd cry all the way home
This kind of stuff is why i hate people so much.
as a nurse, i’m shocked that she even had time to do this. i had to schedule my crying inconsolably and cig break at the same time. i-
edit: i meant, crying inconsolably, granola bar, and cig break lol
One wonders if planning this video was on her mind when the patient was still alive.
You what?
Or in the car after you punch out.
I always see people complaining about nurses smoking cigs, because it's "hypocritical." Honestly, if I was a nurse, I think I'd be doing worse than a cigarette.
Yall act like you're not sitting on your ass "charting" the entire shift
This is disturbing on so many levels. A breakdown is when you're overcome with emotion to the point where you can't focus on things like setting up a camera angle for a trashy social media skit. Crying for the camera is not a form of art. Its a form of deception. Being a nurse is a very serious profession. When women don't take it seriously because they're too consumed with internet clout, it makes a mockery of good nurses. She very well deserves to be dragged for this.
Wouldn't be surprised if she ended up fired for negative publicity.
Right. When my Husband died I cried for months, all day every single day. The few selfies I took were when I was in a decent mood, besides one where my mascara ran down in a cool way. Either way, I didn't post any of the selfies I took.
Yeah, as a nurse this really bothers me. Instead of focusing on the patients family and loved ones, and comforting them in this time, she's making Tiktok videos, being completely selfish and acting like this is all about her. It wasn't her family member that passed. Idk why she thought she needed to be the center of attention during a time like that. It's gross.
WeLL Said 👏🏾
Exactly!!! Who tf can film themselves while they’re having a breakdown??
People can show grief, but there is a right way and a wrong way of doing it. They dont have to record their grief for all the world to see.
I can’t imagine dying and one of my doctors is thinking while trying to “keep” me alive.
(when they die, ima post a tiktok about how sad I am about it)
As a nurse who has unfortunately lost my share of patients (nursing home)....this is disgusting.
It's not really. I think it's perfectly fine to express themselves in this manner
Thank you for the work you do. My Mom worked in nursing homes throughout my childhood into young adulthood. I know how hard those losses can be. When my Son was little, we would take him by to trick or treat, and so many of the patients knew who he was because my Mom got to know them, and them her. Heart of gold to work in that field.
I am also a RN (retired about 12 years). Lost patients during my career…. But the very last thing I would ever do … is make that about myself. This really bothers me that she felt like she needed to post this on social media for the world to see. If it has finally become to much .. ok, its time to leave and do something else, get help etc.. etc.. But posting this ..how does this help except to make it about her and get views ???
Maybe it's a form of therapy. You may be fine and able to cope, maybe this is a source of comfort to preserve their wellbeing in a job that can be stressful and thankless
@@dalrn4764 she's entitled to look after her mental health as well. Depending on how traumatizing it was for her, maybe this was a form of therapy. I think we just all stop judging just bcoz it's not our way of coping
I'm a nurse and I've dealt with a patient dying. It's something personal that I wanted to keep it private. No way in hell would I want to post it on the internet for the whole world to see. Not only is it disrespectful to patient who passed away and their family but it's just plain distasteful.