Joyce Meyer, CeCe Winans, Lisa Harper: Stop People Pleasing | FULL EPISODE | Better Together TV

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • This week on Better Together, Laurie Crouch, Joyce Meyer, CeCe Winans, Lisa Harper, and Elisabeth Hasselbeck discuss how to stop being a people pleaser.
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Комментарии • 144

  • @melaniethermidor
    @melaniethermidor 2 года назад

    Peace with God has nothing to do with the approval of other people. Yesss!

  • @TiffanyLolonda
    @TiffanyLolonda 3 года назад +56

    This was good and powerful! I definitely had to learn to stop making idols out of the people around me!! Thank you, Better Together!

  • @PatriciaLopez-fn8el
    @PatriciaLopez-fn8el 3 года назад +4

    People pleasing is EXHAUSTING ❤🙏❤🙏✝️

  • @raviromanyeruke5187
    @raviromanyeruke5187 2 года назад +4

    Wooow this show is so holy spirit filled and so peaceful. This episode is really good. I'm blessed to have taken a break from work to listen and watch it. Thank you TBN and the cast.

  • @Honeysuckle33
    @Honeysuckle33 Год назад +1

    I started crying when Joyce said what her father did. My father hurt me too. Thank God for your goodness

  • @antoinetterodriquez
    @antoinetterodriquez 3 года назад +25

    Oh my God I can’t stop crying I was at hurting little girl people pleaser wanted friends one family to love me I was also molested by a different man of my mothers friends I struggle with those things but I also love the Lord and I’ve been a Christian for a long time but I struggled with a lot of things but today I can see that the Holy Spirit is moving and guiding in me and I love listening to all you ladies I am so happy someone sent me a RUclips video of you guys and I’ve been did you guys ever since also reading my Bible and praying ❤️🙏🏻💯 thank you all so much God is good and can you guys please say a prayer for my sister because she said about situation with her unforgiving husband they’ve been through some things and she’s asked God to forgive her and she’s trying to move on it’s a mess but she need your prayers her name is Geraldine 🥰I am going to forward this video to her thank you ladies love you all keep encouraging us we needed so grateful and thankful for you guys I spread your RUclips channel like wildfire

    • @bubbleb3199
      @bubbleb3199 2 года назад

      You are a good sister , your sister is blessed to have you and I bet your mum to is 🥺🙏May the good God heal her and easen her husband's heart and mind ❤️God bless you

  • @wandaperez5484
    @wandaperez5484 3 года назад +1

    The approval we need is God's approval.Its so healthy and peaceful.

  • @Lana-ro6cb
    @Lana-ro6cb 3 года назад +18

    Pleasing God puts you in a position to bless people

  • @tc8970
    @tc8970 3 года назад +8

    No more ppl pleasing. Trusting the process!! If God be for me who can be against me.

  • @mamajopack4102
    @mamajopack4102 3 года назад +44

    Saying no is not being mean. God says no. I have realized when God says no it’s for my protection.

    • @hendersonfreeman9308
      @hendersonfreeman9308 3 года назад

      You can also protect yourself you know that right mama jo pack

  • @marisamartinez6573
    @marisamartinez6573 3 года назад +15

    I am binge watching so many of these because I needed encouragement today. Thank you for blessing us with this ministry ❤️

  • @marymalloy2848
    @marymalloy2848 3 года назад +7

    Thanks Joyce for being Real about people pleasing. Thank God, I got delivered from that.

  • @melaniethermidor
    @melaniethermidor 2 года назад

    Encouragement and flattery are completely different!!! Yes!!!!

  • @melaniethermidor
    @melaniethermidor 2 года назад

    Joyce Meyers is the G.O.A.T. Thank you for sharing what you went through with us and how God brought you through.

  • @prycerobertson4695
    @prycerobertson4695 3 года назад +1

    You need to bring Lisa on Better Together! She is a true woman of faith.

  • @ritabrandow1318
    @ritabrandow1318 2 года назад

    My dad didn't use angry but this is love. Let me love you. It started when I was 5. It happened for a long time. I truly thought this is how you love your dad. This was in 1955 it started. It wasn't talked about. He did things to make it a pleasure. I always thought I was no good because I enjoyed it. But My cousin finally made me understand. God created me to enjoy it but it should have been with my husband. I was just a child. My body was just responding. I had other Christians condemns me for it

  • @melaniethermidor
    @melaniethermidor 2 года назад

    Cece’s song “You are Worthy of it All” be on replay!!!

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem 3 года назад +2

    "I don't want to 'should' all over myself" 😂😂😂😂😂#truth I have called them "the dreaded should's" but I love that so much🤣

  • @marthabouknight1087
    @marthabouknight1087 3 года назад +6

    Cannot tell u how deeply this video spoke to me. I am a people pleaser but I am learning that pleasing God should always b my first step toward redemption 🙏🏻

  • @renewedheartmind2898
    @renewedheartmind2898 3 года назад +10

    This is a treasure worth keeping. Thank you women of God for your honesty and transparency.

  • @barbarabarber3286
    @barbarabarber3286 3 года назад +13

    I just put a book of my blogs about losing my son to suicide. I had to be obedient to share it. God will put it in the right hands to hear my journey through grief where He never left my side.

    • @hendersonfreeman9308
      @hendersonfreeman9308 3 года назад

      I’m really really sorry about your lost and I believe in your strong faith and I believe it will get better soon I want to know such strong individual as you

    • @carriegarcia2392
      @carriegarcia2392 3 года назад

      Love you it's a hard journey, loss my daughter, Nicole. There's is no pain so great, Never forget God's power Love, and His Mercy's, Don't lishen to the lies of the enemy, If you feel like crying please let those tears flow, The enemy. Made me feel guilty about crying, saying get over it already, our you just want sympathy, so I hardened my heart, and stopped the flow of the holy Spirit, Love is what heal, May God hold you tight 💔➕❤️

  • @MyPersonalCoachingClub
    @MyPersonalCoachingClub 3 года назад +20

    Yes! God's opinion of us is the real deal 🌻

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад

      Unfortunately dysfunctional family member and the toxic society we live in lead us to believe otherwise. My mother is very narcicisstic, and she is consumed with opinions of others. I would be so frustrated when she would tell my son to do this or that. Because she wouldn't want people to think this or that about him. Smh.

  • @katherineirvin7464
    @katherineirvin7464 3 года назад +1

    This talk is liberating and validating.

  • @MichelleSears
    @MichelleSears 3 года назад +2

    God works on me in this area almost every single day. Thank you Lord that You never give up on me.

  • @carriegarcia2392
    @carriegarcia2392 3 года назад +19

    Being perscuted, and was bullied all my life. But God said it was to prepare me, I want so bad to be loved and people to know what kind a person I really am , love you guys, my strength is in the love God gives me, pray for some one, 🙏🌹💔➕❤️

    • @carriegarcia2392
      @carriegarcia2392 3 года назад +2

      This is so powerful. Nothing is so powerful as daughter of God coming together, please pray for me to have this 💔➕❤️

    • @hendersonfreeman9308
      @hendersonfreeman9308 3 года назад

      Wow I think you’re a strong believer right

  • @deannaj91
    @deannaj91 3 года назад +1

    When you say no to others you say yes to you

    • @Frkpii2
      @Frkpii2 2 года назад

      I would like to add a "sometimes" in the beginning of your sentence

  • @marymalloy2848
    @marymalloy2848 3 года назад +1

    Awesome! Tell the truth. Pleasing God is much better than pleasing man.🤗

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +12

    I feel as though I have learned to say no when I need to, and that I have set and keep boundaries in Jesus name.

  • @jacquelinecurry4912
    @jacquelinecurry4912 3 года назад +1

    Thank you ladies for reminding me to listen to God and not let other's opinions control my call from God

  • @NoahMSM2763
    @NoahMSM2763 2 года назад +1

    Just found this channel today and I’am so pleased , I do recognize some of the ladies here nice to see. As woman we wear to many worldly hats that are needed. Choose Jesus first and meditate and worship him only.

  • @florencerumbidzaihlupo3074
    @florencerumbidzaihlupo3074 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for the word.🙏🙏..l will fight to please God , and not be a people pleaser because at the end of the day l can never please everyone

  • @margogay662
    @margogay662 3 года назад +3

    Love 💕 you precious ladies! (Truly from my heart!) Blessings! Awesome! Obey God rather than man! Amen! Absolutely. God is first in my life!

  • @mayapitoy
    @mayapitoy 2 года назад

    These ladies brought me such a peace in heart - in hearing their Authentic Testimonies... I hope one day i can meet each of you..

  • @lynzie86
    @lynzie86 3 года назад +3

    OMG. I needed this so much. People pleasing has caused me so much pain and stress over the years! Still working on it. Imagine I have a book on it and it is catching dust smh. I gotta finish this book Joyce!

  • @beverlycox3061
    @beverlycox3061 3 года назад +1

    I needed this especially when others put me down a lot not correction but actually critical I try to stay peaceful

  • @RuzicaOgnjenovicruska
    @RuzicaOgnjenovicruska 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this group, and this sharing you do about your life. May God bless you. Your story encouraged me. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💐❤️

  • @MsCsquared2
    @MsCsquared2 6 месяцев назад

    I completely relate to Elizabeth Hasselback.

  • @chrispadgett6624
    @chrispadgett6624 3 года назад +1

    Thank you guy's for what you do, may the LORD bless you and keep all of you..

  • @carlal4981
    @carlal4981 3 года назад +1

    This was absolutely so wonderful, encouraging, and freeing! We can’t make everyone like us and that’s okay and just fine!

  • @ALEXALEX-rd9si
    @ALEXALEX-rd9si 3 года назад +4

    I like how she real always

  • @monicaneal3029
    @monicaneal3029 3 года назад +4

    To Be Pleasing To 👑GOD Is My Desire🙏🏾📖🙌🏾

  • @melissasmalley8868
    @melissasmalley8868 3 года назад +1

    That's right God's approval, Praise🙌 the Lord! In Jesus name amen.

  • @Grace-ty9un
    @Grace-ty9un 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for posting this segment! I appreciate the pearls of wisdom that came forth!!!☺️

    • @hendersonfreeman9308
      @hendersonfreeman9308 3 года назад

      So can you share that wisdom with me because I’m looking forward to it

  • @olugbemigamokuolu7909
    @olugbemigamokuolu7909 3 года назад

    Same. Because my interest is there. With my children. I blind loved but now I try to understand why and how

  • @sweetiehearts
    @sweetiehearts 3 года назад +1

    This video is one I didn't even know I needed.

  • @olugbemigamokuolu7909
    @olugbemigamokuolu7909 3 года назад

    Thank you pastor Joyce Meyer it’s tough I know.

  • @emilykeziahngobeni5387
    @emilykeziahngobeni5387 2 года назад

    I love you women ❤️❤️❤️

  • @babiicakes3003
    @babiicakes3003 3 года назад +3

    So good! Great dialogue, ladies!

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem 3 года назад +1

    My Mom is just like Joyce in that way, she can't stand when we're not happy together (we siblings)... Makes me have so much more of a love for Joyce. But yeah she (my Mom) tries to fix all our problems and be the solution and we're like 🤦‍♀️ please stop. "This is Mom's thing" lol just like Joyce said

  • @julietoneill1268
    @julietoneill1268 3 года назад

    Love people well but overall, please God more than anyone else in this world 👏 thank you ladies ❤❤

  • @olugbemigamokuolu7909
    @olugbemigamokuolu7909 3 года назад

    thank you so much for understanding we are most grateful

  • @beverlycox3061
    @beverlycox3061 3 года назад

    Peace of God doesn't need people approval!! @Lisa Harper@ joyce meyer @cece winans, @Victoria Osteen awesome I love the show

  • @godloveletter8219
    @godloveletter8219 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing beautiful women of our Daddy God, what matter is God loves me and you and He is pleased with us. Ma'am Joyce Meyer, you inspires me, I have books written by you. I love you and everyone of you, princes of Jesus the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords. God bless us ❤️👍❤️😊❤️😇❤️🙏

  • @coolcat3421
    @coolcat3421 2 года назад

    Listening to this was really helpful! Enjoying these Better Together videos and the wisdom from these lovely ladies. 🥰

  • @alesiawhite5747
    @alesiawhite5747 2 года назад

    This is so helpful to me

  • @olugbemigamokuolu7909
    @olugbemigamokuolu7909 3 года назад

    I like your messages

  • @Frkpii2
    @Frkpii2 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing all of your stories. This is really helpfull to me and gives me hope.

  • @olugbemigamokuolu7909
    @olugbemigamokuolu7909 3 года назад

    Communication is good you have been always what you see is what you get

  • @latashadobyne1494
    @latashadobyne1494 3 года назад

    Amazing and heartfelt!! I pray for the courage to not people please and only to please you lord in Jesus Christ Name Amen ❤️❤️❤️

  • @judygraessle1442
    @judygraessle1442 3 года назад

    I understand much of what you all shared. I have been through and lived a life I turned over to God. I just didn't see how he could find delight in me either. After two marriages which ended with me being a widow twice, I am the Lord's to mold to be I hope a sanctified woman for a healthy relationship.

  • @Grace-so1lf
    @Grace-so1lf 3 года назад

    Wow Joyce n I don’t only have a bday in common but the logic behind people pleasing and how it plays out for me

  • @rlgrlg1672
    @rlgrlg1672 3 года назад +1

    I can relate with this, especially the mother in law bit...

  • @kouladerzotis8207
    @kouladerzotis8207 3 года назад

    God bless everyone

  • @NiaMSnow
    @NiaMSnow 3 года назад +1

    I made a flyer for my job to help gain prospects and my manager tells me "NOONE TOLD YOU TO MAKE IT.." well excuse meeeeeeeee for just wanting to help the company!!!! I threw away the flyer and just been keeping my head down at the job and now she says with me being quiet rubs her the wrong way. I'm just so annoyed .. all I was doing was trying to positively benefit the company. Smh I'll never people please anyone ever AGAIN

  • @0555pink
    @0555pink 3 года назад

    THIS was one of my Very Fave episodes And combinations of Guests 💯💯💯💯 Tebet Really Really compliment each other 🦾🦾🦾🦾

  • @donnacampbell8176
    @donnacampbell8176 3 года назад +1

    Beautifully done.

  • @Ela-eh3hm
    @Ela-eh3hm 3 года назад +2

    This is true and on time, to my shame i am making idols out of those around me. Lord i need your help.

  • @tamaraberry1805
    @tamaraberry1805 3 года назад

    Lisa Harper.. is my sister I so get her

  • @joemeliessemanda04111
    @joemeliessemanda04111 3 года назад +1

    MY MAMMA JOYCE!

  • @marymalloy2848
    @marymalloy2848 3 года назад

    Beautiful.

  • @irenechampaigne3738
    @irenechampaigne3738 3 года назад

    Thank you ladies i live ny lift like that for a long time when it was time to say no i didn't know how

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 года назад

    Great message!

  • @Ela-eh3hm
    @Ela-eh3hm 3 года назад +2

    The hard part is people pleasing your parents/family, the very people you're supposed to want and need around ... WHAT a trap and false sense of responsibility!

  • @wt9081
    @wt9081 3 года назад

    Miss Harper's bible though!!!!!! Time spent with God!

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 3 года назад

    Amen.

  • @tamaraberry1805
    @tamaraberry1805 3 года назад

    Lisa Harper and Beth Moore BETTER NOT EVER be in the same airport as me because I will tackle them.. I love them both to bits

  • @cillanore1424
    @cillanore1424 2 года назад

    Ephesians 5:12

  • @beverlycox3061
    @beverlycox3061 3 года назад

    Prayer for me bc I'm a christian and I'm try to understand why people critical of me not correction but literally the unsaved criticize me and I just don't understand why people are

  • @ChiefCedricJohnson
    @ChiefCedricJohnson 3 года назад +1

    Matthew 10:39
    He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.

  • @olivemw
    @olivemw 3 года назад

    Love this. Thank you!

  • @derrickmuyombo4952
    @derrickmuyombo4952 3 года назад

    Needed to hear this🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @7style0
    @7style0 3 года назад

    Amen 🙏 Lovely grace social women's media dialog of divine wisdom of confidence with sincere love of caring ❤ for the body of Jesus Christ, thank you. May God grace always shower each one you in love always 💕
    Amen 🙏

  • @datingx
    @datingx 3 года назад

    Blessed ❤🥰

  • @raimundomedeiros1190
    @raimundomedeiros1190 2 года назад +1

    E depois desse crime ela me persegue junto com os outros cometendo todo tipo de escândalo que ela faz

  • @olugbemigamokuolu7909
    @olugbemigamokuolu7909 3 года назад

    I listen to you sometimes

  • @darlachief7446
    @darlachief7446 3 года назад

    You did more for her than she'll ever know we only realize that when we go through the testing

  • @angelbrown5895
    @angelbrown5895 3 года назад

    This was a really good video

  • @frankwithya
    @frankwithya 2 года назад

    "Clogging up the pipe"

  • @kimberlywood910
    @kimberlywood910 Год назад

    My mom knew about what my first step dad was doing to me, and, she was a very angry woman

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 3 года назад

    I have the opposite problem. I don’t care if I please or not .

  • @rebeccaoprea9917
    @rebeccaoprea9917 3 года назад +5

    Pleasing people is a trap .

  • @raimundomedeiros1190
    @raimundomedeiros1190 2 года назад

    Ela faz isso mesmo mesmo por isso eu tenho compartilhado com as vozes porque as vozes são minhas testemunhas suas suas palavras tá mostrando que por isso que vocês que são as vozes tenha seus valores cuidado com as suas palavras senão você comete crime discando da forma que

  • @godisgoodfaithful.803
    @godisgoodfaithful.803 3 года назад

    ❤️🌎❤️ 👌LOVE it!!

  • @nicolersmith432571
    @nicolersmith432571 3 года назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @dianewashington505
    @dianewashington505 2 года назад

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @chichis7768
    @chichis7768 3 года назад

    Amen😊💕💕💕😘👏

  • @zamarisriveraelias9670
    @zamarisriveraelias9670 3 года назад

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +2

    I pray I'm not doing that anymore in Jesus name.

  • @raimundomedeiros1190
    @raimundomedeiros1190 2 года назад

    Que respeito tem o juízo mau juízo se eles comete crime e que respeito pé e uma autoridade se comete crime escândalo em pode ser visto o juízo mas juízo

  • @raimundomedeiros1190
    @raimundomedeiros1190 2 года назад

    Por isso meus amores as vozes tem que se pôr em seus lugares ter o seu respeito não se escandalize por causa de outras pessoas que não têm e se você se escandaliza nem todos vão faltar ao respeito se ela ela não tem nenhuma autoridade porque ela é vista com as próprias palavras que ela vencedores do meu respeito de nenhum por causa do escândalo que