My husband tried killing me and my family made me marry him twice☝ | FT. Charu Khabde

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025

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  • @anukritishukla6035
    @anukritishukla6035 Год назад +64

    only one lesson for anyone in a relationship please first complete your education and make yourself financially independent

    • @monicarai1497
      @monicarai1497 Год назад +5

      Sometimes when you're in love,your sense of reality gets warped.

    • @loveme6067
      @loveme6067 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@monicarai1497
      That's lust... sexual active hormones..
      It's not love...

  • @kanchansharma6986
    @kanchansharma6986 Год назад +23

    Thanks for bringing to us compelling stories such as hers. She is doing huge service by letting her story out so that she can be a source of inspiration to many more out there who are stuck in relationships that bring irreparable damage to their lives. Its tough to imagine what she would have endured over the years to finally take a stance and start her life afresh. As a host, it would have been helpful if you could have asked her some follow-up questions which would have helped the listener get better insight into her frame of mind and how she finally mustered the courage to take the big step. Its not only her story but could be a story for many others.

    • @adarsh_mishra451
      @adarsh_mishra451 6 месяцев назад

      @@kanchansharma6986 relationships mai rhe hi nhi kabhi 🗿🤝🏻

  • @chandralekhadasgupta5135
    @chandralekhadasgupta5135 Год назад +59

    I have never come across such a candid conversation....I was hooked to it. This lady has gone through so much. It's her past karmas that have paved her path to success. Very inspiring...stay blessed. I didn't know her before this podcast.

  • @loveme6067
    @loveme6067 Год назад +33

    Every female, should focus on education, driving, karate,black belt,etc..💪💪
    Self-defence
    Financially stable
    U are the 🏆

    • @alkaadhimn
      @alkaadhimn 10 месяцев назад +1

      agreed with your every word..

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 6 месяцев назад

      Lol

    • @loveme6067
      @loveme6067 6 месяцев назад

      @@loveyourself-n6y
      Husbands are not Idols..or God..
      Gone are the days
      And time...
      Gender discrimination against females..
      Fight for our rights..
      JAGGO
      Sisters
      JAGGO.. 🙏

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@loveme6067 😂👏👏

  • @Kya_sahi
    @Kya_sahi Год назад +34

    The fact that two people had an extremely dysfunctional relationship, their children suffered. I still feel sad for those two kids who got a severe childhood trauma, no love, not a happy family, not even the feeling of togetherness. What was their fault? What had they done wrong to suffer this all? Never never conceive until and unless you are sure enough that your family is suitable enough to raise a child.

  • @sakshijaveri8078
    @sakshijaveri8078 Год назад +59

    She's the standard. She's influencing many women through her story.

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks means lot

    • @factsunloaded4808
      @factsunloaded4808 8 месяцев назад

      Apne aapko ko humesha sahi and innocent prove karne ke liye koi kuch bhi Kahani bata dete he .. considering there are 48 laws protecting women in marriage and men have none ...I have seen many such case's..Sometimes we should listen to the other side of story too 🎉

  • @mohitabahadur2553
    @mohitabahadur2553 Год назад +9

    Your life is so relatable.... And hats off to her, she is so strong

  • @KunalMukherjee3701
    @KunalMukherjee3701 Год назад +15

    Inspiring story, she has been through a lot, hope she stays strong and faces problems with this attitude.

  • @DHYANISHAH
    @DHYANISHAH Год назад +14

    in spite of many challenges in front of you you have overcome through all the difficulties heads of mam.

  • @AparnaBarla55
    @AparnaBarla55 Год назад +7

    The man & woman who helped her too I am so grateful to know this.

  • @mihikavengsarkar1101
    @mihikavengsarkar1101 Год назад +51

    She is such a strong women listened the whole podcast and really she is incredible how she dealed with every situation ❤️

  • @yashika071
    @yashika071 Год назад +73

    Sometimes we think parents r too strict with us but after listening to such stories it makes us understand why they say
    And girls should be financial independent so that they r able to come out of these fking relationships without any fear of like how will they start new life

  • @pushpahatetears
    @pushpahatetears Год назад +11

    I have been in a relationship just like yours but thankfully I saved myself, I left him because he cheated on me multiple times.
    Even he used to have the same kind of sick mentality.
    I could relate to you so much.
    May God bless you 💜

  • @Heena_by_RB
    @Heena_by_RB Год назад +16

    Very inspirational story. She is a very strong woman and I would like to thank her so much for sharing her story.

  • @rekhasherigar490
    @rekhasherigar490 Год назад +15

    Her family was supportive but they should have taken custody of her child n when she got real freedom they again chained her to same guy which was wrong.

  • @mihikamorris6359
    @mihikamorris6359 Год назад +134

    When someone tells you they lost someone, the basic etiquette is to tell them I’m sorry for your loss not it’s fine.

    • @aditijha8130
      @aditijha8130 Год назад +11

      not everyone responds the same sis... even I get flustered and I genuinely feel bad but I don't know what to say in that moment...I feel bad and want to console but I feel like I should first ease the situation uk....

    • @nirmalsidhu8467
      @nirmalsidhu8467 Год назад

      his wish!

    • @aaryaparab4852
      @aaryaparab4852 6 месяцев назад

      She started crying and said im sorry hence he said it's fine

  • @rashmikaur8346
    @rashmikaur8346 Год назад +7

    Truly inspiring to hear Indian women standing for her self and moving on with smile.
    Always the abusive person in relationship have Narcissist and egocentric personality.

  • @vasanthah7297
    @vasanthah7297 Год назад +12

    Please stay strong Maam. Wishing you happy and abundant life ahead. Never ever trust anyone of same kind again❤ Lots of love maam

  • @HighUp11
    @HighUp11 Месяц назад

    Apke interview so bohot himmat aur inspiration mili....aise interview aur lao bhai

  • @p1234590
    @p1234590 Год назад +4

    I also gone through with d same situation 😞 I can understand ur pain.. drunken people always are in illusion whatever they think, they feel this is true.. but I too come out of it .. n now I'm a strong woman.. proud of my self 🥳 God bless you b strong 💪

  • @KvTaashu-Pal
    @KvTaashu-Pal Год назад +11

    Hats off to her toleration level.. 🫡🫡

  • @savitaloke5158
    @savitaloke5158 Год назад +17

    She is a real lady..the way she is telling is all real.. tuj bindass bolna khup avadla mala 😊

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks means a lot

    • @factsunloaded4808
      @factsunloaded4808 8 месяцев назад

      Apne aapko ko humesha sahi and innocent prove karne ke liye koi kuch bhi Kahani bata dete he .. considering there are 48 laws protecting women in marriage and men have none ...I have seen many such case's..Sometimes we should listen to the other side of story too 🎉

    • @charukhabde497
      @charukhabde497 4 месяца назад

      @@factsunloaded4808 jake sun lo

  • @shwethakommandla7842
    @shwethakommandla7842 Год назад +10

    God bless u dear. Hats off to your courage & success . Stay happy , Stay blessed & more power to you ❤️🌟

  • @Just_a_rebellious
    @Just_a_rebellious Год назад +9

    Such a bold and strong lady who have been through a lot by herself and overcome everything as just a challenge and still inspiring people by sharing it through podcast 🙌🏻❤️ i truly agree being independent is more crucial these days and sad reality ladkiyon ka koi ghr apna nahi hota 🥲🥺, More power to you Charu di, May Allah bless you 🤍

  • @payal7633
    @payal7633 Год назад +15

    I only watching this just for her … she is so innocent,cute, pretty.. pure soul… intelligent..after so much also she is so good human…
    I want her to grow so much that one day ll see u very very very well

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you very much, really appreciate

    • @charukhabde497
      @charukhabde497 4 месяца назад

      thank you so much

  • @r2d2s2e2
    @r2d2s2e2 Год назад +18

    The lady articulated her harrowing life experiences very effectively. She has fought a hard battle. Kudos to her and best wishes for the life ahead. She is a strong woman with a gift of gab but she also seems to make some wrong decisions in this case talking to a vlog guy who doesn't have basic social etiquettes or interviewing etiquettes.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  Год назад +8

      This is not a interview in first sense it is not a news channel This is completely a channel for sharing your opinions with public my reactions and etiquette are as candid as a you stop slamming someone without knowing what's up with the concept and what's the podcast about, podcast are in audio in nature and if you are new in the scene please understand what's surrounding like

  • @tibKhyungtulfam
    @tibKhyungtulfam Год назад +4

    Wow she went through so much and now she is so strong ❤️.wish you the best ma"am 🙏❤️🙏

  • @dharashah361
    @dharashah361 Год назад +3

    Very true said women should earn for herself

  • @RR-fw8nr
    @RR-fw8nr Год назад +4

    This relate very much to me as if it's not her story she is talking about my life. Exactly the same

  • @HomeSideLyfstyl
    @HomeSideLyfstyl Год назад +6

    Its a great lesson for every single girl women be self independent and financial too😢

  • @suchi18
    @suchi18 Год назад +2

    You have not deserve this bad treatment dear, my blessing are with you

  • @charmeinebarreto6687
    @charmeinebarreto6687 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing....proud of you

  • @ayeshafarooq6455
    @ayeshafarooq6455 Год назад +14

    Is it only me or anyone else also think she sounds like FARAH KHAN !!!!

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад

      I am glad to know I sound like Faraha ma’am

    • @KarishmaInamdar-px3pc
      @KarishmaInamdar-px3pc 9 месяцев назад

      @@charukhabde sameee!! I was listening to your podcast while working in the kitchen and my MIL asked me is that FARAH KHAN ?? 😅😅😅

  • @binakhanbinakhan7257
    @binakhanbinakhan7257 Год назад +1

    She is such a strong women,,,,,,, from Pakistan

  • @ranivinod8265
    @ranivinod8265 11 месяцев назад +5

    Charu u r luck to have such good parents and siblings,75% of Indian ladies suffer domestic violence and I was one of them.suffer for 25 years with no support from parents or four siblings.

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад

      True that without my mom dad and my sister I am still nothing

  • @ANJALIRamesh-e9b
    @ANJALIRamesh-e9b 11 месяцев назад +3

    I have gone through all these, but I have given my daughter education & told her to b financially independent & not to depend on anyone for a single paise..

  • @prahilsahotainhongkong2603
    @prahilsahotainhongkong2603 Год назад +6

    this is the true,ladkiyon ka koi ghr nhi hota or sachmuch ek bnde ki okat rishte mei drar padne pr hi pta chlta hai or ye husband apne andar sb chupa ke rkhte hain waqat aane pr saamp ki trah dank marte hain lekin aapko dekh ke acha lga aapne zindagi mei boht ache design liye I wish ki aapko or aapke bache ko sari kushiyan mile God bless you❤❤

  • @dishamittal1442
    @dishamittal1442 Год назад +3

    You are so strong so so strong no words😓 kitna Saha h bachpan se itne saal tk I can’t imagine how much you have suffered 😢

  • @MehersFunCuisine
    @MehersFunCuisine Год назад +6

    No women should stand for this kind of behaviour never give them a second chance. Once an abusive always an abusive

  • @Paragonfalcon
    @Paragonfalcon Год назад +5

    Very interesting talk I lost my entire night listening to her and she is correct that stand must be taken first and mostly about our horrible judicial system and in such situations the Islamic way of Marriage n Divorce or Quala “ separation by wife” is million times better and faster .

  • @shrutinavik
    @shrutinavik Год назад +9

    This women is something else bro..... What a courage to live 👏👏applause to all the things she managed for herself and her family 🤝🤝

  • @aakritisharma9937
    @aakritisharma9937 Год назад +33

    If the guest is coughing, please pause and restart once the guest feels alright. It is really irritating in Podcasts

    • @pallusvlog5195
      @pallusvlog5195 10 месяцев назад +3

      He's still learning.
      But if we give him suggestions then he will give rude reply.

  • @wowartcreative84
    @wowartcreative84 Год назад +9

    Need to improve very much laws in India ... Also don't trust anyone BOY for love or money or freedom 🙏 anyone ... Just trust yourself 💗🙏💗❤

  • @arunasharma6571
    @arunasharma6571 Год назад +4

    Thank God you finally came out from this Narcissist.

  • @GeetaArya-r4m
    @GeetaArya-r4m Год назад +3

    Correct mem u r absolutely correct I m also facing exactly same thing
    There is no justice for females

  • @kantaarya1544
    @kantaarya1544 Год назад +2

    There is nothing about being strong in her situation, rather it is being very weak . First time a woman is abused physically in the relationship she should get out immediately. This woman is educated and has supportive parents, she could have taken a stand for herself and for the sake of her children. There is something called counselling! She is abused verbally emotionally and physically again and again knowing he is drug addict staying in the same situation is not being strong, it’s weakness.

  • @BhoomiLahamge
    @BhoomiLahamge Год назад +7

    Such an inspiring women ❤️ more love and support to you ❤️

  • @JasmineGogana
    @JasmineGogana 9 месяцев назад

    You are so strong ❤️so proud of you I wish I could give you hug your story made me cry .

  • @divyamulik7605
    @divyamulik7605 Год назад +7

    I can relate to it dear gone through same thing

  • @narayani2357
    @narayani2357 Год назад +6

    Sushant singhs case is under investigation, dnt label it as suicide,its a request to edit tht part,thank you.

  • @Harshita-u1p
    @Harshita-u1p Год назад +1

    Such did so much struggle in her life salute to her so many years she tolerate such a inspirational her real life story 😢

  • @J.I.A.7
    @J.I.A.7 Год назад +4

    ❤❤❤ She's so positive!❤❤❤

  • @wowartcreative84
    @wowartcreative84 Год назад +6

    0:10 wo time PE pyar alag hota tha...😂😂😂😂😂actual pyar hota tha..😂😂. Madam pyar hone me koi badi bat nhi he ... Pyar agr nibhaya ja rah he to badi bat he 😊👍🙏🙂😺

  • @ranjanasahotavlogs
    @ranjanasahotavlogs Год назад +3

    My x had the same nature ... mujhe v phle lgdta tha ki vo pyar krta hai... But the end i decide to breakup bcz i can't handle this toxic behaviour😊 😊😊

  • @arunasharma6571
    @arunasharma6571 Год назад +4

    I also had gone through same for 35 years.

  • @AkshataSawant-sq2dp
    @AkshataSawant-sq2dp Год назад +10

    Such a strong lady you are ❤

  • @aishwaryagurung7893
    @aishwaryagurung7893 Год назад +8

    Socha v nai tha kuch but aj unkA puraa podcast sun k Pata chal. Raha ki yes now even I can take stand for myself!! Ab me sure hu ki me divorce le ge luu i kkow it hurts but ab ho gaya 😢

    • @lalaland2022
      @lalaland2022 Год назад +1

      Le lo yaar Bhad me jaay sab Paise kamaao Aage bhadho Mard k Pass kuch nahi hai dene ko 😊

    • @Publichgame
      @Publichgame 6 месяцев назад

      Le liya ky

  • @neeturamnani6706
    @neeturamnani6706 Год назад +3

    Take female lawyer of government I think they don't charge u r very strong lady❤

  • @greentwinkle
    @greentwinkle Год назад +2

    What a lady. I just wished her family and she herself was more kind towards her. There was no need of going through so much physical and mental abuse. Like other mentioned, 2 kids came out of this abusive marriage, there life is scared for life. There was no need of having physical relationship with a loser. She should divorce him again and be free.

  • @hermosasentido6368
    @hermosasentido6368 Год назад +7

    Great podcast 💯

  • @monaashu5707
    @monaashu5707 Год назад +2

    Touching story😢.
    Why ppl mention SSR for no reason.

  • @MAYA1111-AAA
    @MAYA1111-AAA Год назад +3

    The lady is a true warrior........ 💞💞💞💞

  • @hanishriker9402
    @hanishriker9402 Год назад +6

    saw your postcast, but I didn't like that you said that Shushant ssr committed suicide after he went into depression, everyone knows that he was murdered, Reha drugged him without blinking and took all his money from him

    • @tanvipandit9204
      @tanvipandit9204 Год назад

      😂 did you get this news from Republic now 😂 are you this naive

  • @manaaliee
    @manaaliee Год назад +5

    22:45 💯💯💯

  • @pratikdhage3491
    @pratikdhage3491 6 месяцев назад +1

    I really feel bad for that elder kid ..he had to go thru all this..

  • @geeartcreations
    @geeartcreations Год назад +1

    Very tough life…i saw the whole video..hats off to u..all the best

  • @Its_Riyag
    @Its_Riyag Год назад +6

    Great podcast ❤❤

  • @studyvlogs9357
    @studyvlogs9357 Год назад +3

    Bhai nice podcast, i would like to suggest tht bich bich mai tum thoda km bolo aur guest ko jyda bolne do...

  • @shwetagiri9812
    @shwetagiri9812 Год назад +10

    Patiently listening to this podcast..!!!! Best thing
    Stay strong girl!!!!!! We go through alottttttt isilye aj k tym ldki ko selfish hona bht imp h
    Bcz ldkiyo meim (idk if its right to say ) inbuilt h sbke liye sb kuch bus krtyy rahooo
    End me you get nothing
    Loved her crush married to him agsin re married end me kuch nhiiii khudke liye she did nothing bcz ye chutiyaaaa admi k vhjsee n uski family pura life khrb kr dis iska! Ssly god will curse him alot!!
    All the best for future❤

  • @MannatAjmani
    @MannatAjmani 14 дней назад

    Stop listening to parents who force u to go back to abusive husband. Stand on your feet. No one will help u until u help yourself.

  • @geetadhanrajani8419
    @geetadhanrajani8419 11 месяцев назад +1

    Provide time stamps

  • @riashetty4964
    @riashetty4964 Год назад +13

    I loved this podcast a lot❤❤❤❤

  • @_strays.and.khushi_
    @_strays.and.khushi_ Год назад +6

    AMAZING PODCAST.

  • @prishasmusicaltreat2458
    @prishasmusicaltreat2458 10 месяцев назад +2

    Please don't say that Sushant Singh Rajput did suicide ...still his case is in progress.. and strongly believe he is killed by powerful people

  • @Bharat__24
    @Bharat__24 Год назад +1

    Hanji aap ki baat correct hain aur sach hai aap chote thae love u dear 💛💛💛💛🧡💛

  • @bishurai5225
    @bishurai5225 Год назад +1

    Ye 100% true hain ki jab aapna pati hi aapna na ho na baki member ko to bat nhi meri sath bhi same huwa hain 😢💞🙏

  • @Prachi-sha
    @Prachi-sha Год назад +7

    What happened to her was bad. But she left her kid with the druggist father. Feel sad for kids no one cared for them neither father not mother

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад +3

      I lost my dad in 2018 , he passed away with paralytic attack. I was 23 when I left my house when I wasn’t capable of handling my own self my son was with me for one year I was dependent

    • @HighUp11
      @HighUp11 Месяц назад

      She did not leave ....wo admi khud son ko le gaya

    • @HighUp11
      @HighUp11 Месяц назад

      She did not leave ....wo admi khud son ko le gaya

  • @deepalichandratre9194
    @deepalichandratre9194 Год назад +1

    The interview is good, she is very courageous, however one thing disturbing...she had been coughing a lot, was there a way to pause it, heal her throat and continue, that would have become quite good.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  Год назад +1

      she had an asthmatic issue so it would have taken half a day

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад

      Guys it’s not interviewers mistake it’s natural when you are emotional and while talking you experience the same pain it happens it’s natural we tried lot to control cough but we had little time we almost spent 4 hours yes I am asthmatic I was talking for 2/ 3 hours

  • @005chouhan4
    @005chouhan4 Год назад +4

    Shuru me apke decision kafi khrab rhe sb indication mile fir b apne continue Kiya ....... Pr shayd ye hona likha hi tha...or ab apka better version bn kr nikle ho.......kafi struggle b kiya. proud of you...

  • @dhanshreesubhedar8585
    @dhanshreesubhedar8585 7 месяцев назад

    so true, one day at a timeee

  • @lilyandfriends348
    @lilyandfriends348 Год назад +1

    Very nice conversation..

  • @indirachandra4329
    @indirachandra4329 Год назад +3

    Wow! You are a strong woman. There is a saying God is faithful, and he won't give us more than we can bear. NO! I don't agree that this is a never-ending saga from her childhood because she chose that Ass****. This is the Year 2023 How are you doing?
    I’m so sorry for your loss. Heartaching story. I pray for strength and endurance for you as you go through this challenging time. Thank You for sharing your life story...🙏🙏🙏

    • @charukhabde
      @charukhabde 11 месяцев назад

      I am doing great now working for a reputed company

  • @Yy_llo
    @Yy_llo Год назад +2

    Moral of story is that all women should be financially independent before marrriage

  • @MAYA1111-AAA
    @MAYA1111-AAA Год назад +3

    Sushant ने suicide नही किया......SSR was murdered........
    #JUSTICE4SSR

  • @arunasharma6571
    @arunasharma6571 Год назад +2

    I can understand her situation.

  • @GeetaArya-r4m
    @GeetaArya-r4m Год назад +1

    So inspiring mem

  • @lilyandfriends348
    @lilyandfriends348 Год назад +6

    This type of person is called narcissists. So he was.

  • @kanchandhanksar5967
    @kanchandhanksar5967 Год назад +3

    Very painful yrr 🥺 kaise kaise log hote hai

  • @arvialeenabains5603
    @arvialeenabains5603 Год назад +1

    Hey dear host I just vubb yor smile .. God bless hunk ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @The007Bondd
    @The007Bondd Год назад +3

    Loads of ups & down in her story but trust me there are many who suffered the same.

  • @shaliniattre3134
    @shaliniattre3134 Год назад +2

    She is so cute ❤❤

  • @Colorfilll_life
    @Colorfilll_life Год назад +7

    Great work ! Hats off to these wonderful women ❣️
    But All the stories on the channel are where one partner suffered because of other partner. I am hoping to see some stories where both the partners came together and grown together happily. We need some positivity as well to feel marriage is not always bad for us. Hoping to see other side of the love as well .

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  Год назад +1

      This channel is not a court room or counseling house, we intend not to gain sympathy but share kissey and shown how they are growing oit of it in a good manner there are other videos where stories are really good and postive people being people don't watch thinking it boring and then feel this channel is only about one sided stories

    • @aditijha8130
      @aditijha8130 Год назад

      @@Kisssey that is so true!! don't worry we love your podcasts and candid convos

  • @Peaceisgod577
    @Peaceisgod577 Год назад +1

    This video shud go viral.. like videos of those women who fight for such type of men who cry in one situation n in other situation want his wife to rub her nose

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  Год назад

      Share Karo will help us reach more and share reels too

    • @Peaceisgod577
      @Peaceisgod577 Год назад

      @@Kisssey pls bring a good awareness by asking to women that how many raised their voice against any bad or worse thing in marriage wic compelled them to kill themselves...n out of those how many got justice.. has other party got any punishment... ask advocates.. i m talking of actual genuine women cases who actually earn n still face what not.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  Год назад

      @@Peaceisgod577 we have more pod in line will try my best to let them express

  • @andriavinithalobo5813
    @andriavinithalobo5813 Год назад +2

    So courageous

  • @purnimasarki8039
    @purnimasarki8039 Год назад +2

    So strong women ❤💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

  • @madhudean769
    @madhudean769 Год назад +1

    Dragging it on and on and on 😢

  • @lovelychowdhary8511
    @lovelychowdhary8511 Год назад +1

    Sahi keh rhi hai ye lady hamara government ka law bahot late or weak hai .

  • @arunasharma6571
    @arunasharma6571 Год назад +1

    God bless you for Happy life.

  • @arshiyanaik6659
    @arshiyanaik6659 Год назад +5

    More power to you ❤

  • @kalindimalpani7039
    @kalindimalpani7039 Год назад +1

    Hey can anyone tell me ?
    where is the other podcaster who was in the earlier videos.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  Год назад

      Sanskar left for good