SINGLE AND A VIRGIN AT 39, THE STRUGGLES AND SOLUTION|| TRUE TALK WITH TED || S06E09

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  • @livingalifeofpurpose
    @livingalifeofpurpose Год назад +53

    I have an elder sister who got married at age 44 as a virgin. When you understand that your body is the temple of God, you will keep clean

  • @osagieosareniye
    @osagieosareniye 10 месяцев назад +6

    All praise to Yah! It’s only by His mercy I’m a 42 yr old virgin. It’s been quite a journey indeed! The Most High is worthy of my all! Marriage is my portion 🎉HALLELUYAAAAHHHHH🙌🏿‼️

  • @evangcalebyakubu
    @evangcalebyakubu Год назад +117

    Wow! I'm 35, still a virgin, not in a relationship, serving God. I can so relate to this.

    • @vestinairadukunda2037
      @vestinairadukunda2037 Год назад +5

      Wow. That’s amazing

    • @enowhelen7104
      @enowhelen7104 Год назад +3

      Wowwww congratulations sir
      Am proud of you

    • @ebaiyvonne9261
      @ebaiyvonne9261 Год назад +15

      Am 28 years. Still a virgin and wife to Jesus 😅. I am happy to in Christ though not easy but I am at peace

    • @greatmindstudios
      @greatmindstudios Год назад +5

      ​@@ebaiyvonne9261Keep, sincerely its not easy ❤

    • @tamiausten873
      @tamiausten873 Год назад +8

      I'm 22 still a virgin. I'm not necessarily struggling with temptation from people. I feel like I'm just experiencing puberty, I didn't have a crush or attraction to men until I was about 17, now it's on a new level but I thank God for grace. People tend to say there's no virgin but that might be one of the greatest scams ever

  • @ofirazhub2468
    @ofirazhub2468 Год назад +66

    I have been watching True Talk since its inception and I guess it's my first time commenting.
    This episode was certainly for me. I can really relate to most of what he shared. I gave my life to Jesus at the age of 9 too. Thought I will be married by 24 at the latest.
    Well, this 36 year old virgin is still single and still trusting ABBA to do His thing how He chooses to do it😅
    God still has remnants both male and female!
    Thank you evangelist for being an inspiration. Thank you to TED and the crew too.
    I was blessed.

    • @enowhelen7104
      @enowhelen7104 Год назад +1

      Well done sir, am impressed

    • @olanrewajuabosede6813
      @olanrewajuabosede6813 Год назад +10

      Keep the faith! God doesn't have remanants, we are complete in him and not fragments or piece . God still has sons and daughters walking in FULLNESS of Him !

  • @efua_hasford
    @efua_hasford 9 месяцев назад +2

    Soo blessed and to know there are people still trusting God by keeping their bodies from sexual immorality. Really not alone👏👏👏

  • @danieloluwakayode5945
    @danieloluwakayode5945 Год назад +15

    I'm 37 and I'm a virgin. I can so relate to the words of the guest. I found my waiting period graceful as I focus on Kingdom expansion on earth.

  • @stmama
    @stmama 8 месяцев назад +1

    I'm 35 and also a virgin, still waiting and believing God for marital settlement, i can relate with what the guest said as regards the struggle and discouragement but then i learn that cos i serve God, He must give me all i want the time i want it is just self righteous.
    I really pays to serve God and God will not forget his own
    Thank you so much TED for this show, I'm really encouraged and lifted. God bless you richly

  • @ujahfranca8258
    @ujahfranca8258 6 месяцев назад +1

    life is a lot more beautiful when we are responsive and reactive to God's voice......
    also, you may not be a virgin anymore, but with God, you are not any less than who He sees you to be.... Abba is the best😊

  • @chimwemwekombe6638
    @chimwemwekombe6638 Год назад +8

    If your not intimate with God you will want to be intimate with other things ...the truth in this ❤️❤️ #i felt this 🔥

  • @Meeeee112
    @Meeeee112 Год назад +13

    My husband and I got married as virgins. I was 28 ten years ago. God has been Faithful

  • @ruthigili1985
    @ruthigili1985 Год назад +3

    I have been feeling down and sad because I see the great things that people I know are doing and I feel like I'm far behind but watching this has strengthened my hope.
    We all have different timing in life but before the great things begin to show forth we need to learn to 'enjoy the process '.

  • @AwesomePraise
    @AwesomePraise Год назад +16

    "A quiet place with God cannot be supplemented with worship, hearing a pastor, going to camps, it is irreplaceable"

    • @carolynsolanke6426
      @carolynsolanke6426 Год назад

      So true!!! To Hear, Obey and Trust Him in.Listening... and God answers in that Quiet Secret Quiet Place-the Ultimate Intimate Place with God🎉

  • @Thoughtsline29
    @Thoughtsline29 Год назад +11

    The issue of virginity has become vague to many because of the happenings around us. It's a privilege to be a virgin and be able to talkand encourage those who wants to keep themselves pure.
    I'm proud to be a virgin at 28, it hasn't been easy but i stood my ground because I fear God and my parents ❤.

  • @beautydefined1601
    @beautydefined1601 Год назад +27

    An on time message, at 36 and single I can’t help but to think God doesn’t care about my desire for marriage. Sometimes I fall into depression but I’m learning to hold onto Hope and Joy. Anyways I can relate!

    • @deliberatechristian
      @deliberatechristian Год назад +2

      Strength to you. He makes all things beautiful in his time

    • @mphomogashoa4141
      @mphomogashoa4141 Год назад

      I am 42 will be 43 next month I got saved at the age of 22 no child never been married. I used to stress about it to a point of considering marrying an unbeliever. I understand what single sisters are going through considering a lot of things like desiring to be a mother. God has brought me to a place of contentment where I finally enjoy my single life my space I can pray and fast anytime I can have retreat anytime. I love myself more and treat myself better as the bride of Christ I can freely say God if marriage is not in your will and purpose for my life then I don't want it. The older I get my standards keeps going higher I cannot afford to miss the Lord when he returns because of being yoked to the wrong person. The one lesson in my life was I wanted marriage desperately at some stage to a point where it became an idol until God revealed it to me and I repented and received my deliverance from wanting something more than I wanted God. God loves us with an everlasting love irregardless of our marital status.

    • @ifeomadoris8783
      @ifeomadoris8783 Год назад +1

      Wow, an amazing section. Don't worship the mission God has given you, but worship him that has given you the mission.

  • @annanamutebi653
    @annanamutebi653 23 дня назад

    So blessed that God still has His remnants still waiting on Him for everything

  • @louisamaryodi
    @louisamaryodi Год назад +13

    I am privileged to be an evangelist for years, and with regards to being single and wondering what could have be the problem, i can understand the confusion. Yet the conclusion is God has better plans for His children. Thank you for remaining steadfast. No matter what, we have to remain. There is no better option, no better path to follow

  • @engelinahjosiah7759
    @engelinahjosiah7759 Год назад +6

    thank you for a lovely episode . i was encouraged being 35 years, single is not easy but God is giving me the grace

  • @namurungiphionahgorgeous6286
    @namurungiphionahgorgeous6286 Год назад +18

    This talk is so practical. Intimacy is key
    It's humbling to hear from a focused minister who is older than me and single yet surrendered and satisfied. GBU

  • @chibugoumeaku9668
    @chibugoumeaku9668 Год назад +5

    This session is timely. God bless you guys.

  • @daramolafolashade2463
    @daramolafolashade2463 Год назад +15

    God bless you, Evangelist. I'm truly blessed. Intimacy, listening to God's voice and obedience to Him are my take-home points. Thank you so much, TED for organising this awesome talk. God bless you all.

  • @blessingikiriko1880
    @blessingikiriko1880 Год назад +3

    Wow! Wow!! Wow!! 😮.
    There are still remnants🙏

  • @WhollyDebbie
    @WhollyDebbie Год назад

    INTIMACY! That's the 🔑 to a fruitful relationship with God 🙏🏾

  • @adesuwaomoragbon4431
    @adesuwaomoragbon4431 Год назад

    Wow so blessed by this talk show. Our purposes in life differs, I pray God continue to direct our paths. I'm 33 still a virgin, God has been helping me. More and More Divine Grace to this prog by TED. And to this Great Evangelist thanks for giving yourself to be used by God, may He reward you Abundantly. More Divine Grace to You

  • @abanobiprudence9640
    @abanobiprudence9640 Год назад +1

    I'm really blessed. Learning to hear God speak begins first when our heart is still. Intimacy with God is all about keeping your secret place with Him active.

  • @adegokebecky8936
    @adegokebecky8936 Год назад

    Indeed a true talk. Intimacy with God, knowing God's and hearing from God keeps one going. Thanks Evangelist, am greatly blessed and God bless TED for this show.

  • @rutholusegun9328
    @rutholusegun9328 Год назад +1

    This is such an amazing discusion. My take home is that I should be intentional about building intimacy with God.

  • @adepejuasaolu4353
    @adepejuasaolu4353 Год назад +5

    I was blessed! Thank you Evangelist!

  • @WhollyDebbie
    @WhollyDebbie Год назад

    Hallelujah 🙌🏾
    I love this conversation already. When a heart is available and willing, an assignment will be fulfilled. Hmmm...Lord, please help us to trust You enough to follow You "foolishly"
    God bless you Evangelist OT and TED team. Great grace be multiplied 🙏🏾

  • @okeogheneidadi6219
    @okeogheneidadi6219 Год назад +7

    Thank you TED this truly encouraged and inspired me 🙏🏽 God bless you all

  • @omobolanleesan7259
    @omobolanleesan7259 Год назад

    More anointing to bring more of this on the table

  • @olasunkanmioriola6007
    @olasunkanmioriola6007 Год назад +1

    learn to enjoy the journey. i am single, 39 and a virgin too.Not been easy but GOD has been faithful

  • @narteyobedbaah8567
    @narteyobedbaah8567 Год назад

    God bless you Evangelist Otavio and the TED talk crew

  • @asaremensahbelinda
    @asaremensahbelinda Год назад +2

    God richly bless you, Evangelist🙏 I've really learnt a lot about having intimacy with God, hearing God's voice for yourself and heeding to His leadings or His purpose for your life as He speaks.
    God bless you

  • @obohpatience1059
    @obohpatience1059 Год назад +14

    It's possible and doable, being a virgin or celibate till marriage 😊

  • @oladelemayowa5774
    @oladelemayowa5774 Год назад +5

    Great one sir , may the Lord continue to use you more Sir. I have a sister in law @35 and she is still a virgin and single. This can only happen with God.

  • @tamiausten873
    @tamiausten873 Год назад +9

    I love this channel and TED talk so much. I really want to see more discussion on the topic of sexual purity on TED Talk.

  • @oziomaperpetual5545
    @oziomaperpetual5545 Год назад +1

    Quite place can never be overemphasised. Thank you Evangelist

  • @bankolevictoria-zm5rs
    @bankolevictoria-zm5rs Год назад +5

    It's a great lesson to learn that you feel single is normal but you dwelling on the single good leaving God's place of intimacy is not the right thing to do

  • @talatubaba1628
    @talatubaba1628 Год назад +6

    Beautiful conversation! Blessed… 🙌🏾♥️
    Thank you.

  • @lawalolasile1274
    @lawalolasile1274 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks be to God for this episode as I am still being single and a Virgin it by grace and mercy of God👏🙏🙌

  • @naomiagbakwuru9578
    @naomiagbakwuru9578 Год назад +5

    I'm in love with TED talk 😍

  • @miracleogochukwu9721
    @miracleogochukwu9721 Год назад +1

    This is really timely for me.. God bless you in no small way.

  • @IbidokunAyobami
    @IbidokunAyobami Год назад

    I was really blessed Evangelist. I will put all you've said into practice. So help me God. Ame n!

  • @simovanny6027
    @simovanny6027 5 месяцев назад

    This talk to me a lot. At all level. Thank you

  • @olabiagnes8585
    @olabiagnes8585 Год назад +2

    I so much miss true talk with TED💕

  • @BCCMglobal
    @BCCMglobal Год назад +3

    Simple, real and instructive ❤

  • @jareya
    @jareya Год назад

    Lovely conversation. Intimacy with the Lord is key.

  • @amaechigoodsuccess8012
    @amaechigoodsuccess8012 Год назад +1

    God bless you really Evangelist, I really enjoyed and blessed listening to you. God bless you TED.

  • @Rite_Ushers
    @Rite_Ushers Год назад +8

    Thank u Holy Spirit ❤️it’s amazing how u work ❤

  • @conciergequeen
    @conciergequeen Год назад

    This was so refreshing to watch.

  • @WhollyDebbie
    @WhollyDebbie Год назад

    That Dancer and Evangelist blend...fascinating! 😄

  • @judgetheworshiper4345
    @judgetheworshiper4345 Год назад +3

    Wow beautiful, thank you for this word of encouragement

  • @TheChayilson
    @TheChayilson Год назад

    Wow, this is so powerful, inspiring and enlightening on how my relationship with God can be. God please help me.

  • @amandaevi2531
    @amandaevi2531 Год назад

    Amén... Help me to discover me dear Lord Jesus in you

  • @mrsdeborahbangura7962
    @mrsdeborahbangura7962 Год назад +1

    It really powerful , only by his Grace 🙏

  • @damyfeyi1928
    @damyfeyi1928 11 месяцев назад

    It is nice to know that God's people still exist everywhere😊I am blessed to learn from this episode evangelist @ottavio lobefaro . God bless you all! Halleluyah!

  • @Missmatter14
    @Missmatter14 Год назад +1

    Wow. To be totally given to God. Its wonderful. I aspire to this.

  • @adedolapoadekoya4249
    @adedolapoadekoya4249 Год назад

    Thank you sir for coming to this show thank you for the encouragement I really felt encouraged thank you true talk with Ted

  • @tamiausten873
    @tamiausten873 Год назад +7

    9:38 I have the same issue of being in places with people that are nominal Christians, as a Corper my friends wanted to meet in s club. I can't go to clubs for so many reasons besides the fact that it's not the place for a child of God: I don't have the right clothes, I'm very shy, I can't consume any bitter substance 😂😂 so avoiding alcohol is like a talent for me, I also can't go out late because I'm the only child due to the death of my brother. I feel like God has blocked me from doing all these things for separation purposes

    • @mesganar5231
      @mesganar5231 Год назад

      Sis God is saving you from a lot of filthily things. The best place is the presence of God. It is true as humans we need fellowship with others but it's best done with like minded brothers and sisters who would encourage you get close to God & not pull you away from God.

  • @Thevoiceofa_child
    @Thevoiceofa_child Год назад

    Thanks so much evangelist and TED

  • @IbidokunAyobami
    @IbidokunAyobami Год назад

    Great one TED, Thanks for bringing such a person to the show, however the lighting of the set was not too good in my own view. Let's work on it like in previous shows

  • @abojecomfort5812
    @abojecomfort5812 Год назад

    Thanks TED this has encouraged me ,God bless you all.

  • @samuelfolorunsoesq34
    @samuelfolorunsoesq34 Год назад +2

    Thanks for this episode TED.

  • @omoboyelabake9480
    @omoboyelabake9480 Год назад

    Beautiful episode.
    So real and insightful.
    Im super blessed.
    God bless TED and the guest speaker🙏

    • @amarachukwuilo8583
      @amarachukwuilo8583 Год назад +1

      Don't hate the process! God bless you Evangelist OT. GOD bless truetalkwithTED

  • @blossomdavidkinga.8437
    @blossomdavidkinga.8437 Год назад +1

    This was really impactful

  • @obedankomah7904
    @obedankomah7904 Год назад +4

    33 and a virgin serving God in my generation

  • @yusufadedoyin5515
    @yusufadedoyin5515 Год назад +9

    I understand really
    I am 39 also and I am also a virgin. But sincerely I am not proud of it again.
    I believe it is long overdue.

    • @enowhelen7104
      @enowhelen7104 Год назад

      Wowww congratulations sir
      Well done 👍👍

    • @chidinmaprecious7475
      @chidinmaprecious7475 Год назад +11

      Please don't say that! Keeping yourself until you marry is one of the best ways of prevailing over demonic attacks and influences in your marriages. God is aware and He will fix up for you. The most important aspect of keeping your virginity is to keep a pure heart towards God and others at all time. Then you will marvel at the power you will wield in God's Kingdom Agenda.

    • @greatmindstudios
      @greatmindstudios Год назад +4

      ​@@chidinmaprecious7475 I think what he meant is he's tired of being single

    • @victorianababa4502
      @victorianababa4502 Год назад

      @ yusufadedoyin5515 don't give up God will reward you soon😇

    • @topeabiodun9587
      @topeabiodun9587 Год назад +1

      Well, I would not say u should be proud about it. I would only say u should be thankful for the gift of wholeness. Many people desire to say what u just said but can never have the guts to!
      It is a gift of God and be grateful for it, please.
      God bless u sir/madam.

  • @ifureidiong5901
    @ifureidiong5901 Год назад +1

    Was amazing watching and listening to this episode of true talk with TED.

  • @rachealfelix9449
    @rachealfelix9449 Год назад

    I'm so impressed, with this world.

  • @Graceakpoi
    @Graceakpoi Год назад

    I was blessed by this thanks.
    You don't replace intimacy with God with anything. Hmmm

  • @biblemarchmissions
    @biblemarchmissions Год назад +1

    To GOD be the Glory 🙏💞

  • @AjuloHope
    @AjuloHope Год назад +4

    WOW!Lord connect me in contact with one of your chased and preserved son.

  • @titomi2050
    @titomi2050 Год назад

    God bless you all!

  • @DHoney_
    @DHoney_ Год назад +3

    Wonderful session 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @giftmuswema8111
    @giftmuswema8111 Год назад

    This episode really blessed me, thankyou so much

  • @abrahamchristiana273
    @abrahamchristiana273 Год назад

    Wonderful theme for discussion!
    I began to understand when Sarah laughed in the Bible at the promise of God, she said " shall I have pleasure again"?
    God will do it, I believe Him.
    But I am also asking, shall I have pleasure again?
    As a young lady at 28, virgin and battling with fibroid already.

    • @olugbenrodeborah5086
      @olugbenrodeborah5086 Год назад +1

      The God of Jah will be with you and guide you and heal you in Jesus name. You are healed in Jesus name claim it in Jesus name.

  • @evelynmawunyo8590
    @evelynmawunyo8590 Год назад

    Very blessed 🙌 😇 🙏 ☺️ 😊 God bless you ted

  • @johannaouanzin7265
    @johannaouanzin7265 Год назад

    This is a great and encouraging testimony🔥

  • @constance344
    @constance344 Год назад

    Good one.God bless you all.

  • @Rite_Ushers
    @Rite_Ushers Год назад +3

    Are u worshiping the mission or worshipiṅg God??? This hit differently😢😢😢😢thank u Holy Spirit

  • @alabivictoria9390
    @alabivictoria9390 Год назад

    Beautiful and Inspiring

  • @estheradeleye3438
    @estheradeleye3438 Год назад +1

    I'm blessed tonight

  • @margaretkojo-musa5033
    @margaretkojo-musa5033 Год назад

    Learn to celebrate every day

  • @Olushola18
    @Olushola18 Год назад +1

    I love this session. Thank you

  • @ScholasticaJohn-hs3tp
    @ScholasticaJohn-hs3tp 11 месяцев назад +1

    Am 28 still a virgin, though am getting married soon❤❤

  • @kinggabrielsonmichaelnyame7910

    This is a wonderful program. God bless you greatly . May i know the full name of your guest, i mean the Evangelist. Thank you

  • @Abiymokve
    @Abiymokve Год назад

    I am heterosexual, 39 years old and a virgin. I've never even kissed a woman. This sometimes seems ridiculous even to me, how could I achieve such a thing?

  • @carolynsolanke6426
    @carolynsolanke6426 Год назад +2

    Strong background!!! Sicilian and Lebanese- its only God!!

  • @morenikeadesida6139
    @morenikeadesida6139 Год назад +1

    Yes it's possible, and Jesus makes d diffence❤

  • @dooyumkuhe1144
    @dooyumkuhe1144 7 месяцев назад

    Don't let anyone stop you once you hear God's word/direction. Hmmmm, i have an experience with this 😊. Delay could become disastrous 😢

  • @olaideojoniyi5322
    @olaideojoniyi5322 Год назад

    Thank you for this.

  • @destinynitunga1522
    @destinynitunga1522 Год назад +2

    Don't hate on the journey

  • @ebonyelevation7705
    @ebonyelevation7705 Год назад +5

    Stay virgins body and mind! You stay usable by God, escape lots of demons and don’t need deliverance later because you had low self esteem at times and fed the flesh. This is my own personal experience to share, not speaking for anyone. Thank God for Jesus delivering me😊

    • @tamiausten873
      @tamiausten873 Год назад

      Yes oh, sometimes I've had urges that led me to porn because I'm also at a point where I have no peer to discuss things with. I have friends but they don't have the same issues: some are married, some are dating and having sex outside marriage, the rest I'm not close enough to discuss this delicate issue with. I know that porn is filth and I actually feel more depressed and separate from God after porn.

    • @kofoworolashowunmi8676
      @kofoworolashowunmi8676 Год назад

      Yes ooo

    • @jesusislordgodisgood4408
      @jesusislordgodisgood4408 Год назад

      it's well !

  • @Jayngondi
    @Jayngondi Год назад +2

    This should be very interesting

  • @beautydefined1601
    @beautydefined1601 Год назад +4

    How can I connect to his ministry?

  • @oladelemayowa5774
    @oladelemayowa5774 Год назад

    Hello TED GOD BLESS YOU SISTER'S

  • @omowumipeace986
    @omowumipeace986 Год назад

    I'm indeed blessed

  • @banjokoayo
    @banjokoayo Год назад

    Wow,I was blessed 😊

  • @amarachicharleso2909
    @amarachicharleso2909 Год назад

    Intentionally listening to God

  • @biomedunilag2788
    @biomedunilag2788 Год назад +2

    TED Talk❤❤❤