@@reigenpott9953 polyamory isn't a kink. There were no kinky relationships in DA:1 as far as I know (then again, I didn't play it: only heard from friends). Iron Bull in DA: Inquisition turns out to be a Dominant, but very much of the "Daddy" variety. He says his intention is to give you a safe space to unwind. Certainly, he's not going to pull out a whip or anything. It does count as kinky though. In this game though, the kink is a lot more extreme. Regongar is a classic masochist, and seems to have submissive tendencies when it comes to Octavia. She seems to be a Sadistic Dominant. NB: the words "sadism" and "masochism" have very different meanings in the kink community than they do outside that context. Sadism as a kink is more like schadenfraude. You enjoy seeing someone experience a *harmless* pain or humiliation, especially someone you admire greatly, because it proves they are as vulnerable and fallible as you. If someone, especially someone you love, is actually harmed that's a different story entirely.
@Thotslayer 3000 it's really not lol, their relationship is incredibly dysfunctional unless you come along to fix it. you can split them up and just get with octavia if you want.
I missed out on all these interactions on all of my play throughs because I'm a sucker for that fairy-tale melodrama Nyrissa's got going. I can't say no to it. It's so forlorn, so sickly sweet, tragic yet hopeful.
Very late to the party, but where do i find a written guide for this? I've just discovered this game (it's amazing) and imagine my surprise when I didn't get the triple marriage slide when i've been trying to...also I didn't get all the conversations, apparently I am missing A LOT of conversations(for example I don't remember the jump my bones when entering the capital conversation from 19:38 or the talk with octavia about tests and scars from 17:17) but I do remember the whip threesome and Octavia's jealousy thing with the barbarian chief, Dugath. If it makes any difference I run with Reg, Octavia, Tristian, Jaethal and somebody else, usually whomever I need to do the quest with or Linzi. Also I rarely camp (I've seen a lot of campfire convos) I played a melee sorc so I rarely neded it. Alignment was Chaotic Good, ended the game as Neutral Good. Thank you in advance for any tips.
I tried so hard to get this but I missed finding the whip...And now I appear to have started something with just Reg as Octavia didn't want to join us when invited 😢. Does anyone know if there are other chances to romance both down the line? I'd rather not restart my game and I really don't want to break Reg and Octavia up!
As a person who's downloading the game and watching few videos about it : I was fastforwarding this video and confuse about why the orc there and then when i reach the end and read. "....a miracle for three!.. u huh.. Their triple wedding.. what? ooohhh"
You absolutely can romance only Octavia but you have to remain close friends with Regongar. That's what happened in my play-through although the last act bugged out on me. Perhaps it changes at the end.
@@BrunoAnton haha so you can influence her to leave regongar as long as the guy and I are best friends or it remains a love triangle? if the former is true than that sucks, kills the advantage she has over Valery (although she is also an ass for not forgetting her ex and always bringing him up one way or another)
I am at chapter 5 and i got almost none of these conversations. Do i really have to have Regongar in my party with her all the time to further the romance with her?
@@pintlemounted in the dungeon where you fight Tartuk and that troll boss (who's name escapes me) at the end of Chapter 2. Have both in your party and when you find the whip both Octavia and Regonar will want to "play with it". Hand it over and add that you want to join in😏
The moment I realize they were in a open relationship I completely pulled back on my flirtations that’s a ship I’m not going down on and I refuse to believe they would forever stay in an open relationship and be happy but if they do then lord have mercy they would be the first
@@emmagoldman5382 That's not being bigoted. Don't trivialize actual bigotry just because you enjoy strange relationships. Signed, an actual marginalized person who experienced bigotry you could never imagine.
@@wantedalive0 i mean i'm literally a trans lesbian, i know a thing or two about bigotry lmaoooo it's not trivialising to call bigotry what it is, and thinking poly relationships are inherently bad is bigotry
@@emmagoldman5382In other words, people don’t pretend to believe in your fantasy. It’s not the same for facing prejudice for something you can’t change.
Man these RPG romances get kinkier every year... not that I mind :D
its just threesome in drageon age 1 you can 4. :D
@@reigenpott9953 polyamory isn't a kink. There were no kinky relationships in DA:1 as far as I know (then again, I didn't play it: only heard from friends). Iron Bull in DA: Inquisition turns out to be a Dominant, but very much of the "Daddy" variety. He says his intention is to give you a safe space to unwind. Certainly, he's not going to pull out a whip or anything. It does count as kinky though.
In this game though, the kink is a lot more extreme. Regongar is a classic masochist, and seems to have submissive tendencies when it comes to Octavia. She seems to be a Sadistic Dominant. NB: the words "sadism" and "masochism" have very different meanings in the kink community than they do outside that context. Sadism as a kink is more like schadenfraude. You enjoy seeing someone experience a *harmless* pain or humiliation, especially someone you admire greatly, because it proves they are as vulnerable and fallible as you. If someone, especially someone you love, is actually harmed that's a different story entirely.
@Thotslayer 3000 it's really not lol, their relationship is incredibly dysfunctional unless you come along to fix it. you can split them up and just get with octavia if you want.
sadly you can't have the advanced ending without being romance-free; that's contrary to what you say
I missed out on all these interactions on all of my play throughs because I'm a sucker for that fairy-tale melodrama Nyrissa's got going. I can't say no to it. It's so forlorn, so sickly sweet, tragic yet hopeful.
Very late to the party, but where do i find a written guide for this? I've just discovered this game (it's amazing) and imagine my surprise when I didn't get the triple marriage slide when i've been trying to...also I didn't get all the conversations, apparently I am missing A LOT of conversations(for example I don't remember the jump my bones when entering the capital conversation from 19:38 or the talk with octavia about tests and scars from 17:17) but I do remember the whip threesome and Octavia's jealousy thing with the barbarian chief, Dugath. If it makes any difference I run with Reg, Octavia, Tristian, Jaethal and somebody else, usually whomever I need to do the quest with or Linzi. Also I rarely camp (I've seen a lot of campfire convos) I played a melee sorc so I rarely neded it. Alignment was Chaotic Good, ended the game as Neutral Good. Thank you in advance for any tips.
I tried so hard to get this but I missed finding the whip...And now I appear to have started something with just Reg as Octavia didn't want to join us when invited 😢. Does anyone know if there are other chances to romance both down the line? I'd rather not restart my game and I really don't want to break Reg and Octavia up!
Will you add solo - Octavia romance? You add solo - Reg
Love those two XD
My little bi poly heart can't take this much hotness!! 🥵 seriously though, I love that they gave us this romance route!
They are cute. One of my favorite romance in games.
As a person who's downloading the game and watching few videos about it :
I was fastforwarding this video and confuse about why the orc there and then when i reach the end and read. "....a miracle for three!.. u huh.. Their triple wedding.. what? ooohhh"
I did something wrong and couldn't save the poly relationship :(
Ummm I think I'll stick with just one of them as a lover. The whole trio of lovers thing threw me off. But, oh well. Nice romance.
Wonder if there is a guide to romance only Octavia
Been trying to find it, but DanaDuchy seems to be the only one doing these for this game, and he seems to have moved on to other games sadly
You absolutely can romance only Octavia but you have to remain close friends with Regongar. That's what happened in my play-through although the last act bugged out on me. Perhaps it changes at the end.
@@BrunoAnton haha so you can influence her to leave regongar as long as the guy and I are best friends or it remains a love triangle? if the former is true than that sucks, kills the advantage she has over Valery (although she is also an ass for not forgetting her ex and always bringing him up one way or another)
I am at chapter 5 and i got almost none of these conversations. Do i really have to have Regongar in my party with her all the time to further the romance with her?
Need an answer to this too. I haven't been using regongar at all. Btw, where is it you find the whip?
@@pintlemounted in the dungeon where you fight Tartuk and that troll boss (who's name escapes me) at the end of Chapter 2. Have both in your party and when you find the whip both Octavia and Regonar will want to "play with it". Hand it over and add that you want to join in😏
@@pintlemounted you also need accept quest from barthalomew to find whip, its near rubbles where the boss zone is, one with many enemies
In order to find the whip in Troll's Lair, is it necessary that Bartholomew Delgado dies?
I didn't have to have him die. Just search everywhere in the bottom level
will u do just octavia ? maybe?
So is there a way to do the romance with only Octavia? If so what do i need to do?
Just don't agree to have Regongar join.
@@DrZuluGaming Lol I invited regongar to join but he refused saying that he would rather have a beer.
This felt way too much like someone trying to self insert and it really came across as pathetic especially for a Half Orc.
Do Reg and Octavia break up if you decide for only one of them?
yes
You know... I had no idea how much of a trash fire either of those two were until now. D:
I would be lenient with octevia is she leaves reg for us but seems that's not an option.
i thought u can make octavia leave reg
@@yeetusdeletus1575 You can, you can even see the dialogue it happens in in this video.
The moment I realize they were in a open relationship I completely pulled back on my flirtations that’s a ship I’m not going down on and I refuse to believe they would forever stay in an open relationship and be happy but if they do then lord have mercy they would be the first
ok bigot
@@emmagoldman5382 That's not being bigoted. Don't trivialize actual bigotry just because you enjoy strange relationships. Signed, an actual marginalized person who experienced bigotry you could never imagine.
@@wantedalive0 i mean i'm literally a trans lesbian, i know a thing or two about bigotry lmaoooo it's not trivialising to call bigotry what it is, and thinking poly relationships are inherently bad is bigotry
@@emmagoldman5382 nah it's for low IQ individuals
@@emmagoldman5382In other words, people don’t pretend to believe in your fantasy. It’s not the same for facing prejudice for something you can’t change.
JFC it reads like a fanfiction.
Just one word: Eeeewwwww.....
... now I'm reeeeaaaally glad I didn't follow this path....
@@ReconVirus They might be more alpha since they probably don't want to share like me.