My Bitchy Insecure Girlfriend
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- What causes women to become bitchy and mistreat you, and how you should handle girlfriends who threaten you with drama, breakups or punishing you when you don't do things the way they expect. The most common mistakes men make in long term relationships that lead to drama, or bitchy wives and girlfriends, and how you can avoid them.
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I just broke it off with my girl . I feel so horrible because I know it hurt her , but she always accused me of cheating , was insanely jealous and insecure and it finally pushed me away.
Too right bro f that s
Did you cheat? The only time I became super insecure and bitchy was when I seriously got cheated on.
Hmm me too. Filipinas 🇵🇭 are that way
@@HDGaminTutorialsno cheating . Life’s been great since I broke it off
I don't think that adult women should have to be taught to respect other people. They should have been taught that as children. If you're not happy with something, you should vocalize why you're unhappy instead of acting out in childish, non-direct ways.
Some women are just chronically unhappy. They're not able to maintain satisfaction with anything in their lives, including their partner. The problem lies within themselves, not within other people. They bounce from one relationship to another, and all they want to do is demand, demand, demand, They never find lasting happiness because they're not happy within themselves. They set high standards for their mate because they feel bad about themselves. They accuse their mate of having shortcomings that they secretly feel that they themselves have. Insecure women will continually test and accuse their man of "not being man enough" because they want security from their partner which they do not have within themselves. This is why some women are attracted to macho jerks. They are not good marriage/ long-term relationship partners.
Sorry Corey, dump this girl, she's an insecure drama queen, "standing up for yourself" we morph her into "victim"mode... not your job to have to "teach" respect.
I agree with Corey to an extent and this comment. 1- you should be an alpha. But 2- this comment is true, some people just circulate drama and thrive off that rollercoaster. I dealt with this for 2 years, proving my value and being a man. Taking charge definitely does mean walking away from that, because women like this will eventually try to win the game or get at you. Be alpha and never tolerate that behavior. Corey is right but he never says to find a different women here. After a blowout and a bad 2 years, I fully appreciate the beautiful woman I am with now.
I have never seen anybody explaining this better than you just did right now.
To you that's what makes sense but women generally are less logic-oriented and more emotion-oriented, and you can actually see this in studies on sizes of different parts of the brain. They try to communicate just in a way that seems strange to us. I think Corey does a great job at helping dudes understand how to understand that better. I definitely have learned how to better understand my wife in my marriage
Ha ha ha you forgot to say that we are witches also bua ha ha ha
1:56 You're both in a relationship to give and help the other person grow. A bitchy woman helps you grow stronger by being just the worst possible person to be around.
bottom line- if she mistreats you, call her out. just be polite about it.
Me: Don't talk to me like that
Gf: It's your fault i talk like this
Me: How?
Gf: Because you don't get it otherwise
Me: i don't get what?
GF: I don't wanna talk about it
Aaaand there's the loop how you can manipulate the shit out of someone and being the victim.
You are being too easy on women. Men overextend themselves during courtship. Men have no idea how difficult it's going to be to stay married.
preach
Are you trying to make me feel bad about saying what I really believe to be true? BTW I'm 48 y.o. with lots of experience. How about you?
Sounds more like a you problem and tho women you get with I've know plenty women who are fine with average 20 to 30 dollars dates just cause you want a bougie bitch doesnt mean most women are.
Omg she sounds immature & manipulative. Men or women who threaten to break up all the time are so frustrating!
yep it's like walking on eggshell
I had that threat after seeing a girl i was involved with 15 years previously. Hadn't seen her for 10 years. Told if i met for a drink with her then its all over. 🙄
As much as i loved my Ex Gf, She would do this to me. She was so sweet and caring in the beginning of the relationship, after 3 months She started to become passive aggressive and manipulative. I miss Her, but certainly do not miss how She treated me. Crazy 5 months of my life
It always seems to be the really beautiful women that's so bitchy and insecure. Not all but most.
My wife is always having drama with someone everyday. Everyday she has a problem with someone. Her Life is filled with drama.
Women in general want a leader-
Who will do exactly what he's told.
LOL!!!!!!
The insanity
I wouldn't trust modern men to lead or the vast majority of them cant lead cause they don't know how at all
My girl is insecure BAD and always look for problems. She always think negative and her low self-esteem comes on me. Im getting outta this shit because thats no solution
Only thing you can do when it comes to this point .
Most of these women deal with father issues and pain from previous relationships. That’s not fair for a good man to deal with the trauma. It doesn’t matter what you do some people it will never be enough. That feeling she chasing is a void from no valuable male in her life
That is my ex girlfriend, she has daddy issues plus pain and trauma from previous relationships. I did try to work it out but it wasn't enough. I paid the price and ended the relationship in May of 2022.
AMS brought me here. Lots of good knowledge right here. I definitely have a lot of respect for Corey Wayne.
Same here
Heheh, I love your "weak guy" imitations, coach... Been there, done that.
Fuck bro, i started off exactly how you describe being alpha but as I gotbmore into it I started getting less alpha, I need to get back on that shit any recommendations, exactly the same thing I don't wanna upset her but you right I need to show her I can leave
Ivan Robles I'm no pro at this, but I've read his book about 9 times already. So basically all you have to do is mean what you say. A lot of women like to test men, for ex: you can say "if you continue acting bitchy, im going to leave and let another girl step up for the title. I know I'm the best, and I deserve nothing BUT the best." Then she might say something like "Well just fucking leave then, since you're gonna be like that." Then walk away. And do it with a straight face, don't let out a single tear and a few days later, she'll message you or call you wanting to get back with you. And *if* you decide to take her back, make sure she knows her place and knows that there's other girls waiting in line to date you. And tell her she needs to ALWAYS give you her best effort if she wants to stay with you. And if she doesn't, then let her go. Now if she's unhappy about something that clearly isn't your fault, let her deal with it. An alpha male never helps somebody that he knows can handle something on their own. And if it is something you did, tell her you're sorry ONCE, and move on. Don't allow yourself to be stuck kissing her ass for hours because of a little mishap. You're human, humans make mistakes.
I hope you got out of that relationship. Insecure women do that to you, i should know.
"So i can examine this outfit more closely" lol! thats something i would say. Good stuff
I do like a man in charge..i'm single and i see so many men who let the women control them and I just don't understand that
They're tired of her bitchyness and they just throw in the towel. I understand them, though it's not effective long term. Just say in a polite way, this is the way i'm doing things. If you don't like it, it's okey. My way of doing things is only an advice, in the end of the day you can do what you want.
I been through two divorces in 5 years. They tried this. I cut them off from my money and let them divorce me
My girlfriend just started getting bitchy this last week, stopped texting and calling as much. Isn't as excited when we go it. It's affecting my attraction to her to the point where I don't even care.
Totally man. Found out she is still communicating with her ex bf, she claims it was just to "see how you were doing" kind of thing but I have my doubts. She's going warm again but now I feel like I will never fully trust her.
SemperFiMac77 “just to see how you were doing”?! Definitely not what was going on brother. I literally could not trust this woman after this... revisiting ex’s is a big red flag
Oh yeah you're right. She was sleeping with him. Needless to say, we are not together anymore but I got with one of her best girlfriends on the way out as payback lol
@@poolee77 nice
The story of my last 2 years in my 10 year relationship.
The title said it all Corey! I do the alpha male thing and she still is like this but she always comes back FML.
flyboynextdoor let her go man, I dated a girl like that who ALWAYS tried to test me and she NEVER got better. No matter how many times she came back, there's better women out there who will treat you like you deserve!
Whenever your woman starts to act bitchy and dramatic to the point where she is disrespectful, calmly correct her by setting your boundaries and telling her she needs to be sweet and communicate in a loving way... STAY CALM, STAY FIRM... when all else fails and you feel yourself starting to get upset or she isn't changing the attitude, CREATE SPACE. Send her home, you go home, take a drive, hit the gym whatever and watch one of these videos to re-center yourself before you make an emotional mistake 😂
I see lots of valid points here. You are really spot on about some parts, especially about the differences between the genders. I guess I’m exactly what you describe as a “bitchy gf” and it already ruined one of my relationships. It’s interesting, but before I haven’t seemed to have problem with this, or at least not so much but somehow in my last relationship this had come to the surface. Now I started to date again and it seems to be happening all over, which was quite eye opening for me. I really hate being like this, of course, because in my head I’m just trying to communicate but it seems like my message often gets lost in translation.
Any tips about this? I mean, there is being unnecessarily bitchy and that’s totally different thing, but sometimes there are also things that have to be communicated, so I often find myself on thin ice and very conflicted between how to be communicative but yet not seem bitchy. Would be really interesting to hear your perspective on this and how to find some balance and peace of mind.
My gf is exactly like this and I always advise her to take a breath and think about how what she says will hurt my feelings. That we need to be each other's peace and that EVERYTHING we say needs to be said with love REGARDLESS of how upset we get.
dude I'm living with someone that now I'm trying to move out. if I go out smoke a blunt in the car and come back....she thinks I'm sleeping with someone all the time it's crazy....I've hit her after being accused so many times...I get very angry and explosive....idk what to do its like being interrogated all the time....she blames me always and it's my fault I snapped....been a year of blamming
Alberto Reyes did you leave?
Alberto Reyes fuck that shit, i feel you bro..
Same thing is happening to me literally as i type this...always accusing me of that shit! Yet she can have guy friends? Fuckin insecure double standard garbage!
same here bro ben through that shit before but putting your hands on a female it just make u more betta and also when someone accuses u of doing something or assuming, it almost always means that its them doing it to u so just something to think about.
Don't ever hit a women just leave . Leave leave leave . A person like this will just bring you into a paradox of there own sick mental state . By leaving your standing up for yourself and not being abused by her insecurities 24/7.
Hey dude . I was with a girl for a year and just broke it off . If I didint call her the same time everyday “ twice a day” she’s freak out and blow up my phone . We where long distance . Other than that she was great , I loved her and tried and never cheated , even when I broke it off she started saying I was breaking up because I was cheating on her . Kills my soul and breaks my fucking heart hurting her .
One thing I noticed too based off a point you made, when men are single I noticed we tend to be more interesting, sometimes when you get in a relationship with the wrong woman you become boring and miserable, and she knows this. Women knowing you can do better or if they are holding you back. When we were single we had energy and joy and that’s what attracted the woman. But with the wrong woman she steaks that from you and you change, then they pull away.
I think my gf is belittling me to her parents and painting me as a bad guy and telling them only the bad
You are way too funny. You really think if the guy doesn't communicate but demand the girl to have a sweet and loving voice all the time is gonna work... LOL!
does being the leader also help when the girl is really insecure and has low self esteem? Or is it a lost cause with these type of women?
Trouble is though when you speak your mind they go berserk!!!!
Very true !
Thats when u leave
Are you afraid of that?
Just bought your audiobook, I hope your book can help me in my relationship.
brotha you made me LOL so many times with this episode hahaha. Da F###ing Man!!!!!
I love this video, great points made.
Coach those dopey little voices you make always make me giggle...very cute :D.
15:06 that voice reminded me of Onison for some reason lol
I love his "takin no sh*t" voice...lol
So far, this☝️ guy knows what he is talking about. 👏
Lol his impressions are on point on this video
Hey coach, I'm confused on whether she is backing away because she is mad or simply losing interest. If it's the latter then you advise to pull back and even go no contact. But if is she is pulling back because she is mad, then how should I handle it ? Is there a difference between someone pulling back and someone who is simply angry at you (also pulling back) ?
Yeah I finally had it with my significant other , she just wouldn't let me be a leader. I wasn't allowed to play cyberpunk 2077 if I did she told me she'd leave me. I wasn't allowed to go to the store without her cuz there could be a woman in the store . I wasn't allowed to watch movies with actresses in it n if there was I had to look away from the tv or shed accuse me of wanting to leave her for them , I couldn't use my phone cuz she would attack me if I did n I'd have to show and explain anything on my phone . If I didn't text her within a 30 minute time frame yes 24/7 a day ( that's alot of texts) I had to explain in detail what I was doing and why I didn't text back within her timeframe , the list goes on n on . I decided to be my own leader and left . I thought this behavior was sick , I tried to tough it out , she would just get worse more insecure more controlling more manipulative. There's a point where a man needs to be a man n lead and if they can't handle that it's there own damn fault they get left in the dust.
I just broke it off and I loved my girl , but it was killing my soul . She’s in another country , she just said she was going to take all her sleeping pills and said “ goodbye my love “ - I can’t help but think she’s still trying to manipulate me
@@nickwatland4215 that's just too get your attention, that's a very selfish act and if she cared and loved you she wouldn't harm herself because that hurts you. It's just an attention manipulation . Just focus on yourself and making yourself happy regardless of what she does and tells you. Keep your head up.
Thanks for the advice....hopefully it works
I need help with my relationships troubles
Women behave the way their men allow them to behave.
My girlfriend gets mad that give my brother rides all the time when my brother can ask my dad among other things and said I have to change or it’s over cause she says my family takes advantage of me and don’t want to be with a man like that that don’t put her first and now I’m confused on what to do pain in the ass and she also super jelaus
15:05 Lmao
My girlfriend and I have been exclusive for 6 months and are really close. Though we do have issues as I am amicably divorced and coparenting with exwife and she doesn't like how amicable I am with ex. Question is my girlfriend expects me to pay for all our dinners, amusement parks, and now vacation (that she wants). Is it reasonable for me to have to pay for everything? I was going to offer her to pay for all expenses during the vacation if she pays her plane and hotel ticket, but she may not agree or just break up over this? She is smoking hot 34 years old never married and I am a successful and handsome 43 year old divorced with two young kids
insecurity is the worst thing ever ik my girlfriend very well the world apart I knew things about her didn't fit her being material as a idea girlfriend and future wife but I wouldn't tell her I love for the fact that she lies about doing things like changing together for the better now she just guilts me by saying ooh everything is my fault in actuality it is but I don't put her down she puts herself down it sucks cuz I think she shouldn't put herself down and blame me and I hurt aswell but i know she piss me off I'll get violent for1 my shits not together for putting her 1st and feel she owes me money for being her therapist I'm stressed and answer is I'm trying and u get three excuses to everything she she just doesn't want to do chased me with a car everything I let her ruin things for me smh being a ♋ I don't think I'm meant to be happy
MAkes it sound like older couples and engaged people dont do converstations or talk since from this a man is supposed to: Whent he woman take contact: Set a date, then close the converstation and dont talk to her for a hour or longer, just seta date and thats it. so when one is living together and such one isnt supposed to talk or have things both enjoy to do but stay away and not talk unless to set a new date or event.
Or this advice is mostly for people who are just starting to get together and is at the get together stage/dating?
Coach Corey
Im kind of going thru if what u saying my wife now wants to separate says she want space but still trying to keep around for the kids she says she'll never sleep with me again i dont believe her because of the way she is when the next guy comes and mess up ill be the rebound i want my wife back but i wont tolerate the disrespectfulness im have alot but i need to focus on me and my daughter that i have with her!
Nexxx Hisham-abdul-aziz how are you now ?
So Corey. What's it like being a level 6,000 Dragon Master? Jk....
Lol @ 10:18!!!
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I like your tactics when you suggested giving her flowers :)