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100 yrs ago men married 13-16 girls.... so by thar understanding. They're not children.. though I personally am glad it's been raised in most states here legal age is 18
She's not very smart either and apparently neither are her parents. "When she didn’t show up for her 8th-grade graduation" Why was she not with her parents ? Why is she 15 in 8th grade??
WHERE THE F WERE HER PARENTS? WHERE THE F WERE HER CAREGIVERS? WHO THE F ALLOWS A 15 YEAR OLD CHILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 21 YEAR OLD? HE'S A WALKING RED FLAG!
When mw and my best friend were kids she always had older boyfriends. From the age of 13 . Her mother would let them stay tge night and everything. 🤷♀️ this was in the early 90's.
@ladyhotep I had a friend in high school who had a long-time boyfriend that I learned later on was 21. He basically lived in her house with her and her mom. I heard from another friend that he paid her mom money so she could go buy coke. Some mothers are trash.
21yr old boyfriend, 15yrs old in 8th grade...history of abusive from adult boyfriend...these "parents" need to start being charged for neglect and failure to protect.
WHAT parent allows their 15 year old daughter to date a 21 year old male?!? And, what kind of parent raises their son to believe that it's normal to abuse young girls and women of any age?!? Real men don't abuse or threaten anyone. Enough is enough!!!
Not only is the boyfriend culpable, but so are the parents. If the child was living in the parents' home, they had a responsibility to report that man dating their daughter, if she continued to see him. STOP TAKING AWAY PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY.
@@x0xTHLover4Lifex0xThat doesn’t happen in households where parent’s are involved & attentive. My teenage attempts at sneaking out were never successful
@@oliviamorgan-nb5ln True. They had that years ago when I was in school...the "No Child Left Behind" program. Not enough teachers to work with the struggling students.
A 15-year-old with a 21 year-old who has been dating for a while. She just turned 15 April so he was dating her when when she was like 12 13 this is ridiculous. We are the caregivers.
I don’t know- I think my parents did a pretty great job of taking a middle path w/ me, especially as I’m both the oldest and the only girl. They were strict, but if they had outright forbid me from dating, guess what I would have decided to prioritize beyond all reason? Every kid is different but I think it’s pretty important not to restrict SO completely that you end up inciting reactionary rebellion
@@sarahissersohn5495 speak for yourself! My parents were real strict! I'm married and successful with one child and one pregnancy only. Strict parenting didn't make me want to be a 304
parents need to set rules and priorities. Having a boyfriend at 15 is not a priority or a right! There is no need to negotiate that with an underaged teen.
Oh stop. My first boyfriend was five years older. It was either that or date an immature boy that didn't even seem to like women as a whole. I don't think dating slightly older should be seen as a crime. I ended up with my boyfriend for 9 years. He's no longer with us. I'm now 45 and married to someone 14 years older. Most are just going to be more mature. They are not usually going to take people's lives. Geez.
I was 14 with a 21 year old. My mom didn't give a flying phuck about me and considered it a way to get rid of me. I didn't realize how sick it was until my daughter was the same age. Its incredibly easy to be groomed and you dont even know it's happening. .
@@MrBeanieWeenies801teenagers are at the age of development where they want more independence and be seen as "more mature." That's an element that these weirdos play on. Don't blame the kid when there were multiple full grown adults aware of the situation.
So, so many questions. Still in middle school at 15? Dating a man 21 years old. I know I don’t know all the facts were the parents involved in her life, why was she dating a 21 year old? So many things wrong here. And the result of all of this is, a person was killed.
Moral compass....she was a child! 15!! This was a 21 year old ADULT! HE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER!!! And honestly she was being more of an adult by wanting to be DONE and leave the relationship and he was acting childish! Spare the ignorant comments. This child didn't deserve this adult taking advantage of her, and then taking her life bc he was mentally incapable of handling rejection from a CHILD! RIP to her beautiful soul! And you should go educate yourself and pray this never happens to you or anyone you love
My family begged and begged my ex sister in law to leave her boyfriend for the sake of our nephew and her other two kids. She tried getting a restraining order, cops said their hands were tied because he hadn't done anything yet despite him making threats and stalking her. He had previously beat the crap out of her in front of her kids but he went into hiding and no one was giving him up. She got let go from a job because of his stalking her when she was on the clock. One night she went out to go get medicine for nephew because he was sick and he was waiting outside with a gun. She only made it a few houses down when he caused her to crash. He shot her as her kids watched from the window (they had heard the commotion and looked out the window). The coward then turned the gun on himself. Now my parents are raising my nephew and his siblings have gone to their dads. It's just so sad....prayers to the family. No parent should ever have to bury their child and no child should ever have to bury their parents at such a young age.
He knew she was vulnerable and he attacked. Basic grooming 101 I can't believe how many sick phucks are in here justifing and victim blaming. It's gotdammed sickening!
Point being, he doesn't THINK he's abusive! He thinks WHATEVER he does is ok! Extremely emotionally immature. That's why he's molesting children to begin with, and abusing them. See Lindsay Gibson, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Those two books answer all your questions.
That is just about the most moronic thing you could ever type. Why would an abuser think they need help, when they believe their actions are justified? Also, abusers don't see themselves as abusers.
Us old people are less shocked: I too knew people in my high school and middle school with boyfriends twice as old and older. The girls were viewed as “advanced” by myself and my peers. I’m *very* glad people are appropriately more concerned about this in 2024. These men are straight predators. That poor child-to be so innocent to be excited about graduating 8th grade. I’m unspeakably horrified and angry.
Yeah when I heard eighth grade I assumed she was like 12ish since that’s how old I was in eighth grade. I didn’t realize she was 15 til they actually mentioned it. That’s quite the delay. Seems like her parents failed her in more ways than one.
Some kids were forced to wait until they were 6 because of school policy. Or she was held back a year. I turned 15 right after I started 9th grade. She was to start 9th grade in the fall.
@@Littlelikeme92I was 15 in 9th grade because of how my birthday fell. She was 14 in 8th grade. She just turned 15. It's not that crazy. It doesn't mean that her parents neglected her education. Aside from that, it's easy to fall behind in school. What's the most messed up is that she told people that he was hurting and threatening her and nobody did anything.
@@GirlofpagesI think that considering the circumstances it would be safe to assume that her family (the same family who didn’t help her when they saw bruises on her) may not have been present enough to make sure she was prioritizing her education.
I totally blame the family for allowing a 21yo date the daughter who was only 15 and a child!! WTF is wrong with those parents??!! 🤬 They have their daughters blood on them!
Clicked on this because I was so horrified by the title that it drew my curiosity, and I was subsequently even more horrified to hear that it happened in the county where I live. Don't know how I missed this on the news, It's just awful.
If he couldn't help his daughter and keep that guy away when she was alive, why on earth would anyone want to help him now!?! Would he even use the money for that?
@@user-zc3th7bk3g: Don’t forget that his parents allowed him to murder her. And then of course there are all the other parents in the neighborhood who didn’t prevent it. Not to even mention parents everywhere!!
Of course they have a go fund me/ they let their child date a grown man, yet, zero life insurance. I’m not helping to bury your child/ ask her in laws. That’s right, he was her boyfriend at 14 years old. People need to get life insurance.
Starting at the age of 14 yrs old, this teenage female was allowed to start dating a 21 yrs old adult male. Geez !!! What kind of adult, in charge of parenting her, allows this? May she now RIP.
15 and dating a 21 year old! 15 in 8th grade? Shouldn't she be in 10th grade? Her sk called boyfriend had no right to take someone's life! RIP to the girl!
Well, when I did, I always told my parents I was at a friend's house. It is relatively easy to do unless your parents are going to phone the friend's parents to check that you're there. Sadly this is something parents should probably be doing, or agree that the friend's parents will phone when you get there and when you leave.
As a parent, it’s your JOB to know who your kids are hanging out with, communicating with. You need to have 100% access to their cell phones and just say NO to social media. Know where your kids are going to when they leave the house. There’s no reason for them walking aimlessly around the streets, etc. And for heaven sakes, keep them busy with sports, after school clubs, anything that helps them engage with other people and/or learn things. Idle hands get you in big trouble.
As a teen about 16 I had a “boyfriend” who started getting violent, I was just so scared to tell anyone since I couldn’t even have a boyfriend. I dealt with it until I turned 18, all because I didn’t want to give my parents problems. As an adult now, I tell everyone women and men YOU go and get yourself justice, go to the police, and NO they DONT change. Protect yourself! Love on you, a person who truly loves you will NEVER hurt you. That is not love! It’s obsession, this man had a whole other girlfriend and still bugging his ex. Don’t enable these abusers, let them ruin their own lives. It’s not your fault.
Everyone develops at their own pace. I knew people w/ December birthdays who started school late- they turned 14 in 8th grade. If they repeated a grade, they would’ve turned 15 in 8th grade, so it’s totally possible.
It's normal. A simple Google search would tell you that. The average age of 8th graders worldwide is 13-15. What is wrong with you people?? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
15 year old middle schoolers are very common and it's literally normal. A simple Google search would tell you that. The average age of 8th graders worldwide is 13-15. What is wrong with you people?? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
What’s scary is I don’t think people truly realize how common this weird, inappropriate age gaps really are, it happens A LOT more than people realize, these young girls are in such a rush to grow up and these grown men in their 20’s take advantage of that, keep an eye on your kids, it could easily be yours if you don’t help them stay on the right path
I don't know who is creepier, her ex-boyfriend or her parents for overlooking this situation. Both of them let her down. I can't believe the this lady, kept saying "Not blaming the family". This family should have been taking care of this child.
i started a relationship at 14 but i was under custody of an aunt not my parents. and she paid no attetnion at all and had no idea and then when she met him she called him a loser lol
This is EXACTLY THE REASON THAT KIDS SHOULD BE KIDS. They shouldnt have these worries on their shoulders and are too immature to have intimate relationships.
I was in a similar relationship. Met him when I was 15 and he was 25. My mother did try everything to keep us apart. He was arrested twice but I didnt want to press charges. I ran away with him a few times. My mother didnt want to lose me so she gave up. I got pregnant at 17 and at 19 my mother sent me and my son abroad to get out of the relationship but by then I was so controlled that I paid for him to join me. I left him when I was 25, When I finally realised it was abusive and he is a narcissist. I have no idea if or what the parents did to help but I know from experience it is very hard from a parents perspective.
I hope her parents are being investigated. In no world should a child be able to hide a grown adult boyfriend, her parents were absolutely being negligent.
She clearly didn’t have the proper guidance at home. She’s 15 in the 8th grade dating a 21 year old. This is a sad story. Two young people lost their lives due to unnecessary violence. RIP to baby girl
So terrible! He should have already been in jail. We need to be teaching our children about warning signs. Telling them to speak up, as well as when someone says they don't want to date any longer, that's it. You only get one chance to treat someone with respect. I'm already speaking to my boys about consent, respectable behavior and chivalry.
Questions: 1-Why is a 15yr old girl ALLOWED to date a 21yr old Grown Man? Where were her PARENTS or her GRANDPARENTS?? 2-Why was the 15 yr old responsible for getting herself to her own graduation? Why was she left unsupervised?? 3-Why didn't the Family call 911 and try to Protect her??
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Lmaoooo
Americans are so litigious 😂
Oh no, consequences of people's own stupidity and vanity....
Okay I was wrong about channel. This channel is fairly fair
Berberine is nature's Ozempic.
21 yo with a 15 yo... How was that man already not in jail for minor abuse?
Republicans are trying to change the age of consent to 12yr olds! Sickening
i wonder what she said?
@13orrax
Who?
The victim?
Nowadays, these men want virgins so they're picking these Girls that are underage,
Idk but she's under the age of consent in every single state.
He was NOT HER BOYFRIEND. he is a groomer. Children can't consent to dating adults.
exactly,
Stop using buzzwords you don't know the definition of
Them teenagers know what they're doing. They be seducing these older guys. They like it until something happens..
@@Digger-Nickgot proof?
That seriously just makes no sense 😮
So this child had just turned 15, with a 21yr old. He should have been jailed for that fact alone.
100 yrs ago men married 13-16 girls.... so by thar understanding. They're not children.. though I personally am glad it's been raised in most states here legal age is 18
She's not very smart either and apparently neither are her parents.
"When she didn’t show up for her 8th-grade graduation"
Why was she not with her parents ? Why is she 15 in 8th grade??
@@ChrisSmith-ew9fp That doesn't make them not children, it makes them children being screwed by older men.
She was a child dont blame her, blame the MAN @@Ken-yg8vb
@@ChrisSmith-ew9fp 15 is a child ...SICKO! You sound like R Kelly!🤦🏼♀️
WHERE THE F WERE HER PARENTS? WHERE THE F WERE HER CAREGIVERS? WHO THE F ALLOWS A 15 YEAR OLD CHILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 21 YEAR OLD? HE'S A WALKING RED FLAG!
To me he probably lie about his age and she left him for that reason
When mw and my best friend were kids she always had older boyfriends. From the age of 13 . Her mother would let them stay tge night and everything. 🤷♀️ this was in the early 90's.
I totally agree with you
Realistically, she was 14 when all this started!!! Her parents should be in jail!!!!!!!!
@ladyhotep I had a friend in high school who had a long-time boyfriend that I learned later on was 21. He basically lived in her house with her and her mom. I heard from another friend that he paid her mom money so she could go buy coke. Some mothers are trash.
21yr old boyfriend, 15yrs old in 8th grade...history of abusive from adult boyfriend...these "parents" need to start being charged for neglect and failure to protect.
These Karens think they're the best parent for everyone 😂😂
I hope your child never hides anything from you 😂 and you get charged for it
@@cowarddonnie-ji5yz I'm guessing you are in your 20's with purple hair and IF you have a job it's pouring coffee. 🤣🤣🤣
@@gracejones2831 no, that is your kid and you get scolded cause you don't call her "they"
I agree
Another child and ZERO PARENTS. SO SAD.
15 is a "minor" but is NOT a child. I started dating at 15 and most kids know plenty by that age. She lacked moral fiber.
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Disgusting to blame the child. 6 year age gap at 15 is huge. Parents should’ve gotten involved.
Both her mom & dad was there! I seen them speak on the news. Plus she had a large extended family.
@@Pretty_BlaqGyrlwhy did the grandma go to look for her the next day and find her? Where were her parents?
WHAT parent allows their 15 year old daughter to date a 21 year old male?!?
And, what kind of parent raises their son to believe that it's normal to abuse young girls and women of any age?!?
Real men don't abuse or threaten anyone.
Enough is enough!!!
In some countries especially Puerto Rico, Saudi Arabia and Africa, dating a 21 year old if you are 15 is normal.
The same parents who have a child still in 8th grade at 15 lol
@@fitnessbabe7958 Last time I checked Massachusetts is in the US..
@@Digger-NickRight she should be in like 10th grade.
@@batcactus6046the #45 likes them young too
Ahliana you spoke up for yourself when so many don't/can't/are scared to do. Police should have been called ASAP. RIP sweet girl.
Not only is the boyfriend culpable, but so are the parents. If the child was living in the parents' home, they had a responsibility to report that man dating their daughter, if she continued to see him. STOP TAKING AWAY PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY.
Exactly, thank you ! 100 💯
What if she was sneaking around AFTER BEING forbidden to see him? What if she was rebelling against her parents? Then what.
@@x0xTHLover4Lifex0xThat doesn’t happen in households where parent’s are involved & attentive. My teenage attempts at sneaking out were never successful
I hope you’re right. But it’s Massachusetts after all
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She was 15 in the 8th grade? Living with grandma. Her life was a tragedy waiting to happen.
sadly. :(
Exactly! There was so many red flags in this story. What a tragedy 😢
Must've been held back at least once
@@valariehartz7185 They RARELY hold students back now. They just push them on.
@@oliviamorgan-nb5ln True. They had that years ago when I was in school...the "No Child Left Behind" program. Not enough teachers to work with the struggling students.
A 15-year-old with a 21 year-old who has been dating for a while. She just turned 15 April so he was dating her when when she was like 12 13 this is ridiculous. We are the caregivers.
She shouldn’t have been allowed to have a Boyfriend period!!! Even worse a 21 yr old.
I don’t know- I think my parents did a pretty great job of taking a middle path w/ me, especially as I’m both the oldest and the only girl. They were strict, but if they had outright forbid me from dating, guess what I would have decided to prioritize beyond all reason? Every kid is different but I think it’s pretty important not to restrict SO completely that you end up inciting reactionary rebellion
@@sarahissersohn5495 speak for yourself! My parents were real strict! I'm married and successful with one child and one pregnancy only. Strict parenting didn't make me want to be a 304
@@sarahissersohn5495 you've been around the block 😂😂
parents need to set rules and priorities. Having a boyfriend at 15 is not a priority or a right! There is no need to negotiate that with an underaged teen.
I agree. 14/15 is too young. We never allowed our kids (both boys and girls) to date that young.
A domestic violence RELATIONSHIP!? She was 15 he was 21. Thats not a relationship. Thats child abuse
They were dating. You didn't even watch the video
@@jamiedavid8023 A 15 y/o and 21 y/o should not and legally cannot date
@@natalierose1072 legally they can't. They shouldn't too.
But here we are
@jamiedavid8023I hate the term “dating” sounds so cheesy.
Oh stop. My first boyfriend was five years older. It was either that or date an immature boy that didn't even seem to like women as a whole. I don't think dating slightly older should be seen as a crime. I ended up with my boyfriend for 9 years. He's no longer with us. I'm now 45 and married to someone 14 years older. Most are just going to be more mature. They are not usually going to take people's lives. Geez.
Oh man. This is rough. This guy was dating a child and then he takes her life?! Sickening
He completely ruined her on every level. Not just sickening. Abhorrent. Or the strongest word possible in the human language for disgusting.
He can't "date" her. Legally, she cannot make her own choices.
Would it have been better, if she was 18?
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 in other countries that age difference isnt so bad.
@@oliveryt7168you realize it’s not allowed in this country. Why are you bringing up other countries this doesn’t justify his actions.
I was 14 with a 21 year old. My mom didn't give a flying phuck about me and considered it a way to get rid of me. I didn't realize how sick it was until my daughter was the same age. Its incredibly easy to be groomed and you dont even know it's happening.
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totally! a 14 yr old is like a kid. your mom dropped the ball. glad you’re more on top of things
Doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that's wrong even at 14 you should've known
@@MrBeanieWeenies801teenagers are at the age of development where they want more independence and be seen as "more mature." That's an element that these weirdos play on. Don't blame the kid when there were multiple full grown adults aware of the situation.
Yesss!
@@MrBeanieWeenies801 So blame the child not the adults. Cool. You're that guy.
What parent let’s their middle school child date a 21 year old ⁉️⁉️🤬
what 15 year old is in grade 8? Talk about had it coming. Whole family is probably inbred.
Do we know that's the case? The relationship could have been kept secret from her parents.
It happens.
Hers.
The same parents that have a 15 year old in the 8th grade.
Parents should be charged with felony child neglect, not panhandling.
Panhandling is begging for my hard earned money. This is child abuse.
Exactly why was a little girl shot in her own home and no one checked on her but her own grandmother that didn't even live with her.
This is disgusting from the girls parents and the 21 year old boyfriend.
Exactly what I said that mother should be charged for neglect she’s disgusting 😡
Father to
Liberals wanted to let him off with a warning
Are you a lesbian?
No I’m painfully straight.
Here is some water, candy and pillow to rest you lucky girl 👧
@@smartyjonez5470 politics have nothing to do with this... focus please.
So, so many questions. Still in middle school at 15? Dating a man 21 years old. I know I don’t know all the facts were the parents involved in her life, why was she dating a 21 year old? So many things wrong here. And the result of all of this is, a person was killed.
15 in middle school makes me think this young girl had a lot of problems at home.
Some other videos said she started school late and was behind on learning like other children.
I wonder when her birthday was
@@thiccredgyal3404 in the video it stated she just turned 15 in April. So her bday wasn’t late
@@gracejones2831 No. It's fkin normal. Tf 🙄☠️
Her parents FAILED her.
Everyone she was in contact with did, shame
She should have had some moral compus.
@@jaimhaas5170 You are disgraceful! A teenager is dead, so have some respect and pray this does not happen to your grandchildren.
Moral compass....she was a child! 15!! This was a 21 year old ADULT! HE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER!!! And honestly she was being more of an adult by wanting to be DONE and leave the relationship and he was acting childish! Spare the ignorant comments. This child didn't deserve this adult taking advantage of her, and then taking her life bc he was mentally incapable of handling rejection from a CHILD! RIP to her beautiful soul!
And you should go educate yourself and pray this never happens to you or anyone you love
@@MissDizer5 99% of girls age 15 know what they r doing. She was NOT a child.
My family begged and begged my ex sister in law to leave her boyfriend for the sake of our nephew and her other two kids. She tried getting a restraining order, cops said their hands were tied because he hadn't done anything yet despite him making threats and stalking her. He had previously beat the crap out of her in front of her kids but he went into hiding and no one was giving him up. She got let go from a job because of his stalking her when she was on the clock. One night she went out to go get medicine for nephew because he was sick and he was waiting outside with a gun. She only made it a few houses down when he caused her to crash. He shot her as her kids watched from the window (they had heard the commotion and looked out the window). The coward then turned the gun on himself. Now my parents are raising my nephew and his siblings have gone to their dads. It's just so sad....prayers to the family. No parent should ever have to bury their child and no child should ever have to bury their parents at such a young age.
So sad 😢
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Wow, so your brother did this?
Why would her parents allow him around their daughter!!!! That’s so sad, this is the stuff that happens
It appears she was raised by her Grandmother. Did she even know of the relationship or did he prey on her knowing the Gmother was her support?
@@belleame1064to me I think he lie about how old he was and that probably why she left him
Because her family is also extremely problematic
Some parents don't be caring. That's the truth.
He knew she was vulnerable and he attacked. Basic grooming 101
I can't believe how many sick phucks are in here justifing and victim blaming. It's gotdammed sickening!
there are at least a dozen things wrong with this… disturbing asf
They need to teach about DV in schools and a safe counselor to report it to. Each case should warrant an investigation.
Or focus on class work in school and save dating for after high school.
Leave dating tips to those in healthy relationships.
@@dontworryaboutit5751- yeah that will work.
This! Same with power dynamics and why someone that much older than you would want to be with you.
@@simonw1313 it does for my home.
No why does the school have to teach all of this what happened to teaching English math etc this needs to come from home.
She shouldn’t have been dating a 21 year old in the first place!!!!! Great job parents!
Let's not forget to blame the POS murderers parents as well.
If you are an abuser stop! Get help
Agreed!
Please read up on DV. Lundy Bancroft. Why does he DO that? Inside the minds of angry and controlling men.
Point being, he doesn't THINK he's abusive! He thinks WHATEVER he does is ok! Extremely emotionally immature. That's why he's molesting children to begin with, and abusing them. See Lindsay Gibson, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Those two books answer all your questions.
That is just about the most moronic thing you could ever type. Why would an abuser think they need help, when they believe their actions are justified? Also, abusers don't see themselves as abusers.
@@SalsaRimjob get a life
A 15 year old shouldn’t even have an ex yet. SMH
Ikr??
15 years with a 21 year old boyfriend ?
Meh.
My best friend always had very much older boyfriends when we were kids. Her mother allowed it. All of them were controlling and abusive as well.
@ladyhotep5189
There's a reason they couldn't find women their age.
Us old people are less shocked: I too knew people in my high school and middle school with boyfriends twice as old and older. The girls were viewed as “advanced” by myself and my peers. I’m *very* glad people are appropriately more concerned about this in 2024. These men are straight predators. That poor child-to be so innocent to be excited about graduating 8th grade. I’m unspeakably horrified and angry.
15 years old in 8th grade??
How is a 21 year old child groomer not reported?
In Utah, it’s a religious rite of passage.
15 year old still in middle school ? 21 year old boyfriend ? Her parents failed her all around 😢
Some other videos said she started school late, and was behind on learning like other children.
Yeah when I heard eighth grade I assumed she was like 12ish since that’s how old I was in eighth grade. I didn’t realize she was 15 til they actually mentioned it. That’s quite the delay. Seems like her parents failed her in more ways than one.
Some kids were forced to wait until they were 6 because of school policy. Or she was held back a year. I turned 15 right after I started 9th grade. She was to start 9th grade in the fall.
@@Littlelikeme92I was 15 in 9th grade because of how my birthday fell. She was 14 in 8th grade. She just turned 15. It's not that crazy. It doesn't mean that her parents neglected her education. Aside from that, it's easy to fall behind in school. What's the most messed up is that she told people that he was hurting and threatening her and nobody did anything.
@@GirlofpagesI think that considering the circumstances it would be safe to assume that her family (the same family who didn’t help her when they saw bruises on her) may not have been present enough to make sure she was prioritizing her education.
Charge her parents with neglect
We don't know what her parents know 😞
Where are all her family members at the time of the shooting? Is she living alone at 15?
I totally blame the family for allowing a 21yo date the daughter who was only 15 and a child!! WTF is wrong with those parents??!! 🤬 They have their daughters blood on them!
The guy is the pb here 🙄
They cant date. He was an adult and she was a child. He was abusing her from first contact.
I don’t think I’ve ever been so infuriated watching a case. *EVERY SINGLE FAMILY MEMBER, EVERY SINGLE ADULT IN HER LIFE FAILED HER*
Clicked on this because I was so horrified by the title that it drew my curiosity, and I was subsequently even more horrified to hear that it happened in the county where I live. Don't know how I missed this on the news, It's just awful.
News is no longer mainstream. I just learned the creator of Dragonball Z died 4 months ago today! The news sucks.
No way
it happened in lowell! you must be from middlesex county. yes, this is national news at this point.
The father posted a Go Fund Me? Where was he when she was dating this 21yr old?doesnt sound right.
If he couldn't help his daughter and keep that guy away when she was alive, why on earth would anyone want to help him now!?! Would he even use the money for that?
Why do folks seem to think others should help bury your child.
THIS MADE ME SO MAD! How dare he!
Where was he when this 21 year old dude was dating and abusing his daughter. I wouldn't give his GoFundMe a dime.
@el-Cu9432 cuz you can’t afford it.
Why is a child ‘dating’ a grown man?!
why is a child dating period.😭
@pupusadestroyer why is this "GROWN MAN" dating a child?? why are we victim blaming?
But y would her parents allow there 15 year old daughter have a 21 year old boyfriend
So lock up the parents as well
Hers or his?
@@rayray8687hers! They allowed her to date that grown man!
@@user-zc3th7bk3g: Don’t forget that his parents allowed him to murder her. And then of course there are all the other parents in the neighborhood who didn’t prevent it. Not to even mention parents everywhere!!
She lived with her grandmother.
@@betsylaughlin8652WTF it doesn't matter parents have the nerve to show their dirty face on television 😢
I’m sorry what is an 8th grader doing DATING A 21 YEAR OLD!!!!????! SIIIIICK!!!
Girls just wanna have fun...
Very very sick and disturbing indeed
May she rest in peace 😢
How could you repeatedly state that you're not blaming the parents?
This story is so wrong on so many levels, I don’t even know where to start.
“I’m not blaming the family”……..why not? Where’s the dad? Was there no male figure that could intervene on her behalf?
Believe it or not, not everyone grows up with a dad… glad you did tho🎉
Still other men could step up to protect a child unless we really live in a
I don't care society
@@hollyj5449and because of that, society is doomed..
@@kytruth1027many have grown up without dads through world society 😂 you people should pick up a history book
Shouldn't a 15 year old be in High School and not Middle School?
Bro, the average age range for 8th graders worldwide is 13-15. What are you people on?? 15 year old middle schoolers are perfectly normal AND common.
"Hey cabbie, you mind wipin down this door handle for me later?" like.... whaaa? Haha
in middle school dating a guy who already graduated high school 3 years prior. so sad
R.I.P Ahliana.
Parents do better! This is on you! Why would this child be dating an adult. Disgusting and shameful!
That’s exactly what I just commented on, I just don’t understand.
Parents should have never allowed their daughter date an adult.
Period.
Your daughters are SUFFERING out here.
Yes they are , and IN DANGER
Shame on these "parents grandparents and family members"!!! Should be NO gofundme for this "family"! Ignorance, selfishness and parenting don't mix
Of course they have a go fund me/ they let their child date a grown man, yet, zero life insurance. I’m not helping to bury your child/ ask her in laws. That’s right, he was her boyfriend at 14 years old. People need to get life insurance.
@tbirdbird714 💯 but life insurance or not nobody but both "parents" should be paying for a darn thing!
Smh... how was she living alone? Everybody failed this little girl.
Thought she lived with her family
@@carylynne6574 She lived with her Dad, according to other news articles, and there are a bunch of them.
So many questions. Where were her guardians? How was this allowed? Why is she 15 still in 8th grade?
her parents should also be held as failures
This is absolutely tragic…RIP sweet girl ❤🙏 I hope you get the justice you deserve!
Starting at the age of 14 yrs old, this teenage female was allowed to start dating a 21 yrs old adult male. Geez !!! What kind of adult, in charge of parenting her, allows this? May she now RIP.
15 and dating a 21 year old! 15 in 8th grade? Shouldn't she be in 10th grade?
Her sk called boyfriend had no right to take someone's life!
RIP to the girl!
He did say she just turned 15. She may have started school late but 10th grade is usually 15/16
It's a lock to unpack in this situation 😔
Yes 10th grade at least 9th grade going to 10th!
@@neffyg35Grades were probably bad while she's focused on men.
Why big
Omg!!!! If someone doesn’t want to be with you it’s always a NO! Why kill her?! 😖😖😖
💔💜a 15 year alone old cannot defend themselves against an a grown man, verbally or otherwise. So sad for her & fam & friends💜💔
Reporting / leaving is SO SCARY & often harms the reporter… yet she told. She must have felt so alone
10 seconds in: Woodchipper.
Was that the girls nickname? 😢
HOW does a 14-15 year old date a 21 year old and the parents are NOT aware?!? Her parents failed her.
Well, when I did, I always told my parents I was at a friend's house. It is relatively easy to do unless your parents are going to phone the friend's parents to check that you're there. Sadly this is something parents should probably be doing, or agree that the friend's parents will phone when you get there and when you leave.
Excellent guest. She covered all bases and asked the questions we are wondering about.
America!! Why are parents even allowing children to date!? 15 is a child so why does she even have a boyfriend at all!?
Having relationship problems at 15 is beyond wild. Condolences to the family
Wait a second. Middle school at 15?
It's normal. Why are people so surprised??? Omfg the average age range for 8th graders worldwide is 13-15. Why are y'all so f*cking ignorant??? 🙄🤦🏾♂️
What in the world is a 15 year old doing with a 21 year old??
As a parent, it’s your JOB to know who your kids are hanging out with, communicating with. You need to have 100% access to their cell phones and just say NO to social media. Know where your kids are going to when they leave the house. There’s no reason for them walking aimlessly around the streets, etc. And for heaven sakes, keep them busy with sports, after school clubs, anything that helps them engage with other people and/or learn things. Idle hands get you in big trouble.
If her parents knew about him they should be in jail.
They probably set them up.
When are we allowed to hold the ADULTS accountable !?
A 21 year old with a 15 year older wtf!! How come the family of the 15 year old didn’t stop the relationship 🤬
Just here to claim my Ozempic lawsuit money.
😂
-Drake
lol godspeed
It's a moral decay happening in this country.
It isn’t. Humans have been like this since the beginning of time
*(There's) also a grammar decay
@@BookishDarkYou must be young. It was never bad on this large of a scale
@BookishDark He's correct. It wasn't always like this .
It been like this
As a teen about 16 I had a “boyfriend” who started getting violent, I was just so scared to tell anyone since I couldn’t even have a boyfriend. I dealt with it until I turned 18, all because I didn’t want to give my parents problems. As an adult now, I tell everyone women and men YOU go and get yourself justice, go to the police, and NO they DONT change. Protect yourself! Love on you, a person who truly loves you will NEVER hurt you. That is not love! It’s obsession, this man had a whole other girlfriend and still bugging his ex. Don’t enable these abusers, let them ruin their own lives. It’s not your fault.
Great job, Melba Pearson! Her comments are spot on, and she does an exemplary job at explaining aspects of domestic violence and the legal system.
15 in middle school that sounds like age of a 10th grader
Everyone develops at their own pace. I knew people w/ December birthdays who started school late- they turned 14 in 8th grade. If they repeated a grade, they would’ve turned 15 in 8th grade, so it’s totally possible.
My daughters are December babies and had to wait until the following school year to start making them old than the other students in the class…
It's normal. A simple Google search would tell you that. The average age of 8th graders worldwide is 13-15. What is wrong with you people?? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
15 graduating from middle school?dating 21 yr olds.. where’s the girls parents?
15 year old middle schoolers are very common and it's literally normal. A simple Google search would tell you that. The average age of 8th graders worldwide is 13-15. What is wrong with you people?? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
You didn't show her killer in the thumbnail but I knew EXACTTLY what he would look like
How? Did you know them? Why didn't you report this?
Usually suspect 😮
What’s scary is I don’t think people truly realize how common this weird, inappropriate age gaps really are, it happens A LOT more than people realize, these young girls are in such a rush to grow up and these grown men in their 20’s take advantage of that, keep an eye on your kids, it could easily be yours if you don’t help them stay on the right path
A 21 yr old with a middle schooler is already a crime
15 in 8th grade?!?!? Where were the parents?
I don't know who is creepier, her ex-boyfriend or her parents for overlooking this situation. Both of them let her down. I can't believe the this lady, kept saying "Not blaming the family". This family should have been taking care of this child.
Why are your children dating at 15 years old 🤔🤔
i started a relationship at 14 but i was under custody of an aunt not my parents. and she paid no attetnion at all and had no idea and then when she met him she called him a loser lol
lol i am a woman on my mans account
This is EXACTLY THE REASON THAT KIDS SHOULD BE KIDS. They shouldnt have these worries on their shoulders and are too immature to have intimate relationships.
I was in a similar relationship. Met him when I was 15 and he was 25. My mother did try everything to keep us apart. He was arrested twice but I didnt want to press charges. I ran away with him a few times. My mother didnt want to lose me so she gave up. I got pregnant at 17 and at 19 my mother sent me and my son abroad to get out of the relationship but by then I was so controlled that I paid for him to join me. I left him when I was 25, When I finally realised it was abusive and he is a narcissist. I have no idea if or what the parents did to help but I know from experience it is very hard from a parents perspective.
What in gods name were you doing with a 25 yo anyways. You should’ve known better
@@LilXancheX 😂😂😂 Okay 😘
I hope her parents are being investigated. In no world should a child be able to hide a grown adult boyfriend, her parents were absolutely being negligent.
The family is to blame here too if they knew he was dating this child
We appreciate your insights. You’ll always have our support.
Do not give these people any money. This is their fault as well.
Who tf let's a 15 year old even hang out with a 21 year old let alone date. Those parents are aweful
What is wrong these losers
They are evil
Women their own age and culture don't want them. 😂
She clearly didn’t have the proper guidance at home. She’s 15 in the 8th grade dating a 21 year old. This is a sad story. Two young people lost their lives due to unnecessary violence. RIP to baby girl
So terrible! He should have already been in jail. We need to be teaching our children about warning signs. Telling them to speak up, as well as when someone says they don't want to date any longer, that's it. You only get one chance to treat someone with respect. I'm already speaking to my boys about consent, respectable behavior and chivalry.
Sorry for their loss but her parents failed.
This breaks my heart my prayers Going out for her family and may she Rest In Peace. This poor Young 15 yrs old gone too soon and Way too young To Die.
8TH GRADE?!?!?! He needed street justice long before this happened. Whatever. I’m just looking at the parents in most of these cases.
So where were the girl's parents in this equation ?And allowing her to have an abusive relationship with an older guy.!No Words
what is a 21yr old doing with a 15yr old??
Pimping her?
Questions:
1-Why is a 15yr old girl ALLOWED to date a 21yr old Grown Man? Where were her PARENTS or her GRANDPARENTS??
2-Why was the 15 yr old responsible for getting herself to her own graduation? Why was she left unsupervised??
3-Why didn't the Family call 911 and try to Protect her??
In prison he should never be allowed to go outside and see the sun EVER AGAIN.
Keep him in a cell alone 24/7 for the rest of his life
15 yo dating a 21 yo is a Parenting Fail. This is on her parents