my partner has been in recovery for years now, when we lived together i saw them relapse a handful of times; it was one of the most traumatic things to witness your loved one go through. some nights i’d stay up till the morning, just holding them and being a literal “crutch”; so they wouldn’t throw up in their sleep. this year, one of my cousins had passed away from exactly that happening. That lady truly has NO perception of how dangerous and scary alcohol addiction is. it’s not just getting drunk everyday having fun, soon enough the pain comes out. i just hope if they do have kids, that the husband is able to continue being sober 😢
Right? When she's up late at night getting sick when she's pregnant, will he tell her that's her problem like she did to him? Encouraging him to break his sobriety while trying to have a kid with him... And then bet that if he falls off the wagon and turns into a bad father, she'll act like she was the most supportive partner in the world and he just couldn't get his act together.
@@ovrlk811no, she’s not only extremely immature but she clearly has a drinking problem and is EXTREMELY self centered and self absorbed. She’s a dangerous person for him to be around and is trying to trap him with a baby💀
@@ovrlk811 she has a massive problem with alcohol. She's actively trying to get her partner to relapse because she is so uncomfortable that he'll see her drinking problem if he isn't drinking. She a numbskull
Bianca clearly is fighting alcoholism herself, and is in denial. That’s why she takes it so personal when others try to set limits. If you can’t wait until you leave the house alone, hang out w friends, hell even if you can’t wait til your partner is asleep to have a drink, that’s a problem.
You would think someone who almost died at the hands of a drunk driver, would live a slightly different lifestyle. Bianca is TERRIBLE for Daniel, not only is she immature and self interested, she is a liability for his sobriety. I feel for him and his mom. Bianca does NOT realize she's an alcoholic. I hope Daniel gets himself out of that situation.
What’s even crazier is she didn’t even understand the type of ring she asked for and say it when she sees how big the ring is I was so pissed for him because he could’ve saved some money 🤦🏽♀️
I was so upset when she said she didn’t even know what 2 carats looks like! That was extremely selfish to have him looking specifically for what she wanted, and he could have spent 5 grand and and had a nice balance still in his savings account .
Didn’t his mother open up to her about how hard it was losing family to addictions? This girl has no problem taking another son away from her and it shows. She’s selfish.
Driving drunk because you're an alcoholic who almost died from getting hit by a drunk driver, all while saying that you DON'T have an alcohol problem is nasty work.
I think her friend was driving Bianca home. Bianca didn’t know her friend had had a drink (although knowing Bianca that isn’t necessarily true) and ended up crashing the car they were in. I think that’s the story. It’s so sad that she still wants to drink and drive x
@@kaymarshall2469I think your right the friend was driving but I would bet Bianca had been out with her drinking. She has a big drinking problem and is so immature. The last thing she needs is a baby.
Justine and Michael are so incredibly SELFISH and for justine to ask her daughter to take the kids if something happened to her. NO awful choice as a parent. Your daughter jas NO obligation to you.
If you don't trust your partner to be a competent parent, why keep having children with him??? If I popped my cloggs earlier than expected, my spouse may struggle a little but I know he'll do his best for our offspring. Trying to shirk parental responsibility to a sibling is backwards
@@Tuoyo3005exactly. I felt sorry for her daughter. She basically told her mom no she wanted to live her life not be responsible for her siblings and Justine still wanted it that way on the will. Selfish beyond words.
Bianca just makes me feel so so icky As someone who has been in recovery for 2 years, it breaks my heart when she told him to take that shot, because she has no idea how serious it is to suggest that.
Watch the show. She then wanted him to kiss her after she had just drunk alcohol, then got upset and bratty when he said he couldn’t bc he didn’t want to risk tasting the alcohol. She got upset and felt denied🙄
Bianca reminds me of those feeders in "My 600lb Life". The ones that end up leaving their partners or get depressed when their significant other isn't dying from addiction. It's very disturbing.
I know right? Even after Justine’s poor oldest girl was taken aback with her moms news of this pregnancy being high risk and if mom dies, you give up all ur dreams of graduating college, starting a career and eventually marrying and having children of her own? Why? Because in spite of being warned about the dangers of becoming pregnancy again, that could result in the death of her or the baby or more likely, both! What a complete asshole!
@ Justine’s oldest is already on her way out of mom & Michael’s place… unless God forbid something happens to Justine, then her daughter will be sucked into the place her mom would’ve been in had she not made such a stupid, risky pregnancy! (In spite of having 9 kids to take care all off a furniture movers salary? Let’s have unprotected sex less than a month after having a baby, in spite of ALL THE REAL RISK this little love sess brought them, it “feels better” w/no condom? PLEASE SAVE THE NO PROTECTION method with your own hand, you get what I’m serving?
as a sober individual i commend daniel for having such willpower to walk away and not give in to the temptation of relapsing. it’s clear bianca does not truly love him. if she did, she would do any and everything she could to help keep daniel on the path to recovery. instead, she’s acting like an enabler. so gross and disrespectful.
Lab diamonds are REAL diamonds! Compare lab diamonds to flowers. Do you wonder if your flowers are from a "natural meadow" or a greenhouse? Melissa needs to read a book!
She doesn't know much about diamonds, I think she'd make more sense if she said she doesn't want a cubis zirconia. She said herself she didn't know what 2 carats meant
PSA: regardless of how hard it is to raise kids, if you choose to have them, you are responsible for making sure you don’t make your stress their problem. They didn’t ask to be here, you forced them to be here. Act like it.
No one forced anyone to be here, how negative. We create and birth children into this world and they are a blessing. What a great way to think about the blessing of life.
@@Aprillove97their point was that not every person feels like their life is a blessing, and it not okau to decide to have children and make them siffer because of your decision, it not about the parent, but the innocent child. parent should treat their childred like a blessing, the parent owes their children everything, the child owes nothing to their parent but deserves everything. you think abused children are being "negative" or adult people suffering for their whole lives if they think they would have chosen to not be born. you are showing your priviledge and that you live in a bubble. also no one chooses to be born, they are literally forced to "be here" unless they kill themselves
@@Aprillove97 oh so you asked your parents to get pregnant and birth you? Because that sounds like a filthy lie. Because it is. Everyone is forced to be here considering it's no one's choice to be born. See what the dictionary says that forced mean if you don't know
@@Aprillove97ok I’m gonna dumb this down for you: where you asked to be born? NO. So you are forced to be here and not all babies are a blessing trauma babies aren’t
Why are the producers not stepping in when Bianca tried to coerce her boyfriend? I know they want drama for the show but she’s actively trying to make him an addict again and possibly send him back to jail.. someone needs to step in. I understand he’s an adult and can “walk away” but it’s not that simple when it’s someone you love and are trying to make everything work.. but she’s clearly a horrible, immature “partner” for having no empathy towards his issues with alcohol.
They don't care. They only want content. The worse- the better. They never step in, only stoke flames. It enrages me every time I see when they need to and don't step in. Which is a lot of the time.
My mum died from Alcoholism 18 months ago. I spent 8 years fighting for her to get sober and stay sober and she never once showed as much commitment as that man does to his sobriety. To see that little spoilt girl act that way I would have thrown hands if I was the parents Also love you so much Po x
Daniel is the only one who can change the situation he is in. He knows that he has a partner that will do her best to make him drink. If he doesn't want that in his life, he needs to remove himself from the situation. He's a grown man.
@@asamii__1358No one said that wasn't the case. They said that ultimately it's up to Daniel to choose whether or not he's gonna continue to be with her, which is true.
@ I know he can choose that why I said they should break up and he can choose to leave , but it the fact that its annoying how disrespectful she is she doesn’t care about him at all he’s an addict she should understand and respect that if she also can’t handle the fact he can’t drink and she can’t be drinking around him she should also leave ,
I work at a parole office and yea it is possible for him to move especially if he informs his PO that he could potentially violate the conditions of his parole living there
He needs to leave her ASAP. And when Bianca starts crying and playing victim about how much money she spent moving there he shoul look at her and say "that's your problem buddy" This is my xmas wish 🙏
bianca reminds of some the people in the town i grew up in who never developed a personality outside of sitting at a bar and talking shit 🙃 she sees sobriety as a threat because what else would she have
Yeah she seems empty and boring inside. She wants to become a mom so her life can have purpose. She can join mommy groups and 'fake' postpartum like my family member did. Just a selfish person smh. Postpartum is real im not denying that but I know women who personally faked it for attention. They had none of the symptoms they just wanted to be the center of attention. Its gross.
I think Bianca also has a drinking problem, otherwise she would have no problem not drinking around him AND she wouldn’t even think of drinking and driving
Michael & Justine put themselves into this already horrible situation and just keep adding kids to the mix. The only people I feel bad for are these kids. Justine should be ashamed even having that conversation with Kylie. Those two are a dumpster fire. Total garbage.
i can’t stand ppl like justine and michael it’s gross wtf , thank God her 18 yo daughter has more sense than her saying why would she get pregnant if itd be high risk i wish that young lady well and pray she turns out NOTHING like her mother sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders
Bianca is an absolute disaster and will destroy him. His mom needs to get him the hell out of there if she can but ultimately he’s an adult and he can make his own decisions. I just hope that he makes the right one.
I absolutely have ZERO compassion for Justine or Michael. Michael talking about giving his dreams up as if he didn't choose to have 109 kids!!! He would have more time and money to live out his dreams if he believed in contraception. Then Justine is another silly goose. If I was her daughter, I would have said fuck no and walked out, its not a fair thing to ask her in the first place and the father should be the one to step up.
daniel needs to get away from bianca because i feel like she’s trying to sabotage him and that’s a dangerous person to be around. there’s something clearly going on with her internally and she seems like one of those people who will try to drag others down with her to make herself feel better
bianca specifically sought out a felon with a drinking problem but wants to complain about his family not being okay with her drinking around him because not only does addiction run in the family but they have already lost a son to it. Daniel needs to run if he cares about his sobriety.
Bianca is young and immature. Daniel is over 30. He needs to get into AA or some support group and not rely on someone who isn't supportive instead of trying to force someone to care when they don't. She needs to be around people her age, and he needs people who can understand and support him.
Im a recovering drug addict. I dont expect my partner or loved ones to not drink around me. They can continue to live their lives as normal but if i told my partner it made me unconfy, i would hope that he cared so little about drinking that it wouldn't be hard for him to stop doing it for me. At least around me. I couldnt imagine doing to my partner let alone rubbing it in his face the way Bianca does. How disgusting is she!!!!! He needs to LEAVE this broad. Shes toxic and uncaring. I cannot stand her
The woman who wants a baby and is out there drinking is genuinely making me angry. I was born with FAS because of my mother's stupid decision and it has affected my life SO MUCH in a negative way. Wow! 😢
As a recovering addict- holy shit what bianca was doing is NOT okay. I've had to cut people out of my life because of them bringing substances around I couldn't be around all the time. She clearly doesn't respect him or his struggles with addiction- RUN MANS
Especially in these kind of circumstances! They will gladly change an address if you're trying to do the right thing and stay away from people like this bitch lol
I have a good friend who was sober and he started dating this girl. She convinced him it was okay to drink a glass of wine. Then he fell off the wagon. Some people's children SMH
14:29 - Going into financial ruin, buying a ring you cant afford, to appease the demands of someone who could literally not give two shits about your financial future is not..."sweet".
That Bianca can't be with someone in recovery. She is all about her. What an a**hole. I was with someone like that before and told him when he got out not to even bother looking there was nothing to drink anywhere in the house. He thanked me. It's very hard for them. She's awful. He can transfer his address, it may just take a minute. Especially if he tells his PO what's going on with her.
If that was my son, I'd ignore her childish taunting and ask my son to take a walk with me so he can calm down. At that point, I'd like to get him away from the environment and her toxic personality. Trust me, though, it would take all of me not to do something that would get me taken to jail.
She wants to be a mom... omg some people REALLY are out of their mind, arent they? This girl can't even stay sober, how is she supposed to raise a child?!
I cannot stand people who wants to pop out babies when they’re tight on money or they have no job or no desire to work at all 🤦🏻♀️ all I can say is good luck!
My bf is always confused as to why I watch a talking potato, but when I explained it's so I don't have to watch hours of trash, he agreed this was better. Muuuch better. (Instead I watch hours of youtube breakdowns 😂 much more entertaining)
I know from experience because of my brother being on parole, it isn’t that easy to just switch your address. It took my brother about two weeks to be able to get an address switch. That’s because the probation officer has to come to the house and inspect it. I’m sure they’d be able to do something in an emergency situation though. Side note: he was on federal parole so it may be different for someone on state parole
Yeaa.......not biancas best moment. She has a alcohol addiction herself and doesn't seem to know anything about addiction......which between hee arrogance and ignorance will be her downfall Also her saying she has baby fever over and over shows how immature she is.....she is very unlikeable....i actually pray she can grow and educate herself and be a better, more informed person.
This pisses me off! My husband is Newley sober after hitting rock bottom and us almost splitting in July. I had attended Al-anon before so I knew what I would have to do to support him. We both quit drinking. After talking we agreed I could have one glass of plum wine and homemade birthday mead my godbrother started working on for me 3 years ago. I finally got to have it this birthday. After my 2 drinks I’m completely fine going back to being sober with him. He’s always thanking me for my support. He hasn’t really struggled with us doing it together and for his birthday that’s 4 days after mine he didn’t even ask for a single drink. It’s almost impossible to get sober when your partner won’t walk that journey with. We are both sacrificing alcohol for our love and the future we want together. I am soooo proud of my husband and we are more in love than ever. Back to the honeymoon phase but with the comforter of our years together ❤
I can’t put it into words but aside from the perceived inconvenience that Bianca feels from Daniel’s addiction, perceived because she hasn’t actually changed her behavior, I can’t pin down what her problem is. Does she want him to drink because she doesn’t think his addiction is a big deal, does she want him to drink because she wants someone spiraling like she is or being in a worse situation than her, does she think it’s funny? It’s so weird to watch after seeing my friend date a recovering alcoholic and she would never even have alcohol visible in her house.
Bianca has a drinking problem. Her denial and aggression about her drinking says a lot. You chose to be with this man so why not put the bottle down and stop pressuring him. She has no emotional intelligence
Bianca is so hard to watch. She's so disrespectful to Daniel. It's sad. In my early 20's, I knew a girl that had been in a really bad car accident, similar Bianca. She had to relearn how to walk, read, etc. I really felt bad for her but she did it, she recovered. The odd thing is though, she also wanted to drink, a lot. It was as though she didn't register how heavily she was drinking or just plain did not care. I wonder if this is something other people have struggled with after a bad accident. Or if these girls were always like this.
8:54 she is NO good for Daniel , ZERO parts of her are beneficial for him to maintain his recovery . Absolutely disgusting behavior and beyond disrespectful to the man she “loves” .. I really hope they are no longer together
For a girl who has been in a near fatal car accident because of a drunk driver. And has a scar on her permanent scar on her neck. Bianca doesn't have a single clue. She's been given multiple examples of why she SHOULD NOT drink around Daniel. From his alcoholism to the death of his brother's alcoholism. She is the epitome of toxic.
Bianca is the type of woman that's never heard "no". Daniel is writing his own Denise if he stays with her. Clearly she has a lot of growing up to do, and their maturity levels are not on par. He needs to leave, just to save his own life.
I have a lot of health conditions and have learned over the years that there are certain foods and activities I MUST avoid to have a better quality of life. Anytime I learn something new and share it with my spouse, their immediate response is, “Hey, it it’ll help for me to do/not do that same thing with you, then let’s do it.” This man literally offered the other day to go on a calorie restrictive diet with me because that’s what I need to do 😭 obviously I told him no because that’s not what his body needs, but, can you imagine not having a supportive partner like that?? Unreal.
“In the name of the moon, I will roast these losers” just gold! 😂 love the fit Po ❤ ✨ Bianca is to immature, and she does not get what she signed up for. He needs to move in the shadows, talk to his PO and move to his parents house. The fact that she wanted to drive after drinking and talking about a baby is so messed up in the head. Michael & Justine, stop having kids! Let your teens live their own life, they didn’t force you to have that many children so that way you can burden them and ruin their lives by adding that stress and responsibility. I hope their daughters move away or say no and tell them how it really is their own fault.
I have friends and family clean and sober for decades. I don't serve alcohol in my home if they're coming over it's about respect and seriously he's not got much sobriety in the free world. He should walk away
Saying you want to be a mom while getting drunk with an alcoholic man at home is crazy work 😭
my partner has been in recovery for years now, when we lived together i saw them relapse a handful of times; it was one of the most traumatic things to witness your loved one go through. some nights i’d stay up till the morning, just holding them and being a literal “crutch”; so they wouldn’t throw up in their sleep. this year, one of my cousins had passed away from exactly that happening. That lady truly has NO perception of how dangerous and scary alcohol addiction is. it’s not just getting drunk everyday having fun, soon enough the pain comes out. i just hope if they do have kids, that the husband is able to continue being sober 😢
Add drinking while actively trying to get pregnant 😣
She’s definitely going down the alcoholic path quickly. She doesn’t respect her partners sobriety. She’s not a good partner.
She said she didn’t want to have to stop drinking just cause he’s sober .. like girl, having a child is one of the biggest sacrifice
Right? When she's up late at night getting sick when she's pregnant, will he tell her that's her problem like she did to him?
Encouraging him to break his sobriety while trying to have a kid with him... And then bet that if he falls off the wagon and turns into a bad father, she'll act like she was the most supportive partner in the world and he just couldn't get his act together.
Bianca clearly having an alcohol problem and still wanting a baby is CRAZY.
She’s really just immature
Delou-lou 🤪
@@ovrlk811no, she’s not only extremely immature but she clearly has a drinking problem and is EXTREMELY self centered and self absorbed. She’s a dangerous person for him to be around and is trying to trap him with a baby💀
@@ovrlk811 she has a massive problem with alcohol. She's actively trying to get her partner to relapse because she is so uncomfortable that he'll see her drinking problem if he isn't drinking. She a numbskull
people should have to sign wavers and take classes before they’re allowed to get pregnant 🤷🏻♀️
Bianca is gonna cheat on Daniel with the cousin. Mark my words.
😂😂😂 I agree 💯
I swear on everything i thought that when I watched that scene😢😮
some gypsy brides shit forreal 😭😭
Omg! I thought the same thing 😮❤
I thought so too but then he was like "ya I'm the same sexually"
seems like bianca has issues with alcohol herself. she clearly just wants a drinking buddy 🤦🏻♀️ how horrible.
Keep in mind Michaels twins aren’t actually twins…. He got 2 girls pregnant at once and they were born at the same time 😭😭😭 so cringe
💀💀💀 ok this is insane
No control. Too selfish to wear a Jimmy cover.
BRUHHHHH
Oh wow, I did not know that 😮
At this point I believe Michael has a breeding kink 🤦🏻♀️
Bianca clearly is fighting alcoholism herself, and is in denial. That’s why she takes it so personal when others try to set limits. If you can’t wait until you leave the house alone, hang out w friends, hell even if you can’t wait til your partner is asleep to have a drink, that’s a problem.
“I don’t have a drinking problem.” Takes another drink to spite her recovering alcoholic boyfriend.
Let alone KISS HIM🤢 nasty work she does
@ right? Crap be gross. I can’t imagine being that wasted let alone that vile.
Just wondering did Bianca ever mention how she got that scar on her neck.
You would think someone who almost died at the hands of a drunk driver, would live a slightly different lifestyle. Bianca is TERRIBLE for Daniel, not only is she immature and self interested, she is a liability for his sobriety. I feel for him and his mom. Bianca does NOT realize she's an alcoholic. I hope Daniel gets himself out of that situation.
18k for a ring in their situation is crazy
Dumbly insane
What’s even crazier is she didn’t even understand the type of ring she asked for and say it when she sees how big the ring is I was so pissed for him because he could’ve saved some money 🤦🏽♀️
@@cayleytaylor6350he could’ve gotten a good ring for under 4 grand and kept the rest of his savings. So wild he spent sooo much.
I was so upset when she said she didn’t even know what 2 carats looks like! That was extremely selfish to have him looking specifically for what she wanted, and he could have spent 5 grand and and had a nice balance still in his savings account .
Didn’t his mother open up to her about how hard it was losing family to addictions? This girl has no problem taking another son away from her and it shows. She’s selfish.
Driving drunk because you're an alcoholic who almost died from getting hit by a drunk driver, all while saying that you DON'T have an alcohol problem is nasty work.
I think her friend was driving Bianca home. Bianca didn’t know her friend had had a drink (although knowing Bianca that isn’t necessarily true) and ended up crashing the car they were in. I think that’s the story. It’s so sad that she still wants to drink and drive x
@@kaymarshall2469I think your right the friend was driving but I would bet Bianca had been out with her drinking. She has a big drinking problem and is so immature. The last thing she needs is a baby.
She deserves the worst
yeah the story is her friend was driving and she did not know her friend was drunk but I doubt it , I don’t know if Bianca tells the truth
Justine and Michael are so incredibly SELFISH and for justine to ask her daughter to take the kids if something happened to her. NO awful choice as a parent. Your daughter jas NO obligation to you.
If you don't trust your partner to be a competent parent, why keep having children with him??? If I popped my cloggs earlier than expected, my spouse may struggle a little but I know he'll do his best for our offspring. Trying to shirk parental responsibility to a sibling is backwards
@@Tuoyo3005exactly. I felt sorry for her daughter. She basically told her mom no she wanted to live her life not be responsible for her siblings and Justine still wanted it that way on the will. Selfish beyond words.
Bianca just makes me feel so so icky
As someone who has been in recovery for 2 years, it breaks my heart when she told him to take that shot, because she has no idea how serious it is to suggest that.
I agree. Her whole attitude toward her boyfriend's addiction issues among other things is disrespectful and childish.
I agree. I’ve been sober for 7 years and will not date someone that doesn’t support my sobriety.
Watch the show. She then wanted him to kiss her after she had just drunk alcohol, then got upset and bratty when he said he couldn’t bc he didn’t want to risk tasting the alcohol. She got upset and felt denied🙄
@@Limitedonathiossmh. That’s terrible
It’s also slightly appalling bc she did this in front of his parents who know Daniel is a recovering alcoholic. Just damnn
Bianca reminds me of those feeders in "My 600lb Life". The ones that end up leaving their partners or get depressed when their significant other isn't dying from addiction. It's very disturbing.
Sailor Potato is definitely the second-best look of Po.❤❤❤
Agree haha❤
Right? I immediately was like “CUTEEEE” ☺️
Second to holding a burken bag po
Sailor Plutato
Agreed
Justine and Michael are the kind of parents who will drag their children down for the rest of their lives.
I know right? Even after Justine’s poor oldest girl was taken aback with her moms news of this pregnancy being high risk and if mom dies, you give up all ur dreams of graduating college, starting a career and eventually marrying and having children of her own? Why? Because in spite of being warned about the dangers of becoming pregnancy again, that could result in the death of her or the baby or more likely, both! What a complete asshole!
They gotta get away from their parents and move on.
@ Justine’s oldest is already on her way out of mom & Michael’s place… unless God forbid something happens to Justine, then her daughter will be sucked into the place her mom would’ve been in had she not made such a stupid, risky pregnancy! (In spite of having 9 kids to take care all off a furniture movers salary? Let’s have unprotected sex less than a month after having a baby, in spite of ALL THE REAL RISK this little love sess brought them, it “feels better” w/no condom?
PLEASE SAVE THE NO PROTECTION method with your own hand, you get what I’m serving?
as a sober individual i commend daniel for having such willpower to walk away and not give in to the temptation of relapsing. it’s clear bianca does not truly love him. if she did, she would do any and everything she could to help keep daniel on the path to recovery. instead, she’s acting like an enabler. so gross and disrespectful.
enabling is too nice of a word for her. she is much worse
@ facts
Lab diamonds are REAL diamonds! Compare lab diamonds to flowers. Do you wonder if your flowers are from a "natural meadow" or a greenhouse? Melissa needs to read a book!
Yep, who's going to know the difference? I'm down for a lab diamond! If it saves that much money and is still a diamond! Go for it!
She doesn't know much about diamonds, I think she'd make more sense if she said she doesn't want a cubis zirconia. She said herself she didn't know what 2 carats meant
Also lab diamonds are more ethical
I agree completely!
@@Sedonawhite definitely said that. Every diamond not grown in a lab is a blood diamond.
PSA: regardless of how hard it is to raise kids, if you choose to have them, you are responsible for making sure you don’t make your stress their problem. They didn’t ask to be here, you forced them to be here. Act like it.
No one forced anyone to be here, how negative. We create and birth children into this world and they are a blessing. What a great way to think about the blessing of life.
@@Aprillove97their point was that not every person feels like their life is a blessing, and it not okau to decide to have children and make them siffer because of your decision, it not about the parent, but the innocent child. parent should treat their childred like a blessing, the parent owes their children everything, the child owes nothing to their parent but deserves everything. you think abused children are being "negative" or adult people suffering for their whole lives if they think they would have chosen to not be born. you are showing your priviledge and that you live in a bubble. also no one chooses to be born, they are literally forced to "be here" unless they kill themselves
@ um, all children are forced to be here. Did you ask your parents to make you and the rest of us just didn’t get that option??
@@Aprillove97 oh so you asked your parents to get pregnant and birth you? Because that sounds like a filthy lie. Because it is. Everyone is forced to be here considering it's no one's choice to be born. See what the dictionary says that forced mean if you don't know
@@Aprillove97ok I’m gonna dumb this down for you: where you asked to be born? NO. So you are forced to be here and not all babies are a blessing
trauma babies aren’t
The hurt in Daniels eyes when she taunts him shows he’s a good guy, he needs to run
Why are the producers not stepping in when Bianca tried to coerce her boyfriend? I know they want drama for the show but she’s actively trying to make him an addict again and possibly send him back to jail.. someone needs to step in. I understand he’s an adult and can “walk away” but it’s not that simple when it’s someone you love and are trying to make everything work.. but she’s clearly a horrible, immature “partner” for having no empathy towards his issues with alcohol.
Producers dont care. They love to exploit. Capitalism. Content. Money.
Maybe because it was set up for drama lol.
They don't care. They only want content. The worse- the better. They never step in, only stoke flames. It enrages me every time I see when they need to and don't step in. Which is a lot of the time.
they only step in when physical violence is happening, imminent or reoccurring.
Good people don't become producers on shows like "Life After Lockup", friend. 💀
My mum died from Alcoholism 18 months ago. I spent 8 years fighting for her to get sober and stay sober and she never once showed as much commitment as that man does to his sobriety. To see that little spoilt girl act that way I would have thrown hands if I was the parents
Also love you so much Po x
I'm so sorry to hear that. People that have not lived around addicts don't really understand how it effects you. Do take care❤
Sorry for your loss 💙 I hope you’re doing alright
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Daniel is the only one who can change the situation he is in. He knows that he has a partner that will do her best to make him drink. If he doesn't want that in his life, he needs to remove himself from the situation. He's a grown man.
And she’s a. Grown woman too she should have respect to her partner but definitely they should break up
But also, 23 and 31? Errrrrrrm so many issues awaiting to happen
@@asamii__1358No one said that wasn't the case. They said that ultimately it's up to Daniel to choose whether or not he's gonna continue to be with her, which is true.
@ I know he can choose that why I said they should break up and he can choose to leave , but it the fact that its annoying how disrespectful she is she doesn’t care about him at all he’s an addict she should understand and respect that if she also can’t handle the fact he can’t drink and she can’t be drinking around him she should also leave ,
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I work at a parole office and yea it is possible for him to move especially if he informs his PO that he could potentially violate the conditions of his parole living there
He needs to leave her ASAP. And when Bianca starts crying and playing victim about how much money she spent moving there he shoul look at her and say "that's your problem buddy" This is my xmas wish 🙏
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Dear Santa,
all I want for xmas is for Daniel from Love after lockup to say “That’s your problem buddy” to Bianca.
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@sarahosinovsky4025 thank you for composing my letter to Santa 🎅 😂
bianca reminds of some the people in the town i grew up in who never developed a personality outside of sitting at a bar and talking shit 🙃 she sees sobriety as a threat because what else would she have
She’s a loser
Yeah she seems empty and boring inside. She wants to become a mom so her life can have purpose. She can join mommy groups and 'fake' postpartum like my family member did. Just a selfish person smh.
Postpartum is real im not denying that but I know women who personally faked it for attention. They had none of the symptoms they just wanted to be the center of attention. Its gross.
I think Bianca also has a drinking problem, otherwise she would have no problem not drinking around him AND she wouldn’t even think of drinking and driving
Bianca saying she wants to be a mom while being drunk is crazy, also trying to drive hime drunk after her past, like girl wake tf up.
Bianca wants him in jail for control....😮
Michael & Justine put themselves into this already horrible situation and just keep adding kids to the mix. The only people I feel bad for are these kids. Justine should be ashamed even having that conversation with Kylie. Those two are a dumpster fire. Total garbage.
I feel so bad for the kids. With so many, how can you give each one the proper time and attention they require?
She's a birdbrain fr
If he has a responsible PO, yes he can tell them he is not safe with her, and possibly he can stay with his parents.
The pigtails flayling around as Po is freaking out🤣
That had me laaaaughing 😂
Bianca has nothing going for her other than her DUI cash settlement
i can’t stand ppl like justine and michael it’s gross wtf , thank God her 18 yo daughter has more sense than her saying why would she get pregnant if itd be high risk
i wish that young lady well and pray she turns out NOTHING like her mother sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders
Bianca is an absolute disaster and will destroy him. His mom needs to get him the hell out of there if she can but ultimately he’s an adult and he can make his own decisions. I just hope that he makes the right one.
I absolutely have ZERO compassion for Justine or Michael. Michael talking about giving his dreams up as if he didn't choose to have 109 kids!!! He would have more time and money to live out his dreams if he believed in contraception. Then Justine is another silly goose. If I was her daughter, I would have said fuck no and walked out, its not a fair thing to ask her in the first place and the father should be the one to step up.
daniel needs to get away from bianca because i feel like she’s trying to sabotage him and that’s a dangerous person to be around. there’s something clearly going on with her internally and she seems like one of those people who will try to drag others down with her to make herself feel better
I don’t understand how Bianca can talk all this smack about her friend who drove drunk and crashed but then she has NO problem driving drunk herself
bianca specifically sought out a felon with a drinking problem but wants to complain about his family not being okay with her drinking around him because not only does addiction run in the family but they have already lost a son to it. Daniel needs to run if he cares about his sobriety.
The woman complaining about wanting to become a mom. Is throwing back drinks😒
an addict will always try to get an accomplice so they don't come across as a loser, Bianca is a drunk ! RUUUUUN
hii and I love the sailor moon outfit! i think she is the first anime i watched
Bianca is young and immature. Daniel is over 30. He needs to get into AA or some support group and not rely on someone who isn't supportive instead of trying to force someone to care when they don't. She needs to be around people her age, and he needs people who can understand and support him.
Im a recovering drug addict. I dont expect my partner or loved ones to not drink around me. They can continue to live their lives as normal but if i told my partner it made me unconfy, i would hope that he cared so little about drinking that it wouldn't be hard for him to stop doing it for me. At least around me. I couldnt imagine doing to my partner let alone rubbing it in his face the way Bianca does. How disgusting is she!!!!! He needs to LEAVE this broad. Shes toxic and uncaring. I cannot stand her
The woman who wants a baby and is out there drinking is genuinely making me angry. I was born with FAS because of my mother's stupid decision and it has affected my life SO MUCH in a negative way. Wow! 😢
Damn I’m sorry. I hope things are better for you now.
As a recovering addict- holy shit what bianca was doing is NOT okay. I've had to cut people out of my life because of them bringing substances around I couldn't be around all the time. She clearly doesn't respect him or his struggles with addiction- RUN MANS
It’s 100% possible for them to change an address .
Especially in these kind of circumstances! They will gladly change an address if you're trying to do the right thing and stay away from people like this bitch lol
I have a good friend who was sober and he started dating this girl. She convinced him it was okay to drink a glass of wine. Then he fell off the wagon. Some people's children SMH
Po looks like Wonder Woman making a cameo in the movie Xanadu. I love it 😂🤣🤣 This recap was hilarious.
I just finished a class presentation, this is my reward🥰🥰
14:29 - Going into financial ruin, buying a ring you cant afford, to appease the demands of someone who could literally not give two shits about your financial future is not..."sweet".
I agree with you.
It’s so nice that you try to let people what episode you’re recapping……I watch none of them, just you😂
That Bianca can't be with someone in recovery. She is all about her. What an a**hole. I was with someone like that before and told him when he got out not to even bother looking there was nothing to drink anywhere in the house. He thanked me. It's very hard for them. She's awful. He can transfer his address, it may just take a minute. Especially if he tells his PO what's going on with her.
If that was my son, I'd ignore her childish taunting and ask my son to take a walk with me so he can calm down. At that point, I'd like to get him away from the environment and her toxic personality.
Trust me, though, it would take all of me not to do something that would get me taken to jail.
Alcoholism isn’t a joke. She’s a despicable person for doing this.
Girl, I almost spit my beer across the room when I saw you in that Sailor Moon 🌙 outfit. I am beyond enthralled..😂😂😂
The bird thing was hilarious, I'm glad you kept it. It made my day😂
Sailor Tato ✨
Michael to me, is the Nick Cannon of Life After Lockup
Elon Musk has 12
Potato Sailor Moon is EVERYTHING 😂😂😂
I love the filter!!
She wants to be a mom... omg some people REALLY are out of their mind, arent they? This girl can't even stay sober, how is she supposed to raise a child?!
I cannot stand people who wants to pop out babies when they’re tight on money or they have no job or no desire to work at all 🤦🏻♀️ all I can say is good luck!
I feel so bad for Daniel. He’s definitely gonna relapse if he stays in that environment. She has NO CLUE what addiction really is.
the way this episode raised my blood pressure is unhealthy, im so fkin peeved off for Daniel.
My bf is always confused as to why I watch a talking potato, but when I explained it's so I don't have to watch hours of trash, he agreed this was better. Muuuch better. (Instead I watch hours of youtube breakdowns 😂 much more entertaining)
😂 Me too!
My hubby is freaking out more than you are. 😂 Yes he knows who you are & listens as well.
I know from experience because of my brother being on parole, it isn’t that easy to just switch your address. It took my brother about two weeks to be able to get an address switch. That’s because the probation officer has to come to the house and inspect it. I’m sure they’d be able to do something in an emergency situation though.
Side note: he was on federal parole so it may be different for someone on state parole
If you have a problem with alcohol and someone doesn't respect you enough to keep booze away, they dont love you
Those birds wanted to hear the recap
Yeaa.......not biancas best moment. She has a alcohol addiction herself and doesn't seem to know anything about addiction......which between hee arrogance and ignorance will be her downfall
Also her saying she has baby fever over and over shows how immature she is.....she is very unlikeable....i actually pray she can grow and educate herself and be a better, more informed person.
This pisses me off! My husband is Newley sober after hitting rock bottom and us almost splitting in July. I had attended Al-anon before so I knew what I would have to do to support him. We both quit drinking. After talking we agreed I could have one glass of plum wine and homemade birthday mead my godbrother started working on for me 3 years ago. I finally got to have it this birthday. After my 2 drinks I’m completely fine going back to being sober with him. He’s always thanking me for my support. He hasn’t really struggled with us doing it together and for his birthday that’s 4 days after mine he didn’t even ask for a single drink. It’s almost impossible to get sober when your partner won’t walk that journey with. We are both sacrificing alcohol for our love and the future we want together. I am soooo proud of my husband and we are more in love than ever. Back to the honeymoon phase but with the comforter of our years together ❤
I wouldn't call it a sacrifice... alcohol is literally the devil, and should be illegal. No purpose for it at all, except to ruin lives.
18k for a ring you can’t afford literally makes me sick to my stomach 🤢
I can’t put it into words but aside from the perceived inconvenience that Bianca feels from Daniel’s addiction, perceived because she hasn’t actually changed her behavior, I can’t pin down what her problem is. Does she want him to drink because she doesn’t think his addiction is a big deal, does she want him to drink because she wants someone spiraling like she is or being in a worse situation than her, does she think it’s funny? It’s so weird to watch after seeing my friend date a recovering alcoholic and she would never even have alcohol visible in her house.
An engagement ring from Plato's closet 😂😂
Bianca has a drinking problem. Her denial and aggression about her drinking says a lot. You chose to be with this man so why not put the bottle down and stop pressuring him. She has no emotional intelligence
Bianca is so hard to watch. She's so disrespectful to Daniel. It's sad. In my early 20's, I knew a girl that had been in a really bad car accident, similar Bianca. She had to relearn how to walk, read, etc. I really felt bad for her but she did it, she recovered. The odd thing is though, she also wanted to drink, a lot. It was as though she didn't register how heavily she was drinking or just plain did not care. I wonder if this is something other people have struggled with after a bad accident. Or if these girls were always like this.
I would honestly guess it could be quite common after going through such traumatic events.
That's the very sad thing about addiction nothing can stop an addiction until the addict decides to stop.
8:54 she is NO good for Daniel , ZERO parts of her are beneficial for him to maintain his recovery . Absolutely disgusting behavior and beyond disrespectful to the man she “loves” .. I really hope they are no longer together
The show Forbidden Love might be up your alley, it's pretty juicy. Love the Sailor Moon!!
For a girl who has been in a near fatal car accident because of a drunk driver. And has a scar on her permanent scar on her neck. Bianca doesn't have a single clue. She's been given multiple examples of why she SHOULD NOT drink around Daniel. From his alcoholism to the death of his brother's alcoholism. She is the epitome of toxic.
Daniel is the alcoholic but Bianca is definitely not ok … idk what’s wrong with her but she clearly needs help
Bianca is the type of woman that's never heard "no". Daniel is writing his own Denise if he stays with her. Clearly she has a lot of growing up to do, and their maturity levels are not on par. He needs to leave, just to save his own life.
The sailor moon filter….Lmao! Girrrrrl, you have to be stopped lol😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shes so dangerous for him to be around she will make him relapse. Also can we keep the sailor Moon costume!!!!
There’s a special place in hell for people who peer pressure people in recovery. GROSS
I have a family member in recovery. If someone told them to take a drink I would be beyond livid.
I have a lot of health conditions and have learned over the years that there are certain foods and activities I MUST avoid to have a better quality of life. Anytime I learn something new and share it with my spouse, their immediate response is, “Hey, it it’ll help for me to do/not do that same thing with you, then let’s do it.”
This man literally offered the other day to go on a calorie restrictive diet with me because that’s what I need to do 😭 obviously I told him no because that’s not what his body needs, but, can you imagine not having a supportive partner like that?? Unreal.
My favorite potato, you look amazing❤ Keep rocking it!!@
It’s almost like she wants him to drink so she can make him be on his worst behavior and start a fight with him
Yeah Bianca def doesn't love him.
Having your dad pay for your Plato’s closet engagement ring is CRAZY
Sailor Po, my cat loves watching your hair and I think she will punch my tv soon 😂
As a sailor moon girly, I'm obsessed with this look Po
omg this was so cute you should use this filter more often
girl!!! your pigtails are EVERYTHING 😂😂
“In the name of the moon, I will roast these losers” just gold! 😂 love the fit Po ❤ ✨
Bianca is to immature, and she does not get what she signed up for. He needs to move in the shadows, talk to his PO and move to his parents house. The fact that she wanted to drive after drinking and talking about a baby is so messed up in the head.
Michael & Justine, stop having kids! Let your teens live their own life, they didn’t force you to have that many children so that way you can burden them and ruin their lives by adding that stress and responsibility. I hope their daughters move away or say no and tell them how it really is their own fault.
A LAB DIAMOND IS A REAL DIAMOND
Bianca is just plain immature and a spoiled brat! I can't watch her!! Thank you for another great recap beautiful Po!!
But heres what my problem is… she knows they had unprotected sex…she is still drinking with the possibility of being pregnant…
I have friends and family clean and sober for decades. I don't serve alcohol in my home if they're coming over it's about respect and seriously he's not got much sobriety in the free world. He should walk away