台灣岳母第一反應是... 交外國男友最好不要跟別人說! 🤫 | Why you should keep your foreign boyfriend secret!

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  • @Paul-ho2ks
    @Paul-ho2ks Год назад +89

    我太喜歡聽你們兩人吐槽台灣了

  • @anniehsu5043
    @anniehsu5043 6 месяцев назад

    太喜歡這樣的聊天方式,不是雞毛蒜皮,而是有些建設性的看法,有趣有內容很讚

  • @ioriaclooney6441
    @ioriaclooney6441 Год назад

    I like the way you tell the truth.

  • @JonasTjader
    @JonasTjader  Год назад +112

    謝謝大家看今天的影片!在台灣有什麼對黑人的種族偏見嗎?例如他們都很會打籃球或很會rap之類的。 Helena要拍影片回答這個問題 xD

    • @鄭博仁-q6v
      @鄭博仁-q6v Год назад +6

      我只知道某些區域的黑人,因為長久飲食的方式,所以體味比較重,常常噴很濃的香水
      然後是不是黑人不喜歡洗頭,所以常常編髮就可以很久才洗頭,感覺很痛耶?

    • @myt2645
      @myt2645 Год назад +3

      黑人是喜歡直髮、捲髮還是辮髮?

    • @dumon620
      @dumon620 Год назад +5

      很搞笑~算是一種偏見嗎?^^
      就跟台灣的原住民一樣,喜歡音樂/幽默/體育很強~~~

    • @vicki8305
      @vicki8305 Год назад +1

      都喜歡節奏感很強的音樂?

    • @ZacLin0205
      @ZacLin0205 Год назад +5

      蠻好奇native African 會不會覺得American African 的刻板印象或偏見冒犯到自己,像吃炸雞這件事,畢竟兩者的歷史脈絡不盡相同

  • @evonevon7097
    @evonevon7097 7 месяцев назад

    太喜歡你們組合拍影片了,這樣的抬槓互相吐嘈很有趣
    我也喜歡婚禮是有音樂舞蹈的 很歡樂
    覺得那不是偏見,那是他們的優點,給我們的印象
    他們跳舞棒 唱歌棒 運動棒 這樣的基因很好啊
    我就很喜歡跳舞 音樂 鼓聲

  • @wwjo6014
    @wwjo6014 Год назад +87

    很喜歡聽你們聊文化差異的主題~
    我覺得人與人本來就不一樣,種族也只是其中一個區分而已,
    彼此願意互相尊重、互相了解,才是最重要的。

  • @mklce0
    @mklce0 Год назад +9

    整段影片,最讓我在意的是,
    海倫竟然在喝蘆筍汁。

    • @wuyijie9490
      @wuyijie9490 Год назад

      我也想去買津津蘆筍汁,小時候那種鋁罐瓶裝的好像沒生產了!

  • @kellychien6585
    @kellychien6585 Год назад

    Too funny!

  • @lisa0118lin
    @lisa0118lin Год назад +40

    Jonas 真的好誠實呀!😂😂😂⋯⋯ 海倫也是…. 台灣人有很保守也有很開放的人…. 我想世界各國的人也是各種人都有!

  • @odiles7277
    @odiles7277 Год назад +28

    為什麼你們兩位的閒聊永遠這麼好笑😂

  • @楊明秀-r6d
    @楊明秀-r6d Год назад

    海倫:津津蘆筍汁好喝嗎?

  • @JonasTjader
    @JonasTjader  Год назад +11

    我要知道,大家等大概多久對家人介紹你們的女/男朋友?

    • @hyyang2259
      @hyyang2259 Год назад +14

      我跟男友在一起三年了彼此家人都不知道 🤣 理由都是沒有要結婚不需要講,不然分手了很難過還要跟別人解釋一堆,還可以避免不必要的社交、催婚。

    • @EC-mv1cj
      @EC-mv1cj Год назад +2

      這好像跟家庭的氛圍有關,我有兩個好朋友,一個交往沒幾個月就跟家人說了,也常在IG上放閃,另一個交過5個女朋友,但是他的爸媽都不知道🤣我自己是偏向要結婚再說就可以了,因為如果父母知道的話就會瘋狂追問他的祖宗18代,甚至會出手干涉之類的,我不太喜歡,我男朋友也是外國人,交往一年多了,只有身邊比較好的朋友知道,我就是怕我爸媽可能會說出傷到他的話(因為他也不會中文),所以不急著介紹啦哈哈哈

    • @cerveza999
      @cerveza999 Год назад +1

      @@hyyang2259 我也是交往時沒跟家人朋友講,避免不必要的社交跟催婚

    • @Canary57
      @Canary57 Год назад +3

      有看過一部份人是交往前就會告訴家長 讓家長幫忙看這個人好不好
      不過好像很多人都是覺得可以結婚了才說
      但如果住家裡的話 因為會出門約會所以會被發現😂

    • @rushiao290
      @rushiao290 Год назад

      穩定交往兩年直到決定結婚時.......避免不必要的社交、催婚+1

  • @DerteLai
    @DerteLai Год назад +1

    其實我也會時不時吹口哨唷...所以應該是個體差異?

  • @amylan2000
    @amylan2000 Год назад +3

    為什麼台灣人不愛音樂或跳舞?
    中國人傳統觀念,業精於勤荒於嬉
    我覺得是因為在求學過程中,它們被整個環境忽視,這些對升學考試沒有幫助,甚至老師會借課,拿音樂、美術課來考試

  • @ampleperfection3237
    @ampleperfection3237 Год назад +2

    you are right, no one ever teach me how to whistle....😙😚🤭

  • @12439571
    @12439571 Год назад

    最喜歡看你們兩個聊天了,超有趣!

  • @junki9153
    @junki9153 Год назад +1

    Helena有去過台灣原住民部落嗎?
    原住民跟音樂的連結也很緊密

  • @Lucifer10601
    @Lucifer10601 Год назад

    小時候我的父母禁止我吹口哨 原因是他們認為女孩吹口哨是輕挑、沒教養的表現

  • @楊志清-o9b
    @楊志清-o9b Год назад

    great 👍

  • @wendyma5706
    @wendyma5706 Год назад +1

    笑死我,問查理交男友怎麼沒有隱瞞父母兩年😂

  • @mickeybao3030
    @mickeybao3030 Год назад +7

    很棒的開放對談喔 ,
    確實很多奇妙的論點,
    但讓人很享受思考且有趣,
    謝謝充滿魅力跟智慧的海倫,
    一直都讓人很喜愛

  • @leochenc
    @leochenc Год назад

    現在這個時代就是太追求政治正確到矯枉過正,對任何事都過於敏感。

  • @nicolek2345
    @nicolek2345 Год назад +34

    It is always a pleasure to see you and Helene film together! It is always so fun!

  • @coco-zx9iw
    @coco-zx9iw Год назад +33

    I really enjoyed how you are open to sharing your opinions and letting Taiwanese know how foreigners think about Taiwanese culture! It's a lot of fun!

    • @allisonrosales6738
      @allisonrosales6738 Год назад

      倫也是
      youtubebu.com/watch?v=4hBtwebCvEc
      的好誠實呀!😂😂😂⋯⋯ 海倫也是…. 台灣人

  • @欣彗
    @欣彗 Год назад

    很抱歉,但我是因為這集開始訂閱的~超級好笑!!

  • @caroltang9871
    @caroltang9871 Год назад

    二個人來自完全陌生的家庭,完全陌生的文化,是需要用時間和行動證明,二人有認真交往的誠意。

  • @jammycheung242
    @jammycheung242 Год назад +6

    I really like the chatting video between Jonas and Helena!! Sometimes people are just too sensitive, our society should have more love and positive energy like you two!

  • @user-nu5pb4og6h
    @user-nu5pb4og6h Год назад +3

    What you ask is 刻板印象 (stereotype) not 偏見( more like discrimination )

    • @JonasTjader
      @JonasTjader  Год назад

      Ok thanks, 我的中文還好哈哈

  • @wuyijie9490
    @wuyijie9490 Год назад

    應該是指一些人沒有錢,不相信婚姻,年輕人畢竟人生才剛開始,很多都不穩定還在摸索,但是話又說回來,年紀大的也一樣,很多不知道自己在活什麼,總之就是視個人而定!

  • @wanyunhsiao9081
    @wanyunhsiao9081 Год назад +1

    太喜歡這集的內容了
    很自然的討論不同文化間的差異性
    但不是刻意的訪綱或是浮誇
    喜歡~

  • @Miffy0923
    @Miffy0923 Год назад +1

    我比較驚訝外國讓喝蘆筍汁😂

  • @蜂蜜茯苓
    @蜂蜜茯苓 Год назад +2

    我還小的時候,大約幼稚園的時候吧。我記得我父母那一輩的人都很愛吹口哨的,我還記得那時候我還很努力的跟他們一起學著吹口哨,但是不管我怎麼努力都吹不出來。現在好像真的都沒有印象有人在吹口哨了

  • @hurnfang1
    @hurnfang1 Год назад

    你們兩個真是靈魂的同伴

  • @HH-fr8xb
    @HH-fr8xb Год назад +4

    🤩 Wow! I just realised Helene really has her own channel! I thought that’s just a running gag…already subscribed!

    • @JonasTjader
      @JonasTjader  Год назад +1

      Hahahaha I also forget sometimes xD

  • @wind7735
    @wind7735 Год назад +2

    我有印象whistle 通常是大人哄小孩上廁所時會吹的,一般台灣人開心的娛樂喜歡去唱歌玩樂器。 鬼月時對於某些長輩,這是禁忌這點沒錯。
    台灣人會跳舞的通常是興趣,很少正式儀式場合會跳舞,除非你參加舞會。
    不過宗教性儀式中,有不少民族舞蹈。
    例如: 原住民舞蹈,電音三太子,孔廟祭典,文陣,陣頭……

  • @徐昕妤-l7i
    @徐昕妤-l7i Год назад

    為何文化能悠久歷史參考呢?時代潮流演變家庭交流;結果三代人才看得見。

  • @Lucienmonigu
    @Lucienmonigu Год назад +4

    看了很多在台灣的外國youtuber影片
    幾乎所有的外國人都討厭蘆筍汁
    海倫在喝耶
    原來還是有外國人會喝蘆筍汁

  • @happysun4266
    @happysun4266 Год назад +11

    I just love all your chit-chat videos!! They are so funny and inspiring at the same time! I would love to listen to a podcast like this! Keep it going Jonas!! Thank you!

  • @ai-lore-f7
    @ai-lore-f7 Год назад

    很喜歡海倫和JONAS兩人的節目.之前看過好幾集兩人的節目.非常有趣.

  • @vicki3561
    @vicki3561 Год назад +1

    我覺得Jonas吹口哨已經是一項技能,一般人很難吹出旋律

  • @moliye4103
    @moliye4103 Год назад

    謝謝你讓我更了解不同文化背景的人,讓我更能了解以往自己因為資訊不足人云亦云造成的刻板印象

  • @shuyuhsu
    @shuyuhsu Год назад

    超喜歡你們的聊天!

  • @emancheung3999
    @emancheung3999 Год назад

    This video is so interesting. I really enjoyed it! It shows me a lot of different cultures and ideas. Hope there’s more video with Helena😊

  • @yuchen3680
    @yuchen3680 Год назад +19

    這集太好笑了,邊看邊噴午餐,謝謝XD

  • @juliasummers7417
    @juliasummers7417 Год назад +6

    I'm married to a German. Whenever I hear him whistle , I'm happy, because I know he is happy, too. Taiwanese wedding is always about food, people go there to EAT - sort of pigging out - and drink, of course they pay first ;-). I agree with Helena on the music being a must at the wedding.

  • @judy_chou
    @judy_chou Год назад +1

    整段對話 我只想知道 你的好友 手上喝的飲料是什麼 ??

  • @gnaixx
    @gnaixx Год назад

    台灣人很喜歡將忌諱的事情歸咎給鬼神,這樣晚輩就不會問東問西的,又會比較遵守,因為怕死所以就會去遵守,我覺得一開始長輩會不希望晚輩吹口哨應該是吹口哨容易引起糾紛,尤其是男生對女生吹口哨在國外可能是輕鬆的一件事,在台灣男生對女生吹口哨會被告騷擾,就算你只是自己心情好吹給自己聽,但是也有機會造成誤解,甚至造成打架鬥毆,所以可以理解長輩會不希望晚輩亂吹口哨。而聽口哨歌,它就是口哨歌,很明顯的不會被認為是在騷擾人,你只是在聽歌,這是我的解讀為啥長輩不喜歡晚輩吹口哨

  • @AMBER-xt3bu
    @AMBER-xt3bu Год назад +3

    我個人還蠻喜歡吹口哨的(可能跟學過樂器才有這習慣的關係?)
    但台灣現在好像很少人會主動在他人面前吹
    還有禁忌習俗就是晚上會引起鬼的注意所以晚上不能吹

  • @miaoyu520
    @miaoyu520 Год назад +4

    hahahahah~~~ 這集太好笑了!完全中了我家那個老外!太多不同文化之處

  • @sss40535
    @sss40535 Год назад

    I learnt how to whistle when I was 8, but every time I did it my grandma hit me. I didn’t understand either! 😅

  • @Peter-h4u
    @Peter-h4u Год назад +13

    不能跟著音樂吹口哨真的很妙,太好笑了,在台灣真的很少看到有人在吹口哨,這也是一個不會注意到的細節,應該是吹口哨我們覺的看起來很輕浮吧!但應該很多台灣人不會吹口哨吧,像我就不會

  • @yuanchen2927
    @yuanchen2927 Год назад +5

    You guys are So funny !!!!! Thank You Both !!!!! Shout out for Friendship !!!!!

  • @louisjas1773
    @louisjas1773 Год назад +7

    Jonas的抱怨實在太歡樂了!可愛的弟弟!

  • @jennysong8799
    @jennysong8799 Год назад

    津津蘆筍汁啊啊啊啊

  • @vannyintw
    @vannyintw Год назад +19

    有時候因為對另一半還不到認定對方的程度,所以不會想介紹給其他人。
    如果是真的很愛的,大多都藏不住,馬上會告訴身邊的人。

  • @elai784
    @elai784 Год назад +1

    It’s a very interesting topic! 😅

  • @szuhuaFu
    @szuhuaFu Год назад

    I can’t find her channel 😢the name of the channel is?

  • @yukalau0321
    @yukalau0321 Год назад

    喜歡看J和Halan聊天,總是那麼好笑

  • @2002miegreen
    @2002miegreen Год назад

    看來J真的很在乎吹口哨這件事😆,還有,我沒看錯吧?海倫喝的是蘆筍汁?😃

  • @horsemeilu9736
    @horsemeilu9736 Год назад +1

    Jonas is still struggling about whistle thing 😂

  • @sunsun2718
    @sunsun2718 Год назад

    這集真的太好看了!

  • @-Skillful-
    @-Skillful- Год назад +5

    11:52 音樂不分國界,不需要特別學習台灣現有樂器,可以把喜歡的樂器帶來台灣。

  • @527moko
    @527moko Год назад +1

    很喜歡看Jonas跟海倫的討論的影片~~

  • @ttcchh4650
    @ttcchh4650 Год назад +11

    很棒的一集🎉

  • @鄭秉惠
    @鄭秉惠 Год назад +7

    不知道能不能請Jonas和Helena一起分享一些音樂的故事,或是推薦音樂,或許可以讓台灣的朋友們跟喜歡音樂呢?😊

  • @chunni4050
    @chunni4050 Год назад

    I miss Helena so much!!❤

  • @BT21C
    @BT21C Год назад +1

    5:58 在中國/台灣人都是儒家思想,對吹口哨會覺得行為輕浮、引人注意、吸引異性行為,傳統觀念下女性吹哨,自然大家就會有好感;另也有一說口哨音頻由比較能吸引鬼的注意,由其是日落後鬼活動較旺盛的期間。🤔
    8:53 其實台灣人想要『與衆不同』的感覺,商人也會用不同的手段來行銷,自然會覺得與我們習慣不同的東西就很特別,而"黑"的意識就是其中一項,例如創造出來的形容詞或是其意識的物品,例如:黑金剛、烏骨雞,其中黑人牙膏可能也帶有這麼一點味道在🤣,日本人也愛用『黑船來襲』這的字詞…

  • @TKU-vh3rb
    @TKU-vh3rb Год назад

    不同的文化都是有原因的~

  • @raininthesouth
    @raininthesouth Год назад +4

    Haha, why are Taiwanese so stiff?!?! That's just damn funny. I don't think any Taiwanese will be mad and unsubscribe. Now if you ask this question about Chinese.... 😆

  • @CK-W
    @CK-W Год назад +2

    Helen is simply priceless!

  • @noemiliu1784
    @noemiliu1784 Год назад

    So enjoyable listening you two talking about cultural differences and teasing each other 😂❤

  • @GiorgioTheCutie
    @GiorgioTheCutie Год назад +1

    the 2-yr part is soo hilarious

  • @AL-wh7yl
    @AL-wh7yl Год назад

    🤣👍🏻

  • @chiunghua
    @chiunghua Год назад +1

    Jonas, it’s wrong! We Taiwanese people do whistle! Perhaps you live in a place where Taiwanese people don’t whistle that much, but we do whistle. And it’s been said that girls are not supposed to whistle because if girls whistle, it makes them not look like ladies.

  • @saviissophie5230
    @saviissophie5230 Год назад

    讚👍🏻

  • @jammy3170
    @jammy3170 Год назад

    想平反一下口哨的部分哈哈
    我周遭還沒有看過有人說平常不能吹口哨(農曆七月這個有聽過)
    從小我爸就每天吹各種老歌曲~~
    而我從小也一直想學,我爸很努力教我!! 但資質不夠,至今都還不會哈哈哈

  • @yutzukuo8406
    @yutzukuo8406 Год назад +3

    Always enjoy it when Jonas and Helene talk about cultural differences in Taiwan. As Taiwanese, in my opinion, sometimes we're so stiff and full of stereotypes about other countries or things because we were influenced by our media significantly. Examples will be like this, we will always say "Japanese people are so friendly", "Mexico is full of gangsters", or "French people are so lazy because they always go on strike even though they already worked short working time compared to Taiwan(40 hours or more). "India is so dangerous, please don't go." (because Taiwanese news always reports this type of negative news to Taiwanese people, so, it's easy to get brain-washing if people who don't have the ability to do research on the root cause, travel to that country, know the people who are from that country, or have critical thinking ability. If you have the chance to read massive Taiwanese media (news, newspaper, the title and the content), you will realize how bad the majority of journalists make this type of clickbait. But not like "Why does travel to India need to be extra careful?" this type of open-ended question is because people have been brainwashed for a long time about this type of news and they don't want to click this title if it's too boring. Media definitely play a significant role in guiding people to think in this way as well. But when you have to change to live there and talk to local people, you will realize these stereotypes are not always true. Just like Helene said even though she's black, she doesn't like to run.
    And about the racism and discrimination concept, in my opinion, because overall, we have fewer diverse and international people compared to Europe, America, Canada etc. Especially if you go to other cities except for Taipei, Taichung, Hsing Chu and Kaohsiung. Most of the time, we get the news or image from the media, marketing, and products. Like, we used to have a toothpaste called "黑人牙膏“(black people toothpaste). We thought it was normal to name a product by using black people. People will make a joke about that and don't realize how black people would think. How will they feel? This brand emphasized how bright your teeth would be if you used this product. Other than that, more Anyway, in the old time, we didn't have that concept of discrimination or racism. But, nowadays, more and more people study abroad and travel around the world. The young generation knows about it. So, it's getting better and better. Just something wants to share with you two :)

  • @gregworld6390
    @gregworld6390 Год назад

    I think most Taiwanese families are very cautious and she probably didn’t really want to answer questions from everyone.

  • @user-yahey
    @user-yahey Год назад

    互動好可愛~~~😆

  • @thisischarlotte.5545
    @thisischarlotte.5545 Год назад +4

    真的每個人都不一樣欸 交到男友/女友(不管是不是外國人)保密的話 感覺對方大多會覺得 為什麼不公開😂 are you ashamed of me 之類的哈哈~不過真愛無分國籍!大家要找到對的人要幸福最重要😊

  • @sheeps9806
    @sheeps9806 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing these interesting conversation, so funny

  • @touch5565
    @touch5565 Год назад

    Haha...I 😃 laughing many times

  • @amosf.2780
    @amosf.2780 Год назад +26

    這集超好笑的啦~~自然又親切!

  • @采宣楊-g5z
    @采宣楊-g5z Год назад +2

    Jonas和海倫在一起聊天就非常的有趣😂

  • @daisychen2320
    @daisychen2320 Год назад

    有Helena在影片更有趣!👍

  • @frensnet
    @frensnet Год назад

    i whistle all the time as well. i know some
    of my taiwanese girl friends whistles also. its individual!! i am not superstitious like some of Taiwanese

  • @童美惠-i2f
    @童美惠-i2f Год назад

    吹口哨小孩尿尿

  • @皇后鎮由一
    @皇后鎮由一 Год назад

    J公主上身了🤣🤣🤣

  • @lauwai0313
    @lauwai0313 Год назад

    ❤Jonas is great😊

  • @elicheale1782
    @elicheale1782 Год назад

    Hahha I kept my husband in secret for my mum for 2 years, I told her about our relationship only when we had de certainty that we were going to get married.
    Because if I told my mum that I am dating someone, she will be super insistent to make me marry him, and she doesn't care about if we are really prepared to be married, because she always thinks that he is taking advantage of me, so best solution for her, get married...and I cannot deal with that, you are not gonna marry someone without knowing and living with him a least a couple of year.

  • @rushiao290
    @rushiao290 Год назад

    耶~~久違的組合!有趣的對談

  • @user-iHZ7dRAbvwiRz8KqoP3W
    @user-iHZ7dRAbvwiRz8KqoP3W Год назад +3

    就像你無法亞洲蹲

  • @吳麗甄-r6t
    @吳麗甄-r6t Год назад +7

    喜歡兩位一起拍的影片,自然有趣😊,剪輯穿插的效果棒棒的啦!🥂

  • @Stef.with.an.F
    @Stef.with.an.F Год назад +7

    我也有外國男友,也是打算keep him a secret的,不過原因不是因為男友是外國人,而是因為家裡說大學畢業之前不許談戀愛😂

  • @TL243
    @TL243 Год назад

    😎❤️🇹🇼‼️

  • @shellylin0302
    @shellylin0302 Год назад +2

    這集好可愛有好笑~

  • @jessis_ty
    @jessis_ty Год назад

    好好看的一集 也好好笑XDD

  • @amywangkc12
    @amywangkc12 Год назад +2

    跟海倫的這幾集好有趣呀😂

  • @hsuann
    @hsuann Год назад

    這集好有趣好好笑!

  • @greastloveofall
    @greastloveofall Год назад

    台灣人會吹口哨
    台灣人也會吃蛋糕
    只是你的圈圈沒人吹口哨, 沒人吃蛋糕吧!😂