COMPARTMENTALISING YOUR FRIENDSHIPS TO AVOID RESENTMENT, DISAPPOINTMENT AND BURN OUT | TOSIN ALABI

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

Комментарии • 78

  • @dinmadivine7068
    @dinmadivine7068 3 месяца назад +17

    This is just like a confirmation that my desire for this is not carnal.. I really desire a loving friendship with other women who fear the Lord. Iron sharpens iron ! Time to sincerely start praying about it and being my best self to benefit them ‘vice versa ‘ . Thank you for this video tosin.

  • @BrendaKimbi
    @BrendaKimbi 3 месяца назад +9

    Oh Tosin! The way I love and honor the Christ in you. You have always been my favorite RUclipsr. Some day, I know by Gods grace I will meet you in person.
    Every time I sit and listen to you, you minister greatly to my spirit.
    God continue to bless you.

    • @TosinAlabi
      @TosinAlabi  3 месяца назад

      Love you Brenda! Amen ❤❤❤❤

  • @EbunoluwaSofolahan
    @EbunoluwaSofolahan 3 месяца назад +3

    Am I the only that thinks Tosin’s words, presentation, everything is always therapeutic? Thanks so much for this piece.

  • @BlessingOpatewa
    @BlessingOpatewa 3 месяца назад

    I’m thankful that RUclips recommended this video to me. I haven’t seen your videos in a long while.
    You’re full of Godly wisdom. Always have and will always be.

  • @marilyngyan8143
    @marilyngyan8143 3 месяца назад +3

    I wrote this desire in my journal just this week. I can't tell you how much this has validated and helped me. Thank you.

    • @TosinAlabi
      @TosinAlabi  3 месяца назад

      You're so welcome! ❤❤

  • @Adunmaaradan
    @Adunmaaradan 3 месяца назад +1

    Chai! Tosin, this video blessed me more than you know. I've been struggling over the last year actually with friendships and my expectations of them. To the point that I and my best friend of 10+ years parted ways. I was now analyzing the rest of my friendships and uncovering some hurts because I carry them as my sisters but I don't feel it be reciprocal so it's been something I've been dealing with internally. Thank you for this video!! I'm going to write down my compartmentilizations so I can borrow myself brain. Aiye o le rara 😅 Thank you again! God bless you

  • @NasaraMenegbe
    @NasaraMenegbe 3 месяца назад

    This video came in the nick of time, thank you for yielding Mama❤❤

  • @ogongare
    @ogongare 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks a lot, Tosin! Really looking forward to the next video. It's such an essential topic for me.

  • @TheDosuFamily
    @TheDosuFamily 3 месяца назад +2

    This is really important. I wished I know this years ago. You are a very smart lady. And you inspire me a lot. I grew with the mindset of friends are dangerous, my mom always say you dnt need friends, friend have done this and that to people. Bla bla bla….
    As I adult now I really craze and desire amazing friends. I have also be hurt by a friend’s.
    I thought I was crazy praying for great friends 😊
    Tosin I need you as a therapist now lol 🤣 😮
    we need a part of this video pls

  • @Imiati21
    @Imiati21 3 месяца назад +2

    It's interesting how this came up on my timeline just when I am mourning past friendships

  • @HannahTimilehin
    @HannahTimilehin 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you always for pouring from your pot of wisdom. Always looked forward to your videos ❤

  • @ifedayooladele4098
    @ifedayooladele4098 3 месяца назад +1

    I had not even finished the video before typing. More like exactly my current experience 😢 and this feels like a wake up call to me because this resentment thing is real!!! My mistake has been search for that friendship that cover all areas. God please bless me with that one friend 🥺🙏🥺

  • @CheM238
    @CheM238 3 месяца назад

    This video is full of Godly wisdom. God bless you Tosin.

  • @TemitopeOA
    @TemitopeOA 3 месяца назад +4

    Your godly wisdom really shines through in your videos! Thanks for sharing, God bless you ❤

    • @BosolaOjewola
      @BosolaOjewola 3 месяца назад

      Amen!!! May God give us all this godly wisdom for discernment in friendships

  • @Miracle-J8x
    @Miracle-J8x 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much. You'll continue to be a well of Wisdom

  • @Esther_Amao
    @Esther_Amao 3 месяца назад

    I was so blessed by this. More wisdom more. Thank you for the prayers

  • @ItunuoluwaLambo
    @ItunuoluwaLambo Месяц назад

    Thank you for being a blessing as usual, ma’am

  • @janetkomolafe963
    @janetkomolafe963 3 месяца назад +1

    Hello Sis.
    It is so good to be back on your channel. I first came across your channel about 3 years ago when I was looking for a meat pie recipe video. Your recipe is so good that I wrote it out, stuck it to my refrigerator and I still use it till today. In fact, as I type this, I just finished dicing some potatoes for a small batch of meat pie I am planning to make soon. I think the last set of videos I watched on your channel was when you just got married and were sharing the testimony of how you met your husband. I am so glad that you are doing great and you continue to reveal and glorify JESUS. This particular video blessed me and I thank GOD for the friendship testimonies you shared. Please keep doing what you're doing. May your life continually be a channel of blessing.
    The LORD bless you and your family and cause His face to shine upon you in abundance. Amen 🙏
    Don't worry, your friends have no choice but to show up for your daughter's 5th birthday 😁.
    May she grow in the knowledge, wisdom and favor of GOD. AMEN 🙏

  • @Tolanibee
    @Tolanibee 3 месяца назад

    Tosin always shares with so much wisdom. You are wise beyond your years ✨ Another helpful resource on this topic is the book Relational Intelligence by Dr. Dharius Daniels

  • @preciousokung1888
    @preciousokung1888 3 месяца назад

    Not done watching but 5:15 I just realised that I haven't deliberately told God about this...but for some reason this really resonates with me in the way you've worded it till this point.

  • @FaithKudabo
    @FaithKudabo 3 месяца назад

    This!!!! This is sooooo good and profound!
    Thank you for sharing with us, your wisdom.

  • @preciousokung1888
    @preciousokung1888 3 месяца назад +1

    You know how I ran down here to comment based off another of your video😂😂😂. This was really such wholesome content, you exude a truckload of wisdom from the content you share on RUclips and Instagram and I'm really just taking this time out to say, I love and appreciate these kinds of videos. You look beautiful as always by the way. Let me think if that's all😂 oh God bless you and your family ❤

  • @owoeyejesulobagrace5092
    @owoeyejesulobagrace5092 3 месяца назад +1

    You’re so wholesome! Thank you for sharing.

  • @LuluB94
    @LuluB94 3 месяца назад

    Wow what a timely video I have just stumbled across. Whewww., Thank you Lord

  • @NasaraMenegbe
    @NasaraMenegbe 3 месяца назад

    I like your filming set up because it looks good and cozy.

  • @Jennie_el
    @Jennie_el 3 месяца назад

    God bless you sister Tosin for this video. I thought I've been compartmentalizing my friendships but this video just showed me there's more room for improvement. May God help us all be better in this regard. Thank You ❤

  • @opeyemiruthx
    @opeyemiruthx 3 месяца назад

    This has been the best balanced video I’ve seen on the topic of friendship. Spirit filled and balanced. Thanks so much for sharing. God bless you 🙏🏿💓

  • @oluwakemioludele
    @oluwakemioludele 3 месяца назад

    This Blessed me so much.
    Thank You for sharing this!.
    God Bless You, Ma

  • @nmaumeh
    @nmaumeh 3 месяца назад

    Oh! Sis Tosin, you are so precious ❤️
    God bless you

  • @ibeblessing2195
    @ibeblessing2195 3 месяца назад

    I love this video a little too much! I pray God continues to surround you with people who will walk with you in life to the place God has destined for you. ❤️

  • @Agnes.shines
    @Agnes.shines 3 месяца назад

    You are such a blessing Mrs Tosin❤.

  • @oshundinachristiana4199
    @oshundinachristiana4199 3 месяца назад

    Your video came at the right time.
    I was enlightened and thank you for sharing! God bless you!!

  • @tide_ofchen
    @tide_ofchen 3 месяца назад

    This is very timely and just what I needed. Thank you very much for sharing.

  • @Jennifer_here
    @Jennifer_here 3 месяца назад +1

    Yaaay....Tosin is back🎉

  • @euniceadesina529
    @euniceadesina529 3 месяца назад

    I needed this as a reminder to be more intentional about my friendships. This blessed me a lot! Thank you ma'am 🤗🤗🤗

  • @ValerieAdah
    @ValerieAdah 3 месяца назад

    I was very blessed and challenged by this. Thank you

  • @moranike1
    @moranike1 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this video! I pray that God continues to enrich you with His wisdom.

  • @fasuyiwinifred7497
    @fasuyiwinifred7497 3 месяца назад

    This message is profound! Thanks Tosin🙏

  • @UniqueBolanle
    @UniqueBolanle 3 месяца назад

    I love the set up, praying for this kind of relationship with someone as well and I know God will lead me. Thank you Tosin for sharing this ❤

  • @toyinFajuyi
    @toyinFajuyi 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for impacting wisdom in me, I got my lesson from the beginning, praying about friends

  • @Beezydoctor
    @Beezydoctor 3 месяца назад

    This is actually a phase I’m going through at this time and I’m really trusting God for strength

  • @toyinFajuyi
    @toyinFajuyi 3 месяца назад

    Yes the filming setup is very nice. Thank you again for reminding us that charity begins at home

  • @bernadettegordon3455
    @bernadettegordon3455 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing, I’m always eager to watch your videos.stay blessed.

  • @danieellah3504
    @danieellah3504 3 месяца назад

    This video comes at the right time. Thank you Tosin ❤

  • @nanal54nl
    @nanal54nl 3 месяца назад

    Came at the right time, God bless you… keep shining

  • @Abimbolacoker
    @Abimbolacoker 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this.
    Yes, the filming set up is beautiful 😍

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
    @limfenyuykinyuy4861 3 месяца назад

    I am that go to person for encouragement, love, support, intercession but i don't have that circle yet.
    I am waiting on God to send me my true tribe. That will pour into me as i pour into others. It's exhaustive being supportive and people are only negative towards me and discourage my dreams

  • @rainofanswers
    @rainofanswers 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Tosin. This is an amazing conversation.

  • @amakasempire2531
    @amakasempire2531 3 месяца назад

    I love the filming set up!
    Thank you for this video, it ministered to me deeply.

  • @blessingisrael9028
    @blessingisrael9028 3 месяца назад +1

    Am always looking forward to your videos aside your wealth of wisdom. I love the way you talk ❤❤
    God bless you ma'am

    • @TosinAlabi
      @TosinAlabi  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much! 🥹

  • @kessienatasha4607
    @kessienatasha4607 3 месяца назад

    I wanted to say i see Bishop Oyedepo in you..... then you mentioned him as one of your mentors. You are also my mentor from afar🥰

  • @adeboyinadeniran
    @adeboyinadeniran 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for this!!

  • @Bee-wd4mh
    @Bee-wd4mh 3 месяца назад

    Amen. Thank you.

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji 3 месяца назад

    The filming set up is great! 😘 Such a timely and powerful videos. Relationships can be a lot but wit Godly wisdom, it can be sweet and fruitful.

  • @ayo_okekexx
    @ayo_okekexx 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Tosin for always sharing your wisdom🤗🤗🤗
    Please can you do a video on raising Godly children in the western world.

  • @Oluwatosin2022
    @Oluwatosin2022 3 месяца назад

    Such a timely message! God bless you sis ❤

  • @EstherOnyimowo
    @EstherOnyimowo 3 месяца назад

    This video blessings me alot. Thank you so much ma❤

  • @parentingunitedwithayanate
    @parentingunitedwithayanate 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing❤

  • @dinmadivine7068
    @dinmadivine7068 3 месяца назад

    The filming set up is awesome

  • @TheFolaAdemilola
    @TheFolaAdemilola 3 месяца назад

    Aunty Tosin!!!!
    God bless you for this video.🙏

  • @lydiadaramola785
    @lydiadaramola785 3 месяца назад

    I’ve missed your videos so much ❤❤❤❤

  • @BrendaKimbi
    @BrendaKimbi 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Jesus!
    Brenda you are not self preserving 😩

  • @thekingsdaughter61
    @thekingsdaughter61 3 месяца назад

    Aunty Tosin of God, I love how elegant and fashionable you are as a Kingdom woman, please can you make a video on how we can emerge into this type of beautiful fashionable Godly woman, tips on hair, makeup, dresses, self care, etc... We love you 😘😘

  • @toluwabori8935
    @toluwabori8935 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing sis Tosin 🤍

  • @ayowadeadeleye
    @ayowadeadeleye 3 месяца назад

    Pleassse do a video of your house decor process

  • @nwegbomicheala2389
    @nwegbomicheala2389 3 месяца назад

    Wow, this video was really for me because NGL, I am struggling. I have a question, what if you have already reached the state of resentment? What if you don't get support from enough people even your own family, and you constantly have to be the one supporting them and even your friends and you've now reached a point where you don't have much love to give anymore and you barely even have any for yourself.

  • @rumeokodili5063
    @rumeokodili5063 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Tosin for this video because I'm someone big on Covenant friendships and I have missed you on this space.Please is it possible to tag the reels you talked about so I can go through it?

  • @graciamichaels
    @graciamichaels 3 месяца назад

    yes i can tell you are that friend

  • @faithnoricah.2283
    @faithnoricah.2283 3 месяца назад

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @ItunuOwolabi
    @ItunuOwolabi 3 месяца назад

    Thanks so much ma for this rich message, I always look forward to seeing your videos on RUclips, I admire the wisdom of God in your life,your beauty and eloquence. I can only pray for grace to be this kind of friend to the people in my life atm and prayerfully wait to get these kind of friends too. Thank you ma❤

  • @TeereniK
    @TeereniK 3 месяца назад

    Not even 10 minutes in yet so relatable and accurate 🤍 🫶🏾