duuude. my mom would've gone a little more extra, lol. But yes. Also, Why the fuck cant this guy learn to cook? I never learned EDIT: I meant to say "I was never taught". I didnt look up recipes. I watched other ppl occasionally and tried to duplicate it, and failed a lot, BUT I did eventually got some things right. Then i just experimented with struggle meals, when i was stuck in a bad job, and made a lot of cool stuff. tortilla pizzas were a favorite, for me. i went tangent..............
He sold all of YOUR personal property so divorce is the ONLY option in the situation. Charge him for everything he sold in the the divorce settlement on top of your half of the house, assets, and finances!
When he said that to her mother. I would of gone that day, packed her stuff up, took it with me. Of course I'd get a letter from daughter saying, my mom has permission to enter my home, and remove my property while I'm in hospital & included hhospital # and room # so there would be no problem if he tried to stop her, or calls police
You know how childish that is, right? Apparently you and me can now play at recess together because in my mind I thought, brother you just opened that door wide open.
This reminds me so much of my own divorce. Except he was the one that wanted a divorce when I got sick (medical malpractice in an operation and now I have severe nerve pain and depression as a result). He couldn’t handle taking care of the house and kids. Hid bills, got me in severe debt and wanted to divorce, because he “wanted to be free”. Now I’m a single mom. I’m doing better to en I was when I was with him. Because I had to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. regardless on what my situation was. And if he wanted to do something, or go somewhere, I had to drop everything and go. But if I asked him if he can move his gym time to the next day, he got mad at me. So when listening to this, I got really anxious and had to pause a couple times.
Minna S - I'm in my 60s old guy and your story has me in tears of rage. When you take those vows it should be important, not just temporarily convenient. I was the at home parent for our kids but when I got sick (mental health) I was kicked out (she already had a boyfriend as it turned out) and she got the house as well as child support from my minimum wage jobs. Have a good relationship with the kids and all three men are true gentlemen. I'm glad you're doing better - this stuff hurts and the pain, while it never quite goes away, is always there. I wish you the best and all the good vibes to sooth your heart.
I bet he thought he didn't cause you any stress, either. "*I* work all day, so when I get home, I get to do nothing, and have you take care of everything." "But I work, too." "It's not the saaaaaaame!"
In away this story had a really great out come. Not just the medical awareness but I'm happy she wasn't pregnant. At first it sounded like she was. Ulcers and tumors are no joke. I had 2 a few years ago. I'm so happy she had her mom in her corner. She is the best.
also, some cultures actually have forgiveness processes where the offending person has to 1) make a sincere apology to the person they wronged 2) show that they have changed their ways or that they are in the process (not "making plans on doing it later" but actively in the process of changing) and 3) ask forgiveness of that person. not their mom, their husband, their uncle... and if that person dies, forgiveness can't be granted, and you need to suck it up and still go through changing your ways. Otherwise, you aren't sorry. And if you aren't sorry, how can there be genuine forgiveness? You can both put them out of your head (not "forgiveness" but also not bearing on you) AND kick them out of your life.
Narcissista think using words in certain order unlocks things like a video game. So, to them a hollow "I'm sorry" means they're right back in the driver's seat abusing you.
omg Greg, did he REALLY just say "its just a hole in her stomach"???? does he not realise stomachs HAVE ACID in them???? ACID that can KILL by destroying the internal system???? or is he REALLY that stupid & selfish???? poor lass :( Kudos to momma xxx
Omgosh this story is so similar to my own life.. My intestines ruptured but my husband didn't believe me, my doctor's all 8-10 of them couldn't figure out why I was so sick either. After 7 months and tons of tests and medicines I went to a surgeon friend of mine, told him my symptoms and he said we will operate on Thursday, the visit was on Tuesday. After surgery he told my husband I should not be alive, I had partitions,(poisoning in my intestines) he said no one survives this.. Thank God I did survive. I found out after the surgery that most of my issue was due to stress caused by my husband, I ended up losing 3 feet of my intestines, being on a strict diet and a few other things but at least I'm alive. I divorced him he's than a year later, that was 12 years ago. Oh and btw while I was in the hospital he never once visited me, had my sister pick me up when I was discharged, he did pick up my pain medicines tho but of course he took half of them before I even got home!! Some people are truly heartless!! I know this is only a story but glad she got away from her husband also!!! Have a blessed day!!
Oral fixation has a lot to do with it. If he smoked three packs a day there was a cigarette in his mouth all day and now he needs food in his mouth all day. He should buy a pacifier
My dad was similar but never that harsh. But there was a big going around a long time ago when they were younger. My dad was angry that my mom wasn't doing much around the house. But then after she recovered, he caught it. And realized just how bad it was. He was very apologetic after that happened. My dad has some empathy but not as much as he should. But a heck of a lot more than that guy. Because there are times when my dad helps clean up around the house. Even cooks on occasion. It's not often but it's the little things that help. If he was a little bit more like my dad, he would not be in the situation right now.
Wish it were as simple as other people monitoring food intake and spending, but it's not. The food addict has got to want healing and strive for it himself. If he doesn't love himself enough to make the necessary changes and rigorously stick to them, no medcicne, surgery, or outside intervention will help. Sadly speaking from experience.
@@Mrstigger747 It was tough having to come to and accept that it wasn't up to me or anyone else in his circle, that the brunt of it was on him. I'm still making peace with myself as I come across stuff I thought I'd worked through. Life's weird like that. Thanks for your kindness and thoughtfulness. It means the world!!!
"You should be able to lose weight while you're in the hospital" That is a legit thing. Hospital food might not be tasty or might not even look good, but boy does it slim you down. Talking from experience.
Stuffing Greg full of fiber and drink lots of fluids would’ve helped some. I have a spouse who never smoked, but he’s always hungry/needs to chew on something for TMJ. And No willpower AT ALL. It’s there, he’ll keep after it until it’s gone then complain miserably when it is gone. I make sure there’s a lot of high fiber low calorie snacks around. Other things I portion out, I also do the trick of an appetizer and make a stop before entree to let the first take the edge off the appetite. I understand she didn’t have the time, but for Greg to do some of that himself, sounds like he should’ve and couldn’t. Glad she got away.
I just remembered an episode of a sitcom I saw on an old re-run channel. It was either 1950's or early 1960's since it was in black and white. The wife wasn't cooking for her husband because she took on a job as a dancer and wasn't getting home in time to cook so he had to fend for himself. Husband wasn't exactly happy about it and most of the gags where him struggling with not knowing how to even heat up frozen super market dinners, but in the end he tried to be supportive of his wife's career. (although she ended up quitting because she found the job too exhausting and old TV shows like conveniently wrapping up conflict at the end of each episode) But even by 1960's standards men were expected to handle their wive's occasionally not being able to cook for them with more grace than this douche canoe.
This is a hard one to condemn Greg for his treatment of Amanda. Without realizing it, he, too, had an illness. Greg's illness was both mental and physical, the one controlling the other. And yet, treating Amanda as he did wasn't right. And yet, both of his illnesses caused him to act as he did. Only someone who has experienced what Greg was going through can totally understand the single mindedness of needing food and his lack of control over his actions. Greg was an addict, a food addict. That was his drug of choice. Was Amanda right in divorcing Greg? He was an addict after all. Was he going to change had she returned or hadn't had the mini heart attack? No, he wasn't going to change. Circumstances had to force him to change and get the help he needed. Because of her health issues, she was right to divorce him. She couldn't go back to an addict who's only thought was to get his fix. She wouldn't have been able to properly recover and may have ended up back in the hospital. Or worse. If Greg gets ALL the help he needs, and sticks to it, he may become a better person than he was for Amanda.
Being a male, I'll just say that if I were the wife in this situation, I'd have hung up and called a divorce attorney and I'm only 8 minutes into the video. As a male, this clown is a total disgrace to manhood.
4:54 A JOB is where you do work for money. When you force someone to work and not pay them, that is slavery. The wife has a job, the stuff she does around the house isn't a job. It's just what a functional adult has to do in order to have a clean house, clean clothes, clean dishes, and fresh food. It's just LIVING. A wife's job is whatever she is being compensated for. These deadbeat men don't understand a very simple concept: if living with you is worse than living without you, whatever loyalty and love your wife had for you will run dry. If she is already doing everything around the house, working a job that would easily pay all the bills, AND has to stress out, fight, and beg you to contribute a tiny fraction to the responsibilities of being in a relationship and upholding a house, why would she keep you around? She will be cleaning everything herself if she's single, but it'll be a hell of a lot less stressful. Plus, there will be half the mess. She doesn't need you. Remind yourself that a relationship is a partnership. If she is dragging your fat ass around, eventually she will cut you loose. No one has unlimited patience. And, no, there isn't such a thing as unconditional love. If you are neglectful, disrespectful, and abusive your partner will peace out eventually. And you will be left in your own filth scratching your head.
They both work so they both can clean the house, make meals and anything else that comes up in running a household!! He just needs to keep his mouth shut and get to work..
I love tasting really good food but I absolutely hate eating and have no clue how someone could become that addicted to it. I literally have to force myself to eat so I don’t get sick.
Thank goodness I found you guys! There are days that I sub in a protein/greens/blueberry shake just to make sure that I have something in my stomach but I’m a little shocked at how thin I’ve become and I LOVED food! And I will admit to a latte addiction. 3 a day recently 😻😻
When I was 16, I would hear my Dad cough and cough and cough every morning, and what would he do when he finally quit coughing? He would light up a cigarette. I decided that I was never ever going to take up smoking. I am 75 now, and have never smoked. He was an alcoholic for 25 years, but it was the smoking that killed him. His Father lived until he was 102, and his Mother lived until she was 90, so he had good genes. It was such a waste. He was a good man.
My wife and I do most everything 50-50. And we have a really good arrangement too. She tells me what and how to do things. Then I simply do what she says.
This is how I want it to be with my future wife. I admit i'm not the best on keeping on top of house chores but I'll gladly take orders and do my fair shair. I know so many men who have a real stick up their ass about taking orders from their women. Seriously? Grow up. I'm almost 40.
all these channels have same voice actors, i believe these are some sort of soap opera like thingies or psychological experiments to gauge the reaction of people
In a few years, he's going to look like Jabba the Hutt.😂 And she will be living her best life far from him. She needs to go back to the house while he's in the hospital and sell his stuff to recoup the money he got from selling her stuff.
No way do I excuse this husband's conduct . If he was a heavy smoker for years , and he quit smoking , the withdrawal symptoms are severe and are long lasting . Even worse than breaking an Opiod , Heroin , or Crystal Meth addiction . Nicotine addiction is worse than other kind of addiction . Perhaps his conduct and behaviors is a result of breaking the nicotine addiction.
'Women do all the housework. Men are hunters so we're not good with stuff like that' What about famous male chefs like Guy Fieri, Emeril Lagasse, and most well-known Gordon Ramsey? They are all male and are able to cook, they've all had shows about it.
Another story where things just fall apart. No couple counseling no mom's forgiving their children . These are too predictable anymore. Always a divorce.
My sister is over weight and she will not cook her own food's she would get her husband to cook because she can't stand to touch raw meat at all so when her husband is out of town she goes out to eat but when he is home he does all the cooking. Before she lost weight she was 450lb's now I think that she might be back to that size again. But she is a diabetic and probably has heart problem's too along with high blood pressure. Their is no telling with her. I have heart problem's and kidney failure but I am not on any kind of medicine for my heart or kidney's at all.
He was the big ulcer that gave her one. She needed to let him go, for her own health. He just continued to complain, I don't think he really wants to change.
@@freespirit3891 at the end of the day that's all he'll ever be: a big toxic lump, who was messing up her body and mind and wife's lucky he was finally removed from her life forever.
Until I read the comments I didn't know there were real people like Greg. He won't survive. And the blatant stupidity and selfishness. Really. If you read this and you're a Greg, get smart now.
It's called oral fixationits what ex smokers get for a few weeks after quit smoking so lolipops r a real help bc then u dealw the oral fixation and can help keep ur weight down instead of blowing up
They can last a lot longer than a few weeks. I quit smoking a couple years ago and still get them. I at least know what is happening and fight it. I will snack on some cucumber sliced really thin as that is mostly water but still gives the hand to mouth motion that I need.
Y'all saying that she needs to take him to court but that cost money. During my divorce, I was sleeping on the sofa. I got woken up as I was being beaten with a metal baseball bat. I had multiple internal injuries resulting in Multiple PEs. Since my EX was working for the court system, he had the schedule moved up so I could not go. My EX got my clothes, jewelry and all my personal possessions. The court system does not care when one party in a divorce is hospitalized. They are not going to reschedule. And before you say lawyer up, lawyers need money and do not take cases where they are not going to profit from it. As for compensation, most people in the US are not rich. And many places do not allow alimony payments for divorce.
How do these people get married and who do they think treating people like crap is ok? But then when they booted to the left they FINALLY wanna get some act right? These people really need more of a REALITY CHECK then what they end up getting. These stories make me so mad sometimes.
Sometimes I wonder how old the writer(s) of these stories is/are cause I hear a lot of 'duties as a wife' and other outdated terms that simply don't fit in this modern world anymore, and the conviction with how they say it is what leads me to believe that they're either 'older' than most, or they grew up in a household where such a thing was normal and that's why they write stories about it so they can exaggerate it in the way they do cause come on, some of the people in these texts are beyond dense, it's what I like to call that Apple kind of Stupid. In the end it's not even that funny anymore. 🙄🤷
While the viewpoints are outdated, this happens a lot. There are so many marriages that have this outdated viewpoint and most of them are conservative religious. Abuse happens. These outdated and misogynistic viewpoints are still extremely common. I was dating a man a few years ago that had these ideas about what women are supposed to do and what women aren't supposed to do. So this problem is still prevalent. I hope that they continue with these stories. It sheds a light on abusive and toxic relationships where the man (or culture) is misogynistic. And it also happens in western countries. Look at the ultra religious households in the United States, for example.
@@knightlightmemento7529 yes they do if you want to help there are fliers that can be placed in public restrooms for shelters and help lines. Also teach your kids both boys and girls how to be independent and confident and not to be ashamed of their bodies or that women are in anyway shape or form second class citizens
@@TiffWaffles these view are passed on from generation to generation. My grandmother on dad side was old school but at the same time she roll up her sleeves to work. She wanted me to be independent because she don't want me to rely on a man to survive and support me because most guys in her eyes are not gentlemen or proper men. What do guys do for housework while they are single until they find a girlfriend or wife?
a stomach flu doesn't las a month. No, you don't have to make big meals for him. Stress is what's causing her health issues. Greg needs a therapist. Addictions are not to be treated lightly. I'm surprised he didn't have a fatty liver. Greg needs a therapist. He just replaced one addiction with another.
“I might have a tumor.” “Oh. What about my food?” 😬 If he is even incapable of boiling water, what’s he going to do if she is literally incapable of cooking for him? Everyone should know the basics of caring for themselves.
Yup. Quit smoking for my health. After I quit I put on 60 pounds, have high blood pressure, am type 2 diabetic and high cholesterol. So glad I quit lol
So the poor guy suffering from addiction has no support from his wife other than thr wife and the mother making him look bad. He was hungry and angry because of his addiction to cigarettes and the wife doesn't seem to understand that
Has this guy never heard of chewing gum? Or a chew stick? Or THERAPY? I am both disgusted by, and feel pity for, this man. But not enough pity to live with him. He's absolutely selfish. Even at the end, when he "realized how she felt." The moment he said he was going to sell all of MY property, to buy food, I would have called the police, and given them a list of MY PROPERTY that I would not allow to be sold (mainly my computer stuff), and insist that they go protect my property rights. After that, he can do what he likes. I would SUGGEST therapy for him, but our marriage would be over at that point. When he didn't CARE that his WIFE was IN THE HOSPITAL, and might have life-threatening cancer, that's it. The marriage is over. I'm just glad that OP had her mother to protect and care for her.
threating to sell whats NOT his is a cause for him to be arrested , married or not .. If its not yours you cant do anything unless shes deceased. Karma Bit back on the husband now he knows how his wife is feeling ....
Standing ovation for that mom.
duuude. my mom would've gone a little more extra, lol. But yes. Also, Why the fuck cant this guy learn to cook? I never learned EDIT: I meant to say "I was never taught". I didnt look up recipes. I watched other ppl occasionally and tried to duplicate it, and failed a lot, BUT I did eventually got some things right. Then i just experimented with struggle meals, when i was stuck in a bad job, and made a lot of cool stuff. tortilla pizzas were a favorite, for me. i went tangent..............
Wooo!
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@@SPEC1AL-D Congratulations! I'm happy things worked out for you in the end. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He sold all of YOUR personal property so divorce is the ONLY option in the situation. Charge him for everything he sold in the the divorce settlement on top of your half of the house, assets, and finances!
I would be upset if someone sold my stuff while I at the hospital. I would have people go over to the house to rescue my things
When he said that to her mother. I would of gone that day, packed her stuff up, took it with me. Of course I'd get a letter from daughter saying, my mom has permission to enter my home, and remove my property while I'm in hospital & included hhospital # and room # so there would be no problem if he tried to stop her, or calls police
@@RedCeltay why can't he use his own dang money to buy food ?
@@taylorclarke7217 exactly. You hit the nail on the head. To me, he was just being cruel to her.
I'm glad I'm not the only one that this has 😡 pissed off!
He committed a crime by selling items that don't belong to him. At least take him to small claims court.
If I was her, I would think that those things were a wake up call to help with her decision of dumping that butt-hole.
Exactly. Boy if someone sold my jewelry and handbags hands would be thrown.
"I need to eat. I need something in my mouth." Lol I would not have been able to hold back he practically gave that one for free.
Heck yes 🙌
You know how childish that is, right?
Apparently you and me can now play at recess together because in my mind I thought, brother you just opened that door wide open.
I don't get it. What does everyone else see that I don't? 😔
@@philipjohnston5822 let's just say that it is something oral that is not related to actual eating... Unless you're into that.
@@Gazing-09 Oh. Thank you.
This reminds me so much of my own divorce. Except he was the one that wanted a divorce when I got sick (medical malpractice in an operation and now I have severe nerve pain and depression as a result).
He couldn’t handle taking care of the house and kids. Hid bills, got me in severe debt and wanted to divorce, because he “wanted to be free”.
Now I’m a single mom. I’m doing better to en I was when I was with him. Because I had to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. regardless on what my situation was. And if he wanted to do something, or go somewhere, I had to drop everything and go. But if I asked him if he can move his gym time to the next day, he got mad at me.
So when listening to this, I got really anxious and had to pause a couple times.
My story is also similar to this one.. So glad you are doing better, I know I am after getting away from such a self centered person!! Bless you hon🙏
Minna S - I'm in my 60s old guy and your story has me in tears of rage. When you take those vows it should be important, not just temporarily convenient. I was the at home parent for our kids but when I got sick (mental health) I was kicked out (she already had a boyfriend as it turned out) and she got the house as well as child support from my minimum wage jobs. Have a good relationship with the kids and all three men are true gentlemen. I'm glad you're doing better - this stuff hurts and the pain, while it never quite goes away, is always there. I wish you the best and all the good vibes to sooth your heart.
I bet he thought he didn't cause you any stress, either.
"*I* work all day, so when I get home, I get to do nothing, and have you take care of everything."
"But I work, too."
"It's not the saaaaaaame!"
My ex was the same. Only his health was important
And mine too, was this man a time traveller? The seventies for me!
In away this story had a really great out come. Not just the medical awareness but I'm happy she wasn't pregnant. At first it sounded like she was. Ulcers and tumors are no joke. I had 2 a few years ago. I'm so happy she had her mom in her corner. She is the best.
Forgiving someone doesn't't mean you have to accept them back into your life or be a doormat all over.
also, some cultures actually have forgiveness processes where the offending person has to 1) make a sincere apology to the person they wronged 2) show that they have changed their ways or that they are in the process (not "making plans on doing it later" but actively in the process of changing) and 3) ask forgiveness of that person. not their mom, their husband, their uncle... and if that person dies, forgiveness can't be granted, and you need to suck it up and still go through changing your ways. Otherwise, you aren't sorry. And if you aren't sorry, how can there be genuine forgiveness?
You can both put them out of your head (not "forgiveness" but also not bearing on you) AND kick them out of your life.
Narcissista think using words in certain order unlocks things like a video game. So, to them a hollow "I'm sorry" means they're right back in the driver's seat abusing you.
If my husband treated me like that when I was in the hospital, he'd be an ex husband.
Amanda's mom is so caring!
Greg was so selfish.
Her : It might be a tumor
Him : Oh, okay, but what about my food?
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omg Greg, did he REALLY just say "its just a hole in her stomach"???? does he not realise stomachs HAVE ACID in them???? ACID that can KILL by destroying the internal system???? or is he REALLY that stupid & selfish???? poor lass :( Kudos to momma xxx
You be surprised on how many people don't know the anatomy of stomachs . Thry know food gets digested in there.
I had forgotten this fact until I saw this comment. Now I'm scared.
@@philipjohnston5822 oops, sorry bug, did not mean to spoop ya
*bow*
please forgive me for doing so x
@@taylorclarke7217 i bet they think food *magically* dissapears lol x
@@beasty909 It's alright. I forgive you.
That husband is a big baby.
I don't care what he quit, When I finish going off, his first call would be to Jenny Craig! I'm nobody's slave.
Omgosh this story is so similar to my own life.. My intestines ruptured but my husband didn't believe me, my doctor's all 8-10 of them couldn't figure out why I was so sick either. After 7 months and tons of tests and medicines I went to a surgeon friend of mine, told him my symptoms and he said we will operate on Thursday, the visit was on Tuesday. After surgery he told my husband I should not be alive, I had partitions,(poisoning in my intestines) he said no one survives this.. Thank God I did survive. I found out after the surgery that most of my issue was due to stress caused by my husband, I ended up losing 3 feet of my intestines, being on a strict diet and a few other things but at least I'm alive. I divorced him he's than a year later, that was 12 years ago. Oh and btw while I was in the hospital he never once visited me, had my sister pick me up when I was discharged, he did pick up my pain medicines tho but of course he took half of them before I even got home!! Some people are truly heartless!! I know this is only a story but glad she got away from her husband also!!! Have a blessed day!!
I am so happy you are past those times!
God damn! I’m so sorry you had to deal with someone like that. Glad you are doing better
Thank God you escaped him!
I'm hope you doing alot better and happy now
it honestly sounds like his addiction to cigarettes might have turned into a food addiction, an eating disorder though I don't recall the name of it.
I think it's "Binge Eating Disorder".
Yes! I think that's it.
Oral fixation has a lot to do with it. If he smoked three packs a day there was a cigarette in his mouth all day and now he needs food in his mouth all day. He should buy a pacifier
Thats what happened to me after i quit smoking. I gained a lot of weight and been trying to lose it for over a decade now. It sucks.
@@crazycatladym3027 yeah. It's hard to lose weight, your body doesn't want to let it go. I know how that sucks
My dad was similar but never that harsh. But there was a big going around a long time ago when they were younger. My dad was angry that my mom wasn't doing much around the house. But then after she recovered, he caught it. And realized just how bad it was. He was very apologetic after that happened. My dad has some empathy but not as much as he should. But a heck of a lot more than that guy. Because there are times when my dad helps clean up around the house. Even cooks on occasion. It's not often but it's the little things that help. If he was a little bit more like my dad, he would not be in the situation right now.
Wish it were as simple as other people monitoring food intake and spending, but it's not. The food addict has got to want healing and strive for it himself. If he doesn't love himself enough to make the necessary changes and rigorously stick to them, no medcicne, surgery, or outside intervention will help. Sadly speaking from experience.
So he traded one heart attack for another.
Sorry you had to live that. Here’s hoping your choice is making you content
@@Mrstigger747 It was tough having to come to and accept that it wasn't up to me or anyone else in his circle, that the brunt of it was on him. I'm still making peace with myself as I come across stuff I thought I'd worked through. Life's weird like that.
Thanks for your kindness and thoughtfulness. It means the world!!!
"You should be able to lose weight while you're in the hospital"
That is a legit thing. Hospital food might not be tasty or might not even look good, but boy does it slim you down. Talking from experience.
me too i could not eat soild food for a week, because i was having gall blabber pains badly
How could you be shocked and not shocked at the same time
Love these stories.
That husband was crazy he treated his wife like she was a maid and had no sympathy for her sickness karma is a bish
amen love karma and her mom
The description had me screaming🤣
What a big baby,
Mother was right to take Amanda’s side and is gonna take her home pray that tumors are benign and she gets better
that meal at 7:03 looks so good
Always in moderation, my Mama says
Huh thats almost the same thing my mom has raised me with. Everything in Moderation she says
Dude had been speedrunning to the early grave. lol
It's good people around him care enough to keep an eyes on him :)
Stuffing Greg full of fiber and drink lots of fluids would’ve helped some. I have a spouse who never smoked, but he’s always hungry/needs to chew on something for TMJ. And No willpower AT ALL. It’s there, he’ll keep after it until it’s gone then complain miserably when it is gone. I make sure there’s a lot of high fiber low calorie snacks around. Other things I portion out, I also do the trick of an appetizer and make a stop before entree to let the first take the edge off the appetite. I understand she didn’t have the time, but for Greg to do some of that himself, sounds like he should’ve and couldn’t. Glad she got away.
I just remembered an episode of a sitcom I saw on an old re-run channel. It was either 1950's or early 1960's since it was in black and white. The wife wasn't cooking for her husband because she took on a job as a dancer and wasn't getting home in time to cook so he had to fend for himself. Husband wasn't exactly happy about it and most of the gags where him struggling with not knowing how to even heat up frozen super market dinners, but in the end he tried to be supportive of his wife's career. (although she ended up quitting because she found the job too exhausting and old TV shows like conveniently wrapping up conflict at the end of each episode) But even by 1960's standards men were expected to handle their wive's occasionally not being able to cook for them with more grace than this douche canoe.
My folks were married in the late 1940s... Dad did more than half of the cooking, since he was better at it...
This is a hard one to condemn Greg for his treatment of Amanda. Without realizing it, he, too, had an illness. Greg's illness was both mental and physical, the one controlling the other.
And yet, treating Amanda as he did wasn't right. And yet, both of his illnesses caused him to act as he did. Only someone who has experienced what Greg was going through can totally understand the single mindedness of needing food and his lack of control over his actions. Greg was an addict, a food addict. That was his drug of choice.
Was Amanda right in divorcing Greg? He was an addict after all. Was he going to change had she returned or hadn't had the mini heart attack? No, he wasn't going to change. Circumstances had to force him to change and get the help he needed.
Because of her health issues, she was right to divorce him. She couldn't go back to an addict who's only thought was to get his fix. She wouldn't have been able to properly recover and may have ended up back in the hospital. Or worse.
If Greg gets ALL the help he needs, and sticks to it, he may become a better person than he was for Amanda.
Uh, he said 'hotel' room, although it showed 'hospital ' room. 🤣
Maybe it was intentional?
I like the sailor moon like sound affects at the end
Being a male, I'll just say that if I were the wife in this situation, I'd have hung up and called a divorce attorney and I'm only 8 minutes into the video. As a male, this clown is a total disgrace to manhood.
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A JOB is where you do work for money. When you force someone to work and not pay them, that is slavery.
The wife has a job, the stuff she does around the house isn't a job. It's just what a functional adult has to do in order to have a clean house, clean clothes, clean dishes, and fresh food. It's just LIVING.
A wife's job is whatever she is being compensated for.
These deadbeat men don't understand a very simple concept: if living with you is worse than living without you, whatever loyalty and love your wife had for you will run dry.
If she is already doing everything around the house, working a job that would easily pay all the bills, AND has to stress out, fight, and beg you to contribute a tiny fraction to the responsibilities of being in a relationship and upholding a house, why would she keep you around?
She will be cleaning everything herself if she's single, but it'll be a hell of a lot less stressful. Plus, there will be half the mess.
She doesn't need you. Remind yourself that a relationship is a partnership. If she is dragging your fat ass around, eventually she will cut you loose. No one has unlimited patience. And, no, there isn't such a thing as unconditional love. If you are neglectful, disrespectful, and abusive your partner will peace out eventually. And you will be left in your own filth scratching your head.
Good story
....But just changing what you eat won't change the fact that you're rotten on the inside.........buwahahahahaa
He sold her jewelry and handbags? Oh hell no.
When he quit smoking and he's always hungry....sounds like the munchies
He should try marijuana.
My first and only thoughts
I always enjoy your videos. I'm looking forward to seeing your new videos
They both work so they both can clean the house, make meals and anything else that comes up in running a household!! He just needs to keep his mouth shut and get to work..
Why does the husband remind me of Seymour from "Little Shop of Horrors"?
Audrey ll is who your thinking of.
Hubby being a jerk. Sad that he was only interested in his food and not how his wife was feeling
Am I the only one horrified by all the sloppy unsanitary mistakes the "chef" in the stock footage is being?
YES THANK YOU!
No, I found them to be gross too.
I love tasting really good food but I absolutely hate eating and have no clue how someone could become that addicted to it. I literally have to force myself to eat so I don’t get sick.
Ditto! I'm not the only one? I literally force myself to eat because I know my body needs it. I used to love food so I'm not sure what happened.
Me as well. Just lost interest in it and only eat once a day because I must. Otherwise I wouldn't bother. ❤❤
Thank goodness I found you guys! There are days that I sub in a protein/greens/blueberry shake just to make sure that I have something in my stomach but I’m a little shocked at how thin I’ve become and I LOVED food! And I will admit to a latte addiction. 3 a day recently 😻😻
I love theses stories, karma coming back to bite the person in the arse.
My dad quit smoking when my older brother was born by switching to gum. He used to chew gum all the time.
When I was 16, I would hear my Dad cough and cough and cough every morning, and what would he do when he finally quit coughing? He would light up a cigarette. I decided that I was never ever going to take up smoking. I am 75 now, and have never smoked. He was an alcoholic for 25 years, but it was the smoking that killed him. His Father lived until he was 102, and his Mother lived until she was 90, so he had good genes. It was such a waste. He was a good man.
My wife and I do most everything 50-50. And we have a really good arrangement too. She tells me what and how to do things. Then I simply do what she says.
This is how I want it to be with my future wife. I admit i'm not the best on keeping on top of house chores but I'll gladly take orders and do my fair shair. I know so many men who have a real stick up their ass about taking orders from their women. Seriously? Grow up. I'm almost 40.
all these channels have same voice actors, i believe these are some sort of soap opera like thingies or psychological experiments to gauge the reaction of people
But they are all fun. This is the 4th one I have found
@@lindahill7315 this is the fifth for me
@@strudel_reviews apple text, itext pro apple kitty text, and air text is the ones I have found.
@@lindahill7315 there's one more called apple cafe texts
@@strudel_reviews thank you. Looking for it. Enjoy these too much. 😆
In a few years, he's going to look like Jabba the Hutt.😂 And she will be living her best life far from him. She needs to go back to the house while he's in the hospital and sell his stuff to recoup the money he got from selling her stuff.
No way do I excuse this husband's conduct . If he was a heavy smoker for years , and he quit smoking , the withdrawal symptoms are severe and are long lasting . Even worse than breaking an Opiod , Heroin , or Crystal Meth addiction . Nicotine addiction is worse than other kind of addiction .
Perhaps his conduct and behaviors is a result of breaking the nicotine addiction.
Oh God. Aren't you a busy little beaver today! Now you need to put links to every channel in the descriptions... we need a map to keep up with you.
True words
'Women do all the housework. Men are hunters so we're not good with stuff like that' What about famous male chefs like Guy Fieri, Emeril Lagasse, and most well-known Gordon Ramsey? They are all male and are able to cook, they've all had shows about it.
Another story where things just fall apart. No couple counseling no mom's forgiving their children . These are too predictable anymore. Always a divorce.
At 6:15, I'm guessing that Amanda's Blood Pressure started to rise. My BP did it right there! LOL!
My sister is over weight and she will not cook her own food's she would get her husband to cook because she can't stand to touch raw meat at all so when her husband is out of town she goes out to eat but when he is home he does all the cooking. Before she lost weight she was 450lb's now I think that she might be back to that size again. But she is a diabetic and probably has heart problem's too along with high blood pressure. Their is no telling with her. I have heart problem's and kidney failure but I am not on any kind of medicine for my heart or kidney's at all.
Hope you can find a means to manage your health issues! Same with your sister!🙏💖
he's suffocating in a Hotel room? I thought he was in a hospital room and couldn't move!?
"Don't take things at face value..." then what about all that you're saying right here.
another one?
I hope he had to pay her back for her Jewelry and things he sold before the divrce.
Does anyone think that the wife got tumors from her husband smoking so much?
He was the big ulcer that gave her one. She needed to let him go, for her own health. He just continued to complain, I don't think he really wants to change.
@@freespirit3891 at the end of the day that's all he'll ever be: a big toxic lump, who was messing up her body and mind and wife's lucky he was finally removed from her life forever.
I would have told dude he has 40 pounds of reserves he’ll be fine.
Until I read the comments I didn't know there were real people like Greg. He won't survive. And the blatant stupidity and selfishness. Really. If you read this and you're a Greg, get smart now.
How can someone even think about food when their spouse is in the hospital.
It's called oral fixationits what ex smokers get for a few weeks after quit smoking so lolipops r a real help bc then u dealw the oral fixation and can help keep ur weight down instead of blowing up
They can last a lot longer than a few weeks. I quit smoking a couple years ago and still get them. I at least know what is happening and fight it. I will snack on some cucumber sliced really thin as that is mostly water but still gives the hand to mouth motion that I need.
Greedy man cause wife to be hospitalized and mom protects her like a real woman. ❤❤❤
He did what?! How dare he do that to OP! I got no sympathy for him!
Hotel room, thought he was in the hospital.
Y'all saying that she needs to take him to court but that cost money.
During my divorce, I was sleeping on the sofa. I got woken up as I was being beaten with a metal baseball bat. I had multiple internal injuries resulting in Multiple PEs.
Since my EX was working for the court system, he had the schedule moved up so I could not go. My EX got my clothes, jewelry and all my personal possessions. The court system does not care when one party in a divorce is hospitalized. They are not going to reschedule. And before you say lawyer up, lawyers need money and do not take cases where they are not going to profit from it.
As for compensation, most people in the US are not rich. And many places do not allow alimony payments for divorce.
Anyone else imagining Jabba The Hutt? Ffffooooooooooooddddd!!!
Wow lol my real name is Amanda and I legit have health problems that make cooking hard.
You know sure is funny how these stories say that the husband can't even make their own food which when I was single I did my own cooking
He traded one addiction for another.
How do these people get married and who do they think treating people like crap is ok?
But then when they booted to the left they FINALLY wanna get some act right?
These people really need more of a REALITY CHECK then what they end up getting.
These stories make me so mad sometimes.
To be fair, it takes a lot to get their act together or not at all.
Sometimes I wonder how old the writer(s) of these stories is/are cause I hear a lot of 'duties as a wife' and other outdated terms that simply don't fit in this modern world anymore, and the conviction with how they say it is what leads me to believe that they're either 'older' than most, or they grew up in a household where such a thing was normal and that's why they write stories about it so they can exaggerate it in the way they do cause come on, some of the people in these texts are beyond dense, it's what I like to call that Apple kind of Stupid. In the end it's not even that funny anymore. 🙄🤷
While the viewpoints are outdated, this happens a lot. There are so many marriages that have this outdated viewpoint and most of them are conservative religious. Abuse happens. These outdated and misogynistic viewpoints are still extremely common. I was dating a man a few years ago that had these ideas about what women are supposed to do and what women aren't supposed to do. So this problem is still prevalent. I hope that they continue with these stories. It sheds a light on abusive and toxic relationships where the man (or culture) is misogynistic.
And it also happens in western countries. Look at the ultra religious households in the United States, for example.
Then I feel sorry for those trapped in such marriages. They deserve better. 🙁
@@knightlightmemento7529 yes they do if you want to help there are fliers that can be placed in public restrooms for shelters and help lines. Also teach your kids both boys and girls how to be independent and confident and not to be ashamed of their bodies or that women are in anyway shape or form second class citizens
@@TiffWaffles these view are passed on from generation to generation. My grandmother on dad side was old school but at the same time she roll up her sleeves to work. She wanted me to be independent because she don't want me to rely on a man to survive and support me because most guys in her eyes are not gentlemen or proper men. What do guys do for housework while they are single until they find a girlfriend or wife?
There are still some men that do think way
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That may be a low-key and high-key burn there
I went through this, too. Sad.
a stomach flu doesn't las a month. No, you don't have to make big meals for him. Stress is what's causing her health issues. Greg needs a therapist. Addictions are not to be treated lightly. I'm surprised he didn't have a fatty liver. Greg needs a therapist. He just replaced one addiction with another.
Greg needs a long walk on a short pier.
You reep what you sow
What man in this day and age can't at least scramble some eggs to eat? OMG.
stop teasing the chicken in that pan or it won't brown...
Nobody can help you if you can’t help yourself. Greg should have known this
What age is this guy?! 6? Sheesh unbelievable
BWAAAAAHAHAHA I want to know about the last time Greg hunted the mammoth on the mountainside
Karma's a bitch.
If he's greedy let him cook his own food. Wife needs to get out. She works too. Women don't have to do the house work.
Those men who say it's a woman's job need to get a tool kit handed to them with a fix it list and told that's the man's job.
Who makes up all these outrageous stories??
a new candidate for my 600lb life
Wow is he a baby
“I might have a tumor.”
“Oh. What about my food?”
😬
If he is even incapable of boiling water, what’s he going to do if she is literally incapable of cooking for him? Everyone should know the basics of caring for themselves.
There are frozen meals where you just pop into the microwave. They taste good.
Husband was entitled and evil for expecting wife to cook all the time while she’s sick and do housework too and didn’t care she was in hospital
Hotel room???
Yup. Quit smoking for my health. After I quit I put on 60 pounds, have high blood pressure, am type 2 diabetic and high cholesterol. So glad I quit lol
Why do men still have this mindset. It's 2022!!
I'll take "something that never happened" for 600 Alex.
So the poor guy suffering from addiction has no support from his wife other than thr wife and the mother making him look bad. He was hungry and angry because of his addiction to cigarettes and the wife doesn't seem to understand that
So what? His addiction doesn’t excuse his actions. He’s a poor excuse for a husband
Has this guy never heard of chewing gum? Or a chew stick? Or THERAPY?
I am both disgusted by, and feel pity for, this man. But not enough pity to live with him. He's absolutely selfish. Even at the end, when he "realized how she felt."
The moment he said he was going to sell all of MY property, to buy food, I would have called the police, and given them a list of MY PROPERTY that I would not allow to be sold (mainly my computer stuff), and insist that they go protect my property rights. After that, he can do what he likes. I would SUGGEST therapy for him, but our marriage would be over at that point. When he didn't CARE that his WIFE was IN THE HOSPITAL, and might have life-threatening cancer, that's it. The marriage is over.
I'm just glad that OP had her mother to protect and care for her.
What his name? Necky Mc'Neckbeard?
threating to sell whats NOT his is a cause for him to be arrested , married or not .. If its not yours you cant do anything unless shes deceased. Karma Bit back on the husband now he knows how his wife is feeling ....
Greg "I need food"
Me points to the kitchen, "then get off your ass and make yourself something to eat then"