Please stop my dad from drinking so much!! [Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.09.24]

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    Hello Counselor EP.381
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  • @kweenley_6104
    @kweenley_6104 5 лет назад +1731

    Drinking is about the social life of men? Shut up! You have a family to care for!
    He disgusts me.

    • @evanah8250
      @evanah8250 5 лет назад +64

      Precisely! I hate it when he still pretends that it's nothing serious at all. So sad to see the 2 gals sobbing away..they must be living in fear each day ..and their poor mummy..sob.. suffered so much esp during the lost of her 3rd pregnancy

    • @soraeverblue
      @soraeverblue 5 лет назад +50

      Well i'm pretty sure kicking your wife and children's head at 1 am while they're sleeping is also a part of social life for men. Ugh this guy is disgusting

    • @avery4680
      @avery4680 5 лет назад

      I 10% agree with you

    • @kweenley_6104
      @kweenley_6104 5 лет назад

      @@avery4680 why 10%?

    • @tenshiai1462
      @tenshiai1462 5 лет назад +6

      Kweenley _ I think she meant 100 lol

  • @tiredbylife.5589
    @tiredbylife.5589 5 лет назад +1391

    This guy is so lucky that the level-headed members of GOT7 were the ones who guested. Jackson couldn't keep calm when a man pushed a fan. Imagine if he would have been present. JB was straight up pissed the entire segment and tried his very best to stay in his place. Jinyoung managed to keep a straight face, but, at some point, he was just too speechless. Yugyeom and Bambam too wouldnt have sit still. Mark is the kind to lose face quick in front of bullshit even small petty things can get him angry. Bro, Youngjae would have gone from sunshine to pissed. JJ Project were the best ones for this episode, because there is no way that the other members would have been able to hold it in.

    • @mikassalouna
      @mikassalouna 5 лет назад +159

      Jackson would straight up Punch the man if he didn't kill him

    • @riveting10
      @riveting10 5 лет назад +35

      Agreed 100%

    • @veeveegem
      @veeveegem 5 лет назад +59

      True! I bet the company itself barred JS from going, and even the rest of the members because of how transparent they are with their emotions. JJP at least has a high tolerance meter

    • @starchan3048
      @starchan3048 5 лет назад +20

      'Youngjae would have gone from sunshine to pissed" :))) OMG wae :))) lololol i like your comment so much :))

    • @wangkong905
      @wangkong905 5 лет назад +66

      Kinda wished Jackson was there to scold him harshly tbh. This "man" deserves it.

  • @rositabuanaputri7168
    @rositabuanaputri7168 5 лет назад +1746

    JB LOOKS LIKE HE IS READY TO PUNCH THIS MEN

    • @mildf9609
      @mildf9609 5 лет назад +10

      ikr TT

    • @sshdontdisturb
      @sshdontdisturb 5 лет назад +126

      Jinyoung, too. I can see how much the both of them are trying to composed themselves. Lol i have never seen jinyoung like that.

    • @wwi6304
      @wwi6304 5 лет назад +59

      yes, JB understand this concern very well!! I was so mad when I watched this ep too 😤😤

    • @hannie5085
      @hannie5085 5 лет назад +30

      him constantly readjust his pillow out of anger is just... me

    • @jtz
      @jtz 5 лет назад +5

      I’m ready too!!!!

  • @nadmai7780
    @nadmai7780 5 лет назад +1705

    I'm going to say this truthfully....if I was her, I divorce him....
    His kids deserves better than this..
    406 likes! Thanks this is my first time getting that much 👉👈💞💞💞

    • @g.h3874
      @g.h3874 5 лет назад +30

      WE all know divorce isn't a thing in korea that's why these wives are still married to drunkards

    • @misha745
      @misha745 5 лет назад +5

      I agree. They would be better off in the long run

    • @jjkaykay8552
      @jjkaykay8552 5 лет назад +12

      Dizzy 396 this episode proves it is a thing, maybe uncommon but it happens, JB mentioned his parents were divorced because of alcohol.

    • @nadmai7780
      @nadmai7780 5 лет назад +1

      @@jjkaykay8552 agreed 😢😢😢😢

    • @inuyashaxkagome345
      @inuyashaxkagome345 5 лет назад +15

      I wish she would get divorced. The kids are still young and it will be hard but I think once they grow up they will understand why she did it. This has the potential to get so much worse, he could get seriously violent and it's terrifying. I wouldn't even question it I would just throw those divorce papers at him.

  • @haqita02
    @haqita02 5 лет назад +1486

    After watching this show for years, 2 causes of problem that are prevalent; alcohol & patriarchy. Both are in this particular case.

    • @berneen8866
      @berneen8866 5 лет назад +42

      Eating disorders are also shown often on the show.

    • @pinkpajamas9287
      @pinkpajamas9287 5 лет назад +54

      Korea society seems don't understand alcoholic, alcoholism and alcohol abused.

    • @Andysnyc
      @Andysnyc 5 лет назад +11

      Stuff like this is why there's a decline in birth rates and a negative perception of people

    • @msmerdzynska1503
      @msmerdzynska1503 5 лет назад

      My thoughts exactly!!!!

    • @nox_studio7713
      @nox_studio7713 5 лет назад +2

      Because I think it’s normal in Korea for people to drink to they are drunk ... so they thought it isn’t really problem...

  • @krystal5931
    @krystal5931 5 лет назад +2473

    I wanna know who were the 43 people who didn’t think this was a concern....

    • @Jana_7
      @Jana_7 5 лет назад +166

      Me too!! It should have been a concern that reached 200.

    • @Fruitystyleangel
      @Fruitystyleangel 5 лет назад +249

      sis there are always those 50 people who don't click. like I have been watching this show for a long time and I can never seem understand why the highest score is like 165 or somethin

    • @Moglomlov
      @Moglomlov 5 лет назад +111

      Krystal Gutierrez other men who have the same problem

    • @TiffanyandMor
      @TiffanyandMor 5 лет назад +97

      they're drunkards too

    • @Lilac0701
      @Lilac0701 5 лет назад +1

      IKR

  • @ib9653
    @ib9653 5 лет назад +906

    How can a Father not even flinch when his precious daughters are crying?

    • @NaomiIsSoAwesome98
      @NaomiIsSoAwesome98 5 лет назад +51

      and call them and his wife ugly.... seriously disturbing

    • @huhucraft
      @huhucraft 5 лет назад +20

      He is not father, he is an evil without heart -______-

    • @malu8710
      @malu8710 5 лет назад +3

      Ikr!! But my dad is the same lmao

    • @kyla_nickel2762
      @kyla_nickel2762 4 года назад +5

      As a black girl in a black family, my parents will tell at you for crying out of nowhere. They would rather you be angry than cry.

    • @nicoles2824
      @nicoles2824 4 года назад

      @@malu8710 🥺🥺

  • @faizuram.1716
    @faizuram.1716 5 лет назад +1619

    The thought of getting married to someone like this get me scared every time 😔

    • @011mph
      @011mph 5 лет назад +1

      Same 😩

    • @ssj-rose4572
      @ssj-rose4572 5 лет назад

      Faizura M. I don’t drink

    • @vris7482
      @vris7482 5 лет назад +2

      Good women are for good men, good men are for good women.. :)

    • @applelime7693
      @applelime7693 5 лет назад

      @Man with the D lololol😂

    • @Gabrosoft
      @Gabrosoft 4 года назад

      Leopard Man Jesus

  • @shafeeqahj6955
    @shafeeqahj6955 5 лет назад +621

    Cheetah was ready to fight this guy and honestly I was too😡 Don't know how he thinks that none of this was a concern. He doesn't support his wife & children in any way..damn this makes me really grateful for my father

    • @jjkaykay8552
      @jjkaykay8552 5 лет назад +11

      Cheetah and Jinyoung both looked like they wanted to throw down with him.

  • @ateezcyberpunk
    @ateezcyberpunk 5 лет назад +732

    This made me mad. If you're just going to drink, why bother starting a family? The husband doesn't know his priorities. 😤

    • @sopheyy7573
      @sopheyy7573 5 лет назад +6

      Kathleen Hazel tell my father too please...but he was different when my mom decided to move to a different state for him...

    • @BlueMeaney49
      @BlueMeaney49 5 лет назад +8

      Because they want a mommy and a maid, not a wife.

    • @dt4654
      @dt4654 5 лет назад +4

      @@BlueMeaney49 some people just don't know how to actually maintain a marriage, all they see is a lifestyle and benefits of being married but not the work it takes to keep it.

    • @NaomiIsSoAwesome98
      @NaomiIsSoAwesome98 5 лет назад +6

      I think that these selfish men want the best of both worlds: on one side, he has a wife and family, so he's ''acocmplished'' and ''successful''. on the other hand, they would prefer to do their activities like drinking and such

  • @orchidRiTa18
    @orchidRiTa18 5 лет назад +329

    Cheetah high key wants to take a swing at this guy. JB and JinYoung low key wanna take him outside.....and swing at this guy.

  • @sshdontdisturb
    @sshdontdisturb 5 лет назад +249

    I have never seen jinyoung being speechless, and jaebum’s expression really shows how aggravated he is. Wow. This guy has no idea how much of a trauma he is causing to his kids, especially his wife. That miscarriage surgery incident, I snapped. Divorce is not the answer but if doing that will lead to a better life for both the wife and the daughters, then I guess she really just have to do it. That guy is so frustrating, I hope he learned a lot from the single dad who also came the same day as them.

  • @melodyramirez2789
    @melodyramirez2789 5 лет назад +131

    Jaebum and Jinyoung were very respectful with their questions, but you could tell they wanted to kick his ass.

  • @itsdiamondnicole
    @itsdiamondnicole 5 лет назад +241

    This man is not going to change because he is comfortable. He thinks that since he is the "breadwinner" he can do whatever he wants and his family will never leave. That's why he doesn't see his drinking habit as a concern.
    If his family were to actually get their things and go live somewhere else he would be devastated because he'll realize his comfortable living is crashing down. He might want to start actually thinking about changing then, but if his family comes back before he begins making the changes, he'll just go right back to how he was.

  • @natalie6279
    @natalie6279 5 лет назад +672

    This show needs to have actual counselors on the show that also coach the hosts. You bring guests on the show that hit their spouses, are non-functional alcoholics and abandon their pregnant spouses, then the hosts make light of it. It is getting hard to watch. Please really get these people professional help after the show. National shaming isn't enough.

    • @user-ss5je2pw3j
      @user-ss5je2pw3j 5 лет назад +99

      Houston Not you specifically, I just clicked on your comment to reply, but I have heard that professional, expert help is offered and given to the participants. The reason it is light-hearted is to attract attention and viewers, which is helpful because that way more people are aware of the issue and can offer indirect help to the participants. (e.g by not staring, making open comments..). If it were too expert-like and professional, such as psychologists and doctors, it would not be as attractive and less people would be aware of issues like that in the community.

    • @venipradita5419
      @venipradita5419 5 лет назад +19

      They do have that and the mc s are always get a help(?) too from professional how to address the problem. It is good to make it kinda cute light thing so people wont be scared to turn they story. They also help alot from this program. But yea ig it is also for views. I dont think too drama is good too

    • @littlemschat1052
      @littlemschat1052 5 лет назад +14

      They do try not to criticise the person in question, if not the person would not even want to come on the show. But the hosts are very good at digging the deepest emotions from these people to repent. Dongyeob is very good when it comes to understanding childrens mentality.

    • @hinamoriizanami7747
      @hinamoriizanami7747 5 лет назад +3

      I know they bring out professionals after the show... And for sure, solves it for the better...

    • @zibelder
      @zibelder 5 лет назад +1

      I respect you as you are That’s exactly what I was thinking otherwise it’s to taboo to talk about.

  • @aeyuh_
    @aeyuh_ 5 лет назад +292

    My blood is literally boiling right now!

  • @doridorothy
    @doridorothy 5 лет назад +326

    Jb was ready to punch the dad

  • @elly6423
    @elly6423 5 лет назад +291

    who else wants to fly over to korea and teach this man a lesson????!!!!!

  • @foreverkpop5563
    @foreverkpop5563 5 лет назад +174

    though JB have new family rn i believe its hard for him as he have go through most likely the same situation. anyway damn it i almost swims to korea to gave this man a freaking slap

  • @abril2992
    @abril2992 5 лет назад +168

    Jaebeom looks ready to fight the shit out of him and SAME.

  • @alizapadate5591
    @alizapadate5591 5 лет назад +41

    GOT7 JB looked sincere and worried about the girl’s situation... I never could have imagined that he had the same sort of experience... It is amazing to see this side of him..

  • @genekohara6912
    @genekohara6912 5 лет назад +135

    I once had this kind of relationship and it so toxic. I love him and I also want my daughter to have a complete family, but when he’s drunk. He can’t control himself anymore, and we always fight because of that. And looking back to when I broke up with him i think its the best decision in my life.

    • @ranabhola
      @ranabhola 5 лет назад +8

      More power to you and your girl.

  • @suphinyayosphanya2429
    @suphinyayosphanya2429 5 лет назад +75

    JB questions are legend ... if i were this man id feel im worst ...

  • @judithleexD
    @judithleexD 5 лет назад +80

    Divorce is not something to be taken lightly, and in Korea it has a high stigma attached to it. Even so, in this case, I think that it is way overdue.
    The entire family is being both emotionally and physically abused by this sorry excuse they call a man. The parents staying together only show that domestic violence is acceptable, being emotionally abusive is acceptable, and that a loveless marriage is normal. I wouldn't want my children raised to think that.
    It's one of the reasons why I worry about couples in unhealthy marriages in Korea. If either one is abusive, they may never have the courage to divorce because they know the judgment that waits for them if they were to do so. Maybe even judgement from themselves. It is not healthy

  • @BirdsofParis
    @BirdsofParis 5 лет назад +122

    The only thing that made me smile this episode was JB little snort when he laughed at 7:19 😒 This guy need a reality check and real check written out to him saying to “find happiness”.

    • @lucy-ts9ci
      @lucy-ts9ci 5 лет назад +2

      i think that was actually youngja, she does it a lot

    • @tammykaa834
      @tammykaa834 5 лет назад +1

      that wasn't JB lmao.. thats' the girl who was reading the concern

  • @alizapadate5591
    @alizapadate5591 5 лет назад +41

    From just watching you can feel how frustrated GOT7 JB and Jinyoung are towards the father... They are so sincere and worried.. you can see through their eyes and movements.. they ask questions and make comments sincerely and with worry.. I am so proud I stan these kind of Idols..

  • @nikitamaharjan3973
    @nikitamaharjan3973 5 лет назад +124

    he is just a sorry excuse of a husband. its better to leave him if he expects that his family can do things without him. even during accident he stays to drink. unbelievable ?!??!?!

  • @nosaltjustranch8145
    @nosaltjustranch8145 5 лет назад +55

    jb and jinyoung are wise with their words.
    14:49 jjproject says it all, they wanna kick that guy in the face

  • @TheHottestinspirit
    @TheHottestinspirit 5 лет назад +42

    *14:48** JB and Jinyoung looked so mad and upset, they were thinking how the hell someone can think like that*

  • @siwang4373
    @siwang4373 5 лет назад +120

    Jinyoung and Jaebum are so etheral

  • @zapthatro
    @zapthatro 5 лет назад +38

    Dear KBS, please hire a psychologist for this show. I believe it would help so much. This show shouldn't be for entertainment. Having the hosts or guests making light of a situation is NOT OKAY AT ALL. These are real families with real problems and I KNOW having a professional as part of the panel would not only help those who come to the show, but also those watching at home who have similar problems.

    • @lcy3877
      @lcy3877 5 лет назад +1

      I think it they do manage to hire a psychologist, then this programme wouldn't be a TV show cos it's too "serious"... Nobody would wanna watch a solemn and serious TV show (not at least in KR)

  • @mariehumblybernardo5194
    @mariehumblybernardo5194 5 лет назад +22

    He should've attended her daughter's school performance. That is were the children feel their parents support and the parents must feel proud on those performances. I am lucky that my mom and dad find sometime so watch our school perfomances most especially our annual field demo. My dad works abroad so we barely see him because of his work, but he makes sure that he'll come home during the day of the year. It is even more touching that he was the one filming me and brother's perforances with our year level.

  • @nadaakoubaa8519
    @nadaakoubaa8519 5 лет назад +47

    Jaebum looked so pissed lmao he was straight up ready to deck that guy in the face

  • @TheGreenFiretruck
    @TheGreenFiretruck 5 лет назад +25

    My heart hurts for the family, and also for JB who has gone through this in his childhood😢😢

  • @lightmothy
    @lightmothy 5 лет назад +364

    I think jinyoung about to hit him

    • @ryomakaoru
      @ryomakaoru 5 лет назад +82

      Not just jinyoung.. Jb too.. His face really mad...

    • @marshiumellow
      @marshiumellow 5 лет назад +82

      All of them were about to get up and hit him. Did you see those girls? They were ready to throw fists. My gosh that dude is so annoying! That man is a total alcoholic the way he gives our excuses. I'm so mad kakfjfkdnnd

    • @ryomakaoru
      @ryomakaoru 5 лет назад +7

      @@marshiumellow yup I see too.. All of them really done with this man..

    • @summerchek2493
      @summerchek2493 5 лет назад +14

      I think not only him, if I was there, I gv a good SLAP. 👋👋

    • @loveseobie92
      @loveseobie92 5 лет назад +15

      look at 17:17 he was about to 😂😂

  • @solunastra9497
    @solunastra9497 5 лет назад +16

    alright listen got7 is so inspiring. everyone knows how iconic jackson is, constantly reminding us about being respectful and treating others better. but the entire group would be fuming at this. Can you imagine got5 here? they would not be able to keep calm like jjp
    they want their fans to be treated with respect and be proud of themselves. they take care of people who even disrespect them. I'm proud of jjp for keeping calm, when you can tell they'd like to lash out.

  • @raytwin11
    @raytwin11 5 лет назад +68

    One of the guests said that the drinking wasn’t the problem, but it really is because he becomes violent when he’s drunk. Alcohol is the problem, and it tears families apart. My dad acted the same way and if he doesn’t change soon when the parent finally do get a divorce his kids won’t be sad at all. Because he doesn’t spend time with them. When he’s with them and sober he doesn’t interact with them, and when he comes home drunk he’s violent.

    • @nuuranal8989
      @nuuranal8989 5 лет назад +1

      raytwin11
      It really angered me when she said alcohol wasn’t the issue when it cearly was. Was she even listening to the whole story? She gave the father an excuse and pass. that’s why I hate hello counsellor, the guests are so useless to actually solving issues and giving real lasting advice, only their to show pretty faces and move on, so patronising.

    • @DaniGarland17
      @DaniGarland17 5 лет назад +8

      I think she's right though. While his alcoholism is playing a big part in the overall issue, it is not the root of the issue. If you take alcohol out of the equation would that solve the overall problem and I don't think it would. Yes, they won't have to deal with his drunken self and all that entails, but I don't think he would suddenly turn into a family man. The main problem is that he doesn't think his family is as important compared to other things. He doesn't value his family. He puts everyone and everything else before them. That is the issue that needs to be resolved. The drinking is only part of it and it does need to be solved, but again I don't think solving that issue will solve everything.

    • @nuuranal8989
      @nuuranal8989 5 лет назад

      Danijimenez21
      If he isn’t drinking all the time, then he wouldn’t be unintentionally harassing his daughters which have obviously made them upset and disattach from their dad. alcohol is undoubtably the biggest problem here. if he stopped drinking out for so late into the night or cut down, then he’d have more time to spend with his family, making memories and growing bonds in whatever way. Alcohol has become such a big part of his life that it replaced his family for him. he can’t have a good time with his friends that he spends so much time with if alcohol isn’t involved, further proving alcohol IS the root cause and problem here. he has an addiction to it. His own daughters, wife and friend here have admitted it. his family was obviously important to him at the beginning but as they grew and the responsibility toppled for him, he probably used alcohol as a form of escapism, to the point it disattached him from his family. she NO she isn’t right and my point still stands. alcohol is the excuse for him to act the way he wants and treat his family horribly because he isn’t “aware”, he’s “drunk” blah blah. his routine is wake up, work, go out with mates, get drunk, come home past midnight. He doesn’t even get to meet his family throughout the weekday because he spends most of the home time out drinking.

    • @DaniGarland17
      @DaniGarland17 5 лет назад +2

      That's how you see it, but based on how addiction tend to work I can say that it is not the root of the issue. That's not saying that it's not an issue. He needs to stop drinking, but he will never stop drinking unless they resolve the underlying issue. What that issue is? Only he knows, but based on his actions towards his family it has something to do with family. You might be able to get him to stop drinking without solving that underlying issue, but it probably won't help with his family issue especially since it sounds like it's always been like that. The mom mentions an event that took place before the oldest daughter, who wrote to the show, had even turned a year old. This isn't something that just happened recently. She's in 6th grade. He's never cared about his family and getting his drinking under control is not going to change that.

    • @nuuranal8989
      @nuuranal8989 5 лет назад +4

      Danijimenez21
      He has issues with his family BECAUSE of his addiction to alcohol and that being the norm to have a good “social life” in korea, hes an old man with a family to take care but still has the mindset of a teenager. he doesn’t take his family seriously because he wants to get drunk all the time. I think he married and had a family, not because he wanted to, but because its pressured and normalised in korea so he did it. He doesn’t find joy in anything that doesn’t involve alcohol and getting drunk. What the entire family really needs is counselling or therapy together, it’s one thing to stop addiction but it’s another to grow a bond from stretch again after going through so much shitstorm. He needs to find the happiness and comfort he finds with alcohol with his own family and for that, I’d suggest for them to go on a long vacation together where the husband is away from his drink buddies and the children away from a house that brings them bad memories. Or the mother moving away from the father and taking the daughters with her so reality can hit the father and he can feel how Lonley he can be without them there for him. tbh, there are a lot of factors that needs to be considered for him to be completely sober and a true father again but alcohol is the issue and to say its not is very stupid

  • @adreenahoney5217
    @adreenahoney5217 5 лет назад +51

    I cried watching this while eating my rice 😭😭😭😭 it must be so hard for this kids and jb 😭😭😭😭 thank god finally jb happy with his new family 💚☹️

  • @jellyyc3328
    @jellyyc3328 5 лет назад +19

    Oh my god, I'm also Korean and my family has a very similar problem! My dad always drinks until he can't think straight and he always becomes violent! He throws things, yells a lot, threatens to kill me and my mom a lot, and the police even had to get involved a few times! I told my mom that she should not have to force herself to be with this man, but she has a weak body and can't make much money from her job, so she worries that financially we will have a very hard time. I told her I will get a job and take care of everything, including paying for my own tuition, doing the housework, and doing everything else by myself, but she still rejects the idea of divorce and I think it's mostly because she is afraid of being independent (which I can understand but I think it's better than staying with my father). My mom went through a lot in her life...she had a miscarriage when she had her second child, she had to go through 2 c-sections for me and my older brother), she lost my older brother (he was 13 when he had a heart attack and died during school p.e class, I was 11), she had breast cancer (it was in its last stages, was very dangerous and she could have died), she fell off the stairs and almost broke her back (thankfully it was a strain, still hurts like crazy though), she got the shingles (her skin was peeling and she got many weird bumps and scars), and she has to deal with my alcoholic father...just watching what my mother went through is enough to make me want to scream and cry and rip my father to shreds...so I can't even begin to imagine how my mother feels. Sorry for my long and dark comment...I just wanted to let out all of my bottled up emotions.

    • @NamiMusicLover
      @NamiMusicLover 5 лет назад +1

      I know it might not mean much from a stranger but my god you're so strong and admirable for wanting to do so much so you and your mother can have a safer and better life

    • @WordsHandsHeart
      @WordsHandsHeart 4 года назад

      I agree with SmartMusicLover, and I hope you are in a better place now. You and your mom have been through so much, and you sound like a strong smart person. Wishing you strength to get through this until you're old enough to take yourself out of this situation. I'm sorry your mom doesn't feel like she has the strength to leave.

  • @nf7358
    @nf7358 5 лет назад +5

    When the older sister said, "I'll protect you," to her sister. That's it. I can't take anymore.

  • @isaw9969
    @isaw9969 5 лет назад +4

    Bless the woman who was comforting the girl and wiped her tears

  • @nasroslan99
    @nasroslan99 5 лет назад +11

    tbh i really can't tolerate violence. the dad shouldn't have signed on the written promises if he's gonna drink and cause troubles the very next day. stop giving them false hope. he just prioritised his 'social life' more than his family ugh

  • @guyoiii
    @guyoiii 5 лет назад +34

    11:58
    *Jinyoung is currently looking for a knife*

    • @lcy3877
      @lcy3877 5 лет назад

      His expression was priceless

  • @bbellsss1527
    @bbellsss1527 5 лет назад +5

    8:19 JB really done with this man
    8:53 same cheetah..same

  • @shielamanalo2640
    @shielamanalo2640 5 лет назад +35

    *Sending punches from Philippines* 👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊

    • @shielamanalo2640
      @shielamanalo2640 5 лет назад

      @@crazymhae120 abugbug yan ni berna😂

    • @shielamanalo2640
      @shielamanalo2640 5 лет назад

      @@crazymhae120 HAHAHAHAHAHAA sama mo si "dinemonyo kamay ko kusang gumalaw" 😂😂😂

    • @wangkong905
      @wangkong905 5 лет назад

      I love this comment 👌👍

    • @mohannarayan4603
      @mohannarayan4603 3 года назад

      👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊

  • @sheila8093
    @sheila8093 5 лет назад +23

    JB :( my ex was like this, glad he's out of my life. this guy is a narcissist and I don't think he will change soon. guys like this shouldn't get married or get dumped immediately

  • @btsprincess2608
    @btsprincess2608 5 лет назад +3

    "I'll protect you" when she said that to her little sister it broke my heart and I started to cry

  • @alice-gc6bh
    @alice-gc6bh 5 лет назад +40

    Throws the whole husband in trash 🤬

  • @ngocnguyngia
    @ngocnguyngia 5 лет назад +4

    6:33 Jinyoung oppa gave the girl some tissues.
    Such a warm person ah.

  • @sophiatinot5656
    @sophiatinot5656 5 лет назад +6

    I DIDNT KNOW JB IS HERE. IM SO BUSY WITH MEDSCHOOL BUT AHHHHHJHJHHHHHHHHH JAEBUM IS IN HEREEEEE

  • @ahmed-tariqouidadi3065
    @ahmed-tariqouidadi3065 5 лет назад +18

    Actually in some cases getting a divorce is much better than staying together, and this case is one tbh ^^ even the kids must encourage their mom to get a divorce !!

  • @rahelalexandra3335
    @rahelalexandra3335 5 лет назад +10

    If jackson was there he would fight with his dad already with his argument

  • @hanii7223
    @hanii7223 5 лет назад +13

    11:58 why do i feel like jinyoung is looking for smtg to throw at him 😂

  • @imanjabrane2072
    @imanjabrane2072 5 лет назад +3

    I'm crying, this is so sad.. u wouldn't understand if you didn't live the fear of waiting to being beaten by ur father..
    This is so me and my sister!
    I cried a lot when she told her sister I will protect you!
    That's what I tell my sister while I hug her and we both cry! We sometimes wish so badly to have a different father and brother! They make our lives so difficult! I want to live with only my sister and mom😢💔

  • @burpiemachinez
    @burpiemachinez 5 лет назад +13

    JINYOUNG IS READY TO RUMBLE @ 11:58

  • @evinaseow5275
    @evinaseow5275 5 лет назад +14

    At 11:58 the image of jinyoung destroying posters shown in my head
    HE IS SO DONE

  • @Ash-sd4zo
    @Ash-sd4zo 5 лет назад +4

    my heat literally started hurting so much when the older sister told the younger one that she will protect her..

  • @joy3831
    @joy3831 3 года назад

    When the girl said to her little sister that she will protect her it make me cry more cause i can relate to her problems/worries🤧
    Its been a years since she said this in the tv i wish they are happy now😀

  • @rhapsodyyoung8054
    @rhapsodyyoung8054 5 лет назад +5

    11:57 Jinyoung is soooo looking for a heavy object to throw at that bastard haha

  • @na4293
    @na4293 5 лет назад +12

    Awww jaebum ah 😭😭I didn’t know 😭😭I’m sorry 😭😭

  • @AF-ge4pe
    @AF-ge4pe 4 года назад +3

    The MC: "we are not here to criticize you"
    us: WE ARE THO
    WHERE MY ANGRY SQUAD AT?

  • @arthain4521
    @arthain4521 5 лет назад +4

    Did you see Jinyoung handed her a tissue..? ㅠㅠ💚💚 Also, JB’s questions were really good and on point, he doesn’t attack but try to make that man realized that what he did is wrong. I swear i wont be that composed compared to JJP (but Jinyoung looked like finding stuffs to throw at him).

  • @mara5894
    @mara5894 5 лет назад +2

    13:09 This part was one of the moments of this episode that broke me. Her voice cracked and my heart did too.
    She is so hurt, because she just wants him to be near the family, to love her and be interested in her.
    To me it sounded like she isn't hurt by his abuse as much as she is by his ignorance. And this is so damn sad. I really want to get this family help, because they deserve it so much to have a *real* father and husband.
    This man is so delusional and takes nothing serious anymore. He just doesn't care.

  • @got7.with.igot7
    @got7.with.igot7 5 лет назад +13

    If JB & JINYOUNG wants to punch that man I will joined them immediately without even thinking! 😡😠💪

  • @jtanielu
    @jtanielu 5 лет назад

    this brought me to tears

  • @oncefortwice1389
    @oncefortwice1389 5 лет назад +1

    I really want to give the Mom and her daughters a hug and tell them that everything will be alright. They don’t deserve that crap. I wanted to rage and cry when she talked about her miscarriage and how he didn’t even go for the surgery. What kind of husband, what kind of PERSON, does that to someone they supposedly care for?
    I’m basically numb right now because I’m on my period watching this and my emotions can lock down when I’m feeling too much. Plus, it’s almost 3:30 in the morning so....

  • @faraafad
    @faraafad 5 лет назад +17

    Poor the kids 😢

  • @soshinae
    @soshinae 5 лет назад +7

    I am happy this concern is followed by the next concern aboit a very2 good dad. I hope this dad learnt his lesson.

  • @scarlett7871
    @scarlett7871 5 лет назад +3

    21:04 my bias is so cool when he is mad

  • @sanatuan9610
    @sanatuan9610 5 лет назад +4

    OUR JB AND JINYOUNG 😍💚

  • @that_one_vampire4371
    @that_one_vampire4371 5 лет назад +1

    This whole thing I really like to a lot because I grew up like how they are like almost exactly to the point and it honestly breaks my heart I'm here crying because it's practically my story and it's never a fun thing specially for how young they are they shouldn't worry about it

  • @user-kc8rl3xo6c
    @user-kc8rl3xo6c 5 лет назад +3

    11:56 Jinyoung is even speechless and shook

  • @briannagraham4345
    @briannagraham4345 5 лет назад +2

    “I’ll protect you” broke my heart

  • @Bangtanlicious-ev3sn
    @Bangtanlicious-ev3sn 5 лет назад +2

    14:23 my mood every time that "father" speaks

  • @moonpeachy
    @moonpeachy 5 лет назад

    im waiting for someone to say "if parent fight a lot it'll influences the kids a lot at this age" (thank you jb for say that) they probably didn't see the effect now but later when they're growing up.. the trauma, the scene, everything will last forever.. pls give a lot of love to your precious daughter and son when they're still young.

  • @randompotato7439
    @randompotato7439 5 лет назад +5

    they should record what he did when he drunk and when he said he doesn't remember anything show him the video

  • @JJParadise
    @JJParadise 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you KBS for guesting "JB and Jinyoung" 🌹😍 JJP
    Everyone family so cute all but.... all kids/children so cute 😍
    * It is encouraging to all families are experiencing such problems.(Everyone)
    All problems have resolved Of course! and
    Please love MOM DAD BABY to make family you a good next. fighting!
    * Every family is always lovely in the world and in every country.(Everyone)
    Everyone please love each other, it is the most important in the world.(Everyone)
    Everything is fine for each family of love each other.(Everyone)
    it is Family of YOU so cute "do not bully with lover of you or with who"
    ... If you are selfish for yourself. It affects so many others as well.
    If you do not act yourself for selfishness own too.
    So you're happy with it. No matter what.
    you with lover will so happy together Everydays as well.
    Please love your family "by don't bully with lover of you?" 😭
    Please love each other with love to very much from hearts is real.(Everyone)
    "Love" is lover of a lover to "need true love from hearts together",
    has "feeling good" "care" "warm" of family together 🧡😍
    will love more or love less but It is a joy as well.
    from by so happy in Everydays of you per lover per family of you that give make a love to lover too.
    Whether you are as DAD / MOM / BABY / kids / Friend......
    *** 👍🧡 Lover is family the most important thing on Life you are all. ^^ PS!!!!
    ------///
    sorry! My language so bad to very much -.-!
    ------\\\

  • @lalmawizualitlau9806
    @lalmawizualitlau9806 Год назад

    I relate to her story so much I almost cry

  • @melikaaimes4609
    @melikaaimes4609 5 лет назад +1

    He was literally smiling the from beginning to end ... Addicts are really hard to deal with constant denial.

  • @heyitsme8557
    @heyitsme8557 5 лет назад +4

    Jinyoung could not smile tho. I think he was v mad 😂

  • @TrueDeathless
    @TrueDeathless 5 лет назад

    I hope he reflects upon his actions now and changes them. Alcohol devastates families and I have a personal experience myself where my mom nearly drank herself to death. As a teenager, it affected me deeply. My parents divorced years prior bc of it and I just hope he realizes it’s terrible. There’s more to life than drinking every day. He’s never going to have this time with his family again and watching them grow up. It’s heartbreaking... he can change, he just doesn’t want to

  • @shaleendatt133
    @shaleendatt133 5 лет назад

    i didn't even have to watch the video and i already knew what was up from the comments and theres many praising JB and Jinyoung, I'm glad they were chosen as well from what i read and yes i agree, the dad shouldnt be drinking if he has a family to care and love for, it's hard to let go of drinking or any other kind of addiction but, he should at least try

  • @kittenarita9835
    @kittenarita9835 5 лет назад +9

    HOW THE HELL CAN HE INSULT HIS OWN WIFE AS UGLY OR PIG I’M GOING TO THROW TABLES RIGHT NOW

  • @shevy_shev93
    @shevy_shev93 5 лет назад

    Y’all don’t understand how much I was crying during this. I was so pissed, I was sooooooooo pissed.

  • @ItsBrittanyLajoyce
    @ItsBrittanyLajoyce 5 лет назад

    Making a promise ain’t gonna help addition a counselor is needed...a real one

  • @KD-sz7fq
    @KD-sz7fq 5 лет назад +3

    Sometimes I dont want them to make jokes, like when he said "I dont want her to gain weight like a pig", thats sick to say

  • @yoeliantielia6650
    @yoeliantielia6650 5 лет назад +1

    It's make me crying 😢😢

  • @MariahBunni
    @MariahBunni 5 лет назад

    He still had that smug little smile on his face. I don't think he will change personally. It would be better if the mom would re-marry into a safe and caring marriage.

  • @user-hm3fn1gh5c
    @user-hm3fn1gh5c 3 года назад

    Ican relate to this so much i cried watching this

  • @lcy3877
    @lcy3877 5 лет назад +2

    Jinyoung's face when he is speechless.... And I laughed when the 5th grade boy said the victim's dad ticked him when drunk... Tho I know I am not supposed to laugh

  • @princeofjinhae
    @princeofjinhae 5 лет назад +5

    22:19 jinyoungs expression is exactly how i feel. This is such a terrible situation for this two girls and their mom its so impossible for their father to be good to them? He calls them ugly hurts them is never there for them and fights with the mom lies . Its so unfair a father and husband should not act this way and give so much stress and heartache. I feel so bad for them.

  • @kittenarita9835
    @kittenarita9835 5 лет назад +2

    THE LITTLE KIM TAEHYEONG IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING AND TOTALLY CUTE. HE DESERVES A MEDAL.

  • @mgirlblue1
    @mgirlblue1 5 лет назад

    I think this is a reflection upon our society today. Showing this problem in an entertaining show isnt right, but sometimes its needed to have the person understand how serious this is. I do agree that there should be professionals on the show to spread the word out there and to explain it. In Korea and in other countries, they are still in machismo mode and need to change for the equality of human rights.

  • @trishaannezalun9340
    @trishaannezalun9340 5 лет назад +2

    Im also afraid when my dad is drunk. I can relate, but then I got distracted to JAEBUM AND JINYOUNG!!!!!! OPPAAAAA!!!!!

  • @baesunha5376
    @baesunha5376 5 лет назад +2

    21:00 FIREEEEEEREEEEEEEEEEEEEE OH FIREEEEEEEEEEE AH OH AH OH-

  • @igot7coco348
    @igot7coco348 5 лет назад +3

    Jb: how much can you drink??
    The man:"...I can't drink much, only about 3 bottle of so just, I also drink so just with beer and then beer"
    Me: *mind blown*

  • @taranommoradhaseli9836
    @taranommoradhaseli9836 3 года назад +1

    I laugh everytime i see jinyoung and jb's reaction when he says only about 3 bottle of soju 7:16

  • @oneDirection1Harry1
    @oneDirection1Harry1 5 лет назад

    JB..... I didn’t know that😭😭 I know how you feel JB 😭😭I feel connected to you because growing up my parents fought all the time. My dad drinks and my mom doesn’t like it. Sure they don’t fight like they used to but they fight at least two days a week. Me and my siblings tell them to go to a marriage counseling but they don’t. I’m 22 now but I grew up sad just listening to them fight. I showed this to my dad because I don’t want my little sister growing up like that too! He said he’s going to change. Only time will tell though.

  • @yawenkoh2871
    @yawenkoh2871 5 лет назад +1

    How the dad still laughs when both his daughters and his wife are crying really makes me want to punch him in the face. I hope everything turns well and the girl stay strong 💪 how she said that she would protect her younger sister and being so strong for her really breaks my heart :

  • @jestinabugeraha2583
    @jestinabugeraha2583 5 лет назад

    i agree that is a big concern bcoz I also experienced such kind of behavior from my father