transitioning to adult friendships has been the biggest joy of my life--i can't be in people's pockets 24/7 nor should they be in mine. i do put it on the calendar to text friends about how they're doing at least once a week and try to make time for calls/in person hangouts once every couple of months or so. i had a rough time in middle and high school bc i had much less time freedom than most of my friends, but for the friendships that have stood the test of time, we're very close and will always be in each other's corner even if we're not talking every day. as for new friendships, my biggest tip is develop a love of learning about others, and all the behaviours that make you good at socialising will naturally follow even if it takes a while. love from a fellow diaspora kenyan :)))
Your right Ms. Evie ! If some people want to switch off and be fake they really do not want to be a genuine person. Thank you so much for your henuine sharing as a genuine person.
Hie there. Always great to see a post from you. 🌹💐 I must say that another faux pas that I personally do (and am actively correcting) is being tardy. Its not cutesy and in fact disrespectful to waste people's time. I am grateful to my friends and family for pointing this out and helping me. Another issue I believe when moving to a new area or meeting new people is over thinking things like "I hope they like me" or "I hope I will fit in", etc... Sometime we just need to let the thoughts come and then go. The moment could be one of the best we ever had and we make friends that are worthwhile. Or it could go wrong, but people will forget about it eventually. If we are constantly in our heads the whole time, we will miss out on little cues of affirmation because we are panicking about "something not going right". With love to all the viewers and our gal Evie. 😄
Putting down your phone is a HUGE one! I’m guilty of wanting to browse on my phone in new environments but I’ve worked on being more mindful of this habit. P.S. “if you have the walls of Jericho around you like a fortress” is sendinggggg me 😂🤣
Absolutely great tips. Or like when people ask you hi how are you? And you are just about to answer, and they already have moved on to another person 😅 What tips do you have on remembering people's names? Hey, I am back on youtube after a long break. I am following some tips here. Girl eye contact is a big one. Well, tty later. More power to you.
Thank you and welcome back! Those ppl who move on are so unserious lol. My tips for remembering names is by verbally saying their name in conversation!
Please seek a licensed professional if you are clinically afflicted with social anxiety. I’m am not a physician and my content does not substitute for medical advice.
I am trying to improve the way I approach and connect with others. I moved to a new state and feel very lonely here. Even though I’m moving back to my home town I plan to apply more of these tips to myself. A few of them made me feel bad, because I know I am guilty of doing them. Specifically following up. I always want to, but sometimes I don’t put that part as the priority it should be. All of these tips were ones I never considered as much as I should. Staying off my phone around in public is also better for safety! If someone doesn't feel like you care about your safety it has a double negative effect. Thank you for this video😊!
You’re so welcome, I’m glad it resonated! ☺️Safety is very important! Especially when leaving shopping areas. Always gotta stay alert bc you never know
transitioning to adult friendships has been the biggest joy of my life--i can't be in people's pockets 24/7 nor should they be in mine. i do put it on the calendar to text friends about how they're doing at least once a week and try to make time for calls/in person hangouts once every couple of months or so. i had a rough time in middle and high school bc i had much less time freedom than most of my friends, but for the friendships that have stood the test of time, we're very close and will always be in each other's corner even if we're not talking every day. as for new friendships, my biggest tip is develop a love of learning about others, and all the behaviours that make you good at socialising will naturally follow even if it takes a while. love from a fellow diaspora kenyan :)))
Your right Ms. Evie ! If some people want to switch off and be fake they really do not want to be a genuine person. Thank you so much for your henuine sharing as a genuine person.
you are so sweet and I appreciate you! you’re so very welcome!
Off topic: your skin is popping! ❤
@@Sunshine-co8vf Thanks love! 💕
These are some helpful and useful tips that can benefit everyone greatly!
Glad it was helpful!
Hie there. Always great to see a post from you. 🌹💐 I must say that another faux pas that I personally do (and am actively correcting) is being tardy. Its not cutesy and in fact disrespectful to waste people's time. I am grateful to my friends and family for pointing this out and helping me.
Another issue I believe when moving to a new area or meeting new people is over thinking things like "I hope they like me" or "I hope I will fit in", etc... Sometime we just need to let the thoughts come and then go. The moment could be one of the best we ever had and we make friends that are worthwhile. Or it could go wrong, but people will forget about it eventually. If we are constantly in our heads the whole time, we will miss out on little cues of affirmation because we are panicking about "something not going right".
With love to all the viewers and our gal Evie. 😄
Yessss amazing, amazing. I totally agree and good on you to have that self awareness 👏🏾
Thank you for the love 💕
Thank you for sharing !
Putting down your phone is a HUGE one! I’m guilty of wanting to browse on my phone in new environments but I’ve worked on being more mindful of this habit.
P.S. “if you have the walls of Jericho around you like a fortress” is sendinggggg me 😂🤣
Even me I had to break this habit bc it definitely is a REPELLENT that puts ppl off. Ppl need to let their walls down 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you
You're welcome
Absolutely great tips. Or like when people ask you hi how are you? And you are just about to answer, and they already have moved on to another person 😅 What tips do you have on remembering people's names? Hey, I am back on youtube after a long break. I am following some tips here. Girl eye contact is a big one. Well, tty later. More power to you.
Thank you and welcome back! Those ppl who move on are so unserious lol. My tips for remembering names is by verbally saying their name in conversation!
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hey there bookie! First comment 😉
Now it’s tacky for ppl to have social anxiety? Please. 🙄
Please seek a licensed professional if you are clinically afflicted with social anxiety. I’m am not a physician and my content does not substitute for medical advice.
@@EvieAswiti it was simply a question and based off your paragraph, you don’t have a answer. Just proved your original statement is asinine.
@Guy-h1h offense, I’m not reading all that. I said what I said.
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@Guy-h1h Clocked it. We love a person with sense and cognition.
I am trying to improve the way I approach and connect with others. I moved to a new state and feel very lonely here. Even though I’m moving back to my home town I plan to apply more of these tips to myself. A few of them made me feel bad, because I know I am guilty of doing them. Specifically following up. I always want to, but sometimes I don’t put that part as the priority it should be. All of these tips were ones I never considered as much as I should. Staying off my phone around in public is also better for safety! If someone doesn't feel like you care about your safety it has a double negative effect. Thank you for this video😊!
You’re so welcome, I’m glad it resonated! ☺️Safety is very important! Especially when leaving shopping areas. Always gotta stay alert bc you never know