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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2024
- Sometimes I feel bad for having such a boring routine and then I try to change it and want to leave this planet so Im just keeping it
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I am on disability in the USA and I can relate to a lot of what you say. I watch RUclips all day. I used to read. I am blessed to have food and shelter but my brain is in pain a lot of the time and I need to escape one way or another. I see books as very similar to TV if you are reading fiction. Both are escapes. So is RUclips.
Also, my mum has raised me with lots of sustainable low cost alternatives for life. If youd like some tips id love to help. You could cut up fabric scraps from charity shop and store them in a jar with vinegar and water and lemon peels.wipe out cat tray with that then rinse before washing. ❤
(Then just stuff back into the jar and top up with cheap vinegar and lemon/orange scraps when you get some) xx
As a disabled American who has also lived in the UK, it's always seemed to me that British disabled income support is every bit as paltry as it is here in the states. I'm sorry that you have to struggle so much as a result. But it's good that you're sharing this to make it known that this can be an aspect of the neurodivergent experience. A lot of people just assume that anyone who can walk, talk, and independently manage their personal needs should be able to hold a decently paying job. But particularly in the context of today's economy and society, it's not that simple.
As far as policies go, I'm not sure what the exact story is in Britain but here in the states, a big part of our problem is that we seem to prioritize policing the rest of the world over most any form of domestic spending that would improve everyone's life quality. This includes affording proper care and support of our disabled people.
I relate to you SO MUCH, a lot of the time I think “we’re the same person, where were you all this time“ 😭 just got diagnosed last Wednesday, I’ve been posting videos about my adult autism diagnosis journey here on RUclips; I’m about to upload one about my assessment and I actually mention you in it 😂 one of my main special interests is fantasy [anything] so I also spend a lot of time rewatching the same movies/rereading the same books and have been called/have called myself lazy a lot, so I 100% feel you. We’re not lazy though! It’s definitely a comfort/escapism thing for me too. I’m also 26 and have never been financially independent a single day in my life, and I depend on my partner for everything. He’s very understanding & supportive but it sucks feeling like a child with pocket money 😢
Dana you're bloody brilliant, I love your videos. Thanks so much for sharing!
Oh i can relate to the feeling of i am grateful but lets be honest i don't much like being alive the way i live.
I wish I had a friend like you growing up. Thank you for another great video.
this is so relatable!! thank you for sharing
Love how Dana always keeps it super real❤
agree!!@@toni5543
i am exactly the same with media consumption. i watch entire shows in a day. watch the same hours long youtube videos over and over. read fanfiction. i didnt realise how little other people consume. it is the only thing that calms me
You're probably doing more than you know. Listening to you and others has been cathartic for me at times when I've needed it.
I do seem to spend too much time putting myself down for things I use to recuperate or to maintain myself that might not be the obvious eat-sleep-exercise. Takes away from the recuperation and means it feels like more is necessary. Sometimes I also tend to do less engaging stuff, I get more out of stuff that engages me more but when I'm thinking high level like that I am more self critical about not using those resources for something even better. I feel like breaking those self-detrimental habits might make my recuperation more efficient and make it easier to build myself up more...
Thank you for being so honest about your life experience
I relate, to a sad extent, to the feeling of no matter how much I do I feel lazy and like its never enough. And you do more than I do on a daily basis by the sound of. I hope that that feeling fades with time and healing for you, like I hope it does for me
I love your pretty tabby. Those cats always steal my heart
Hey I'm sorry you're having a hard time! It really sucks and you're really strong for keeping on. I love your channel, your videos make me so happy 😊
Wow, honestly thought I was the only one dealing with those feelings every day >.< I have 2 cats as well and need daily routine to manage my extreme anxiety. With out a routine, I easily spiral and meltdown so, I can heavily relate to your situation.
I'm on a super tight budget myself and can't afford cake either. So when I need a treat, I'll make a 1-minute mug cake using boxed cake mix from dollar store. Then add a bit of toppings like chocolate chips or peanut butter or fruit (just whatever my craving that day) and its definitely been helping me cope, not to mention is quite delicious! Anyway maybe give this a go sometime, hope it may help ❤🩹
This video gave me so much comfort, I could relate to it a lot, thank you!!
Thx for the upload!
did you create the closing backdrop with a mushroom? i love it. my first thought was, ohhh its a an autistic person (like myself) trying to hide from the world. but that autistic person, even when at a low lonely time creates a whimsical, beautiful piece of art that spoke to me immediately. its whimsical take was so sweet, melancholy, yet hopeful.
I did! You’re the first person to say anything about it so this is a very exciting comment for me, thank you!! You completely understand the feelings that went into it, I’ve spent a couple years now often just doodling my lil footshroom guys and they feel like a lil part of me now 😂💕
That is a cool backdrop!
Great video look forward to the next one😁
big up ringo in the back!! 😩😩🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I had to pause the video because you were ranting about how bad you felt. That maybe the truth but the truth is always relative and flexible and I’ve found that if I feel like you just described it’s because of an emotional flashback triggered by intimate relationships or parents. I live alone and been single for years now and it’s a necessity for my mental health, I don’t know if you are in contact with your parents or have a partner, don’t really know you, so I’m sorry if I’m assuming the wrong thing. I’ve just known that spiral of negative self talk so well, and how it skews the perspective of the world, 🌎
Yay a new upload!
Hey 👋 thank you for sharing your life! Interesting videos, from an autistic guy (down under).
If your special interest were reading, as it probably would have been 100 years ago, no one would have called you lazy. Perhaps "bookish" but not lazy. They might even find it endearing. Even though it's just a variation on the same theme. Humans are prone to making snap judgments in the moment. If you make any of them stop and think about it, they will generally come to a different conclusion. Try to see yourself in terms of what that conclusion would likely be. See yourself in terms of what a sensible person, forced to think about it, would probably say. It's usually a good way of being a lot kinder to yourself. ❤️
Nah. I grew up without a TV and read lots of books. People still called me lazy but I am sure it was fewer than if I watched TV.
@t5 There's always the possibility that you were indeed lazy on top of being bookish. 😆 I actually used to be both at the same time, reading books voraciously while also being seriously disinterested in, like, manual labor, sports, or just going outside to touch grass (ugh, who wants that? 😉). Why would I do any of that when I could sprawl on my bed like a cat and daydream all afternoon? 🙂 I used to openly self-identify as lazy.
Then I had to get a job. 😖
@@Felice_Enellen Nope. I was bookish but ran cross country and track. I also got good grades. My mom was just verbally abusive and called me lazy because I wouldn't do chores when she got in my face and screamed. I did do chores when she wasn't yelling.
@t5 Ah yes, that thing where we only do something because _we want_ to do it. XD
@@Felice_Enellen Nope.
Wait, was that a grilled-cheese-and-peanut-butter sandwich?
I need to try this! 😀 Edit: I did! My mouth is SO confused!
We are so similar....two cats... Maine Coons....autistic....live alone...only child...could I adopt you? 😊
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