The world would truly be better if it would be quiet. I by preference since I was born liked to shut up. I reserve my words until they are needed and i try to communicate most efficiently, ive been told i sound like a robot, emotionless, cold, monotone whatever… everything else is extra to me. It freaks people out, they always ask me if im fine, why i don’t make conversation, laugh at their jokes, to the point that if I accidentally crack a smile or giggle at a random thought and someone that knows me walks by they will not ask, they will request to know what is the thing that made me break this silence of sound or expression. They will persist, even if you look at them confused and shrug it off. It’s actually bizarre. This one girl kept begging me to tell her why I giggled and I gave her disturbing reason so she could stop bothering me and it didn’t work. I think silence holds a lot of power, people automatically assume you are humble (not me) or intelligent. Silence is leverage. But honestly I think simple unique one liners are best for interacting with people, out of all the yappers, greeters and people holding me hostage to their words, the only one I think fondly of is a lady who told me “have a beautiful day”, because it broke away from the default meaningless garbage “nice/good/great day”. When she said it, it felt sincere and powerful, like she meant it, also who else uses beautiful day? Because everyone else is following a default structure for the mask of kindness, truly insincere. Say something special or nothing at all. I don’t want to get asked how my day was, you don’t care.
I feel like most cashiers wouldn't mind some small talk and might even enjoy it. At the very least, there's nothing wrong with trying it out, and if they seem annoyed, you stop. And if you can't tell, then it's kind of on them for not giving any indication. Nobody is forcing them to be that friendly.
eso sobre los gestos es taaaaaan real. a veces cuando estoy con mis papás me comunico con gestos o sonidos sin abrir mi boca porque siento que los sentimientos más primitivos no necesitan ser comunicados con palabras. solo lo hago con gente que amo (u.u)
Nah didn't draw it myself - I worked with a gentleman I found on Fiverr and he drew it for me (it went through a few iterations tho based on my feedback)
Liking this video is super attractive btw (in a good way)
Imma use my pretty privilege to get a higher credit limit
@@kka337 it'd be a waste if you didn't
one time my english teacher joked and said he had a face for radio but i didn't get it so i just sat there and nodded
hahaha I feel like this exactly something I would do & never forget it for years
silence + nod is an undefeated combo
this was such a funny podcast to listen to lmao, also the audio quality is great. i need more of this asap 😭
Appreciate it! Thanks so much! 😄
uhm, love this? 5 seconds in I was like, oh yeah whatever this is, I'm invested. You get it!!
Love to see it - life imitates art 🙂↕
This is my first video of yours and your chuckle just like scratches an itch in my brain and now im subscribed, keep it up bud!
this was so specific but so real
target audience reached 🎯
This felt like a fever dream
The world would truly be better if it would be quiet. I by preference since I was born liked to shut up.
I reserve my words until they are needed and i try to communicate most efficiently, ive been told i sound like a robot, emotionless, cold, monotone whatever… everything else is extra to me. It freaks people out, they always ask me if im fine, why i don’t make conversation, laugh at their jokes, to the point that if I accidentally crack a smile or giggle at a random thought and someone that knows me walks by they will not ask, they will request to know what is the thing that made me break this silence of sound or expression. They will persist, even if you look at them confused and shrug it off. It’s actually bizarre.
This one girl kept begging me to tell her why I giggled and I gave her disturbing reason so she could stop bothering me and it didn’t work.
I think silence holds a lot of power, people automatically assume you are humble (not me) or intelligent. Silence is leverage.
But honestly I think simple unique one liners are best for interacting with people, out of all the yappers, greeters and people holding me hostage to their words, the only one I think fondly of is a lady who told me “have a beautiful day”, because it broke away from the default meaningless garbage “nice/good/great day”. When she said it, it felt sincere and powerful, like she meant it, also who else uses beautiful day? Because everyone else is following a default structure for the mask of kindness, truly insincere.
Say something special or nothing at all. I don’t want to get asked how my day was, you don’t care.
this video is like a 5 minute time loop for 33 minutes
Thanks for watching! 😁
that's a _great_ analogy, very very accurate
The Blasphemy towards hot coffee. I am heated right now.
heated like the bottom half of an unstirred iced coffee
I feel like most cashiers wouldn't mind some small talk and might even enjoy it. At the very least, there's nothing wrong with trying it out, and if they seem annoyed, you stop. And if you can't tell, then it's kind of on them for not giving any indication. Nobody is forcing them to be that friendly.
My brother and I are listening to this and he he ha ha-ing jajajajaja
I could listen to you talk all day 😆
Thanks! 😄
eso sobre los gestos es taaaaaan real. a veces cuando estoy con mis papás me comunico con gestos o sonidos sin abrir mi boca porque siento que los sentimientos más primitivos no necesitan ser comunicados con palabras. solo lo hago con gente que amo (u.u)
You're nice to listen to!
the 3:00 make got me dying on the ground. unhinged.
I forgot to make a comment on this video, so I'm just letting you know in this comment. This is indeed very commentative
stellar work, thank you - I would consider a career in commentary with work like this
We all listen to this for the looks, Big G. Sorry to tell ya.
Did you draw your pfp?
Nah didn't draw it myself - I worked with a gentleman I found on Fiverr and he drew it for me (it went through a few iterations tho based on my feedback)
@@iamdoingwell that pfp went through several iterations?
3:00 bwahahahahaha that was personal
😅
no damn it. im not doing it
you good you good