HOW TO BE MORE CONFIDENT
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- Опубликовано: 23 сен 2016
- Ever wanted to feel more confident? Or perhaps you're brimming with confidence, but hey, you can never be TOO confident. Or can you? Meh, I like a cocky attitude, it turns me on. Cus if you've got it, flaunt it!
So sorry it's been a while since my last upload, but Rose and I were chilling out maxing, relaxing all cool in Kefalonia! We had an amazing holiday and got some GREAT tan lines but man, it's good to be back! Stay tuned for our holiday vlog which I am SO excited to show you because we brought our GoPro and everything! As usual there will be more comedy games on the gaming channel (anyone fancy a rematch of Fifa?) and Rose and I have got some treats for you lined up over on the main channel!
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Fun fact: Cammie's left her stuff here. Should we go through her personal belongings and make a haul video about it?
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If anyone needs any extra confidence you can find it in my eye.
Lol 😂😂😂
Thank you for that amazing advice!! 😂
ew can i eat it?
Smooth Rose smooth
..haha..thanks rose..😂
Not gonna lie, my confidence has skyrocketed these last few months and it's a lot down to you guys and Shannon & Cammie! I've been doing things that even a couple months ago I would never of even dreamed of doing, and when I'm doing them i still can't get over the fact that I'm actually doing it and not being scared! The 4 of you have helped me accept who I am and be okay with whatever the rest of the world thinks! I admire you so much and thank you for giving me so much confidence in myself 😘
That's amazing!!!!!!!! xxxx
Love you 😘
thank you
The confidence was always within you and you alone made the decision to bring it out of yourself. You were able to use some external advice to improve yourself, which makes YOU awesome! :)
This has been true for me too!! I can't thank you guys enough. Much love from the Philippines. Love you both
I think a better way to be confident is to know yourself. Cuz when u know Urself it's only u who u r answerable for.. To.. For.
Ok... Initially I wanted to write know Urself and invest ur time in being beautiful and healthy u.. But I remembered Rose's line and just couldn't stop myself :D :p
Ahahahaha I also wanted to write it down ahahaha😂😂😂
I was looking for this comment , yes!
#Roseswisewords
i'm going to try to love myself as hard as i can - i know it would make rose and rosie proud
It will!!!!! xxx
!!
Yes!!
I love myself real hard aaalllll niigghhttt loooonngg
"Confidence is not will they like me, confidence is I'll be fine if they don't" - favorite quote, I love you Rosie 💗
Rosie omg your hair I can't I'm in love
ikr her hair is ♥♥♥
Ik she's Gorgeous 😍😍😍
i see u like the great cate as well 💞
with the whole "don't judge other people" thing, there's a kind of mental exercise i sometimes do when i'm walking down a street or whatever where i pick out at least one nice thing about the people around me. stuff like "they're wearing a nice colour shirt" or "i like their hair" idk. i've found that it helps if you're feeling a bit anxious and want to focus on something, and it also makes you feel a bit more positive!! x loved the video x
Yeah that is a really good idea! I also like to turn to Rose and tell her all the things I like about people like "I LOVE that girls hair" but I always say it loud enough so hopefully they'll hear! xxx
that's so cool, and i bet it makes the people feel a lot better about themselves!!! xxx
Hey, that's actually pretty cool. Positive judging. Never even thought of that before. Which is kind of sad, actually. I'll have to try it.
Aside from being funny you ladies are wicked smart. That's why I love hearing you discuss these types of topics. Great insight.
Awww thanks so much Phil!!! xxxxxx
C O N F I D E N T THATS ME IM CONFIDENT
SHUT YOUR MOUTH BOY I THINK YOU KNOW WHO RUNS THIS HOUSE
I think you made a mistake with the lyrics
Aw well
YASSS
YOUSAYTHATYOUABALLERANDISEEYOUTRYNAHOLLABUTITAIN'THOWIWASBROUGHTUP
when I saw that you uploaded a new video my heart jumped with excitement and I rejoiced, this is how much your videos affect me and I believe I am speaking on behalf of everyone watching them. You truly are a treasure, and your invincible love is what inspires me the most and gives me enough confidence to always believe that love conquers all and love is all we need in order to know the true value of life.
Hellooo! My tip for being confidence is not caring what others think doing something for yourself and being comfortable in your skin, I can relate to everything in this video and that's the kinda impact I wanna inspire on others too, I use to be shy as fuck and use to worry and now I'm me, I live for what I wanna do because you have one fucking shot at life and you gotta live it for you no matter what! Love you guys nice to see people on here talk and give advice on this stuff :) x
i love listening to both of you speak! you are both such amazing role models and have such a positive vibe that is so great to watch! love you both xxx
Rose about your fear of flying, I read once that you have a better chance of dying from the food on an airplane than in an actual crash.
WELL NOW PLANES ARE DOUBLY AS THREATENING TO ME HAHAHAHAHA
This video is genuinely super helpful. As someone who has struggled a lot with anxiety and self doubt, hearing advice from confident people usually doesn't help - sort of an 'easier said than done' type thing - but the advice you guys gave is actually really good and useful. Thank you :) xx
I really needed this... I'm having such bad days lately getting me down... your videos and especially with this subject and you guys saying were allowed to have a bad week but love ourselves really helped... Thank you guys for the advice, laughs and for being so amazing!
big hugs and love❤
all of this is so true and helpful, I especially related to the statement about how being positive about others makes you feel more confident. I've really tried to change my attitude and generally be less mean about people in my head and I really feel like it's working, it's making me feel better in many different ways
This is now my go to video for when I feel bad about myself :) thankyou guys, almost LOVE these real talks! :)
8:42 When you know yourself... 😂😂😂
Also, great video! It helped a lot! ☺
you guys! the advice was rock solid and I loved the bits about not dragging other people down and just spreading the love. totally my motto and it makes me feel so great seeing others happy!
totally truth Rosie!! Life is a mirror, and every time we recognize us with the person we have in front of us!
love you so much guys! i follow you since the beginning! you both are two beautiful souls growing together! hugs cuties!!
That was possibly the longest minute of my life😂😂😂
Same
Rosie is your hair lighter or are you more tan after holiday? Looking amazing xx
Both! xxx
this is one of the best real talk you guys have. I am really having doubts about what I am capable of because of all the pressure and stress i am facing right now and I am starting to fear of failure. thank you for this reminder. I love you two! so much love from the Philippines. ❤❤❤
I've been going through a lot recently and I know everyone does all the time but you always seem to make a video that ends up helping me at that time. It's no wonder why you two ladies are so many peoples idols. You two are truly lovely ladies and thank you for being you and helping me be me!
first thing i do when i click a rose and rosie video is like it. love you guys my #1 OTP💕
Same I agree with your whole comment lol
Sameeeee❤️❤️
Loving Rose's 'Mr' mug 😂
And Rosie's sorry, didn't see it at the start was too busy getting excited about a new video 😂
Don't even think you both understand how much videos like this can help us, we'll at least me for sure anyway!! I find confidence soooo hard to deal with and I know for a fact when I'm feeling confident I feel like I should be less confident incase people are judging me but I'm done thinking like that, I am me and if people don't like me for me then they can go and fuck themselves. Thank you both for helping me understand this and so much more too! Truly love u both a lottttt!!! X
Rosie and Rose are just absolutely lovely people! I've learned a lot from this video and whenever someone needs help, I'll direct them to this video! and rose's facial expressions are so cute!
The evil laugh thing at the beginning made me think of that bit on friends where Phoebe is telling Joey to do the evil laugh because of some plan they concocted and Joey's laugh sounds like "ho ho ho" and Phoebe is like "It's not santa's plan"
ROSIE! OMG THE SUSHI SHIRT OMG I BOUGHT THIS YESTERDAY IM FREAKING OUT RN I GOT THE SAME SHIRT GOSH
Also please make a haul with Cammie's stuff xD
WHERE DID YOU GET IT? I want it so much
Celaena TheMagic Seems like a strange thing to freak out about.
My confidence has boosted astronomically since watching you guys. My confidence within myself and the way I present myself has changed for the better, and because of this I've learnt to be accepting of myself in everything that I do and everything that I am. So thank you so much Rosie and Rose!!!! xxx
you guys give really good advice and it helps I think ever since I've watched both of you're channels I've got more confident.
you guys are such great role models xxx
Confidence takes time for most. I'm 2 weeks away from being 39 and I just came out as a lesbian this summer. It took me 20+ yrs to have the confidence, where as my daughter who is just about 13yrs old has SO much confidence it amazes me everyday. She was born with only 1 hand and somehow I think that helps her self confidence because she has to be strong so she doesn't get bullied. She is very popular in school but also hangs out with all of the "different" kids. I gain a little more confidence everyday! Love you guys and thanks for this video and your humor as well!! 🏳️🌈
Wow that's incredible! Well congrats for coming out! Perhaps you are meant to have this amazing daughter so you can inspire and teach each other! What an interesting and amazing story! xxx
TheRoxetera Thank you! This gives me even more confidence! Love you guys ❤️
Rose'se smile at 7:07 makes my day when I watch this. Is just so flawless and cute and everything amazing there is... =)
This is good timing for me as I find usually I'm a confident person but I've been at a job for the last few months that I hadn't done before and where I don't seem to gel very well with the team and it's hard not to take it personally and go back every time with your head held high. So nice to hear some advice and reminders about how to keep your confidence. Love you guys, you're the best!
okay i've come back to add another comment because this video is honestly so so true. i usually have very similar confidence to rose, but this is really important to me rn because just yesterday my partner moved a long way away and we are used to being everywhere together, so having confidence on our own and not letting the loneliness get to us (trying to be okay in being alone instead of lonely) is really a new thing. thank you for the newly inspired confidence, both of you ❤️
rosie, you always say to us the best tips, i cant believe how amazing you are
Thanks! xxx
i've always liked Rosie because of her humble lovely manner
i've always liked Rose for that laugh though
rosie should be a public speaker honestly gosh this made me feel all warm and fuzzy, thank you for being so lovely
One thing that's made me so much more confident is actually watching your guys' videos and just seeing you be yourselves. Seeing you be so genuine and honest is so refreshing. It reminds me that being yourself is so much more fun than pretending to be someone you're not and makes me feel better about myself. Gives me hope for my future. 😌
also Rosie your hair looks so great!!
That Keri Hilson throwback though!
I literally performed that whole song (...rap included) to my whole class in Year 8.😷 Thanks for bringing that memory back! 😙
I know this is an older video, but I had to say something.
9:13 -42: I think it's so important that Rosie got/[gets] angry with Rose when Rose read her diary. It gets brought up by them in a lot of videos, and Rosie always takes a firm stance and reminds Rose how inappropriate and unacceptable it was of her to read her diary without her knowledge or permission.
It is so unacceptable to invade someone's privacy like that (she even read her Facebook messages, too). That's controlling behavior that can escalate into abuse. The violated party can have decreasing privacy and freedom within that relationship. I'm not saying Rose is or ever was abusive, and I realize they've moved past it as a couple, but I just wanted to applaud Rosie for sticking to her guns in that situation and constantly restating how wrong Rose's actions were. So many women underreact to that type of an offense.
Rosie's firm boundaries and sense of self-respect are one of the reasons I love her and find her an excellent role model for women and bisexuals.
And just to reiterate... I frickin' love Rose too. I know they've moved past it. I don't mean any offense.
Yes, as much as I adore them it bothers me that I feel like Rose in fact is controlling type of person.
This is part of why you two make such good role models - you give such wise & articulate advice. I love your positive approach to life & you always make me smile.
I always love your Real Talks, it's awesome how you guys make it so funny while also giving really helpful advice 👍 this is definitely an area I need help with, so thanks so much for making this ❤
Thank you so much for this #realtalk! Many people need this one. And also, welcome back to RUclips! I miss you both loads!
We missed being here!!! xxx
You two made some excellent points on this video. I read somewhere it's a good idea to make sure you give at least a few genuine compliments to people you cross throughout your day. Like Rosie said, its just nice to spread the love and make people feel good about themselves. No, we don't get along with everybody. In fact, I kept thinking about a lady at work whilst watching this video. I am at the point where just seeing her gives me bad feelings. So when I run into her tomorrow, I am going to think of positive and genuine things that I like about her. Maybe it's time to try and stop focusing on the bad in people, and reinforcing the good.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 So true! I've actually been like that with a few people, just the diea of them has annoyed me! But then if you are nice to them and look at them in a different way, you actually wonder what you disliked about them in the first place! You can deffo change so much with a positive mindset! xx
you guys literally help a lottttt! I 💛 your real talks and you guys! Hope you had a good vacation !!😘
Love your 'Real Talk' videos Rosie! Looking forward to more in the future. Really like what you said about ''ll be fine if they don't like me' rather than worrying about if someone will like you. On point.
My confidence has increased loads since when I started watching you. I think I may just my copying your guys personalities :)
Also PhD stands for doctor on philosophy. I know it's the wrong way around but what can I say. I don't make the rules
Lord Gabe Newell Well that's not good. You have to be your own person. Don't take other people's opinions or personality. You'll end up an empty husk with an identity crisis.
Awwww. Comment and liked before watching the vids 😂😂
Same
it really comforts me seeing how real you are about your relationship, not only just telling us like the good. It makes me remember that not everything will always be perfect nd people make mistakes but its nice to see even in those mistakes if you're confident in like your relationship for example, everything can work out and just by being confident in that, a lot of things can fall into place
I am so guilty of copying Roses moves to appear more confident even before I watched this, I'm a little sorry
making a smug face and looking away when you said something ridiculous makes you look like .. you are in control of the silliness? I don't know, it's really hard to explain! (Also, hard to explain since I'm not a native English speaker sorry)
I always struggle with confidence this should help as well as being funny.
I hope so! xxx
I have been having issues at my work. From feeling low on confidence to criticism..this has helped me change my perspective so much and also the way I look at the people I work with. . Thank you so much
Rose & Rosie. ☺❤
I've been in tears just now and you helped I love you two so much this is just what I needed after what has just happened😘
Rosie your features have matured so much over the years that you are super gorgeous looking !!
How to be more confident: 1) Know what you're doing. If you are afraid of failure, learn how to do it right. 2) Know what to say. If you are afraid of saying something stupid, make sure you get your facts right. 3) Know your abilities. If you are afraid of not being able to do something, try to do it anyway. You may surprise yourself and succeed. Remember, knowledge is power and the more empowered you are, the more confident you'll be.
You have no idea how much i needed this THANK YOU you are amazing! and I love sooo much, I hope you realize how important you can be and the amazing impact that you have in other people lives ❤︎ ❤︎
Thank you so much for this video, I really needed it. I'm going to give a speech on Monday and I'm terrified about it. But this really helped. I'll be coming back to this every time I need a confidence boost😊 Love you two xx
Ooooo Rose I see that highlighter girl, you sparklin' ✨
Who's the guest on Rosie's channel? She's all right.
Needed this video today! I work in the hospitality industry, front of house, and you have to deal with a lot of people that you really wish you didn't have to quite a lot (don't get me wrong, there as some fantastic customers out there too!) But sometimes, customers can be very critical and it is difficult not to take their criticism personally. I learned it the hard way, but for anyone else who works in the same industry, or has to deal with customers/ colleagues that get them down, my advice is remember they are only a tiny part of your life, they are not important to you in the grand scheme of things, and the only opinions that matter are your own, and those of the people you care about. Love Rosie's message about having a positive outlook, will definitely be taking that on board! Love you guys xx
This is so amazing! You guys help me so much to be a happier person which inturn makes me more confident. I love you both so much! ❣
does rose ever get asked to just sit in the back of other people's videos and provide in-depth commentary using just her expression
I would love to watch a video or two of that
I was just laughing so hard that i choked on my own phlegm
omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I've watched and read lots of content about confidence but I think its the first time someone brought to my attention that if you critisize people about little things then you are going to think that people will do the same to you! So you shouldnt do it, that is a very unique and helpful tip! Way to go Rosie and Rose! Love these RealTalks maybe you could do one about different ways you can approach someone you like? Cant wait for the holiday vlog since im from Greece, very excited to see what you liked from my country! Lots of love x
I’m so happy with this video and your tips, because I’m not a very confidence person. I never trust myself and belife in myself. Even now when I’m writting this I’m not confidend about myself. I’m very afraid that i do or write anything wrong and that people are going to hate and unlike me beacause of that. But I’m really going to use your tips! I’m feeling more confidend about myself when I started watching your videos. I’m so happy with you in my life! I love you so much!! Just for who you are and i hope you girls will never change!💕😘😍
Tbh I'm not confident at all even if sometimes I fake it. BUT I never go around and put other people down, so let's stop with the "oh they're just insecure that's why they're insulting you". I mean, some of them probably are, but some people are just mean, they're both confident and mean. And sometimes people are NOT confident but are actually nice and don't feel the need to put others down. Js lol.
I think you're totally right but I also think people feel the need to be mean to others to feel better about themselves and maybe have no problem with confidence but other issues in their life's.
True.
The title reminded me something:
Everyday is pay day
Swipe my card, then I do the nae nae
You're talking to a lady
I want a Kanye-ye not a Ray J
So that's a no no
I'm a Maybach and you's a Volvo
This convo beat like Dre
I already know whatchu tryna say
You say that you a baller
And I see you tryna holla
But that ain't how I was brought up
Next
Working for my money
'Cause that's what my momma taught me
So yo ass betta show me some respect
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-T
That's me, I'm confident
Don't want yo complimments
Use common sense
I'm on my Michelle Obama
Shhhh Shut your mouth
Boy I think you know who run this house
I ain't thirsty for no bae cuz I already know watchu tryna say
You say that you a baller
And I see you tryna holla
But that ain't how I was brought up
Next
Working for my money
'Cause that's what my momma taught me
So yo ass betta show me some respect
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
I pledge allegiance to my independent girls in here
Ooh Baby
So if you're with us, come on let me hear you say
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
You say that you a baller
And I see you tryna holla
But that ain't how I was brought up
Next
Working for my money
'Cause that's what my momma taught me
So yo ass betta show me some respect
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Absolutely love you two and what you have to say. You make such a positive impact on EVERYTHING.
Love this you two.
and Rosie you just completely glowed with your Joy & Enthusiasm!!! Lit up... like sunshine.
Rose didn't mention fifth harmony! She deserves a medal.
You two are the best. All joking aside ($3 Million USD offer), you two have have amazing personalities, are charismatic, intelligent and super fun. Please never change ;-)
I loved this video, I have always struggled with confidence but what i learned is that nobody cares. Everyone is too focused on themselves to pay attention to whatever it is you don't feel confident about. Cheers x
You guys don't understand how much this videos means to me. I love this and I love you, thankyou so much for everything. You always know how to give the best advice💗
yey
clexa trash forever!!!
trikru is everywhere😏😏
clexaaaaaaaaa!
rosie, where'd you get your shirt? it's super cute!!
It's funny how this video managed to put a smile on my face after this crap day, I agree with what you said however I feel judged by people because I'm "different", I've lost confidence since I got disappointed in love and it happens more and more. I get judged for everything that I do, every decision I take, I don't trust myself and I don't even know if I love myself, sometimes I wish I looked different but I don't want to look like everybody else, I want to keep what makes me unique although some people don't accept it.
Thank you for this video, you guys are so wise, Rosie all the things you said help me so much as I think the same. Anyway keep up the good work, real talks are amazing and very helpful, love you x
I have to say, when I'm losing confidence this video still helps a lot. Even if it's just an hour, a day, a week, or month of shit...this and the rest of your content always do the job. Eternally grateful to both of you.
you guys look absolutely adorable
also that evil laugh tho 😂 had me pissing
Yeah i Hope my Girlfriend and i will get more confident with our Vlogs.. so thanks for the tipps ❤️😄
Aww you guys are so Cute 👭
Agree :3
I love you guys! I learned a lot form this video. I can always count on you guys to make my day, or even my week better. 💕👌
this came at such a good time! about to start my lectures for uni this coming week and I'm a bit scared as I'll be surrounded by people who I'm going to try desperately to not compare myself to. I've always had confidence in my writing but now I'm at uni and amongst new people I'm feeling a bit nervous. especially when it comes to seminars, where you all contribute and discuss things together - it's the worry that I won't sound as intelligent as others or will be thought of as lesser when I know I'm capable of thinking and writing good things. wish me luck! xx
I like this guest star... you should get her back sometime 😂
love the mugs XD
i also love the sushi shirt
If two women marry each other, then why don't they drink out of Mrs. mugs?
a fan gave it to them I think it's just a joke
From memory they ordered Mrs. mugs but the order got stuffed up :p
I like these kind of videos, it makes me learn a lot more about life. Plus, i get to have a good laugh x love you rose and rosie
I love these real talk videos ! Also really needed this video today so thank you !
Is it true that if you're early one of them will reply??? Love you both loads 😘
I had a bad haircut once and the HD from a VERY BIG chain said "you can wear a hat". Confidence rock bottom.
WOW that's fucking terrible!!!!!!!!! I would have written SO MANY bad reviews!
word of mouth worked and I still tell the story
You give great advice in the most entertaining way! It's hard to stop watching which is great because everyone can always listen to great advice! Thanks for being so wonderful!
and it's so true what you said, the most wonderful people have so much love around them, for themselves and others
I need a haul of cammies shit!!!
Do the video with Cammie's stuff!! go for it, I personally allow it
Thank you both for making my day so much better by making amazing and funny videos, they never fail to cheer me up, thank you again ❤️
This video will help so many people I don't think you realise!!! You two are amazing!!!
Cuando no entiendes ni mierda, pero aún así ves el vídeo 😂😍
somos 2! xD
Siempre pensando como suenan los ingleses a españoles :-D y hola! Yo hago lo mismo para los videos en español :D:D lo siento si no me entiendes
¿Sabes? Si se te dificulta entenderle a los ingleses, podrías escucharlas diciendo una palabra y luego imitar su voz y hacer su acento. Quiero decir... Imitar su voz nasal, o algo así. Me funcionó en algo, cuando quiero hablar con mi voz, no puedo fingir el acento, pero cuando finjo la voz parecido a la de Rose o Rosie es más fácil y como practiqué la dicción como sus voces, se escucha mejor ajaja Mientras más dices las palabras más las escuchas y así recuerdas más los sonidos de las sílabas, así podrías entenderles un poquitito más. Bueno, eso me sirvió de algo. Ya no estoy tan perdida. Al principio no le entendía mucho a Rosie ajaja
jajajaja.. cuesta mucho entenderlas... pero bueno el intento y la emocion d ver sus videos lo compensa...
Somos 3 xD... Pero MeEncantan... Amo A Rose
Mr Mr you say? You should watch the Girls Generation - Mr Mr music video (it's kpop) lol
how can you both be so funny whilst still giving some amazing advice ??? thank you so much for this video, although just since i started watching your videos i think i've become more confident. love you both! x
i honestly love you guys ❤️❤️ im gonna rewatch this like everyday
Rosie, where is your wedding ring O.o 😂😂