Men choose their battles like Hannibal or Scipio Africanus. Some fights ain't worth fighting with odds are against you. So buy your time, keep your friends close but your enemies closer
@@JordanDavila At least try: meet at coffee in public place, tell her you will accept apology if it is sincere. Get phone start recording. Tell her to apologise, ask for what she is exactrly apologising, because sincere apology means person doing that admits to what she did wrong. Get her confession recorded, go to lawyer, sue her lying ass like no tomorrow. Aftr case is closed post her apology on social media, tag her, your friends and family, then block them all forever.
@@JordanDavila but there are men who fight every battle and still win sometimes the tactics is what changes things like Skanderbeg despite being at a heavy disadvantage and the albanian nobility who where his allies defected to the ottomans and his family despite that he still raised a 10k soldier Volunteer and defeated the ottomans At the Battle of Albulena but you need to choose the right plan and right time and right place for the battle similar to Skenderbeg and also Balasarius and Narsus.
God, please forgive this comment. It does NOT matter about the truth. I really wish women who do this should face the exact same as a man, but we really know that will never happen. Saying this as a woman will 100% of the time always get the same results 100% of the time. It doesn't matter if you are ugly,fat,bold,skinny,short,stinky,big butt,no butt, it doesn't matter bc a woman's word is always truth about SA or being abused. Hell, it wouldn't even matter if the man would be on camera, in front of a cop, or in jail, the man would still be blamed in every sense of the word. Women should be held to the same standards as men .... Please think about this statement I have made before anyone else says, "Why doesn't the man make the woman be held 6 Now makes a lot more sense?
@Polemistis0416 I agree. I'd rather fight back but it really seems like a lose lose situation and I could understand why someone might not have the will or the care to fight back.
He has nothing to lose anymore. He could only gain something from exposing her, but I understand why he wouldn't want to go through the hassle again. He's afraid to relive the events, the pain, and everything that happened when the false accusation first happened. I wouldn't blame him for being afraid that exposing her would potentially repeat everything in the past and just doubled his misery.
Story 1: bro I feel bad for him. You can’t hang around people without someone trying to falsely acuse you of something. The fact people always leave the person who is falsely accused after knowing him is even worst. Not many men will fight or get revenge due to it but some will but at the end of the day as long as they are able to get through this is a achievement
Story 1 I say take her to court. What if she does this to another guy? She probably won't get what she deserves but at least the record will be set straight.
@@classicrockkid345 Not for defamation. All you need to do is prove material and/or reputational damage. They would need to prove that it was true in order to defend against it.
@georgeprchal3924 Lying, in fact, IS illegal if his lawyer can prove mental decline (emotional distress lawsuit) or "special damage" (slander lawsuit).
Story 1: And society acepts such result as rightful Most will state ( has been proven already) that a man should always be seen as guilty even if he is innocent.
Story 2, always remember, HR is not your friend. Their job is to protect the company, not you. Document everything, call a union rep or lawyer if you have to.
Story 2 I would've raised hell right there and then for the accuser and assistant lady to go with me to HR and put it in writing and also press to check the phone. Then file a formal complaint to HR regarding this accuser so it is on record. Guys be ready to protect yourselves at all cost in this modern world. The odds are heavily stacked against us.
"Why would she lie?", they say, every single time. Counter question: why would I do what she claimed? Society believes any man capable of the worst imaginable, but women incapable of lying. But misandry doesn't real, am I right?
Either the girl is so self absorbed she thinks she has any right to “clear the air” after ruining someone’s life or ts is fake Personally I’m gravitating to the latter
It is AI because real people who isn't a highschooler doing their English homework wont talk about the mood or ambience of the moment like Shakespeare.
@l-l-l-l-l-l-l i love the fact they were inside on the couch during a party but then he gets up and goes inside cause they magically teleported outside so they wouldn't have a witness😂😂 I died hearing that
My sympathy died for OP in story 1 when he did nothing with the evidence then complained that the girl wouldn’t get any consequences, he basically became an accomplice to her with his inaction.
Story 1 really gets me. Thankfully it is very rare, but even though this is probably fiction, it accurately depicts how in the right (or wrong) situation, a single lie can absolutely ruin your life.
8:30 "Yes, your honour, I did force myself upon that woman. But you see, I was drunk, insecure and in a bad place in my life and I apologised, so no harm no foul, right?"
The holier than thou attitude while she's miserably living and enduring just because a book told her too. She will be a MIL from Hell in the future if her sons are the most important thing
A lot of these stories, even if i think most are fake. Just in case they are real. This just shows you how much a female word matters. Society will always believe females instead of males. I, as a male, too, had this happened to me before. It is a nightmare with no winners.
S1: revenge may seem cruel but it is necessary in cases like this. always press charges against people like this. they get no sympathy and no kindness. you might be seen as evil but people like her need to be taught a lesson
2nd Story: OP is giving this woman way too much credit. You do not get to decide that someone is guilty of XYZ based off a feeling. Situations like this are exactly what is wrong with this "your feelings are always valid" mentality that we have adopted. This is exactly how a man named Daniel Person was locked up for a month over a false kidnapping and SA accusation simply because a woman targeted him because she thought he looked "creepy."
And that is why I will NEVER accept the "believe all women" that is consistently being pushed on us. There might be a victim who is struggling after having their life destroyed because rheyve been violated unwillingly... butvthere is more evil in the world than good (or we wouldn't applaud people on line just for being decent people) & it's very easy for a bitter, vicious woman who feels like shes been done wrong by someone close to her, to lie about being violated. Mud sticks & that kind of accusation is enough to ruin someone's life because it sticks, even without proof, good, innocent men have been broken down & had their lives smashed into a million broken pieces just because he chose himself over a toxic partner & she chose to go nuclear over ego or pride. We cannot stop fighting for people on both sides because both sides are suffering because if the toxic ones
S1: Reads like AI fiction, at least to me. S2: More likely to be legit and the OP had a lucky escape here. With him being so new to the company he may not even have fulfilled his probationary period yet, so he could’ve been let go. Going forward I think it would be safer for all parties were the company to install a camera in the break room.
Story 1 is definitely AI 😂 how were they at a public party with a ton of people but also alone enough for no one to see them. Also inside on the couch but then he goes inside to clean up. Its ai or it's made up by a man to hate on women
I know people want to talk about scenarios surrounding false accusation, but let’s not encourage blatantly fake and awful AI stories. This channel used to have relatively few of them as well.
1st story: " it was uncomfortable but I didn't want to make a big deal out of it." And this is why you were in the predicament you were in because you did not want to make a big deal out of something as serious as someone technically she was harassing you. If Claire was a man and you are a woman what do you think would have happened? Now that you didn't make a big deal about it you're in this type of situation being assume you're a pervert should because they assume you're pervert and nobody wanted to be around you because they thought you were a pervert but guess what you didn't want to make a big deal about it. So since you didn't want to make a big deal about it why are you up here now making a big deal about it?
What are you babbling about? Its been 5 YEARS and the guy lost his job, his girlfriend and his reputation was shattered. Who if she admits it 5 years later?
@georgeprchal3924 anything - does not need to be legal, even posting a screen shot of the letter may of had her face some consequences - as it stands she got away Scott free - not even with guilt as she has "apologised" and he remains locked in a mental jail of fear for the rest of his life
@@dantesinferno80 you did heard what he said right? The girl can easily lie again and he would again be into trouble, since authorities will first drag him. It's always a lose lose situation. The best part is always wear some dress cams with yourself so that you'll have video proof of everything happening around you.
@@dantesinferno80 and that will accomplish nothing. People will only praise her for her courage to come forward and say how she is the real victim all along living with the guilt. And doubtful this man has the money for expensive and extensive legal proceedings.
I hate to say this,but in Story 1 OP should sent that email, as it's emotionally damaging at it is it will never go away because they never make things right for themselves? What would happen if he decided to live his life like this? He should go nuclear right now and retain his dignity but even so i understand why he couldn't do it because it never undo the damages the girl caused but if he stayed quite he just let the girl win regardless. At the end of his story I understand what he meant and i feel for those real victims of SA
Story 3: Just because the friend is ardent on being a sad wife and settling for the barest minimum and blatant disrespectful MIL because she's too scared to actually find someone who loves and respects her doesn't mean others have to. She's using religion to hide behide the fact she's a horrid person who likely knows it and thus stays with someone that treats her horribly.
Story 1: I would have at least consulted with a lawyer to see what my options were. If they didn't think I had a case I would have contacted her saying that I would only accept a public apology with her fully accepting responsibility otherwise never contact me again. If she was ok with ruining me by publicly lying she should publicly accept the guilt.
1) im sorry you went through this, i hope you can move on, since theres no evidence and the fatc that there was still no evidence and the :"statement had contridictions, say enough also you should sue, What if she does this to another guy, so nec time she probably won't get what she deserves but at least theres a paper trial to set record straight. 2) NTA she is self absorbed you offer to show proof, but they didnt want to see it becuase she knew she had no evidence to stand on, also ou need to sue, because if you dont this will mahe her thing that anything she does is okay, stop it now before its too late 3)NTA you and your ex wanted to end it because you both knew that you weren't compatible with each other, and had other valid reasons so thats not your fault
Story 2: this is why most men don’t interact with women in the work space from what I be seeing online. This is why most people just hang out with the guys because it takes one bad person to ruin someone entirely
Story 3: not the ah for this story, but outright admitted to cheating on her last boyfriend and broke up because he “refused to forgive her” so probably the ah in a different story
@ I’m not ruling it out just as it’s written it sounds like she was the cheater. Which if true starts to raise other questions. Like did the MIL see something the EX didn’t because he had rose tinted glasses
Story 1: I do not feel bad for this pathetic guy. At the very least he should have sent it to everyone so they would know the truth. This dude is pathetic.
Too many men choose to not take revenge. It's sad really.
It's kinda infuriating.
Men choose their battles like Hannibal or Scipio Africanus. Some fights ain't worth fighting with odds are against you. So buy your time, keep your friends close but your enemies closer
@@JordanDavila At least try: meet at coffee in public place, tell her you will accept apology if it is sincere. Get phone start recording. Tell her to apologise, ask for what she is exactrly apologising, because sincere apology means person doing that admits to what she did wrong. Get her confession recorded, go to lawyer, sue her lying ass like no tomorrow. Aftr case is closed post her apology on social media, tag her, your friends and family, then block them all forever.
@@JordanDavila but there are men who fight every battle and still win sometimes the tactics is what changes things like Skanderbeg despite being at a heavy disadvantage and the albanian nobility who where his allies defected to the ottomans and his family despite that he still raised a 10k soldier Volunteer and defeated the ottomans At the Battle of Albulena but you need to choose the right plan and right time and right place for the battle similar to Skenderbeg and also Balasarius and Narsus.
God, please forgive this comment. It does NOT matter about the truth. I really wish women who do this should face the exact same as a man, but we really know that will never happen. Saying this as a woman will 100% of the time always get the same results 100% of the time. It doesn't matter if you are ugly,fat,bold,skinny,short,stinky,big butt,no butt, it doesn't matter bc a woman's word is always truth about SA or being abused. Hell, it wouldn't even matter if the man would be on camera, in front of a cop, or in jail, the man would still be blamed in every sense of the word. Women should be held to the same standards as men .... Please think about this statement I have made before anyone else says, "Why doesn't the man make the woman be held 6 Now makes a lot more sense?
Story 1, your seen as a monster if you do nothing, your seen as cruel if you retaliate. I hate this place.
Doing nothing is the worst.
@Polemistis0416 I agree. I'd rather fight back but it really seems like a lose lose situation and I could understand why someone might not have the will or the care to fight back.
@@Pincushion45 It's not a total lose-lose.
OP 1 is a coward. Fight back. Get your reputation back. Do some freaking thing. Don't just lay down. Fight!
He has nothing to lose anymore. He could only gain something from exposing her, but I understand why he wouldn't want to go through the hassle again.
He's afraid to relive the events, the pain, and everything that happened when the false accusation first happened. I wouldn't blame him for being afraid that exposing her would potentially repeat everything in the past and just doubled his misery.
If she wants to make amends, she needs to contact every one of that friend group and clear your name.
And they'd tell her how brave she is and how she's the real victim.
Story 1: bro I feel bad for him. You can’t hang around people without someone trying to falsely acuse you of something. The fact people always leave the person who is falsely accused after knowing him is even worst. Not many men will fight or get revenge due to it but some will but at the end of the day as long as they are able to get through this is a achievement
Story 1 I say take her to court. What if she does this to another guy? She probably won't get what she deserves but at least the record will be set straight.
She doesn't exist. Its AI😅
For what exactly, you realize when YOU take someone to court, YOU need to prove what happened.
@@classicrockkid345with a detailed confession it’s pretty easy in court
@@classicrockkid345 Not for defamation. All you need to do is prove material and/or reputational damage. They would need to prove that it was true in order to defend against it.
@@lolarichter9415 people know it's AI, let them have their fun.
Story 1: thats why you take the email to a lawyer and let them rip her apart in court.
Except courts are heavily biased against males if the prosecution or defense is female.
Lying isn't illegal and the courts would not take his side.
@georgeprchal3924 Lying, in fact, IS illegal if his lawyer can prove mental decline (emotional distress lawsuit) or "special damage" (slander lawsuit).
@samoea19 perjury is illegal. No court in the land would ever convict a woman of lying about what she lied about.
Its called slander and yes he can sue her in civil court and win especially with her admission.@georgeprchal3924
Story 1:
And society acepts such result as rightful
Most will state ( has been proven already) that a man should always be seen as guilty even if he is innocent.
How insecure and petty do you have to be to accuse a guy of SA just because he didn't flirt with you???
Story 1: Stop being the bigger person. Sue the shit out of those who do you wrong.
Story 1, my revenge would be to date clair, get to the point of marriage, then expose her to everyone at the wedding 😂😂
Sounds expensive but love it
Why she’s the one that ruined his life
I'd be more along the lines of secluded camping trip, accidentally falling off a mountain nd shit
This might sound harsh but I think you might have a little brain damage if you think that could happen in any timeline
@@mashiyahmartin6070 exactly... I'm not sure why you don't understand
Story 2, always remember, HR is not your friend. Their job is to protect the company, not you. Document everything, call a union rep or lawyer if you have to.
Dropped charges can be worse than going to court and being acquitted.
Story 2 I would've raised hell right there and then for the accuser and assistant lady to go with me to HR and put it in writing and also press to check the phone. Then file a formal complaint to HR regarding this accuser so it is on record.
Guys be ready to protect yourselves at all cost in this modern world. The odds are heavily stacked against us.
"didn't know how to stop it once it started"
By speaking up!
"Why would she lie?", they say, every single time. Counter question: why would I do what she claimed?
Society believes any man capable of the worst imaginable, but women incapable of lying.
But misandry doesn't real, am I right?
I swear she's asking for a death sentence..
Either the girl is so self absorbed she thinks she has any right to “clear the air” after ruining someone’s life or ts is fake
Personally I’m gravitating to the latter
Yeah it's AI. Listen to a few AI stories and you can pick them out pretty easily
It is AI because real people who isn't a highschooler doing their English homework wont talk about the mood or ambience of the moment like Shakespeare.
@@fl-ri-they’re fun to listen too so idrc like that😂
@@l-l-l-l-l-l-lfair enough 😭
@l-l-l-l-l-l-l i love the fact they were inside on the couch during a party but then he gets up and goes inside cause they magically teleported outside so they wouldn't have a witness😂😂 I died hearing that
Second story. Never apologize for something you haven't done.
My sympathy died for OP in story 1 when he did nothing with the evidence then complained that the girl wouldn’t get any consequences, he basically became an accomplice to her with his inaction.
Story 1 really gets me. Thankfully it is very rare, but even though this is probably fiction, it accurately depicts how in the right (or wrong) situation, a single lie can absolutely ruin your life.
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8:30 "Yes, your honour, I did force myself upon that woman. But you see, I was drunk, insecure and in a bad place in my life and I apologised, so no harm no foul, right?"
These stories are the natural and logical repercussion of a statement like “ believe women”. Some number of people are liars and all women are people.
The 'friend' in story 3 sounds awfully punchable
The holier than thou attitude while she's miserably living and enduring just because a book told her too. She will be a MIL from Hell in the future if her sons are the most important thing
A lot of these stories, even if i think most are fake. Just in case they are real. This just shows you how much a female word matters. Society will always believe females instead of males. I, as a male, too, had this happened to me before. It is a nightmare with no winners.
S1: revenge may seem cruel but it is necessary in cases like this. always press charges against people like this. they get no sympathy and no kindness. you might be seen as evil but people like her need to be taught a lesson
Gee, why don't zoomers party as much as the older generations did?/s
Both OPs in 1 and 2 should've retaliated.
by ANY means necessary, legal or otherwise.
2nd Story: OP is giving this woman way too much credit. You do not get to decide that someone is guilty of XYZ based off a feeling. Situations like this are exactly what is wrong with this "your feelings are always valid" mentality that we have adopted. This is exactly how a man named Daniel Person was locked up for a month over a false kidnapping and SA accusation simply because a woman targeted him because she thought he looked "creepy."
Take her to court. I'm so tired of these lying females getting away with this kind of crap. Don't give up on clearing your name.
Story 3: did OP casualy mention that she is a cheater?
Yes. Yes, she did. She for the streets
No she's not she said he cheated and she refused to forgive him@@RomeGod177
where?
@@WeatherStone 26:50
No she said he cheated and she was unwilling to forgive. I almost thought the same til I listened again and read the subtitles
Story 1 is why you don’t just stay quiet and pretend it will be okay if you just say nothing.
And that is why I will NEVER accept the "believe all women" that is consistently being pushed on us.
There might be a victim who is struggling after having their life destroyed because rheyve been violated unwillingly... butvthere is more evil in the world than good (or we wouldn't applaud people on line just for being decent people) & it's very easy for a bitter, vicious woman who feels like shes been done wrong by someone close to her, to lie about being violated.
Mud sticks & that kind of accusation is enough to ruin someone's life because it sticks, even without proof, good, innocent men have been broken down & had their lives smashed into a million broken pieces just because he chose himself over a toxic partner & she chose to go nuclear over ego or pride.
We cannot stop fighting for people on both sides because both sides are suffering because if the toxic ones
S1: Reads like AI fiction, at least to me.
S2: More likely to be legit and the OP had a lucky escape here. With him being so new to the company he may not even have fulfilled his probationary period yet, so he could’ve been let go. Going forward I think it would be safer for all parties were the company to install a camera in the break room.
Story 1 is definitely AI 😂 how were they at a public party with a ton of people but also alone enough for no one to see them. Also inside on the couch but then he goes inside to clean up. Its ai or it's made up by a man to hate on women
I know people want to talk about scenarios surrounding false accusation, but let’s not encourage blatantly fake and awful AI stories. This channel used to have relatively few of them as well.
@Nicho_Ldn tbh most of the stories on this channel is AI they all read the same and use the same way of overly describing stuff
@@lolarichter9415 "believe all women" ahh comment
1st story: " it was uncomfortable but I didn't want to make a big deal out of it."
And this is why you were in the predicament you were in because you did not want to make a big deal out of something as serious as someone technically she was harassing you.
If Claire was a man and you are a woman what do you think would have happened?
Now that you didn't make a big deal about it you're in this type of situation being assume you're a pervert should because they assume you're pervert and nobody wanted to be around you because they thought you were a pervert but guess what you didn't want to make a big deal about it.
So since you didn't want to make a big deal about it why are you up here now making a big deal about it?
What are you babbling about? Its been 5 YEARS and the guy lost his job, his girlfriend and his reputation was shattered.
Who if she admits it 5 years later?
Story 1 - pathetic worm, he had proof of his innocence but sat in his misery
And do what? Please give us your learned legal opinion.
@georgeprchal3924 anything - does not need to be legal, even posting a screen shot of the letter may of had her face some consequences - as it stands she got away Scott free - not even with guilt as she has "apologised" and he remains locked in a mental jail of fear for the rest of his life
Exactly dude is a coward and rather live in self pity rather then clear his name.
@@dantesinferno80 you did heard what he said right? The girl can easily lie again and he would again be into trouble, since authorities will first drag him. It's always a lose lose situation. The best part is always wear some dress cams with yourself so that you'll have video proof of everything happening around you.
@@dantesinferno80 and that will accomplish nothing. People will only praise her for her courage to come forward and say how she is the real victim all along living with the guilt. And doubtful this man has the money for expensive and extensive legal proceedings.
Story 1: All these partygoers thet didn't speak out PARTICIPATED in a lynching. Well done Ladies!
guys, skip story 1, no good ending.
Also it's super poorly written AI.
You mean no ending at all
Yeah screw this channel for this bs
That's reality sometimes
Story 1: Man is defeated. Shameful
"make amends"
You think you can somehow fix all the crap that has happened to me over the past five years?
I hate to say this,but in Story 1 OP should sent that email, as it's emotionally damaging at it is it will never go away because they never make things right for themselves? What would happen if he decided to live his life like this? He should go nuclear right now and retain his dignity but even so i understand why he couldn't do it because it never undo the damages the girl caused but if he stayed quite he just let the girl win regardless.
At the end of his story I understand what he meant and i feel for those real victims of SA
Ugh.
I mean it's fake so 🤷 the story was so inconsistent. Inside in the couch but then he goes inside? It's AI
14:09 nah. Never give the accuser an excuse. Hold them accountable
1s OP didn't deserve it
But then he became a pushover, now he totally deserve it
Story 1: Dude talk to a lawyer
Story 2: This shit is ridiculous. God do I really have to worry about this crap just because I’m a guy?!
Story 3: Just because the friend is ardent on being a sad wife and settling for the barest minimum and blatant disrespectful MIL because she's too scared to actually find someone who loves and respects her doesn't mean others have to. She's using religion to hide behide the fact she's a horrid person who likely knows it and thus stays with someone that treats her horribly.
Story 1: I would have at least consulted with a lawyer to see what my options were. If they didn't think I had a case I would have contacted her saying that I would only accept a public apology with her fully accepting responsibility otherwise never contact me again. If she was ok with ruining me by publicly lying she should publicly accept the guilt.
First story must be a real story because it was super underwhelming.
1) im sorry you went through this, i hope you can move on, since theres no evidence and the fatc that there was still no evidence and the :"statement had contridictions, say enough also you should sue, What if she does this to another guy, so nec time she probably won't get what she deserves but at least theres a paper trial to set record straight.
2) NTA she is self absorbed you offer to show proof, but they didnt want to see it becuase she knew she had no evidence to stand on, also ou need to sue, because if you dont this will mahe her thing that anything she does is okay, stop it now before its too late
3)NTA you and your ex wanted to end it because you both knew that you weren't compatible with each other, and had other valid reasons so thats not your fault
Story 2: this is why most men don’t interact with women in the work space from what I be seeing online. This is why most people just hang out with the guys because it takes one bad person to ruin someone entirely
"bf" is a religious nut and you don't need a fanatic in your life
S3: why build a relationship on lies?
Story 3: The friend is a jerk who has messed up ideas about marriage
You just gave up is all. That is why no one talks about it.
Im at the point of believing no women
Well I have a problem with this at 1:30 -3:00. This doesn't make sense. Just shows me this is a fake story.
*Where's The Video With The Updates To The 1st Story And The Rest Of The Updates To The 3rd Story!?!*
S1 stop living on fairy tales OP is right, the damage is done nothing will make it right and if people believe her once they will believe her again.
S1: This has to be some red pill AI written rage bait.
If that were the case, it'd have a better ending.
You have to be annoying.
@ Didn;t make it to the ending when i first commented. Ending made it seem more realistic indeed. Sucks for dude.
The ending is what adds to its lack of authenticity actually. That and the dialogue being so generic.
@ I cant win with you guys im going back to work 🤣
S1: op should have contact a lawyer and ask what to do legally, you doing nothing is being an idiot.
Day 177 of telling secretvoices to have a good day
Story 3: not the ah for this story, but outright admitted to cheating on her last boyfriend and broke up because he “refused to forgive her” so probably the ah in a different story
I think she meant he cheated and she refused to forgive 😅
@ I’m not ruling it out just as it’s written it sounds like she was the cheater. Which if true starts to raise other questions. Like did the MIL see something the EX didn’t because he had rose tinted glasses
OP, you’re a coward.
Story 1: this sht happens coz u do nothing. When u lose everything why dont u revenge hard? And u get this chance. Wtf so lame
Ragebait trash
wtf
Story 1: I do not feel bad for this pathetic guy. At the very least he should have sent it to everyone so they would know the truth. This dude is pathetic.
Story 1 biggest spineless