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S02 E06 How I Overcame my Rape After Killing my Rapist w/ Mbali Lekhuleni | The UnChristian Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 13 авг 2024
- Rape and other sexual crimes are a serious issue in our society globally, but particularly in South Africa. In this episode we hear from Mbali Lekhuleni, who was only 16 years old when she was raped at gunpoint. She shares her story of this tragic event, how she ended up shooting the assailant in self-defense and her subsequent journey of healing and restoration.
Mbali is now building her music career, has launched her the RATO Foundation and is a member of Joyous Celebration, Africa's biggest gospel music outfit.
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I remember Mbali trying to tell this testimony in a youth service but she was still in pain and couldn’t even get to it cause tears kept running down her cheeks. To finally hear the testimony and witnessing how much God has restored in her life 🌸 it can only be God 🍀 may you heal sisi 🥹 ngempela waku hlawulela imisebenzi yakhe iyabonakala 😭🥹😭
oh my god her story is almost similar to mine, the park, weapon, siblings 😭 I hope one day I gain strength to tell my story.
I am so sorry love and light😢😢😢
You will. At His appointed time. You will. 🤗❤
God will give I strength cc....in d meantime share with people close to U...dat also helps
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I use to tell my self that when I grow up I will hunt him and kill him,one day I was in the taxi to joburg that via Booyson ,I saw him,I thanked the Lord for helping me to forgive this monster
Glad she ended it all and saved many young innocent girls. She's my hero 👌🏾
I was robbed at gunpoint inside my place and acting tough in front of someone who's holding a gun is extremely dangerous, though I still experience trauma now and then, I'm glad I was not violated.
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I was 14yrs old coming back from all night prayer ....yooh bakhithi life mara😢
💔💔sending hugs 🫂
I pray for your healing sisi 😢
Thank you 🤗
Askies Sisi❤❤❤love and light to you
Oh Jesus 😢😢😢😢
You lucky girl you deleted him with your own hands. That's pure justice.
As A Rape Survivor ii felt everything uu spoke about & im inspired.
Going through all this pain and thinking your family isnt supportive because they dont ask you how you feel hurts ey cause ii remember how i used to think my mom doesn't care about how ii felt but truth is that its was not easy and only to find out that she also went through rape & she couldnt talk about it.
It feels so lonely and another thing is that uu cant go outside or always be with friends because they would feel pity for me and they cant talk about certain things because they are scared it'll hurt you.
It feels so good talking to someone thats either going through it or healed from it because you guys can comfort each other with the pain. I remember how me and my former best friend used to write each other letters about how we feel every day and update each other how self-harm is going and how good it makes us feel so good.
I always wanted to leave home and start a new life & believed ii would heal and when ii got accepted at PE ii started a new life and im my favourite person now, im happy and im now comfortable with wearing skirts and ii can also date now❤
Eish it's so matured of Mbali to understand her mom's behavior, I wouldn't
Mbali I relate to your story ,I was 13 yrs old in standard 6,the perpetrator did this to several girls at school, he was doing std 8/9 in the same school,some of my classmates were asking silly questions laughing at me.when you talk about the stinking cigarette smell,I also can't stand it triggers that thought of this incident 😔
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢Kodwa senzeni kimi manda ase south Africa 😢😢😢😢😢
Did we not experience all emotions in one episode, super glad the bitter life has become sweet. God is faithful
People are so weird 😮😢!! Imagine shaming someone who killed their rapist?? Hai no mahn!! There’s something wrong with people
Such a painful story, we pray she continues to heal. We also pray for her mom and family to confront the issue and work through it and be healed...
Oh what a testimony, Mbali you are a rock, you are an apple of God's eye indeed, the way He rewrote your script girl!🙏I cried
I know Mbali and no HAMBO lwakhe and till this day I'm really proud of her eyyyyi God narrator of our story
Enkosi Mbali. You removed one thug in this world. Minus one problem.
You helped motivate me to continue with the patent 666. Men will pay for the damage to the planet and the species for faulty admin and dirty activities with young adults. Disgusting. You treat people like tires. That is not what a human is.
This is my favorite christian channel so far 😍😍🤗🤗🤗 Mbali is such a wonderful woman 😭
From Mbali lo bamraper to Mbali weJoyous, God will turn your story around 😢
Wow, I never paused the video, what a story!!! Thanks to The UnChristian Network and Guest "Mbali Lekhuleni" Your Story is Educational to those who don't have similar experiences and healing/giving hope to those who have similar Experiences. Siyabonga
I’m literally balling my eyes out , men are unbelievable Nkosi yam
Woow I listened, cried, celebrated and also saw the glory of the lord through this
Wooooow what a woman. I love how God came through for Mbali at the end...how God restore her name and dignity and how God proved how faithful He is to the apple of His eye...intyatyambo ka Yehova. ❤😊 may the good LORD BLESS YOU MBALI
U have been through a lot and God showed me his other side that when he is silent he is preparing u for bigger things and when he closes your past no one will open it again..U are a strong women the true meaning of imbokodo💕💕
God works in many ways this story might heal a lot of Souls and after all Modimo ke Star😭❤️I pray she continues to heal🥺
Your story brought me close to tears. Looking at you as you speak, I just believe that you deserve all the love and happiness the world has to offer. God bless your soul and your life. This horrific event should be the last to happen to you and your bloodline. Let it never happen again not even to your children and your grandchildren and your great grandchildren and the generations that follow. This is a break of a curse.
My family suffered the same too. I was not raped but I was inappropriately touched as a child and as a toddler, my uncle made me perform oral sex on him. i don't know how I remember, but I remember this. My mom has been open about her experiences, however she has not healed. Speaking to her will not help. I have never told her and I never will because she keeps saying that all the things that happened to her must happen to me. She literally tells me that I will also be raped and abused because it happened to her. I think her honesty has helped me process the lessons that need to be learned. And I thank God everyday that I have also learned to be empathetic and learn from the stories of other women so much that an abusive relationship has never happened to me and if it were to, I would know how to deal with it.
Rape, abuse, violence umkhokha. If it can happen to you, it can happen to your kids. And you can be an abuser/ a rapist/ a murderer, your kids can also become that. That energy needs to be processed and dealt with. It is negative karma. It's a curse. And only when you deal with it, will you see the light and live in warmth.
Mina I have realised that I need to break the curse as well. My children cannot live through and experence what I am experiencing with my mom and what I experienced in my life. As a daughter, that is my duty. I need to work and heal the bloodline of my family in the form of equipping the next generation with the skills and lessons needed to navigate life wisely. What I have realised is, if parents do not thoroughly deal with a problem, the problem will affect their children. You have a gut feeling that your mom experienced the same thing. But this was never processed or spoken about in the family. Your mom had a gut feeling and tried to protect you but what you did not know what the threat and danger was. That curse was never broken. That lesson was not learned and it happened to you. And when it happened to you, you did what many victims wish they could have done, to process the pain and negative energy, to speak up about it and move on. As we speak, being a rape survivor is not your identity as you did not make it one. Unfortunately for some, this ordeal has become an identify for them, a scar, a scar that will turn into a birthmark for their kids and their grandkids. People are going on tours, spending 5, 10, 15 years talking about how they survided rape. You only know them as rape survivors and they have no identity apart from that. Their stories have no justice and their stories have no healing. They just say, "I was raped and I forgave my rapist who never apologised. I won't name them. They are still living but God will sort them out for me". I honestly do not think that is helpful or productive. That does not process or deal with the negative karma and the curse. Rapists and molesters are not objects of forgiveness and grace. An object is a person or thing to which a specified action or feeling is directed. We cannot as a people and a society direct feelings of grace and forgiveness to such people. Such people should be locked up or erased from existence.
But what you are doing now, will certainly help your kids and the next generation. That is what karma is, it's not a case of what goes around comes around. What you did, was to deal with and process the generational curse and karma. And with this, you can be certain that you are now equipped with the skills necessary for you to prevent it from happening to your kids and you will equip your kids with the knowledge needed for prevention.
Congratulations on your marriage🎉 Welcome to motherhood 🍼 I love Joyous celebration for you it partly helped you to heal not forgetting your beautiful husband who loves you regardless.. 🤍❤💓
I am Glad she is happy now, may God continue shining on her.
Kindly consider adding subtitles for the rest of us. Thank You.
Lord, such a sad story. Grateful to God of the woman she is now. Telling her story to heal other women.
New to the channel and I love the content ❤
Mbali I love & respect you more now because of how God showed up in your life!🙌🏽 uthandiwe sisi🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️
So glad I came across this podcast. New subie 😊, I'm so inspired by Mbali God has been your pillar through and through
No words 😭... just tears 🫂. Thank you 🙏🏽
It's not fair that people are viewing this podcast and not liking 💔
Your testimony is powerful, hope restoring testimony.
When we allow God to redeem our story, He shows off. ❤
“Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy. He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy..”
This just gave me hope with my story. I am in process of healing.
Yooo cc you went through so much askies may god keep on giving you strength to be strong woman that you are
God is good,vele you are a Hero. Sometimes you don't have to ask yourself why is this kind of thing happening to you, you might be a breakthrough or a solution to that problem. We thank God for your story 🙏
Soooooo proud of Mbali❤ there are really no words for my proud! #Ruby!
She’s a heroine ❤️🔥
I love it for her🥺❤️🙏 boSis Mbali are a reminder of ubukhona buka Nkulunkulu and His mysterious ways🤞
Please do invite Esethu Siwe some time 😅🤍
Congratulations on your marriage🎉 Welcome to motherhood 🍼I love Joyous celebration for you. It partly helped you to heal not forgetting your beautiful husband who loves you regardless..❤🤍💓
Yoooo 😢💔 the aftermath is the hardest to endure
Such a hero!!!! hope you heal Mbali 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you Mbali this is your ministry
This story 🙆🏿♀️🙆🏿♀️🙆🏿♀️🙆🏿♀️ she is a miracle
Thank you for bringing Mbali❤, and also thank you Mbali for sharing the link to this podcast on your IG , I am now a subscriber....I enjoyed listening to you telling your story without being interrupted
Thank you Bali for sharing. Keep strong.
Mbali is a brave woman
Beautiful story. Amazing testimony. A purpose was found through you. I am revived
Yoh Mbali I know about this story and it was so painful to hear about what happened to you 💔.
What a sad story girl, I put myself in your situation listening to. Society is very cruel I'm glad you got healed if you are really healed. Nxese sisi😢
I love thisb16 year old Mbali and the woman she has become today. I wish all rape victims would end up taking the lives of their perpetrators.....Lord you are God....i thank you for this ladys life thank you Jesus.😢😢😢😢
I love this testimony, I thank God for your healing
God truly is the Healer and Restore of all who seek Him❤ Mbali we thank God for you❤
Hallelujah God wiped your tears Mbali
Mbali, you are so strong cc may God continue giving you strength 🥹🙏
Am literally in tears watching this yhooooo oo
Yo what a rough journey but thanks God.. He took u through
Thank you Sisi Mbali to say this out loud because some of the things I can relate like A not taking about the situation always when I try to talk about it she does want to
I see the Glory of God in this
My God your story touched me sisi Im so sorry this happened to u. I am also a rape survivor iziphindaphinda ke kimi. I was 5 when it happened the 1st time and the last time I think I was in my late 20ties or early 30ties. I cant still cant handle the last 1 namanje coz I blame myself. Kunzima kodwa with time as a person u learn to live with such.
What a beautiful turn around. He changed your name ❤. Continue to heal and stay blessed. Praise the Lord!
When Ndumiso said coz "God can" 😢😢😢I felt that.
Mbali you deserve all the goodness and mercy that the Lord is surely making follow you!! The ending with Joyous Celebration and the public acknowledgement 🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️ Glory!!
Wangihlawulelwa its my Fav song and I sing it at church almost all the time 🥰
This is a God story, really. It happened exactly according to his plan🙏
It can only be God 🙌. What a testimony 👏🙏❤️
Love and light to you Sisi❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
She sang Linamandla in joyous 24 by a good brother of mine Ntuthuko Dlamini y'all should check his music he is a very good musician here in Durban one of the best song writer he wrote the song that baba Mthunzi Namba on Joyous 13 and been writing for them musicians behind the scenes please good people do check his music recently he did the album of Londiwe KaMasondo Cele new music ❤
Kindly put English subtitles. Some of us I getting lost so many times
I agree. We only understand very little. The rest is gerberish
Hey Mbali..i belive U are born for greatness... smthing BIG is in store for U cc.. God is about to show up...aaai ngeke
Im waiting for another testimony of d hidden things that God has for U...
Siyabonga cc for d testimony
Good job to get rid of that monster.
What a sad story ... Heal MBALIS
I'm so sorry for all that happened to you Mbali. I love you so much❤
I think there's a lot of man or boys who have been raped or touched in a wrong way. The hatred men have towards women it is scary. There is an underlying problem we are over looking as society rape cases are increasing, I believe a research needs to be done, we need to find source of this. This is a spiritual battle that needs God qualified psychologist to come together and find healing. This needs God. I am also a victim of of rape, lots of other changes of me being raped but God saved.
You’re so right ma’am. Check out this episode ruclips.net/video/Jg1nNyV_eC4/видео.html
There is a lot of sexual content being spread. The brain works weired. The next thing ucabanga ngesex nonstop, and I think that opens a spiritual gate of sex perversion.
Another thing is that the correct sex application is not taught enough and/or at all. I only found out that sex was spiritual at varsity. Nakhona, a fellow student, was sharing her grandmother's teachings about it.
This podcast is deep. Out of curiosity, why the name UnChristian?
Co-ask
Also curious
Hey thanks for asking. Please see this short video. ruclips.net/video/Eh3BNCfdJN0/видео.html
UNkulunkulu uthatha into edelelekile ayithintithe, ayihlalise namaKhosi🙌what a Faithful God he is 🙌
Wow look at God showing off...inspired in tears
I think they noticed she was drunk but turned a blind eye bcz that was easier than confronting the matter 😢.
Your strong can sound impossible to many because, 😭😭this was God's favour. We thank God for life.
A lot of horrible things that have no business happening are usually part of the December holidays..,my own experience of rape was during those holidays , in a church setting
Iyo 😢😢😢
UThixo mkhulu Mbali... 🙌🏾
Irrelevant question, does anyone know why it’s called The UnChristian network?
Hey thanks for asking. Please see this short video. ruclips.net/video/Eh3BNCfdJN0/видео.html
i have the same question
Our societies are sick. Lord have mercy on us.
God heals and He restores. From negative attention to positive attention.
Baby girl kuzondlula Lena eyanoma ngubani awuyiceli ayithengwa Nami bengizokwenza le oyenzile na lona okhulumayo uzondlula Lapho Nona zingeke zifane qina sisi umuhle uyathandwa yimi ujehova ubenawe namanje
Counselling for me didn't work ...I got that ...I felt that ...I know that 😢😢❤❤...😅😅 Mbali yhooo I also liked fighting with everyone and I felt better mara very angry
True mntase me too I don't cry mara I shift it to laugh about it ......😅😅😅 And yes I was raped for years from the age of 4 to 10 years..by family members and physically abused by my aunt , so I didn't have anyone to report to so it was a norm thing to me ...an everyday thing 😅😅😅 Lols. I would write a book about my life yazi.
Spiritual counseling will do my sister 🤞
@@ramaselaviolet2993not to sound dumb, but what is spiritual counselling?
@@ndouvhuhwavho2058 to be counselled by a pastor referring to scriptures
Omg. Thank you for sharing your story.
Phephisa. This is sad to hear.
God is great. He said, "I know the plan I have for you."
Unkulunkulu muhle njalo ❤🙏 syabonga for sharing yur story Sis Mbali thixo abe nawe njalo
I ❤️cc Mbali restoration from God uyayithatha into ngalutho ayenze into 🙌😘
Shado- bangakubali
It’s beautiful song for your husband Mbali please search and play it for him.
Ok now I'm crying tears of joy😅😅Thixo
Mabali askies wat a painful testimonial God keep giving you strength and love all stay blessed ❤🎉
Hi Mbali thanks for sharing your story my dear❤❤
Why do you call your podcast Unchristian podcast? I am not be rude, i am just curious
Hey thanks for asking. Please see this short video. ruclips.net/video/Eh3BNCfdJN0/видео.html
I didnt hear what happened to the gun?
Did the police do the forensics from the victims and the rapist?
More love and grace upon you ❤
Yooh andisakuthandi weMbali, you are my Shero❤
Well done!
Lama questions ashota yazi i wanted to know were us young Mbali
As isizwe esintsundu kufanele sizifundise ukuthi kufanele kuxoxwe ukuze kungazuba nezimo ezifana nesikaMbali udlule kusona 🙇🏾♀️😔
Wow Mbali. I wish you well sisi.❤
God is great…He is celebrating you. I’m proud of you my home girl❤