*10 Relationship Mistakes to avoid.* 1. Be assertive & dont be a push over. Learn to Say No. 2. Dont be overly jealous. 3. Pay attention to her feelings & listen more. 4. Improve the sex. 5. Continue Your self Development. 6. Build Her Trust in You. (Integrity) 7. Learn about her & be curious. 8. Be More Romantic (Compliments & show effort) 9. Let her know she is important to you. 10. its ok to be vulnerable & intimate. (Dont over do the mushy stuff) SALUTE
One bit of advice. Do not show vulnerability early on. The first 1-3 dates is the evaluation phase and women are coldly assessing you. One thing they are looking for is signs of weakness and if you show vulnerability to early, she will perceive your as weak and unstable. Show vulnerability when you have established a relationship with her but not early on when she is closely watching you.
I can definitely relate Style O.G. family, I found myself focusing on providing solutions instead of listening to my wife. I finally took the time to just listen and it was all she truly needed.
I love it how you're very open about the differences. On some platforms people are going to be like 'there's no difference between men and women. Women don't need men's protection, etc.'
I really appreciate this video!!! It helps men and women understand each other better. You were able to point out mistakes as well as simple corrections. Will listen to it again, take notes, and share!! Thanks so much!!❤
Another tip date a woman with similar interests or open minded to learn your interest. Last thing you need is a person in your life trying to change your ways the ways that make you happy and don't harm others. Like being a gamer, gym rat, car person etc.
Shout out to The Style OG 💪🏾 This list does NOT apply to: •City Girls •Hot Girl Summers •304 phase minded •Thots •⬆️body count •Women moving like men sexually It does apply to: •Marriage oriented women •Marriage purposed women •Marriage driven women •Fit fine feminine friendly cooperative n inspirational women that's marriage minded A woman that knows ultimately she wants to be married shouldn't be running up the body count. Putting unnecessary miles on the vehicle. Sistas don't b Hertz Enterprise n National. Most rent in order to avoid hard miles on their personal vehicle. Guys: #1 is God #2 is your purpose #3 is significant other/wifey Stay on your grind fellas. You'll never lose women chasing money and you always lose money chasing women. The OGs Top 10 applies only to a certain woman not every woman n most certainly NOT the obvious. 🚨A man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder. *God gave Eve to Adam "after" Adam gave a name to each animal 🤔
New subscriber here. Thank you for the content Jeff!! The 4 P's...Provide, protect, profess, and penetrate!! Crying only allowed once every several years, if ever lol!!
Bruh that's the point. if you're operating as a man should with a woman then you can still do whatever you want it's just now you have a partner by your side and sex whenever you want it. 💯 #facts
@@zacharywallace2243 I'm a lady first, and I'm an older woman. The things he's saying I have been experiencing with men lately since my last relationship 3 years ago. I'm already a seasoned woman. I know who I am and what I want. I'm not afraid to love a man, spoil and pamper him, support him and show him respect. I work. I pay bills and for pay for dates. I cook and clean, etc. I'm polite and like to have fun, keep it exciting. I had to learn over the years how to be a better version of myself and mature. It's just hard to meet a man who is comfortable enough and willing to put in the same effort to show his love.
Great topic! I am so glad that everything you touched on I have learned through experience. If I didn’t know these things to be true I would be writing all this down. Keep on putting that work in good Sir. You are helping folks win!!!
Hey everyone, I needed advice. I was talking to a cute girl who happened to have never been in a relationship. We been talking and hit it off for abit. I asked her out for a movie in 2 weeks and she said yes. But she seems to not be showing the same level of interest in me, unlike when we first started talking. Should I bring it up that I feel like we're not vibing anymore or should I just put her on ignore like she's doing to me.
Great video like always OG. Question. Is the Roman issue legit? Alot of the links on RUclips be some BS . Im not trying to put my card number on there and end up deactivating it ordering a new one because of some bull. Just wanna make sure its Gucci know what I mean boss💯💪🏾
Also…..listen to what she says always but pay more attention to what she does. Her actions must be congruent with her words as well as vice versa. You must always measure her level of attraction based by what she does…. Not always based on what she says. Remember actions always speak louder than words. Women are emotional creatures and men who understand a woman’s mind won’t argue with women but also wouldn’t be a doormat either and could easily weather her emotional storm by staying centered, unperturbed and by knowing how to ask quality questions to get her to open up when that storm gets bad. Be her rock. When a woman feels heard and understood, the legs open up. When she doesn’t the legs close….literally and figuratively. Just my 2 cents.
@@TheStyleOG when consulting people I ask that they take it a step further and actually write 10 (no more or less) ways that they want to be shown love. I further explain that it alleviates unmet expectations and codifies in their own minds what they actually want from a partner, thus providing a win win scenario. PS I just found your channel and greatly appreciate you; blessings to you brother!
A relationship men make is while complimenting it’s all about appearance! Women are more than bodies! Women are sexual creatures too sometimes even more than men yet if a man starts off and focuses only on sex or she gets that impression then there is trouble. If a guy says he bought you something or a few things and all related to the bedroom once again a women can’t help but question a man’s motives - are the gifts for and about her or for the sexual gratification that of course may enjoy but you have made the gift about you and sex not about love A woman when it comes to relationship and sex doesn’t just ‘do it’ but woman are emotional creatures and feelings, want the romance, to be feel loved and shown and lots of foreplay slowly and making it about her not you and ask her what she wants - she may want to get into it slowly and just be kissing and caressed and slowly turned on and then once she is she will be ready and able to satisfy you as much as you satisfy her and more and be open to other things but not when you make being with her all about sex and where you expect sex at some point and more during the time you spend with her and not give her choice or let her decide. Alpha males, like to lead, and women don’t mind that until they are feeling or being controlled, and told, and all planned out without choice. When the alpha male is happy and asks for her thoughts or she offers a suggestion the alpha will dismiss and have things his way regardless.
NUMBER ONE CHALLENGE OF OLDER HIGH ACHIEVER MEN: FINDING ( EVEN SEEING !!!) A QUALIFIED , SUITABLE WOMAN FOR A RELATIONSHIP: I so rarely EVEN SEE... a woman that is over 48 that is single, available, and attractive...SO, all these video's are GREAT, ( AND SPOT ON !) ....but of little use , at least for me in northern CA.
Felicidades, es un buen ejemplo. 304 sentadillas son unos X18TINDER.Uno muchas y un buen ejercicio. Se deja ver que hay muy buenos resultados 😍👍 Saludos desde la Cd.. de world 🌹😉💖 los mortalesy abian apreciado tan hermosa mujer.k
*10 Relationship Mistakes to avoid.*
1. Be assertive & dont be a push over. Learn to Say No.
2. Dont be overly jealous.
3. Pay attention to her feelings & listen more.
4. Improve the sex.
5. Continue Your self Development.
6. Build Her Trust in You. (Integrity)
7. Learn about her & be curious.
8. Be More Romantic (Compliments & show effort)
9. Let her know she is important to you.
10. its ok to be vulnerable & intimate. (Dont over do the mushy stuff)
SALUTE
I was a push over in my marriage. I feel she definitely lost respect for me. It eventually led to divorce. Stand your ground fellas, it’s worth it.
Tell em!
She failed you bru..not all your fault.
@@zacharywallace2243 I believe that too. Glad I went through that though, it taught me what I know and implement now.
One bit of advice. Do not show vulnerability early on.
The first 1-3 dates is the evaluation phase and women are coldly assessing you. One thing they are looking for is signs of weakness and if you show vulnerability to early, she will perceive your as weak and unstable.
Show vulnerability when you have established a relationship with her but not early on when she is closely watching you.
This is a great channel.Real sophisticated dude.
Appreciate it!
Thanks O.G.!! I only wish I heard this info in my younger days and with just as great a clarity in your delivery. Thanks again Style O.G.
Really great advice for all of us. Keep up the good work. Salute!!!
Style OG salute we need more conversations like this 💯
Good information, men and women have to be aware of their insecurities. That often times kills relationships.
Indeed!
I can definitely relate Style O.G. family, I found myself focusing on providing solutions instead of listening to my wife. I finally took the time to just listen and it was all she truly needed.
Well said!
The irony of this popping up, after I just broke up with my woman
Word 😂
Me after asking a girl out for a date
Keep growing and progressing king
Did any of these points hit home?
Same lmaooo
I love it how you're very open about the differences. On some platforms people are going to be like 'there's no difference between men and women. Women don't need men's protection, etc.'
there is a difference !
Hey Jeff, thanks for this great video. I have made several of these mistakes but I always am working on improving my relationship with my wife.
Me and mine broke up. And are talking now trying to figure it out!! Thanks OG. I NEEDED THIS
No problem!
Aye bro, she’s not yours! She’s her own individual! You called her “mine” but she’s her own self bro
Great tips 🙌🏼
This is an incredibly informative straight to the point video. It's 98% of what's talked about in the manosphere all in one video. wow. amazing ‼️
I really appreciate this video!!! It helps men and women understand each other better. You were able to point out mistakes as well as simple corrections. Will listen to it again, take notes, and share!!
Thanks so much!!❤
No problem Laura !
Excellent info!!!
Thanks !
This is great life advice.
Thanks Frederick!
Another tip date a woman with similar interests or open minded to learn your interest. Last thing you need is a person in your life trying to change your ways the ways that make you happy and don't harm others. Like being a gamer, gym rat, car person etc.
Shout out to The Style OG 💪🏾
This list does NOT apply to:
•City Girls
•Hot Girl Summers
•304 phase minded
•Thots
•⬆️body count
•Women moving like men sexually
It does apply to:
•Marriage oriented women
•Marriage purposed women
•Marriage driven women
•Fit fine feminine friendly cooperative n inspirational women that's marriage minded
A woman that knows ultimately she wants to be married shouldn't be running up the body count. Putting unnecessary miles on the vehicle. Sistas don't b Hertz Enterprise n National. Most rent in order to avoid hard miles on their personal vehicle.
Guys:
#1 is God
#2 is your purpose
#3 is significant other/wifey
Stay on your grind fellas.
You'll never lose women chasing money and you always lose money chasing women.
The OGs Top 10 applies only to a certain woman not every woman n most certainly NOT the obvious.
🚨A man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder.
*God gave Eve to Adam "after" Adam gave a name to each animal 🤔
The hell.
on point! 💯💯💯
Emotion don’t add no fun. Going through life feeling a certain way about everything is nerve wrecking.
Thank you O.G Gems for life .
no problem!!
Thank you Jeff as for the hard true facts we as guys tend to think about it as not that important thus it is crucial to keep relationships thriving
Great jacket
Thanks Rusty!
New subscriber here. Thank you for the content Jeff!! The 4 P's...Provide, protect, profess, and penetrate!! Crying only allowed once every several years, if ever lol!!
Much love and respect for another great video. Thanks again Jeff. Salute.
Just passing thur what’s up big brotha great AdviceI appreciate the information✍️
Whats-up Jeff? Still doing your thang!!! Good to see you're still improving!!!! Well!!!!!!!
Salute !
This is very helpful information
best tips thanks a lot man
No problem!
sometimes the mistake is in oneself If you don't have peace towards yourself you won't be able to handle any relationship.
It's nice being single. I do what I want everyday.
Bru..I know right! A relationship is an Whole nother Job!🤫🤣
Bruh that's the point. if you're operating as a man should with a woman then you can still do whatever you want it's just now you have a partner by your side and sex whenever you want it. 💯 #facts
Hi Jeff, would you ever make a video about friendships with your your buddies? Thanks in advance
Great points Jeff.
Thanks Anthony!
Good advices thank you so much!!!
Good list bro 💪👊
Appreciate it!
This was good information to pass on to my boys
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thank you! You too!
You welcome keep up the good work and thank you very much
Salute Mr Style OG, I miss the background music you had.
Salute !
Great words brother 1❤💪🏽✌🏾💯
Great content! Keep it up!
Thanks Daniel !
You, Sir, are approaching the Antonio Centeno level of segue!
Waiting on the spring/ summer style video
Soon come !
Good to see man
Thanks Grayson!
Salute brother
Salute Nana!
Nailed it. Those are the most important mistakes…
So what do we have in return 🤔
@@zacharywallace2243 I'm a lady first, and I'm an older woman. The things he's saying I have been experiencing with men lately since my last relationship 3 years ago. I'm already a seasoned woman. I know who I am and what I want. I'm not afraid to love a man, spoil and pamper him, support him and show him respect. I work. I pay bills and for pay for dates. I cook and clean, etc. I'm polite and like to have fun, keep it exciting. I had to learn over the years how to be a better version of myself and mature. It's just hard to meet a man who is comfortable enough and willing to put in the same effort to show his love.
Great video Jeff.
Thanks Chris !
Great video Brother👍👍👍👍
Thanks Lamonte !
Great content
Can you make a video on how to enjoy your time at a bar/club and how to choose a car when you start making decent money
One of the best relationship videos I have watched in this year. Thanks O.G.
No problem!
Needed to hear this today. Came at the right time
Happy to help!
Great topic! I am so glad that everything you touched on I have learned through experience. If I didn’t know these things to be true I would be writing all this down. Keep on putting that work in good Sir. You are helping folks win!!!
My man !
Style OG , peace playa
Agree 💯👏👏👏👏👏
Peace!
Salute💪🏾
Salute George!
To late for me
Thanks OG
No problem!
Hey everyone,
I needed advice. I was talking to a cute girl who happened to have never been in a relationship. We been talking and hit it off for abit. I asked her out for a movie in 2 weeks and she said yes. But she seems to not be showing the same level of interest in me, unlike when we first started talking. Should I bring it up that I feel like we're not vibing anymore or should I just put her on ignore like she's doing to me.
Someone else has her attention at the moment.
Move on my guy.
There's many more out there.
Great video like always OG. Question. Is the Roman issue legit? Alot of the links on RUclips be some BS . Im not trying to put my card number on there and end up deactivating it ordering a new one because of some bull. Just wanna make sure its Gucci know what I mean boss💯💪🏾
I wonder if he uses it.
Legit if I promote something
@@TheStyleOG not doubting you OG just double checking. Salute 💯💪🏾
Also…..listen to what she says always but pay more attention to what she does. Her actions must be congruent with her words as well as vice versa. You must always measure her level of attraction based by what she does…. Not always based on what she says. Remember actions always speak louder than words. Women are emotional creatures and men who understand a woman’s mind won’t argue with women but also wouldn’t be a doormat either and could easily weather her emotional storm by staying centered, unperturbed and by knowing how to ask quality questions to get her to open up when that storm gets bad. Be her rock. When a woman feels heard and understood, the legs open up. When she doesn’t the legs close….literally and figuratively. Just my 2 cents.
You nailed it on the wall, and you are right on point like always O.G. salute salute
Salute Clifton !
The 5 Love Languages is your best friend
agreed!
@@TheStyleOG when consulting people I ask that they take it a step further and actually write 10 (no more or less) ways that they want to be shown love. I further explain that it alleviates unmet expectations and codifies in their own minds what they actually want from a partner, thus providing a win win scenario. PS I just found your channel and greatly appreciate you; blessings to you brother!
Bring back the soft music OG while your talking.
will do!
@@TheStyleOG I appreciate it O.G! Your work is fantastic keep the videos rolling…
A relationship men make is while complimenting it’s all about appearance!
Women are more than bodies!
Women are sexual creatures too sometimes even more than men yet if a man starts off and focuses only on sex or she gets that impression then there is trouble.
If a guy says he bought you something or a few things and all related to the bedroom once again a women can’t help but question a man’s motives - are the gifts for and about her or for the sexual gratification that of course may enjoy but you have made the gift about you and sex not about love
A woman when it comes to relationship and sex doesn’t just ‘do it’ but woman are emotional creatures and feelings, want the romance, to be feel loved and shown and lots of foreplay slowly and making it about her not you and ask her what she wants - she may want to get into it slowly and just be kissing and caressed and slowly turned on and then once she is she will be ready and able to satisfy you as much as you satisfy her and more and be open to other things but not when you make being with her all about sex and where you expect sex at some point and more during the time you spend with her and not give her choice or let her decide.
Alpha males, like to lead, and women don’t mind that until they are feeling or being controlled, and told, and all planned out without choice. When the alpha male is happy and asks for her thoughts or she offers a suggestion the alpha will dismiss and have things his way regardless.
NUMBER ONE CHALLENGE OF OLDER HIGH ACHIEVER MEN: FINDING ( EVEN SEEING !!!) A QUALIFIED , SUITABLE WOMAN FOR A RELATIONSHIP:
I so rarely EVEN SEE... a woman that is over 48 that is single, available, and attractive...SO, all these video's are GREAT, ( AND SPOT ON !) ....but of little use , at least for me in northern CA.
Are there any men under 35 on this channel?
I'm one of the few lady subscribers but starting to think only older men are on this channel.
Why is your face 3 diff colors ?
Hi Jeff, have you lost some weight? Or is it an optical illusion as a result of the monochrome navy look?
Optical illusion! Lol
🐐
Salute Vasia!
👊🏽
Salute !
. / I will . ; , . ,,
Bru...do you have ED?
Don't date a girl or woman with a kid or kids ...remember she will never be yours
Felicidades, es un buen ejemplo. 304 sentadillas son unos X18TINDER.Uno muchas y un buen ejercicio. Se deja ver que hay muy buenos resultados 😍👍 Saludos desde la Cd.. de world 🌹😉💖 los mortalesy abian apreciado tan hermosa mujer.k
First 😄
Squad!
I need to hear what a lady gotta say bout u respect 🫡
Great video👍🏻❤️