The Worst Motivational Speaker In The World | Hot Seat w/ David Shands Ep. 51
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024
- In this video, David Shands has a blunt but heartfelt conversation with up-and-coming entrepreneur Solamon Richardson. Solamon is the owner of a clothing line called Grind N Silence Apparel. He struggles with selling his apparel and talking to people due to his timid and shy nature. David gives him advise on how to come out of his shell and build his business.
Solamon Richardson on IG: / godfirst.rashad
Subscribe to the Social Proof Podcast:
Apply to be on the HOT SEAT: hotseatsp.com/...
Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple....
Spotify: open.spotify.c....
** Grab the Podcast EBOOK👇🏾 **
www.podcasteboo...
GO SUBSCRIBE to The Brain Picker Podcast on All Streaming Platforms!!
David on IG : / sleepis4suckers
NOTE: I am a Brand Ambassador and affiliate for certain businesses, products and services that I believe in. I may have referenced these and included links in this video, description or someplace else at this site. I hope you find the resources helpful.
Copyright, Liability Waiver and Disclaimers. All rights reserved.
No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, except as permitted under the United States Copyright Act, and/or without the prior express written permission of David Shands, LLC, The Real Social Proof, LLC and/or David Shands.
Limit of Liability/Disclaimer of Warranty: While all persons associated directly or indirectly with this site and video use their best efforts in preparing the content, there is no express or implied representations or warranty with respect to the accuracy or completeness of the content of the videos, including any content, links or resources shared, including those by third parties. Furthermore, all parties specifically disclaim any and all express or implied warranties of merchantability or fitness for a particular purpose.
The advice and strategies contained herein may not be suitable for your situation. No legal or investment advice is being given herein. You should consult with a professional where appropriate and before any action is taken on this video. No liability or damages shall take place because of this video and/or content. Furthermore, your use of this site and watching these videos confirms your agreement that Georgia or Delaware law applies to all disputes relating to this site and videos and, venue for all claims and disputes relating to this site and videos shall be in Atlanta, Ga.
The information provided at this web site and all related platforms, services, newsletters, blogs, emails, messages, audios, videos, and all other traditional and digital communications, and social media platforms including, but not limited to Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, Instagram, Snapchat, Instagram, RUclips, TikTok, Pinterest, blockchain related including cryptocurrency, non-fungible tokens (NFTs), other blockchain projects, synthetic media, and all others, IS NOT LEGAL, FINANCIAL, INVESTMENT OR BUSINESS ADVICE.
This makes me want to take a look in the mirror and have an HONEST look at myself... give myself some reality checks... and start moving clearly according to the honest truth.
Immediately felt compassion for his nervousness & not wanting to mess up. Perfection is a disease
This was good …I overcame fear of public speaking by practicing and recording myself. If you know your subject material then you can speak better in it, I was told… and I learned to do so even when heckled (a woman of color in a predominantly male, white field back in the day). I wish someone had spoken some of your words of advice to me when I was young. The people around me were not very encouraging; so I learned from books. I went from journalism (interviewing people and writing) to public relations work (writing and selling a message). I had to speak it in front of large crowds, on the radio, and in meetings. Then I completed a Toastmaster speed course (two weeks) which helped me learn more types of speeches and gain more confidence. When I published my first book of poetry, many years later, I could sell a book anywhere I went… however I became nervous on stage again, because I had never done live poetry readings… my book was very personal and I was not sure how people would react. I overcame that fear by just doing it badly (soft spoken) until I got over the fear of people possibly judging me for what I wrote. All the while I also pushed myself vocally everywhere else… sang in the church worship band (harmonizing with the band leader - no more hiding behind a church choir). I acted in local plays, (solo parts - no more hiding as a group singer or dancer or “extra.”) It helped me project and emote better and to connect with the hearers. I got paid ZERO dollars for all of it. However, what I learned was priceless. No book can replace real life experience.
I’m always my worst critic, and people hear and see me and think I’m the most confident... The only insecurities I have now only come from wanting to be better (not from thinking I’m less than). I am only competing with myself. It takes practice to get experience, and it takes courage to face our fears and do it scared. Then we help others face theirs just by our own example, and that makes it all worth it even more.
What you did during this episode was help a young man to build the skills he needs. So often I heard “fake it till you make it” when I was younger. But you can’t fake it, because then you become an imposter. Imposter syndrome aka False Prophet syndrome can cause a person to become an addict or succumb into depression. You saved this young man’s life. He has a chance to become who he is really meant to be. The key for him is to be authentic in his pursuit of excellence with courage. He will keep growing and become bold for what he believes.
Thanks for this Awesome episode tonight. May God bless your work and the lives you and your team touch for good.
I know I wrote a book here… whelp, I Am a Writer. 😆 But let me say this… I hit the like and subscribe buttons because of this episode right here, tonight. I had been watching your show’s IG clips for a few months and clicked on something that required an email, and your team sent a link to this episode. I almost didn’t watch because of the words “false prophet.” But once I heard how you defined it, I understood… the imposter syndrome can really set a person back from fulfilling their true purpose in life. I’m so glad I watched and listened. Thank you for taking time and having the kindness to share wisdom and speak life into this young man.
❤
This is just what you teach us…… know your brand…. know your what and why….
A needed solution for individuals to improve their inner development
I work in the museum field so not an entrepreneur, but I absolutely love these hot seats. The lessons I learn from watching them apply to so many facets of life. As someone who had to push myself out of my comfort zone as a natural introvert, this was a great episode!
I love this episode! It’s all respect ! I even learned something and self evaluate . I believe a lot of the younger generation like myself need more mentors like you.
Wow!! Thank You
Always respect small. The only things a human needs to fear in achieving goals is inconsistency. If you stay consistent, you will make it.
I love everything about this! New subscriber here!
🔥 episode!! My favorite indirect mentor, appreciate you good brother
Thank You for coming through
A REAL BIG BRO CONVERSATION!!!
It was too painful to watch…but I did hit the like button. 😊
Thanks
His laughter was gut wrenching
This was one of the funniest episodes
But I must say Shands you have a heart of gold.
Ouuuh! I have had that book for almost 2 years now & couldn’t bring myself to start it looks like this was my final push to start after I finish what I’m reading now
I appreciate this conversation!!
I like this guy. He seems like a good person. He is definitely super shy but came on the hot seat. I'm not shy at all and I'm not sure if I would come on the hot seat. Once he does build his confidence and tap into his own originality I think he would do great. I loved this episode
WAIT! 😅 He said Imma pick a video where your face is scrunched up & then later proceeds to show his feed at 17:43 with plenty to choose from & chooses the perfect one! When I tell you I am in TEARS rn
You said a real great reflection of speech about how you see yourself scars need bandages t weak prress
I think what’s giving him pause on the post interview is the aftermath of the realization that he’s not who he has seen himself to be. It’s like you can physically see him processing thoughts & questioning himself on his answers. He cares about being right and how he sounds. He just had his world/identity shook up & is trying to process the questions & articulate his answer in a way that doesn’t make him look like a fool while still recovering from the hard lessons he just learned. That’s my take at least.
Lol, I felt your frustration. Very NPC vibes from this guy and he expects people to believe in his message.
LMFAO @ NPC vibes
Omg I would like to hear one of his motivational talks! He is way too nervous! Great job easing him into his potential
Go to his IG page
The sign that shows you are his people team talk
This was really good actually. At first it was hard to watch .
lol
Lol the message is Always for you first! Lol
Ok thanks pastor, I started because I feel i was pushed to do hair in high school through my mom and friends. Lol oh you wasn't talking to me
Cheering for Soloman!!
😢😢😢 I guess he was brave and bold enough to make the decision to be on the Hot Seat. He didn't think about what would be required of him once he is on the show though.
Good Efforts.
Best of luck Solomon!
He needed a term like fashion himself
I’ll give the young King credit for bringing his vision from his mind to reality. I like the hoodie and the hat. But you go it alone, get a mentor that can help. He should join Toastmasters International to sharpen his public speaking skills.
the question I would ask is why the brand name (Grind in silence) Something in his heart and mind told him to name his brand this so why? That would help him rethink the moment he chose the brand name. His confidence is low because he does not know about entrepreneurship.
💯💯💯💯
Ok u got my attention
I believe if he goes in front of the high school he should have a success story because he's not successful so if he's not successful he's not going to have a clear speech
16m in whoa!!!
😯🙂
❣️ I'm going to get me a job at the mall
Done
😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 like brand Siiilence
Why David wearing that tag on dat hat?
I can describe the phrase (which he obviously stole) means more than he can.
That was 1 shirt for the price of 5
His motive of ambitious communication is weak he was lit to begin thinking creatively in a entrepreneur class but he has the bar to create
I believe you offered free technology a better start and a chance so if he requested.....
23:32
Was he not being bold by coming on this platform?
No sales is diabolical 😅
🥲why do u feel this
I believe he doesn't understand the business process.
he maybe should get someone else to be the voice of the brand
His pitch is terrible