There Is NO REWARD For Being A Good Traditional Woman | Reacting To
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- Опубликовано: 30 июл 2024
- Today, I'll be reacting to 2 clips from @sadiapsychology about traditional women in society and I'll provide my insights on the topic. Let me know what you think down in the comments below!
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The way I am I thought I'll be alone forever, then saw online that many men are actually looking for modest traditional women and it gave me hope.
Not long after, I found my very masculine, loving, caring, pretious husband who appreciates me and loves me for who I am, and he also was ready to be alone if it meant not finding a woman with true values. Finding that one person is enough appreciation we need and a W for us! ❤
So happy for you two!! God bless the both of you on your amazing journey 💖💖💖
Pleasure vs. Fulfillment. Those are the two different types of happiness that people need to choose between. Somehow modern society has put pleasure over fulfillment and everybody is suffering for it.
Fact. It's liberalism.
I know what you mean to say, but people who are sexually promiscuous experience less of both, most sexually satisfied couples actually waited for marriage, not because of comparison, but because of stronger pairbonding, which sociosexual unrestricted individuals are mostly incapable of in their brain, so they resort to choosing variety, making bodycount an accurate predictor of marriage dissolution.
Simps, feminists, and social media have ruined it for those who are really intentional with wanting something meaningful. I don't watch these podcasts cause it's tye same talking points that are nothing more than passing contests, no one listening, and same type of men and women, different faces.
Traditional minded women are not easy to find. But at the same time, it has forced me to level up in the way I didn't think possible.
Rarely in life do you find that the right path is the easy one. Good choices are nearly always the things you have to work hard for.
@@Austenfan177 is that actually the case, or is that just what Hollywood likes to portray as being the norm because it makes for good story telling? I think that is something we like to tell ourselves as women to justify choices that we make that we know will not be fulfilling in the long-term.
@@Austenfan177 you based all of that on assumptions you made from watching Mad Men. I rest my case.
@@Austenfan177 sorry, but your anecdotal assumptions simply don't seem to line up with statistics or even my own observations in life. The meteoric rise in divorce in the US coincides with the establishment of no-fault divorce, not in claims of infidelity which has always been grounds for divorce.
Happy for you
Podcasters: "We will teach you to get a good woman. Now lets talk to promiscuious women for hours upon hours."
fresh and fit mofos
Yaaa...hypocrites
Foolish men want foolish women.
That's justice 😁
They truly deserve each other 🤦🏿♂️
@@jasonBGI Yep. And even when one of them inevitably wakes up, it'll be harder/impossible for them to find someone.
No. It's the reverse of that. Foolish women want foolish men. Here's why. Women have control over the dynamics because women raise the boys that turn into the foolish men. Most boys are raised in single mother homes. Yes the father should be there but, even if he isn't there, can mothers raise just as good or better boys/girls than men? Statistically... the answer is no. Children (boys in particular) end up in jail, on the street, not finishing school ect. if only their mother raised them. The stats do a complete 180° for single dads.
Also, all things learned as a child comes from women at every stage of a humans upbringing i.e. nurses when you're born, then mothers for about 3 years for bonding and breastfeeding, then female day care providers, then female teachers at preschool, then female teachers at kindergarten, then female teachers from 1-6 grade elementary, then female teachers in JHS from 7-8, then female teachers high school. Only in college does this change where there are a leveled amount of male teachers to female teachers. The school system is DOMINANT by female teachers and has been that way for over 100 years. Let's not talk about the power and control the courts and laws gives women over men regarding children.
We all know Hitler had a system where he would indicate children from ages 1-7 because those are the most pivotal years in a person's becoming and what their personality/intelligence would be etc.
I say allll of that to say that it is women, NOT men/boys that have to control over what women AND what men do. If men are picking the wrong women then who taught them what to look for and not look for? Their mothers. Either by weak teachings that don't truly implicate and denounce the sexual ways of the modern woman's actions because women stick together (no accountability as you like to say), by allowing public school and tv to raise and teach your children about sex and relationships, or by proxy or example and just watching how all/most of the women act.
Have you ever heard the saying "No nation/child can get any further than it's women/mother. That saying rings true just because of every I've stated thus far.
So, it's not men picking promiscuous women, it's about mother's dropping the ball and also being promiscuous women and raising boys/girls without true value of what a good woman/man is.
Sidebar: Men aren't in the homes as fathers to the bastard children they have due to women's promiscuity, lust and cheating. Ponder on that one real quick.😉 God is a jealous God so "she" kicks the man out because how dare he cheat with a woman that dresses in public the same way she does. 🤦🏽♂️ I hope that doesn't go over too many heads.
Furthermore, the woman speaking in this video leaving or discrediting the sentiments of the manosphere just because she sees a lot of men indulging in those types of women is her running from accountability and women's accountability as a whole. I say that because she didn't go this deep, as I just did hear, before she put the blame on men for how women act.
If I've stated ANYTHING that isn't reasonably true, please someone comment back so you could enlighten me.
Which came 1st? The chicken or the egg? 😉
And the other way around.
Takes 2 - 2 tango. And together they create hell.
There’s no reward for being traditional, you’re right. But as for good? Being a good person is it’s own reward.
I wish .. I haven't seen it yet. Seems the better one is, the more you get used and abused...
The lack of consequence from not being traditional is it's own reward for being traditional.
Social media has enabled young women to monetize their attractiveness at the cost of delaying their search for desirable mates. When and if they realize the path they are on it maybe harder to pair up because the pool of eligible bachelors is that much smaller and the competition from younger women is that much more intense. It is really tragic.
They go there O.F. because their values and principles are heavily compromised. Not because this or that is monetised. That's a super lame explanation/excuse.
Having a career delays if not stops pair bonding.
Many women don't "delay" their search for a good man, they just find it hard to find one because social media and modern ways of living have contaminated (so to speak) the minds of young men just as much as the minds of young women.
Also has enable modern men to have these women,enjoy casual night stands. While becoming more undesirable for modest women. These men learn the hard way,become bitter redpillers and ask "where did all the good women go". Well,they went very far from them.
There is a portion of men who have no opportunities with women, no dates, no women to talk to and interact with at all. This is due to social media and what social media pushes. These are the men spending money on these women doing corn and OF and such. Not the good men who say they want good women with good values. (though I would imagine some of those men do partake in this nonsense.) Social media has created portion of men that are invisible to women completely. These men are the ones watching these podcasts looking for a way out and these women are praying on them to make money. Corn and OF is predatory in a way these days. Preying on lonely men starved of touch and attention completely. I don't like any pics on IG or anywhere. I have never been n OF and don't watch corn. there are men like me. There are also men who have no women around, no options at all and are starved for some attention, or something resembling it. Social Media is pushing all of these and has created many of the issues with dating.
reason why i dont watch any of these redundant podcasts anymore, they complain about these women but still watch them and glorify them lmao
Most RUclipsrs preach that they seek women of character - yet, they live their lives making more and more wh"res.
Yes ma'am. Traditional women have hobbies and men might be surprised to find them when they just go about pursuing their own passions.
Do they? That's interesting; I thought the whole concept of traditional women involved staying inside, cooking, cleaning, and being prepared to have all the babies she and her future husband could stand 🤔 good to know though
@@macxavier168 Hard to stay inside when the garden is outside 😉💚
@cadetcourtney you probably don't live in Texas then 😂
@@macxavier168 Yeah that heat wave is brutal. Muscadines still grow well in Texas though, don't they? 🍇
@@cadetcourtney I have no idea; I've only been here for a year. The temp is triple digits right now though, has been all summer
My whole life I wanted to "Take care of a women". My definition of taking care of a woman was providing her a secure home, maintaining a career, and saving for future needs like retirement and education. Modern women place no value on planning for the future.
I actually agree with you. Mennare feeding this addiction, this promiscuity and women exploit it. Now we are here.
This is the equivalent to scammers and drug dealers getting more attention from women than guys working a traditional 9 to 5. Is that type of attention worth the consequences that come along with it? It's just that simple.
That's exactly the point! 👊👊👏👏
If you looking to find a mate... Why is it always at a club🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ join a hiking group... Pottery group etc. It's crazy when people always assume clubs is where people only meet. There are decent men out there.
It’s crazy
Going to a club to find a mate is like going to a landfill to find furniture.
A pottery club? Lmao give me a break
@@robertg420 Shes right though.
@@zereimu I don't disagree with the principle, old fashioned people (probably all of us here let's be honest) aren't looking to meet each other through Instagram or nightclubs or dating apps and would prefer organic interactions in real life.
Definitely facts there. You can't preach about said values and promote the opposition by supporting them. Its ridiculous. At the end of the day both sides need to do better.
Short term reward (clubbing every weekend) vs long term reward (normal long term relationship).
Either path has rewards and sacrifices associated with it, the question is what reward do you want and what are you willing to pay for it? A woman can be promiscuous and get the rewards of that, but those rewards don't last, and the cost is something she will pay all her life. At first the scales tip to all reward with no cost, but it swings the other way in time and can't be turned back. If she wants family, connection, lasting relationships, then she has to sacrifice the superficial, temporary rewards of being promiscuous but in time she will have a lasting reward that will bring her joy and companionship to the end of the life. Same for men.
You are a true traditional women who knows how to take care of a man in your life. You have your head on straight and you "get it". Men don't really need much but when you take away something that is like a lifeblood to him ( intimacy ) he might as well stay single. Good on yah Rebecca!!👍
It's pretty much the same with those vvomen. Those guys say different things, they want different things. They become the thing they have criticized.
They aren’t getting flown out. They flewd out. 💯🤦🏽♀️. I thank you for this video.
It may be that the men who support the women on onlyfans, etc., are not the same ones who AREN'T looking for that type of women.
As A man I have to agree on the 2nd clip. we men can't keep telling women to be accountable but we created the environment for promiscuous women in the 1st place.
Pleasure vs. Fulfillment. Short Term vs Long Term, Sugar Rush vs Protein.
Yes, Traditional Women are the long term ROI. One needs to look long term NOT short term.
Eat to many donuts, cookies, pastries you will get fat, dump, depressed, always hungry and unfulfilled.
Eat Protein & vegetables and you will sustain your life with LONG term fulfillment & Happiness will come your way. Think Long term NOT short term.
Chads and Simps are the ones that “don’t reward traditional women”.
I love traditional and modest women. I always want to encourage it as much as possible when I see it. I know it’s very tempting for girls to be another 304. I love when I see a confident lady doing something different!
I have felt this way for a long time. Say one thing and do another. It's why nothing changes.
I'm always a bit skeptical when I hear men talk about how women use social media for male attention, not because we don't, but because the reason I started acting like a provocative bimbo was because I saw who my boyfriend followed, liked, and commented on, and I thought that was who I had to be in order to win his attention. Frankly, it became too embarrassing and too much of a contrast with my actual personality to maintain, but it wasn't until I started watching manosphere videos that I realized there were men who didn't want that.
I think most men just want an attractive woman that treats them with kindness, respect, and appreciation.
Most men aren't going for the "traditional" woman because the true traditional woman will wait until marriage to have sex. They want the 304 that they can change into a traditional woman. I agree with Sadia, traditional women wouldn't get "seen" because men are predominantly visual, and we don't want boring. We want spice 🌶
Spot on 👌
Well what about traditional hard working men working a regular 9-5 job
they aren't "seen" .? In fact are invisible to modern women !
Most modern women only want and "see" , loaded HVM , regular guys , who are
they ? A bunch of broke losers in modern womens' eyes !
Factsssss 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Too much spice leads to heartburn/heartache
Nahhhhh, got to disagree, this so called contradiction has existed for thousands of years and we have ancient texts to prove it eg Salomes dance for Herod. Mother Nature has programmed men to be visual because in the animal kingdom the man wants to procreate with the best genes, Women, in the animal kingdom want to look the best to attract the best provider, the best mate to care for them and her offspring. Men still want traditional but get waylaid with the utter abundance created by social media, sort of over stimulation, until they find their mate.
🗣🗣🗣 preach rebecca!! ive been waiting for this one! too many “trad” men will be calling women out on their promiscuous behaviour while simultaneously consuming those same women’s content. i’m tired of it. it’s lame and hypocritical. if you want a good wife then be a good man (vice versa) but it’s in particular the men that complain about porn and online 304s that also watch/follow them. do they really think a woman who values her body and sexuality wants a man who’s addicted to satiating his lust? its degrading to himself, his wife, and the women he views as objects.
Yes!!!😊
Like most women you can't understand when men want to just smash and
when they want a serious wife material relationship.
What type of woman men want to smash is ENTIRELY different to the woman
men want to be their wife and mother of their children and bring home to mom
and dad , ENTIRELY different !
@@gregorygant4242 because you say one thing and do another? I mean i cannsee why itd be confusing.
@@gregorygant4242 or you could just bring your desires to God because yk, sex is pretty important in marriage and you should want to have it with your spouse. at least, if sexuality is ordered properly one should want that.
@@gregorygant4242you cant have the cake and eat it too. The world does nt work that way and modest women wont put up with that rubbish.
I like how everything you just say it makes so much sense, and it’s obvious. 👌🏿😎🌴🌙 Yes, it is important to be real to you self, make sure your words match your actions, and live in reality. . .not social media matrix.
Spot on! Great content.
I love her perspective. She comes from the Muslim community. My community its great to see the demand for more class from both sides
you called that muslim, just because she called herself pakistan. she herself is not tradition she is virgin, she's just talk to talk
@@WhoData5816 People like you with no positive outlook exhaust me 🤦🏿
@@WhoData5816
Agreed
That doesn't change it anyway.
The manosphere addresses issues that I've encountered irl so I do rock with the black manosphere, specifically. At the same time, I find value in your content. So I'm here as long as I'm welcomed.
I enjoy the black menosphere but unfortunately I’m not welcomed it seems.
Was waiting for you to react to this because this Sadia lady while she does diagnose the problem, living in Dubai has clouded her perspective such that on every podcast I've seen her, the solutions she gives are so wrong I have to wonder how big her blindside is
I haven’t seen much of her content. What kind of solutions does she offer?
Congratulations, on your new family member. I adopted a very sweet Pittie. He suffers from seizures on a monthly basis and his medicine is very expensive but he is the sweetest dog.
This all is such a big city thing. I live in Suburban Nebraska and I know 0 people who've been to dubai and very few women who post the types of pictures she mentions. Most relationship podcasts are so far removed from the every day single man and women its worth ignoring.
Also, what the male eye wants and what his heart wants are two different things. If he can get them both in one women, even better, but its not likely as they'll never 100% overlap. Men don't want OF girls raising their kids, but clearly they do like lusting over them.
Exactly!!! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏👌👌
Thus is just a symptom of the rot and decay of our Western social structure. Unfortunately it wil take hard times to correct it.
Absolutely! 👌👌👏👏👏
Hard times will not correct it. People will blame the problem on something else
Im so happy I never bought into this nonsense. I found a wonderful man, and we treat each other so well. I am the most proud of my relationship and the level of respect it holds. ❤
Places to meet traditional women:
- church and friendship groups
- cafes
- hikes
- gym
- beach and pools
I met my person originally at a Cafe.
Same. I thought i should go this way but i finally met a guy who cares and brings me happiness. We treat each other very well although hes just away because of the army and i'm away because my mom doesnt want to visit so i visited them.
@sunnyscreatives9107 I am SO SO happy for you. It is worth waiting for. And you deserve to have self respect during the waiting period. We got this!
@@bethventuresx8283 i'm only waiting to get married 😊 then we are planning on either living in the states together or we are going to live with my mom in another country
I like seeing naked women as much as the next guy. What I think we're seeing is an inability to tell reality from fantasy. That OF girl...that spicy star...she's selling a fantasy. It looks real, but it isn't. My father, when he found out I found his stash, made sure to explain this to me, rather graphically. And the online world feels so real, that it blurs the lines.
As a high value man, looking for a high value woman, I haven't found hardly any high value women online or offline. They just seem extremely rare. It seems like hypergamy and toxic feminism are a massive problem.
Thanks, Rebecca. Sir, barret. 😂
He’s about to become THE house ninja
SIR!
All I know is that in a no so far future, A lot of women are going to regret showing their whoha on the internet. They'll be hundreds.
I'm a man and even I say to not take men seriously when they say they prefer women with no make-up. Whenever we find a woman attractive anywhere, 90% of the time she has make-up on.
As for myself, I like it when a woman puts make-up on *even if she's just as pretty without it.*
The first reason is the variety of beauty (glamorous beauty and natural beauty). The second reason is her feminine energy of doing the ritual of putting on make-up. I would like to watch my future wife put on make-up someday.
Plus, I wouldn't want my wife to always be ready before me when we're going out.
Hopeful message.
it's a crime you only have 100k subscribers.
Im woman and I have s hard time admiring a men who has social media 😂😂
There are plenty of us out there who never had, or walked away from the silliness of social media years ago. The world would be a better place if everyone quit Facebook Twitter Snapchat Instagram etc
Hallo can i translate your video and post
You raise an interesting issue -- As a man I have to point out that Mother Nature has made us very reactive to visual stimulus. Likewise Mother Nature programs women to attract men by being pretty or sexy. As a man I notice sexy more and when young we are absolutely driven by this (Yeah I am a LOT older now). The old saying that “men give love for sex and women give sex for love” sort of aligns with what I am trying to say here.
So whilst men are sort of driven to watch a girl hanging it all out there for everyone to see ,and or touch, this does not mean we are confused, INSTEAD we are being almost played like a fish on a line, the bait is the visual stimulus and we are so very programmed to look for this. To me it is not a mixed message, yeah we look, we cant help it, but what do we actually want from a wife? Well we want the opposite of those girls hanging it all out for show, Mother Nature makes us jealous (so our seed is used and not another mans) and do not want to share our wife, do not want other men to have seen or touched her (is this programming by Mother Nature, you bet it is!).
Here is the deeper issue, we actually want a woman who believes in us and the old saying “behind every great man is a great woman” absolutely supports this. (As an aside, this is also why nagging is so destructive, it undermines the feeling a man has that his wife believes in him.) So we want to be traditional but the “Strong, Independent, I dont need no man” goes against the deep programming by Mother Nature. You cant have a traditional man if you are not traditional your self. Deep down men absolutely know this.
Finally, I will broach another example of deep programming that men have, not for sympathy but to show you a revelation I learnt. My ex wife and I lost a child, she blamed her self and tried to self terminate a few times before running away. The mans reactions, the deep programming, is to protect in a way that is like a lion poised to protect, you switch off ALL damaging emotions so you can focus on “protect” and only years later do you get a chance to grieve because it is not switched off, just stored for later.
Our, mens, deep programming is visual and to protect, yeah we are going to watch a girl show off her body but we WANT a wife who has not done this because we do not share. We want to protect her and want her to believe in us.
Your concerns about men contradicting them selves with the desire for visual but wanting a traditional woman is missing the point. The only fans, instagram posts, strip clubs, porn, and similar have existed, in one form or another, forever because that is mans great weakness even thousands of years ago when men were very traditional and so were women EXAMPLE: Salome is known in the Christian Gospels for her role in the execution of John the Baptist. When Herod Antipas offered to fulfill a request after she danced for him(That dance was visual stimulus, the maximum bait for men), Herodias, Salome's mother, urged Salome to ask for the head of John the Baptist, who had opposed Herodias's marriage to Herod.
So do not consider baiting men and their reaction to bait to mean a contradiction…… Its Mother Nature and women have used it to their advantage forever, ITS NORMAL
Edit fixed autocorrect changing a single word in the last line “Advantage”
I say just find a wife soon lol. This would be just like a woman saying that see dates fat, unemployed men but what she really wants is a traditional man. Then she needs to not go out with bums. It’s contradicting. If you want a traditional woman maybe get off social media or stop following these women influencers. If you want a traditional wife, be a traditional man.
It's understandable what you are saying, but that's where growing up mentally and "denying ourselves" comes to play. That's like women saying that they want a dedicated, traditional man who is going to be a good father, but they also want to chase a bad boy and other romance fanfic type of lifestyles that she imagines in her head. At some point in life it's either one or the other. Every choice has consequences. So, it is contradictory.
Other than that, I agree with you. I think that most men and women have a desire deep in their heart to take care of one man/woman and live a good and meaningful kind of life.
@@gilded_spark_7022 To use an extreme example. The internet is forever so a girl whose does OF in her 20’s and then wants a trad man to marry in her 30’s is in for a shock, no real man will want her due to her past (does not his friends looking up her pics to see her fufu or their potential future children getting teased at school because everyone gets to see old pics of the children’s mother). Once they choose the OF path, they can never go back. Another example is that once they have a body count of 20+, they can “almost”never go back (some interesting research available on that). It’s not denying one self mentally, some well advertised modern behaviours are just against Mother Nature and accepting them as normal is always going to lead to bad results.
Another problem is that marriage and divorce heavily favor women. Therefore, men are very hesitant to marry.
2:29 but how many of these traditional woman exist in today society ? and the culture say they are good/ right to be this way or say they are naive agents of the white cist etc etc patriarchy ? a girl that go to college today she her in her gender s classes that is good to be a wife and mother and have traditionall values or ... and what most her colleges say to her ?
8:12 but fresh ant fit, whateverpod cast alwais say to their audience to not subscribe of give any kind of money to those woman, is not their fault if they audience disregard they advices
Everything good doesn't last forever.
Decent men with values and a purpose are out here, and often we are looking for an excuse to meet you.
How you supposed to meet a girl at Target? Lol. If you walk up to a girl at target, or a gym or any place that isnt a bar its not going to turn out well
Don’t make it awkward but if you can definitely pick up girls at target.
I have picked up women in video stores (Yeah I am old so video shops were around when I was young enough) and met up with an old contact in a supermarket. Likewise I have been hit upon in a supermarket but was too dumb to realise and was married. It is not difficult
Should have named the dog Sid Barrett
Definitely missed an opportunity that 😂
Just an FYI. The pronunciation of her name is S-AA-di-ya, not s-dia. It's a long A sound.
Evil is Reward. Good is Punished.
Yup, often.
KS said it many times, you need to go out in the field where it's real
Oh RUclips deleted m second comment. Must be key words . ?
If she isn't married just take what she says with a grain of salt.
My Grand Mother use to say: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Woman want to catch a man. "ALL MEN" just want to milk the cow. As time goes on, and men want to settel down. There not going to want to to settel dow with a woman that has given her milk to every tom,dick, & hairy. It's sort of funny. Men want the milk, but dont want to buy a cow that has been milked a bunch of times. Woman! "STOP" giveing you milk away to every Tom, Dick & Hary.
Nice work again.
Allll Gore Ryythm! 💙 Just a comment to pay for my entertainment 💙💙♀️ 💙
To Sir With Love. What y’all millennials know about that ?????? ☮️
BEST MOVIE EVER
@@jolyonrussell7021 Ever ???? Okay. My bad. ☮️
@@ibnsabeel9466 Well, from my perspective anyway it is the best but that is followed closely by “Educating Rita”. To sir with love conveys a lot of human emotions, ideas and philosophies, also relies on acting versus outright sex scenes and paranormal ideas. The movie also suggests a better future.
You're talking about two different types of guys, the one who pays for OF and strippers aren't the same men consuming rp content, one group can't acknowledge their value, while the other embraces stoicism and leveling up for THEMSELVES
Love your content Rebecca 🫶🏼❤️
Thanks Erica 🥰
The rationale content makers are discussing is quite flawed. Just because a man likes looking at a Ferrari doesn’t mean he wants to own one.
Did you quit RUclips?
5:32 I'm sorry but you both got it completely wrong. Yes, men (like me) do follow certain types of women on insta or whatever, but that doesn't mean that's what we want in real life. There is this girl on insta that likes mushrooms, I find her physically super attractive (even though she has an of), I like to see her pics and stories, and yet I'd never think of having something serious with her. You see we men compartmentalize, it's totally natural for us.
On the other hand this woman on the tiktok, I'm 100% sure she is observing the behavior of a certain subset of men, and she takes this group to be all men. "Oh men behave like this". What men specifically? The ones you like to see in instagram? Imagine superficial rich handsome guys not demanding beautiful women with fake b00bs. Look at her own appearance, you can tell who she is mingling with, so she takes that as the "entirety of men".
Yes, we universally do like certain womanly features. But trust me, most men happily would settle down with a woman that is less beautiful but that has a lot of other qualities like loyalty and compatibility. It's not a lie, it's very real, it's just that sometimes some women must look at themselves and see what sort of people do they attract to their life.
Also granted low self esteem men will look for toxicity, but that's just people, same thing applies for women with issues. Ideally you wouldn't want men like that anyway, there is a reason they are attracted to bad stuff in the first place.
What you are getting wrong. They're not choosing that they're choosing women that are easy and never are not ever going to commit to them at all they may have fun them for the night or for the day but for being in a relationship or marriage that will never happen.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I think she has a very narrow view of 'men'. Because, most men do not watch the Kardashian's, or Housewives of wherever.
And, the people who have the money, and invest in that garbage, are less than 1%. If you, as a modern American woman, think you
can marry a millionaire...good luck!
(Edit: Not you, Rebecca. The plural 'you'.)
Where are the good or good trad women at?
Men are the prize remember that not the women.
Women destroy men not the other way... And women have ruin themselves but won't or don't admit it.
But it's men who must take the initiative to approach women. If a man can't do that, that's evidence that he lacks leadership skills, which is what a woman needs in order to commit to him and have a family with him.
Women have always been the prize. Go take a history lesson. Even In most Amimals, the males must prove to the female
@@MedusaChristo yet y'all bring"yourselves" aka nothing and we bring everything.
We also don't need to alter our looks or height.
About animalso that has nothing to do with humans.
Anyone who claims to be "the prize"aint.
And tbh,modern men bring nothing to the table exept their promiscuity,their concubinage mindset and the 50/50 bullcrap(wich is never 50/50 as women still will do all the housechores and as obviously only women can be pregnant and birth a child).
lol ... i find the title to this video funny ... where are the real traditional woman at? ...lol... how many of these traditional woman are virgins? ... virginity is a requirement to be a traditional woman to get married ... you may call it modern traditional with some traditional value ... by the way all that traditional title is indoctrination in society ... a man in this generation does not benefit from traditional anymore ... that is more for the super rich not for the middle class or the poor class ... the cost of living is to high for one person to provide 100% financial security ... the only relationship that couples can have if they want to survive is 50/50 relationship but that is not going to happen until the family divorce court is abolish ... mean while more and more men are going their own way ( MGTOW ) ... i do not consider red pill as a MGTOW group ... red pill and feminist promote 100% financial security ... and who benefit from 100% security? ... woman ... there is no investment in the part of the woman in the relationship ... that creates entitlement and dependency ... and with divorce court destroying men by providing dependency and entitlement to woman ... then you can see why men are walking away from marriage ... this gender war will only bring depopulation to the country to the point that in the future you can say that the government had destroy the country thru depopulation without firing a shoot
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Rebecca I don't think any man is "looking" for a woman on the hub or OF. Eyecandy is not relationship or is any guy gonna commit to that if they are traditional minded.
Not her using adoption / family / Child and Momma as words describing a dog. 🤦🏾
I always liked you.
Don't mess this up. 😅
✌️
Screw off Pets are family. A dog Is better than you.
Oh dear, men just don't get married.
Sad this channel is not getting a lot of view because people just want the easy way out.
Everybody is promiscuous, and everybody is prude. It's called moderation.
Well done. You now have a dog. Do you have kids yet? If not...why the hell not?
she is miss the point the good women are few
Wow, I am an older man so listen to the wisdom of decades ……….. they are everywhere. Stop looking at social media and hook up aps, start talking face to face with real girls everywhere. Shops, parks, banks, clubs, churches ….. OMG they are everywhere. Your comment makes me imagine a young man of the phone Ap age who has lost the art of saying hello (computers do that to you), holding a door open for a girl (that opens a conversation opportunity), reaching for something high up on a supermarket shelf that she cant reach and so on. Seriously, Mother Nature has programmed women to want traditional values …… this is kinda of the story of this channel, the realisation that a woman can be happier if she listens to Mother Nature.
@@jolyonrussell7021I wish I could agree with you, but I can't. Unfortunately, most women are either not attractive, crazy, mean, or some combination of the above.
Hi Rebecca. I always enjoy your videos and find a great solace in your videos during this dim age of moral collapse. I have to point out that despite your good intentions, you and Sadia never understood the interest of men in sex. For a man there are 2 types of women: 1) One for marriage and 2) One or more for sex. The men who are "encouraging promiscuity" are not going to marry these promiscuous women they have been encouraging. These women are just for entertainment purposes. This is difficult for a woman to understand as men don't need emotional connection or bonding to have sex. Men can have sex and forget about the girl literally seconds after the orgasm. This is not so possible in women, hence the confusion. So when Sadia says men are encouraging promiscuity, the are encouraging the promiscuity of the women they Don't want to marry. A man will NEVER encourage the promiscuity of a woman he wants to marry.
Preach it brother -- Totally true
Most women who are decent know this. They, however, don't respect men who are led by their lust and go after this kind of women and encourage that behavior. They usually don't respect those kind of women either. Certain standards need to exist in our society and we need to uphold them, if we want good morals to become the norm again.
Most women who are decent know this. But they don't respect men who are led by lust and encourage these type of women's behavior.
Rebecca, y'all gotta stop falling for the "but they follow Instagram models"
Because they look good. You're using Instagram for gratification. And nobody's(with exception) is traditional. Natural non thot women who ate attractive get attention as well
1:15 she is absolutely incorrect. Im attracted to a woman who wears baggy clothes. I dont even really know what her body looks like. I know she is slim and short. But i know she is good with kids and loves dogs, she has a fantastic smile, a lovely voice, she works hard, she treats people in a polite manner. Im attracted to her character.
Ive also dated women where i thought thwy were very physicaly attactive but when she proves to be a pain then she is no longer attractive at all.
Maybe he is attach to his mom ooorrr maybe he is just a ham. There is a mic and camera. you be the judge! (ching-ching)
Spot on! Great content.