Listening to your inner voice is always a good thing. Most times your inner voice doesn't go on emotions but on facts and observations. Really like the highlights in your hair. As beautiful as you are you are desirable to all and will have weird dates like this but one day you will find someone special.
because she had been fighting with her guy, she was probably in a toxic mood and figured since she wasnt happy you didnt deserve to be either. or trying to play devils advocate and seeing the situation through her eyes, maybe because she was in an unhappy relationship that should have probably ended awhile ago she was wanting to save you the trouble and heartache of what she thought might be a drawn out relationship that would be doomed to fail? but then there would have been so many other better ways for her to go about the situation... sorry you had to go through that, i hope one day you will find somebody who clicks just right with you. love exists but finding it can be a tricky adventure through life. cheers rachel, thanks for sharing your story with us today.
When people are drunk they tend to be more loose lipped (or they have no filter), meaning they will tell all. Seems this is what happened. It is something to remember in these situations.
Some people love drama.It makes up for their empty existence.If they can bring your "misery level" down to theirs,it makes them feel better.She obviously didn't want to see a couple that was getting along, so she decided to start something. Don't talk to strangers.
It's a really interesting story. You told it so genuinely that I feel that it was a conversation between us. My part: You are really pretty. That guy doesn't deserve you. That woman was a real gossip girl. Let's drink a cup of tea together and chill. :-)😀
Well, what to say( I know how it is. Yeah, sometimes we have to find ourselves in such situations, to get more experience. As you said "live - learn". Just let it go!) The question is how to stay kind and friendly to complete strangers and not to be discourteous😑🙈
My worse date was being stood up after talking to her for over three months before asking her out on a date. We had similar interests and we had a few classes together (college life), but I'm glad she stood me up because I avoided a crazy one in my opinion. Never saw her in class after she stood me up, and I didn't care whatever happened to her after she disappeared.
At least you didn't have sex with her first I got stood up by a girl I had sex with at a party.. embarrassment 2X bcoz I was tryn to be a gent but got played like a simp.
Lesson learned but it’s ok. A person isn’t happy with oneself is bound to destroy someone else. And about your date, he’s too mushy! He’s not for you. You deserve the best - someone with high EQ (emotional quotient).
sounds like they were all his friends, and he had them there so that he could get them to ask you questions and then discuss it with them. he sounds as dodgy as all heck
I think the other girl was jealous of Rachel so she tried to break her relationship with him(I mean the boy who Rachel was dating)I think so because those couple were not having good time with eachother as we can see that they had an argument so..
Rachel I’m so sorry this happened to you, but in a weird way you can look at this whole incident as a positive. It sounds like it was very good insight into who this man really is, which he doesn’t sound very emotional stable and probably not someone you want to be with. At least you got to find this out sooner than later! As for the strangers, some people want to incite drama because it feeds their insecurities. Thankfully you also found this out quickly and know that going forward these are not the kind of people you want to surround yourself with. I’m sorry it was such an unpleasant experience, but I’m glad to hear you’re making positive choices for yourself and your future relationships 💗
Expressing yourself with honesty to friends and strangers will never be a betrayal. lol haha. Thanks for your experience. Can't change others personality. It's like why I never say "love you" . To many possibilities of the others interpretation. But don't change your signature good bye. Lol
Hey Rache your English is fluent did go grow up outside of Korea, yea the soju got you, you let your guard off,any way love your contents,you have good taste in picking your jewelry, i see those nice dimples also. kbye
Sounds like she was mad that her and her relationship was on the rocks so she had to ruin the potential of yours to help herself feel better and she had absolutely no right to pry into your personal business. But I suppose if you weren't really into him anyways maybe it's a silver lining? Shouldn't have went down like that but maybe you dodged a bullet. There are people like that here in the states too that will lovebomb someone they barely met and then ghost them.
I think...the problem is more on your date....he has some issue to simply expect you has to love him after meeting the 2nd time.....this is not normal...even if hte girl or the guys were to tell him what you think about him...he should still respect the decision and accept the fact that you are still not in to it and should not be angry ....since both just got to know each other for 2 days?...seriously he is like that?
This sounds like a scene from a movie..... What if those people were actually his friends and made as if they were strangers just to see if you are really interested in him....?!?!?!?! 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 LOL.... Loving your vids Rachel❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋
@@EvaMariposa it was so calculated... Even with the amount of questions they through at Rachel while her date was in the bathroom and the sudden silence when Rachel return from the bathroom too....
Chloe, Jax, Laura...I want to see what jewelry named Bob would look like. The date...sounds like a stalker in the making. That kinda drama that early means it would have only gotten worse, he did txt at 5am. She might have told him that to try to save you from someone unstable.
there will always be those people that get off on screwing up other people’s lives, especially if they are petty or easily jealous:( sad to say it, it they exist.
He shall be normal not expressing his feeling too much and do it later after he ensures that you like him too. He's throwing himself under your feet . He shall do that after marrying you not before that (since this is his type) .
You'd be surprised how awful things women do to other women that I witness way too often. Sometimes they want the guy, more often they just enjoy destroying others' happiness or chance for it - just out of spite and envy. Of course the guy didn't act the way he should, he seemed very insecure and pushy but the lengths some women would go just to mess something up for others are terrifying.
You seem to be a very straightforward person, and it must have been a shock to you to encounter such gossips! A few drinks and a few compliments can bring our guard down very quickly and we feel safe talking with people. Your instincts are good. He was not a safe person to begin with- very shallow. And the fact that he felt he could lecture you about your behaviour is a big red flag! As for the girl, there are always girls like that who feel they have to control people. It makes them feel strong. You’re right to stay away from all of them. It sounds like you did well! Just move on, and I hope you find some stronger people to be friends with!
I think having a few drinks tends to not think 100% and do something you might not would have done. At mid of explaning at bar I thinked that he invited them to join as "random" people so she could get some info out of you, but interesting story.
Well, the fact that it happened with a man you were not completely into is a good thing, I suppose. I understand your frustration though. Quiet annoying when people get their nose in businesses that don't concern them. During the time I spent in Korea, I noticed that there's a huge margin between the most introverted and extroverted people in this country. Sometimes you can meet people that greatly value their privacy and don't feel too comfortable with strangers and other times you can find the complete opposite with people speaking very easily to strangers and act very friendly very early during a relationship. Of course, this cleavage exists in every country but I think it's particularly extreme in Korea. Both sides of the spectrum being miles away from each other. And don't get me wrong, it's not a bad thing but it can sometimes lead to some awkward situation like the one you've encountered. Either way, thanks for sharing that story, that was very nice of you, as always.
Hey Rachel, do you think it was a setup. Were they hired by your date. Is this still something that happens in Korea? It used to be... guys would bring their friends or pay a service, to pretend to be strangers, sit at the next table and tell you how great the guy is that you are with, so you will start to like him. But here they seem to do the opposite... telling you how great YOU are and telling him you are not into him!
You literally went through a gaslighting, love-bombing and gaslighting/victim act again. You did good to walk away from all that drama. Also, miserable people don't like to see others happy. So if she was having a hard time with her own bf, she did not want to see you happy out of jealousy... So don't let it bother you. Lesson learned 😊💞
Because she was having a downtime they don't like to see others having a good time, u know what i mean, a girl just fighting with her BF don't wanna see every couple happy. N the guy is just a weirdo lol typical jealous clingy type. Great video~!
Rachel its off, The thing sounds like a set up, maybe your date realized he was not man enough to hang out with you, seriously its to random and Sadly Rachel you are a target even if you don't feel like 1, the fact the girl just gave you her business card just throws off the entire story , not by you, the entire scenario.. Now I believe what somebody said, the dude studied you and was a bit over the top.. People you meet at a bar who are drunk are not pillers of society. Sadly this is just a bad scenario and you were really nice to give date # 3 to the dude. stay cautious but get back on the date wagon and always know MC says much respect and success to you and your family 🥰
He needed a reason to play the victim to get you to feel sorry for him and feel bad for saying nothing wrong I hate when a guy says I don't know why you hate me just because you disagree with him, and I had this problem with a Chinese guy I stopped talking to him.
they are being toxic so just dont trust the people who made it outside the bar well same case for me also but not at the bar at the park as long as you are happy that what matters :):):)
I understand your type as I am of the same scope, but keep your emotions inside up to the moment everything is mutual and based mutual confidentiality! Maybe he has tried to have them in the same room to have the answers to his questions! Who knows😔
Sorry the date didnt go well. Maybe the date did you a favour. If he already decided that this is a problem and it wont work out, then you are dodging a bullet. We all make mistakes, its okay.
She told your secret probably because she was unhappy herself with her relashionship and wanted to mess up yours to feel better. Also she kinda did a good thing telling the guy, cuz then both of you could move on, yall were kinda wasting each others time in my opinion. Its still not a good move from her but at the end its all good i guess 💁🏽♀️
Hello Rachel 🙂, May be those three already knew each other.......... and your dating person just want to know about how you feel for him ...........so he said to those two to come in that restaurant and sit next to your table and then when your dating person go to toilet than his friends ( those two person) ask about "how you feel for him" ......just to confirm your feeling as your dating person was a guy who wants to be quick in relationship ..........means he wanted to have you as quickly as possible (I THINK SO) As I'm a English learner so pardon my mistakes 😅
Lmao! so maybe sometimes means maybe. watch out that's a early warning sign of narcissism. come on 1st 2nd date and he is already nit picking words. it sounds like he's making her comment up as a non sequitur. be carful he will end up controlling every aspect of your life. research narcissism and test him.
I wouldn't quite describe hiking as a "tough situation." Nor have I ever seen it bring out someone's "true colors." Can't really imagine it haha, walk for 10 minutes and suddenly people start to turn on each other.
It was messed up that the girl at the bar said that, maybe she thought she was helping him avoid getting hurt, but anyways this guy is quite needy and not your style, forget about it and move on
Sorry for this bad dating of yours Rachel …. That guy didn’t deserve you even if he can trust just a total stranger easily….. I will be coming to Seoul in October 17 and I would love to have coffee with you ❤❤❤
Who is gonna tell her, Dear the man you dated and the three people you met in the bar are friends. He used his friends to know your true intentions and you fell for the trap. Means I got the ahaa moment when you said that the moment you came from washroom they stopped talking. You still don't know that the man and his friends tricked you.
you and romance. well then. the most likely thing is that they were friends of his checking you out. he's vulnerablr so they probably think he needs to be protected, which he does. what happened with your violent neighbor?
Maybe she wasn't happy with her relationship and wanted to mess up with the others, just to have fun. Not everyone is like here... If it was with me we could be true friends hehe
I always try and see the good in people so I am hoping that she saw some undesirable characters in him and was trying to save you some hassle. However where she was fighting with her boyfriend she might have been projecting some of that negativity towards your date that seemed to be going alright? For him though to be full on talking about emotions and then not even talk to you face to face about what was said from people that neither of you knew is concerning, to me it means he is not a good communicator, which always leads to problems. After thought, maybe she was really impressed with you and had someone in mind that she thought was better that she wanted to introduce you too so she decided to sabotage your current date?
I love Cdramas and I know quite few actors that I enjoy and there was one actor I thought I was following but come to find out this guy was supposed to be an actor and he wanted me to buy a Nordstroms card and put money on it, but he is supposed to be a rich actor needless to say I didn't send the card and we stopped talking I know a scam when I see one.
I'm sorry Rachel, it sounded at first that it was great (the date at the bar at least), the guy sounded a bit clingy I guess but I've met guys and girls like that before so it's not abnormal but it is a red flag. Maybe it was a set-up? she sounded like she was prying for info, talking to someone, and complimenting someone can open them up to trusting the other person, maybe she was manipulating you. I hope you find someone better, that isn't emotionally unstable or talks to girls that he maybe doesn't know (maybe did know). That girl was trying to ruin things, what a miserable chick.
According to you if date with a boy who is not your husband is a good thing then you can do a date with your father and brother.My opinion date with a boy who is not your husband is not good.
Your date sounded desperate you don’t know anything about a person one or two days it takes Time to get to know somebody. You’re a smart girl trust your instincts.
Sorry that it happened. I think that girl just jealous of you and your new relationship. Omg!!! Give u a lecture? Hah! Maybe he is still stuck in a kdrama. I have a question since this story proven a bit but, I just want to ask. Does the general Korean people like to ask personal questions when you first meet them? In my country and my friend country in Asia, they are like that ask everything during a meeting especially the elderly. It is personal but to Asian culture it is impolite if ignore.
I understand the guy's point of view. I think getting your hopes up and then feeling them get dashed causes you to react more than you would normally. Maybe he also wonders why you also talked to a stranger about him instead of talking to him about it. Maybe he feels slighted.
He was talking to a stranger about her instead of talking to her. The guy was love bombing her then acted immature by not talking to her then lecturing her over her answering a normal question with a normal response. Nothing Rachel did was wrong or abnormal but the guy was weird from the start. If anything Rachel needs to listen to her gut and stop giving guys second chances who creep her out. I still remember the story where she beat a guy at a board game and he freaked out until she agreed to play again so he could win. She should have just left instead of letting people walk all over her for their egos.
@@SY-lu2zw the commonality is the stories Rachel gives. If they sound all to have a certain pattern, it's most likely Rachel's psyche exaggerating to compensate for her remaining frustration from the outcome. Normal people don't actually spread their details to strangers over the internet. They talk about them to people they know in their inner group if they want to get something off their chest. People tend to overemphasize and dramatize for social media. An example of that would be the very thumbnail of this video. The effort put into the thumbnail and title is to get more views. Nobody who is trying to get attention would put that effort in and give a bland but accurate description. They spice it up for the social media high of likes, clicks, and views. It's the 21st century dopamine rush fueled by social media.
Envy. After all you were not 100% sure youre not interested when she asked you(or at least you said that). I can't understand why some girls/people just like to mess others up but i guess thats the reason. After all why would she ask you sometring personal as a stranger when he is not there. Its even possible she rang the bell. After they went out and had fight with boifriend. Or there was not even a fight. After all they to fix their relationship not talk to strangers
They told him to end his suffering lol. Find a guy which treats you badly and you’ll be happy! Meanwhile, you are very funny. Do you talk to yourself when you are alone?!
No idea why this happened to you, but maybe since she just had an argument with her boyfriend she was attracted to your date. Maybe she was hoping if she ditched her boyfriend, she could get your date as a boyfriend. Some women can be the best friends and some are always the worst people. Very sad.
Drunk people who are in an unhappy mood do crap like this. Maybe she was jealous and didn't think it through. But what bothers me more is the guy. If he was so head over heels for you, why did he accept some gossip of a drunk stranger 🤔 Maybe he egged on the girl asking her if you said anything about him and when he didn't hear the reply that he wanted he made the situation awkward. Also he's a narcissist for telling you how you should feel and act. You are not 5 and you didn't scold him either for his over emotional interest.
You got set up. Those people knew him. They were tasked to befriend you, gain your trust, then the girl was there to fish for information about how serious you were. She probably also talked him up and tried to make him seem better than he was. There is also that 10% chance that he was into creepy things and told the other couple (especially the girl) to flirt with you. I understand this may seem outlandish, but I have seen it happen...mostly in the states. The guy was a freak and his weird friends were in on it. Consider yourself lucky you got rid of him.
Don't trust people in general, once the words leave your mouth, it isn't a secret anymore. BTW I love your hair 🧡
She is my future woman!
@arteris dewberry For real
Listening to your inner voice is always a good thing. Most times your inner voice doesn't go on emotions but on facts and observations. Really like the highlights in your hair. As beautiful as you are you are desirable to all and will have weird dates like this but one day you will find someone special.
the fact that I can relate to you. I trust everyone easily
because she had been fighting with her guy, she was probably in a toxic mood and figured since she wasnt happy you didnt deserve to be either.
or trying to play devils advocate and seeing the situation through her eyes, maybe because she was in an unhappy relationship that should have probably ended awhile ago she was wanting to save you the trouble and heartache of what she thought might be a drawn out relationship that would be doomed to fail? but then there would have been so many other better ways for her to go about the situation...
sorry you had to go through that, i hope one day you will find somebody who clicks just right with you. love exists but finding it can be a tricky adventure through life. cheers rachel, thanks for sharing your story with us today.
LOL I shoulda read the comments first I posted a similar message! wow
orrrrrr...the girl prolly wanted the guy/had feelings and stuff
When people are drunk they tend to be more loose lipped (or they have no filter), meaning they will tell all. Seems this is what happened. It is something to remember in these situations.
Oh wow. I feel exhausted just hearing about all the drama. I don't want to imagine going through it myself. ^^"
Some people love drama.It makes up for their empty existence.If they can bring your "misery level" down to theirs,it makes them feel better.She obviously didn't want to see a couple that was getting along, so she decided to start something. Don't talk to strangers.
It's a really interesting story. You told it so genuinely that I feel that it was a conversation between us. My part: You are really pretty. That guy doesn't deserve you. That woman was a real gossip girl. Let's drink a cup of tea together and chill. :-)😀
Your intuition at the park was the first sign somethings not quite right, wishing you all the best finding love 💘
Rachel your hair is looking so pretty and the story-
Im loving your hair. So beautiful.
Gosh I'm so weak to Rachel! She is just too perfect.
Well, what to say( I know how it is. Yeah, sometimes we have to find ourselves in such situations, to get more experience. As you said "live - learn". Just let it go!)
The question is how to stay kind and friendly to complete strangers and not to be discourteous😑🙈
My worse date was being stood up after talking to her for over three months before asking her out on a date. We had similar interests and we had a few classes together (college life), but I'm glad she stood me up because I avoided a crazy one in my opinion. Never saw her in class after she stood me up, and I didn't care whatever happened to her after she disappeared.
At least you didn't have sex with her first I got stood up by a girl I had sex with at a party.. embarrassment 2X bcoz I was tryn to be a gent but got played like a simp.
Lesson learned but it’s ok. A person isn’t happy with oneself is bound to destroy someone else. And about your date, he’s too mushy! He’s not for you. You deserve the best - someone with high EQ (emotional quotient).
Rachel, if this is the drama level he is going through on the third date, imagine how it is going to be later on, smh 🤦🏼♀️ not worth it.
sounds like they were all his friends, and he had them there so that he could get them to ask you questions and then discuss it with them. he sounds as dodgy as all heck
I think the other girl was jealous of Rachel so she tried to break her relationship with him(I mean the boy who Rachel was dating)I think so because those couple were not having good time with eachother as we can see that they had an argument so..
You are so cute, kind and your beauty is Ethereal
HII, I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. STAY WARM AND STAY HEALTHY ❤️❤️❤️
Rachel I’m so sorry this happened to you, but in a weird way you can look at this whole incident as a positive. It sounds like it was very good insight into who this man really is, which he doesn’t sound very emotional stable and probably not someone you want to be with. At least you got to find this out sooner than later! As for the strangers, some people want to incite drama because it feeds their insecurities. Thankfully you also found this out quickly and know that going forward these are not the kind of people you want to surround yourself with. I’m sorry it was such an unpleasant experience, but I’m glad to hear you’re making positive choices for yourself and your future relationships 💗
RUN!!!! RUN RACHEL!!!!
Expressing yourself with honesty to friends and strangers will never be a betrayal. lol haha. Thanks for your experience. Can't change others personality. It's like why I never say "love you" . To many possibilities of the others interpretation. But don't change your signature good bye. Lol
today is my bday, thank you for the gift haha❤
Hey Rache your English is fluent did go grow up outside of Korea, yea the soju got you, you let your guard off,any way love your contents,you have good taste in picking your jewelry, i see those nice dimples also. kbye
Sounds like she was mad that her and her relationship was on the rocks so she had to ruin the potential of yours to help herself feel better and she had absolutely no right to pry into your personal business. But I suppose if you weren't really into him anyways maybe it's a silver lining? Shouldn't have went down like that but maybe you dodged a bullet. There are people like that here in the states too that will lovebomb someone they barely met and then ghost them.
Some people have no boundaries. It is a shame you had to go through this.
Like the new hair!
I’ve had that before, when a person comes on wayyyyy too strong! At this point in my life I see it as a red flag
The faster someone says they love you, the faster they will turn on you and take it back.
Take care and God bless you Rachel!
I think...the problem is more on your date....he has some issue to simply expect you has to love him after meeting the 2nd time.....this is not normal...even if hte girl or the guys were to tell him what you think about him...he should still respect the decision and accept the fact that you are still not in to it and should not be angry ....since both just got to know each other for 2 days?...seriously he is like that?
This sounds like a scene from a movie..... What if those people were actually his friends and made as if they were strangers just to see if you are really interested in him....?!?!?!?! 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 LOL.... Loving your vids Rachel❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋
Funny I got the same feeling too. I got the feeling they were all in on it & were testing her out.
@@EvaMariposa it was so calculated... Even with the amount of questions they through at Rachel while her date was in the bathroom and the sudden silence when Rachel return from the bathroom too....
@@poyap3 yes exactly! It all sounds too fishy. Glad she got out of that toxic mess before it got too deep.
Chloe, Jax, Laura...I want to see what jewelry named Bob would look like.
The date...sounds like a stalker in the making. That kinda drama that early means it would have only gotten worse, he did txt at 5am. She might have told him that to try to save you from someone unstable.
there will always be those people that get off on screwing up other people’s lives, especially if they are petty or easily jealous:( sad to say it, it they exist.
Her smile is so cute. ^_^
(And I'm not being a plastic complimenter who'd disclose people's secret in public) :'D
Rachel you're so pretty!!
your hair is prettyyyy
Good girl. It’s called love bombing. He’s a player. You spotted it. Proud of you. I was not so smart. Do you think you were set up by him and her?
He shall be normal not expressing his feeling too much and do it later after he ensures that you like him too.
He's throwing himself under your feet .
He shall do that after marrying you not before that (since this is his type) .
You'd be surprised how awful things women do to other women that I witness way too often. Sometimes they want the guy, more often they just enjoy destroying others' happiness or chance for it - just out of spite and envy.
Of course the guy didn't act the way he should, he seemed very insecure and pushy but the lengths some women would go just to mess something up for others are terrifying.
to all ppl who see Rachel's video : PLEASE LISTEN to her word, she tells exact facts about Korean men. Thx to Rachel.
You seem to be a very straightforward person, and it must have been a shock to you to encounter such gossips! A few drinks and a few compliments can bring our guard down very quickly and we feel safe talking with people. Your instincts are good. He was not a safe person to begin with- very shallow. And the fact that he felt he could lecture you about your behaviour is a big red flag! As for the girl, there are always girls like that who feel they have to control people. It makes them feel strong. You’re right to stay away from all of them. It sounds like you did well! Just move on, and I hope you find some stronger people to be friends with!
I feel really bad for you Rachel 🥺🥺🥺
🤣 some people have fun breaking things up(wedding crashers) or maybe she was just jealous or she was just drunk like " I did good😡"😂(just kidding).
Wait If no one is trustable on apps, clubs, bars then how can I meet trustworthy friends in Korea?
I think having a few drinks tends to not think 100% and do something you might not would have done. At mid of explaning at bar I thinked that he invited them to join as "random" people so she could get some info out of you, but interesting story.
Well, the fact that it happened with a man you were not completely into is a good thing, I suppose.
I understand your frustration though. Quiet annoying when people get their nose in businesses that don't concern them.
During the time I spent in Korea, I noticed that there's a huge margin between the most introverted and extroverted people in this country. Sometimes you can meet people that greatly value their privacy and don't feel too comfortable with strangers and other times you can find the complete opposite with people speaking very easily to strangers and act very friendly very early during a relationship.
Of course, this cleavage exists in every country but I think it's particularly extreme in Korea. Both sides of the spectrum being miles away from each other. And don't get me wrong, it's not a bad thing but it can sometimes lead to some awkward situation like the one you've encountered.
Either way, thanks for sharing that story, that was very nice of you, as always.
Sounds like a setup. Also possible they know who you are.
Hey Rachel, do you think it was a setup.
Were they hired by your date.
Is this still something that happens in Korea? It used to be... guys would bring their friends or pay a service, to pretend to be strangers, sit at the next table and tell you how great the guy is that you are with, so you will start to like him. But here they seem to do the opposite... telling you how great YOU are and telling him you are not into him!
You literally went through a gaslighting, love-bombing and gaslighting/victim act again. You did good to walk away from all that drama. Also, miserable people don't like to see others happy. So if she was having a hard time with her own bf, she did not want to see you happy out of jealousy... So don't let it bother you. Lesson learned 😊💞
Too accurate. Gas lighting and love bombing. Glad she got out of there.
You deserve complements
Because she was having a downtime they don't like to see others having a good time, u know what i mean, a girl just fighting with her BF don't wanna see every couple happy. N the guy is just a weirdo lol typical jealous clingy type. Great video~!
Good use of palpable.
Listen to your gut. Stop giving weird guys more chances. Stay safe that guy sounds nuts. It would have just gotten worse if you dated.
Rachel its off, The thing sounds like a set up, maybe your date realized he was not man enough to hang out with you, seriously its to random and Sadly Rachel you are a target even if you don't feel like 1, the fact the girl just gave you her business card just throws off the entire story , not by you, the entire scenario..
Now I believe what somebody said, the dude studied you and was a bit over the top..
People you meet at a bar who are drunk are not pillers of society.
Sadly this is just a bad scenario and you were really nice to give date # 3 to the dude.
stay cautious but get back on the date wagon and always know MC says much respect and success to you and your family 🥰
I agree, she was set up.
it was a setup, they knew each other.
Hence I conclude that sis code is not as good as bro code 😂
He needed a reason to play the victim to get you to feel sorry for him and feel bad for saying nothing wrong I hate when a guy says I don't know why you hate me just because you disagree with him, and I had this problem with a Chinese guy I stopped talking to him.
I suspect some people have to talk about other people in order to deflect attention from their own issues
That’s exactly what she does on her channel lol
Undeserved hyperbolic compliments and interest when you don’t know someone well is a 🚩 it is manipulative behavior.
they are being toxic so just dont trust the people who made it outside the bar well same case for me also but not at the bar at the park as long as you are happy that what matters :):):)
I understand your type as I am of the same scope, but keep your emotions inside up to the moment everything is mutual and based mutual confidentiality! Maybe he has tried to have them in the same room to have the answers to his questions! Who knows😔
Sorry the date didnt go well. Maybe the date did you a favour. If he already decided that this is a problem and it wont work out, then you are dodging a bullet. We all make mistakes, its okay.
Maybe they were your dates family 😂 Top tip. Run . She was in angry argument with partner looking a to piss you off. Nice video so positive.
I really like your content, I am surprised that you have just 203 K subscribers.
She wanted to break you two up so she could have you all to herself. She wanted you, Rachel.
She told your secret probably because she was unhappy herself with her relashionship and wanted to mess up yours to feel better. Also she kinda did a good thing telling the guy, cuz then both of you could move on, yall were kinda wasting each others time in my opinion. Its still not a good move from her but at the end its all good i guess 💁🏽♀️
All social norms go out the window with Rachel. ^____^
Hello Rachel 🙂,
May be those three already knew each other.......... and your dating person just want to know about how you feel for him ...........so he said to those two to come in that restaurant and sit next to your table and then when your dating person go to toilet than his friends ( those two person) ask about "how you feel for him" ......just to confirm your feeling as your dating person was a guy who wants to be quick in relationship ..........means he wanted to have you as quickly as possible (I THINK SO)
As I'm a English learner so pardon my mistakes 😅
Well Rachel, now you know why the couple was outside fighting, and whose fault it probably is. LOL.
Keep the door open ( for dating) Yeah !
Keep the door closed (for drama) Yikes!
Lmao! so maybe sometimes means maybe. watch out that's a early warning sign of narcissism. come on 1st 2nd date and he is already nit picking words. it sounds like he's making her comment up as a non sequitur. be carful he will end up controlling every aspect of your life. research narcissism and test him.
I wouldn't quite describe hiking as a "tough situation." Nor have I ever seen it bring out someone's "true colors." Can't really imagine it haha, walk for 10 minutes and suddenly people start to turn on each other.
She was jealous that u r having a good time with a guy while she was having a fight! She wanted to to make everyone miserable
It was messed up that the girl at the bar said that, maybe she thought she was helping him avoid getting hurt, but anyways this guy is quite needy and not your style, forget about it and move on
Sorry for this bad dating of yours Rachel ….
That guy didn’t deserve you even if he can trust just a total stranger easily…..
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Chlorophyll haha I have same as teenager but silver
Oh it's so nice that women complement each other 🥰 but yeah, later on it seems that she acted hypocritically.
Who is gonna tell her,
Dear the man you dated and the three people you met in the bar are friends. He used his friends to know your true intentions and you fell for the trap. Means I got the ahaa moment when you said that the moment you came from washroom they stopped talking. You still don't know that the man and his friends tricked you.
you and romance. well then. the most likely thing is that they were friends of his checking you out. he's vulnerablr so they probably think he needs to be protected, which he does. what happened with your violent neighbor?
Maybe she wasn't happy with her relationship and wanted to mess up with the others, just to have fun. Not everyone is like here... If it was with me we could be true friends hehe
Have you ever heard the Western saying, "Misery loves company"? That's what happened.
I always try and see the good in people so I am hoping that she saw some undesirable characters in him and was trying to save you some hassle. However where she was fighting with her boyfriend she might have been projecting some of that negativity towards your date that seemed to be going alright?
For him though to be full on talking about emotions and then not even talk to you face to face about what was said from people that neither of you knew is concerning, to me it means he is not a good communicator, which always leads to problems.
After thought, maybe she was really impressed with you and had someone in mind that she thought was better that she wanted to introduce you too so she decided to sabotage your current date?
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I love Cdramas and I know quite few actors that I enjoy and there was one actor I thought I was following but come to find out this guy was supposed to be an actor and he wanted me to buy a Nordstroms card and put money on it, but he is supposed to be a rich actor needless to say I didn't send the card and we stopped talking I know a scam when I see one.
I'm sorry Rachel, it sounded at first that it was great (the date at the bar at least), the guy sounded a bit clingy I guess but I've met guys and girls like that before so it's not abnormal but it is a red flag. Maybe it was a set-up? she sounded like she was prying for info, talking to someone, and complimenting someone can open them up to trusting the other person, maybe she was manipulating you. I hope you find someone better, that isn't emotionally unstable or talks to girls that he maybe doesn't know (maybe did know). That girl was trying to ruin things, what a miserable chick.
According to you if date with a boy who is not your husband is a good thing then you can do a date with your father and brother.My opinion date with a boy who is not your husband is not good.
Your date sounded desperate you don’t know anything about a person one or two days it takes Time to get to know somebody. You’re a smart girl trust your instincts.
Sorry that it happened. I think that girl just jealous of you and your new relationship. Omg!!! Give u a lecture? Hah! Maybe he is still stuck in a kdrama. I have a question since this story proven a bit but, I just want to ask. Does the general Korean people like to ask personal questions when you first meet them? In my country and my friend country in Asia, they are like that ask everything during a meeting especially the elderly. It is personal but to Asian culture it is impolite if ignore.
I understand the guy's point of view. I think getting your hopes up and then feeling them get dashed causes you to react more than you would normally. Maybe he also wonders why you also talked to a stranger about him instead of talking to him about it. Maybe he feels slighted.
He was talking to a stranger about her instead of talking to her. The guy was love bombing her then acted immature by not talking to her then lecturing her over her answering a normal question with a normal response.
Nothing Rachel did was wrong or abnormal but the guy was weird from the start. If anything Rachel needs to listen to her gut and stop giving guys second chances who creep her out. I still remember the story where she beat a guy at a board game and he freaked out until she agreed to play again so he could win. She should have just left instead of letting people walk all over her for their egos.
@@SY-lu2zw the commonality is the stories Rachel gives. If they sound all to have a certain pattern, it's most likely Rachel's psyche exaggerating to compensate for her remaining frustration from the outcome. Normal people don't actually spread their details to strangers over the internet. They talk about them to people they know in their inner group if they want to get something off their chest. People tend to overemphasize and dramatize for social media. An example of that would be the very thumbnail of this video. The effort put into the thumbnail and title is to get more views. Nobody who is trying to get attention would put that effort in and give a bland but accurate description. They spice it up for the social media high of likes, clicks, and views. It's the 21st century dopamine rush fueled by social media.
Listen to your gut. Blackmailing in emotions is not good.
Envy. After all you were not 100% sure youre not interested when she asked you(or at least you said that). I can't understand why some girls/people just like to mess others up but i guess thats the reason. After all why would she ask you sometring personal as a stranger when he is not there. Its even possible she rang the bell. After they went out and had fight with boifriend. Or there was not even a fight. After all they to fix their relationship not talk to strangers
Oh, Rachel
That girl was drunk, don’t trust people you just met. She should not said anything to your date.
That other girl was after your date I think!
They told him to end his suffering lol.
Find a guy which treats you badly and you’ll be happy!
Meanwhile, you are very funny. Do you talk to yourself when you are alone?!
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No idea why this happened to you, but maybe since she just had an argument with her boyfriend she was attracted to your date. Maybe she was hoping if she ditched her boyfriend, she could get your date as a boyfriend. Some women can be the best friends and some are always the worst people. Very sad.
Drunk people who are in an unhappy mood do crap like this. Maybe she was jealous and didn't think it through. But what bothers me more is the guy.
If he was so head over heels for you, why did he accept some gossip of a drunk stranger 🤔
Maybe he egged on the girl asking her if you said anything about him and when he didn't hear the reply that he wanted he made the situation awkward.
Also he's a narcissist for telling you how you should feel and act. You are not 5 and you didn't scold him either for his over emotional interest.
You got set up. Those people knew him. They were tasked to befriend you, gain your trust, then the girl was there to fish for information about how serious you were. She probably also talked him up and tried to make him seem better than he was. There is also that 10% chance that he was into creepy things and told the other couple (especially the girl) to flirt with you.
I understand this may seem outlandish, but I have seen it happen...mostly in the states. The guy was a freak and his weird friends were in on it. Consider yourself lucky you got rid of him.